this video made me cry, like as someone w no mom and just hearing what our parents think and how we can relate to them in more ways than we believe so. this video truly warms my heart. thank u jazz, we love uu.
Our parents shape a lot of who we are, and it's important we come to understand and love that side of ourselves, rather than shame it away. I'm really grateful this video could bring you some warmth💗💗 sending you so much love🫂
obviously parents are meant to act like adults, but your mom is truly so mature. i can’t name a lot of parents who could have a conversation like this with their kid
"How have I hurt your feelings before" question made me sad. it's relatable with my mom and i and im trying to grow past hanging out with my friends only. i'm so glad i got to hear both your perspectives on this.
This video was so precious to watch. I started tearing up at some parts. This is definitely a classic and I'm excited to return to this video every few years when I'm in need of some comfort. Definitely needed to hear the value part, thank you!
this was genuinely so beautiful. having a narsasistic mum has really impacted my life and seeing how well you guys were able to resolve your issues and talk so maturely about things was really wonderful to watch
I wish I knew when I was younger that your relationship with your parents still has so much potential to change!!! I'm really happy this resonated with you💝
having a mom to just sit down to just talk to seems so sweet. my momma makes jokes everytime i wanna have a serious conversation but i love her so much:D
your mom is so precious! i love this type of content that you make and it’s been so beautiful watching your style and creativity change over the years. i started watching you in middle school and im now a high school senior graduating still watching your videos. you’ve helped me through a lot love you jazzy!! ❤️
i'm so glad you're back!! Your content is so powerful, especially this one. as a daughter of an Asian mother, and in my first yr of college, I feel so much of this and I'm hopeful for the growth to come. this was a great convo with your mom :)
as someone who is a filipina and the eldest, i totally get where your mom is coming from. being the eldest in a filipino household, or just generally being in an asian household, can get a bit pressuring, and being open and talking about feelings like this is somewhat taboo in an asian household hahahaha. so im really happy and kinda envious to see that you and your mom get to sit down and just talk, i hope i can talk to my mom like this, i can see the efforts that the both of you did to each other to have the relationship that both of you have now and its beautiful.
37:04I don't think it's biological, funnily enough. I think society has conditioned us to believe that the male gaze is the most important thing. The second girls are born, they are told that their wedding will be the most important day of their life. They should look pretty and be nice and smile in order to fulfill the "destiny" that is marrying a man. We have become so conditioned in the patriarchy, and it shows in every area of a women's life. For example, the desire to have boy crush on you, even if you don't like him back. The way you automatically straighten your spine when you walk past a group of boys on the street. How your life seems boring when you don't have a crush. It's in all we do, so it's no wonder so many of us struggle to detach our value from how men see us, especially romantically. It is almost as if having someone be interested in you proves to others that you are desirable.
I choked when your Mama said "I'm sorry" 😭 I also have a mother who is of color and an immigrant, honestly our mothers share a similiar background. this makes me realize I can also have a better relationship w my mother, and there's still hope. thank you for having this ep bc I know me and many others who have complicated relationships w their mothers can have an example where it doesn't have to be strained if two people are willing to do the work. im also accepting my own faults and acknowledging what could I have done better. I know one day it is going to be better! so thank you once again
she is sososo wise and well spoken and its so inspiring especially since she said she didnt grow up in the best conditions and she was able to grow from it and change for her family nearly brought me to TEARS BRO
aw jazz i love this video. you hit some questions i also feel i couldn’t ask my mom and it’s so helpful to hear yours speaking about those things ! yalls relationship is inspiring . ily
Jazzy, I have been watching your videos since Seven Super Girls and am now 22 and a senior in college :') As a viewer all this time, I feel like I've grown up along with you and love how your recent videos about finding yourself in your 20's are just as relevant to me now as your room tours were to me 10+ years ago LMAO This is truly one of the most beautiful videos I have seen from you! Growing up Latina, I had such a similar experience with my mom and now she's my absolute best friend after going to college and being given the space to fully appreciate one another. This was such a lovely and vulnerable conversation!!
