Yessssssss!!!! I love this. It's so true. Being "available" doesn't work. Women need to stay busy and stop waiting for a man to be available to see them. And when u do decide to see this man, do it because you wanted to and you had nothing else planned or nothing else better to do. Hell, sitting on your couch with your dog watching a movie just might be better than spending time with a lame dude that only "Holla" at you when he feels like it and you were the only one "available". Stay busy. Got no friends to hang with, go to the gym, take your kid out, watch a movie at home, go out by yourself. But don't be "available" just for him. It never works!!
why cant relationships progress healthily? two people meet, they both like each other, they both put effort. i dont want to attract a man by playing hard to get. of course i have standards but i dont like games. i like to be authentic and let the man know that i like him. i dont understand why i have to trigger his insecurities to get his interest. you are right to everything you say, but i feel really puzzled with modern dating.
Bring back old fashion dating. Meet at a dance, with someone you fancied, exchange numbers(if you had a house phone) and arrange next meet! If you kissed that was your man/woman. Now all this ghosting crap, media websites not healthy too much on offer with dishonesty
I'm tired of going through the nonsense with men , biggest problem is men dont communicate, the starting over and then the let down is taxing and it plays on u emotionally and physically and men don't understand that. Sometimes I think I'm better off just being by my self
I feel the same and I thought a couple of times but I had my own place for going on 5 years and haven't had a real boyfriend and I'm a good woman but I refuse to be good to man who wants to play games and I had a couple of them like my 50 year old friend who's used to women chasing him I'm 36 I'm not doing that and he got a limpie and I always made time for him but next time I see him and he was see me I'ma tell him nope and when I see him in the streets I'ma walk right pass him and then he's gonna call and I have to ignore him,I don't wanna be that way cause we always enjoyed each other company and talked from 11 to 6 am many of times but Ima stay falling back and not bother that man anymore
Dating nowadays suck!! I remember when I was younger I never had to go through all these games to get him to chase he just chased! It's like now they want women to pursue them and no that's not happening on my end! Wish these men would grow the hell up!!
Yooo this is so funny that I'm literally going through this right now. I feel like allowing that time to let him miss you also allows us women to get past that giddy feeling & be able to respond & not react.
Yes Itz New New, I have just started this process myself and then I just so happen see this on my feed. Things don't happen by coincidence, it comes to you when you desire it... This video was definitely meant for me right now!!!
This is so very true! I went through this a few months ago. I eventually removed myself from the "situation" ....he started jocking and got upset because he felt that I was mistreating him once I started treating him the way he had been treating me! smh It's hard to see the relationship for what it really is until you're out of it. I walked away and now I'm wondering what I ever saw in him in tbe 1st place!
Its sad that now women have to play these tactics because men now just want to play the field and toy with our emotions and minds... God willing these men will stop acting like divas some time soon.
As busy as someone is, they will always make time for those they care about. Whether it's a family member or a significant other etc. NO Excuse. 🙌🏼 I love your videos.
100 true but it's funny how when we lose interest they come back chasing hard and we're like f off mate, I can't believe I actually fell for you at one point.
Best advice: is just fall back 💯‼️ leave him alone don’t worry about him” trust me if you don’t text him” or bother me” he will be back” guys like a chase💯
okay ladies, I completely agree on this one. I have yet to meet any real man that is seriously interested in a woman not go after her. Therefore, if he haven't made time by now, he don't plan on to anytime soon. Don't let your lapse in judgement turns out to be his habit on your standards.. get some if you don't already have some. Believe me I know what I'm talking about..
I feel like this man is the father I never had , and he’s teaching me what I should have been taught . I’m a little late to these videos but I needed this. My two and a half years of being miserable is over. It’s time I start making MYSELF a priority
Professional 87..... I was in the same situation not so long ago and it really hurt to walk away but I feel much better emotionally now. I know in my heart, I did the right thing.
The games men play in just trying to get to a damn relationship is ridiculously! So, I show you that I'm interested and you respond by showing less interest. WTH? Girl kick him to the curb. Don't let him miss you. Let him see he's missed out FOREVER👋🏾
I had a guy who wanted to be friends with me, says “he doesn’t want to lose me again.” Then he mentioned friends with benefits. I instantly blocked him on all social networks Quickly and Quietly. Peaceful days since I did it!
Terribly going thru this right now.... swore we was good until I heard this gentlemen...... guess I better chill out and occupy my time and availability towards more work money and school
I needed your advice from as a teenager, young person and know as a grown woman. Thanks, D for your advice. Please continue to share the truth. Some of us are/were stuck on waiting, thinking a baby will make him stay/be committed, thinking love would keep him. Then some spend a lifetime with low self esteem, attracting the same situations, going back and forth to the merrygoround of b.s. because we settled and compromised. Confidence in knowing that I am better, wiser and deserve a man who is 100% for me, loving us and building and maintaining a relationship. No drama.
So true!! I definitely keep that in mind nowadays. I know I'm worth making time for, not about to wait on no man to figure that out. Not about to campaign for your attention.
Absolutely! Amen Brother! Im going through this right now and I know that man gonna miss this sweet ass! Im smiling thinking about how much! I did make myself too available, and while we were building every day, he still insists on no commitment. Im moving on knowing he will regret losing me. Painful, but I love myself too much to be an option
You are honestly helping with my journey to healing from being in a toxic relationship with a man who was not investing with his actions, only with his words. I see the light at the end of the tunnel because of your realness. Thank you!!
Latanya J Believe the actions, not his words. If he doesn't want to lose you, he'll step up and reach out more and make an effort. Don't make excuses for him either. He makes time to eat, sleep, check social media, and watch tv. He has the time, the question is whether he finds you valuable to spend his time with and not just when its convenient. Don't tell him you're going ghost, JUST DO IT.
Latanya J Honestly my grandmother taught me to let a man pursue, if that's not what he's doing then I don't show any more interest period. Sometimes we know damn well someone isn't that interested in us but we'll continue to pursue the man then become upset when he plays us for a fool when all along you signed up to be one. If he's not leading by his actions then you bounce honey!
The thing is this..hes not sitting around and there will always be the next and the next victim , etc for him. Be glad he wont be wasting anymore of your previous time.
This video is great derrick. I was talking to someone and I quickly realized this, my dad basically told me the same thing you said. I had to fall back because mutual interest was lacking. This is true, if he want you he'll show you and put the effort.
