How Jelai Healed From Her Broken Heart | Toni Talks

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024

Комментарии • 8 тыс.

  • @Burty_YT
    @Burty_YT 2 года назад +1276

    Sa lahat ng interviews ni Jelai, ito yung napakagandaaa. ✨ Napaka deep pala talaga ni Jelai, lalo ko syang hinangaan. Andami kong natutunan. In God's perfect time, Jelai will find her partner, Amen! ❤

  • @JelaiAndres
    @JelaiAndres 2 года назад +36434

    Thank you Ate Toni sa comfortable, masaya at makabuluhang kwentuhan 🤍 I love u
    Thank you sa mga nakinig samin. And at the end of the day I still want to be proud of the way I risked my love and soul, no hesitations from the past. I learned so much from it and I am grateful, thankful for the woman that i've become 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 There are no regrets in life, just many lessons. Let’s all be happy and excited to see what the future holds for us 🤍🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @missleyn8701
      @missleyn8701 2 года назад +43

      Love you, ate Jelai ❤️

    • @mrdl7903
      @mrdl7903 2 года назад +22

      Love you 😘

    • @almiradisimban9873
      @almiradisimban9873 2 года назад +20

      Ate jelai keep fighting. Basta nandito lang kami ILOVEYOU PO 💙

    • @jaycelcamasis7350
      @jaycelcamasis7350 2 года назад +8

      love you Ate Jelai🥺😘💚

    • @d.r.e.d_
      @d.r.e.d_ 2 года назад +41

      buti at okay kana ❤️ sabi sayu ni God, pagdaanan mu lahat yan tpos ishare sa mga tao para may matutunan sila habang maaga pa 😻

  • @estherluma6513
    @estherluma6513 2 года назад +55

    "Yung masaya ka pero hindi stable, walang peace", "Mas okay na lang ako mag-isa ako pero hindi ako umiiyak" - These hit me... :(

  • @RenzEspero
    @RenzEspero 2 года назад +594

    Finally! Jelai Andres is an amazing woman. Maganda, Matalino, Mayaman, Mabait, Family Oriented pero iniwan parin at niloko. Hindi totoo na kapag ganyan ang personality mo hindi kana iiwan, meron lang talagang tao na hindi marunong makuntento. I'm glad to see na happy na si Jelai sa life nya, sabi nga nila pag may nawala may darating na mas maganda. God has a plan always! Keep on fighting Jelai!

    • @simpleme3757
      @simpleme3757 2 года назад +8

      Mostly kasi sa mga inosente at mabait tini take advantage ng mga Black hearted people. At opposites attract din. Ung mga bLackhearted gusto nila mag prey ng mga inosente. Yun namang mga inosente at mabait gusto nila magpabago ng mga bad people at na interest sila kasi new nga na experience din. Ganun. So better be half-half. Half demon. Half angel. 😂

    • @lovelyrose7753
      @lovelyrose7753 2 года назад

      Ibinigay kasi nya lahat. Nawalan ng challenge ang lalaki. Kaya mga girls , Alam nyo na.😉✌️💕

    • @lizeem8319
      @lizeem8319 2 года назад

      AGREE!

    • @Pls_sub_to_the_dragonite
      @Pls_sub_to_the_dragonite 2 года назад

      Agree.

    • @philipstar8607
      @philipstar8607 2 года назад

      Nakakalungkot 😔

  • @vionnesy7661
    @vionnesy7661 2 года назад +276

    ”love should not hurt, love should not suppose to hurt you, if its hurting you its not love,” felt that

    • @olivia5419
      @olivia5419 2 года назад +1

      #canceljongutierrez #jailjongutierrezforconcubinageandVAWC

  • @yt_kcdeguzman5394
    @yt_kcdeguzman5394 2 года назад +1717

    Kung mapapanood man ni Jon to, sobrang laki ng sinayang mo. Si Jelai maganda na, totoo at loyal pang magmahal.

    • @terexploringph
      @terexploringph 2 года назад +204

      Hindi nia yun maiisip kasi ilang beses nga siyang nambabae. Di nakakaramdam ng regrets ang mga cheater at di rin umuubra sa kanila ang mga paawa effect ng anxiety mo tapos sisisihin mo sila. Mas lalo lang nilang gustong kumawala kasi for them you are the one becoming toxic. Just saying.

    • @ajpena88
      @ajpena88 2 года назад +73

      Totoo, paulit-ulit siyang niloloko ni Jon siguro dahil paulit-ulit din siyang pinapatawad ni Ate Jelai. Hindi niya alam na sobrang blessed niya na minahal siya ni Ate Jelai pero sinayang niya. Ngayon, nakamove-on na si Ate Jelai, and I hope makahanap siya ng taong mas mamahalin siya

    • @badetzr.esteves5406
      @badetzr.esteves5406 2 года назад +51

      Hindi un makonsenxa kasi malakas pa siya at may pera pa.. Saka na magsisi pag mahina na ang sandata nia at aayawan na siya ng ibang babae.. Ganyan man ibang lalaki pag malakas pa sila parang nagpapakawala lalo na may babae ding papatol .

    • @roannebello3408
      @roannebello3408 2 года назад +49

      Hindi niya maiintindihan 'to unless siya naman ang lokohin at gaguhin ng paulit ulit. Yung siya naman ang mawasak at mawala sa sarili.