Omg that is so wonderful to hear, I'm so happy you and your Mom have been able to grow into fully appreciating one another💗💗 Thank you for watching, I'm also really excited to be uploading again!! :)
LOVE U JAZZYYY mother and daughter relationships are always the most confusing 💞 thank you for helping 💞 also LOVE the outifts and how creative your being, its inspiring
I loved this video. As someone who has always had a good relationship with their mum and is starting to grow up and become my own person it was really nice to listen to you guys talk. It reminded me of my mother and I a bit. I watched/listened to this in 2 parts, just listened to it like a podcast on my walk. Your wise words at such a young age always amaze me and I love taking them into account. I'll have to share this video with my mum, thank you jazzy ❤
This healed something in me that I’ve been neglecting about myself for a real long time. Thank you jazzy, I’ve been watching you since 2016, and it’s so amazing being able to witness how much you’ve grown as a person as well as your mom.
I just wanted to say, in fairness to both my sis, Nene (Socorro) and Manang Glo, both of them were adopted by our Aunt at such a young age and immigrated to Canada. So both of them grow up with our Aunt who became their Mother. And yes restricted to a lot of things esp cannot date until finished school (same with me) there’s also the fear from our Aunt that if they didn’t turned out to be great or professional she will be blamed by our parents. And both my sisters helped me thru my College and even paid for everything so I can have a better life in Canada. I owe it to them! So Jazzy thank you for this and for my beloved Sister. And that “serenade” thing how you express you like a girl we call it “harana” in Filipino.
seeing both of you pretty women being extremely aware of your actions and the reasonings behind them is insanely healing. I love my mom but there are obviously some communication problems which i hope we can fix. Great video love u Jazzy🤍
44:35 (hi jazzy i loved this video btw!) i just watched to touch on this as an atheist girlie because i respect dating based on personal religious belief because i often feel the same way when looking for a partner, but i do believe it is a little misguided to say that atheists don't have a particular wonder about the world and that we believe in "nothing"!! although i don't specifically believe in a higher being or god and i grew up as an atheist, i do have really personal and optimistic beliefs on the beauty/cycle of life and personhood that are harder to define under an institutional religion and they are rlly personal and important to me :) but i think not wanting to date an atheist is completely valid because i'm also not sure i would want to date someone who were very religious due to that pressure to convert and not being able to see eye to eye; i am also a bisexual asian girl (yay!!) and have experienced a lot of first-hand push back and hurtful comments about my sexuality from "friends" who claimed to be devout christians, so i think it can get complicated sometimes. i don't think those people represent all christians, but i have seen how religion can be used as a weapon sometimes for hatred and discrimination and i guess i just wanted to vouch not only for religious toleration amongst people of different religions but also those who may not practice religion at all as well! i cannot speak for all nonreligious people because there are horrible people in every group, but i often feel misunderstood and misrepresented as a nonreligious person because i don't want to be lumped in with a stereotype or minority of atheists who are just "edgy" and unkind to spiritual people who have different beliefs. i believe that i am also "religious" in my own way due to the personal philosophy and morals i hold dear to me, even if it's not as conventional as others or it doesn't involve a god. without rambling for too long and oversimplifying core beliefs of mine, i do believe in a "balance" and joy in life that makes the human experience meaningful (similar to the order and hope christians may see in a god, i see it in the universe and in other people) and i get emotional thinking about my role in the world as well. it is difficult to communicate these abstract feelings/thoughts to people who may be more used to seeing this value in a god, but i hope others understand that i am someone who has love and optimism for the world as much as they do. as someone who has had a very complicated relationship with my mom over the years due to a lot of emotional and physical abuse in my childhood, i loved this video so much :) forgiveness has been difficult for me even after spending some apart at college, and although she has gotten better and i am very patient with her, i know i have not fully forgiven her for the trauma and that i still resent her even if i try to ignore it. at the same time, i am proud of myself for persevering through difficult circumstances and i feel that a lot of the love i have for myself comes from knowing i could advocate for myself and survive through difficult times. seeing how you have repaired your relationship with your mom is so beautiful and comforting to see. :) i never comment on youtube videos (especially stuff this personal and i apologize for writing so much) but i just had to respond to yours! i've been struggling a lot lately because i'm a junior in college and graduating early this year, so the stress of postgrad has made me feel lost and overwhelmed lately. watching youtubers like you and seeing people in my own age range give advice or talk about important topics makes me feel less alone sometimes in this stage of life! you're doing such good work :')
