Slob Roommate Story: If I were OP, I'd have just replied with Nope, I didn't see your shoes, though I did throw away several boxes that were left assuming that like all the other crap she left, they were full of garbage. So if you did in fact leave them behind, you need to go look in [local landfill] for them... Good Luck! 😄😁😆😅😂🤣
I dunno which one's better, thinking of BF in the landfill trying to gain her shoes, or BF trying to badmouth OP, only to rat on herself for being a bad roommate... in a way that the housing could charge her for breaking and entering... Both are equally satisfying.
Last story: If there was no contract between the four of them and they never helped the business grow then OP doesn't have the obligation to pay them anything. Even if they try to sue, if there isn't even a written agreement or company documents between them then they have very little chance of winning anything.
Even if there was, the fact that they wouldn't be able to state what the company does, the growth, or any vital information on the business would prove to the judge that they dropped out early on. This would mean they get 25% each of what the company would have been worth at that time, which would be $5 at most. It would kinda be like a lumberjack using a receipt to claim royalties on the wooden sculpture an artist sold for millions.
Bartender story: THAT is one good bar tender and DEFINITELY the mom of the place. OP just crossed a house line without knowing it. She said herself that she’s regularly mistaken for a minor(a blessing/curse i share) so ol mama bear bartender felt she needed to show her the door for her own good and the good of the bar(something I totally agree with) and the second she realized the misunderstanding, made the necessary 180 and started up mom.exe to help OP back into a stable happy headspace and did everything in her power to keep her there any time they worked together. I wish i could work for someone like that.
Ah, yes. "out the back" - the magical place that Karens believe is filled to the rafters with every conceivable item they imagine they're being cruelly denied when, you know, IT DOESN'T EXIST.
First story - I helped my grandmother with a garage sale once. There was an old two piece, two seater leather couches that was for sale. On one of the couches was the price (I think from memory about $200 - this was nearly 40 years ago). A guy came up to ask if this was for both or just one of them. I didn’t know any better, so I just said each. He asked if I could hold them for him, and he’ll be right back. Sure enough, 30mins later he was back paid me $400, took the couches and left. I told my grandma that I had sold the couches, and she asked me for how much. I told her $200 each. She said that it was $200 for both of them!! Oops….. for helping with the sale that day, I was supposed to get 10% of my total sales. $100 was a huge deal of money for a 12 year old in the early 80’s.
I give Henry and Robert 3 pack of toilet paper and a note saying how lucky they where to have the toilet paper and an itemized list of all the times they help me and put it in hours worked.
If you live with a messy roommate every time they leave the house a mess simply take everything they've left out and put it in their bedroom or right in front of their bedroom door if it is locked. I shouldn't have to deal with your personal messages in our common space. Your personal mess can stay in your personal area. After a few times of coming home to from work to find a pile of dirty dishes on their bed or in front of their door, they will get the point.
She knew she could be, but it was a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation. If OP was a 13 year old minor, them being there could have left the bartender seeking a new line of work.
Sorry, but OP seriously needs to find a different job if she breaks down that easily. When you work in a bar you should NOT be so cowardly as OP. Life is going fuck OP hard.
Congratulations on your business especially now. As soon as somebody is doing well, everybody thinks they’re entitled to a handout. Even if they didn’t do anything. I think what you tried to do was great, but I really hope you learned a lesson on this one. That way it’s not repeated.
I have helped out friends in the past. My rule is. Never expect a return. Never give more than you are prepared to lose. If the person ever gets into the position that they have spare cash, Pass it on
when i tell people that i am 32 they always get suprised they think i am between 20 and 25 even if i havent shaven in a couple of weeks. i never have get someone that tryes to kick me out for beeing to young to be a place because i dont drink alcohool so i never realy go to bars, only gone to a couple of student bars or the bar at a hotel if i staying there
Wow! I had my own Karen experience today, I bought newspapers for the cafe I volunteer at, as the newspapers are near the checkout of a nearby supermarket, thats where I headed, as I was grabbing the newspapers, "Karen" asked me if I was using the check out "I said I wouldn't be long as I was just grabbing the newspapers (could've said that differently now) but she could clearly see that I was grabbing the newspapers and just barged passed me and used the check out. I felt like a fish out of water. As I talked to the check out girl she said "Karen" was a regular, I sometimes go to this supermarket 3 times a week depending how much we need to get.
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Last story: OP is Vietnamese, and has master the all important phrase 'bless their/your heart(s)'! Way to go! I freaking love it! I don't know if you are first, second or an older generation American, but your are headed toward g.o.a.t. territory.
That kid crying in the bar is ridiculous! How is it a single sentence brought her to tears to the point of not being able to speak?! That's just obnoxious. Sorry not sorry but if that was my place I would have fired both of them for making that scene in front of customers. Bartender for incompetence and assaulting an employee and the crybaby for the lack of maturity, there's no way you can depend on this person to have any real responsibility or have any real conflict resolution skills without adult supervision.
