Emotional Witchcraft: Victim Psychology

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  • Опубликовано: 5 ноя 2024

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  • @ms.charlotte4027
    @ms.charlotte4027 4 года назад +1132

    I'm listening to Pastor Darby so much, that my 5 year old son is mimicking him! He walking around yelling, " y'all don't want dis!" "Is this too much?!" LOL!!!

  • @loveyuyu6208
    @loveyuyu6208 4 года назад +367

    Pastor Stephen Darby was a prophet. I have never in my 35 years of life heard someone deliver the way he does.

  • @ItIzWatItIz722
    @ItIzWatItIz722 7 лет назад +596

    This me😢im over here convicted,feeling the full Conviction heat...I have watched this and pushed pause and fussed with my hubby,he's getting up giving me that look.I cried but im going on with it,i want Deliverance its so hard to watch this.I don't know who i am now,😢 But my husband said your a beautiful woman underneath all those scales/walls and i need you to finish watching this so we can fast and pray.God has answered his prayers and he has heard my cry for deliverance.This evil runs in my bloodline, my mom was this person and she abandoned me.ive ran 2 good men away carrying this mess,i refuse losing my husband!!!.Thank thou for this teaching.🙋God bless you.ps. pastor you just saved me a trip to hell,i believe this is/was the root,i say this with fear and trembling.at 37 I've carried this since age 11.the day i got raped by my moms bf. We will be Sowing seed to your Ministry.🙏

  • @thepr3tty116
    @thepr3tty116 5 лет назад +164

    THIS IS BOTH MY PARENTS!!!! ESPECIALLY THE MOTHER! THE SAD THING IS, SHE'S A PASTOR AND DON'T EVEN SEE HERSELF! GOD HELP US ALL!!!!

  • @FreedominLove711
    @FreedominLove711 5 лет назад +238

    This sounds like a narcissistic/empath relationship exchange.

  • @criswebb7269
    @criswebb7269 4 месяца назад +22

    2024 and here we are…people don’t want to be accountable for their actions…..WOW

  • @rickjames6902
    @rickjames6902 5 лет назад +132

    We lost a good one lord😥😓

  • @nathanielgraves8609
    @nathanielgraves8609 3 года назад +93

    I'm guilty of having a victim mentality today I declare I am breaking the yolk of bandage that has been holding me back from having great relationships with people

  • @brittblessed
    @brittblessed 5 лет назад +340

    I often often forget that he isn't living anymore because his message are so relevant for today. This message convicted me in many ways. Thank you Lord.

  • @josephjenkins2573
    @josephjenkins2573 5 лет назад +112

    Are you thur?! Com’n talk back to me!!
    RIP Pastor Darby🙏🏽🙏🏽😇😇😇
    Ephesians 4:11 And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers;
    Ephesians 4:12 For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ:

  • @giataylor3868
    @giataylor3868 6 лет назад +317

    Although your no longer with us in this physical realm- I'm eternally grateful for the recorded teachings- You taught me a lot about Spiritual Warfare etc.., I miss hearing/watching you teach... Thanks forever Pastor.

  • @lisaharper7185
    @lisaharper7185 3 года назад +241

    I appreciate him highlighting issues around narcissism from a spiritual perspective! It’s a real thing

  • @TheRealestRT
    @TheRealestRT 4 года назад +85

    We really do need to start discerning people motives even when people do nice gestures! What is their motive!

  • @410harrisb
    @410harrisb 4 года назад +214

    I don't know about you, but this Sermon could have went on for another two hours and I would’ve been totally fine with it. Rest in peace and God bless this ministry!

  • @destaneehoward
    @destaneehoward 2 года назад +77

    Is it just me or does the perfect video pop up right after a tough day for y’all too ?

  • @marcusmr.bmswhitner9326
    @marcusmr.bmswhitner9326 3 года назад +92

    I discovered this brotha only a week ago and have been watching almost none stop. I always pray for wisdom and understanding, God has never failed. Mega Church Pastors will not teach like this man. Jesus is King!