Thank you so much for commenting about this because I myself was feeling the same way. Maybe jazzy meant she couldn’t connect with atheists on a spiritual level, but I also feel it was misguided to say we don’t have the same wonder about the world. People have this misconception that atheists are just the way they are because they don’t bother to worry about the higher powers in the universe or we just don’t care but actually most of us did have that wonder about the world, which is how we came to our conclusion, that we are atheists. Infact we still have that same wonder just not spiritually and in different ways like you said with your philosophical beliefs as someone who doesn’t believe in god. Hearing her say that kinda made me a bit disappointed (this is completely personal) because it felt like confirming a paranoia I have whenever I meet new people. In general I have the irrational fear of people I’ve just met with clashing beliefs thinking differently of me and stereotyping or having some sort of prejudice against me because I say I believe/am apart of a certain thing, especially with religion. And like you also said, your “friends” treated you exactly like that. I just feel more comfortable around atheists or people with similar beliefs about religion because it feels like I’m automatically accepted. Not saying I wouldn’t get along with a religious/spiritual person but I feel wary around them because of that paranoia that they might feel harshly towards me, but I’ve met some religious people who are very sweet and understanding, so I’m not at all saying all of them will react like this. But overall I can’t control peoples values/beliefs nor can I tell them who they should and shouldn’t want to be friends with, I respect anyone as long as they themselves are respectful with their beliefs. I also don’t comment often but I related a lot to this comment as somebody who also happens to be a bisexual Asian atheist girl with a seemingly similar outlook on life so thanks
6:54 omg your mom is so sweet. I understand being more yourself around friends because my friends are queer and my parents are homophobic🤪 So this was very beautiful to hear
I think you guys look amazing I wish that i could kick it awhile but all my busines keeps me busy . I hope to link up soon so that I can best enjoy y'alls company. 😂
“i don’t like jazzy at all!” i say, then i suddenly tripped and fell to the ground as multiple pictures of her fell out of my bag, “Wait!” i say “these aren’t mine!”
Continue the conversation with me here😊 www.patreon.com/JazzyAnne
Omg patreon
Hearing your Mum say "sorry" in such an authentic way literally altered my brain chemistry
this video made me cry, like as someone w no mom and just hearing what our parents think and how we can relate to them in more ways than we believe so. this video truly warms my heart. thank u jazz, we love uu.
Our parents shape a lot of who we are, and it's important we come to understand and love that side of ourselves, rather than shame it away. I'm really grateful this video could bring you some warmth💗💗 sending you so much love🫂
I REMEMBER THIS DIVA MUM FROM A FEW SSG VIDEOS.
IK I LITERALLY GOT EMOTIONAL
"😉✨"
obviously parents are meant to act like adults, but your mom is truly so mature. i can’t name a lot of parents who could have a conversation like this with their kid
You guys are so emotionally intelligent, this was beautiful.
"How have I hurt your feelings before" question made me sad. it's relatable with my mom and i and im trying to grow past hanging out with my friends only. i'm so glad i got to hear both your perspectives on this.
This video was so precious to watch. I started tearing up at some parts. This is definitely a classic and I'm excited to return to this video every few years when I'm in need of some comfort. Definitely needed to hear the value part, thank you!
It'll be here whenever you need it❤ Thank you!!
Jazzy and Coy posted a new video on the same day.... what a Christmas miracle!!! :D
I was just thinking that lol
LITERALLY!😸
you are so cute💗💗 thank you for noticing😊
this was genuinely so beautiful. having a narsasistic mum has really impacted my life and seeing how well you guys were able to resolve your issues and talk so maturely about things was really wonderful to watch
i aspire to have a relationship with my parents like this. thank you for showing me it’s even possible 💗
I wish I knew when I was younger that your relationship with your parents still has so much potential to change!!! I'm really happy this resonated with you💝
having a mom to just sit down to just talk to seems so sweet. my momma makes jokes everytime i wanna have a serious conversation but i love her so much:D
This is so healing and beautiful 🥺💛
your mom is so precious! i love this type of content that you make and it’s been so beautiful watching your style and creativity change over the years. i started watching you in middle school and im now a high school senior graduating still watching your videos. you’ve helped me through a lot love you jazzy!! ❤️
This healed something in me. Thank you jazzy.
