At 24 and 20 years mnaongea about marriage like seriously,,,,boy child drop that shit piga hustle,, hustle hustle will make you a man ,,,kairetu endà husome mamaaa marriage is not guaranteed
Its more of poverty thinkin leadin poor decision...at 24yrs is time to build urself by making sober decisions n makin 20yr old wife material is not one of them. U r lucky BMS jus saved ya ass..
Even me l thought poverty till when l met Dotty who was paid for college and house paid for 1year, but still rolling with Wababazi is when l concluded not poverty at all and it is beyond my explanation very confusing only what l can advise is that let us decide relationship when we reach 40 yrs.
not only ur grands my unlce tought me one thing.before you think of relationships feed urself proper and test ur capability of providing by feeding dog and cat well,if still there is leftover coins then you qualify to be with partner.guys make sure you pay rent ability of dressing urself and putting something on the table.lowest starter tht should apply.
Don't allow the person who broke your heart to be the reason you can't eat, sleep or function right They don't deserve to keep you paralyzed Get up and start living
When you falk into a ditch you don't ask how did I end up here because utakaa ndani milele.What you do get up and then don't repeat the same mistake.@patricia true you don't need to cry or kill yourself because of someone.jipende kwanza
Most old people met when they were young between 18-22 and most are still together. So age is not the problem, maybe just being in a different generation with different needs is.
A 20 years old girl should be focused on her studies for a good respectful future and to honour her parents who are trying hard to pay for her studies and give her financial support. This guy is maybe 27 to 30 years and not 24.
The fishy fishy smiles from this lady defines much about this relationship.......when the economy is ruining our generation...The girl sounds genuine though 😢
At this point you it's upon you to decide wether to date or to stay single, because you can't dwell your life on others an I think there are good people here outside so hope yo find someone with pure intentions to be on the safe side,,others you will stay single thinking all people are the same of which is not true pray God to get a good partner
BMS has asked some good questions. Sometimes it is the boychild who challenges themselves into relationships they cannot afford. He is not in a position to take care of the lady and live a decent life
Uyu boy anapenda huyu Dem lakini Dem anadai msee akona bmw ama tx landcruser...it's potty kama hauna Hela na wewe ni mwanaume...dear men let's gather and let this young women first date rich guys...if you can't afford responsibilities don't date
Choosing a life partner is a big decision and not one to take lightly. Feel comfortable in who you are and talk about your differences and any potential problems that may arise if you do become married.
This is the most straight forward Lady who is very open and honest and no lies! Indeed, she deserves the title either princess or Queen of Africa! She should really be praised for honesty!
MEN get it from me.... work on yourself first before you start bringing anyone else in your LIFE. GROOM YOURSELF FIRST. NO ROMANCE WITHOUT FINANCE CHIEF........ BUILD YOURSELF!!!!!!!
Young gal wachana na mapenzi,kwanza soma you are luck to have able parents who cares and paying for your education. Don’t regret afterwards am advising you as a daughter mine is the same age too.
@@waa242 ikifika ni mwanamke ku providia mwanaume then maturity itapatikana huko mbele tukiendanga, men of nowadays want to be kept, they've forgotten they are born providers
A student, struggling, what a desperation,jiheshimu . Y stay with person who's not known by your parents? Why stay with a man as husband when schooling and depending on other men and own parents?
Yaaani at 20 young people are straggling with broke boys instead of focusing on studies 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔namiminiko hapa na Miata 33 na sijafikiria mambo ya boyshalid😅😅
Usipate dame , bibi b4 establishing ypirself ....ju ukipata mtoto...etc .. love haiwezi nunua diaper na ilipe rent.....kijana in your 20s focus yako inafaa ikue building yourself....not ngono ....hio starehe wachia wale wako na uwezo
Stivo in this one, umenifurahisha sana na your advice.This guy has no future with this girl.Amwache asome na yeye mwenyewe ajijenge kwanza.They are too young and its too early to be having such problems.
Nowadays u can't trust anyone in the name of love daughters of jezabel are shaking clrts the moment money is mentioned 😅😅😅wacha ningoje 50 yrs ata nkichezwa nakufa nkiendanga.but at this age 3 days bila kula😢
Bro ,,don't rush into any kind of marriage work on yourself,feel yourself, experience yourself and love yourself ,do this first and you will soon attract that special loving other..hand to mouth hautamanage
A good marriage i think inaanza at 30...at 24 my guy hustle kwanza tafta pesa to keep your woman stable and give her better life....bro tafta pesa wachana na waschana wadogo
Steve by the way umepatia huyu kijana ushauri bora kabisa. Atafute pesa aachane na mapenzi kwanza. MTU ana struggle kulisha mtoto ya wenyewe kisha baadaye anaachwa! Shida tupu. Tafuta pesa ujijenge kwanza, ndoa ni baadaye.
