I understand Slater completely. I don't think we'll forget how we felt when we were young. Imagine being a kid and your parents telling you you're the one who's supposed to understand but you're also just a kid. I think our parents could've just explained better instead of telling us "you're the eldest, you should understand." Slater, I feel you. :D
In terms of sharing or having some things😅 lagi na lang nagpapa ubaya kase eldest at dapat nakakaintindi, like buying some , SA KANYA NA LANG TO KASI MAS BATA SAYO... MAGPAUBAYA KA NA LANG😅 , But I don't hate them, because when I'm on my own pa naman at nag iisa pang anak ,nabibigay naman sakin lahat😅,
Me too, ramdam na ramdam ko 😂 like before ako ung pinapalo pag ayaw ng kapatid ko maligo, I don’t understand it way back then galit na galit ako sa parents ko, 7 palang ako nun eh.
Middle child ako, growing up i was always tasked to guard our house. Ako lagi yung nakabantay, yung hindi sinasama. Which made me become aloof and introverted. The one who rarely seeks help since they thought i got it all figured out on my own when in fact i'm barely doing things because i know they wontt be there to help. Then i became independent and didn't expected things from them. Many birthdays uncelebrated or pinaka least to zero preparations. I feel like they exert little efforts on us middle children and it was poured more on the youngest or eldest. It's sad being a middle child to be honest. So i learned to be okay with it. But i know i am someone who they can depend on when times get rough. Hugs to us hehe ❤
🫂 this! And although it may be different with every parent, middle children are usually expected to understand that the attention won’t be towards them… or it will otherwise be shared lang before spotlight goes to either the eldest / youngest. Like what Slater said, i agree that this is how it’s designed so the angst and resentment of the middle child should be expected. But it will depend on how the parents reassure & manage the fam. I am proud of being a middle child & my fam loves me just as much. Bottomline no matter which child we all are, we love our parents. 🫶🏼
As an eldest child, I'm with you Slater. Hahahaha! Lol, I have the exact same sentiment. I think the kids following the eldest child will never understand our angst.
As an eldest child as well, I felt relieved na mapanood mag vent out or share ng experiences and learnings niya si sir Slater haha. I mean the experience is just so universal I think majority of the eldest children out there felt the relief hahahaha.
I'm the eldest child and I TOTALLY understand Slater... I even felt his angst about the topic and I realize that the feeling of "those" memories about us getting responsibilities as a child is still here inside (I thought wala na lol). My little sister is always the chill one but I don't want to say na she doesn't care like totally. It's just that I notice EVERYTHING first and make sure to solve everything right away then she notices things. I ran so that she could walk, ganern HAHAHAH. It's sabotable man sad. I'm just thankful na I have a lil sis who understands and listens.
As the eldest, I totally get where Slater is coming from 😂 and also, YES. Kryz spoke like a TRUE YOUNGEST CHILD and no offense meant, but I get annoyed every time she laughs at Slater’s angst!! HAHAHAHAHA had so much fun listening to this ep while I’m on night shift duty 😂 Thank you skyfam!!!
As an eldest child I understand Slater. We have more responsibilities than any siblings. Youngest is more on easy easy life. Again I like your topic and your response about it. God bless your family.
I guess another point to consider is, generally, per my observation, with the youngest, the family may be in a better economic state and the youngest child gets showered with more stuff, time, attention, etc. This may have happened because parents are more mature, have climbed the corporate ladder, been in business for a longer time, or the like
In my case, baliktad… we used to be “rich” nung wala pa ako, so I did not experience the lush of life that my older siblings had. But, I am thankful cause it made me stronger and understanding about the whole situation… 🙏🏼
as the youngest, i can vouch for this (but not with the time and attention thingy 🥹) i get to experience the life that my brothers did not. but the thing is, with all these matters, minsan akala ng iba spoiled ako pero hindi naman talaga. inggit nga ako sa mga kapatid ko because my brothers experienced how to be loved and support emotionally and physically by our parents kasi when they were born, hindi pa masyadong established yung work ng parents namin so yung oras nila nakatuon lang sa mga nauna kong kapatid.
@@princess-hy9en agree. The freedom that they did not get, yun ang meron tayo. Though mas gusto ko yung emotional and physical support na na Experience nila… kanya-kanya talaga 🙏🏼
Middle child here and I grew up adjusting to my older and younger brothers' wants and needs. It is just what it is I guess but I definitely did felt left out as a child. I felt like mas priority sila compared to me. Seeing that you are considering Sevi's feelings in the future just shows how great of a parent you are.
I can relate with Slater’s opinion since I am also an eldest among my siblings. Growing up, my parents has really a high expectations to me knowing that my siblings were also looking up to me to be their role model in terms of being an obedient child and understand more the younger siblings if they commit mistakes kasi nga ako ang mas nakakatandang kapatid. I should be responsible to handle certain things lalo na kapag wala sa tabi namin ung parents namin. For me, malaking pressure talaga and parang yun din ang kinamulatan ng mga magulang ko nung bata palang din sila na pinasa nalang din na parang tradition na sa pamilya. But at the end of the day, kahit iba iba man ang personalities ng eldest, middle and youngest, mahal namin ang isat isa kahit anong worst pa ang mangyari. Adjustment and being flexible to each other para ma maintain yung magandang samahan ng magkakapatid. Thank you, Slater and Kryz for sharing this kind of episode of your podcast coz I know sobrang dami tlagang relate. ❤❤❤
For me eto yung pinaka Exciting at nakakatuwa na episode ng Skypodcast. AHAHA Tingin ko eto din favorite ko. ❤😂 Kase madalas chill kayo. Eto hinde e. haha ramdam ko yung intercity, na.. ang cute lang.
