Hi darlings - my GOODNESS I had so much trouble uploading this vlog so thank you for your patience! Hopefully worth the wait 🥰🐻 a cosy home vlog as we weather the storm, and a wonderful long chat with Charlie as he looks back on five years sober. Thank you for watching 🥰🥰🥰
I was bereft at not having the vlog to watch last night. I was concerned that something might have happened so very pleased to hear it was just a technical glitch. Charlie's is so very eloquent and sincere when he explained about his sobriety. As a 66 year old woman who likes a glass or two of wine every night, I know I need to at least cut back on my drinking, not least of all because , despite intermittent fasting, I am finding it hard to lose the weight!
I so appreciate Charlie's humility and transparency and being gracious enough to share his tips on minimizing alcohol. Such a healthy and open discussion which helps to challenge unhealthy societal stigmas and norms.
I remember being teased because I wouldn’t indulge in the workplace. During an event, PANIC! Super opportunity presented itself for the company! CEO grabbed me, we have been offered XXX, you talk to them, you are the only one that is sober, we have been drinking! Joan Armatrading once said WHY WOULD I DRINK? WHILE EVERYONE FOLLOWS THE CROWD, I HAVE WRITTEN TWO ALBUMS, AND BOUGHT ANOTHER HOME. 🏠 BE SMART, STAY SAFE.
My best friend's husband lost 2 brothers to alcohol. One was in his 40s. His other brother had a successful career, wife, kids, and he lost his career and his life to alcohol in his early 60s, about 4 years ago. The devastation it can cause leaves a legacy. He will never meet his grandchildren. So, Charlie, if anyone makes a deal over your non imbibing, then leave them in the rear view mirror.
@@AllsWell77 It also proves that it does not matter how successful one is financially. As my therapist said : the definition of success is to feel right health wise and do what makes you truly happy and bloom without having to feel the need to follow what others do or how they live their lives. Having a family does not mean happiness for all. Having money or higher educated is not happiness for all.
Charlie’s talk was so fascinating to listen to. It was great to hear how well he has done and that he has learned so much about himself. Well done to you both, that was a fantastic vlog (in all ways) x
Very well said Charlie I hubby listened to what you was saying about alcohol and he was exactly the same and gave up drink. This struck a cord with him and me as a partner of someone who just simply doesn't suit alcohol you keep speaking you're truth 10/10
Well done Charlie for your absolute honesty and kudos to you for dealing with it. I think a full video on this topic would be very helpful to a lot of your followers. I don’t have an issue with alcohol but was in a relationship for a long time with someone who did have and it was very hard so well done to you Josie for being supportive its not easy ❤
I find Charlie talking about his experience with alcohol so interesting, I would love to see a full sit down video one day! It's a topic I find myself thinking about a lot when I'm out or talking to others currently that are going through dry January.
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Congratulations, Charlie, on 5 years sober. My husband is 5+ years as well. He quit cold turkey as he had a problem. He went to AA with his buddy; neither is religious, but he found that that was helpful when you broke off with fellow people in the group to chat. He hasn't gone in a couple of years, as he has focused on Scuba Diving. I had incredible parents; both were alcoholics. My father had significant accomplishments, but I was most proud of him for his 50 years of sobriety. BTW, addictions can be familiar; I never drank. Everyone has their own journey, but a vlog on your channel would be very useful.
God bless you Charlie for healthy choices and discipline. My husband was alcoholic for many years before he got wise and stopped with God’s help, Lots of prayers and discipline. So important for you to share your successful life choices with others.
Thank you Charlie for being honest and vulnerable. Pretty sure everyone loves a Charlie rant. 😊 and I never had seen any videos until the Christmas vlog and I have to say all of these after are just my absolute favorite!
Well done Charlie. I’m now sober, it’s a hard journey getting sober. I just say if someone asks why I don’t drink., it makes me sick doesn’t agree with me. I don’t drink non alcoholic drinks.I am an alcoholic. One drink I’m all appointments cancelled. Keep going.
Love Charlie so much for his morals and humility. Never criticising but always humble and speaking the truth. If I was an alcoholic, I would stop drinking after listening to what he had to say.
Wow, Charlie is such a respectable man. I never heard it explained this way, I really appreciate his take on drinking and not drinking. Lifestyles changes, etc.
Thank you Charlie & Josie for sharing your experience with alcohol. It’s so important to hear stories like yours, especially from people who seem to have a perfect life because it shows that struggles with alcohol can affect anyone. Your honesty about being the life of the party one night and the bull the next is something many have experienced themselves or through someone they know. Josie, it would be lovely to hear more about how you navigated that time-so many people in relationships face the fear of not knowing which version of their partner they'll get when drinking, along with the social embarrassment and heartbreak of seeing their loved one act out of character. Thank you both again for being so open. Much Love, Gillian x
Thanks SO much to Charlie for is openness & honestly re: his "journey". He's such a gem❤ I think we all have someone in our families that are struggling in one way or another with alcohol/addictions😥Segway....that Lasagna looks amazing!!!
