Sir app ko salam hai jo app nay iss taboo topic par tafcil say baat ki hai aur app ki iss video say mard hazrat ko yeh baat samajh awa jani chai hai k aurat iss taklif ko kitni shdit say mahsos katy hai...
Congratulations but meri zindagi barbad hoi 12 sal bad himmat krky chora 3 bacho ke sath meri ir bacho ki zindagi kharab hoi mein mentally pysically emotionally har tarha su toot gai hon or ye sab unrecoverable he 19 me shadi hoi 32 me divorce li or 38 ki hon lekin borho sy ziada borho hon dhoky or ye aziatnak roog ealu ,indagi guzar kr akly bacho ko pal kar kam umeri me 70 sL ki ourtain zinda dil or active hoti lekin mera dil mar chuka sab jhel kar har bemari hogai he ghutno me dark mohro me yad fadhtk khatm kuch khushi nhi lgti koi kam nhi hota apny groming apny kapry silaana apny ap ka khyal rahkna bacho ka bhout mushkil sy kr pati hon bas zinda lash
Pehle joint family system khtm krain.. ek hi room mn bachy b maa baap b .. maa baap ki to privacy rehti hi ni koi.. yae soch soch kr k bachy kia kahain gy.. yaa phr ek hi room tk mehdood hojte us room se bahr saath bethna b miyan bv ka mayoob smjha jta ha.. ye sb wahan hta ha jahan miyan bv ki privacy hoti ha..
I have seen beautiful women (inside and out) destroyed by this.She lost out-but she will still get her reward somewhere. The only one who loses out is that man go then loses compassion from his wife, and his future generations…
Mery husband bhi 3..3 saal k Baad aaty thy ab shadi k 29 saal guzar gay Mera depression khatam hi nhin hota aur na husband ab acha lagta hy abhi wapis aa chuka aur 24. 7 sar pe swaar rehta hy ab main Oska kia kron mojhy ab raat ko neend ki medicine zeda achi lagti hy aur miyaan zehar.. Poori jwani tanha kaat di isky ghar walon ko hmara ikathy rehna pasand nhin tha to ye onki Sari batain manty thy 😢😢
Aap dono ka koi relationship nhi he sirf aik contract he k wo aapki material needs puri kare ga or aap uske bachhe palo ge. Relationship ko zero se start kerna pade ga jiski shuruaat professional family counsellor se hogi.
Ya Allah rahum mere bahen dakhna ugly jahan me kitna cradet pao ge iss cheez ka suber nufus sy jahaad azeem naki uss ko bohat gunah mily ga jub jub ap ny suber kia
100% agree Dr Affan, but explaining to your partner same things is not easy. This needs to be educated by parents before marrying their kids, otherwise such issues can’t be discussed even with parents after marriage
JazakAllah khair dr.affan apny ye bat ki aj kal social media kahi na kahi ye batain reels me motivational speakers baty karahy hain lekin pehly aysa nhi thi 2006 me meri shadi hoi 19 yers ki age me or husband dubai me thye mein jistarha traumatized rahi hon kisi ny nhi samjha meri xindagi mess hogai and after 12 years with kids divorce lekin mera mental physical emtionally jisarha me barbad hoi na koi sMjh saka na he mein heal hosakti ab tak
I am also suffering from this since 8 years koi b bat kron husband se he becomes violent main to tahajude parh parh k mayous hogye hon main to ghalat rastey pr b nhe gaye kabhi phir bhi koi rasstaa nzarr nahe atta mai ne bohat baar koshish ki talaq lene ki lekin koi support nhe mili family se. Ye he mahol mere ghar ka hay gali galoch larai khamosh raaten ... complete inpotent since 8 years or allah koi rasta nahe nikaal raha 21 yeasr me meri shadi ki parents ne or is 15 sal ki shadi me 15 bar b nhe qareb aye mere wo.. naim orton jo nhe behak rhaen u. K lie koi rasta b nhe nikal raha allah taala 😢 mujhe b nhe rehna aik hejrey k sath lekin jaiz rasta b nahw dikhai derha
Ap ghr walo ki support k bager b decision ly skti hain.. Aur is decision ka haq apko islam deta hai.. I also faced these problems for 8 years and at last divorced her.
@Hiddenpearl2024 AsSalaam o Alikum Behn... Ap apny Bhai ko, bolay k vo samjhy apk Husband ko ya koi b Family ka Bara bnda jis ki bt apk husband manty houn... Nhi tu Last step ya hai k... Ap Husband ko ly kr checkUp k baha'ny doctor k ps jhy or doc ko bolay vo samjhy apk Husband ko. Agr phir b koi fark nhi phrta tu Khulla ly Lyn.. ALLAH Pak Karam farmhy ga In Sha ALLAH. Koi bethr mil jhy ga.
