I dated someone where my Venus was in her 8H. She actually approached me first as i was walking thru a store. She said when she spoke to me that first day it was like she couldn’t breathe but something told her to say something. She said i was so chill and relaxed it made her comfortable. I also noticed we're both natal 8H moons
Wow this is so true. They had their venus and sun in my 8th house. They perused me first and I gave in, but I always felt like I had to hide the dark sides of myself. Things that I didn’t want to face myself, like my sexual past abuse. These were things I had buried deep within in me that I wasn’t ready to face then. They made me feel so uncomfortable and scared all the time. They were so obsessed and crazy in love though. I had nightmares when we slept together. It was truly the heaviest connection. Very triggering! (if you have unresolved buried demons). But yes I did pretend to be this perfect person to impress them… sigh.
Same here. He is obsessed and so devoted in love with me. I’m the 8th house with Pluto, Chiron and Lilith in there. I feel like im hiding so much and running away because of how strongly our bond and love is it’s so intense makes me feel physically ill from past traumas and how strangely triggered i feel.
@@strawberryxoxo6841 omg me too! I’m constantly triggered by him even years after. I also get sick from it. I feel so much physical symptoms from the feelings I have. I think it must be so difficult for the 8th house person to deal with. I’m so sorry you have the same experience as me 😔. I hope you look after yourself always!
@@malukee1 YES ! It is so odd because he’s not abusive nor purposefully trying to trigger me if anything he’s opposite very loving and supportive but he just subconsciously triggers all this in me and i just want to run away from him as far as possible in all honestly he deeply terrifies me and i feel disturbed there’s no logical explanation to it either. I got so many physical symptoms like you and all sorts of different emotions that it feels too much to handle and overwhelming. Very much so as the 8th house person it’s hard so i can’t even begin to imagine what he feels since my absence is destroying him. I can’t live with him but can’t live without him but it’s painful being around him because it’s so intense feels like I can’t breathe 🥺 Thank you and im sorry you’re going through this to ❤️ We’ll get through it .
@@strawberryxoxo6841 exactly right! I can’t live with him and can’t live without him completely. It is very disturbing and I ran away from him a few times in the past, I think he was deeply hurt by it. Unfortunately my person wasn’t as nice as yours though so I’m sort of glad I did to learn my own lessons. I never felt calm or relaxed around him. But you’re right we will get through it! 💪 It’s good to share these things! You’re amazing! 😊❤️
@@strawberryxoxo6841 i have Venus and Sun in his 8 th House and i am the one who loves so unconditionaly and deep and he realy feels triggered by me, he said i notice everything! Iam tired of his games,manipulations and not letting me in, due his traumas and ex gfs... I did everything from my heart and soul and iam crying ,can,t sleep at Nights,miss him so so much.... We shared such a strong deep Bond only for 4 months.. it was so intensive...so many emotions Like never ever with anyone, he is Thunder and storm in my life.
I had this overlay in mutual reception with my ex. (My sun was also in his 8H) It was knowing you love them and they’re aware but we both played games at times in trying to hide how deep it actually was for us. In the end I chose to be as upfront and honest about working on our issues. I think he feared the depth of the connection more than I did by throwing out stuff like “why would I…. I barely know you.” I called it off and started therapy again. Ofc I wanted to go back but the circumstances haven’t aligned to see it as such. Thank you for the video. I definitely see the faults in both of us during the connection.
I loved this so much! I am the house person in this case and I’m just getting to know my Venus. There was definite instant chemistry but he says he isn’t looking to be in a relationship now because he is working on himself. I am in the same boat, coincidentally, but was willing to give it a shot if he was into starting something. So we’ve decided to just be friends for now and, as much as the rejection does hurt, I am happy to have this incredible person in my life.
Had to make the Venus person tell the truth and end the intermittent reinforcement and hot cold insanity. I just said hey shake my hand and admit we ain’t never gonna be a real thing, and let me walk away with this closure and let’s both let go. This is a really challenging situation when only one of you has the depth to go into this. I have natal sun and Venus in my 8th and am ex bff also has her Venus in my 8 and it was a really codependent relationship at times. I wish that the manchild who had his moon and Venus in my 8th was another way but I accept the reality now, and I also apply it. By saying #byeforever
@@lenamontier-ho9ss I haven't seen him since I posted this. I probably would still feel the pull to him, but after the experience, I know better (I basically did always know but wanted to know him carnally lolll despite that), and I suspect that the attraction is now tainted. I'll let you know if I ever run into him again how it goes loll. I always want to see him and yet shudder at the thought of interaction again.
