He has no right to be rubbing your old lover to you when he STOLE your childhood from you. Those children are so ungrateful I hope karma bites them hard. They were better left orphaned.
❤❤❤❤hai tau tu siab ua luaj niam laus ntshe cov niam ob li peb ces yuav tu siab li kj zaj dab neeg os niam laus lub neej niam txai tog txiv txai ntas mas tu siab tas2 li os niam laus kv muaj ib lub neej tu2 siab tshaj xav xas 6 kj pab hai yuav yuav cas thiaj txog kj os kv nyiam kj cov dab neeg heev noog tas li o
Oh, this is so very sad. So much potential lost. There was a time and a place where these things happened all too often, and we forget the true purpose of the heart. and, of course, nobody knew what to do. You push and you pull all in hopelessness and never get through. It is such a waste wallowing in hate. Grandmother, I'm so sorry for your very sad life. You deserved so much more than what was given. I think you both could have done more to fine each other because you see, love doesn't care about age, and it is never too late. However, when we are young and know less, we cannot see that great, and we often trip and fall until it's too late. It's okay, what's done is done and lost is lost. You have another chance at love. Pease be true, don't live in the past, and take what you have and live to the best. Thank you for sharing.
Sad story. The Hmong people should learn from our parent mistakes by forcing our daughters and sons to marry each other by force not love and never repeat them in America and other countries…!
Niag ntsej muag txivlaus laus! Cov niag menyuam ntsuag rog! Tus twg tau siab phem lawm thov nej niam tais nawb! Tsam nej niam tseg nej npam ces nej paub nawb😡 Cas koj lub niag neej es tag kev cia siab tag npaum😭😭 hlub koj os tais aw💔💔
Vuag, xu siab tiag2 li os niam tais aw. Yus tus txiv laus es yus saib zoo li yus txiv thiab xwb. Cas cov laus thaum ub yuav txawj siab phem ua luaj li os. Zoo qhov tiam no tibneeg ntse zuj zus thiab txawj hlub cov tub cov ntxhais lawm.
Cas pab koj tu siab rau koj lub neej ua luaj os niam laus aw. Tsis tau tus koj hlub los cas tus tau koj tseem tsis hlub koj thiab. Laus lawm los tseem tsis tau lig es ua yam koj zoo siab ib zaug seb puas tsim nyog mas. Txhob tu siab qhov koj cov me nyuam uas yog koj niam laus cov lawv tsis hlub koj mog. Muab xav hais tias lawv twb yog niam yog txiv ib yam es lawv ua li cas rau koj thiab hlub koj li cas ces lub ntuj tsuas muab li ntawd rov qab rau lawv xwb. Nrog koj tu siab thiab khuv xim lub neej los ua tsis tsim nyog. Thov tswv ntuj foom koob hmoov rau koj
Ntuj awm yuav tus yus hlub kiag es tej thaum sib ceg twb laj laj ua neej es tseem raug yuam yuav tus yus tsis nyiam li tus niam tais no thiab mas ntshe yuav ua cas laj ua neeg tag ib sim os. Ntshe kawg noj yeeb tuag xwb lau.
Guss....thses children of your sister are so ungrateful. Their father could have remarried another wife and torture them so they can tell their stories. God bless you my sister. I have half siblings to and love them like we are from the same mom.
Exactly what I am saying! Even if she doesn't love them like their mom, she still raised them with their dad. She was forced to raise them. 🙄🙄🙄 ungrateful nieces and nephews.
This happened to my grandma and grandpa. My grandma was marry to my grandpa's cousin who later die. They force my grandpa to marry my grandma. Grandpa said he was only a kid. Their life was this sad, too.
This is a story to learn not being like these old folks. Sad story she’s being forced to marry to someone she doesn’t like and love. Can’t blame the kids but the old stupid folks.