Im listening from spotify but need ko pumunta here just to comment naaaa... "YESSSSS KRYZ, DEFEND Us, YOUNGEST!" Every words that Kryz says about youngest child is exactly me and no, hindi palaging samin favorable. Sometimes pressured din bilang bunso as the elders are "kinda strict and bossy". We need to keep up rinkasi parang need namin sumunod sa kung paano sila before. "Papunta ka pa lang". There's no comparison daw, but sometimes di naman namin mapipiligan mafeel that we are being compared to out elder sibs. Pero as the youngest nga (na matigas daw ulo), WE DO IT OUR WAY! HAHAHAHAHAHA
you will never understand the pain of an eldest child, we have to sacrifice our own happiness for the youngest child to be taken care of, to provide for them. I feel you slater! 😂❤
I'm a mid child but I feel you slater.. that's how our eldest felt tiil she died at 56...parang sya pa nagging mother namin because our mom is very strict...Chinese blood mom KO. 44:12 44:12
This fam made me feel over the moon in times my downfall moments. Watching and listening their podcast literally heals me unexpectedly. I love u both 🥺🥺❣️❣️❣️
As a middle child, i don't get to express myself as much as our eldest who's really vocal. So when our youngest arrived , by the way we're 10 years apart, I spent my teenage years looking after him and I encouraged him to voice out his opinions. so now he became on overthinker, unlike me who is pretty chill
Middle Child here. Gets ko sila pareho. Middle Child just know the feeling of being younger sibling to the oldest and an older sibling to the youngest. That is why no one understands especially the youngest and the oldest. Youngest deals being a youngest as well us the oldest deals being an oldest while we the middle deals both. so most of the time we can't be understand.
Kryz is so patient and understanding. It looks to me that if Kryz didnt laugh things off, it will turn into a real argument. But it's not laughing at or neglecting Slater's points. That's just my pov. In a way, I think too that even if you try your best to make your children feel loved, personality is still a factor in how people perceive things. Our eldest doesn't have that sense of responsibility like most eldest. It's the middle child that has it. The middle child used to have that syndrome but after getting into counseling, she became so much better. As for the freedom we get, personally, I observe from my older siblings what my parents like or not. Then I learn from my sibling's mistakes so less sakit ng ulo sa parents, fostering trust and giving me more freedom.
Grabe! Lahat ng unsaid feelings and thoughts ko as a panganay, NASABI LAHAT NI SLATER! Thank you, Slater for being the representative of the panganay pips.
Hintay ko lumaki si Sevi para ikwento niya rin kung ano feeling ng isang middle child. Hahaha! I kennat with this episode because WE ALL CAN RELATE. Lol! And i love the energy of the both of you!
As the eldest child I totally agree with Slater. But aside from all of that I think eldest tend to be more tougher than the middle and the younger. Tough in a sense that we tend to have the confidence voice out our thoughts more to our parents than our siblings. Being an eldest can be really pressuring sometimes but it comes with an advantage also. I am an eldest but if I got the chance to be reincarnated again I would choose to be the youngest. 😂 Sending love to the both of you. Such a wholesome content you always post that a lot can gain knowledge and lessons. God bless Skyfam ❤
hi skypod, an avid listener right here. Middle child rep. Well , I can say that we are always forgotten, unnoticed and unappreciated because we tend to make use of what is left. mga leftovers after mag away ng eldest and youngest because we don't want the chaos. Example sa bahay namin everytime bumili ng lechon manok, i never expect to get the drumstick or legs na part because those are default for the eldest and the youngest. so kahit gusto ko yung part na yun I am forced to get the white meat na part or the wings. but jokes on them mas healthier ang white meat ng chicken so yeah hahahha.. I love my siblings tho.
I totally understand what you feel, kahit I’m the youngest… and sometimes, I feel pity sa Dico ko who is the middle child but I understand why you act that way…. And still thankful, and I know that we are all part of the whole, and so there’s a reason why you are on that part of the family! Keep doing your thing! You are loved 🙏🏼🙌🏼
@@reverlindi23 hahahah.. yes ,I do love my siblings very very much especially now that we are all adult ( in our 20s). I always make sure na I do make an effort to tell them and let them know that I got their back all the time and I will fight their battle with them.
Does not matter kung anong birth order natin. But lemme just say na mas funny and mas lumalabas ang personality and relationship dynamic nilang dalawa sa recent long episodes. Hahahaha. Love you, Skyfam! 🥰🫶
it's so funny that when my cousin (which is the first baby) says his first "papa" word, tito even put it on his ringtone "apapapapa" and right now the second baby bro we don't care anymore😂😂😂
I understand Kryzz since my husband is the "youngest child" 😅 And I totally understand Slater because I'm the eldest among 4 siblings😉😄🥰 Magkakaiba talaga yung level of maturity and character.. what matters most is that you understand and live your siblings 😊 God bless Your family!
As the youngest child, it is not all the time na carefree. I am at the point of my life that I am too cautious with everything that I do because I need to live up to their expectations and I am afraid I would fail not only my parents but my other siblings.
First time listening to a podcast, saw the title and no questions asked haha the need to hear this out HAHAHAHA we're 3 in the family, I am the eldest HAHAHA The fire is burning so much Sir Slater 😂
i get them both since im close with my eldest and im the youngest. i never thought the youngest would be the most free because personally my parents were the most strict with me but its prolly bc i was an unica hija. its nice to see them discuss their perspectives and seeing Kryz just laugh it off 😭 indeed a youngest child energy.