Who else feels nowdays madem wakona pesa kuliko their boyfriends na hawafanyi anything kwa relationship except cheating to earn it😂😂😂😂💔
yani huwezi afford food but bado umekwamilia msichana ya mtu, ignorance ni kitu mbaya
Rule no 1.Stability before responsibilities 😊 dear men
2. Refer to rule number 1
😊
Waweke NYEGE kando coz this is so heartbreaking......you can't keep a woman you are not feeding
@wairimuwaihwa2475 you feed what you eat😅😅
@@edukruse7886You eat what u feed😂
@@sarahkimaro75 usikue ivo😅😅😅
The truth remains this young man anajaribu to bring something on the table man mungu akufungulie njia 🙏🙏
At 24 and 20 years mnaongea about marriage like seriously,,,,boy child drop that shit piga hustle,, hustle hustle will make you a man ,,,kairetu endà husome mamaaa marriage is not guaranteed
Mnipee namba ya uyu kijana😢at least yeye anajaribu,Kuna vijana wako uku inje ata hawajaribu🤦mnipee uyu aki😩😩😩😩😩😩
Pia this man is cheating 😂😂 venye alikua ameshtuka ,BMS make sure unaangalia all phones no matter what
Can I say the problem in this world is not loyality or cheating but poverty?
not only poverty a boy can cheat a rich woman
Not poverty tu....but tamaa nd envy...😅
Its more of poverty thinkin leadin poor decision...at 24yrs is time to build urself by making sober decisions n makin 20yr old wife material is not one of them. U r lucky BMS jus saved ya ass..
@@mikek9158 Well said. Thanks
Even me l thought poverty till when l met Dotty who was paid for college and house paid for 1year, but still rolling with Wababazi is when l concluded not poverty at all and it is beyond my explanation very confusing only what l can advise is that let us decide relationship when we reach 40 yrs.
Girl is innocent. Poverty is nayo ni mbaya... mungu ona watoto wako
Good question stevo BMS must you marry now look for money first atleast be stable
If ur a man and you dont have money forget about love nd relationship coz in the end kitakuramba
not only ur grands my unlce tought me one thing.before you think of relationships feed urself proper and test ur capability of providing by feeding dog and cat well,if still there is leftover coins then you qualify to be with partner.guys make sure you pay rent ability of dressing urself and putting something on the table.lowest starter tht should apply.
Don't allow the person who broke your heart to be the reason you can't eat, sleep or function right
They don't deserve to keep you paralyzed
Get up and start living
Enseye mbosa Ragera 😂😂😂
@@fariiabby6375😂😂😂😂
When you falk into a ditch you don't ask how did I end up here because utakaa ndani milele.What you do get up and then don't repeat the same mistake.@patricia true you don't need to cry or kill yourself because of someone.jipende kwanza
@@fariiabby6375😂😂😂😂😂
😂😅 exactly
Steve has really put some good sense into these 2 it's only that the boy seems blinded
Most old people met when they were young between 18-22 and most are still together. So age is not the problem, maybe just being in a different generation with different needs is.
The guy; Nini sijakupatia
The lady; Chakula. 😂😂😂
A 20 years old girl should be focused on her studies for a good respectful future and to honour her parents who are trying hard to pay for her studies and give her financial support. This guy is maybe 27 to 30 years and not 24.
True
Hii ni gaidi that has a masters in manipulating NAIVE young confused girls 😂😂
@@MillicentNjeri-k8phakuna manipulation they are called life choices! When I was 20 I made better decisions
Very true
@@muthoni632 a good lot of people make foolish decisions.
Kama huna pesa wachana na wasichana. Period.
Waaaah,I can’t and I will not marry,acha ninyonge Nilale😂😂😂
My grandmother and grandfather. They told me : " my grandson, when you grow big one day work hard . Work hard. Work hard."
These are the kind of men we have today.."nni cjawai kupea" and you've not eaten anything for the last 3 days,nani aliwaroga nynyi😮😮😮?
Women huu mwaka wenu wa kipanuliwa 😂😂😂😂
Yes mwaka wakupanuliwa
Stivo like seriously eti huyo kijana anakaa pointy😂😂
Boychild kama unataka dem first kuwa financially stable usitake dem yet huna kitu ya kumpea atakucheat bro. Work hard for yourself first
Am 29 and still a baby staying alone going to work not thinking of marrying someone broke that will make me cheat
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
29 you're not a baby lkn tafuta pesa 😂
@@Cee4ke kuwa mkubwa on ur own don't involve me
🧔:Unafanya kazi gani bro
🤷🏽♂️:Natafutatafuta tu 😮😮😮
Me: tafuteni kwanza kuoa ni badae guys sikuhizi sio kama kitambo kutoa chakula kwa shamba
Must a woman be fed 🤣💔🤌 si hata yeye anaeza jitafutia as long as sio kiwete 🤣 anaeza hustle pia
I still say n repeat, BOY CHILD tafuta pesa, marriage is not a joke, ati natafta tafta....