I agree with Charlie. Giving up something should be done when YOU feel ready to do so and at your own timing-that is the only way you will succeed and stick to it. Some people whether it is quitting drinking, smoking etc, cannot taper down, they have to do so cold turkey and never go back to it. Others need to taper down, it is down to the individual and their personality. I salute Charlie for quitting and still having booze around him--WELL DONE!
Charlie's sharing about his sobriety journey is so valuable! I quit drinking a few years back just cause I found I got nothing out of it, and I agree the stigma can be so frustrating sometimes! People can be so judgemental and it's frustrating having to defend yourself...I think the more we discuss it the more this stigma goes away :)
Charlie, that was such a revelation on your part and well done for speaking about it. I split with my partner, a man I love very much, because of binge drinking and it making him aggressive. Unfortunately, he would regress every six or seven months and it is the saddest family disease in the world, in my opinion. It affects everyone in the family. You have done so well in your recovery … and discussing it so openly was very brave, as it’s a disease that is so often hidden as you said. I want to express my thanks for sharing your experience with us and congratulations on your 5 years of sobriety. ❤
I'm so sorry to hear that but you're wise to break off the relationship - my own father was often aggressive when drunk and it made my childhood very unhappy. Unfortunately he never accepted that he had a problem....
I am 10 years sober. No issues, but alcoholism runs in my family and seeing it firsthand scared me. I applaud Charlie speaking so candidly about this subject. I’m at the point where I openly state I don’t drink alcohol without giving a reason. I have other issues to confront in 2025 and welcome the positivity of your channel.
I really enjoyed hearing Charlie’s journey with alcohol. My Dad passed away due to alcoholism 2 years ago so it’s something I always think about. I drink most weekends and it’s becoming much more of a habit than it used to be but like Charlie says I never wake up and need it. More of an evening or weekend thing. I have tried doing dry January but haven’t succeeded so would love to hear more from him xx
I have an added respect and a great deal of appreciation for you. We all have our struggles, so no one has the right to judge another. As a 64 year old mother of 5 grown children, I so appreciate you sharing this with us. Keep up the positive outlook and you will continue to see great things coming your way. Please allow me to say that I love both you and Josie, and I certainly learn quite a bit from you guys.
Thank you so much to Charlie for the open and refreshing chat about alcohol, and to you both for the honest comments regarding conflict it has presented in the past for your relationship. This is such relatable content and so appreciated. I find the wider movement to being alcohol free that we're seeing now both energising and fascinating. I have never enjoyed alcohol and it has ironically made my life much harder and more lonely. I have struggled with forming friendships, family relationships, dating, romantic relationships and networking for my career. This new direction with alcohol is one positive in the world that gives me hope for the future for my 12 month old daughter. I will certainly be keeping my eyes peeled for Charlies video on this. Xxx
First of all, I must say you are very down to earth and real. This is the first time I have commented, I am very glad that you have addressed this issue about drinking and I’m glad your husband has shared his struggles and I APPLAUD him. I hope you have young followers and they can see it’s cool to be sober.
I loved the Charlie "rant" which was not a rant. 😀 Something I've noticed here in Canada at least, is that alcohol is often treated like it's part of "self-care" for women. You've worked hard all day, so take a hot bath with that glass of wine. You deserve it. Unfortunately, I don't think it's serving women at all and it gives a false sense that alcohol is good for your health. There are delicious non-alcoholic wines out there to be enjoyed that have the health benefits of the grape without the health negatives from the alcohol. It's great to see so many of these n/a wine options becoming more available these days - like on cruise ships for example. It's available - you just have to ask!
Thank you Charlie for being open and honest sharing that with a lot of people. I am exactly the same, I had my time with alcohol and decided I didn’t like who I was or could be when I drank , I don’t drink and I actually find it really bizarre when people ask me why I DONT as opposed to well why DO YOU ? It’s simply poison?? Not sure why people think that’s a question to ask anyone actually it does annoy me. Another reason someone may not be drinking can be various reasons but for fertility etc so I think it’s very odd when people have to ask why etc BIG massive problems for women and the comment ‘are you pregnant’ its ridiculous!!!! Thank you for sharing and yes it needs to become more normal!!!❤
Well done Charlie ❤ 5 years is amazing . Having a dear friend who is a alcoholic and now in liver failure,people do not realise it’s a disease! You really are a kind thoughtful and honest person ❤
Big hugs to you from the snow in Iceland..Love your vlog so much. So good to hear from Charlie and so helpful for so many who are struggeling. Thank you.
