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how I BOUNCED BACK after FAILING the *most important* exam as a NURSING STUDENT
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- Опубликовано: 1 авг 2024
- this was a very intense vlog to say the least for me. My first time sharing something so personal to me.. especially that of a failure... it's a setback a very hard one.. but i'm pushing forward. life doesnt end here because of an exam i flopped. I got many more opportunities to prove myself but that cant happen if i don't prepare the way i need to. This year 2024, i will have my routine strong, be intentional friend, bf, family member, etc and I will get my life back together.
For those that may also be struggling with setback or failure of any kind, just know that you ARE NOT ALONE. I am in this with you and we will get out of it tgoether.
But anyways I'm glad i also got to start the year off with a new apt, a new journaling habit, and just a new chapter. Lets keep this year going strong guys!
You and I together ❤️
00:00 - intro
00:25 - getting up 🛌
01:55 - my exam results 📜
04:09 - my dad’s support 👨
05:31- apt tours 🏠
06:46 - cafe/study ☕️📚
08:05 - meeting my texas friend 🤠
9:28 - study 📚
11:19 - new library cafe ☕️
13:03 - journaling 📝
15:15 - getting apt keys 🔑
16:26 - making dinner 🥘
17:04 - study 📚
19:04 - eating authentic korean food
20:04 - making kimchi
20:47 - cleaning new apt
22:15 - recap
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You hit 1m on RUclips and fell in love along with completing a very accelerated nursing program. Give yourself grace, you’re spending your time in a very worthy way. You absolutely have it in you to pass the NCLEX this time!! Your vulnerability is inspiring and also a superpower - it makes you such a good content creator and will also make you a great nurse.
Omg this was the most truest thing I’ve read in a while. I think I forget A lot of time that it’s important to give myself grace and patience and that I did come far! It’s ok to have set back sometimes too. Thank you for reminding me of these things ❤
That's how you succeed!!! We fail even if it's 2 times ... Hard work pays off ❤
It's okay to fail, the only thing is to never give up and lose hope.
I’m never quitting let’s DO THIS🎉
@@Hwaniieecouldnt be me
Distraction
I failed 3 times, i lost money to reviews that never helped but the major thing is that l've not lost hope.
So sorry to hear you guys complain deeply of failing the exam. But I will assure you that NGN nclex exam won't be a problem to you anymore, if you work with someone like Mrs ELISABETH HELEN. She help me through my exam and I made it through.
I knew a nursing lecturer who failed their human biology test two times and passed the third time. She’s one of the most amazing nurses I’ve ever met! You’ve got this and I’d trust you as my nurse!
This Honestly is so beautiful to read ❤❤
We went to the same testing center and date, just different timeslot. I passed the exam this time but it took me the 4th time to pass. I graduated in 2020 and have been failing my NCLEX 3 times, ever since that time. It's hard to get back up and felt left out each time but if you have the drive and motivation, nothing is impossible. Everything at the right time. I wish you all the best and luck, future RN ❤
OMG that’s literally so perseverent on your end!! You’re amazing and so strong❤
I'm glad you're bouncing back and failure is a big part of success. I don't mean this to be rude or anything but focusing on this more is probably more helpful. You're doing a lot of things at once.
You’re right maybe I’m trying to juggle too much 😢
@@HwaniieeYou should not really put yourself in that much situations you should prob care some things about yourself just take your time studying and revising then you can prob passed.
Failing is a big part of learning, so don't worry! You'll learn from your mistakes next time and do better, we're all here to support you :)
I love this community thank you so much❤
@@Hwaniiee No problem!! I know you can do this, just keep practicing and I know it will work out! I can just tell you're gonna be an amazing nurse, all the best wishes to you.
At the end of the day. Passing the NCLEX is for you. The test does not define you. You’ll pass it, you’re motivated. You will find your niche once you gain experience on the floor.That will be your moment to shine!!!
I’ve been a nurse close to a decade now and I love what I do. Good luck!!!!
