what if you don't get closure?

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 15

  • @lucynorton905
    @lucynorton905 Месяц назад

    Love the analogy with the burning yourself on the pan , resonates so much 🫶🏻

    • @lotsofloveariya
      @lotsofloveariya  Месяц назад

      right?! this analogy changed the way i perceive anger and helped me cope with resentment and holding grudges❤️‍🩹

  • @RIFATAFRIDI-x4m
    @RIFATAFRIDI-x4m Месяц назад +1

    Actually ur videos are really informative & helpful. You deserve more views , like , comment ,share & subscribers on your channel . i think you need to find out which kinda problem have on you channel ,then fixed this problems🥰🥰🥰

    • @lotsofloveariya
      @lotsofloveariya  Месяц назад

      @@RIFATAFRIDI-x4m you are so kind! thank you for saying such kind things. yes i hope i can figure out how to improve my channel☺️

  • @MarionOke
    @MarionOke Месяц назад +1

    So happy to see you back on RUclips!! 🎉

  • @lucynorton905
    @lucynorton905 Месяц назад

    This is such good info!!! Definitely the same with making up scenarios, when really it’s nothing to do with us at all! ❤

    • @lotsofloveariya
      @lotsofloveariya  Месяц назад

      it’s perfectly understandable to want to comfort yourself with potential reasons as to why something happened🩵

  • @nayanapillai6926
    @nayanapillai6926 Месяц назад +1

    Needed to hear this! Loved the video so much🫶🏽

    • @lotsofloveariya
      @lotsofloveariya  Месяц назад +1

      i am so glad to hear that nayana 🥰 thanks so much for watching!

  • @lotsofloveariya
    @lotsofloveariya  Месяц назад +1

    engaging with my video will tell youtube to show it to more peeps! like, comment & subscribe for more. i hope to see you again soon☺️💖💖

  • @arooney4317
    @arooney4317 Месяц назад +1

    Good to see you back! Hope you are doing well 🙏🏽

    • @lotsofloveariya
      @lotsofloveariya  Месяц назад +1

      aww thanks for sticking around! :) i am really well thanks, how are you?

    • @arooney4317
      @arooney4317 Месяц назад

      I’m great thanks. This is a great vid! Couldn’t agree more. Sometimes a persons actions are devoid of thought for others, like you said usually those actions have nothing to do with you. Understanding that is the first step to moving on and not needing closure. I feel like closure is sometimes an excuse to hold on to that person (particularly relevant within an unsuccessful relationship). Very human to want closure but I find that it rarely helps.

    • @lotsofloveariya
      @lotsofloveariya  Месяц назад +1

      @@arooney4317 i couldn't have said it better myself!! seeking closure in some situations is often a thinly veiled approach to hold onto someone. and i agree, it is very human to still want closure.