I understand si Sir Slater sobrang hirap maging panganay. I am an only child kasi 2 beses nakunan si Mama pero di pa man din lumalabas yung babies non lagi na sinasabi sa akin na "oh pagkalabas ng baby kailangan magshare ka at magpapaubaya lagi kasi ate ka na." And after hearing those words ok naman sa akin pero at some point yun yung isa sa mga angst ko kasi bat magpapaubaya agad? Umiyak lang ako non at naisip ko na heto na nga reality ng pagiging panganay "you can't afford to break and fall" kasi ikaw ang panganay, ikaw ang mas nakaka intindi at ikaw ang role model sa nakakabata mo na kapatid. Sana Ms. Kryz wag lang yung angst ng middle child sister mo ang icoconsider mo in a way na ayaw mo maramdaman ni sevi ang ma-left out though normal naman iyon sa mga mommies na ayaw ma-left out babies nila pero sana maconsider din feelings ni Scottie as panganay in the near future. Kasi yung friend ko 3 sila magkakapatid pero yung mom nila sa kadahilanan na ayaw na ma-feel na left out yung middle child super focus sila sa middle and youngest hanggang sa naging aloof na si friend namin sa mommy nila kasi madali lang kay middle at youngest kumawala sa mga kakulitan nila. And during our reco sabi ng friend namin "bata din naman ako noon at anak din naman nila ako. Bat puro mga kapatid ko iniisip porke panganay ako dapat ba ako na mag adjust? Worst talaga mommy ko at kinamumuhian ko sila ng 2 kong kapatid" nagulat kami lahat sa sinabi niya. At isa yun sa mga naging factor bat ayaw ko ng kapatid noon kasi andami kong what ifs at same ang sentiments ng mga panganay na once magkaroon ka ng kapatid kailangan mo isabuhay ang mga salitang "Magpaubaya ka kasi Panganay ka."
This latest episode had me in stitches! I'm the youngest! Super gets Kryz, lol this topic was pure fun! definitely a fave 😂 Though, I can see where Slater's coming from too bc of my elder siblings!
i experienced all- being the spoiled youngest child first...then being a middle child when all my 5 siblings came after 6 yrs! then acting like d eldest when she's away for college & im left at home with all the kiddos! 😂 😂😂😂
I'm an only child with parents who we're already in their mid 40's(my father) and late 30's my mother when they had me and the pressure to be better in most facets of life is another level but I love them so dearly.
First of all, I 100% agree with Slater... on every point. Even the competitive tone of justifying our "angst". Second, it came to a full circle why it doesn't sit well with me the idea of sharing toys forcibly. I prefer not to insist on my first child (and only child so far), who is still 3yrs old, the concept of sharing. It's not like I'm teaching my child to be greedy but to share and give when she's comfortable to do so.
I love how Kryz is utterly understanding and patient towards to Slater. If I were in her shoes, I can't. It feels like the entire video slater poured over his angst to her. Kidding aside, I understand both frustrations of being an eldest and youngest child in the fam. By the way I'm the middle child, always the moderator 😂
As the middle child, I'm always the one balancing the whole thing in the house since my eldest sister and youngest brother consistently clash over their differences. Fortunately, with a 10 year age gap with our youngest brother, I've experienced being both the youngest and the middle child. Hahaha... Often, the middle child is also the unexpected addition to the family, hahaha.
Being the eldest I ended up being the most responsible amongst my siblings. It’s like I was born and assigned to be in charged to care for my siblings.
Slater poured his heart out in this video 💯 Which made it super interesting and relatable even though im a middle child 😁 hope Kryz also shared more about her experience as the youngest (both the good and bad) instead of repetitively reacting on Slater's "angst" as the eldest and adding comments about middle child's weirdness. Lumabas pagkabunso ni Kryz 😂😂😂
I am a middle child and to be honest I also believed that middle children are so independent unlike the first and the youngest child. For some point in my life its a bit challenging but I think it helps me to become more mature and I can do things on my own without relying with my parents unlike my other siblings. No hate to the first and the youngest child, I just want to share my experience as a middle child. I think whatever place you are in your family, you are loved by your parents equally and unconditionally.
I am a parent and I have 3 kids. It depends on the age too. My middle and youngest child only have a 3-year age difference, compared to the eldest who is way older than them. My attention goes to my middle and youngest the most because they're more dependent on me. If your child is almost of the same age (1-2 years apart) then it's understandable that the memories of the eldest are still very fresh to you since it just happened 1-2 years ago (reacting to when Slater was telling about their reaction when Sevi's first time to talk and their reaction is not similar to when Scottie did) age difference is a big factor. It's difficult to manage if children are just the same age because everyone is still in a phase where they all want your attention.
Is it just me but as a youngest child, I really agree with Slater, seeing my eldest sister doing all the works and she was not allowed to attend birthday parties with her friends.