I can't get enough of your videos. For me, you are single handedly instilling the belief that there may in fact be hope for me, after all. It is refreshing to see a man that has such a great understanding of how a man should/would behave if he loved his woman. your keen perception of the dynamic of relationships justifies what i know in my heart to be true and gives me the strength to push passed the bullshit and forward towards what i really want. I really hope that one day, I find someone who shares your insight and sensitivity.
Well said!!! good advice! Where you been all my life. I know this but coming from a man it sounds better....I still feel like it's a game. Like why I gotta let him miss me when we both feeling each other? Let's just rock wit it! But I totally see that it is what is. It's not like back in the day like how your granddaddy courted your grandma and he took her out.. sent her flowers and called just check on her to make sure she was ok. The love now a days is lost...its almost nonexistent. It saddens me because love shouldn't be conquered it should be given...selflessly and genuinely.
Chrystal Hartman I love the old fashion way! Today there is too much on a plate too many choices cos of the so called progression with technology! Romance has died!
Derrick Jaxn, you are truly an answer to the cries of women! I have always been on the queue, never been any man's priority, not anymore though, thanks to you!
kdee1503 One can only dream... insightful, intelligent, keep it 100 and grown fr. Not to many like him these days but maybe its possible to find but in comparison it seems easier to find Jimmy Hoffa
My boyfriend and I have been in a committed relationship for two years. I took a family vacation. He called me the entire time I was away. We want to build.
Lexi Darcel it’s not that girl. It’s just those guys just are awake that if they act too needy or too into you , she will lose interest. Blame woman’s behavior for that not man
Theworld isimmense wow 😂 blame a single man’s actions on all women when she can see he’s just not interested... praying you break free of whatever brainwashing took hold of you 🙏🏽
When we ttruly dig a woman, ain't a such thing as too much in the beginning. If we as men are stand offish in the beginning, trust... You ain't the one.
The saying goes never make somebody a priority when they make you an option ! I feel like I keep getting put in that I'm interested but you too far away category. Then when they inbox, they used all these emojis to make me feel some kind of way. I wish guys would stop saying one thing and acting another. I don't mind being in the friend zone but make sure you don't play with my emotions during the process!
Why didn't I find your page before moving on my own to college and going threw all types of hell I went threw with men!! The advise he's giving, is so true!!! If theres young girls on this page and seeking advise on how a man SHOULD treat you, and not quite sure because you didn't have quite a good women figures to demonstrate how a man should treat his women or a good man role model due to coming from a broken home.......This man right here can SAVE YOU from a loooonnggggg road of heart ache and valuable time wasted!! Don't let this current worlds views of what "love" is fool you. Having side chicks and etc. is NOT love! This mans videos are really a blessing and free game because dudes can sense if you have low self esteem and know how to do just enough to pull you back in and to keep you a little longer if you let him. And make you feel like your crazy or the one trippin when he's really doing wrong. Follow this man if your not! He really trying to save some of us! Don't let this world teach you a lesson! its easier to just take people's wisdom who already went threw the BS and learn from there experience. And don't take advice from anyone who doesn't have the relationship you aspire to have....people just as confused and trying to figure out what they should Do just like you!#Coming from experience.....save yourself the heartache and pain if you can.
Ya ladies looking too much into it analyzing should I do this or that, focus on yourself for everything and trust whatever whoever is for you will come your way and stay there, just be neutral and let him do all the work and if he's got you he will stick around, afterwards you can decide if you want to put in any effort in calling him more or something, when you fall back he'll be begging for you to do more , keep the ball in your court always and just be you naturally without the extra thoughts sometimes we over think and do to much so keep it simple and always about you
muneerahcoleman Even if this is a man, I still agree with what they’re saying. If someone wants to stay in your life, they will do just that. No games on either end will have to be played, it’ll be authentic and neutral. If you have to play cat and mouse games with someone, then drop their asses. It’s not the end of the world. Because 9/10, there’s someone out here who will match the energy you dish out.
Big Up! Tried and proven. He hit me up that he can't stop thinking about me and doesn't want to be with anyone but me. I made his ass miss me and as tempted as I was to check in, I never once gave in :)
I know you must feel like a broken record at times. Your videos are GREATLY APPRECIATED!! Your time, hard work, and EXCELLENT advice is seen and heard!! Thank you!! 🙏💖 Every time I start questioning something I just scroll through your videos lol.
It's so sad our elders have failed the younger generations. This valuable information/ tool should have been passed down to each young lady from generation to generation. Back in the day women were taught to let the man court and chase them. It is a shame that in 2017,the roles have now reversed and many women are taking L's daily. SMH. My advice to you ladies is this, kickback and LOVE yourself. Then, if he decides to bounce, you can be alright with it and allow that goofball to bounce and roll right down the street!
SECOND CHANCE!!! that's not a failure on their part. if you think about it, they lived in a different time and didn't have certain shit to deal with. they didn't live in a high tech world full of social media. we changed the world and it happened too rapidly, the repercussions not even thought about until we're wondering why this guy or that has all these female friends liking their stuff on fb. wondering why they don't call. and the list goes on.
McKenna Meyers, I get what you're saying, however; I somewhat disagree. Why? Because as mothers/fathers/elders it is our job to train and teach OUR children and with life, time passes, things change and therefore we are to ADJUST. And it was/is the elders job to recognize right from wrong, good and evil and inform the child of such. They did not do that. And that is why I say the elders failed us.
On the flip side, I was raised in a very traditional, time has stopped, town and every single person my age chose to ignore what was trying to be taught by our elders, which is why it's so easy to believe that it just wasn't happening there but everywhere. It's so easy to choose not to hear and listen, especially if it's something we don't want to hear or see as irrelevant.
But you said it McKenna, you were RAISED, meaning (and you just said it yourself), certain things, morals, training, etc., were TAUGHT to you. That shows your parent(s) did THEIR part/job as your PARENTS/OVERSEER. Now if you choose to listen or not, that was your choice. But, there are vast amounts of people who were NOT raised/trained up by those who were supposed to do just that. And that's why I say our elders failed us-atleast mines did and so many other people I know and grew up with.
I’ve been in cue for two years outta five. Then I graduated to hovering. Texts he was board, lonely. He said a word it wasn’t bad word it just made me think he’s not interested. I’m not mad, bitter towards him, I thank him for showing me his real self. If it wasn’t for his narcissist behavior I wouldn’t be where I am today. Thank you 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿......