Gotta listen to the veteran in the field then❤
Am from India and I just got my result for my CA final exams and i failed too. That too am the only one who didn't pass among my friends and peers . It's been hard couple of days in bed crying over and over but honestly watching your vlog makes me want to get up from bed and try again and not give up. It feels comforting that am not alone in this and it's also not the end of the world .We can try again but Better and wiser this time.Thank you so much
kai❤
It’s hard but we’ll go through it togehter ❤❤
Maybe it was about the learning techniques you used. I didn't get the best results in my last exams and now I looked up techniques on RUclips like using flash cards online and so on. I do have exams soon, so let's hope using another learning technique will give me better grades this time 😅 just wanted to say that and that I believe in you, you got this! 😊
@@kimj2350 I really needed this today . Thank you. That's so kind of you 🙂
@@Daami9701 Thank you for letting me know and no worries at all!:) We've got this 💪
You got this ❤
Never doubt yourself as a student or future nurse. Many people don’t pass the exam the first time, and it definitely doesn’t mean you won’t be an amazing compassionate nurse. You were juggling a lot of different jobs in addition to studying for boards. What helped me pass the exam was doing mark klimek’s nclex review course along with hurst review in addition to the uworld question bank. Klimek and hurst taught me how to approach answering questions while uworld was good for practice. I tried not to focus on the importance of the exam and view it just as any other exam while I was actually taking the nclex to decrease my anxiety. I know it is a setback not passing boards the first time but at the end of the day you will you get the same license and same job opportunities. No one will ever ask you in an interview how many questions did you pass the nclex in or how many times you took the exam.
That’s a good point. As long as I pass I’m in the clear!! And you’re right what kind of interviewer would do that 😂
Kai so many amazing nurses failed their NCLEX. I know people I graduated with who failed 3 times before finally passing. It isn’t a testament of how smart you are or how great of a nurse you’ll be. I remember getting so frustrated and discouraged every time I got a Kaplan question wrong. Just remember that once you pass, you’ll never have to deal with it again!!! (Until grad school 😅) you’ve got this ❤❤
Glad it doesn’t have to define my future abilities as a nurse. Thank you for reminding me of this ❤
Not even in grad school - then it is mostly papers. DNP to be here, and BSN faculty at a uni.
Having done two bachelor degrees, i have learnt that exams are just an institutional way of testing who is good at school. The real test is the work, handling the people, caring and treating them. The motivation behind the work and the empathy while doing the work.
Failing an exam does NOT mean you cannot do the job. Keep going, practice how to take the exam and train your stamina. You got this! 👍💪
I love this thank youuu❤❤❤
Hello Kai. I am a spanish nurse. In case of Spain, it is 4 years of universitary studies to obtain a nursing degree. The studies are hard, as they combine practices in hispitals and classes, with study at home. Do not despair. We've all been through that. Believe in yourself. In the exam, read the entire content of the questions very well, and underline what is important in each question. Cheer up future nurse!
I cried when you read your Dad's text😭❤ I struggled so much in Nursing School. I had to retake 2 classes.Thank you for your vulnerability admitting that you failed. We need to be humble and help each other in this profession. You are going to be a great nurse! You have worked so hard! You got this Kai, You are going to pass, I believe in you!!
It's okay to fail, the only thing is to never lose hope and never give up. You can do it!
I needed this ❤
Positivity ❤ you got this! I’ve been a neonatal ICU nurse for almost 25 years. Several of my classmates had to retest… but we didn’t quit!
A small tip: don’t say u are going to study, it makes u NOT want tot study, just go for it, do the questions and each and everyday no matter how many questions u work on, no matter how many questions u fail, it is all PROGRESS. U are doing great. No successful person hasn’t failed. If they say they have never failed, they have never succeeded either
I’m a nurse from uk and when I trained we didn’t have a test like that, remember though you’ve taken a shortened nursing course at masters level. Degree nurses have years longer to learn and study for it. Keep going, like you’ve said for now, less socialising and just intense study. Good luck 🤞
You’re so close! Don’t give up Kai! Your dad did give sound advice about the best doctors, nurses, etc. not passing their tests the first try. A test doesn’t determine your passion for the field, it just measures how well you can recall information. Keep going!
I AM SOO CLOSE❤❤
watching this video felt so relieving. i didn’t do so well on my teas and felt like it was the end of the world but now im trying to think of things differently! i hope you take time for yourself and don’t rush the healing process. good luck with your next attempt you got this!!
I have failed this, more then 3 times and my emotions go in waves, i think passing Nclex is not meant for people like me 😭 😢 😕 😐 😔 💔 😭 😢 😕 😐 😔
I also failed on my 3rd attempt just last week. Its ridiculous, I've been studying and its all for nothing😢😭
I feel your frustration.The feeling of failing after putting in hours of work is heartbreaking. I go for RN 4th attempt next week. I'm scared as hell. But i will not let this test win. I know i am capable 😌 💯 🙂
Frustration is a very positive sign. It means that the solution to your problem is within range, but what you're currently doing isn't working, and you need to change your approach in order to achieve your goal.
@ very correct
I studied with my cousin, but she spent more time on her phone than studying. Despite this, she passed the NCLEX test while I failed. When I asked her how she did it, I found out that she received help from Mr Richard.