Sir Mai boht preshan ho.mere shohar naa mard hn .or Mai din ba din zehni mareez bnti jarhi hu .or ye bat Mai Kisi se b share nhi kr skti.Allah k aa gy ro ro k kehti hu mjy Allah maf krdy .kiu k olad k bghair koi zindgi nhi hai .or mere shohar kbi baap nhi bn skty. Mai is problem ko wja se kbi b usko chorna nhi chahti.lekin bat is se b aa gy hai .ghr aty hi aram se foon pr LG jaty hn .phir so jaty hn .Mai chahy roti rahu.sari rat guzr jaye usko koi hosh nhi hota.bat olad tk hoti to thk tha .Allah ki mrzi hai wo. Lekin mjy smjhy to sai.mjy puchy to sai k tme koi tnshn to nhi .koi tkleef to nhi .usne kbi ye b nhi pucha .or Mai andr hi andr Mr rhi hu .Mai apni behn ,Bhai ya maa se b share nhi kr skti ye bat 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭mjy hwas nhi hai Kisi chez ki .but insan ki zindgi ka aham hissa uska shohar hi to hota hai .JB wohi uska hmdrd na bn sky to wo kaha jaye
Ap usko chor do r agy shadi kr lo ...jb apko he sakun ni to usko Kia sakun pohncha sako gi ..ya apka right ha ...ap ny shadi isi lye ki th Kia ky apki khawhish he puri na ho
KhnA asan hota hai chor du mry sath bi same asy hai 2 saal howy shadi ko maa baap k ghr aa jao tu ni puchta koi 2,3 month bd bi jao tu ksi ko parwa ni hote MRI ab socha hai kud ko Azad kro divorce ly k but mry Abu mra is bat py kbi sath ni dty ma kya krun@@HaiderAli-nu1ph
Really appreciate for raising voice. Pakistan women pretend or avoid her man and interested in young guys because the enviroment or women behaviour towards husband is really to the point there is no intimacy or dirty talk.women are introvent to the greatest extend please express towards husband .And men should be grown up that woman who express love doest mean she is characterless
Mujhy to un ladies ki samjh nahi ati jinky bachy hoty hain unko kahan time milta hay k jawan larkon k pechy bhagain husband k liye to time milta nahi doron k chaker mai kasy per jati hain
Intimacy kitni kitni honi chahye 1 weak main or is k liye kis trha ki khurak leni chahye k health achi reh saky plzz iz pe b vedio bnayen sex related jo myths hn wo b clear kriye ga
Kisi main desire ziada hoti hain kisi main kuch kum usi k mutabiq or health pr koi asar nhi prhta us ki tention na lyn😅 wese main unmarried hun pr ye mujy pta hai😅
Esa lucky to her koi ho. Bus tandor garam ker k roti lagana. Kabhi dekha he roti lagane se pehle tandoor wala kitni mehnat kerta he. Kabhi aag kum hoti he, kabhi ziada garam hojata he phir pani chidakta he. Aik khas temp per lake roti lagata he to achhi bunti he.
Bas yah bat mard ni smjty na jab aurat bahir mu Marti to usy character less bol dety Hain and apni weakness nai show krty bcz unki ego hurt hoti biwi ko satisfy kar nai skty lakin many gain nai so doctor apka yah topic Pakistan main ksi ko smj nai ana 😡😡
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I am suffering from this. This is very frustrating. And thankful to you that finally someone speak the truth. May Allah give you the strength..
How
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Finally someone speak the truth 😢😢😢😢
You are perfect Mentor Sir ❤ & So proud of you..👏
U r the one n only talking about this topic very well sir....👍👍👍
Very well explained.keep up the good work..stay blessed.
Sir app ko salam hai jo app nay iss taboo topic par tafcil say baat ki hai aur app ki iss video say mard hazrat ko yeh baat samajh awa jani chai hai k aurat iss taklif ko kitni shdit say mahsos katy hai...
Apko same problem hai😊
Dr Affan, your last line, Biwi nu khush rakha Karohn is most significant .
Sex life ho pr communication na ho in between partners tu bhi problems huti ha ... so communication is also the main factor.