I know of a powerful man who can make your ex to come back to you begging you back for a second chance. He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours.
I've been binge watching the past few days. I'm really going thru it with my bd. But I'm ghosting his ass. I gotta let it go... He will miss me but this time I won't take him back. Thank u for sharing your wisdom! God Bless!
“If he can go a whole day without talking to u he’s just not interested” Ouch. Damn. That one hurt. This guy I talk to goes to school full time and works full time and I BEEN THERE And I know how hard it is. He’s about to graduate. So normally I’d be ok with no talking for a few days. I ain’t desperate. I got my own shit goin on But coming from a guy, to hear you say he’s not interested if he doesn’t hit me up every single day, then I guess that’s all I need to know. He’s gone. 🤷♀️
I wouldn't cut him off. Im in that same situation as a nursing student and my woman is very understanding. We may not get to talk ALL day everyday but at the end of the day we do reach out to one another to see how our day went, say good night and I love you. As adults and especially as someone who is trying accomplish goals sometimes sacrifices have to be made. It's always good to have someone in your corner who is patient, understanding and supportive. At the end of the day, his accomplishments will benefit the both of you. I'm pretty sure as a man it's important to him that he has stability and can offer you security as your man.
@@NaturallyHERS Sad thing is, some men aren't willing to initiate conversations like that. I was briefly dating a guy, and through text (of course) things got mixed up. I just laid it all out, said it was no big deal but we just needed to clarify things. He was like "thanks for communicating"i said, that's what adults in relationships do. It still didn't work out due to the exact points the Derrick pointed out.
this is so Truuu...I made this mistake with the last guy I dated... I was truly feeling him, but I was ALWAYS available to him! I thought if I denied him time, I'd lose him, well now I kno. Lesson Learned!! I never turned him down when he wanted to see me. I felt if I did that it would seem like playing games. I thought if you feeling them and they're feeling you then what's the problem, but I was definitely wrong.
I had to stop making myself available for him . and stay busy all this weekend and he was blowing my phone up . cuz he saw I was doing my thing . then finally after two weeks and me reversing script want to finally see me was hard turn him down cux what I want to hang with him but I had to . to make sure hr continues to miss me . he was upset but I mean u didn't cancel your plans for do why would I do same . do I'm going to continue me until I'm READY to see him .
Us women forget men like a challenge, the chase. It's something that's already been wired in them. If we make ourselves too available, they get bored. It's great to have mutual feelings, but its only healthy to have our own things to do and let him come to you. We've been told that we should always go after what we want, men included. But regardless of how modern or open minded the guy is, he still wants someone he can win, put in effort for.
I stopped making myself easily available and accessible years ago. I have a life to live, love and enjoy, and my time and space are precious to me. Later for that rotation crap.
LISA C JENKINS ladies..male RULES for your self...no dude should be calling you after in the middle of the night..ala...booty call....NOT! if you don't hear from them for days....don't let them hear from you...anymore!... # make RULES for yourselves...ladies 🙇♀️🙏🙇♀️
Men can sometimes be like yo yos..here today gone again tomorrow and on and on with playing their games...geez. No thank you..not wasting my precious energy! Love being single! Thank you for sharing anyway.
Big Eye Opener!! He's rare and it's like we only get men like these like the Solar Eclipse we just had on the 21st of this month and sometimes it seems longer than that and it's also the day my son was born over 4 years ago Thanks So Much for Sharing just knowing there's men like you out there gives us women hope Thank You!!
Talking every day is too much for me. Then when we are in person we run out of stuff to say. I'd rather miss him and be excited and have a lot to share. Predictability breeds boredom. And if we have our life what's the rush? I'm learning and working. Can't talk to anyone every single day and I still love him ♥️
Giiiirl, I can't get my man to overstand this. lol...he's the one who needs to let me miss him! Ugh. I don't have the desire to speak to anyone every got damn day and love my alone time.
NaturalMystic71 Right! Lol. Talking every day, at the same time saying the same thing every day. That gets boring and predictable. I like randomness and spontaneity. I've met guys in the past who text daily sometimes all day and most of them weren't driven.
Exactly! I need something to look forward to ya now. The build up is important. I think it's important to have that time apart so when you see each other again it's spontaneous and filled with anticipation. :)
Where did I say we have nothing to talk about? I have a bf of 2 years. I don't like routine and predictable daily texts. I'm not needing for you to understand that.
Thanks so much for your words of wisdom❤ I'm newly divorced after 38 years of marriage I never knew what narsasism was. My husband wanted a new life, moved out and was dating a woman just as fast, couldn't get me out of his life fast enough. I'm doing ok with lots of therapy and family❤ my children are all grown. It's very hard to see him move on so fast but I have no choice, trying so hard not to be jealous. So many emotions. Most days are pretty good but its a lot of work to stay busy. Thank you so much for your vidieos, its helped me so much❤ Norma Jean❤
You are my go to "girlfriend " when i am confused and need advice. i literally sit on the couch drink my wine and listen to you as though you right next to me. All the way from South Africa, i love ya videos..keep up the awesome work!
This was great advice Derrick woman stop being so available for a man who is not worth your time . To all my women know your worth don't settle for bs .
So damn true, Use to talk to a guy in high school that i really liked decided to stop calling to see if he would start calling me and sure enough he did. Called all the time, up to this day he still asks for me
You are my new found inspiration. You tell it like it is and I love that. All the other wannabe advisors are OK. But you are the truth. I am learning so much from you and you would think at 46 yes old I would know it all. Proves that men was trowing a towel over my head the whole entire time. Thanks Derrick you are Awesome😁
Hi Derrick, It really great hearing things out loud, especially on this issues. For my case, I had a relationship for around 8 years and it went through on and off in its course. Last year, he broke off even I was going through a very rough phase of life. He was having anxiety for the future, which he couldnt control and he broke the relationship. Since then, i had spent a lot of time rebuilding myself from the scratches. I was healing. I didnt reach out to him and when he did i was cold. But this time, this year he reached out again when he was having a bad emotional situation. And we talked. He told me he wants me back. Though he didnt have any concert plan. We talked again for 3 days on call and on msgs and then he got busy and there was very miminal talks. One year has passed and it didnt seems he is putting efforts to mend things, where he was the one to broke the relationship. I feel I am back to the square 1 of all my efforts of healing. I am restless, again waiting for his calls /text. Its purely annoying now. Because, I had overcome those issue and now again im in the state state of mind. I need to know if this relationship is worth my time, love and efforts.