    • @JRLanto
      @JRLanto 2 года назад +13

      LAW OF ATTRACTION: AKO AY MAKIKILALA DIN BILANG VLOGGER AT MARAMI RIN AKO NA MAPAPASAYA AT MA-INSPIRE NA MGA TAO. GOD BLESS PO SAYO SA NAG-BABASA NITO MAGIGING SUCCESSFUL KA❤️💛💙

  • @leaharcega9486
    @leaharcega9486 2 года назад +68

    Pinapanood ko pa din to till now. 95% of healing na ako... Thank you for sharing. sobrang nakakatulong. story of my life tlg ung story mo Jelai! Happy for you and looking forward for my own happiness. :)

    • @lionelyanyan
      @lionelyanyan Месяц назад

      Likes dark din nakaraan mo babe..

  • @aesthetical.ly_
    @aesthetical.ly_ 2 года назад +362

    When Toni said, "Love should not hurt, love does not hurt. If it's hurting you, it's not love. Love is supposed to heal you, love is supposed to comfort you, love is supposed to give you peace. Love is supposed to give you security.", I felt that.

    • @ynapacheco9495
      @ynapacheco9495 2 года назад

      I agree with you Ms Toni that love should not hurt, if it's hurting you, it's not love, because love is supposed to heal you, love is supposed to comfort you, love is supposed to give you peace and security. That's the meaning of love

    • @OlafBoy016
      @OlafBoy016 2 года назад

      Naiyak naman ako 🥺 This is sooo true. ❤️❤️

  • @maviel4806
    @maviel4806 2 года назад +882

    "When you started loving yourself, you become whole again. You don't need the love of a man, for you to be whole. YOU make yourself whole." Madam Toni really have the best words of wisdom.

    • @arlynignacio4144
      @arlynignacio4144 Год назад +2

      @@banfreecs9441 p9

    • @mhagsgonzales7093
      @mhagsgonzales7093 Год назад +3

      Love shouldn't hurt, love doesn't hurt, if it's hurting you, it's not love because love should give you peace, love should comfort you, love should give you confidence and security

    • @gersonvaldez9843
      @gersonvaldez9843 Год назад

      @@banfreecs9441 l

  • @jenicaashleylubi6361
    @jenicaashleylubi6361 2 года назад +544

    i felt this line “if God allows you to let go of that person but you refuse it, he will let you get hurt so you don’t have a choice, but to let go”

    • @prinzvillabrille6123
      @prinzvillabrille6123 10 месяцев назад +3

      Totoo yan.. sa una lang masakit,gang sa tanungin mo si Lord Baki bakit bakit? Pero pag nka moved on ka kasi sinunod mo ung way na bnigay niya, you will THANK him Kasi inalis ka niya sa position na yun..

    • @arky1999
      @arky1999 10 месяцев назад +3

      I'm feeling that pain right now because I was afraid of letting go😢

    • @monfonteamoa4057
      @monfonteamoa4057 8 месяцев назад +2

      Feeling the pain right now and afraid of letting go😢

    • @cheryannm.lucagbo7886
      @cheryannm.lucagbo7886 4 месяца назад

      It's been a week since we broke up. In 2 years, I keep on speaking to God to send signs if he's the one and he already said no. I choose to ignore it bcoz I still choose this person despite not treating me well, cursing me, pulling me away from God due to his sinful desires, disrespecting me and letting me beg for love. Eventually, he cheated and I still gave forgiveness but in the end, I am broken into pieces and I have no choice but to let him go bcoz I can't take the pain anymore. And I regret kasi pinatagal ko pa. Hindi ko nagawa nung kaya ko at buo pa ko. So what I'm going through is the consequences of my wrong life decisions. But now, I'm turning my eyes on God. I know at the end of it, He's still waiting for me to come back to Him. And I trust Him that all these troubles are just lessons to make me stronger, braver, and wiser. So when it's the right time to meet the man He destined for me, I'm not going to make the same mistakes again.

    • @linamarienarvaez5605
      @linamarienarvaez5605 3 месяца назад

      I’m letting myself to be in pain cause I still can’t let go. 😢

  • @juanpaulo6987
    @juanpaulo6987 2 года назад +32

    When toni said: "IF YOU CAN'T VALUE YOUR SELF , YOUR LOVED ONES WILL NOT GIVE YOU VALUE TOO🥺" LOVE YOURSELF FIRST❤️ 💯🤍🙏🏼

  • @arjayvictohay9829
    @arjayvictohay9829 2 года назад +132

    "Love should not hurt,. If it's hurting you, that's not love. Love is supposed to heal you and give you peace." ♥

    • @sugarcane8978
      @sugarcane8978 2 года назад +2

      Yess, love covers the pain we felt so Tama si toni

  • @khaaaye5937
    @khaaaye5937 2 года назад +290

    I can totally relate to Jelai. I had my 8 years relationship. Pinaglaban ko siya sa lahat, sa mga kaibigan at pamilya ko kahit na nakikita nila yong mga panloloko na ginagawa sa ‘kin ng ex ko. Kinulong ko yong mundo ko sa kanya na parang “you and me against the world” ang peg. Paulit ulit niya kong niloloko pero paulit ulit din ako nagpapatawad. Until one day, narealize ko na tama na to. Nung nakawala ako sa kanya, ramdam na ramdam ko na naubos talaga ako. Paunti onti binuo ko ulit yong sarili ko na nawala ng walong taon. Nung mga panahon na yon, si Lord lang talaga ang kinapitan ko. Tama yong sinabi ni Jelai na kapag nirefuse mo yong sign ni God, hahayaan ka niyang masaktan ng paulit ulit hanggang sa ikaw na mismo ang kumalas. Now, I am happily engaged to my future husband 💖