I totally get you Slater 😂 I'm the eldest while my husband is also the youngest,( we have 2 kids, a girl and a boy ) because we're the opposite it works perfectly ... we now know what to do and not to do for our children not to have the same feelings that we felt with our siblings/parents.😂
I’m #5 in 7 siblings, my attitude was no complaints at all because that’s me and to each their own.✌️👍🍀❤️🇹🇼 Loved this podcast, enjoying,smiling and laughing till end Thanks Slater and Kryz❤️🇹🇼 #3 Slaine Kyo🍀
I'm a mid child in d family of nine...once in a job interview I was asked on what can I say about being the least loved being d mid child...🤭I don't think I was feeling ko Kasi favourite ako...but then I think I'm d most understanding and most independent...🥰just loved my position in d family🤗 good job slater and kriz for this realisations..more power. 44:12
As the youngest, I can totally agree to Slater the oldest. I wanna hug the oldest in the family - (slater’s patience here even if kryz is playing it to the point na nakakaannoy somehow sorry kryz lol)
I think youngest is carefree because someone older do the things that needed to do so they do not think about it anymore. Hahaha. Anyways, middle child here
Middle child here 🙋🏻 I feel that I was the one who brush off things than the youngest. And maybe our eldest have the same sentiments with slater. What a good conversation. 👍🏻
Middle child here! Hahaha i think we have this kind of attitude na “palaging may gusto patunayan” bcoz hindi kami masyadong nabibigyan ng attention hahaha so we parang need namin to always achieve something big or grand para finally mapansin naman kami hahahaha idk with other middle childs but atleast majority of the middle child i know can relate to this hahahahaha
I'm the youngest child. Dalawa lang kami sa family. Ramdam ko yung pagiging favored one growing up. Yung sinasabi ni Sir Slater na ang panganay napapagalitan pag-aaway ang magkapatid, totoo yun sa case ko😅. At oo, minsan ti-ni-take advantage ko yun noon😂. Sorry po sa brother ko. Pero when I reached the age of 13 or 14, that was when that certain dynamic shifted. Maybe masyado na cgurong lumaki ang ulo ko. And nung time na yun na may away kami ng kapatid ko, that was the first time na ako yung napagalitan. Sabi ni Papa, naalala ko pa talaga, "Wala jud kay tahod sa imong maguwang." Bisaya na sya, to translate it in Tagalog, in means "wala ka talagang respeto sa kapatid mo." In that moment, a realization snapped in my head. And since then, I believed I began to change for the better as a sister. Still imperfect, pero natuto na po akong pakisamahan ang bro ko. Ngayon friends na kami.☺️
Was smiling the whole video hahhahaha cuties! I’m a middle child and super true sa eldest POV. Super responsible and independent ng eldest namin hahaha as innnnn.
As an eldest, this would be one af a parts that we need also to learned that, if we are to be a parents soon we must do to our eldest child not to say first that he/ she the eldest and they need to understand and adjust to thier siblings. We just trying to have our first explanation to the eldest how to be good, if you parents always address to the eldest na ikaw yong panganay dapat you will be the leader of your siblings. Sometimes we also have to limit thier nature, eldest also a child and they also have thier freedom to play, wag naman natin e pressure yong mga eldest. Just try to teach them to become a leader to the siblings in a dahan dahan lang na ways and for sure dahan dahan din yan nila na maintindihan. As parents we just have to gave them both a better advise so that they will also understand it fairly.😊
I always say this, " I am the middle child but I dont have the middle child syndrome". I feel like I have the eldest child syndrome probably because I took the responsibility of the eldest child.
Slater is just really passionate on explaining why things are the way they are with “proper evidences”, providing more insight to the topic. Kryz being “carefree” is just more accepting of things the way they are. I wish Kryz was more receptive to Slater’s insight to why the youngest have it “easier”. Eldest here 🙌
Agree to this.. obviously parang iba yung dating kay Kryz when Slater is expressing his exp as the eldest.. but for me it's super interesting! lumabas yung pagka bunso ni Kryz 😂 I'm a middle child but Slater's input in this video is on point 💯 His insights made the video more interesting..
I understand Slater completely. I don't think we'll forget how we felt when we were young. Imagine being a kid and your parents telling you you're the one who's supposed to understand but you're also just a kid. I think our parents could've just explained better instead of telling us "you're the eldest, you should understand."
Slater, I feel you. :D
In terms of sharing or having some things😅 lagi na lang nagpapa ubaya kase eldest at dapat nakakaintindi, like buying some , SA KANYA NA LANG TO KASI MAS BATA SAYO... MAGPAUBAYA KA NA LANG😅 , But I don't hate them, because when I'm on my own pa naman at nag iisa pang anak ,nabibigay naman sakin lahat😅,
Me too, ramdam na ramdam ko 😂 like before ako ung pinapalo pag ayaw ng kapatid ko maligo, I don’t understand it way back then galit na galit ako sa parents ko, 7 palang ako nun eh.
Petition for Jack to be in the podcast for the middle child perspective! I need to validate this middle child's angst also!🤣🤣
Yes
Middle child ako, growing up i was always tasked to guard our house. Ako lagi yung nakabantay, yung hindi sinasama. Which made me become aloof and introverted. The one who rarely seeks help since they thought i got it all figured out on my own when in fact i'm barely doing things because i know they wontt be there to help. Then i became independent and didn't expected things from them. Many birthdays uncelebrated or pinaka least to zero preparations. I feel like they exert little efforts on us middle children and it was poured more on the youngest or eldest. It's sad being a middle child to be honest. So i learned to be okay with it.
But i know i am someone who they can depend on when times get rough. Hugs to us hehe ❤
🫂 this! And although it may be different with every parent, middle children are usually expected to understand that the attention won’t be towards them… or it will otherwise be shared lang before spotlight goes to either the eldest / youngest. Like what Slater said, i agree that this is how it’s designed so the angst and resentment of the middle child should be expected. But it will depend on how the parents reassure & manage the fam. I am proud of being a middle child & my fam loves me just as much. Bottomline no matter which child we all are, we love our parents. 🫶🏼
I totally get Slater (as the eldest also) lol Kryz gives off that makulit youngest child energy na papagalitan ng eldest HAHAHA these two, really 😂😂❤❤
Laptrip😂
As an eldest child, I'm with you Slater. Hahahaha! Lol, I have the exact same sentiment. I think the kids following the eldest child will never understand our angst.
I wish youngers child this days. Appreciate and understand the eldest brother/sister effort and sacrifices .
I have a name for your youngest son SANTINO
ako na middle child, watching them go on and on about being the eldest and youngest... 👁👄👁 HAHAHAHAHAHAHA JK
that makes two of us lol
we need jack as middle child representation
HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA LEFT OUT NA NAMAN NO? 😭🤣🤣🤣
Same hereeee HAHAHA 🙊
Hahaha😂
As an eldest child as well, I felt relieved na mapanood mag vent out or share ng experiences and learnings niya si sir Slater haha. I mean the experience is just so universal I think majority of the eldest children out there felt the relief hahahaha.