I enjoy listening to you and I enjoy speaking these things into existence for myself and others. It's a joy to hear the same advice coming from a man about a man as it is from a woman about a man.
I usually play the role of being too busy and keeping it moving when in fact I am watching him to see how he responds to my actions. I will show some interest but it can look innocent like being friendly.
You are always so right on the money. I just told this loser after he found out I was dating someone else because he was neglecting me, he asked if he could call me during the week. I was like, "You never called me during the week, so don't think I'm going to make time for you now that you are jealous and about to lose me. When someone treats you like they don't give a shit, they don't. Point well taken, I'm out."
It would be great, if you could do a Q&A with your mum. Just so we could meet the woman who influenced and helped to implement your morals and values. It would be really inspiring for all mothers, especially those who are single and that may be struggling. Just a thought, your doing really well. Thank you!
Facts I watched a few on fb now I'm subscribed. We need more honest men in this work to make better choices which effectively makes more changes. Love your videos
You know what's amazing? The sisterhood in the comments section. We not enemies, we all going thru this together.
Cristina P. Across the globe. From UK
Cristina P. 🙏🙇♀️🙏
Completely agree. It's awesome
Cristina P. yes! And this is the way it should be.
Haha well said
If he can go a whole day without talking to you. Wow, Leave him alone.
madness
What about a wyd text 😂
R u for real
You should not allow him to talk to you everyday. Distance makes the heart fonder.
Ayesh Has not true distance makes the person get used to not talking to you in that way they won’t bother no more to reach out
Yessssssss!!!! I love this. It's so true. Being "available" doesn't work. Women need to stay busy and stop waiting for a man to be available to see them. And when u do decide to see this man, do it because you wanted to and you had nothing else planned or nothing else better to do. Hell, sitting on your couch with your dog watching a movie just might be better than spending time with a lame dude that only "Holla" at you when he feels like it and you were the only one "available". Stay busy. Got no friends to hang with, go to the gym, take your kid out, watch a movie at home, go out by yourself. But don't be "available" just for him. It never works!!
Jenelle Robinson
Jenelle Robinson so true
preach.
Jenelle Robinson.. What you said
Jenelle Robinson soooo true .thanks👏👏👏👍👍
Let a man miss you, it is gonna tell you everything you need to know. Very well said Derrick, so true.
True! I've learned to fall back and they will start missing you like crazy. I had to know my worth.
True!
SuthernGyrl99 yes man I'm doing that right now!
SuthernGyrl99 I'm doing this shit ...I'm done.chasing a man
SuthernGyrl99 how long
100%
"if walking away keeps u from chasing a fairy tale in your life, DO IT!" 💯👏👐
sooooo true...funny how dude will get mad when u don't answer! but he hasn't called in a few days
Exactly because we are objects not human beings. They want us to jump when they say jump
@@missarabia1875 .... they want us to jump and say how high?
@@lyndapeoples8127 exactly
Truth
THIS
why cant relationships progress healthily? two people meet, they both like each other, they both put effort. i dont want to attract a man by playing hard to get. of course i have standards but i dont like games. i like to be authentic and let the man know that i like him. i dont understand why i have to trigger his insecurities to get his interest. you are right to everything you say, but i feel really puzzled with modern dating.
Maraki Gar 🤔🤔🤔indeed
Bring back old fashion dating. Meet at a dance, with someone you fancied, exchange numbers(if you had a house phone) and arrange next meet! If you kissed that was your man/woman. Now all this ghosting crap, media websites not healthy too much on offer with dishonesty
Maraki Gar I agree... why all these hard to get games??? It's exhausting. 💘😀😎😎😎
Totally agree. I have trouble with these dating games. I'm genuine to my feelings. But I really think it's the way to go today.
Maraki Gar 👏👏👏👏
I'm tired of going through the nonsense with men , biggest problem is men dont communicate, the starting over and then the let down is taxing and it plays on u emotionally and physically and men don't understand that. Sometimes I think I'm better off just being by my self
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I feel the same and I thought a couple of times but I had my own place for going on 5 years and haven't had a real boyfriend and I'm a good woman but I refuse to be good to man who wants to play games and I had a couple of them like my 50 year old friend who's used to women chasing him I'm 36 I'm not doing that and he got a limpie and I always made time for him but next time I see him and he was see me I'ma tell him nope and when I see him in the streets I'ma walk right pass him and then he's gonna call and I have to ignore him,I don't wanna be that way cause we always enjoyed each other company and talked from 11 to 6 am many of times but Ima stay falling back and not bother that man anymore
Dating nowadays suck!! I remember when I was younger I never had to go through all these games to get him to chase he just chased! It's like now they want women to pursue them and no that's not happening on my end! Wish these men would grow the hell up!!
Up when I was younger I got chased by men now days they will never and I mean never chase a woman.
Yooo this is so funny that I'm literally going through this right now. I feel like allowing that time to let him miss you also allows us women to get past that giddy feeling & be able to respond & not react.
Itz New New EXACTLY 🙌
Itz New New I'm going through this as well.
Itz New New I agree whole heartedly!!!!
Yes Itz New New, I have just started this process myself and then I just so happen see this on my feed. Things don't happen by coincidence, it comes to you when you desire it... This video was definitely meant for me right now!!!
Yes! "Respond not React". That's great, so true. Slow down, have self control.
This is so very true! I went through this a few months ago. I eventually removed myself from the "situation" ....he started jocking and got upset because he felt that I was mistreating him once I started treating him the way he had been treating me! smh
It's hard to see the relationship for what it really is until you're out of it. I walked away and now I'm wondering what I ever saw in him in tbe 1st place!
Its sad that now women have to play these tactics because men now just want to play the field and toy with our emotions and minds... God willing these men will stop acting like divas some time soon.
angela viveros-lopez men child and the worst are narcissists... can only make u stronger and set good boundaries next time
Star Girl yeah a man child is a serious mind fuck to deal with...fuck em
angela viveros-lopez we WOMAN don't have to play NO games with these tender dick aka LAME dudes!...NEXT!!!!
Haahaa. Me like
this very video is advice on toying with a mans mind and emotions ..... it is sad i agree
As busy as someone is, they will always make time for those they care about. Whether it's a family member or a significant other etc. NO Excuse. 🙌🏼 I love your videos.