Please does anyone know who this Mr Richard is? I really need to speak with him l'm frustrated
The only time you truly fail is when you rob yourself of the opportunity to try. I'm glad that you haven't let this discourage you and never question your capabilities. You are smart and very hardworking. That's something a standardized test can't take away from you. 👏🏾 I believe in you Kai !
NCLEX round 2 - here we come 🥳🥳
ROUND 2 let’s goooo
@@Hwaniiee 🥳🥳
Your Dad's message was really touching ❤️!
Your dad's message to you is pure love. He loves you and so proud of you. HWAITING!!!!
"Never be ashamed of struggle. There is no shame in working hard to get to where you want to be." !! Thank you for being transparent and sharing your story. It is okay not to be perfect.
I loved watching your vlog while cooking. I really appreciate your humor.
And your dad's message is so encouraging, you're so lucky to have your parents to support you.
happy 2024 Kai !! I’m sorry you didn’t pass the exam, but I’m super glad you’re not letting your mistakes define you and you’re pushing through so you can pass it this time :)
I totally get the struggle with balancing school and life, and I can’t even imagine trying to film on top of that. thank you for always keeping us updated but feel free to take as much time off as you need so you can do well. like you said, none of us are perfect but it’s the motivation that counts :)
Cant stop when I have you guys supporting my way thru it!!
You’re doing great! I know you will continue to do great in your nursing program and from what I can see you have a beautiful support system!❤️
You did great! You tried and you did your best. I’m glad you still have a good spirit and are trying harder than before! I want to be a nurse as well ever since I was a child and I look up to you and admire your study effort and how even know you failed you will do better after you try again!
You've got this, Kai!!! Thank you for being so open and sharing this with everyone.
Thank you guys for the amazing support and love ❤
kai, dont worry! you got this the next time :) keep your head up, the nclex exam will always be there and sooner than you think, you’ll pass with flying colors on your way into a promising career!! ❤
With promising career I love that ❤❤
0:24 just btw your tattoos looked SO good in that moment I love them so much. Also I’m really proud of you for not giving up! It’s super inspiring and I know you can do it!
That was such a sweet message from your dad! Asian dads may be harsh but when they’re supportive it’s really heartwarming 🥹
You got this! The NCLEX isn't easy at all. I'm got about a year left into my nursing program and it is rough, but don't give up. Failure isn't what determines your success. I'm sure you're a wonderful nurse and its going to show! Put your 100% and you can pass, you'll do great! Take the time you need to study also take a break every now and then too. Personally I think the best thing you can do is remind yourself you got this far, there is no giving up now. You can only go up from here. Wishing you the best :)
Going through a very similar moment as you right now. It sucks but we’ll pass this next time. Your dad’s message legit made me cry 😭💓
Keep your spirits up and stay motivated! You can and will do it!
Hello Kai! thank you very much for sharing your exam results, I was happy just to see the video announcement. When I saw it and you said you failed I thought I hope you don't get discouraged because next time you will surely do better, besides an exam does not in any way measure the ability of a professional and you have all the potential to be an excellent nurse in the future. I love that you have the passion and desire to help young people with acne and skin care and I am sure that in the future you will be able to fulfill that beautiful purpose.👏✨ Cheer up dear Kai, I encourage you from a distance 💪🔥🫡🫂
You guys make me want to share it!!’ So supportive ❤
Don't worry bae better luck next time keep working hard and study hard also take care about you and we are always here with you so fr don't worry
wow, its hard to share failure, it just shows the amount of self confidence and perseverance you have. you got this far, im 100% sure you can achieve whatever you put your mind to. thank you for sharing this, and know that we are all rooting for you!
I love how positive you are about this as you should. Its OK to feel like this but you know you have to believe in yourself and I believe in you. You go long way! :)
Kai I have full faith that you'll pass the exam next time and you should too. Just remember that success is not final; failure is not fatal, it is the courage to continue that counts. You've got this! keep going!💗💗
Failure is not fatal I love that 😊
Thank you for sharing this video!!
I’m so afraid to fail my exams but you showed me that it’s okey to fail and I’m not alone!!
Hey, stay strong nursing is a very stressful course just be happy and put yourself first. I remember taking my licensing exam last year and it was a horrible time in my life. I wish you well as you retake the test. Success and hope to hear great news
I just love the way you share everything with us...how sweet of you..❤😊
Hey Kai I just subscribed to your RUclips channel today I gotta say your a great guy keep up the great work and pursue your nursing career and RUclips career there’s more amazing adventures becoming your way near the future ❤
Success is built on failures. By failing we learn how to improve. Staying persistent and keep moving forward is what I tell myself. You got this and you will succeed!