Grandma so sorry you had to suffer like this in this lifetime. It’s not your fault but your parents and husband fault. They created a stigma in your heart, you prob tried your best to be a good mom but never fell in love with your husband. This must of made him very bitter to the point of constantly reminding his kids that you don’t love them. Creating more separation in the family. I hope you continue to be happy and May your next life not be a life of sacrifice
Phauj Aw… pab koj tu siab kawg os tab sis mloog koj hais mas koj yeej Tsi hlub koj niag txiv laus thiab nws tej me nyuam es lawv thiaj Tsi hlub koj txhaus os
Hahahaha! Tseem yog li es 1 co ces nrauj tau lawm ces tsis mus li lawm hos 1 co mas kuj tsis zeem li . Kuv ntseeg tias cov uas tsis zeem ntawd yog cov tau lub neej yeej muaj qhov zoo ntau nyob rau lub neej hos cov uas zeem kiag es tsis Mus ua neej zaum 2 lawm yog cov yeej tsis muaj qhov zoo nyob rau nws lub neej li ces thiaj zeem kiag lawm.
This is the saddest and stupidest tradition that our elders has hold for so long. Hope our newer generation break away from some of these old ways of thinking. She lived her whole life in tears, sadness and suffering. She was better off as their auntie and love them the way a auntie should. But, yet she now the person her sisters kids hate the most 👊 😖
I cannot believe the kids! Taking what it’s not there’s to begin with. Karma is not kind for those who take what is not there’s. I feel so bad for you, you never lived the life you wanted.
@@dyte9180 why is she mad if she deserved it? Why are you mad? Wouldn’t it just be justice? I don’t even think you fully believe in what you just said or you wouldn’t be feeling bad for her.
@@dyte9180 I know she don’t deserve it. I believe it is the bad people around her that has decided to do her wrong. I’m just saying according to your logic of karma (do good to get good, do bad get bad/what goes around comes around etc) the only consistent thing is to say is she did something somewhere in her life to deserve the bad she got. If she was good, bad could not happen to her.
If my parents did that to me, i will never forgive them, talk to them, visit them, or love them for the rest of my life so they know what they did and the sadness, hurt, and disappointment they caused me.
Neeg ruam npuav gau niag thaub laus li ntawd koj haj tseem mus yuav thiab koj vam tau dab tsi ? Koj niam koj txiv mas phem dhau phem lawd hauv gab ntuj no !
Tus txiv coj phem thiab cov menyuam uas phem li ko, mas ntxim tau ib tus niam tshiab uas phem phem muab lawv tsim thiab taus yuam ua qhev nkaus xwb mas thiaj li pauj tab. Nrog Koj tu siab uas Koj los ua neej nrog tau tus neeg siab phem thiab los xiam tas ib tiam os me vivncaus
cov niag tsov tom lau thaum ub tsi muaj kev kawm ruam tshaj plaw thiab ntshaw nyiaj tshaj plaw tej ntxhai lawv yeej tsi khe txog yu ce yuav nyiam lwj thiab tsw lawm yeej tsi tau quav ntsej txog tsuav lawv tau ib pob nyiaj lo rau lawv xwb ntxim ntxub tshaj plaw cov niag neeg tsi muaj kev kawm tsi muaj kev txawj ntse ce yeej ruam no tsi hai xeem hmoob twg tsi hai hmoob dawb lo yog hmoob lees yeej coj tib txoj kev cai quav dev zoo tib yam nkau ?
This is a reason why I always reminds my sibs and cousins to not love their nieces and nephews too closely. As they all grow up, they won’t love you like you loved them as you raised them up too. Your sisters and brothers will throw boundaries. It’s okay to love them, but love them from afar. They have their own parents. If they still have a place for you in their heart/soul, they’ll come looking for you. Love them with your eyes. Go search and live your own life. I mean well in all honesty.
So happy that we are now living in America and none of us have to worry about forcing to do/ to marry the person who you don’t want to. Ntxub the OG txoj kev yuam tub yuam ntxhais tshaj laws.😡😡😡 Tus me niam tsev aw, nrog koj tu siab tias koj raug yuam yuav koj niag txiv laus yam koj yeej tsis yeem kiag los thaum laus nws tseem tsis ntseeg koj thiab twb yuav koj los hlub koj niag niam laus cov menyuam vi ntshai rwg tias tsam yuav tau cov qhua ces los tsis hlub nws cov menyuam tab sis thaum kawg lawv loj hlob tiav txiv lawv tseem rov taw tuam ntuj es tsis hlub koj li no thiab. So sad 😢💔
Your step kids have no right to come demand for the money. Those are yours! They've took their half. Those kids are so greedy and selfish! They think you dont own anything except depending on your husband's money. Smh. Your husband is also selfish too. You wasted all your life on him and he have the audacity to say you dont deserve any left behind cash. Stupid much!