Saw the clips from tiktok and I was invested to finish the video. Petition for part II where the middle child explains his/her perspective.
I'm the eldest child and I TOTALLY understand Slater... I even felt his angst about the topic and I realize that the feeling of "those" memories about us getting responsibilities as a child is still here inside (I thought wala na lol). My little sister is always the chill one but I don't want to say na she doesn't care like totally. It's just that I notice EVERYTHING first and make sure to solve everything right away then she notices things. I ran so that she could walk, ganern HAHAHAH. It's sabotable man sad. I'm just thankful na I have a lil sis who understands and listens.
As the youngest child I super feel you Kryz 😅
Passionate bigla si slater hahahhaha as the youngest child, natatawa na lang rin ako like Kyrz 😂
As the eldest, I totally get where Slater is coming from 😂 and also, YES. Kryz spoke like a TRUE YOUNGEST CHILD and no offense meant, but I get annoyed every time she laughs at Slater’s angst!! HAHAHAHAHA had so much fun listening to this ep while I’m on night shift duty 😂 Thank you skyfam!!!
sameeee 🤣🤣
As an eldest child I understand Slater. We have more responsibilities than any siblings. Youngest is more on easy easy life. Again I like your topic and your response about it. God bless your family.
I guess another point to consider is, generally, per my observation, with the youngest, the family may be in a better economic state and the youngest child gets showered with more stuff, time, attention, etc. This may have happened because parents are more mature, have climbed the corporate ladder, been in business for a longer time, or the like
In my case, baliktad… we used to be “rich” nung wala pa ako, so I did not experience the lush of life that my older siblings had. But, I am thankful cause it made me stronger and understanding about the whole situation… 🙏🏼
as the youngest, i can vouch for this (but not with the time and attention thingy 🥹) i get to experience the life that my brothers did not. but the thing is, with all these matters, minsan akala ng iba spoiled ako pero hindi naman talaga. inggit nga ako sa mga kapatid ko because my brothers experienced how to be loved and support emotionally and physically by our parents kasi when they were born, hindi pa masyadong established yung work ng parents namin so yung oras nila nakatuon lang sa mga nauna kong kapatid.
@@princess-hy9en agree. The freedom that they did not get, yun ang meron tayo. Though mas gusto ko yung emotional and physical support na na Experience nila… kanya-kanya talaga 🙏🏼
Middle child here.. we are mostly the moderators, the balancer and ahahha always in between kaya di kami pansin 😅 minsan nga di na hinahanap😂😂
The strict oldest and the carefree youngest HAHAHAHHA🤪
so far, out of all the episodes i've watched, this is by far, the funniest!! and can so relate to slater as the eldest. love watching your podcasts!
We need a speaker to represent the middle child please 😂
Yes haha
Middle child here and I grew up adjusting to my older and younger brothers' wants and needs. It is just what it is I guess but I definitely did felt left out as a child. I felt like mas priority sila compared to me. Seeing that you are considering Sevi's feelings in the future just shows how great of a parent you are.
I feel you
I can relate with Slater’s opinion since I am also an eldest among my siblings. Growing up, my parents has really a high expectations to me knowing that my siblings were also looking up to me to be their role model in terms of being an obedient child and understand more the younger siblings if they commit mistakes kasi nga ako ang mas nakakatandang kapatid. I should be responsible to handle certain things lalo na kapag wala sa tabi namin ung parents namin. For me, malaking pressure talaga and parang yun din ang kinamulatan ng mga magulang ko nung bata palang din sila na pinasa nalang din na parang tradition na sa pamilya. But at the end of the day, kahit iba iba man ang personalities ng eldest, middle and youngest, mahal namin ang isat isa kahit anong worst pa ang mangyari. Adjustment and being flexible to each other para ma maintain yung magandang samahan ng magkakapatid. Thank you, Slater and Kryz for sharing this kind of episode of your podcast coz I know sobrang dami tlagang relate. ❤❤❤
For me eto yung pinaka Exciting at nakakatuwa na episode ng Skypodcast. AHAHA Tingin ko eto din favorite ko. ❤😂 Kase madalas chill kayo. Eto hinde e. haha ramdam ko yung intercity, na.. ang cute lang.
Same
Im listening from spotify but need ko pumunta here just to comment naaaa... "YESSSSS KRYZ, DEFEND Us, YOUNGEST!"
Every words that Kryz says about youngest child is exactly me and no, hindi palaging samin favorable. Sometimes pressured din bilang bunso as the elders are "kinda strict and bossy". We need to keep up rinkasi parang need namin sumunod sa kung paano sila before. "Papunta ka pa lang". There's no comparison daw, but sometimes di naman namin mapipiligan mafeel that we are being compared to out elder sibs. Pero as the youngest nga (na matigas daw ulo), WE DO IT OUR WAY! HAHAHAHAHAHA
you will never understand the pain of an eldest child, we have to sacrifice our own happiness for the youngest child to be taken care of, to provide for them. I feel you slater! 😂❤
I'm a mid child but I feel you slater.. that's how our eldest felt tiil she died at 56...parang sya pa nagging mother namin because our mom is very strict...Chinese blood mom KO. 44:12 44:12
How I wish I could join their conversation to also speak up for all my fellow middle child pips! 😅
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Hahaha same
This fam made me feel over the moon in times my downfall moments. Watching and listening their podcast literally heals me unexpectedly. I love u both 🥺🥺❣️❣️❣️
As a middle child, i don't get to express myself as much as our eldest who's really vocal. So when our youngest arrived , by the way we're 10 years apart, I spent my teenage years looking after him and I encouraged him to voice out his opinions. so now he became on overthinker, unlike me who is pretty chill
Middle Child here. Gets ko sila pareho. Middle Child just know the feeling of being younger sibling to the oldest and an older sibling to the youngest. That is why no one understands especially the youngest and the oldest. Youngest deals being a youngest as well us the oldest deals being an oldest while we the middle deals both. so most of the time we can't be understand.