Your videos have been really helpful and love how transparent and genuine you are. I'm at a stage of my life where I discovered a new passion, and I plan to go back to school. It's been a challenge and I'm currently working on getting the pre-requistes to meet the admission requirements. 6 more weeks of grinding before I take my test.
Giving the exam again in a way makes you have the experience once which means you kinda know the situation inside the exam hall more than you did before I'm sure it's only going to help in some or the other way :)) All the best for everything ❤🍀🪄 you got this ! As small as it could be every step counts!! Just keep going💪🏻💪🏻✨
You got it! Don't give up! We are all rooting for you.
Hi , There’s only one sentence to say don’t give up , you have got a heart of gold and a mind so bright you will get there in the end and you be a Fantastic Nurse and more so just keep trying take care of yourself. Xx💕💕🤗🤗xx
Good luck with your exam. You'll pass, for sure! I'm with you on the shoe thing. I actually bought disposable slippers for visitors. My friends automatically take their shoes off.
I moved to NJ from Topeka (fellow Midwesterner). And I worked in lower Manhattan. HATED IT! Then the Flatiron District and I just loved the city. It’s so pricey to live there but if you have help at first it’s doable.
Enjoy your 20s and don’t ever say, ‘I failed’. Keep your head up and be alive. And know that you won’t always have obstacles to achieving your dreams.
Hey!!
I know you are fully motivated and I just wanna say to you if ever in this journey you feel things tough.. just remember universe is pulling you behind because it wants to aim you higher ( ref. if you ever played angry bird/launching games you always stretch the string hard so they launch high).. things going to be best because you are not giving up..
BTW I too have my exam in a week and I'm quite nervous bt I know if not this then next... I have a lot potential..
Lots of love and support❤
Fighting!!
Honestly the one who falls and gets up is stronger than the one who never tried
Don't let this small setbacks stop you. you have got bigger place to be
you got this!!
fighting!!!!!
Fightingggg🎉🎉🎉
no WAYY!! I'm commenting in advance but I've been waiting to hear the results!!! I start nursing in March all I hear it is OK to not PASS like it sucks but it's ok (not ideal) I hope I pass the N-CLEX. You got this buddy!!
Kai, with perseverance and effort you will pass the exam the next time you take it. I send you lots of good energy. ✨
Go for it! ❤
Thank you! Will do!😎😎
U world helped me! Doesn’t matter, just take it again when u ready! You will do it!
Hi Kai!! Thank you for sharing your experience! Taking Nclex is not easy especially all the preparations you have to make to take the exam. However I admire your motivation and dedication! You are right, you just have to get back to your momentum, if studying gets too much try to take a break or do it the next day. I passed my NCLEx last year on my first try but I studied intensely for a whole month before taking my exam. I used Archer and Remar Review. I was also the same with practice questions getting 50s but as long as you understand and read the rationale you will be fine. I have faith you will pass on the next one!🙏🏼 You can do it!!! 💪🏼
Really love the positivity😇
Also , congratulations on your new apartment ❤️☺️ I swear there's nothing like your own space. Definitely major !
I am sorry to hear this but remember that testing does not always reflect the knowledge you have. You can do it! Keep your main focus on preparing for the next time you take the test, you may need to put some endeavors on the back burner for a little while and come back to them later. I took the test 30 years ago but I remember the pressure when it came to test time so clearly. You’ve got this, I believe in you. I will look forward to the day when I can call you my fellow R.N. !
Yeah dont be sad and dont give up we support you ❤❤ 😊😊
So proud how you took failure and took it as a challenge instead of quitting! Loved how you realized the reason you failed and instead of making excuses , you choose to fix those and work extra hard man! Super proud of you , rooting you for killing the exam brooo love you ❤❤❤
Don’t worry Kai , you got this ❤️
Those tests are extremely difficult. Take it again until you pass. ❤ You got this.
WILL do😊😊
bro ur young you got time to be whatever you want to be but thats coming from someone that lives in the hood so take ur time you doing way better than me and alot 0f other ppl pass or fail! love from the dirty south Atlanta ga.
I love your energy!!! FIGHTING😎😎
It’s okay darling! I finished my career back in 2019 and just now I’m getting my license to be a psychologist. You’ll do good at your own time :)
❤it’s ok you will make it again keep trying best wishes!
It’s ok don’t let this failure set you back, you can definitely come back stronger ❤
That's the plan!💕
Those simple nursing songs are a bop. 🤣 his videos were my content for my nclex too and also nursing crusade international has alot of strategies on how to answer nclex questions. Good luck on your exam!