@@GypsyInThirteen did the venus person agree to let go? I as the Venus person still desire the house person , even after some very harsh words were spoken, It gotten much more intense ! Do you still want to say goodbye forever ?
damn i feel called out. i was the house person in my last relationship and i tried so hard to hide certain parts of myself, and overall how i felt about the relationship in order not to make them feel insecure, which ended up kinda fucking up things. at least we managed to stay friends
I’ve been both the house person and the venus person in different relationships 🫢🫢 it’s not always something nefarious being hidden but still something to be wary of!
It's so hard having 8H synastry his venus is in my 8H and my sun,moon,mercury and saturn are in his 8H. I never felt like that for someone and I don't if I ever will again. Even if we don't really talk anymore I can't stop thinking about him it's like our souls are tied together no matter what. I don't know how to get over this
I read initially “our souls are tired” which lol also a mood with 8th house synastry 😭 but yeah ugh it’s so deeply impactful and can be really taxing when you want to move on and feel like you can’t cause they’re a part of your DNA 😭 over time tho I swear the effects do subside. 💖
Thank you for this video, i have this overlay- my Venus,sun in his 8 th house! This is all truth! I have noticed that all my important relationships in life,including my marriage,friendships,exes i still care about - all have 8 th house overlay... Maybe because i have my pluto in 5 th and my Mars in scorpio,saturn and vertex....i just love 8 th house it is in my Blood. if i notice there is no 8 th house in synastry or composite i just don't get so deep into.
Hi! I’m the house person in this overlay and I feel like the roles are lowkey reversed in our situation? I feel like I’ve been very honest about who I am with him and have shared a lot of intimate details about myself without him having to ask and when he does I always answer all his questions but he’s barely opened up to me about himself although we’ve been involved for awhile now. I still feel like he’s protecting himself out of fear? He’s very good at being bold and taking romantic initiative with me but not so much in letting me in to his inner world which has been very emotional for me to deal with. I don’t know how he perceives me but I feel like it doesn’t line up with who I rlly am :/ I feel bad though bc I rlly like him and I want to know the real him and I want him to know the real me. My moon is also square his saturn and his pluto.
totally feel you on this. it’s definitely one of those things where despite how strong the feelings are, you gotta go with your gut on what’s right for just you ❤️ and this might be a tough question, but if he hasn’t really opened up, then one has to wonder, who is it really that you’ve grown feelings for? sending loveee! 💖
My Venus in his 8house and his mars in my 12 house. Safe to say I healed a lot but our relationship is done now. The universe literally stepped in to ensure of that and I’m done ignoring stop signs. Gotta put me first 🫶
💖 love ur explanations, I always had 8th moon / sun / mercury relationship, usually I'm the house person, I'm scorpio stellium (sun, moon, pluto, mercury ♏). this time I have his venus in my 8th leo conjunct vertex, it my first time dealing with venus😅 please which planet do you think do better in this house?? Do scorpio have immunity against that deep energy ?
thank youuuu 💜 i'd say mercury has the least complicated time in the 8th house, but the 8th house in general is always gonna give big transformation energy. can't run or hide from it. i'd also say scorpios wish they had immunity lol. scorpios feel it just as much, if not more 😭
@@theimaniamanda thanks u 💖💖🙏 yeh scorpio is hyper sensitive we feel everything to the core and pick up the energy easily. In love we can be vulnerable and a bit extreme sometimes obsessive 😭😅
can be really loyal, very ride or die energy. there can be a psychic bond where you guys just get each other. problems occur when one or both of you suspect each other of breaking the alliance. once trust is broken, even if it turns out to be nothing, it can be hard to rebuild. there’s no room for ego here otherwise it becomes just two people trying to exert their power over each other. come with all the guards down and it can be a beautiful, supportive, really loving, forever kind of friendship.
the moon softens the pressure venus feels in the 8th on trying to be someone they’re not in order to impress, however there may also be more distance put or more shyness between interacting in any way. this distance can be due to a number of things depending on what else is going on in the chart. but no matter the distance, the connection still feels quite strong and just the mention of their name makes the other feel seduced haha
it’s such a complex question because we all react to things so differently right? and then there’s also different perceptions. so that’s why there are so many differing answers online. my answer is that yes, both the planet and house person receive the same energy and feel the same effects from the synastry overlay. but, how they navigate, transmute and express that, may not always look the same.