100 true but it's funny how when we lose interest they come back chasing hard and we're like f off mate, I can't believe I actually fell for you at one point.
xalimo007 uno.. lol
xalimo007 I swear😂😂 really open your eyes
xalimo007 so true!!
xalimo007 Im not chasing anyone, im too tired haja
I can't believe i actually fell for you" is the damn truth!! UrrghhHH! The pain of that realization
Best advice: is just fall back 💯‼️ leave him alone don’t worry about him” trust me if you don’t text him” or bother me” he will be back” guys like a chase💯
okay ladies, I completely agree on this one. I have yet to meet any real man that is seriously interested in a woman not go after her. Therefore, if he haven't made time by now, he don't plan on to anytime soon. Don't let your lapse in judgement turns out to be his habit on your standards.. get some if you don't already have some. Believe me I know what I'm talking about..
"If it don't feel right that he hasn't heard from you, he's going to do something to fix it." Right. Repeat...
Yes this so true, expierence teaches you this.
nikki Allmond sure does
Truth
I feel like this man is the father I never had , and he’s teaching me what I should have been taught . I’m a little late to these videos but I needed this. My two and a half years of being miserable is over. It’s time I start making MYSELF a priority
I'm currently going through this but I've realized it's time for me to move on I can't keep allowing myself to force him to spend time with me
Professional 87 me too !! sadly they always come back once you're not interested
You deserve better! we need to stop dealing with these losers and treat ourselves right. With the proper kindness and respect we deserve
Professional 87..... I was in the same situation not so long ago and it really hurt to walk away but I feel much better emotionally now. I know in my heart, I did the right thing.
Omg I'm goin threw this now, and it does hurt.
Lynda Peoples did he get in touch?
Damn! We have to play games now! I’ll be by my damn self. This shit is exhausting
I don't blame you. Exhausting.
christina bedford that’s what I’m saying 🙄
I Agree, 👏👏💯🥴😊😇 I ready to Have My Husband, Time has changed people way of thinking.. Specially(Trust)
so annoying yo
Period you get. Girl
The games men play in just trying to get to a damn relationship is ridiculously! So, I show you that I'm interested and you respond by showing less interest. WTH? Girl kick him to the curb. Don't let him miss you. Let him see he's missed out FOREVER👋🏾
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kimberly329 AMEN & AMEN!!!
When Jxn said you’re too available, it hit hard.
how about self improvement, how does that hit
"Before you cut him off, scale it back" I'm guilty of cutting guys off ASAP
Umm I don't know CUT EM.OFF!!✌
I had a guy who wanted to be friends with me, says “he doesn’t want to lose me again.” Then he mentioned friends with benefits. I instantly blocked him on all social networks Quickly and Quietly. Peaceful days since I did it!
Abomination 👏 That’s how you have to handle it sometimes
Me too
A. Alexander Yu
Terribly going thru this right now.... swore we was good until I heard this gentlemen...... guess I better chill out and occupy my time and availability towards more work money and school
that is so true a lot of time women make excuses for men because they are tierd of being alone an they tolerate being a side chick, a stand by chick.
I needed your advice from as a teenager, young person and know as a grown woman. Thanks, D for your advice. Please continue to share the truth. Some of us are/were stuck on waiting, thinking a baby will make him stay/be committed, thinking love would keep him. Then some spend a lifetime with low self esteem, attracting the same situations, going back and forth to the merrygoround of b.s. because we settled and compromised. Confidence in knowing that I am better, wiser and deserve a man who is 100% for me, loving us and building and maintaining a relationship. No drama.
So true!! I definitely keep that in mind nowadays. I know I'm worth making time for, not about to wait on no man to figure that out. Not about to campaign for your attention.
Absolutely! Amen Brother! Im going through this right now and I know that man gonna miss this sweet ass! Im smiling thinking about how much! I did make myself too available, and while we were building every day, he still insists on no commitment. Im moving on knowing he will regret losing me. Painful, but I love myself too much to be an option
Be anxious for NOTHING!
Shontell Eddings AY GIRL THATS RIGHT
Amen
Amen
You are honestly helping with my journey to healing from being in a toxic relationship with a man who was not investing with his actions, only with his words. I see the light at the end of the tunnel because of your realness. Thank you!!
Sometimes you've got to fall back so much you become Houdini, disappear and if they don't come looking then HELLO/GOODBYE!
mizzkii82 what if he says that he would miss me or feel some type of way but won't chase a female....DOES THIS SAME THING APPLY
Latanya J Believe the actions, not his words. If he doesn't want to lose you, he'll step up and reach out more and make an effort. Don't make excuses for him either. He makes time to eat, sleep, check social media, and watch tv. He has the time, the question is whether he finds you valuable to spend his time with and not just when its convenient. Don't tell him you're going ghost, JUST DO IT.
Latanya J yes I'd say it does
Latanya J Honestly my grandmother taught me to let a man pursue, if that's not what he's doing then I don't show any more interest period. Sometimes we know damn well someone isn't that interested in us but we'll continue to pursue the man then become upset when he plays us for a fool when all along you signed up to be one. If he's not leading by his actions then you bounce honey!
mizzkii82 dats all!!!
hmmmm..... that's also the reason why I didn't hurt much when he walked cos I saw it coming. You said it all. God bless you Derrick.
the accuracy been there and done that! now they couldn't find me if they used a gps
sheherbeliver 🙌👏👏👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
What you said!!!
sheherbeliver 😂😂😂😂 aint finding me even if they climb the godamn moon.... they better move from ya suh to pussyclaat
Nhayishka lumsden lol yes maam!!!!
sheherbeliver yep
The thing is this..hes not sitting around and there will always be the next and the next victim , etc for him. Be glad he wont be wasting anymore of your previous time.
This video is great derrick. I was talking to someone and I quickly realized this, my dad basically told me the same thing you said. I had to fall back because mutual interest was lacking. This is true, if he want you he'll show you and put the effort.
Being absent is a healing in itself. Being absent can be seen as unhealthy. I miss being apart of the equation. Thanks for your wisdom & truths.
I see many women these days are not looking for husbands. I myself am. Your videos are amazingly helpful to Women like myself.