  • @solarpanel8195
    @solarpanel8195 5 лет назад +147

    This is why it's so important to be in control of your emotions and have methods for controlling them. Makes it impossible for evil to get you to shift gears in that direction. Staying on the narrow always thankful and loving

  • @vaniathomas8859
    @vaniathomas8859 5 лет назад +98

    This is so true. Black women(including myself) have the fear of abandonment. It never fails. I remember I dated a guy. He got up and walked out after I sent a text playing around. I literally cried like a baby and begged him to come back. His words were " if you keep asking me to come back , I'm not coming back" girl listen I start sniffling saying "okay I'm gonna stop. Never in my life have I felt humiliation , abandonment, ego shot down. 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @zoemanj9631
    @zoemanj9631 5 лет назад +228

    The best pastor I’ve ever heard of. He does not hold the word back whether people accept it or not

  • @rodericklynch7236
    @rodericklynch7236 5 лет назад +97

    Millions need to know and understand this. Either we are this person or dealing with a person like this.

  • @darkmoonskygoddess3212
    @darkmoonskygoddess3212 7 лет назад +81

    Oh YES ...I have been down this road for a long time and didn't realize it until recently . This type of witchcraft is very insidious . Self help "teachers" who are bitter because they have been wounded are VERY dangerous. I saw myself acting out in anger just as the abusive people who were in my life did . Victim psychology can come through the idea that you are protecting yourself also . Thank you for this teaching Pastor .

  • @moniqueewing380
    @moniqueewing380 5 лет назад +157

    This message is so on point, I know some people who volunteer to cook the meal then complain about how they are tired of cooking. I saw right through that spirit.

  • @kimberlynichole7402
    @kimberlynichole7402 2 года назад +84

    This man’s teachings are so anointed and timely! He was so ahead of his time. Very prophetic indeed.

  • @roxannemeeks8985
    @roxannemeeks8985 5 лет назад +55

    Being fair is not enough for them, they want to control you. Pastor hit the nail on the head. This is so true!

  • @monicawanjiru8935
    @monicawanjiru8935 Год назад +16

    I refuse to be a victim again from today on. I am free from this spirit. I will have great relationships with people Amen

  • @kpdg1688
    @kpdg1688 5 лет назад +85

    This message penetrates the artificial emotional, and spiritual armor of the manipulative, witch and warlock.
    These types of people are always involved in some sort of subterfuge.
    They love condemning people who make them see themselves for who they really are just because of their victims' light!

  • @williamlove3087
    @williamlove3087 7 лет назад +104

    Hmmmmm, this is an interesting message. When a sister points out a brother's flaws and weaknesses, the brother seems to be opened minded and opened up to constructive criticism.
    But when a brother does the exact same thing to a sister, she seems to become judge mental, argumentative and does not want to hear anything that the brother has to say!
    Very interesting indeed!

  • @Gbutler777
    @Gbutler777 9 лет назад +121

    Incredible explanation of narcissism. One of your greatest hits, Pastor. Thank you!

  • @sankofasun8623
    @sankofasun8623 3 года назад +75

    There are “parents” out there purposefully CREATING these types of individuals as well. It’s UGLY.

  • @TellEmTosh
    @TellEmTosh 8 лет назад +147

    This word is POWERFUL! I experienced this demon, and it is a religious spirit attached to this as well!

  • @princess-Oct
    @princess-Oct 9 лет назад +215

    There is so much food for thought in this message I had to stop it several times to just examine myself to see if I'm in the faith, am I guilty, is it me Lord? Pastor Darby keep on keeping on..Holy Spirit's got you on point!

    • @Gbutler777
      @Gbutler777 9 лет назад +24

      Amen, sis! I've watched it three times now.

  • @dwaynepennant703
    @dwaynepennant703 7 лет назад +171

    My mentor shared the following with me:
    "the victim must never become like the victimizer"
    Forgiveness is necessary for proper healing.