Well done Charlie! Loved to hear all of your tips for transitioning to a freer/healthier life without alcohol. And a very special shout out to Josie as well. As someone who was partnered with an individual who had an alcohol problem, I know all too well how taxing that can be on the partner. Great job, both!
A homey, newsy vlog thank you. I hope England got through the storm with no damage. New Zealand had a tornado a few days ago and affected residents said that it has created carnage in the 15 seconds it took to pass over their homes. This is not normal for our country. Doctors here are starting to say no amount of alcohol is safe so anything Charlie shares with people struggling with it in this community will be of benefit to them.
Charlie you are so authentic, thank you for being you.. My father and uncle died of alcohol years ago. Because of growing up with alcohol all around me i chose never to decades ago.
I buy frozen chopped onion and it’s so cheap and no more tears. Also I buy a tube of crushed garlic and store in fridge for when there’s little time or no fresh garlic on hand.
May God keep you both healthy you are to be commended for all your courage to stand up and admit that life has its ups and downs and not everything one sees it’s perfect but never the less they are people who learned from the past it’s a wonderful thing to see a young man like Charlie doing good and sharing his experiences with others thank you be proud of yourselves big or small it’s life
Well done Charlie , it takes strength to talk about this subject. I think many people are allergic to alcohol, it doesn't agree with them/ their body , but it is still hard to give up . Because of you , many people will feel less alone in their choice to not drink alcohol . Alcohol is not for everyone , and no one should make fun of / make people feel less than , for not wanting to drink alcohol. You should be so proud of yourself . Your words will help so many on their journey. 👍
I very much loved the mini alcohol free chat, and look forward to Charlies full video. As A very light drinker and a partner that struggles with addiction I find these conversations very eye opening and helpful! Hearing people's stories and advice they give helps people create empathy for others, and selfishly the more it's normalized the less people will nagg me about not drinking?
Charlie, kudos to you for your honesty. Binge drinking is most definitely an issue in the states as well. There is an easy answer to abstaining if someone questions you - just saying you are allergic to alcohol and it makes you very sick. No more explanation needed.
Charlie, thank you for sharing your journey so eloquently. You are an inspiration! The US surgeon General has issued a health warning of the cancer risks of alcohol. You are ahead of the curve. I would enjoy any alternative / mocktail recipes you have.
Well done Charlie for talking about your journey with alcohol. You will be helping a lot of people by being open about this. Problems with alcohol are in all sectors of society and some will need professional help AA are a marvellous organisation for those who need that extra support Stay well, stay sober
Congratulations to Charlie. It's nice to hear that he 5 year clear from drinking. Proud you guy. THINK YOUR SAVING A LOT OF MONEY. SMART MAN AND HEATHLY ONE..😊❤
I had the same problem, could not stop after 1 drink. 2 years sober now 😊 it is actually so much easier to not drink anymore instead of trying every time to only drink 1 or 2, it took so much energy and I was always dissapointed in myself after failing. I don’t miss alcohol, there is life after alcohol. I love myself and my life more so much more now. Loves to hear charlies story, we are not alone ❤️
I’ve never cared for alcoholic beverages and it’s truly easier to order tasty mocktails that are healthy and thirst quenching. I love that you’re being open & honest about your journey of taking better care of yourself, Charlie.
Spending a cozy day with you both . . . how lovely! I always appreciate your integrity, authenticity & down to earth approach to your journey! I always learn such interesting things! 🤗💪🙏🏻
Congratulations on your journey Charlie. My husband is an alcoholic and has been sober for over 40 years now. He said after he was sober that "one beer was too many and 40 wasn't enough". Some friends were lost after he got sober, but that is okay. However, he is in a much better place. When he is asked "would you like a drink?" He just says, "no, I am an alcoholic and I have been sober for a very long time.". I am so proud of him. Well done. You are so right, talking about it can and does help people in the same position. That is a great thing!
Amazing. Congratulations Charlie - really fantastic and a real inspiration to young men (and women) everywhere. Thank you for your honesty. Gorgeous vlog as always.
Gorgeous outfits on your trip to London. Your fur babies are looking divine with their healthy food and snacks. Thank you Charlie for your honesty and Congratulations on your journey of no alcohol. Yummy banana bread muffins. I can totally relate to chopping onions and veg and I have started to freeze mine also, more convenient that way. Lasagna looks delicious. Thank you for sharing. ❤
Very good to share a very real situation in which many are suffering from. Especially in the broken world we live in in which there is so much misery and misunderstanding even in our modern world. It is the human nature to judge , it is also a sign of lack of intelligence socially. We need more people to talk about actual facts and actual problems especially with social medias being filled with only what people want others to see. The reality is very painful or was very painful often. Your body your choice. One life that belongs to you.