    • @jowenski
      @jowenski 2 года назад +7

      Parehas tayo ng experience. 8years din ako nagpakabulag sa maling tao na paulit ulit lang din akong niloko kahit ilang beses ko syang pinatawad at tinanggap. Yung naniwala ka masyado sa kabutihan na meron sya kaya inisip mo na magbabago sya. So happy that you finally found your Mr. Right. As for me, i'm still trying to rebuild myself. Hoping that one day, in God's perfect time, makita ko na rin yung tamang tao para sakin.

    • @senoritareavlogs7849
      @senoritareavlogs7849 2 года назад +3

      @@jowenski walang imposible kay God just believe in him

    • @oxy5923
      @oxy5923 2 года назад +6

      Hala! same experience 8yrs relationship din. Paulit ulit niloko pero paulit ulit din nagpatawad. Tulad ng sabi ni Jelai naniniwala ka sa taong yun na baka pwede pa magbago. Pero hindi pala. Single parin ako now pero masasabi ko na sobrang peaceful ng buhay ko. Nakakatulog ako gabi gabi ng walang iniisip. Thank you Lord talaga di nya ako pinabayaan nung panahong depressed ako. ❤️

    • @jonarizabughao1331
      @jonarizabughao1331 2 года назад +2

      Sana all 🙏🙏🙏

    • @adrianjag2500
      @adrianjag2500 2 года назад +3

      Congratulations!! Happy for you..

  • @champmom1068
    @champmom1068 2 года назад +375

    I love what Jelai said "don't depend your happiness on others, because being happy is a CHOICE" then love your self first before you can give love to others'. ahhh another wonderful episode. what I love in watching Tony Talks is you will really learned lessons from the actual experiences of guests.

  • @riamiyazono2846
    @riamiyazono2846 2 года назад +58

    the saddest thing about betrayal is that it never comes from enemies, it comes to the people who you trust the most...

  • @marianicolasartin9638
    @marianicolasartin9638 2 года назад +101

    “it’s time to walk away pag wala ng peace of mind”
    very true… value ur self first… mas importante ang inner peace… 🥰🥰🥰 magigising ka na lang masaya ka na if na let go mo na ung akala mong ngpapasaya sau.. kuddos to ms.toni for this interview… and more power to ms.jelai… stay strong…🥰🥰🥰

  • @ashlyjoymejia2546
    @ashlyjoymejia2546 2 года назад +385

    Lord, this girl really deserves someone who will keep her happy, secured, and loved for the rest of her life, please give her that someone who will treat her like a princess and a queen 🥺❤️😘 iloveyou ate jelai.

  • @kelaya3234
    @kelaya3234 2 года назад +354

    the way she can still laugh and smile while telling the most painful story in her life🥺 u can tell that Jelai Andres is a really strong person

    • @modestavillapane7768
      @modestavillapane7768 2 года назад +1

      Good day tony,sana maeguest mo rin c mygz molino.thank u god bless u always & your family..

  • @iamred5728
    @iamred5728 2 года назад +5

    Brings back memories of my own heartache journey. Ang hirap tlga yung kakagising mo pa lang malungkot kana, iiyak kana tapos gusto mo na ulit matulog. Nagkasakit din ako, I also had anxiety, panic attacks but i believed prayers saved me while i was also helping myself to get back up. Isang araw nagising na lang ako na wlaa nako maramdaman kung hindi awa sa sarili ko and thats also when i began to love myself again hanggang tuluyan ko na nakalimutan na may mahal akong walang kwenta haha!

  • @rolandoalvarez4007
    @rolandoalvarez4007 2 года назад +31

    The girl is back. Only this time stronger, wiser, and powerful. Love has humbled her yet she is ever more grateful.
    Soft spoken yet deep and unbreakable. Welcome back, Ms. Jelai. ♥️

  • @ruthlorreinacma362
    @ruthlorreinacma362 2 года назад +47

    I love how she expresses her pure love despite of all the cycles of pain and cheating. Truely, self love and finding happiness in yourself is one of tge best gift you can give to yourself. 💛

  • @joshuacnp134
    @joshuacnp134 2 года назад +190

    Lesson learned: Hindi mo kailangan ng ibang tao para pasayahin/buoin ang sarili mo♥️

  • @anjfuentes2281
    @anjfuentes2281 2 года назад +5

    Im in tears. You are such a strong person Jelai. God bless your pure heart. May you find the love you deserve ❤️

  • @jenjen2397
    @jenjen2397 2 года назад +26

    Super Galing ni Toni sa pag interview ng mga nagiging guest nya. Walang pressure casual talk lang like nakikipag kwentuhan ka lang sa isang friend na handang makinig sayo. And Toni let the guests expressed their feelings, she can put their guard down. And she knows her boundaries kung hanggang saan ang limit nya sa pagtatanong and not pushing way to hard.