Communication to key hy hr relationship ka
100% درست باتیں ہیں آپ کی
You are right men jheel chukki hon sab men ne khtam kr dia wo talkuq ab dosri jaga shadi hoi ab Khush hon men
congurats❕
Ye ap nae bht acha kya kae asay relationship se nikal gae hain appp or dobara life start ki hai
You are so brave and intelligent my sister ❤ Congratulations
Congratulations but meri zindagi barbad hoi 12 sal bad himmat krky chora 3 bacho ke sath meri ir bacho ki zindagi kharab hoi mein mentally pysically emotionally har tarha su toot gai hon or ye sab unrecoverable he 19 me shadi hoi 32 me divorce li or 38 ki hon lekin borho sy ziada borho hon dhoky or ye aziatnak roog ealu ,indagi guzar kr akly bacho ko pal kar kam umeri me 70 sL ki ourtain zinda dil or active hoti lekin mera dil mar chuka sab jhel kar har bemari hogai he ghutno me dark mohro me yad fadhtk khatm kuch khushi nhi lgti koi kam nhi hota apny groming apny kapry silaana apny ap ka khyal rahkna bacho ka bhout mushkil sy kr pati hon bas zinda lash
Assalamualaikum ap ki har video dekhti hon ap ki har BAAT hundred percent theek hoti hai
Acha krti hn video dekh kar ap
Important topic & acha samjhaya ap ny ALLAH PAK hr Muslim ko hidayaat ataa frmaye,, aameen
😭😭😭😭 main is cheez ko face kr rhi hun kai salon se Allah pak k samane roti hun k mera haq muje dial day par Allah shayed is main happy ha
same here😔😔 7 years hogaye hai 🙂
Take a decision.
Matlab hua kia
2 Years ho gy shaddi ko 1 sal ho gya mn apni ami k ghr hn ab khulla ka case file kr dia bht khuch kiya but shayad yhi mnzor hai😢😢😢😢😢😢
@@Amsa-q8l I’m sorry 😢
Again Great Video on a very important and sensitive issue
Allah aap sab k meyan ko hedyat day or aap fr apna fazal kry ameen
So proud of you to talk about this topic.
Pehle joint family system khtm krain.. ek hi room mn bachy b maa baap b .. maa baap ki to privacy rehti hi ni koi.. yae soch soch kr k bachy kia kahain gy.. yaa phr ek hi room tk mehdood hojte us room se bahr saath bethna b miyan bv ka mayoob smjha jta ha.. ye sb wahan hta ha jahan miyan bv ki privacy hoti ha..
Yeah.. Ye joint family system hum nay hindus sy lia hai.. Islam main joint family ka koi concept nhe..
Well said Dr Afan you are doing a great job keep it up
Sir this is natural but society is based on materialism😢
agreed dear😍💯
Oky
True..
I have seen beautiful women (inside and out) destroyed by this.She lost out-but she will still get her reward somewhere. The only one who loses out is that man go then loses compassion from his wife, and his future generations…
Aise koe ni smjhata hai sir bahut achha smjhaya hai
Mery husband bhi 3..3 saal k Baad aaty thy ab shadi k 29 saal guzar gay Mera depression khatam hi nhin hota aur na husband ab acha lagta hy abhi wapis aa chuka aur 24. 7 sar pe swaar rehta hy ab main Oska kia kron mojhy ab raat ko neend ki medicine zeda achi lagti hy aur miyaan zehar.. Poori jwani tanha kaat di isky ghar walon ko hmara ikathy rehna pasand nhin tha to ye onki Sari batain manty thy 😢😢
Aap dono ka koi relationship nhi he sirf aik contract he k wo aapki material needs puri kare ga or aap uske bachhe palo ge. Relationship ko zero se start kerna pade ga jiski shuruaat professional family counsellor se hogi.
Ya Allah rahum mere bahen dakhna ugly jahan me kitna cradet pao ge iss cheez ka suber nufus sy jahaad azeem naki uss ko bohat gunah mily ga jub jub ap ny suber kia
😭😭
استغفراللہ
It makes me cry 😢😢
💯 true agree
Yr yh banda bhot achi thra bt krta hai or samjata bi hai sari bt achi thra❤❤❤❤
Sir you are saying true Weldon sir
Excellent topic keep it up
U teach everything very well sir
AP har topic py bat kar dete Hain Jo zarori h great sir ❤
100% agree Dr Affan, but explaining to your partner same things is not easy. This needs to be educated by parents before marrying their kids, otherwise such issues can’t be discussed even with parents after marriage
JazakAllah khair dr.affan apny ye bat ki aj kal social media kahi na kahi ye batain reels me motivational speakers baty karahy hain lekin pehly aysa nhi thi 2006 me meri shadi hoi 19 yers ki age me or husband dubai me thye mein jistarha traumatized rahi hon kisi ny nhi samjha meri xindagi mess hogai and after 12 years with kids divorce lekin mera mental physical emtionally jisarha me barbad hoi na koi sMjh saka na he mein heal hosakti ab tak
Fb I'd Kya hai apki ?