I’m just in the beginning part of your video and I have to say your makeup around the eyes. I don’t know why today but it really just looks fantastic. Whatever you put on the lids with that little shimmer is perfection. Looks really great and I love the sweater over the dress.
I’ve stopped drinking over 14 months ago due to cardiac health reasons. I thought it would be difficult but to be honest it’s been fine. I’m 54 and reside in Australia but to be honest if I was younger perhaps it would have been more difficult particularly as you say in social situations. I agree Charlie I’m finding there are more and more nonalcoholic drink options when out at good restaurants which has provided me with more options particularly in a social setting. Thank you so much Charlie for being so sincere and sharing your journey thus far. This will undoubtedly inspire and help others who may also be struggling with alcohol dependency issues or cannot drink for other reasons🙏 ❤
I have a son who is 22, a senior in college and an athlete and he has never had alcohol and has no desire to try it. He is his college teammates designated driver and he has no desire to ever try it. He has access and has been offered, but he just says, I don't drink. So proud of him.
Why do parents who tend to be so competitive tend to feel the need to mention '' my son who is a academic student top of his class who has never done anything bad in his life '' Her husband is talking about a very real struggle, so your whole insensitive comment about your son being perfect ( which btw is bull ) keep it to your fantasy land.
@@--M--1111 that's a bit nasty - she never said her son was perfect, maybe it's easier for him as he doesn't desire it but he clearly isn't judgemental as he's prepared to be the designated driver for his team mates who do drink. That is a good guy.
Dexter & Dickens make me smile so hard - they are just the sweetest! Love the garden joy! Enjoy joining you on your trips to London. How superb! Thank you for sharing! 🐶🐶
Ps. I always chop several veggies at once then freeze them, Josie. I also pre-prep my cake and bread mixes, etc,and store them in zip-lock bags in the pantry. It makes a busy life so easy. ❤
Love seeing you and Charlie having a chat! My husband and I took on the mentality as well of, look how much we're saving by not buying booze and instead enjoying quality food! ❤
Hi Josie,always , a pleasure to see you!! I've got a new found admiration for Charlie;breaking/kicking a habit is never easy.Taking responsibility and ownership for that habit in front of thousands/millions,is even more dynamic!! I applaud Charlie for doing such bravely selfless act to help others who may be going through the same/similar situation!!I totally agree with Charlie:January is DRASTIC ,and even a bit ridiculous ,if you will;to just break free from a habit,you had succumb to,all year round!!Kudos,congratulations and a standing ovation in order for you Charlie;5 1/2 years soberity.....truly amazing!!
I love Charlie as a person and how far has he come with his alcohol journey and living a healthy lifestyle. Drunkenness is so humiliating for a person and close family members. Power to you Charlie
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Hi darlings - my GOODNESS I had so much trouble uploading this vlog so thank you for your patience! Hopefully worth the wait 🥰🐻 a cosy home vlog as we weather the storm, and a wonderful long chat with Charlie as he looks back on five years sober. Thank you for watching 🥰🥰🥰
Always worth the wait xx❤
I was bereft at not having the vlog to watch last night. I was concerned that something might have happened so very pleased to hear it was just a technical glitch.
Charlie's is so very eloquent and sincere when he explained about his sobriety. As a 66 year old woman who likes a glass or two of wine every night, I know I need to at least cut back on my drinking, not least of all because , despite intermittent fasting, I am finding it hard to lose the weight!
Thank you for sharing and being so real. It is appreciated. Congrats on being sober. 😊
Really commendable - Charlie thank you for your honesty. Good bloke 👍
So many indicators coming from the hierarchy in health, that alcohol is not good news. Quite a journey Charlie.
I so appreciate Charlie's humility and transparency and being gracious enough to share his tips on minimizing alcohol. Such a healthy and open discussion which helps to challenge unhealthy societal stigmas and norms.
Almost a year alcohol free and hearing Charlie talking about this is so vulnerable and I appreciate him, so much.
Good for you, sending a hug.
Very interested in Charlie story. Very kind of him to share ❤ I’m sure everyone will appreciate his journey 😊
I remember being teased because I wouldn’t indulge in the workplace. During an event, PANIC! Super opportunity presented itself for the company! CEO grabbed me, we have been offered XXX, you talk to them, you are the only one that is sober, we have been drinking! Joan Armatrading once said WHY WOULD I DRINK? WHILE EVERYONE FOLLOWS THE CROWD, I HAVE WRITTEN TWO ALBUMS, AND BOUGHT ANOTHER HOME. 🏠 BE SMART, STAY SAFE.
I think it’s wonderful that Charlie is going to share his no alcohol journey. He should be very proud of himself👍🏼
So proud of Charlie ! I lost my brother to drinking. I know first hand the dangers. So impressed that he is so honest.