  • @RandolphTheWhite1
    @RandolphTheWhite1 6 месяцев назад +13

    I've always known this, but never heard it verbalized; emotional witchcraft, amen

  • @CGMDeepRee
    @CGMDeepRee 7 лет назад +71

    I see my errors in my past and present that best believe I am repenting of and apologizing to those affected (infected by this). God is working on me because in every message I see something that I've done and fixing! Regardless of others I am working on Me! GOD is sooooo good!!!

  • @adriennehenson9091
    @adriennehenson9091 5 лет назад +68

    I'm guilty of the first 7 min of this teaching and some other areas I pray that those people will forgive me SMH I'm Learning
    Everyone be blessed

  • @jessicapatterson5542
    @jessicapatterson5542 6 лет назад +51

    I love his preaching. One thing I can add is that woman of all races are conditioned to think a man will leave. This penetrates most women.

  • @shaquataetae
    @shaquataetae 9 лет назад +170

    Sounds like Jezebel also.

  • @thekey_2024
    @thekey_2024 4 года назад +56

    I’m definitely guilty of some of this❗️ This will not hold me back or plague me as a woman. Sure won’t.🙅🏾‍♀️ I bind and rebuke it RIGHT NOW.❗️

  • @myfathersdaughter6380
    @myfathersdaughter6380 5 лет назад +43

    I'm sitting here at work getting ready to jump out of my chair screaming. Yes yes yes. He is indeed anointed with a spirit of courage, knowledge and discernment

  • @robinewing136
    @robinewing136 5 лет назад +30

    Because certain situations that you don't deal with as a child and you carry it on to an adult other people's suffering get blamed four things that you have endured that they should have dealt with it a long time ago while you're victimizing blaming everything on someone else🙏💜🙌

  • @None1975
    @None1975 9 месяцев назад +7

    I am still here 2024! Thanks to the family of Pastor Steve for sharing him with us!🙏🏽❤️

  • @nastassihaney7148
    @nastassihaney7148 Год назад +14

    This man has pulled the covers off this spirit operating in me and in my marriage! Lord forgive me! This has blown my mind.

  • @mohawkduda8554
    @mohawkduda8554 3 года назад +25

    My poor husband has been through so much from my past abuses and my garbage victim hood. 😔

  • @dailybread3152
    @dailybread3152 6 лет назад +129

    Emotional abuse is rampant!

  • @shaquataetae
    @shaquataetae 9 лет назад +112

    And, I also had to examine myself, and repent. I could see some areas in me where I have "emotionally manipulated" others in my own life.
    "...And, they will know the truth, and the truth will make them free..."

  • @lashundreerenitajenkinscra8241
    @lashundreerenitajenkinscra8241 4 года назад +37

    Lord Jesus cover us with your blood at all times Amen

  • @ronski0075
    @ronski0075 5 лет назад +50

    This is good and this is perfect example how people play mind games and make it seem like you crazy.

  • @dwaynepennant703
    @dwaynepennant703 7 лет назад +59

    My mentor shared the following phrase with me:
    "the victim must never become like the victimizer"

  • @janasimpson7219
    @janasimpson7219 5 лет назад +37

    This man right here! I listen to him for hours. I truly found his teachings at the right time. R.I.P. brother.

  • @stephenstar16
    @stephenstar16 3 года назад +19

    Man I just took a look at myself. Thank GOD I’ve found this channel! The Lords doing a new thing in me ! AMEN 🙏🏾 ❤️

  • @kolettadouglas824
    @kolettadouglas824 6 лет назад +57

    I had to confess and repent for playing the victim!!! Thank you Destined Ministries for the anointed word❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @n23391
    @n23391 6 лет назад +45

    I am screaming because there is so much confirmation and I also need God’s help ! Bless this man of God. He was a true man of God. Bless his bereaved family