The second story is garbage. If an enlisted was making that big a mess, the NCO in charge would have lower the boom pretty quickly, and rooms get checked on a weekly basis as a minimum. The writer is peddling this story to the credulous.
Idk if I believe the guy in the last story. I find it really hard to believe that these ppl would willingly give up their time, skills & effort for this guy to launch a start up without expecting compensation in return. Why would anyone do that & if he felt the need to start handing out gifts then he is obviously of the impression that he wouldn't have gotten his business off the ground if it weren't for the other 3 guys involved. I also don't see why he couldn't give the one guy the cash he was going to spend on the gift. I just don't believe this story. Either the whole thing is a lie or OP took advantage of 3 ppl to accomplish something & is now trying to screw them over. Just bc 1 of the guys was ok with it doesn't make it right
in story #2 if I was OP when the bitchy roommate contacted me about the shoes I would have said I don't remember seeing any shoes but that could have been because of your getting even by trashing my room I did not look at everything I threw away so I could have thrown them away without noticing OH WELL TO BAD SO SAD TOUGH SHIT/ in the last story if I was OP I would have asked them did you sign an employment agreement with me NO you did not, did you at any time invest or use any of your money for anything on the startup NO you did not so therefore I as the company owner DO NOT OWE YOU ANNYTHING WHATSOEVER so go ahead and sue me we will see how long it last
We the ones who are getting extra mature, we are in dip trouble!!!!!! Old 🧓 🧓 less strong and freeze like 🦌 🦌 crying if someone raises the volume in charge. We are doom!!!!
Last story..... "No good deed goes unpunished." 🙄
Slob Roommate Story: If I were OP, I'd have just replied with Nope, I didn't see your shoes, though I did throw away several boxes that were left assuming that like all the other crap she left, they were full of garbage. So if you did in fact leave them behind, you need to go look in [local landfill] for them...
Good Luck!
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I dunno which one's better, thinking of BF in the landfill trying to gain her shoes, or BF trying to badmouth OP, only to rat on herself for being a bad roommate... in a way that the housing could charge her for breaking and entering...
Both are equally satisfying.
Last story: If there was no contract between the four of them and they never helped the business grow then OP doesn't have the obligation to pay them anything. Even if they try to sue, if there isn't even a written agreement or company documents between them then they have very little chance of winning anything.
Even if there was, the fact that they wouldn't be able to state what the company does, the growth, or any vital information on the business would prove to the judge that they dropped out early on. This would mean they get 25% each of what the company would have been worth at that time, which would be $5 at most.
It would kinda be like a lumberjack using a receipt to claim royalties on the wooden sculpture an artist sold for millions.
They were just being greedy
This is one of the posts where I really want more backstory, and even more so updates!
"Pro bono gigs for dog weddings..." I LOVE THAT ! LOL !
Bartender story: THAT is one good bar tender and DEFINITELY the mom of the place. OP just crossed a house line without knowing it. She said herself that she’s regularly mistaken for a minor(a blessing/curse i share) so ol mama bear bartender felt she needed to show her the door for her own good and the good of the bar(something I totally agree with) and the second she realized the misunderstanding, made the necessary 180 and started up mom.exe to help OP back into a stable happy headspace and did everything in her power to keep her there any time they worked together. I wish i could work for someone like that.
Ah, yes. "out the back" - the magical place that Karens believe is filled to the rafters with every conceivable item they imagine they're being cruelly denied when, you know, IT DOESN'T EXIST.
First story - I helped my grandmother with a garage sale once. There was an old two piece, two seater leather couches that was for sale. On one of the couches was the price (I think from memory about $200 - this was nearly 40 years ago). A guy came up to ask if this was for both or just one of them. I didn’t know any better, so I just said each. He asked if I could hold them for him, and he’ll be right back. Sure enough, 30mins later he was back paid me $400, took the couches and left. I told my grandma that I had sold the couches, and she asked me for how much. I told her $200 each. She said that it was $200 for both of them!! Oops….. for helping with the sale that day, I was supposed to get 10% of my total sales. $100 was a huge deal of money for a 12 year old in the early 80’s.
On the last story, those two so called friends, with friends like those two, who needs enemies.
Hello RedWheel and hello everyone hope you are all well and safe and are having a wonderful week. Thanks for sharing. Please stay safe.🏴😷💚👀
I give Henry and Robert 3 pack of toilet paper and a note saying how lucky they where to have the toilet paper and an itemized list of all the times they help me and put it in hours worked.
If you live with a messy roommate every time they leave the house a mess simply take everything they've left out and put it in their bedroom or right in front of their bedroom door if it is locked. I shouldn't have to deal with your personal messages in our common space. Your personal mess can stay in your personal area. After a few times of coming home to from work to find a pile of dirty dishes on their bed or in front of their door, they will get the point.
If only more Karens would have the "I'm the bad guy here" realization the lady in story 3 had...
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Dang. Thank you Redwheel. Have a good day everyone.
Stay safe my RedWheel friend.