Maybe some of us have left toxic marriages and decided its just not for us
I can't get enough of your videos. For me, you are single handedly instilling the belief that there may in fact be hope for me, after all. It is refreshing to see a man that has such a great understanding of how a man should/would behave if he loved his woman. your keen perception of the dynamic of relationships justifies what i know in my heart to be true and gives me the strength to push passed the bullshit and forward towards what i really want. I really hope that one day, I find someone who shares your insight and sensitivity.
😩 Where were you in my 20's!! 😂 I sure could've used your advice back then. Keep on, you're helping somebody who is listening 👍🏽
Well said!!! good advice! Where you been all my life. I know this but coming from a man it sounds better....I still feel like it's a game. Like why I gotta let him miss me when we both feeling each other? Let's just rock wit it! But I totally see that it is what is. It's not like back in the day like how your granddaddy courted your grandma and he took her out.. sent her flowers and called just check on her to make sure she was ok. The love now a days is lost...its almost nonexistent. It saddens me because love shouldn't be conquered it should be given...selflessly and genuinely.
Chrystal Hartman very well said!!!
Chrystal Hartman I love the old fashion way! Today there is too much on a plate too many choices cos of the so called progression with technology! Romance has died!
Chrystal Hartman
Amen,true indeed...
Amen
I So much Agree especially the last part 👍👍👍
I don't know how I came across your stuff but I'm glad I did. I think your videos are very insightful. Keep up the great work!😊
Yeah, I just came across you this week Jaxn. I am awfully glad I did. I am grateful to partake of the wisdom God has blessed you with.
Muffin & Buttercup I love his videos. He's great.
Muffin & Buttercup same
Muffin & Buttercup Same!!!
Amen! Exactly!!
Derrick Jaxn, you are truly an answer to the cries of women! I have always been on the queue, never been any man's priority, not anymore though, thanks to you!
mssunday Amen, Amen
😂😂 who fault is that?
Love it!!!
@@dominicdaley5702 ... why don't you stop?
I feel the same.
Is this guy real? Pinch me please! Are there more guys out there like him? Men that have a truly genuine and caring head on their shoulders?
kdee1503 yes there are men out here like him
kdee1503 One can only dream... insightful, intelligent, keep it 100 and grown fr. Not to many like him these days but maybe its possible to find but in comparison it seems easier to find Jimmy Hoffa
kdee1503 we are real... we do exist
kdee1503 Girl I swear I was thinking the same damn thing lol
kdee1503 I was thinking the same thing
My boyfriend and I have been in a committed relationship for two years. I took a family vacation. He called me the entire time I was away. We want to build.
OMG! This video is confirmation that the guy I'm interested in is just not that into me. I need this video on repeat!
Lexi Darcel it’s not that girl. It’s just those guys just are awake that if they act too needy or too into you , she will lose interest. Blame woman’s behavior for that not man
Theworld isimmense wow 😂 blame a single man’s actions on all women when she can see he’s just not interested... praying you break free of whatever brainwashing took hold of you 🙏🏽
Lexi Darcel
REPEAT!
You are too good for him queen ❤
U're a true man, a true gentleman!!! Stay strong. Study, get a psychology masters to shut up the ones who can't cope.Shine your light!!!
When we ttruly dig a woman, ain't a such thing as too much in the beginning. If we as men are stand offish in the beginning, trust... You ain't the one.
what if hes obsessed and in love, worships the ground i walk on, but his pride got in the way? i let go but i broke down in tears
Very true. I only put in the same amount of time and efforts he puts in. Actions speak louder than words.
The saying goes never make somebody a priority when they make you an option ! I feel like I keep getting put in that I'm interested but you too far away category. Then when they inbox, they used all these emojis to make me feel some kind of way. I wish guys would stop saying one thing and acting another. I don't mind being in the friend zone but make sure you don't play with my emotions during the process!
Shauna Sampson!!! OMG!!! I know EXACTLY what you're saying!! I had to get myself out of that pattern that was happening to me as well!! Smh
Shauna Sampson thank you! Amen!❤
Shauna Sampson EXACTLY!!!!! SMDH
Why didn't I find your page before moving on my own to college and going threw all types of hell I went threw with men!! The advise he's giving, is so true!!! If theres young girls on this page and seeking advise on how a man SHOULD treat you, and not quite sure because you didn't have quite a good women figures to demonstrate how a man should treat his women or a good man role model due to coming from a broken home.......This man right here can SAVE YOU from a loooonnggggg road of heart ache and valuable time wasted!! Don't let this current worlds views of what "love" is fool you. Having side chicks and etc. is NOT love! This mans videos are really a blessing and free game because dudes can sense if you have low self esteem and know how to do just enough to pull you back in and to keep you a little longer if you let him. And make you feel like your crazy or the one trippin when he's really doing wrong. Follow this man if your not! He really trying to save some of us! Don't let this world teach you a lesson! its easier to just take people's wisdom who already went threw the BS and learn from there experience. And don't take advice from anyone who doesn't have the relationship you aspire to have....people just as confused and trying to figure out what they should Do just like you!#Coming from experience.....save yourself the heartache and pain if you can.
Thanks Derrick. I've been really going through it and your videos have been a source of strength and reminder of the woman I once was before the B.S
Ya ladies looking too much into it analyzing should I do this or that, focus on yourself for everything and trust whatever whoever is for you will come your way and stay there, just be neutral and let him do all the work and if he's got you he will stick around, afterwards you can decide if you want to put in any effort in calling him more or something, when you fall back he'll be begging for you to do more , keep the ball in your court always and just be you naturally without the extra thoughts sometimes we over think and do to much so keep it simple and always about you
nycgem11 excellent advice coming from a man I suppose???
muneerahcoleman Even if this is a man, I still agree with what they’re saying. If someone wants to stay in your life, they will do just that. No games on either end will have to be played, it’ll be authentic and neutral. If you have to play cat and mouse games with someone, then drop their asses. It’s not the end of the world. Because 9/10, there’s someone out here who will match the energy you dish out.
Amen and thanks for the advice. I've been told I'm too available.
Big Up! Tried and proven. He hit me up that he can't stop thinking about me and doesn't want to be with anyone but me. I made his ass miss me and as tempted as I was to check in, I never once gave in :)
Meka Dread How long did you ignore him
It works I had to do it but then I became uninterested on to the next waiting on God this time.
Broken Pieces amen
Amen chile!!!
I know you must feel like a broken record at times. Your videos are GREATLY APPRECIATED!! Your time, hard work, and EXCELLENT advice is seen and heard!! Thank you!! 🙏💖 Every time I start questioning something I just scroll through your videos lol.