  • @radiantrenee406
    @radiantrenee406 5 лет назад +18

    "Talk back to me" and my favorite "Are y’all thuuuuur?...I have been binge watching his sermons all week, my husband thinks I'm nuts, but yall pray for him too...Pastor Darby NEVER watered down the word of GOD, even if it made folks uncomfortable in the comment section; I only wish I could have seen him preach in person, but he left the good messages online for us, which I utilize daily and will share with my kids! Even in his death he is still bringing folks to Christ. His anointing was evident. May THE MOST HIGH keep his family strong, protected and continue his legacy. Hallelujah!! Please cherish his teachings/preaching!
    Pastor Dardy was absolutely the best Minister of the Word that I've ever heard, we know the Truth was being told because the Good die young! RIH Pastor, We need a lot more like You! I will continue lifting this ministry in prayer!! Please remember as he said in one of his videos, "Release God by being good to people."

  • @Ms.Go929
    @Ms.Go929 Год назад +8

    Minister Missey I know you are proud of your husband!! He was a beautiful spirit. Keeping your family in prayer 🙏 always! I share and listen quite a lot! Bless you it’s 2023 and I’m still listening to you. Keep these videos coming. We as a people need this!!

  • @ErinHindman
    @ErinHindman 7 лет назад +46

    This really opened my eyes to things in my life. It is so hard to overcome that when you are a victim. You really think there is an ulterior motive to someone's goodness. I was under severe manipulation with my mom and I had no dad. I am still overcoming. I am getting more freedom bit by bit. It has taken so long to even see the manipulation and break free from all of it. Thanks be to God He is helping me! Thank God for that! Thank you for sharing the truth and helping to shine the light on these things.

  • @eduardovilla-lg6qq
    @eduardovilla-lg6qq 2 месяца назад +4

    I love this preacher!❤ everything he said is so true, I wish I had a preacher like this. Rest in peace

  • @angelgreen9945
    @angelgreen9945 6 лет назад +55

    That's powerful a person who creates a problem only then to become the solution (Hegelian Dialectic).

  • @ohgeyeah
    @ohgeyeah 4 года назад +31

    This is one of the greatest sermons I've heard concerning individuals behavior

  • @wana0001
    @wana0001 9 лет назад +72

    Wow I just ended a relationship like this last week. This was exactly how he was. So controlling and mean. Great message. Amen

  • @nicolabless9232
    @nicolabless9232 6 лет назад +33

    Incredible teaching 👏🏾👏🏾I pray my grandmother will change.

  • @JustBeREAL1st
    @JustBeREAL1st 6 лет назад +45

    So much knowledge in this man

  • @kualani24
    @kualani24 5 лет назад +42

    He broke me down on this one

  • @Godisgood1137
    @Godisgood1137 Год назад +11

    I love this man and his preaching he doesn't sugar coat anything 🤣

  • @walkingwiththemosthighgod4507
    @walkingwiththemosthighgod4507 5 лет назад +40

    WOW This is by far the only sermon i ever heard that spoke directly to my past relationship It made me even reflect on myself. Truly annointed by the Most High.

  • @TruthPrevails30
    @TruthPrevails30 5 лет назад +31

    Oh my!!!!! 😭 😢 May the God of Israel and those I’ve hurt forgive me! I need to pray to humble my soul continually! I don’t need it! And I didn’t even know or realize... 😢

  • @brandyah11
    @brandyah11 5 лет назад +14

    It’s sad to say the Majority of our people will not be delivered but for those who have eyes to see and the ears to hear the message of this anointed man, Shalom & I’ll see you there 🙂
    “For though thy people Israel be as the sand of the sea, yet a remnant of them shall return: the consumption decreed shall overflow with righteousness.”-Isaiah 10:22
    RIP Brother, you served your purpose & your spirit is still in the midst of us ✊🏾

  • @shawnlong4714
    @shawnlong4714 9 лет назад +55

    Great message, I believe this message applies to a majority of us today, some to a lesser degree than others, but most of us nonetheless. Thank you for breaking a yoke in my life, this places the mirror on everyone in my life as well as myself. Amen Pastor!

  • @maintainministries
    @maintainministries 7 лет назад +41

    Dear LORD I appreciate this ministry!!!!!!!!