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I dated someone where my Venus was in her 8H. She actually approached me first as i was walking thru a store. She said when she spoke to me that first day it was like she couldn’t breathe but something told her to say something. She said i was so chill and relaxed it made her comfortable. I also noticed we're both natal 8H moons
8H moons be so psychic too, not surprised she picked up your energy!
I never got scared of the connection because natally i have a scorpio venus
Wow this is so true. They had their venus and sun in my 8th house. They perused me first and I gave in, but I always felt like I had to hide the dark sides of myself. Things that I didn’t want to face myself, like my sexual past abuse. These were things I had buried deep within in me that I wasn’t ready to face then. They made me feel so uncomfortable and scared all the time. They were so obsessed and crazy in love though. I had nightmares when we slept together. It was truly the heaviest connection. Very triggering! (if you have unresolved buried demons). But yes I did pretend to be this perfect person to impress them… sigh.
Same here. He is obsessed and so devoted in love with me. I’m the 8th house with Pluto, Chiron and Lilith in there. I feel like im hiding so much and running away because of how strongly our bond and love is it’s so intense makes me feel physically ill from past traumas and how strangely triggered i feel.
@@strawberryxoxo6841 omg me too! I’m constantly triggered by him even years after. I also get sick from it. I feel so much physical symptoms from the feelings I have. I think it must be so difficult for the 8th house person to deal with. I’m so sorry you have the same experience as me 😔. I hope you look after yourself always!
@@malukee1 YES ! It is so odd because he’s not abusive nor purposefully trying to trigger me if anything he’s opposite very loving and supportive but he just subconsciously triggers all this in me and i just want to run away from him as far as possible in all honestly he deeply terrifies me and i feel disturbed there’s no logical explanation to it either. I got so many physical symptoms like you and all sorts of different emotions that it feels too much to handle and overwhelming. Very much so as the 8th house person it’s hard so i can’t even begin to imagine what he feels since my absence is destroying him. I can’t live with him but can’t live without him but it’s painful being around him because it’s so intense feels like I can’t breathe 🥺 Thank you and im sorry you’re going through this to ❤️ We’ll get through it .
@@strawberryxoxo6841 exactly right! I can’t live with him and can’t live without him completely. It is very disturbing and I ran away from him a few times in the past, I think he was deeply hurt by it. Unfortunately my person wasn’t as nice as yours though so I’m sort of glad I did to learn my own lessons. I never felt calm or relaxed around him. But you’re right we will get through it! 💪 It’s good to share these things! You’re amazing! 😊❤️
@@strawberryxoxo6841 i have Venus and Sun in his 8 th House and i am the one who loves so unconditionaly and deep and he realy feels triggered by me, he said i notice everything! Iam tired of his games,manipulations and not letting me in, due his traumas and ex gfs... I did everything from my heart and soul and iam crying ,can,t sleep at Nights,miss him so so much.... We shared such a strong deep Bond only for 4 months.. it was so intensive...so many emotions Like never ever with anyone, he is Thunder and storm in my life.
I had this overlay in mutual reception with my ex. (My sun was also in his 8H) It was knowing you love them and they’re aware but we both played games at times in trying to hide how deep it actually was for us. In the end I chose to be as upfront and honest about working on our issues. I think he feared the depth of the connection more than I did by throwing out stuff like “why would I…. I barely know you.” I called it off and started therapy again. Ofc I wanted to go back but the circumstances haven’t aligned to see it as such. Thank you for the video. I definitely see the faults in both of us during the connection.
sending so much loveee, i wish you all the healing! ❤️❤️❤️
I loved this so much! I am the house person in this case and I’m just getting to know my Venus. There was definite instant chemistry but he says he isn’t looking to be in a relationship now because he is working on himself. I am in the same boat, coincidentally, but was willing to give it a shot if he was into starting something. So we’ve decided to just be friends for now and, as much as the rejection does hurt, I am happy to have this incredible person in my life.