F b I'd Kya hai ?
Sir g maximum time Bata dy kitny din bad short krni cahea or kitni Karni cahea is k Sath kia bad ma food Lena cahea plz is py ik video bana dy❤
💯 correct
Great Affan❤
Great Dr Sahab...boht ahem masly pr bt ke hai AP ne
M glad someone s mentioning this issue.
Love you afan Bhai
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Tadi har vedio wich ak AK gal Sachi ty Kamal di hondi ay
I am also suffering from this since 8 years koi b bat kron husband se he becomes violent main to tahajude parh parh k mayous hogye hon main to ghalat rastey pr b nhe gaye kabhi phir bhi koi rasstaa nzarr nahe atta mai ne bohat baar koshish ki talaq lene ki lekin koi support nhe mili family se. Ye he mahol mere ghar ka hay gali galoch larai khamosh raaten ... complete inpotent since 8 years or allah koi rasta nahe nikaal raha 21 yeasr me meri shadi ki parents ne or is 15 sal ki shadi me 15 bar b nhe qareb aye mere wo.. naim orton jo nhe behak rhaen u. K lie koi rasta b nhe nikal raha allah taala 😢 mujhe b nhe rehna aik hejrey k sath lekin jaiz rasta b nahw dikhai derha
Take a decision.
Ap ghr walo ki support k bager b decision ly skti hain.. Aur is decision ka haq apko islam deta hai.. I also faced these problems for 8 years and at last divorced her.
@Hiddenpearl2024
AsSalaam o Alikum Behn...
Ap apny Bhai ko, bolay k vo samjhy apk Husband ko ya koi b Family ka Bara bnda jis ki bt apk husband manty houn... Nhi tu Last step ya hai k...
Ap Husband ko ly kr checkUp k baha'ny doctor k ps jhy or doc ko bolay vo samjhy apk Husband ko.
Agr phir b koi fark nhi phrta tu Khulla ly Lyn.. ALLAH Pak Karam farmhy ga In Sha ALLAH. Koi bethr mil jhy ga.
Ask for divorce islam give you this right
Assalamualaikum everyone
Great video is a very important and sensitive issue
If there is no materialism or earning so much money then the marriage life is becoming successful until life
Sir you are right 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
My husband is not giving me attention
Now the relationship is going end khulla ka case b file ho gya😢
Great analysis sir salmat rehy
Ja, that true it's Happening but Dr affan apne iska solution ni btaya. Ab agr ase married life guzr re ho to kese tk kr skty hn
Sahi kaha
Good knowledge 👍.
Well done Doctor
Sir you are masterpiece in this era❤
You also
❤❤❤WELL DONE GREAT JOB😊😊
Very well said I m 100% agreed but husband don't care
A.o.a Sir Asthma py bhi video bnain..Jo bachon aur baron sb k Liye useful ho
Very well said😊
Well done 👏
Best vedio and best example sir
Dr sahib ap ne ye bilkul sahi bat ki he
Good job Bro
Very right, i also suffered from that type of in-laws.
Blkul sehi Dr.shb ..
Good information dr shb
Sir Mai boht preshan ho.mere shohar naa mard hn .or Mai din ba din zehni mareez bnti jarhi hu .or ye bat Mai Kisi se b share nhi kr skti.Allah k aa gy ro ro k kehti hu mjy Allah maf krdy .kiu k olad k bghair koi zindgi nhi hai .or mere shohar kbi baap nhi bn skty.
Mai is problem ko wja se kbi b usko chorna nhi chahti.lekin bat is se b aa gy hai .ghr aty hi aram se foon pr LG jaty hn .phir so jaty hn .Mai chahy roti rahu.sari rat guzr jaye usko koi hosh nhi hota.bat olad tk hoti to thk tha .Allah ki mrzi hai wo.