Awe such sad story for you sister. Such ungrateful kids of your older sister and old husband. You’ve sacrificed your whole life for them and this is what they give you. Don’t worry karma will get them. I also hate your parents for forcing you. For all the children out there with forcing parents; please keep in mind it is you who will endure the consequences so fight with all your might to be free from the force. Love you sister. So happy you found your old love boyfriend
Your life story is so sad, grandma. Your parents and all others that are like yours are so cruel and mean. I feel so sad and sorry for you. My heart and tears go out to you. Hopefully if there is another life, you will get a chance to marry someone you love and love you back. I do wish and hope that Hmoob stop those beliefs too, grandma. For those children of your sister's, hopefully karma gets them for they do not love and acknowledge you as their mother.
You were forced to marry him so let’s not forget how messed up that was. You don’t share income/money so I don’t get why you’re so surprised he didn’t leave you anything when he’s dead.
sa bay dee yark tarm har kon jark kun u long jang tid at min neo day nr
He has no right to be rubbing your old lover to you when he STOLE your childhood from you. Those children are so ungrateful I hope karma bites them hard. They were better left orphaned.
Yog txhob tuaj nyob teb chaws Mekas ces Hmoob yeej tsis hloov li 😢ntxim ntxub tiag li os
❤❤❤❤hai tau tu siab ua luaj niam laus ntshe cov niam ob li peb ces yuav tu siab li kj zaj dab neeg os niam laus lub neej niam txai tog txiv txai ntas mas tu siab tas2 li os niam laus kv muaj ib lub neej tu2 siab tshaj xav xas 6 kj pab hai yuav yuav cas thiaj txog kj os kv nyiam kj cov dab neeg heev noog tas li o
Oh, this is so very sad. So much potential lost. There was a time and a place where these things happened all too often, and we forget the true purpose of the heart. and, of course, nobody knew what to do. You push and you pull all in hopelessness and never get through. It is such a waste wallowing in hate.
Grandmother, I'm so sorry for your very sad life. You deserved so much more than what was given. I think you both could have done more to fine each other because you see, love doesn't care about age, and it is never too late. However, when we are young and know less, we cannot see that great, and we often trip and fall until it's too late. It's okay, what's done is done and lost is lost. You have another chance at love. Pease be true, don't live in the past, and take what you have and live to the best. Thank you for sharing.
Sad story. The Hmong people should learn from our parent mistakes by forcing our daughters and sons to marry each other by force not love and never repeat them in America and other countries…!
Koj niam laus cov me nyuam siab pheem tsaj txhob tus siab mog muaj hnub lawv yuav npam qov lawv tsi hlub koj mog
mloog zaj neej neeg no tu tu siab li og kuv nim los ua luag niam lawm thiab
Nrog koj tu siab kawg. I hope you find some happiness in your future.
Nyb zoo os niam tsuab teev koj hais tau dab neeg tau zoo heev li os kv mloog tag kv los2 kua muag heev li o hais tau raug kv siab heev li o
What a waste of your lifetime sister…hope you find love, peace, and happiness…
That evil old man and his kids use you their whole life. Feel sad for this grandma😭
Niag ntsej muag txivlaus laus!
Cov niag menyuam ntsuag rog!
Tus twg tau siab phem lawm thov nej niam tais nawb! Tsam nej niam tseg nej npam ces nej paub nawb😡
Cas koj lub niag neej es tag kev cia siab tag npaum😭😭 hlub koj os tais aw💔💔
Zoo heev
Vuag, xu siab tiag2 li os niam tais aw. Yus tus txiv laus es yus saib zoo li yus txiv thiab xwb. Cas cov laus thaum ub yuav txawj siab phem ua luaj li os. Zoo qhov tiam no tibneeg ntse zuj zus thiab txawj hlub cov tub cov ntxhais lawm.