love this outlook! 💖💖💖
Had to make the Venus person tell the truth and end the intermittent reinforcement and hot cold insanity. I just said hey shake my hand and admit we ain’t never gonna be a real thing, and let me walk away with this closure and let’s both let go. This is a really challenging situation when only one of you has the depth to go into this. I have natal sun and Venus in my 8th and am ex bff also has her Venus in my 8 and it was a really codependent relationship at times. I wish that the manchild who had his moon and Venus in my 8th was another way but I accept the reality now, and I also apply it. By saying #byeforever
Do you still want and desire the planet person? What your experience
@@lenamontier-ho9ss I haven't seen him since I posted this. I probably would still feel the pull to him, but after the experience, I know better (I basically did always know but wanted to know him carnally lolll despite that), and I suspect that the attraction is now tainted. I'll let you know if I ever run into him again how it goes loll. I always want to see him and yet shudder at the thought of interaction again.
@@GypsyInThirteen did the venus person agree to let go? I as the Venus person still desire the house person , even after some very harsh words were spoken, It gotten much more intense ! Do you still want to say goodbye forever ?
damn i feel called out. i was the house person in my last relationship and i tried so hard to hide certain parts of myself, and overall how i felt about the relationship in order not to make them feel insecure, which ended up kinda fucking up things. at least we managed to stay friends
byeeee this is probably the most accurate description I’ve ever seen😭😭
ayee haha glad it resonated!
Hidden skeletons is so accurate! Where were you! I'm the Venus
I’ve been both the house person and the venus person in different relationships 🫢🫢 it’s not always something nefarious being hidden but still something to be wary of!
You need to do videos on Lilith synastry overlay!!!!! ❤🔥
Lol your descriptions are so spot on
You explained much of what I experienced so well! Thank you ❤
gotchuu 💖💖💖
It's so hard having 8H synastry his venus is in my 8H and my sun,moon,mercury and saturn are in his 8H. I never felt like that for someone and I don't if I ever will again. Even if we don't really talk anymore I can't stop thinking about him it's like our souls are tied together no matter what. I don't know how to get over this
I read initially “our souls are tired” which lol also a mood with 8th house synastry 😭 but yeah ugh it’s so deeply impactful and can be really taxing when you want to move on and feel like you can’t cause they’re a part of your DNA 😭 over time tho I swear the effects do subside. 💖
Omg what an incredible description!! Just discovered your channel and I’m bingeing! Keep up the great work. Thank you. I admire your wisdom ❤
omgg i'm glad you're enjoying the videos!!! 💖 thank you for being hereee ❤
Thank you for this video, i have this overlay- my Venus,sun in his 8 th house! This is all truth! I have noticed that all my important relationships in life,including my marriage,friendships,exes i still care about - all have 8 th house overlay... Maybe because i have my pluto in 5 th and my Mars in scorpio,saturn and vertex....i just love 8 th house it is in my Blood. if i notice there is no 8 th house in synastry or composite i just don't get so deep into.
You the shit baby, PERIODDD 💐
ayye period 😂❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much this is very informative . You’re so gorgeous🪷🪷🪷
You should do sun in the 8th house synastry that would be a good one
agreed! sun overlays coming sooonn ❤️
You are very good!
thank youuuu 💖💖🥰
Absolutely true, girl…
I got my sun , venus and mars in his 8th house...hes run away lol
Gurl, keep up the great work - this was terrific 🎉❤!!!
Have U done vids on Mercury in house overlays ?
thank youuuu 🙏🏿🫶🏿 haven’t done mercury yet but def wanna go through that and all the other planet overlays in the (hopefully near) future! haha 🤍
Omg i have Aries Sun, Mercury, and Venus in the 8th house 😫
I need so much help lmao
lolol 😩 you got this, you were born for this
I like your videos already so aestheticcc
thank youuuu 🥰💖
Hey, can you please also upload this from the pov of the venus person, like what their perspective is..
The Venus person always think about you guys dw😂
New Sub 💜 Glad I came across the channel
ayye thanks for being here 🤗💖 lots more to come!