Never give up sir👍🙏🏻 try and try again till you succeed! God bless you sir and don’t be sad, you can do it 👍👍👍
I’m so sorry darling but you tried your best I’m still so proud of you working hard just because you failed once doesn’t mean you won’t succeed the next time just keep working hard and get some rest when you really need it like a charge of new energy I’m very proud of you for working hard I believe in you always ❤️❤️
Remember nursing is a journey. There is no such thing as a perfect start or a perfect ending. It is all about the in between and what you make out it, a thing called life. So keep thriving and living it the best you can. Kai you got this!!!
You'll be a great nurse, failing is a part of life. You got this, you doing great it's just another learning experience.
Good luck with everything ❤
It must be soo soo hard . Take your time to reboot and heal 🌸✨
Life goes on ✨
And on and on and on and on and
I will take my NCLEX soon. I hope you will pass on the second time. Keep practice and study. 😊 Be strong 💪
You got this Kai!!!
Sometimes it’s a hidden blessing bcos it could divert u to another direction in life where u will excel in it 😊
Hi Kai! I passed my license exam using archer and found it really helpful! A few of my friends who started with UWorld said they were having a hard time with it because it had rationales that were hard to grasp. I introduced them to Archer and they found it super helpful and made the switch to Archer! Everyone is different, but just thought Id share in case you want to give it a try! Best of luck, you got this!
Keep going Kai! U can do it
this is vry encouraging i’ve had a rly crappy year (getting diagnosed w/ epilepsy and having a broken arm w/ ten screws in it definitely wasn’t needed lol 😆) and this is one of the most important years as a South African student in high school thx so much for sharing this with us and this vlog is very motivating 💕
You got this ❤
You got this 🎉you can do it ❤
Keep trying until you get what you aim for!:) The best things in life are those that are hardest to get! 💪🙏
It’s ok take it again. It’s ok to rest but never give up! You can do it
Failures may cause delays, delays can be blessings in disguises. You’ve worked so hard. Give yourself a break. Enjoy the little things to reground yourself. You are an amazing and intelligent human being. Don’t be hard on yourself. We are all so proud of you and your journey. We will be with you as you continue to move forward 🥰
Awwww these are so supportive and inspiring!! I feel so loved ❤❤
@@Hwaniiee you are loved! Don’t forget it! Show yourself grace!
I am 62 now and a retired registered nurse. I started my training ( I’m English in the UK ) at 18 and sat my finals at 21 … I failed. I was so so upset thinking it was just the end of the world. We had three chances and the second time I passed. You WILL get there 100%. Then you will be telling younger training nurses who have failed that they can do it and not to give up. If we all got everything the first time we tried we would not appreciate things the same. Once your qualified the world is your oyster ( that’s what my mum said to me and she was right ) good luck, you will be a fabulous registered nurse and the patients lucky to have you.
Good luck💜
Don’t give up. Just practice doing the test questions and all your hard work will pay off.
failing is part of progress, it will make you a better and more successful person later on in life . trust the process AND its meant to be. you got this , now or later , you will achieve everything and anything you want , i garntee it bud
Been failing all my goals recently, thanks for the motivation :)
WE BOTH GOT THIS❤
aw parents truly don’t know how heavy their inspiring words mean to us.. you got this!
Means so much than they know
Sometimes we have to fail in something we care about to realize just how much it meant to us. I had a lot of setbacks in my early twenties and Lord knows it drove me crazy thinking I was a failure while my friends all went ahead without me. But time made me realize that it was a necessary setback to reach who I am today at the end of my twenties. You are still very young and have plenty of time, so don't let these unexpected setbacks bother you too much. The NCLEX is not easy and many people fail it the first time, as well. It doesn't mean you are a bad nurse or not meant for that path. You WILL pass. Stay strong and be confident.
I'm in my final semester of cardiac sonography school and got a giggle out of the nursing songs your gf played. I knew the answers immediately. On a serious note, I have my credentialing to take once I'm done as well and I'm low key panicking.
Lmao, sitting on the toilet early mornings is certainly a ritual on this channel.
I admire your your persevering spirit, when we fall down we get back up again 💯💯💯
Your dad's message was so sweet. Maybe, you could get a study group or tutor to help you with your studying for the test. Best of luck with your next test.
As a medical student i know it's hard when you study but still not get the ending we want but don't worry dude you got this
best wishes from me to u same goes to me though I also have important exam in 105 days which is the another step for me to getting closer to me being doctor hehe 🖤
You got this too❤
I see you on tiktok and I discovered your channel recently, I was curious if your voice matched you, but your voice is so you!!
Its ok kai because honestly, you are so real for the butt wipes thing and honestly we dont mind if you fail