I hope this forcing the younger sibling to marry the BIL or SIL ends forever. It's just not right
very nice story
Pab koj tu siab chim siab dhau rau koj niam koj txiv lawm os!
OK
These kind of stories pissed me off so much. I absolutely hate it and feel so bad for the victims or forced women.
Cas pab koj tu siab rau koj lub neej ua luaj os niam laus aw. Tsis tau tus koj hlub los cas tus tau koj tseem tsis hlub koj thiab. Laus lawm los tseem tsis tau lig es ua yam koj zoo siab ib zaug seb puas tsim nyog mas.
Txhob tu siab qhov koj cov me nyuam uas yog koj niam laus cov lawv tsis hlub koj mog. Muab xav hais tias lawv twb yog niam yog txiv ib yam es lawv ua li cas rau koj thiab hlub koj li cas ces lub ntuj tsuas muab li ntawd rov qab rau lawv xwb. Nrog koj tu siab thiab khuv xim lub neej los ua tsis tsim nyog. Thov tswv ntuj foom koob hmoov rau koj
Ntuj awm yuav tus yus hlub kiag es tej thaum sib ceg twb laj laj ua neej es tseem raug yuam yuav tus yus tsis nyiam li tus niam tais no thiab mas ntshe yuav ua cas laj ua neeg tag ib sim os. Ntshe kawg noj yeeb tuag xwb lau.
Vim koj mloog lus dhau cov laus thiaj yuam tau. Thaum laus tsis hlub tseem faib nyiaj ces kuv yeej tsis tu nws quav zis li.
Guss....thses children of your sister are so ungrateful. Their father could have remarried another wife and torture them so they can tell their stories.
God bless you my sister. I have half siblings to and love them like we are from the same mom.
Exactly what I am saying! Even if she doesn't love them like their mom, she still raised them with their dad. She was forced to raise them. 🙄🙄🙄 ungrateful nieces and nephews.
Viv ncaus Aw tiam no cov hluas ntse ntse lawm tsis muaj leej twg quab yuam tau lawm os
Txiv neej siab phem cas tseem tau koj kev hlub thiab? Nws hmoov zoo kawg. Koj ces ua tus swb xwb
cov me nyuam ko yog neb coj tau tuaj nyob teb chaw no es lawv cuab2 ntse lawm xwb lawv thiaj li tsis hlub koj xwb os
Xiam tiam lawm tiag2 li os niam tais. Pab hlub koj kawg nkaus li
This happened to my grandma and grandpa. My grandma was marry to my grandpa's cousin who later die. They force my grandpa to marry my grandma. Grandpa said he was only a kid. Their life was this sad, too.
Niam tais aw koj muaj hmoov kawg li os tau ntsib dua ib zaug
Lqp
me leej muam luag hais tias pub dev rog dev tom neeg na has, pab txiv tub ko yog txiv tub dev xwb
Hlub hlub koj kawg li os me niam Tais aw.
This is a story to learn not being like these old folks. Sad story she’s being forced to marry to someone she doesn’t like and love. Can’t blame the kids but the old stupid folks.
Tu siab kawg li os niam Tais Aw. 😢
So sad 😞 😔 😟
Grandma so sorry you had to suffer like this in this lifetime. It’s not your fault but your parents and husband fault. They created a stigma in your heart, you prob tried your best to be a good mom but never fell in love with your husband. This must of made him very bitter to the point of constantly reminding his kids that you don’t love them. Creating more separation in the family. I hope you continue to be happy and May your next life not be a life of sacrifice
Phauj Aw… pab koj tu siab kawg os tab sis mloog koj hais mas koj yeej Tsi hlub koj niag txiv laus thiab nws tej me nyuam es lawv thiaj Tsi hlub koj txhaus os
Koj los tu txog hnub no tseem hais li rau koj ces tsa ceg kom khaum xwb, txawm tsis yog koj yug los yog ua phem li ko yeej khaum taus nawb.