Lekin mjy smjhy to sai.mjy puchy to sai k tme koi tnshn to nhi .koi tkleef to nhi .usne kbi ye b nhi pucha .or Mai andr hi andr Mr rhi hu .Mai apni behn ,Bhai ya maa se b share nhi kr skti ye bat 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭mjy hwas nhi hai Kisi chez ki .but insan ki zindgi ka aham hissa uska shohar hi to hota hai .JB wohi uska hmdrd na bn sky to wo kaha jaye
Ap usko chor do r agy shadi kr lo ...jb apko he sakun ni to usko Kia sakun pohncha sako gi ..ya apka right ha ...ap ny shadi isi lye ki th Kia ky apki khawhish he puri na ho
Apne parents ko batao
KhnA asan hota hai chor du mry sath bi same asy hai 2 saal howy shadi ko maa baap k ghr aa jao tu ni puchta koi 2,3 month bd bi jao tu ksi ko parwa ni hote MRI ab socha hai kud ko Azad kro divorce ly k but mry Abu mra is bat py kbi sath ni dty ma kya krun@@HaiderAli-nu1ph
Allah apke nasib achy kare
@Haniatty4711 Ameen
Masha Allah Sir G Great Video
How can I contact with Dr affan? Anyone knows
@hiratariq4293, he gave contact no in the video
He gave contact no in the video
Best video
Good 👍
Just great
Exactly ure saying right ❤
AoA! Sir thank a lot for guide line.
Buhat khub🥺
Soo uneq Information thank you Dr.
may Allah blessed you.
Great analysis
Thank you Sir much, sir, for your information.
In our society there is more important on money iPhones cars and royal life of building house😢 depending
Really appreciate for raising voice. Pakistan women pretend or avoid her man and interested in young guys because the enviroment or women behaviour towards husband is really to the point there is no intimacy or dirty talk.women are introvent to the greatest extend please express towards husband .And men should be grown up that woman who express love doest mean she is characterless
Mujhy to un ladies ki samjh nahi ati jinky bachy hoty hain unko kahan time milta hay k jawan larkon k pechy bhagain husband k liye to time milta nahi doron k chaker mai kasy per jati hain
I have sexless marriage since 8 years. My husband addicted of other women so he don’t want sex with his wife.
Same here is liye divoce ho gayi 2nd marriage hui both happy life rahi OK sal then husband accidently death or ab duniya hui khatam mere liye 😭😭💔💔💔
same problem with my wife.we never have sex even once.3months have passed.what should i do ?
Exactly 💯
Yes sir right 😥
Intimacy kitni kitni honi chahye 1 weak main or is k liye kis trha ki khurak leni chahye k health achi reh saky plzz iz pe b vedio bnayen sex related jo myths hn wo b clear kriye ga
Kisi main desire ziada hoti hain kisi main kuch kum usi k mutabiq or health pr koi asar nhi prhta us ki tention na lyn😅 wese main unmarried hun pr ye mujy pta hai😅
Sir i want to disccuess with you my marriage problems i need help
Bilkul sahi baat kahi aap. Na
Absolutely true
جزاك الله
Bilkul aisa hy bilkul aisa hy sir
Aap nah VIG kaha sah lagwahi ha ya bi batah dah
Fr to daro queen k liy b mery khayal se ghalt nhi kehna chahey
جزاك اللهُ ماشاءاللہ 😢😢😢😢🎉🎉🎉🎉
Its true
Dr sahib you raised really a good point 👍
Jzakallah
Write correctly JAZAKALLAH
بھائی دین سے دوری بھی ہے اب جو کنوارے ہیں نشانیاں دیر سے کرتے ہیں
I agree with uh😢
ربي يحفظك ويسعدك ويوفقك يارب العالمين في الدنيا والآخرة يارب العالمين يا ابني
ALLAH IS GOD JESUS PBUH IS S MESSENGER
❤
Thank you very very much
AOA sir meri timing thk ha kabi kabi zyda e time lag jata ha iska koi nukasan to ni ha
Esa lucky to her koi ho. Bus tandor garam ker k roti lagana. Kabhi dekha he roti lagane se pehle tandoor wala kitni mehnat kerta he. Kabhi aag kum hoti he, kabhi ziada garam hojata he phir pani chidakta he. Aik khas temp per lake roti lagata he to achhi bunti he.
Bus mat pochy bahi Mari life be asi he nai or Mari shadi ko nazar kah Gai Jo shadi Kay badh muju bemari ny ah garha hai
Agreed
Timely marriage and happily satisfied married life including sexual life 💯right
بہت شکریہ ڈاکٹر صاحب ❤
Bas yah bat mard ni smjty na jab aurat bahir mu Marti to usy character less bol dety Hain and apni weakness nai show krty bcz unki ego hurt hoti biwi ko satisfy kar nai skty lakin many gain nai so doctor apka yah topic Pakistan main ksi ko smj nai ana 😡😡
Sahi kaha.. Lakin kuch bvia b no no boht bolti husbands ko..
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It's very Informative DOK ❤❤ It's very seriously Issue Mentally Health
Aor Ager Biwi Hi Preshan Ho Rozana Sex Se Aor Strong Sex Se To Phir Banda Kya Kare
Abhe bhai mn tou 17 saal ka hun mn kis ke pas jaoun 😢😅