  • @jocelyncasal9431
    @jocelyncasal9431 2 года назад +23

    moral lessons: don't give so many chances to people because you're only delaying the person you truly deserve and you're also putting your own happiness on hold.

  • @jeanncaballero5094
    @jeanncaballero5094 2 года назад +75

    Sana pagdating ng panahon mahanap mo ung right man para sayo Miss Jelai❤️ Napaka professional ni Miss Toni mag interview.

  • @queenyook7048
    @queenyook7048 2 года назад +7

    i'm so proud of you JELAI ❤️ I admire you for being so strong and tough. What a wonderful woman you become.

  • @abbescalera9686
    @abbescalera9686 2 года назад +214

    Naiyak ako sayo jelai 😭😭
    "Hahayaan ka ni lord na masaktan ng masaktan hanggang sa wala ka ng choice kundi i let go" ify jelaiiii 😭

  • @sjan1443
    @sjan1443 2 года назад +38

    Dear Ms. Jelai, I misunderstood you not until i heard you today. I questioned you for always giving the man the forgiveness that he doesn't deserve. Now, you gained my respect. I pray that you continually heal and find the hapiness that you deserve, coz you deserve it. Godbless

  • @citymermaid
    @citymermaid 2 года назад +10

    Thank you for reminding me that no matter how painful some things could get.. you'll feel better one day, it's enough hope to fight again 💖

  • @joanleeopano1533
    @joanleeopano1533 2 года назад +23

    Naiyak ako 😢 Im so proud of you Ms.Jelai.. Dumating din ako sa punto nang mga pinagdaanan mo.. I lost my friends, my work and myself 😪😪 Dumating din sa punto na halos ikamatay ko ang pagkawala nya .. No peace of mind. Palagi umiiyak 😪 Until one day, unti unti ako nag heal... Unti unti dna masakit. Unti unti sumasaya ako... Tama ka, na dont depend ur happiness to someone.. The Lord saved me.. inalis Nya tayo sa maling tao na di na healthy para sa atin... I know na , mahahanap din nten ung tamang tao na para sa atin.. At never na natin mararanasan lahat ng hirap at sakit na pinadanas nila sa atin... Loveyou Ms.Jelai 😍😘 Thank you also Ms.Toni 😘😍

    • @cristinaestrella5205
      @cristinaestrella5205 2 года назад

      Same here..why should we experienced such pain. It's been more than 3 months I left him because it's not working anymore. So many hurting words he said to me. Always crying 😢😭😪

  • @erikajanejuan6549
    @erikajanejuan6549 2 года назад +445

    Eto yung hinihintay ko na episode 🥰 Ate Jelai is so humble and strong person 🤍

  • @mmusictherapy
    @mmusictherapy 2 года назад +26

    Please lord protect this girl!!! Give her a man that will love her pure and genuine! 😭 she's so brave 😭❤️

  • @sharingoutlovesol1663
    @sharingoutlovesol1663 2 года назад +7

    Grabe ang sakit noon, I saw how brave you are Jelai and so many lessons nga talaga ang malelearn dito. So inspiring how you became. Ms. Toni love the words you put it into Jelai's life experiences. Thanks for this lessons

  • @danicabisenio100
    @danicabisenio100 2 года назад +43

    Alam mo ate Jelai parehong pareho tayo ng situation, almost 10yrs kami pero every year may cheating na nangyayari hanggang sa naubos na din ako at hinayaan ko na si God na humawak ng relationship namin and ayon nagkaron ako ng lakas ng loob na igive up na siya at ngayon happy na ko with my husband and my 36 weeks baby. Iba talaga pag hinayaan mong si God na mag control sayo sa lahat ng situation. 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @sang8556
    @sang8556 2 года назад +23

    I love how stronger you become Ms. Jelai. Hinubog ka na ng panahon. And we love to see you happy again. Yung pure happiness na inagaw sayo ng pagkakataon dahil sa mga struggles na nangyare sa buhay mo. For more love, patience, faith and happiness! Cheers! 🥂❤️

  • @shannenferhanafideldia4257
    @shannenferhanafideldia4257 2 года назад +16

    This reminded me of a scene from My Ex and Whys
    "Kayong mga lalake, akala ninyo pag nambabae kayo..akala ninyo nasasaktan niyo lang kami. Makikipagchukchakan kayo tapos ine-expect ninyo iiyak lang kami. Itutulog ang sakit tapos paggising ok na? Yun ang pangarap namin.. Sana nga ganun lang kadali yun."
    Cheating is not always just crying... Its also breakdowns, anxiety, trauma, depression, self harm, self pitying, lowered self confidence, etc.

