My insecurities as a dark skin girl and how I deal with them...Sunday Chit Chat Session

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  • Опубликовано: 12 дек 2024

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  • @kadhaipoma7
    @kadhaipoma7 5 дней назад +9

    kudos to open up this topic....same this happened in my life..... i have gone through lot of insecure feelings as a dark skinned girl.....

  • @DharuJohn
    @DharuJohn 5 дней назад +7

    This video is gem💎 usefull and felt calm❤

  • @28chanugajohnson46
    @28chanugajohnson46 5 дней назад +4

    My girl is back ❤

  • @priyakrishnan3600
    @priyakrishnan3600 4 дня назад +3

    As a 22 year old brown girl, this video was a much needed one😇

  • @shakiramiriam6607
    @shakiramiriam6607 5 дней назад +4

    You are beautiful the way you are, there are many in this world who are very less fortunate than you are in having even basic neccessity like food, water and shelter and physically challenged. Pls be grateful for being more fortunate than many in this world Mona.
    I understand what u have gone throught but u are beautiful the way you are and you know that.
    Also, NEVER ever change yourself for anyone

    • @MadeByMona
      @MadeByMona  5 дней назад +1

      You are absolutely right 🙏 i feel the same way and I am grateful for whatever I have. As long as i am healthy and happy i am absolutely fine with anything♥️

  • @manasvi6417
    @manasvi6417 5 дней назад +2

    " If you are okay with how you are looking, That's all it matters"
    These words literally healed me❤️

  • @meeraram3937
    @meeraram3937 4 дня назад +1

    When I was a kid, I had been teased for my skin tone. I felt bad, told myself in the mirror that let me get a tad bit fairer. But i was blessed with great cousins n and great teachers who helped us all in making us understand that some things cant be changed completely, so it faded away, by then. I soon realised finding and keeping great people around could be of utmost help. So as we grow, we would venture out into new environments, but finding and keeping our tribe people up close helps to solve so many insecurities in us. Find and form a group of friends who are pretty like minded people and explore and face the insecurities as you all grow up together.

  • @kavithageetha5903
    @kavithageetha5903 4 дня назад +1

    Well said mona darling ❤❤ love you.... ur words literally so warm and helpful to heel myself ❤

  • @vinithadalton3309
    @vinithadalton3309 4 дня назад +6

    Hey Mona ,
    Even i have faced this “Karuppa irunthalum kalaiya irukka “ till my college days i was in pride oh apo namma nalla thaan irukom nu
    But then when i started earning apothaan enakku intha thought vanthuchu athu ena karuppa irunthaalum … direct ah ni kalaiya irukka azhaga iruka nu solla vendi thaanae oru fair skin tone ae paathu ipdi yaarum solrathu ilaye nu felt it
    After that onwards if anyone comes and tell that dark but beautiful they will get nicely from me 😂😂
    Athu enna but kuttuunu direct ah ethunalum solunga without mentioning skin tone.Now i am seeing my closed people gives me compliments without mentioning my skintone .
    Thanks for speaking this you Pretty girl ❤

  • @abii1934
    @abii1934 5 дней назад +2

    I m following you from 2018❤ the beginner friendly makeup started from you!

  • @nancy34510
    @nancy34510 4 дня назад +2

    Thank u for this video I'm already a self motivated person towards my look, once again I recall my self confidence through this video👌👌👏👏 and me also literally like u❤❤

  • @041-jothika.b2
    @041-jothika.b2 5 дней назад +4

    I have all these insecurities that you have mentioned here... literally you're looking like my mirror but the only difference is that I can't get over these insecurities 😢😢😢I hate myself to the core..even i don't want to exist in this world...I am not deserve to be loved...I don't deserve anything in this world 😭😭😭my life is feeling like hell...This world gave sooo much important for the appearance...like work, relationship,etc..Everyone deserve to be happy right..but why god created soul like me.. every night i cry like hell for my existence.I don't know when I am going to live happy life or it will not going to happen forever.