Hahahaha! Tseem yog li es 1 co ces nrauj tau lawm ces tsis mus li lawm hos 1 co mas kuj tsis zeem li . Kuv ntseeg tias cov uas tsis zeem ntawd yog cov tau lub neej yeej muaj qhov zoo ntau nyob rau lub neej hos cov uas zeem kiag es tsis Mus ua neej zaum 2 lawm yog cov yeej tsis muaj qhov zoo nyob rau nws lub neej li ces thiaj zeem kiag lawm.
This is the saddest and stupidest tradition that our elders has hold for so long. Hope our newer generation break away from some of these old ways of thinking. She lived her whole life in tears, sadness and suffering. She was better off as their auntie and love them the way a auntie should. But, yet she now the person her sisters kids hate the most 👊 😖
😡😡😡😡😡😭😭😭😭😭👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👣👣👣👣👣👣
Your stepsons have no rights to take anything from you. Siab phem li lawv Txiv.
Cov niag mi nyuam siab phem yuav npam lawv
Từ siab laug tag mag chim heev osx
I cannot believe the kids! Taking what it’s not there’s to begin with. Karma is not kind for those who take what is not there’s. I feel so bad for you, you never lived the life you wanted.
Wouldn’t that mean she has bad karma too? So she deserved it?
@@amazinggrace8136 did you listen to the story? She didn’t mention anything about taking what’s not hers.
@@dyte9180 why is she mad if she deserved it? Why are you mad? Wouldn’t it just be justice? I don’t even think you fully believe in what you just said or you wouldn’t be feeling bad for her.
@@amazinggrace8136 are you saying she deserved it? Cause I never said she deserved it. I feel sorry and sad for her.
@@dyte9180 I know she don’t deserve it. I believe it is the bad people around her that has decided to do her wrong. I’m just saying according to your logic of karma (do good to get good, do bad get bad/what goes around comes around etc) the only consistent thing is to say is she did something somewhere in her life to deserve the bad she got. If she was good, bad could not happen to her.
Kuv mas ntxub hmoob txoj niag dev npua cai tshaj plaws...pab koj tu siab mob siab tiag li o niam tais aw....
Viv ncaus aw u yug kiag los yeej hais tu u siab ib yam hos
If my parents did that to me, i will never forgive them, talk to them, visit them, or love them for the rest of my life so they know what they did and the sadness, hurt, and disappointment they caused me.
Me too. I would run away too
Back then kids will not have the guts to disobey their parents. Glad we live in America
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Such sad story. She was forced for marry her BIL so she can love the 8 kids!!! Now the kids don't appreciate her. 🙄
Ntuj nyob qe qe os... cov neeg siab lim hiam kev npam caum yuav cuag sai sai no
Hmoob ruam tej kev cai ruam3
Cov niag laus thaum ub mas ntxim ntxub tiag tiag li os lawv aw kam tsi kam los yuam tuag ntis ua rau yus lub neej lwj siab laus tag li os
Neeg ruam npuav gau niag thaub laus li ntawd koj haj tseem mus yuav thiab koj vam tau dab tsi ?
Koj niam koj txiv mas phem dhau phem lawd hauv gab ntuj no !
me niam tsev cas dab xwb kab ho tsis pab koj li thiab
Tus txiv coj phem thiab cov menyuam uas phem li ko, mas ntxim tau ib tus niam tshiab uas phem phem muab lawv tsim thiab taus yuam ua qhev nkaus xwb mas thiaj li pauj tab. Nrog Koj tu siab uas Koj los ua neej nrog tau tus neeg siab phem thiab los xiam tas ib tiam os me vivncaus
I'm so sad for you 😞 I hope you find happiness
Poj ua tsheg yawg ua cia, ces txhob hais txog li lawm os.
Vim cov laus thaum ub ntshaw nyiaj dhau lawm. Lawv tsis txhawj tej tub & tej ntxhais lub neej li. Lawv tsuas xav kom tau nyiaj xwb. Nrog tu siab heev.
cov niag tsov tom lau thaum ub tsi muaj kev kawm ruam tshaj plaw thiab ntshaw nyiaj tshaj plaw tej ntxhai lawv yeej tsi khe txog yu ce yuav nyiam lwj thiab tsw lawm yeej tsi tau quav ntsej txog tsuav lawv tau ib pob nyiaj lo rau lawv xwb ntxim ntxub tshaj plaw cov niag neeg tsi muaj kev kawm tsi muaj kev txawj ntse ce yeej ruam no tsi hai xeem hmoob twg tsi hai hmoob dawb lo yog hmoob lees yeej coj tib txoj kev cai quav dev zoo tib yam nkau ?