  • @Royaltybrand
    @Royaltybrand 8 лет назад +37

    im over here checking myself it hasn't convicted me but im receiving it for my future self idk what's in me Amen lord

  • @shaqualaanointed40
    @shaqualaanointed40 22 дня назад +1

    I know Pastor Darby is no longer here with us, but he has changed my life in so many ways. Until I started listening to his sermons. I never knew I had so many things in my spirit that I had to battle. The more he revealed, the more I realize I am that woman that he’s talking about. It was the hardest truth that I ever had to digest in my life, but then grace came, and I started to implement change. I started doing everything Darby told me to do. I can honestly say, I just don’t have a lot of head knowledge now, but I’m actually living in the word of God for the first time in my life. I’m actually living in it. I’m thankful and I’m grateful thank you Darby and thank you Darby ministries.

  • @Themotivationalmom
    @Themotivationalmom 9 лет назад +66

    Wow! Thanks Pastor Steve , for this convicting word.This is truly a soul saving message. It has caused me to make a choice to grow and not listen to the devil.

  • @paulokello5981
    @paulokello5981 5 лет назад +29

    My goodness, this guy speaks Truth, as though he once lived in my house

  • @judealazarom1620
    @judealazarom1620 3 года назад +24

    I can never look at one of these beloved Man of God sermons and just listen I always end up taking notes. One video that is just over an hour long takes me 2 hours to watch. Amen Pastor Darby! And I wouldn't have it any other way. In 2021 missing you greatly. I can only imagine what you would have to say today in this day and time with this plandemic going on.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💔

  • @lanaknorman1202
    @lanaknorman1202 6 лет назад +34

    These videos been blessing me the last four days watched 10, I knew I wasn't off or crazy.. Wow
    War time on my face

  • @tylerh1715
    @tylerh1715 5 лет назад +31

    Thankful for this channel. Miss this guy and don't even know him.

  • @BsG419
    @BsG419 3 месяца назад +3

    My ex was the master at emotional witchcraft. I'm thankful for the clarity of this message

  • @MakeovaMinistry
    @MakeovaMinistry 3 года назад +16

    This teaching right here is life-changing. May the Darby family continue to be blessed pressed down shaking together and running over may people give unto thy bosom.

  • @jeremiah6319
    @jeremiah6319 2 года назад +11

    This man was a true prophet and man of god cause man I been watching all his ministries and talking almost eerie how relevant everything is today glad he in heaven not seeing the bad things going on in the world esp Texas

  • @bsong40
    @bsong40 6 лет назад +55

    25:08 It's called gaslighting

  • @ahimsaclosetboutique
    @ahimsaclosetboutique 2 года назад +15

    Daang Pastor read me to filth 😭😭 I have a tendency to want to control everything in my life. I've been playing victim to my husband throughout this whole pregnancy 😭😭 Lord forgive me. I need to go to him and apologies.

  • @lxv8631
    @lxv8631 10 месяцев назад +3

    Why did I wait so long to listen to this man preach when he has been speaking the truth I been looking for thank you pastor Darby and thank you Jesus.

  • @deidracox8674
    @deidracox8674 5 лет назад +11

    This teaching is so profoundly and ridiculously true I felt convicted, repented and hope this message gets out. I'm saddened to hear of his passing in 2017 but thankful to have found these teachings and I'm bing watching and getting so much wisdom and knowledge. Praise our wonderful Savior Jesus/Yashewa!!!!

  • @oneprettycookie7446
    @oneprettycookie7446 4 года назад +20

    This is so good, so many people need to hear this message all over the world today!

  • @tynishabrown2806
    @tynishabrown2806 5 лет назад +64

    Every person that has been molested/raped doesn't grow up and do the same to others. By the grace of God I didn't.

  • @lashontemason9339
    @lashontemason9339 6 лет назад +33

    I wished I could have pressed "like"3 or 4 more times I can feel this WHOLE heartedly

  • @NakishaWard79
    @NakishaWard79 Месяц назад +1

    I am so thankful i came across his ministry through another broadcast. His preaching has a strong effect on me. Prayer to his family and loved ones. This man was truly a blessing.