    • @MadeByMona
      @MadeByMona  5 дней назад

      I am sure you are going to get better. Here, listen, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE WORTHY..don’t think about anything or anyone. You are the one who is going to lift you up! YOU ONLY HAVE YOU♥️calm down and give yourself a tight big hug. You can do it. If i can do it you can also do it. CHEER UP BEAUTIFUL COME ON♥️♥️♥️

    • @swethashiva8312
      @swethashiva8312 4 дня назад

      Dear , God created everyone in a unique way and there are lots and lots of beautiful things about you, its just that you don’t realise it yet. I promise you these phases are a part of life , you will soon come to terms that you are beautiful no matter what and only your opinion about yourself matters the most at the end of the day, be kinder on yourself♥️

    • @swethashiva8312
      @swethashiva8312 4 дня назад

      @041-jothika.b2

    • @041-jothika.b2
      @041-jothika.b2 4 дня назад

      @@MadeByMona tqsm mona♥️for your kind words.

    • @041-jothika.b2
      @041-jothika.b2 4 дня назад

      @@swethashiva8312 tqsm dr ❤️

  • @LifestylewithMe-ks9hq
    @LifestylewithMe-ks9hq 4 дня назад +2

    Same i too faced lot as a dusky skinned women
    If ur not pretty or fair skinned ppl wont approach u. I didnt have many freidns. They bias with more beautiful ppl than me and in workplace beautiful women are respected more

  • @najmak916
    @najmak916 4 дня назад +2

    Mona... Next sunday chit chat la communication epdi improve panrathu, athu pathina unga experience share pannunga... Current la Neraya peru face panra problem.. skill irunthalum, lack of communication nala next step poga mudiyama struggle panravangaluku useful a irukum...

  • @sofiabegum8213
    @sofiabegum8213 4 дня назад +2

    correct mona am medium tan skintone even today I dont have single white dress becz I feel that will make me to look dark

  • @hemalatha_A
    @hemalatha_A 4 дня назад +1

    I love this background 😍❤️❤️

  • @soundarya_sugan
    @soundarya_sugan 5 дней назад +1

    Fighting mona🔥🔥🔥

  • @Dhanusri06
    @Dhanusri06 5 дней назад +2

    A long tight hug 😭🫂 kaa ❤️

    • @MadeByMona
      @MadeByMona  5 дней назад +1

      Tight hugs to you too♥️🫂

  • @jainabfathima4036
    @jainabfathima4036 5 дней назад +3

    Very relatable😢..even today few people keep taunting on skintone. I got married recently and moved from andhra pradesh to chennai which is ofcourse a very hot and humid place unlike my birthplace, so due to the hard water and hot climate there, i turned very very dark but actually my skintone was very light from childhood until my marriage and my inlaws and their relatives complimented me for being fair when they came to see me during match making, but still the same people from in laws place comment saying that I cheated them before marriage by wearing makeup to look fair and now im very dark without makeup..Like seriously, they just dont understand even after myself explaining to them number of times😒..But anyways pale skin doesnt always mean they have a good white heart though..🤍

    • @MadeByMona
      @MadeByMona  5 дней назад +1

      🙁oh God i am sorry you are going through this. Dont take any of that to your heart. Everything will be fine

  • @nishallineeshanmugam5347
    @nishallineeshanmugam5347 4 дня назад +1

    Hi mona, next week talk about bigg boss s8

  • @devi9868
    @devi9868 2 дня назад

    Love you akka ❤❤❤ really your experience was good

  • @sivaranjani4471
    @sivaranjani4471 4 дня назад +1

    Cutest video 📸❤

  • @Man8888-d5j
    @Man8888-d5j 5 дней назад +1

    Yes I am this situation very difficult but go move on today iam happy

    • @MadeByMona
      @MadeByMona  5 дней назад

      Yesss thats the spirit🥰❤️‍🩹

  • @keerthana.sen12
    @keerthana.sen12 5 дней назад +2

    Cutieeee ❤ ur soo cute in this busu busu dresss 🤌🏻🤌🏻😚😚😚

    • @MadeByMona
      @MadeByMona  5 дней назад

      Thank you so much 🥰🥰🥰

  • @ThalaphathyRiyaz
    @ThalaphathyRiyaz 5 дней назад +2

    Hii ❤️ mona sissyy

  • @BooktalkTamil
    @BooktalkTamil 4 дня назад +1

    Handsome 6 feet full hair on his head govt job husband, 2 lovely kids 1 boy and 1 girl, he shows that he loves me! I could see cars slowing up and eyes 👀 on the side mirror when I walk on the street... Men being extra nice and women being extra mean for no reason...
    Still my childhood insecurities following 😂 I made friendship with my insecurities rather than getting rid of those things😅