My best friend's husband lost 2 brothers to alcohol. One was in his 40s. His other brother had a successful career, wife, kids, and he lost his career and his life to alcohol in his early 60s, about 4 years ago. The devastation it can cause leaves a legacy. He will never meet his grandchildren. So, Charlie, if anyone makes a deal over your non imbibing, then leave them in the rear view mirror.
@@AllsWell77 It also proves that it does not matter how successful one is financially. As my therapist said : the definition of success is to feel right health wise and do what makes you truly happy and bloom without having to feel the need to follow what others do or how they live their lives. Having a family does not mean happiness for all. Having money or higher educated is not happiness for all.
Thank you to Charlie for sharing a little of his journey. I have huge respect for you 💕
I really respect Charlie being so honest about his journey with alcohol. Thank you so much
Charlie’s talk was so fascinating to listen to. It was great to hear how well he has done and that he has learned so much about himself. Well done to you both, that was a fantastic vlog (in all ways) x
Very well said Charlie I hubby listened to what you was saying about alcohol and he was exactly the same and gave up drink. This struck a cord with him and me as a partner of someone who just simply doesn't suit alcohol you keep speaking you're truth 10/10
Thank you to Charlie for sharing his story, and sharing what it’s like for a sober person in various social situations.
Charlie’s story is so inspiring! I also absolutely love how brutally honest he is. Respect! 🫶🏻
Well done Charlie for your absolute honesty and kudos to you for dealing with it. I think a full video on this topic would be very helpful to a lot of your followers. I don’t have an issue with alcohol but was in a relationship for a long time with someone who did have and it was very hard so well done to you Josie for being supportive its not easy ❤
I find Charlie talking about his experience with alcohol so interesting, I would love to see a full sit down video one day! It's a topic I find myself thinking about a lot when I'm out or talking to others currently that are going through dry January.
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Congratulations to Charlie and well done for supporting him Josie!
Well done Charlie love how honest you are ❤❤❤
Love when you and Charlie are just super honest! This is why I love your channel
Congratulations, Charlie, on 5 years sober. My husband is 5+ years as well. He quit cold turkey as he had a problem. He went to AA with his buddy; neither is religious, but he found that that was helpful when you broke off with fellow people in the group to chat. He hasn't gone in a couple of years, as he has focused on Scuba Diving. I had incredible parents; both were alcoholics. My father had significant accomplishments, but I was most proud of him for his 50 years of sobriety. BTW, addictions can be familiar; I never drank. Everyone has their own journey, but a vlog on your channel would be very useful.
Congratulations Charlie
Charlie is such an inspiration. I bet you are so proud of him. This is a real man!!! Doing what’s right for his family.
God bless you Charlie for healthy choices and discipline. My husband was alcoholic for many years before he got wise and stopped with God’s help, Lots of prayers and discipline. So important for you to share your successful life choices with others.
My brother is over 6 years sober and continues to be an inspiration daily ❤ well done on your journey and honesty
Thank you Charlie for being honest and vulnerable. Pretty sure everyone loves a Charlie rant. 😊 and I never had seen any videos until the Christmas vlog and I have to say all of these after are just my absolute favorite!
Well done Charlie. I’m now sober, it’s a hard journey getting sober. I just say if someone asks why I don’t drink., it makes me sick doesn’t agree with me. I don’t drink non alcoholic drinks.I am an alcoholic. One drink I’m all appointments cancelled. Keep going.
Love Charlie so much for his morals and humility. Never criticising but always humble and speaking the truth. If I was an alcoholic, I would stop drinking after listening to what he had to say.
Well done Charlie people should learn from you .really well done
Probably my favourite video I’ve ever watched bc of Charlie’s sobriety chat. Very close to my heart. Please please please make your video Charlie.
Wow, Charlie is such a respectable man. I never heard it explained this way, I really appreciate his take on drinking and not drinking. Lifestyles changes, etc.
Thank you Charlie & Josie for sharing your experience with alcohol. It’s so important to hear stories like yours, especially from people who seem to have a perfect life because it shows that struggles with alcohol can affect anyone. Your honesty about being the life of the party one night and the bull the next is something many have experienced themselves or through someone they know.
Josie, it would be lovely to hear more about how you navigated that time-so many people in relationships face the fear of not knowing which version of their partner they'll get when drinking, along with the social embarrassment and heartbreak of seeing their loved one act out of character. Thank you both again for being so open. Much Love, Gillian x
Thanks SO much to Charlie for is openness & honestly re: his "journey". He's such a gem❤ I think we all have someone in our families that are struggling in one way or another with alcohol/addictions😥Segway....that Lasagna looks amazing!!!
Congratulations on your recovery 🎀
I'm in hysterics watching you trying to get the cream cape on with a shower cap over your face! Genius idea but hilarious!