Im the middle child.
So ,they don't know how i feel..😂
Kryz is so patient and understanding. It looks to me that if Kryz didnt laugh things off, it will turn into a real argument. But it's not laughing at or neglecting Slater's points. That's just my pov.
In a way, I think too that even if you try your best to make your children feel loved, personality is still a factor in how people perceive things. Our eldest doesn't have that sense of responsibility like most eldest. It's the middle child that has it. The middle child used to have that syndrome but after getting into counseling, she became so much better. As for the freedom we get, personally, I observe from my older siblings what my parents like or not. Then I learn from my sibling's mistakes so less sakit ng ulo sa parents, fostering trust and giving me more freedom.
As a middle child, gusto ko makisagot sakanila! Hahahahaha! 44mins pero nabitin pako. Sobrang sayaaaa at cute panuorin!
Grabe! Lahat ng unsaid feelings and thoughts ko as a panganay, NASABI LAHAT NI SLATER! Thank you, Slater for being the representative of the panganay pips.
Middle children: "we need a middle child POV"
I mean we're the middle child remember?? We're unseen??? 😂😂😅 kidding aside.
First time kong makita na grabe ka passionate with angst si Slater mag explain hahàha😂
Hintay ko lumaki si Sevi para ikwento niya rin kung ano feeling ng isang middle child. Hahaha! I kennat with this episode because WE ALL CAN RELATE. Lol! And i love the energy of the both of you!
As the eldest child I totally agree with Slater. But aside from all of that I think eldest tend to be more tougher than the middle and the younger. Tough in a sense that we tend to have the confidence voice out our thoughts more to our parents than our siblings.
Being an eldest can be really pressuring sometimes but it comes with an advantage also. I am an eldest but if I got the chance to be reincarnated again I would choose to be the youngest. 😂 Sending love to the both of you. Such a wholesome content you always post that a lot can gain knowledge and lessons. God bless Skyfam ❤
I’m telling you Seve will surprise you all. Idgaf but will stand out.❤
Yesssss I believe in you Seven Kai Uy Young❤
Yes his my favorite hahaha
HAHAHA!
I can sooo relate with Kryz! Hahaha!
They are both correct, it’s a separate journeys. A very nice conversation👍
As an eldest, I can relate with Slater. That is really the angst of the eldest child.
hi skypod, an avid listener right here. Middle child rep. Well , I can say that we are always forgotten, unnoticed and unappreciated because we tend to make use of what is left. mga leftovers after mag away ng eldest and youngest because we don't want the chaos. Example sa bahay namin everytime bumili ng lechon manok, i never expect to get the drumstick or legs na part because those are default for the eldest and the youngest. so kahit gusto ko yung part na yun I am forced to get the white meat na part or the wings. but jokes on them mas healthier ang white meat ng chicken so yeah hahahha.. I love my siblings tho.
I totally understand what you feel, kahit I’m the youngest… and sometimes, I feel pity sa Dico ko who is the middle child but I understand why you act that way…. And still thankful, and I know that we are all part of the whole, and so there’s a reason why you are on that part of the family! Keep doing your thing! You are loved 🙏🏼🙌🏼
@@reverlindi23 hahahah.. yes ,I do love my siblings very very much especially now that we are all adult ( in our 20s). I always make sure na I do make an effort to tell them and let them know that I got their back all the time and I will fight their battle with them.
@@jamjamjammmy definitely 🙏🏼 God bless
Does not matter kung anong birth order natin. But lemme just say na mas funny and mas lumalabas ang personality and relationship dynamic nilang dalawa sa recent long episodes. Hahahaha. Love you, Skyfam! 🥰🫶
love this conversation with you skypod. Interesting!
Eldest!! 😅 was laughing the whole time. currently destressing while my 2 kids 3 and under are taking a nap. 🙂 🥰
As an eldest child. I could totally relate to Slater. And I also have that angst 😌🥲
it's so funny that when my cousin (which is the first baby) says his first "papa" word, tito even put it on his ringtone "apapapapa" and right now the second baby bro we don't care anymore😂😂😂
I understand Kryzz since my husband is the "youngest child" 😅
And I totally understand Slater because I'm the eldest among 4 siblings😉😄🥰
Magkakaiba talaga yung level of maturity and character.. what matters most is that you understand and live your siblings 😊 God bless Your family!
As the youngest child, it is not all the time na carefree. I am at the point of my life that I am too cautious with everything that I do because I need to live up to their expectations and I am afraid I would fail not only my parents but my other siblings.
First time listening to a podcast, saw the title and no questions asked haha the need to hear this out HAHAHAHA we're 3 in the family, I am the eldest HAHAHA
The fire is burning so much Sir Slater 😂
Petition to invite Kryz’s siblings HAHAHAHA
i get them both since im close with my eldest and im the youngest. i never thought the youngest would be the most free because personally my parents were the most strict with me but its prolly bc i was an unica hija. its nice to see them discuss their perspectives and seeing Kryz just laugh it off 😭 indeed a youngest child energy.
EVIL LAUGH! From the youngest child here🤣🤣🤣
Kaway-kaway sa mga Middle Child.