Definitely in😢😢, women can double deal 🤝
Rose coco shook somewhere 😂😂😂😂...aloooooo, nimeenda narudi🚶🚶🚶🚶🤳
The fishy fishy smiles from this lady defines much about this relationship.......when the economy is ruining our generation...The girl sounds genuine though 😢
Team Gulf Nawapenda, Nyinyi tu ndio mko loyal 🤣🤣🤣 Laban and Khubus is my Person 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Unasema tuko loyal 😂😂😂
😂😂 kweli 👌
Sisi ile heartbreaking hutupiga huku nikuona tarehe ya kulipwa ikipita bila fulus 😂😂😂😂
Nko apa swee mapenzi tuliachia wazungu fulus kwanza
Great advice to this young man. I wish the youth can hear and answer the questions you asked this man.
Men with wrong priorities you want someone's daughter to share in your misery in the name of love
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂ati nini ilishake wakuu
Queen of Africa 😂😂😂😂😂😂eeish
Hiyo ilishake lazima iwe ni refu 😂😂
@@eddahwamboi7683 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣u wanna kill me ohh
"Ni nini sijakupatia" BRO!! you Can't even fed me. 🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂malisaaa
Weee sikuizi hakuna mahaba ni kama kutumiana like stayers to move to the nxt level 😍😍😍Woooieee
Yenyewe Hawa watu wana joke 😂😂😂😂😂..dame naye hako serious..Chali ni kinuthia😂😂😂😂
Babygal aki soma tu these things will follow😢😢 I am not judging you you also need to explore..wishing you the best ❤
i got pregnant at 21 trust me i second you in this..gland i was able to go back to school
At this point you it's upon you to decide wether to date or to stay single, because you can't dwell your life on others an I think there are good people here outside so hope yo find someone with pure intentions to be on the safe side,,others you will stay single thinking all people are the same of which is not true pray God to get a good partner
This girl is being genuine and she is still young. Let the boy look for SB mature to move in with
BMS has asked some good questions. Sometimes it is the boychild who challenges themselves into relationships they cannot afford. He is not in a position to take care of the lady and live a decent life
Very true
The only advice I have for young men , leave wasichana wa 19 - 24
Louder please 😅
Watafte pesa kwanza
Very true saa hii mapenzi hakuna Kenya, better kutafuta pesa
Ata kitambo ilikuwa hivyo. You got to have an income. What will your wife and children eat?
Hao bado no slay queen
"Ni mjaluo mwingine tu hapo!!!"😂😂😂
Jamaa tafuta doh mwazo it's too early kulala njaa na hamna mtoi
Women are creatures of comfort!! 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Lord have mercy, sincerely they haven't eaten in two nights, na ruto anapadisha bei, guys this is serious.
😂😂😂😂😂did i here it well ati CLITO WHAT!!!!!!
Uyu boy anapenda huyu Dem lakini Dem anadai msee akona bmw ama tx landcruser...it's potty kama hauna Hela na wewe ni mwanaume...dear men let's gather and let this young women first date rich guys...if you can't afford responsibilities don't date
We date
We agree
Then we get married.
Mrembo focus kwanza relationship later.
Boy focus on building yourself, msichana hawezi lala njaa mandume wakiwa, focus wachana na mapenzi
Choosing a life partner is a big decision and not one to take lightly. Feel comfortable in who you are and talk about your differences and any potential problems that may arise if you do become married.
thats why im still single
That's why singles should pray for their partners even before they get into marriage/ staying together
3 days munalala njaa..na wakati mtapata mtoi itakuwaje
Is my person 😂😂😂😂😂😂you're my person,,,,, weeh ogopa relationship 😅😅😅
"You are the best thing that has ever happened in my life". After the loyalty test, this expression ofttimes turns out to be the complete contrary.
😂😂😂😂
Well, she wasn’t lying because at 20 years what other experiences has she had? She’s young and he is too, first love doesn’t mean the right love
Siku hizi people are confusing kukulana with dating and marriage......you can still smash n live separately until you are able to afford basic needs
That will lead to serious problems in future. Focus on getting qualification, get a solid job, proper work, then get married.
BMS congrats 🎉🎉 you gave this boy a good and educative advise
This is the most straight forward Lady who is very open and honest and no lies!
Indeed, she deserves the title either princess or Queen of Africa! She should really be praised for honesty!
Shida ni kungoja ushikwe kwanza ndo ukue honest
This generation 🔥🔥 next customer 😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
Loyalty ama trust ukitajwa BMS hufeel ka amewin jackpot 😂😂
Laugh or cry? Good Lord, have mercy! 🫢🙆🏽♀️🤷🏾♀️
Aki ita bidi tu blame poverty this time kwa sababu this one is hard
lord, have mercy upon us as we tend to own things that are beyond our capacity.