Charlie you are so honest and eloquent about your alcohol issue, I think you should definitely do a full vlog on it.
Good for you Charlie, I gave up alcohol 20years ago and I've never missed it
Such a joy to see you again !
You are both the most beautiful human beings
I agree with Charlie. Giving up something should be done when YOU feel ready to do so and at your own timing-that is the only way you will succeed and stick to it. Some people whether it is quitting drinking, smoking etc, cannot taper down, they have to do so cold turkey and never go back to it. Others need to taper down, it is down to the individual and their personality. I salute Charlie for quitting and still having booze around him--WELL DONE!
Charlie's sharing about his sobriety journey is so valuable! I quit drinking a few years back just cause I found I got nothing out of it, and I agree the stigma can be so frustrating sometimes! People can be so judgemental and it's frustrating having to defend yourself...I think the more we discuss it the more this stigma goes away :)
Charlie, that was such a revelation on your part and well done for speaking about it. I split with my partner, a man I love very much, because of binge drinking and it making him aggressive. Unfortunately, he would regress every six or seven months and it is the saddest family disease in the world, in my opinion. It affects everyone in the family. You have done so well in your recovery … and discussing it so openly was very brave, as it’s a disease that is so often hidden as you said. I want to express my thanks for sharing your experience with us and congratulations on your 5 years of sobriety. ❤
I'm so sorry to hear that but you're wise to break off the relationship - my own father was often aggressive when drunk and it made my childhood very unhappy. Unfortunately he never accepted that he had a problem....
I am 10 years sober. No issues, but alcoholism runs in my family and seeing it firsthand scared me. I applaud Charlie speaking so candidly about this subject. I’m at the point where I openly state I don’t drink alcohol without giving a reason. I have other issues to confront in 2025 and welcome the positivity of your channel.
I have such huge respect for you Charlie. Thank you so much for being so open and honest - I’m sure it will help a lot of people 🤍
Good testimony from Charlie. Me homeless 7 years drinking. Completely stopped 25 years now.
I really enjoyed hearing Charlie’s journey with alcohol. My Dad passed away due to alcoholism 2 years ago so it’s something I always think about. I drink most weekends and it’s becoming much more of a habit than it used to be but like Charlie says I never wake up and need it. More of an evening or weekend thing. I have tried doing dry January but haven’t succeeded so would love to hear more from him xx
I have an added respect and a great deal of appreciation for you. We all have our struggles, so no one has the right to judge another. As a 64 year old mother of 5 grown children, I so appreciate you sharing this with us. Keep up the positive outlook and you will continue to see great things coming your way. Please allow me to say that I love both you and Josie, and I certainly learn quite a bit from you guys.
Thank you so much to Charlie for the open and refreshing chat about alcohol, and to you both for the honest comments regarding conflict it has presented in the past for your relationship. This is such relatable content and so appreciated. I find the wider movement to being alcohol free that we're seeing now both energising and fascinating. I have never enjoyed alcohol and it has ironically made my life much harder and more lonely. I have struggled with forming friendships, family relationships, dating, romantic relationships and networking for my career. This new direction with alcohol is one positive in the world that gives me hope for the future for my 12 month old daughter. I will certainly be keeping my eyes peeled for Charlies video on this. Xxx
First of all, I must say you are very down to earth and real. This is the first time I have commented, I am very glad that you have addressed this issue about drinking and I’m glad your husband has shared his struggles and I APPLAUD him. I hope you have young followers and they can see it’s cool to be sober.
Love Charlie’s honesty juxxx
I loved the Charlie "rant" which was not a rant. 😀 Something I've noticed here in Canada at least, is that alcohol is often treated like it's part of "self-care" for women. You've worked hard all day, so take a hot bath with that glass of wine. You deserve it. Unfortunately, I don't think it's serving women at all and it gives a false sense that alcohol is good for your health. There are delicious non-alcoholic wines out there to be enjoyed that have the health benefits of the grape without the health negatives from the alcohol. It's great to see so many of these n/a wine options becoming more available these days - like on cruise ships for example. It's available - you just have to ask!
Thank you Charlie for being open and honest sharing that with a lot of people. I am exactly the same, I had my time with alcohol and decided I didn’t like who I was or could be when I drank , I don’t drink and I actually find it really bizarre when people ask me why I DONT as opposed to well why DO YOU ? It’s simply poison?? Not sure why people think that’s a question to ask anyone actually it does annoy me. Another reason someone may not be drinking can be various reasons but for fertility etc so I think it’s very odd when people have to ask why etc BIG massive problems for women and the comment ‘are you pregnant’ its ridiculous!!!!