    • @georachelk9812
      @georachelk9812 12 часов назад

      @BooktalkTamil handsome full hair🤣 u still prioritize looks on others so insecurities won't go sissy😂 ur mind is designed that way ... people were mean and nice to you not because you look good bt it's because of how you behave 😂 lol

    • @BooktalkTamil
      @BooktalkTamil 11 часов назад +1

      @georachelk9812 yes 100 percent you guessed right! 👏👏 I was wrong! Azhagana partner iruntha insecurities sari ayidum nu nenachen but nope! That even got worse now! that's why I'm here to educate girls in their 20's handsome husband kedacha insecurities poidum nu nenaikathinga.. Adhelam apdiye tha iruka pothu just live with it! Epavum pogathu!!

    • @BooktalkTamil
      @BooktalkTamil 11 часов назад +1

      @georachelk9812 and people (especially other women) will be mean to you WITHOUT ANY REASON just because they think you're pretty in some dress or some makeover.. I know such behavior is not good but some people still do that! You never believe until you experience it. I'm 32 years old few things I can say by my experience dear 😇

  • @Dhlip-e3i
    @Dhlip-e3i 4 дня назад +2

    இல்லை இல்லை கருப்பு கிடையாது அது ஒரு தனி அழகு தேவதை தமிழ் நாட்டு கலரே அதான்

  • @anjuseenu9972
    @anjuseenu9972 5 дней назад

    Hii sis.... You are a true gem

  • @jothika2213
    @jothika2213 4 дня назад +2

    Akka nano eppadi tha daily yum face pandra 😭😭ennatha ellamae marunalum etha racism and bodyshamming ondi marathu ka athuvum namba veetula irukavalaeyy apadi pesum pothu ethuku da uyire oda irukum nu iruku ka ❤️‍🩹 chinna pasangala iruthu periyavaga vara ellarumae apadi tha pandraga 😢😢atha kastama iruku

    • @MadeByMona
      @MadeByMona  4 дня назад +1

      Idhukaga seriousa worry panama iruka try pannalum. Life is so much more than just body weight and skintone. When someone mocks you on these, they just see that you are doing good and staying happy so they try and say something rubbish to pull you down. When they do that recognise that and ignore..nenga nimadhiya irukardhu avangaluku porukalai..its as simple as that.

  • @nandhini4539
    @nandhini4539 5 дней назад

    Unga chinna vayasu photos la video la add pannierukalam sis next time unga school college photos kaminga☺️

  • @DivineFem-ox5xy
    @DivineFem-ox5xy 5 дней назад

    Lipstick shade please mona❤

  • @gopikasrik6499
    @gopikasrik6499 4 дня назад

    Best hair mask pls

  • @DooDooChild
    @DooDooChild 4 дня назад +1

    nowadays,this kind of vdos im searcing on utube

  • @DooDooChild
    @DooDooChild 4 дня назад +1

    namme generation kitte inthe insecurity issue comparitively high aa irukkurethukkaane reason ennevaa ikkum.....my big doubt nowadays

  • @SaranyadeviSaranyadevi-z4g
    @SaranyadeviSaranyadevi-z4g 4 дня назад

    Hi mona akka

  • @DivineFem-ox5xy
    @DivineFem-ox5xy 5 дней назад

    Which Eyeshadow ?

  • @Dhlip-e3i
    @Dhlip-e3i 4 дня назад +1

    யாரு எண்ண சொண்ணா உங்களுக்கு எண்ண உங்க ஆம்பிஷண் யூடியூப் வீடியோ போடுங்க உங்களால முடிஞ்சது பண்ணுங்க சகோதரி திருநங்கை ஒருவர் மேக்கப் பண்ணுங்க இல்லைண்ணா உங்களை விடுங்க வேரயாருக்காச்சும் மேக்கப் பண்ணுங்க

  • @sathiyasathiya4221
    @sathiyasathiya4221 3 дня назад

  • @Fairyhazel06
    @Fairyhazel06 5 дней назад +1

    Much needed akka... ❤ can i get a reply

    • @MadeByMona
      @MadeByMona  5 дней назад +1

      Thank you so much for watching😃🧡

  • @zaidthayyabyakub3867
    @zaidthayyabyakub3867 5 дней назад

    Plz give ur invisible aligner