My ex is a Scorpio sun, mercury, moon, Venus, jupiter and Pluto and the all fall under my 8th House, he stalks me... 😬
screamm 🗣️🗣️😂
🤣🤣🤣I ran
This ain’t for the weak it’s such a whirl wind of emotiona
How was your experience? We’re you the house or planet person?
Hi! I’m the house person in this overlay and I feel like the roles are lowkey reversed in our situation? I feel like I’ve been very honest about who I am with him and have shared a lot of intimate details about myself without him having to ask and when he does I always answer all his questions but he’s barely opened up to me about himself although we’ve been involved for awhile now. I still feel like he’s protecting himself out of fear? He’s very good at being bold and taking romantic initiative with me but not so much in letting me in to his inner world which has been very emotional for me to deal with. I don’t know how he perceives me but I feel like it doesn’t line up with who I rlly am :/ I feel bad though bc I rlly like him and I want to know the real him and I want him to know the real me. My moon is also square his saturn and his pluto.
totally feel you on this. it’s definitely one of those things where despite how strong the feelings are, you gotta go with your gut on what’s right for just you ❤️ and this might be a tough question, but if he hasn’t really opened up, then one has to wonder, who is it really that you’ve grown feelings for? sending loveee! 💖
Same! I’ve been with him for 6 years and still don’t truly know him.
You explain it well but you didn't mention the passion side and attraction
oh no, you right, I didn’t talk much about that side of it but yess there is for sure a lot of passion and attraction here!! ❤️🔥❤️🔥
@@theimaniamanda thank you ❤️
My Venus in his 8house and his mars in my 12 house. Safe to say I healed a lot but our relationship is done now. The universe literally stepped in to ensure of that and I’m done ignoring stop signs. Gotta put me first 🫶
💖 love ur explanations, I always had 8th moon / sun / mercury relationship, usually I'm the house person, I'm scorpio stellium (sun, moon, pluto, mercury ♏). this time I have his venus in my 8th leo conjunct vertex, it my first time dealing with venus😅 please which planet do you think do better in this house?? Do scorpio have immunity against that deep energy ?
thank youuuu 💜 i'd say mercury has the least complicated time in the 8th house, but the 8th house in general is always gonna give big transformation energy. can't run or hide from it. i'd also say scorpios wish they had immunity lol. scorpios feel it just as much, if not more 😭
@@theimaniamanda thanks u 💖💖🙏 yeh scorpio is hyper sensitive we feel everything to the core and pick up the energy easily. In love we can be vulnerable and a bit extreme sometimes obsessive 😭😅
I just want to know how this overlay would be in a friendship
pretty chill, deep loving intimacy (non physical)
can be really loyal, very ride or die energy. there can be a psychic bond where you guys just get each other. problems occur when one or both of you suspect each other of breaking the alliance. once trust is broken, even if it turns out to be nothing, it can be hard to rebuild. there’s no room for ego here otherwise it becomes just two people trying to exert their power over each other. come with all the guards down and it can be a beautiful, supportive, really loving, forever kind of friendship.
@@theimaniamanda that’s exactly how this friendship has been thus far.. we’re like the same person❤️
What if their venus AND moon overlays my 8th house?
the moon softens the pressure venus feels in the 8th on trying to be someone they’re not in order to impress, however there may also be more distance put or more shyness between interacting in any way. this distance can be due to a number of things depending on what else is going on in the chart. but no matter the distance, the connection still feels quite strong and just the mention of their name makes the other feel seduced haha
@@theimaniamanda thanks Imani 🤗 both feel it the same? People on the internet say different things. Don’t know who’s right
it’s such a complex question because we all react to things so differently right? and then there’s also different perceptions. so that’s why there are so many differing answers online. my answer is that yes, both the planet and house person receive the same energy and feel the same effects from the synastry overlay. but, how they navigate, transmute and express that, may not always look the same.
@@theimaniamanda thank you Imani 🤗 that makes so much sense. Do you do synastry readings?
I do! imaniamanda.com/readings 💖
Would you ever do a ascendant in their house series?
definitely! it’s on the schedule 💃🏿💃🏿
What challenge is this?
just one I made up for myself to kickstart my channel really 😬