  • @maryannablao7722
    @maryannablao7722 2 года назад +6

    Di ko alam bakit naiiyak ako sa love experiences ni ate jelai 😭😭 so happy for you ate jelai, may tamang tao na darating sau po someday., Godblesa po ate jelai and to ate Toni also. ❤️❤️

  • @janreyes7009
    @janreyes7009 2 года назад +71

    So glad that I was able to watch this. Akong ako to si Jelai though I was never married but nakakarelate ako sa last long time relationship ko. The ER scene, depression, cycle, forgiveness to the unforgiveable, loving/valuing yourself, fighting for love. Lahat to dinanas ko. Kung anong response ni Jelai, un din mismo ang nararamdaman kona ngayong nakamove on na ako. I cant say that I am fully healed pero napakalayo kona sa taong minahal ung taong un noon. Napakalayo. And I still thank God for helping me get through it all.
    Salute to Jelai! Toni G did a great interview again! 🙌

  • @nicoledavid4138
    @nicoledavid4138 2 года назад +16

    Grabe, relate na relate ako. 😭 I was really taken for granted sa loob ng 5 years. 2021 binitbit ko talaga yung relationship namin kasi mahal ko siya and iniisip ko lagi na kung kailan siya mahina dapat dun ako maging malakas kasi walang mangyayari samin kapag pareho kaming mahina. Proposal nalang ang hinihintay ko sa kanya at ng family ko 😭 Nakalimutan kong mahalin yung sarili ko. Tapos siya pa yung napagod kahit na ilang beses ko siyang nilaban sa sarili ko, grabe ang umpisa ng 2022 ko, I am really broken hearted. I prayed for a sign na mag let go na, na huwag ko ng ipilit ang sarili ko sa kanya and I think ito na yung sign na yun. Thank you ♥️

  • @ejbartolay2691
    @ejbartolay2691 2 года назад +53

    This by far is my favorite interview of toni. I noticed how gentle she was to jelai when she was asking questions and also she equipped herself with informations beforehand. Gusto ko yung pag handle nya ng leading topics para maging comfortable kausap nya and plus points ang lesson. Love you Toni G. Watch watch lang talaga ako sayo 🥰🥰🥰

  • @cher2267
    @cher2267 2 года назад +500

    When Jelai said: Yung binubuo ko sya, ako naman yung nawawasak.
    I felt that 💔💔💔

    • @JRLanto
      @JRLanto 2 года назад +1

      LAW OF ATTRACTION: AKO AY MAKIKILALA DIN BILANG VLOGGER AT MARAMI RIN AKO NA MAPAPASAYA AT MA-INSPIRE NA MGA TAO. GOD BLESS PO SAYO SA NAG-BABASA NITO MAGIGING SUCCESSFUL KA❤️💛💙

    • @jaraza323
      @jaraza323 2 года назад +2

      Sana si kris aquino naman ang interviwihin ni ms gonzaga.

    • @7scoups_of_suga
      @7scoups_of_suga 2 года назад +3

      Same.. & the worst part is hindi mo marerealize na nawawasak kna until it’s too late. I wish for genuine happiness sa mga taong nakakaranas ng ganito.

    • @assejreal5464
      @assejreal5464 2 года назад

      💔

  • @ailenepaulino9212
    @ailenepaulino9212 2 года назад +356

    I didn't experienced the "cheating" thing like what happened to you ate jelai, but I've been and still experiencing the "taken for granted" moments. Like, despite of all the pain that I'm experiencing, still I'm holding on to the idea of "maybe he will change" "maybe he will realize my worth" Sana one day magising din akong "kaya ko din pala kahit na wala sya" I really wanna end this relationship of mine, very toxic na, pero hindi ko mabitawan kasi masakit pa masyado. Haaaaay. 💔

    • @happythought2813
      @happythought2813 2 года назад

      Hugs

    • @theresealbano
      @theresealbano 2 года назад +2

      If you know it is a toxic relationship, you have to go.

    • @emeldeus471
      @emeldeus471 2 года назад +21

      Hayaan mo lang sarili mong mapagod, kusa na yan na aayaw ka completely. Gigising ka na lang one day na ayaw na ayaw mo na talaga.

    • @nvm5486
      @nvm5486 2 года назад

      I think it's better na she knows it. Unlike Paul soriano. All the staff knew it. From PA to cameraman. Erich Gonzales.. if you know, you know

    • @vinceaverythirdpontioso1786
      @vinceaverythirdpontioso1786 2 года назад +1

      Pray.

  • @happyfeettravels
    @happyfeettravels 2 года назад +36

    “Love is suppose to heal you.” 💯💕 Praying that this pure and kind-hearted woman will meet the man that is worthy of the kind of love she has to offer. Lucky is that man, whoever he is, and may that man value her the way she should be valued.

  • @mry_25
    @mry_25 2 года назад +2

    Sobrang pure ng puso mo Jelai Andres...
    You deserved a guy who can love you unconditionally.
    Godbless you po.💗💗

  • @maryannmaturgo4443
    @maryannmaturgo4443 2 года назад +35

    Ang ganda nung Lesson na "Happiness should not be Dependent on Others, Love Should not Hurt". So happy that Jelai is on the process of Healing na di n sya Galit and still she wants to help ung taong nakasakit sa kanya to fight his inner demons.

  • @marifemegenio8760
    @marifemegenio8760 2 года назад +126

    I feel Toni's genuine happiness for Jelai throughout the interview.

    • @JRLanto
      @JRLanto 2 года назад

      LAW OF ATTRACTION: AKO AY MAKIKILALA DIN BILANG VLOGGER AT MARAMI RIN AKO NA MAPAPASAYA AT MA-INSPIRE NA MGA TAO. GOD BLESS PO SAYO SA NAG-BABASA NITO MAGIGING SUCCESSFUL KA❤️💛💙

  • @jerrymaecole
    @jerrymaecole 2 года назад +12

    Kaya ko minahal si Jelai, e. Sobrang laki ng puso niya. She is one of the literal meaning of Kaneki’s Mom saying na “it’s okay to hurt yourself than to hurt others.” It’s not because you are weak to avenge, but you have a big heart to understand and be genuine to everything. 🥰

  • @lotibar2875
    @lotibar2875 2 года назад +52

    Binge watching all the stories/interviews you have is helping me get thru depression. It is not easy to crawl up from the pit but it does make a difference when you see other people on the other end of that seemingly never ending darkness.
    There is a common take away from all of your interviews, its that, no good story comes without its share of storm, you just have to go thru it with faith in the Lord and resilience. Thank you for helping those people who are fighting their silent battle.