Bartender knew she was in trouble. She put hands on and started to drag a fellow employee out. She became so nice to prevent op from reporting it.
She knew she could be, but it was a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation.
If OP was a 13 year old minor, them being there could have left the bartender seeking a new line of work.
Sorry, but OP seriously needs to find a different job if she breaks down that easily. When you work in a bar you should NOT be so cowardly as OP. Life is going fuck OP hard.
Congratulations on your business especially now. As soon as somebody is doing well, everybody thinks they’re entitled to a handout. Even if they didn’t do anything. I think what you tried to do was great, but I really hope you learned a lesson on this one. That way it’s not repeated.
I have helped out friends in the past. My rule is. Never expect a return. Never give more than you are prepared to lose. If the person ever gets into the position that they have spare cash, Pass it on
Pro Bono dog weddings
BRILLIANT 😅
Last story if there is no contract of employment then there was no employment. And I love the comment pro-bono for dog weddings! That was epic! LOL
when i tell people that i am 32 they always get suprised they think i am between 20 and 25 even if i havent shaven in a couple of weeks. i never have get someone that tryes to kick me out for beeing to young to be a place because i dont drink alcohool so i never realy go to bars, only gone to a couple of student bars or the bar at a hotel if i staying there
3rd story...you started crying? Oh dear god.
C'mon... dog-weddings are *BIG* bux.
Thanks Redwheel
Pro bono gigs for dog weddings!!!😂
Live the rock band analogy.
Everywhere you go,
Every step you take,
You won't have these shoes.
you should send her your own old shoes. revenge would be sweeter
What kind of dogs?🤩
Wow! I had my own Karen experience today, I bought newspapers for the cafe I volunteer at, as the newspapers are near the checkout of a nearby supermarket, thats where I headed, as I was grabbing the newspapers, "Karen" asked me if I was using the check out "I said I wouldn't be long as I was just grabbing the newspapers (could've said that differently now) but she could clearly see that I was grabbing the newspapers and just barged passed me and used the check out. I felt like a fish out of water. As I talked to the check out girl she said "Karen" was a regular, I sometimes go to this supermarket 3 times a week depending how much we need to get.
Story 1 - Don’t Get Mad, GET EVEN
I have this channel Subscribed because I do enjoy your content. With that said, I do NOT have Notifications turned on. Why, because if I do, you will jam up my notifications as you are just too prolific and I get way more noyifications than I can keep up with as it is!!!
I’d just do what the roommate did back to here.
Last story: OP is Vietnamese, and has master the all important phrase 'bless their/your heart(s)'! Way to go! I freaking love it! I don't know if you are first, second or an older generation American, but your are headed toward g.o.a.t. territory.
to give you an idea, “Bless Your Heart” is a polite and Southern way of saying “Go F&$k Yourself”
@@JohnH20111 Yes, that is why I love it.
@@JohnH20111Yes it is!!!! I’m not born Southeen but I have lived in NC for over 20 years and know exactly what this little,phrase means😄😄😄
That kid crying in the bar is ridiculous! How is it a single sentence brought her to tears to the point of not being able to speak?! That's just obnoxious.
Sorry not sorry but if that was my place I would have fired both of them for making that scene in front of customers. Bartender for incompetence and assaulting an employee and the crybaby for the lack of maturity, there's no way you can depend on this person to have any real responsibility or have any real conflict resolution skills without adult supervision.
The second story is garbage. If an enlisted was making that big a mess, the NCO in charge would have lower the boom pretty quickly, and rooms get checked on a weekly basis as a minimum. The writer is peddling this story to the credulous.
I swear, half of these stories only happen because the OP has anxiety.
Idk if I believe the guy in the last story. I find it really hard to believe that these ppl would willingly give up their time, skills & effort for this guy to launch a start up without expecting compensation in return. Why would anyone do that & if he felt the need to start handing out gifts then he is obviously of the impression that he wouldn't have gotten his business off the ground if it weren't for the other 3 guys involved. I also don't see why he couldn't give the one guy the cash he was going to spend on the gift. I just don't believe this story. Either the whole thing is a lie or OP took advantage of 3 ppl to accomplish something & is now trying to screw them over. Just bc 1 of the guys was ok with it doesn't make it right
I am RedWheels roommate
Wich of Them?
@@hellefur7861 yours
in story #2 if I was OP when the bitchy roommate contacted me about the shoes I would have said I don't remember seeing any shoes but that could have been because of your getting even by trashing my room I did not look at everything I threw away so I could have thrown them away without noticing OH WELL TO BAD SO SAD TOUGH SHIT/ in the last story if I was OP I would have asked them did you sign an employment agreement with me NO you did not, did you at any time invest or use any of your money for anything on the startup NO you did not so therefore I as the company owner DO NOT OWE YOU ANNYTHING WHATSOEVER so go ahead and sue me we will see how long it last
We the ones who are getting extra mature, we are in dip trouble!!!!!! Old 🧓 🧓 less strong and freeze like 🦌 🦌 crying if someone raises the volume in charge. We are doom!!!!