THANK YOU!! I just "scaled back" my availability and I'm FINE with that. Maybe he'll miss me but if NOT, I'm GOOD!!
This message is SO GOOD. I listened to it 3 times. I’m so grateful for your channel.
It's so sad our elders have failed the younger generations. This valuable information/ tool should have been passed down to each young lady from generation to generation. Back in the day women were taught to let the man court and chase them. It is a shame that in 2017,the roles have now reversed and many women are taking L's daily. SMH.
My advice to you ladies is this, kickback and LOVE yourself. Then, if he decides to bounce, you can be alright with it and allow that goofball to bounce and roll right down the street!
SECOND CHANCE!!! that's not a failure on their part. if you think about it, they lived in a different time and didn't have certain shit to deal with. they didn't live in a high tech world full of social media. we changed the world and it happened too rapidly, the repercussions not even thought about until we're wondering why this guy or that has all these female friends liking their stuff on fb. wondering why they don't call. and the list goes on.
McKenna Meyers, I get what you're saying, however; I somewhat disagree. Why? Because as mothers/fathers/elders it is our job to train and teach OUR children and with life, time passes, things change and therefore we are to ADJUST. And it was/is the elders job to recognize right from wrong, good and evil and inform the child of such. They did not do that. And that is why I say the elders failed us.
On the flip side, I was raised in a very traditional, time has stopped, town and every single person my age chose to ignore what was trying to be taught by our elders, which is why it's so easy to believe that it just wasn't happening there but everywhere. It's so easy to choose not to hear and listen, especially if it's something we don't want to hear or see as irrelevant.
But you said it McKenna, you were RAISED, meaning (and you just said it yourself), certain things, morals, training, etc., were TAUGHT to you. That shows your parent(s) did THEIR part/job as your PARENTS/OVERSEER. Now if you choose to listen or not, that was your choice. But, there are vast amounts of people who were NOT raised/trained up by those who were supposed to do just that. And that's why I say our elders failed us-atleast mines did and so many other people I know and grew up with.
SECOND CHANCE!!! Yes!!!💓💓💓
I’ve been in cue for two years outta five. Then I graduated to hovering. Texts he was board, lonely. He said a word it wasn’t bad word it just made me think he’s not interested. I’m not mad, bitter towards him, I thank him for showing me his real self. If it wasn’t for his narcissist behavior I wouldn’t be where I am today. Thank you 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿......
Derrick Jaxson always keeps it real 💯
This is a real eye opener for me thanks Derrick for giving us women insight into the mental of an unworthy man so we can keep it movin
Nobody perfect I’m still a fan keep your head up Derrick GOD got you and thanks for the good advice we women still need to be lifted up ❤️
I know of a powerful man who can make your ex to come back to you begging you back for a second chance.
He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours.
What'''sapp him.
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I've been binge watching the past few days. I'm really going thru it with my bd. But I'm ghosting his ass. I gotta let it go... He will miss me but this time I won't take him back. Thank u for sharing your wisdom! God Bless!
“If he can go a whole day without talking to u he’s just not interested”
Ouch. Damn. That one hurt. This guy I talk to goes to school full time and works full time and I BEEN THERE And I know how hard it is. He’s about to graduate.
So normally I’d be ok with no talking for a few days. I ain’t desperate. I got my own shit goin on
But coming from a guy, to hear you say he’s not interested if he doesn’t hit me up every single day, then I guess that’s all I need to know. He’s gone. 🤷♀️
I wouldn't cut him off. Im in that same situation as a nursing student and my woman is very understanding. We may not get to talk ALL day everyday but at the end of the day we do reach out to one another to see how our day went, say good night and I love you. As adults and especially as someone who is trying accomplish goals sometimes sacrifices have to be made. It's always good to have someone in your corner who is patient, understanding and supportive. At the end of the day, his accomplishments will benefit the both of you. I'm pretty sure as a man it's important to him that he has stability and can offer you security as your man.
@@NaturallyHERS wow, this is a great response 🤔
@@NaturallyHERS I agree with your situation, it's all about adult communication and understanding about the situation.
@@dianasalazar4488 I agree. You have to take these videos with a grain of salt. The things they say doesn't apply to every situation.
@@NaturallyHERS Sad thing is, some men aren't willing to initiate conversations like that. I was briefly dating a guy, and through text (of course) things got mixed up. I just laid it all out, said it was no big deal but we just needed to clarify things. He was like "thanks for communicating"i said, that's what adults in relationships do. It still didn't work out due to the exact points the Derrick pointed out.
I BLOCKED HIM EVERYWHERE! if he really misses me he'll go out of his way to find me somehow
Blocking him was the best thing I ever did!
I swear I do this all the time🤦♀️😂🤞
Me too😂sending u love
David Álvarez men are blocked because they wasted a woman’s time. So, if this is your attitude, it’s no wonder you were blocked.
@@Jambuc829
Everything ain't for everybody.
If you do not tolerate that, then you don't nothing wrong with that.
Did exactly that
..soon as I started happily dating another man (good guy) it was "i miss u, been thinking about u, etc etc etc"...boy bye! smh
I love how you stand up for the women out there!! You are a real man
this is so Truuu...I made this mistake with the last guy I dated... I was truly feeling him, but I was ALWAYS available to him! I thought if I denied him time, I'd lose him, well now I kno. Lesson Learned!! I never turned him down when he wanted to see me. I felt if I did that it would seem like playing games. I thought if you feeling them and they're feeling you then what's the problem, but I was definitely wrong.
I had to stop making myself available for him . and stay busy all this weekend and he was blowing my phone up . cuz he saw I was doing my thing . then finally after two weeks and me reversing script want to finally see me was hard turn him down cux what I want to hang with him but I had to . to make sure hr continues to miss me . he was upset but I mean u didn't cancel your plans for do why would I do same . do I'm going to continue me until I'm READY to see him .
Us women forget men like a challenge, the chase. It's something that's already been wired in them. If we make ourselves too available, they get bored. It's great to have mutual feelings, but its only healthy to have our own things to do and let him come to you. We've been told that we should always go after what we want, men included. But regardless of how modern or open minded the guy is, he still wants someone he can win, put in effort for.