  • @tyois
    @tyois 2 года назад +14

    Grabe yung pinagdaanan ni Jelai. I was crying and smiling while watching. Crying because of the pain she went through, and smiling because she's okay now. I am happy for you Jelai.

  • @reyjeanvictoriano4666
    @reyjeanvictoriano4666 2 года назад +34

    This girl deserves all the happiness in the world, such a strong and pure soul ❤️

    • @olivia5419
      @olivia5419 2 года назад +1

      #canceljongutierrez #jailjongutierrezforconcubinageandVAWC

  • @ladyjaneduque7230
    @ladyjaneduque7230 2 года назад +15

    Proud of u jelai... Apaka strong mo... Time will come dadarating ung lalaking para sau.. Ung mamahalin ka at di kana sasaktan di mo na mararanasan ang naranasan mo ngayon... Godbless u always.. Nakakaiyak ung mga ginawa mo just to fight that relationship pero di man lng niya na feel ung pag sasakripisyo mo para lng mabuo ulit ito...

  • @Bhai-jj1eu
    @Bhai-jj1eu 2 года назад +3

    Tama maam jalia mahalin ntn ang sarili ntn di natn kailngn ng ibang tao pra mabuo o maging masaya ulit..

  • @fhaeryjemcenteno9923
    @fhaeryjemcenteno9923 2 года назад +57

    Iba talaga yung self-love! Praying for healing for everyone who's hurting right now! 🥺💖🙏🏻

  • @ellenmaneja7659
    @ellenmaneja7659 2 года назад +27

    Once and twice is enough. Pag sumobra na, try to choose yourself. With the help and guidance of the Lord and your parents, your family and the people who tryly love you, everything will heal, everything will fall into place .. stay strong Jelai. Ngayon ko lang narinig ang story mo. You are an inspiration. Thanks Toni for sharing this to us. ❤️

  • @kimberlyjoiie
    @kimberlyjoiie 2 года назад +80

    Basta interview ni Toni, ang dami talagang lessons.
    Btw, I love Toni's outfit ❤️

  • @alitaptap7584
    @alitaptap7584 2 года назад +7

    Watching this after nung interview with Zeinab napaisip ako, ano kayang pakiramdam ng lalaki kapag nagloloko sila? Nakakaangat ba ng pagkalalaki or feeling ba nila sobrang gwapo nila? Achievement ba sa knila na may umiiyak na babae para sa knila? At the age of 25 alam kong sa sarili ko di ko pa kayang magboyfriend lalo na di pa matibay paniniwala ko sa faithfulness ng lalaki, Papa ko nga nagawang magloko, ibang lalaki pa kaya? "Don't depend your happiness to other people, Love yourself more, Never give your 100% trust to anyone" - mga linyang lagi ko sinasabi sa sarili. Napakatatag niyo Jelai and Zeinab

  • @garrygozon5958
    @garrygozon5958 2 года назад +8

    Kanina umiiyak ako sa simbahan almost 3 Hours akong nasa simbahan naka tambay kinakausap si Lord. Humihinge ako ng tulong na Sana there's someone who will help me to enlighten me sa mga bagay bagay. Tas yun pagka uwi ko Ng bahay napanuod ko to🥺 cguro ISA to mga way ni Lord to awaken me. Grabe! Andami Kong realization 😭...I love you Toni and Jelai!

  • @ronalistre9236
    @ronalistre9236 2 года назад +17

    The hurt she had to experience is unimaginable! Strong woman indeed! Ang ganda din ng cnabi ni Toni na Love does not hurt, it should give you comfort, peace and security! 😍

  • @ehLaykss
    @ehLaykss 2 года назад +36

    Her love to Jon is genuine and unconditional yet painful. Ily ate, praying for your complete healing. 💕

  • @jennifferabiog9844
    @jennifferabiog9844 2 года назад +32

    I love the way Toni does interview unlike the others her style was just let the person relay their own story that’s why the whole interview was clear and amazing

  • @claraclarus468
    @claraclarus468 2 года назад +16

    I’m crying. 😭 She deserve to be love! Omg she deserve more. She’s so pure and humble 😭😭😭

  • @jeslynpinera5715
    @jeslynpinera5715 2 года назад +173

    It won’t matter how loud you love if the other person isn’t listening. This made me realized a lot, hoping that I’ll find the courage to walk away when I’m hurt enough, hope l’ll find my peace soonest

  • @phanelamaereasondadecastro2567
    @phanelamaereasondadecastro2567 2 года назад +34

    Jelai is so pure .. na sinayang lang ni Jon.. I'm a JoLai fan pero kasi masakit na eh. Sobra na ung pain na naranasan ni Jelai.. kaya okay lang kahit wala nang comeback. Umaasa ako dun pero ngaun, ok na. Para sa healing ni Jelai.. Magiging masaya pa ako pag ok na siya eh.