Very sad.
This is a reason why I always reminds my sibs and cousins to not love their nieces and nephews too closely. As they all grow up, they won’t love you like you loved them as you raised them up too. Your sisters and brothers will throw boundaries. It’s okay to love them, but love them from afar. They have their own parents. If they still have a place for you in their heart/soul, they’ll come looking for you. Love them with your eyes. Go search and live your own life. I mean well in all honesty.
😭😭😭
Niag siab phem npaum no ces muab laim hlo xwb losmas..!
Phem tiag tiag!
Tuag ua dab los yeej ntxub tsis tsum
Love yourself first❤❤
Too old story don't want to listen any more, now we can't do that any more and no make sense any more.
Hmoob mas ruam tshaj plaws. Cov niag laus ruam tag npaum ntawd tiamsis thaum lawv tuag lawm ces ho muab lawv tsa ua Vajtswv rau tej tubki mus pe mus hawm mus ntoj mus thuv mus thov koob thov hmoov.
Cas koj pab txiv tub ntxwg nyoog ko es thaum ub mus txog muab lawv lom kom tuag kom tag pob tseem mus tu tu koj pab niag me nyuam dab loj laus tag
So happy that we are now living in America and none of us have to worry about forcing to do/ to marry the person who you don’t want to. Ntxub the OG txoj kev yuam tub yuam ntxhais tshaj laws.😡😡😡
Tus me niam tsev aw, nrog koj tu siab tias koj raug yuam yuav koj niag txiv laus yam koj yeej tsis yeem kiag los thaum laus nws tseem tsis ntseeg koj thiab twb yuav koj los hlub koj niag niam laus cov menyuam vi ntshai rwg tias tsam yuav tau cov qhua ces los tsis hlub nws cov menyuam tab sis thaum kawg lawv loj hlob tiav txiv lawv tseem rov taw tuam ntuj es tsis hlub koj li no thiab. So sad 😢💔
Muab koj lub neej kuam vim cov niag minyuam ntawd. Tseem los siab tsi tau koj ces koj hais kiag ib los rau lawm kom npam xwb mas.
Your step kids have no right to come demand for the money. Those are yours! They've took their half. Those kids are so greedy and selfish! They think you dont own anything except depending on your husband's money. Smh. Your husband is also selfish too. You wasted all your life on him and he have the audacity to say you dont deserve any left behind cash. Stupid much!
Koj niag txiv los thaum mob mob nas muab lom kom tuag mas cas tseem so so nws quav thiab yog niaj hnub no tseem ciaj no kuv tuaj pab koj lom mas
Koj mas heev nyaum tshaj hmoob mekas lawm ntag....
Man, you husband is a pain in the a.. That is a evil men for sure, and evil kids, they will get what's coming to them.
Awe such sad story for you sister. Such ungrateful kids of your older sister and old husband. You’ve sacrificed your whole life for them and this is what they give you. Don’t worry karma will get them. I also hate your parents for forcing you. For all the children out there with forcing parents; please keep in mind it is you who will endure the consequences so fight with all your might to be free from the force. Love you sister. So happy you found your old love boyfriend
Horrible
Your life story is so sad, grandma. Your parents and all others that are like yours are so cruel and mean. I feel so sad and sorry for you. My heart and tears go out to you. Hopefully if there is another life, you will get a chance to marry someone you love and love you back. I do wish and hope that Hmoob stop those beliefs too, grandma. For those children of your sister's, hopefully karma gets them for they do not love and acknowledge you as their mother.
You were forced to marry him so let’s not forget how messed up that was. You don’t share income/money so I don’t get why you’re so surprised he didn’t leave you anything when he’s dead.
This is the saddest story ever that no one has ever knew how to explain.
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Such selfish nephews and neices..pathetic old man
So sad 😞 😔 😟
Tej saum yeej yog koj tus txiv kom nws cov me nyuam tuaj nqa xwb os .