We need Middle Child POV
Yeah ❤❤❤❤
Wahh legit
As an eldest, I can really relate to Slater
I understand si Sir Slater sobrang hirap maging panganay. I am an only child kasi 2 beses nakunan si Mama pero di pa man din lumalabas yung babies non lagi na sinasabi sa akin na "oh pagkalabas ng baby kailangan magshare ka at magpapaubaya lagi kasi ate ka na." And after hearing those words ok naman sa akin pero at some point yun yung isa sa mga angst ko kasi bat magpapaubaya agad? Umiyak lang ako non at naisip ko na heto na nga reality ng pagiging panganay "you can't afford to break and fall" kasi ikaw ang panganay, ikaw ang mas nakaka intindi at ikaw ang role model sa nakakabata mo na kapatid. Sana Ms. Kryz wag lang yung angst ng middle child sister mo ang icoconsider mo in a way na ayaw mo maramdaman ni sevi ang ma-left out though normal naman iyon sa mga mommies na ayaw ma-left out babies nila pero sana maconsider din feelings ni Scottie as panganay in the near future. Kasi yung friend ko 3 sila magkakapatid pero yung mom nila sa kadahilanan na ayaw na ma-feel na left out yung middle child super focus sila sa middle and youngest hanggang sa naging aloof na si friend namin sa mommy nila kasi madali lang kay middle at youngest kumawala sa mga kakulitan nila. And during our reco sabi ng friend namin "bata din naman ako noon at anak din naman nila ako. Bat puro mga kapatid ko iniisip porke panganay ako dapat ba ako na mag adjust? Worst talaga mommy ko at kinamumuhian ko sila ng 2 kong kapatid" nagulat kami lahat sa sinabi niya. At isa yun sa mga naging factor bat ayaw ko ng kapatid noon kasi andami kong what ifs at same ang sentiments ng mga panganay na once magkaroon ka ng kapatid kailangan mo isabuhay ang mga salitang "Magpaubaya ka kasi Panganay ka."
Go Slater! Release that eldest child angst!!! Eldest Children are children too, they should not be given the burden to raise their siblings.
This latest episode had me in stitches! I'm the youngest! Super gets Kryz, lol this topic was pure fun! definitely a fave 😂 Though, I can see where Slater's coming from too bc of my elder siblings!
HAHAHHAAHA GUEST YOUR MIDDLE SISTER PLEASE. WE CAN'T SPEAK ABOUT OUR OWN FEELING 😂
i experienced all- being the spoiled youngest child first...then being a middle child when all my 5 siblings came after 6 yrs! then acting like d eldest when she's away for college & im left at home with all the kiddos! 😂 😂😂😂
I'm an only child with parents who we're already in their mid 40's(my father) and late 30's my mother when they had me and the pressure to be better in most facets of life is another level but I love them so dearly.
One my favorite episode 😂 too funny! I hope they invite jack for some clarifications and moree kwentoo!!! 🤣
Skyparents, thank you kay gipataas na ninyo inyohang duration sa podcast. Unta permi nani 😂🎉❤
Hahhaha u guys are entertaining xD i was a little terrified when u guys started arguing but all good and fun
Youngest here and krys is so relatable... smiling till the end😂
First of all, I 100% agree with Slater... on every point. Even the competitive tone of justifying our "angst". Second, it came to a full circle why it doesn't sit well with me the idea of sharing toys forcibly. I prefer not to insist on my first child (and only child so far), who is still 3yrs old, the concept of sharing. It's not like I'm teaching my child to be greedy but to share and give when she's comfortable to do so.
Name of 3rd baby Steven Kyler Uy Young
I love sevi boy, always watching him in TikTok “Done Na”
I've been following for quite a time and really being the eldest when the parents are not around the eldest take charge
This podcast is so funny!!! 😂
As the eldest child I totally feel and understand slater 😅 thank you skypodcast I really love your conversations.
So basically Slater's favorite is Scottie. 😅
Obviously 😂
The youngest child weakness is "d only child" hehehhehehe tanggal angas talaga ng mga bunso sa iisang anak. 😁
I love how Kryz is utterly understanding and patient towards to Slater. If I were in her shoes, I can't. It feels like the entire video slater poured over his angst to her. Kidding aside, I understand both frustrations of being an eldest and youngest child in the fam. By the way I'm the middle child, always the moderator 😂
As the middle child, I'm always the one balancing the whole thing in the house since my eldest sister and youngest brother consistently clash over their differences. Fortunately, with a 10 year age gap with our youngest brother, I've experienced being both the youngest and the middle child. Hahaha... Often, the middle child is also the unexpected addition to the family, hahaha.
Being the eldest I ended up being the most responsible amongst my siblings. It’s like I was born and assigned to be in charged to care for my siblings.
Slater poured his heart out in this video 💯 Which made it super interesting and relatable even though im a middle child 😁 hope Kryz also shared more about her experience as the youngest (both the good and bad) instead of repetitively reacting on Slater's "angst" as the eldest and adding comments about middle child's weirdness. Lumabas pagkabunso ni Kryz 😂😂😂
I am a middle child and to be honest I also believed that middle children are so independent unlike the first and the youngest child. For some point in my life its a bit challenging but I think it helps me to become more mature and I can do things on my own without relying with my parents unlike my other siblings. No hate to the first and the youngest child, I just want to share my experience as a middle child. I think whatever place you are in your family, you are loved by your parents equally and unconditionally.
I totally relate to Slater as being an eldest.
Yes. My partner is the youngest. We kind of compliment each other's strength. I love this topics.
I'm the youngest child!!! 😂 I'm just like Kryz, just patient and understanding. Avid listener here! 😊💖
slater... the team eldest feels u... A LOT HAHAHAHA
I am a parent and I have 3 kids.