  • @rhi3961
    @rhi3961 2 года назад

    My sister brought me here cause i was in pain too, thanks Jelai for sharing your story, u r such an inspiration..

  • @jamjimena5893
    @jamjimena5893 2 года назад +131

    I'd like to see Pau Fajardo with Toni G. soon, she has an amazing story of strength to share and so much more 🥺

  • @abasicchannel6921
    @abasicchannel6921 2 года назад +8

    galing ni toni... she can interview anyone, prang kht cno, every walks of life... pwd sya mg interview ng shala, ng jologs, ng politician, ng simpleng tao... she brings out something about the people she interview... nice, nice toni! godbless you and you talent... continue to comfort others by your channel... 😊👍

  • @amelluzcruz1275
    @amelluzcruz1275 2 года назад +11

    Sobrang buti ng puso mo ate Jelai! Yan ang tunay na pagmamahal.

  • @YuliaEgoslavia
    @YuliaEgoslavia 2 года назад +10

    This is what I love about this show, laging may moral na nailalabas sa bawat interview si Toni. Some might not like her for her seriousness almost opposite with her sister. But I like her ever since this introvert entered showbiz, because she’s true, brave and an old soul.

  • @btstxt0705
    @btstxt0705 2 года назад +143

    I can truly relate not fully about the topic but her struggles and healing, it reaches far beyond realization. I believe she represents most of what women is/was going through these days. It definitely ends with you loving yourself. And I'm happy she reached that. She's amazing! ✨

  • @viadeles8729
    @viadeles8729 2 года назад +28

    "Yung sinimulan mong mahalin ang sarili mo, nabuo ka ulit 😇❤️" - Toni G.
    ❤️ it.

  • @jherleen
    @jherleen 2 года назад +27

    Ang pure, gentle, kind and lovable mo, Ate Jelai. You deserve to be happy.

  • @airenesantos6765
    @airenesantos6765 2 года назад

    I was in the very same situation! Yon talaga ang sign .. yung umiiyak ka na palagi kasi naaawa ka sa sarili mo...magigising ka na, ay hindi na tama to... Yon talaga ang naging malaking sign sakin. Ilang yrs akong walang kaibigan sa bahay lang...same nung dahilan nya na di lumalabas para walang pag selosan at pagawayan..... almost 3 yrs na kong nag walk away and I'm in so much peace...loving and enjoying my kids again... Thank you God naka alis din ako sa ganong sitwasyon. Nakaka bulag talaga ang love ng ganon pero may end lahat ng pain and suffering once nag let go ka na ..sarap sa feeling na bumalik ka na sa dati mong sarili...WAG PO NATING HAYAAN NA GANON ANG TRATO SATIN....NO ONE DESRVES THAT....stay happy and strong Everyone!

  • @nicholaiart3874
    @nicholaiart3874 2 года назад +61

    I was also devastated after toxic relationship with a cheating partner. I am happy to say that I am slowly getting over him and starting to love myself again.

  • @shaynesebastian3742
    @shaynesebastian3742 2 года назад +8

    Can't wait to be free like you Jelai 🙂 free from pain and regrets 🙂 can't wait to be whole again 🙂
    Thank you for this Ms. Toni . You are an inspiration Jelai . You are a strong woman♥️

  • @coryem9719
    @coryem9719 2 года назад +34

    I can feel her pain. My ex husband left me & my son for another woman before Christmas. Relate na relate ako sknya and may natutunan ako sknilang dalawa. ✨🙏🏻
    Thank you Toni Talks for this episode.♥️

    • @JovelieRondon
      @JovelieRondon 2 года назад

      Same with.
      Be strong nalang talaga.

  • @TeacherNarja
    @TeacherNarja 2 года назад

    Na-watched ko yung kay Toni F. and I won't deny na na-gained niya ang respect ko but this... grabe ang sakit. Naiiyak ako. Ramdam na ramdam ko yung pain ni Ma'am Jelai. God loves you po.

  • @lyksedc2387
    @lyksedc2387 2 года назад +8

    Thanks for this, Miss Toni! I am one of those who requested this interview! 😇 I'm so happy to know that Miss Jelai is finally back from the trauma that she's gone through! She's really a fighter! I'm so proud of you Miloves! ❣️

  • @beehappy6683
    @beehappy6683 2 года назад +18

    I'm a weak person when it comes sa love kya nga lagi ako nasasaktan ksi love pinapairal ko. But bcoz of this interview.. Natauhan ako at parang nagisinv ako sa katotohanan. I love every answers of Jelai kay ma'am Toni. To Jelai u are amazing and u inspired me with this interview. Stay strongl luv u Jels. 😘❤️

  • @Loryaaal
    @Loryaaal 2 года назад +14

    Ang sakit din ng lalamunan ko kakapigil maiyak sa interview niya. Sobrang strong mo milovesss! Hindi mo talaga maj-judge ang isang tao kung paano siya magmahal. Ate Jelai gave her all kahit na sarili na niya yung napabayaan niya. So happy na natagpuan na ulit niya yung sarili niya. Stay strong ate Jelai! Deserve mong maging masaya at mahalin ng tama 💖