Amen
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MEN get it from me.... work on yourself first before you start bringing anyone else in your LIFE. GROOM YOURSELF FIRST. NO ROMANCE WITHOUT FINANCE CHIEF........ BUILD YOURSELF!!!!!!!
Young gal wachana na mapenzi,kwanza soma you are luck to have able parents who cares and paying for your education. Don’t regret afterwards am advising you as a daughter mine is the same age too.
i usually advice my son to marry at 30 least my daughter at 26 at most
😂 what if he marries at 30 with nothing...
Remind him to marry when able to feed a wife otherwise kitamramba
@@Vixymush a wife will come with food too, maturity mbele
I'm now 26 yrs but I can't even think about marriage
@@waa242 ikifika ni mwanamke ku providia mwanaume then maturity itapatikana huko mbele tukiendanga, men of nowadays want to be kept, they've forgotten they are born providers
A student, struggling, what a desperation,jiheshimu .
Y stay with person who's not known by your parents?
Why stay with a man as husband when schooling and depending on other men and own parents?
Wueh Love hurts kwl me nilishagive up
Leon wuod kisumo, i hope this is not you😂😂😂
The boy isn't ready to sustain a relationship. Young girl you are just right.
Boyz anapigwa reality check😂😂
Boychild mwenye hana hela anatafuta dem broke sasa mtakula nini.
Yaaani at 20 young people are straggling with broke boys instead of focusing on studies 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔namiminiko hapa na Miata 33 na sijafikiria mambo ya boyshalid😅😅
Clitoris shaking yawa😂😂😂😂
Siku hizi tau moja tu ndio hinawaingiza mchongo😂😂😂🇹🇿🇹🇿🇹🇿
Usipate dame , bibi b4 establishing ypirself ....ju ukipata mtoto...etc .. love haiwezi nunua diaper na ilipe rent.....kijana in your 20s focus yako inafaa ikue building yourself....not ngono ....hio starehe wachia wale wako na uwezo
Stivo in this one, umenifurahisha sana na your advice.This guy has no future with this girl.Amwache asome na yeye mwenyewe ajijenge kwanza.They are too young and its too early to be having such problems.
The other man blinded with critoris.akatuma kitu ilahali huyu mwingine anaishake tu.hizi vitu hazichoki yawa😂
She is just 20years what else did you expect??
20 and wasted
Waa! My dad once told me nisichukue msichana wa mtu akuje kulala njaa kwangu 🤔
Nowadays u can't trust anyone in the name of love daughters of jezabel are shaking clrts the moment money is mentioned 😅😅😅wacha ningoje 50 yrs ata nkichezwa nakufa nkiendanga.but at this age 3 days bila kula😢
😂😂😂wueh
Guys stay away from marrying or come we we stay …hii shida ya kenya is too much…hustle for your own stomach until you get stable
Bro ,,don't rush into any kind of marriage work on yourself,feel yourself, experience yourself and love yourself ,do this first and you will soon attract that special loving other..hand to mouth hautamanage
ATI CRITO WHAT????😂I go bearish on this
Teams Gulf tujikaze at least tukirundi Kenya uko na something unaweza fanya hakuna marriage and trustful
Steve eti huyu n mjaluo mwingine tu hapo🤣🤣🤣
😂 😂 😂 😂 if you can't maintain a woman stay single
Stevoo surely ati mtu anashake Hadi clitoris jamani 😂😂
they look immarture for real.....hawa lazima watarudiana
Atti the shaking clittoris😂😂😂..guy!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂waaa bro unalalia kwa bed ya wenyewe pole
A good marriage i think inaanza at 30...at 24 my guy hustle kwanza tafta pesa to keep your woman stable and give her better life....bro tafta pesa wachana na waschana wadogo
Umesaidia kuchagua bed😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
C Hana job ingine 🤣😂😂😂
Gal...run!!!!,this one is too comfortable with poverty
So, ni "mjaluo mwengine tu hapo" Bigman lol.
Wanawake wote wanafuata tabia za akothe na umaraya yake,Akothe ame haribu ndoa mingi,imagine wanataka kukaa maisha soft kama akothee
Wenyewe nikaa hawajiamini😂😂😂😂😂
Steve by the way umepatia huyu kijana ushauri bora kabisa. Atafute pesa aachane na mapenzi kwanza. MTU ana struggle kulisha mtoto ya wenyewe kisha baadaye anaachwa! Shida tupu. Tafuta pesa ujijenge kwanza, ndoa ni baadaye.
Wee huyo jamaa anarusha mistari hivyo anatoka county Gani 😂😂
Steve Aki in the end wewe hunibamba sana......😂