Thank you for sharing and yes it needs to become more normal!!!❤
Love you, and Charlie is Epic!!! Hes a natural Legend and your a very very lucky lady to have such a genuine guy xx
Well done Charlie ❤ 5 years is amazing . Having a dear friend who is a alcoholic and now in liver failure,people do not realise it’s a disease!
You really are a kind thoughtful and honest person ❤
Worth the wait 🩷 and Charlie well done both my parents are recovering alcoholics 34 years sober and I chose not to ever drink 🩷
I appreciate Charlie’s honesty and willingness to share his journey,well done ❣️🇨🇦
Big hugs to you from the snow in Iceland..Love your vlog so much. So good to hear from Charlie and so helpful for so many who are struggeling. Thank you.
Well done Charlie! Loved to hear all of your tips for transitioning to a freer/healthier life without alcohol. And a very special shout out to Josie as well. As someone who was partnered with an individual who had an alcohol problem, I know all too well how taxing that can be on the partner. Great job, both!
A homey, newsy vlog thank you.
I hope England got through the storm with no damage. New Zealand had a tornado a few days ago and affected residents said that it has created carnage in the 15 seconds it took to pass over their homes. This is not normal for our country.
Doctors here are starting to say no amount of alcohol is safe so anything Charlie shares with people struggling with it in this community will be of benefit to them.
Charlie you are so authentic, thank you for being you.. My father and uncle died of alcohol years ago. Because of growing up with alcohol all around me i chose never to decades ago.
I buy frozen chopped onion and it’s so cheap and no more tears. Also I buy a tube of crushed garlic and store in fridge for when there’s little time or no fresh garlic on hand.
Charlie you’re amazing! ❤
A sober person myself with a long journey to get there - I would love to hear Charlie's testimony and about his development after becoming sober.
May God keep you both healthy you are to be commended for all your courage to stand up and admit that life has its ups and downs and not everything one sees it’s perfect but never the less they are people who learned from the past it’s a wonderful thing to see a young man like Charlie doing good and sharing his experiences with others thank you be proud of yourselves big or small it’s life
Charlie! Best contribution ever! So many of us turning down alcohol to protect our health. Thanks for the assist!!
Thank you for your transparency Charlie
Well done Charlie , it takes strength to talk about this subject. I think many people are allergic to alcohol, it doesn't agree with them/ their body , but it is still hard to give up . Because of you , many people will feel less alone in their choice to not drink alcohol . Alcohol is not for everyone , and no one should make fun of / make people feel less than , for not wanting to drink alcohol. You should be so proud of yourself . Your words will help so many on their journey. 👍
Well done Charlie on being so honest and upfront - lovely vlog as usual xx
Charlie, you are strong and courageous. I support you in your journey, one thousand percent.
I very much loved the mini alcohol free chat, and look forward to Charlies full video.
As A very light drinker and a partner that struggles with addiction I find these conversations very eye opening and helpful!
Hearing people's stories and advice they give helps people create empathy for others, and selfishly the more it's normalized the less people will nagg me about not drinking?
Thanks for the honesty Charlie ❤
Charlie, kudos to you for your honesty. Binge drinking is most definitely an issue in the states as well. There is an easy answer to abstaining if someone questions you - just saying you are allergic to alcohol and it makes you very sick. No more explanation needed.
Loved listening to Charlie being so honest and transparent, well done. X
Charlie, thank you for sharing your journey so eloquently. You are an inspiration! The US surgeon General has issued a health warning of the cancer risks of alcohol. You are ahead of the curve. I would enjoy any alternative / mocktail recipes you have.
Well done Charlie for talking about your journey with alcohol. You will be helping a lot of people by being open about this. Problems with alcohol are in all sectors of society and some will need professional help AA are a marvellous organisation for those who need that extra support
Stay well, stay sober
Congratulations to Charlie. It's nice to hear that he 5 year clear from drinking. Proud you guy. THINK YOUR SAVING A LOT OF MONEY. SMART MAN AND HEATHLY ONE..😊❤
I had the same problem, could not stop after 1 drink. 2 years sober now 😊 it is actually so much easier to not drink anymore instead of trying every time to only drink 1 or 2, it took so much energy and I was always dissapointed in myself after failing. I don’t miss alcohol, there is life after alcohol. I love myself and my life more so much more now. Loves to hear charlies story, we are not alone ❤️
I’ve never cared for alcoholic beverages and it’s truly easier to order tasty mocktails that are healthy and thirst quenching. I love that you’re being open & honest about your journey of taking better care of yourself, Charlie.
This was the least preachy Charlie talk I’ve seen. Actually enjoyed it. Good on you Charlie 👍🏻
Got to say well done Charlie! We’ll look forward to seeing that video.