  • @violiep6489
    @violiep6489 2 года назад +11

    Full of wisdom and life’s lessons. Continue to be strong Jelai. And as always, Toni u always shine doing Toni Talks. Luv it.😍👍

  • @ljwyatt8972
    @ljwyatt8972 2 года назад +15

    Ang strong mo Jelai 💕 Sobrang tapang mo 💖
    Seeing u teary eyed and nanginginig yung boses mo while nagkukwento, sumasakit yung puso namin 🥺
    Sobrang pure mo magmahal 🥺💖

  • @teofilamietinaco8161
    @teofilamietinaco8161 2 года назад +11

    That's why I really admire you Ate Jelai 💚 . You have a pure Heart to forgive kahit ilang beses ka na nasaktan . Time will heal you Ate Miloves ♥️ . Keep on going . We love you always ♥️😍 . God Bless you always 🙏 😇

  • @amanjoy6987
    @amanjoy6987 2 года назад

    Subrang nakaka relate ako sa kwento ni jelai 100% pinag laban ko ng 10 years pero ganun padin hindi tlga mag babago ang tao pag pa ulit2x lang ang pina pakita sayo ikaw nalang tlga ang ssuko, kailangan mo talagang mahalin ang sarili mo

  • @hopie05264
    @hopie05264 2 года назад +8

    Huwag mong gagawing mundo ang dapat tao lang! Wishing u a genuine happiness jelai. U deserve better, u deserve the world. ❤️

  • @ronaybanez5998
    @ronaybanez5998 2 года назад +30

    If there is one thing I realize from this episode that is " that love should not hurt you,and that it should comfort you, makes you feel secure and happy then that is love" its very timely to what i am feeling right now. Im in the middle of something with me and somehow it helps me. It opens some realization in life. 😢😊

  • @jinkyusi6934
    @jinkyusi6934 2 года назад +44

    Eto yung perfect example ng "Love yourself". So proud of you Jelai.

  • @cherrydoloricon3709
    @cherrydoloricon3709 2 года назад

    Ang ganda lang makakakita ng mga taong tinatawanan na lang yung mga bagay na nangyari sa kanila noon, mga bagay na nakapanakit sa kanila dati kase nakikita mo na ok na sila na nalagpasan na nila yung mga chapter sa buhay nilang toxic at nakapanakit sa kanila.
    Kaya I salute you ate Jelai kase sobrang tapang mo and best wishes po sayo

  • @lorraiytc6193
    @lorraiytc6193 2 года назад +16

    This interview with jelai touched and makes me cry 😢 It takes time to heal talaga and don't give everything, dapat magtira para sa sarili natin because it will consumed you. Sobrang iyak ku neto, papakasalan ka lang pala para saktan. Ask for the guidance ni Lord and he will help you to move forward,complete healing, and to love yourself.😇

  • @jelsonregala706
    @jelsonregala706 2 года назад +25

    Eto yungg matagal kunang hinihintay.....❤❤❤❤#Jelai is strong person........napakabuti nyang tao.....❤
    Slamat miss tony tagal ko tung hinintay❤.......

  • @giabite5123
    @giabite5123 2 года назад +14

    I really feel you ate Jelai, i've been through that same kind of situation na wala ka ng ibang choice kundi i let go mo na lang siya kase to save yourself. 😭 you are a brave and good person. Sana di ka magbago! Mahal ka namin❤️

  • @chelmertv
    @chelmertv 2 года назад

    Ang sakit grabe. Feel na feel ko yung sakit kasi nangyari na din sakin. Pero ngayon masaya na kong kasal sa taong mahal ko at mahal ako 💪 stay strong jelai!!! 😍😍 We love you.

  • @MsJansen10
    @MsJansen10 2 года назад +9

    I don't comment much when watching Vlogs but can I just say how strong Jelai is for whatever happened to her? I salute and thanked her for loving herself more.
    That's why we should not settle for less. We should know what we deserve.
    In God's time, He will give you your God's best.

  • @beyarevilleza8099
    @beyarevilleza8099 2 года назад +8

    napaka pure ng puso mo ate jelai!! mahal ka namin 🤍🤍

  • @tmcdfcmpgi-palampisieptisa1077
    @tmcdfcmpgi-palampisieptisa1077 2 года назад +10

    I feel you, Ate Jelai. Self-love talaga ang kailangan. ♥️

  • @joiicantera9451
    @joiicantera9451 2 года назад +6

    Sana dumating yung time na magkapatawaran cla n toni fowler🙏🙏

    • @deexu8935
      @deexu8935 2 года назад

      Tru inaantay ko din yan HAHAHAHA

  • @karenrhomesuyat9826
    @karenrhomesuyat9826 2 года назад +15

    So proud of you ate jelai. WELCOME BACK!

  • @jasminepastor9164
    @jasminepastor9164 2 года назад +40

    "Binuo ko sya pero sarili ko naman ang nawasak"
    Ang sakit. With your so pure heart Jelai, You deserve so much.

  • @merlyannq.9966
    @merlyannq.9966 2 года назад +3

    i am crying and I don't know why. maybe because I am going through the same thing but i just don't know it yet or just don't want to admit it? 💔💔💔 thank you for this toni and jelai 🙏

  • @lourdessegurossolis8980
    @lourdessegurossolis8980 2 года назад +18

    Nakakaiyak, pero nakaka inspired yung stories ni mam jelai 🤍❤️