It depends on the age too. My middle and youngest child only have a 3-year age difference, compared to the eldest who is way older than them. My attention goes to my middle and youngest the most because they're more dependent on me.
If your child is almost of the same age (1-2 years apart) then it's understandable that the memories of the eldest are still very fresh to you since it just happened 1-2 years ago (reacting to when Slater was telling about their reaction when Sevi's first time to talk and their reaction is not similar to when Scottie did) age difference is a big factor.
It's difficult to manage if children are just the same age because everyone is still in a phase where they all want your attention.
Is it just me but as a youngest child, I really agree with Slater, seeing my eldest sister doing all the works and she was not allowed to attend birthday parties with her friends.
I totally get you Slater 😂
I'm the eldest while my husband is also the youngest,( we have 2 kids, a girl and a boy ) because we're the opposite it works perfectly ... we now know what to do and not to do for our children not to have the same feelings that we felt with our siblings/parents.😂
Make DEEDOE as your guest here please hahaha we need a middle child perspective hahahaha
I’m #5 in 7 siblings, my attitude was no complaints at all because that’s me and to each their own.✌️👍🍀❤️🇹🇼
Loved this podcast, enjoying,smiling and laughing till end
Thanks Slater and Kryz❤️🇹🇼
#3 Slaine Kyo🍀
I'm a mid child in d family of nine...once in a job interview I was asked on what can I say about being the least loved being d mid child...🤭I don't think I was feeling ko Kasi favourite ako...but then I think I'm d most understanding and most independent...🥰just loved my position in d family🤗 good job slater and kriz for this realisations..more power. 44:12
This topic relates to ADLER’S THEORY OF BIRTH ORDER
Adler’s POV:🤣🤣
As the youngest, I can totally agree to Slater the oldest. I wanna hug the oldest in the family - (slater’s patience here even if kryz is playing it to the point na nakakaannoy somehow sorry kryz lol)
*eldest lol hahahaha sorry slater
I love it so natural bangayan hahaha?I’m a middle child and I get kryz 😂 I am more annoyed on Slater this time
I think youngest is carefree because someone older do the things that needed to do so they do not think about it anymore. Hahaha. Anyways, middle child here
RELATE!!😂 Ang wholesome ng conversation 😂 God bless you more!🤍 #TEAMPANGANAY🥹
ELDEST CHILDREN will forever have this angst even if I love all my 6 siblings! haha
Middle child here 🙋🏻
I feel that I was the one who brush off things than the youngest. And maybe our eldest have the same sentiments with slater. What a good conversation. 👍🏻
Middle child here! Hahaha i think we have this kind of attitude na “palaging may gusto patunayan” bcoz hindi kami masyadong nabibigyan ng attention hahaha so we parang need namin to always achieve something big or grand para finally mapansin naman kami hahahaha idk with other middle childs but atleast majority of the middle child i know can relate to this hahahahaha
Petition for a middle child guest 😂
Slater’s point of view about the eldest were all so true! 😢😂❤
I'm the youngest child. Dalawa lang kami sa family. Ramdam ko yung pagiging favored one growing up. Yung sinasabi ni Sir Slater na ang panganay napapagalitan pag-aaway ang magkapatid, totoo yun sa case ko😅. At oo, minsan ti-ni-take advantage ko yun noon😂. Sorry po sa brother ko. Pero when I reached the age of 13 or 14, that was when that certain dynamic shifted. Maybe masyado na cgurong lumaki ang ulo ko. And nung time na yun na may away kami ng kapatid ko, that was the first time na ako yung napagalitan. Sabi ni Papa, naalala ko pa talaga, "Wala jud kay tahod sa imong maguwang." Bisaya na sya, to translate it in Tagalog, in means "wala ka talagang respeto sa kapatid mo." In that moment, a realization snapped in my head. And since then, I believed I began to change for the better as a sister. Still imperfect, pero natuto na po akong pakisamahan ang bro ko. Ngayon friends na kami.☺️
Love this conversation! I feel you Slater as an eldest myself. 😅
yung angst talaga ng youngest child is our parents being physically present, but emotionally absent HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA
New subscriber here and I've been almost finished all your podcasts especially in spotify while working to ease my antok times😂❤
Was smiling the whole video hahhahaha cuties!
I’m a middle child and super true sa eldest POV. Super responsible and independent ng eldest namin hahaha as innnnn.
As an eldest, this would be one af a parts that we need also to learned that, if we are to be a parents soon we must do to our eldest child not to say first that he/ she the eldest and they need to understand and adjust to thier siblings. We just trying to have our first explanation to the eldest how to be good, if you parents always address to the eldest na ikaw yong panganay dapat you will be the leader of your siblings. Sometimes we also have to limit thier nature, eldest also a child and they also have thier freedom to play, wag naman natin e pressure yong mga eldest. Just try to teach them to become a leader to the siblings in a dahan dahan lang na ways and for sure dahan dahan din yan nila na maintindihan. As parents we just have to gave them both a better advise so that they will also understand it fairly.😊
I always say this, " I am the middle child but I dont have the middle child syndrome". I feel like I have the eldest child syndrome probably because I took the responsibility of the eldest child.
Commenting as middle child, no comment 😅
Slater is just really passionate on explaining why things are the way they are with “proper evidences”, providing more insight to the topic. Kryz being “carefree” is just more accepting of things the way they are. I wish Kryz was more receptive to
Slater’s insight to why the youngest have it “easier”.
Eldest here 🙌
Agree to this.. obviously parang iba yung dating kay Kryz when Slater is expressing his exp as the eldest.. but for me it's super interesting! lumabas yung pagka bunso ni Kryz 😂 I'm a middle child but Slater's input in this video is on point 💯 His insights made the video more interesting..