My One Trans Regret | Response to Connor Franta
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- Опубликовано: 19 ноя 2024
- Response to Connor Franta's "My One Gay Regret" video, with a trans twist ;)
Connor's Video: • My One Gay Regret
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I FELT THE SAME THING OMFG, like I thought i liked them but it was actually i wanted to be them
yup
Thank you so much for posting this video!! The topic of feeling like I missed out on having a childhood and important experiences has been on my mind a lot lately. I'm really glad I'm not alone on this.
I feel every single one of these feels so hard. Thank you for talking about this!
i totally get this and i think you explained it well. for me it's been kinda painful to come to terms with having missed out on so much and feeling like im trying to catch up now. i made a video about this too a while back called "did i miss out" or something and a lot of people said they could relate, so i think it's a (sadly) kinda common thing.
Sometimes it feels like I missed the first 28years of my life but I did have those years and I had good things in them. I have a lot of the feelings you're talking about
"Most girls wanted to be with Bret and look like Jessica; I wanted to look like Bret, and date Jessica".--Me realizing I'm trans
Vesper (QueerAsCat) made a video about gender envy/admiration. Anyone who liked this video should check that one out. I sometimes get confused with feminine people and I don't know if I'm attracted to them or I want to be like them or both things at the same time. It's confusing tbh.
Thank you so much for sharing your personal experiences and feelings with us! I'm genderfluid AMAB and I'm in the closet. It sucks but I'm not economically independent. Love you
My Lord, I can relate so fucking much
I relate to this so much!!
I love Reed.
You're looking so great, Reed!
i didn't even realize other people felt like this holy heck i thought ?? i was ?? the only one ??
Yessssss I totally get this and feel the same!
How did he get facial hair? I'm not trying to be mean or rude, I just have no clue how these things work. He was born a woman and is now a transgender man right? How did he grow natural facial hair?
testosterone
Lmao!I'm not gay! yeah ok.
Let's put gender away and just be are selfs for once! I know some people don't like the idea of change and also so love to chance to make a better life for them selfs. A thing I say daily is im not gay I'm just me!
I think I know why you are confused. Your frame of reference has been shattered. You are not comparable to a gay or a straight man. They both have internal views on how they are, and a gay man would have conficting views of how other people see him (external view). As a girl, you said that your external view determined how you should be, and now that you are (part?) man, you are still trying to gauge yourself on your external view. You need to look at your internal view ONLY. Are you attracted to men or women (or other?) is the question only you can answer, regardless of having a relationship or not.
It would be impossible to get your frame of reference back together from the pieces (your memories and past experiences), you'll need to create a new frame. Only then, can you move forward with confidence about who you are. Don't try to force yourself to do anything that you feel is unnatural to you. Men do practice what is natural for them, too, and that usually happens in their teens to late twenties.