  • @vahekenyrodrigues4934
    @vahekenyrodrigues4934 6 месяцев назад +3

    This is deep, I see my father and my husband in what he is teaching. Wow. May God deliver me soon.

  • @ImjustsayinDetroit
    @ImjustsayinDetroit 6 месяцев назад +4

    The other side have long since studied his teachings. Stay prayed up Sister's, and Brothers in Christ. Observe the light in the message, heal if necessary, and be a blessing whenever you can

  • @quoisegames1937
    @quoisegames1937 9 лет назад +39

    Haven't heard the message yet, but I was just thinking about emotional witchcraft all month! Let's continue to support these timely messages!!

  • @bronwynh4305
    @bronwynh4305 2 года назад +9

    I truly appreciate this spiritual break down of narcissism. I have been looking for this…..Pastor Darby broke it down perfectly. “If you’re wondering if he is a narcissist. “Just tell him no”.

  • @Andrew_P777
    @Andrew_P777 4 года назад +10

    Aye real talk im guilty of the anger jealousy poor me mentality i needed this Father in Heaven heal me i wanna enjoy my life and my beautiful family but let your will be done in Yah's name amen

  • @APpLe714_
    @APpLe714_ 5 лет назад +39

    "If it wasn't for them kids I would give you twenty years" 😂😂😬 #victimmentality 2019... RIP Pastor Stephen Darby!!🏆🏆💪👑

  • @Sharedra50
    @Sharedra50 8 лет назад +38

    What an awesome teaching may the Most High bless him and his family!!!!!

  • @moeky1luv
    @moeky1luv 7 лет назад +45

    Wowwwwww 😐 I need deliverance...Great message and heart check( which I knew)

  • @CGMDeepRee
    @CGMDeepRee 7 лет назад +28

    I have experienced this at the same time! God thank you for shedding light and showing me how to #1 fix myself and 2nd the ones around me. My goodness!

  • @journeyinwellness
    @journeyinwellness 9 лет назад +40

    This was a every good teaching. Thought-provoking and sent me to my prayer closet. I bless God for this ministry. God bless this man of God, his family, and this ministry, in Jesus name. Amen.

  • @Nieceyspeaks
    @Nieceyspeaks 7 лет назад +31

    Your sermons are changing my life. Thank you for sharing Man of God. May God continue to bless you and your family !

  • @MalakahBahtYAHUAH
    @MalakahBahtYAHUAH Год назад +8

    I appreciate this word as I grow up from being The Victim.

  • @teetrustyah1849
    @teetrustyah1849 5 лет назад +17

    This man truly sold good seeds in my life from the most high the most high gave him these teachings Pastor Darby was really used by the most high the messages was and still is off the chain this message is so true but it was my husband they had the issue he was the emotional witchcraft person and still is I pray for his Deliverance we was married still is but we're getting a divorce I could never do things right he will always accuse me for something he did wrong he will always blame me he will gaslight me he would always tell me he wanted a divorce he was Stonewall me in conversation he just flipped when we got married he was not the same person he was beautiful when he went before we got married and after we got married it was like he flipped we're getting a divorce now and he told me oh you can't fight for this marriage or you don't want to fight for the marriage now I thought you were stronger than that and I caught him cheating found rubbers and pills and he said oh God is married to the backslider and he wanted to continue to have sex I told him not so we're getting a divorce but I pray one day he get delivered I only he is our vulnerability once and that what makes me continue to pray for him I pray that he repent cuz he has broken a lot of people hard and relationships and done a lot of people wrong and have not made it right thank you Pastor Darby for this word sleep on my brother sleep on God is still using you why you sleeping in the grave God bless

  • @EarlMillerMusic
    @EarlMillerMusic 9 лет назад +25

    Great Word! Praise GOD for Men of CHRIST like you! Please continue to preach the truth like this Man Of GOD. GOD bless you and your family!