Pellegrino Aqua hahaha believe me there’s a very few who likes the chase
YOU'RE THE MAN. I LOVE HEARING THIS WORDS, THE SAME AS WHAT I REALLY THOUGHT IS RIGHT. I'M NOT ALONE. THANKS SO MUCH. MORE BLESSINGS😇 😇😇
I stopped making myself easily available and accessible years ago. I have a life to live, love and enjoy, and my time and space are precious to me. Later for that rotation crap.
LISA C JENKINS ladies..male RULES for your self...no dude should be calling you after in the middle of the night..ala...booty call....NOT!
if you don't hear from them for days....don't let them hear from you...anymore!...
# make RULES for yourselves...ladies 🙇♀️🙏🙇♀️
This was no coincidence that I found you. Thank you God.
You were saying????
Hopefully you were joking 🙃
Men can sometimes be like yo yos..here today gone again tomorrow and on and on with playing their games...geez.
No thank you..not wasting my precious energy!
Love being single!
Thank you for sharing anyway.
I like the way you don't blame the victim. As women, we offered get shamed for being with the wrong person. Kudos to you
Umm... been dealing with dude for a few and yesterday i texted him in the Am and i haven't heard from him since but he been on social media. I gave up
Ari Lopez 👏👏👏👏
That piece of shit
Big Eye Opener!! He's rare and it's like we only get men like these like the Solar Eclipse we just had on the 21st of this month and sometimes it seems longer than that and it's also the day my son was born over 4 years ago Thanks So Much for Sharing just knowing there's men like you out there gives us women hope Thank You!!
Talking every day is too much for me. Then when we are in person we run out of stuff to say. I'd rather miss him and be excited and have a lot to share. Predictability breeds boredom. And if we have our life what's the rush? I'm learning and working. Can't talk to anyone every single day and I still love him ♥️
Giiiirl, I can't get my man to overstand this. lol...he's the one who needs to let me miss him! Ugh. I don't have the desire to speak to anyone every got damn day and love my alone time.
NaturalMystic71 Right! Lol. Talking every day, at the same time saying the same thing every day. That gets boring and predictable. I like randomness and spontaneity. I've met guys in the past who text daily sometimes all day and most of them weren't driven.
Exactly! I need something to look forward to ya now. The build up is important. I think it's important to have that time apart so when you see each other again it's spontaneous and filled with anticipation. :)
I am the same exact way...... talking 2-3 times a week is more my speed.....
Where did I say we have nothing to talk about? I have a bf of 2 years. I don't like routine and predictable daily texts. I'm not needing for you to understand that.
Thanks so much for your words of wisdom❤ I'm newly divorced after 38 years of marriage I never knew what narsasism was. My husband wanted a new life, moved out and was dating a woman just as fast, couldn't get me out of his life fast enough. I'm doing ok with lots of therapy and family❤ my children are all grown. It's very hard to see him move on so fast but I have no choice, trying so hard not to be jealous. So many emotions. Most days are pretty good but its a lot of work to stay busy. Thank you so much for your vidieos, its helped me so much❤ Norma Jean❤
This is so true I am dealing with this very issue now.
Me too xxx
Nicole Popoola # KICK ROCKS!!!👍👍
Love the way you say it straight from a guys view,,, thanks for the insight to a mans mind !!!
You are my go to "girlfriend " when i am confused and need advice. i literally sit on the couch drink my wine and listen to you as though you right next to me. All the way from South Africa, i love ya videos..keep up the awesome work!
This was great advice Derrick woman stop being so available for a man who is not worth your time . To all my women know your worth don't settle for bs .
Well said! That's exactly the way that I carry it now. My only regret is that I wish I had learned it years earlier. Mine was by trial and error
So much honesty and wisdom here. Thanks man.
So damn true, Use to talk to a guy in high school that i really liked decided to stop calling to see if he would start calling me and sure enough he did. Called all the time, up to this day he still asks for me
I love this man's complete honesty thank you so much it's great to have it in honest & bold terms , keep up the good work 👏👏
Make him miss you. Daily effort is paramount!
You are my new found inspiration. You tell it like it is and I love that. All the other wannabe advisors are OK. But you are the truth. I am learning so much from you and you would think at 46 yes old I would know it all. Proves that men was trowing a towel over my head the whole entire time.
Thanks Derrick you are Awesome😁
Hi Derrick, It really great hearing things out loud, especially on this issues. For my case, I had a relationship for around 8 years and it went through on and off in its course. Last year, he broke off even I was going through a very rough phase of life. He was having anxiety for the future, which he couldnt control and he broke the relationship.
Since then, i had spent a lot of time rebuilding myself from the scratches. I was healing. I didnt reach out to him and when he did i was cold.
But this time, this year he reached out again when he was having a bad emotional situation. And we talked. He told me he wants me back. Though he didnt have any concert plan. We talked again for 3 days on call and on msgs and then he got busy and there was very miminal talks.
One year has passed and it didnt seems he is putting efforts to mend things, where he was the one to broke the relationship.
I feel I am back to the square 1 of all my efforts of healing. I am restless, again waiting for his calls /text. Its purely annoying now. Because, I had overcome those issue and now again im in the state state of mind.
I need to know if this relationship is worth my time, love and efforts.
what happened eventually??
I enjoy listening to you and I enjoy speaking these things into existence for myself and others. It's a joy to hear the same advice coming from a man about a man as it is from a woman about a man.
I usually play the role of being too busy and keeping it moving when in fact I am watching him to see how he responds to my actions.
I will show some interest but it can look innocent like being friendly.
You are always so right on the money. I just told this loser after he found out I was dating someone else because he was neglecting me, he asked if he could call me during the week. I was like, "You never called me during the week, so don't think I'm going to make time for you now that you are jealous and about to lose me. When someone treats you like they don't give a shit, they don't. Point well taken, I'm out."
The 242 dislikes were from men he’s describing 🙃
Hell yea ,they mad as fuck he spilling the beans lol
You are amazing! Finally advice from a man about how men think and act. Going through something right now and this really hit home!
amen!! hun I admire you so much...ladies know ur worth!!
I’m a guy but I definitely like your channel u speaking the real facts about how a women should handle things. Really dope bro
It would be great, if you could do a Q&A with your mum. Just so we could meet the woman who influenced and helped to implement your morals and values. It would be really inspiring for all mothers, especially those who are single and that may be struggling. Just a thought, your doing really well. Thank you!
dhenningham1 that's a damn good thought
Facts I watched a few on fb now I'm subscribed. We need more honest men in this work to make better choices which effectively makes more changes. Love your videos