Spending a cozy day with you both . . . how lovely! I always appreciate your integrity, authenticity & down to earth approach to your journey! I always learn such interesting things! 🤗💪🙏🏻
Congratulations on your journey Charlie. My husband is an alcoholic and has been sober for over 40 years now. He said after he was sober that "one beer was too many and 40 wasn't enough". Some friends were lost after he got sober, but that is okay. However, he is in a much better place. When he is asked "would you like a drink?" He just says, "no, I am an alcoholic and I have been sober for a very long time.". I am so proud of him.
Well done.
You are so right, talking about it can and does help people in the same position. That is a great thing!
Well done Charlie for your openness it's such a brave and frank thing to do and should never be an issue
Thank you for the cosy blog Josie 😊
I'm here for Kitchen Table Talk with Charlie! This was so open, and I appreciate him for this
love charlie so much x
Amazing. Congratulations Charlie - really fantastic and a real inspiration to young men (and women) everywhere. Thank you for your honesty. Gorgeous vlog as always.
I think that "Chats with Charlie" should be a regular thing. I love hearing his perspectives on so many topics!
Gorgeous outfits on your trip to London.
Your fur babies are looking divine with their healthy food and snacks.
Thank you Charlie for your honesty and Congratulations on your journey of no alcohol.
Yummy banana bread muffins.
I can totally relate to chopping onions and veg and I have started to freeze mine also, more convenient that way.
Lasagna looks delicious.
Thank you for sharing. ❤
Very good to share a very real situation in which many are suffering from. Especially in the broken world we live in in which there is so much misery and misunderstanding even in our modern world. It is the human nature to judge , it is also a sign of lack of intelligence socially. We need more people to talk about actual facts and actual problems especially with social medias being filled with only what people want others to see. The reality is very painful or was very painful often. Your body your choice. One life that belongs to you.
I’m just in the beginning part of your video and I have to say your makeup around the eyes. I don’t know why today but it really just looks fantastic. Whatever you put on the lids with that little shimmer is perfection. Looks really great and I love the sweater over the dress.
As always a wonderful vlog. Thank you for the inspiration!
Oh love you Charlie.
Aww Josie, I just love Charlie ❤❤❤❤
Being human and real is always a public service. Thank you.
❤ thank you Charlie for your courage to share a very personal issue
I’ve stopped drinking over 14 months ago due to cardiac health reasons. I thought it would be difficult but to be honest it’s been fine. I’m 54 and reside in Australia but to be honest if I was younger perhaps it would have been more difficult particularly as you say in social situations. I agree Charlie I’m finding there are more and more nonalcoholic drink options when out at good restaurants which has provided me with more options particularly in a social setting. Thank you so much Charlie for being so sincere and sharing your journey thus far. This will undoubtedly inspire and help others who may also be struggling with alcohol dependency issues or cannot drink for other reasons🙏 ❤
I have a son who is 22, a senior in college and an athlete and he has never had alcohol and has no desire to try it. He is his college teammates designated driver and he has no desire to ever try it. He has access and has been offered, but he just says, I don't drink. So proud of him.
Why do parents who tend to be so competitive tend to feel the need to mention '' my son who is a academic student top of his class who has never done anything bad in his life '' Her husband is talking about a very real struggle, so your whole insensitive comment about your son being perfect ( which btw is bull ) keep it to your fantasy land.
@@--M--1111 that's a bit nasty - she never said her son was perfect, maybe it's easier for him as he doesn't desire it but he clearly isn't judgemental as he's prepared to be the designated driver for his team mates who do drink. That is a good guy.
Very proud of Charlie and very brave of him to tell about his journey 👏 ❤
Dexter & Dickens make me smile so hard - they are just the sweetest! Love the garden joy! Enjoy joining you on your trips to London. How superb! Thank you for sharing!
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Ps. I always chop several veggies at once then freeze them, Josie. I also pre-prep my cake and bread mixes, etc,and store them in zip-lock bags in the pantry. It makes a busy life so easy. ❤
Love seeing you and Charlie having a chat!
My husband and I took on the mentality as well of, look how much we're saving by not buying booze and instead enjoying quality food! ❤
Hi Josie,always , a pleasure to see you!! I've got a new found admiration for Charlie;breaking/kicking a habit is never easy.Taking responsibility and ownership for that habit in front of thousands/millions,is even more dynamic!! I applaud Charlie for doing such bravely selfless act to help others who may be going through the same/similar situation!!I totally agree with Charlie:January is DRASTIC ,and even a bit ridiculous ,if you will;to just break free from a habit,you had succumb to,all year round!!Kudos,congratulations and a standing ovation in order for you Charlie;5 1/2 years soberity.....truly amazing!!
I love Charlie as a person and how far has he come with his alcohol journey and living a healthy lifestyle. Drunkenness is so humiliating for a person and close family members. Power to you Charlie
Just realness Charlie, it’s appreciated 💕
Thanks for sharing