i'm so glad you're back!! Your content is so powerful, especially this one. as a daughter of an Asian mother, and in my first yr of college, I feel so much of this and I'm hopeful for the growth to come. this was a great convo with your mom :)
as someone who is a filipina and the eldest, i totally get where your mom is coming from. being the eldest in a filipino household, or just generally being in an asian household, can get a bit pressuring, and being open and talking about feelings like this is somewhat taboo in an asian household hahahaha. so im really happy and kinda envious to see that you and your mom get to sit down and just talk, i hope i can talk to my mom like this, i can see the efforts that the both of you did to each other to have the relationship that both of you have now and its beautiful.
real
How come you don’t say “welcome back snacks” any more, I loved that 😭
37:04I don't think it's biological, funnily enough. I think society has conditioned us to believe that the male gaze is the most important thing. The second girls are born, they are told that their wedding will be the most important day of their life. They should look pretty and be nice and smile in order to fulfill the "destiny" that is marrying a man. We have become so conditioned in the patriarchy, and it shows in every area of a women's life. For example, the desire to have boy crush on you, even if you don't like him back. The way you automatically straighten your spine when you walk past a group of boys on the street. How your life seems boring when you don't have a crush. It's in all we do, so it's no wonder so many of us struggle to detach our value from how men see us, especially romantically. It is almost as if having someone be interested in you proves to others that you are desirable.
all of this is true ❤
your momma is so stylish ❤ love to see where you got your taste in fashion i love you both
I choked when your Mama said "I'm sorry" 😭 I also have a mother who is of color and an immigrant, honestly our mothers share a similiar background. this makes me realize I can also have a better relationship w my mother, and there's still hope. thank you for having this ep bc I know me and many others who have complicated relationships w their mothers can have an example where it doesn't have to be strained if two people are willing to do the work. im also accepting my own faults and acknowledging what could I have done better. I know one day it is going to be better! so thank you once again
she is sososo wise and well spoken and its so inspiring especially since she said she didnt grow up in the best conditions and she was able to grow from it and change for her family nearly brought me to TEARS BRO
aw jazz i love this video. you hit some questions i also feel i couldn’t ask my mom and it’s so helpful to hear yours speaking about those things ! yalls relationship is inspiring . ily
Sara aww ilysm, thank you for tuning in🥺🥺💝💝 that means so much to me, I'm really happy this resonated
omgggg i loved this video. my mom is a lot like yours and had to change and grow overtime but now we’re better than ever. such a good watch!!!
Jazzy, I have been watching your videos since Seven Super Girls and am now 22 and a senior in college :') As a viewer all this time, I feel like I've grown up along with you and love how your recent videos about finding yourself in your 20's are just as relevant to me now as your room tours were to me 10+ years ago LMAO This is truly one of the most beautiful videos I have seen from you! Growing up Latina, I had such a similar experience with my mom and now she's my absolute best friend after going to college and being given the space to fully appreciate one another. This was such a lovely and vulnerable conversation!!
Omg that is so wonderful to hear, I'm so happy you and your Mom have been able to grow into fully appreciating one another💗💗 Thank you for watching, I'm also really excited to be uploading again!! :)
LOVE U JAZZYYY mother and daughter relationships are always the most confusing 💞 thank you for helping 💞 also LOVE the outifts and how creative your being, its inspiring
OK BUT KNEW INTRO AAATTTTEEEE ❤❤❤
i love the new intro so much it fits your vibe!!
I loved this video. As someone who has always had a good relationship with their mum and is starting to grow up and become my own person it was really nice to listen to you guys talk. It reminded me of my mother and I a bit. I watched/listened to this in 2 parts, just listened to it like a podcast on my walk. Your wise words at such a young age always amaze me and I love taking them into account. I'll have to share this video with my mum, thank you jazzy ❤
This healed something in me that I’ve been neglecting about myself for a real long time. Thank you jazzy, I’ve been watching you since 2016, and it’s so amazing being able to witness how much you’ve grown as a person as well as your mom.
Thank you Jazzy, and thanks to her Mama. What a great video that warmed my heart. You’re always so relatable when I need it, Jazzy.
I LOVED THIS!!! Both of you are so emotionally intelligent and hearing the different "generational" perspectives was sooooo cool and insightful!
It's so crazy to watch you grow as a content creator, film maker, and as person!
I just wanted to say, in fairness to both my sis, Nene (Socorro) and Manang Glo, both of them were adopted by our Aunt at such a young age and immigrated to Canada. So both of them grow up with our Aunt who became their Mother. And yes restricted to a lot of things esp cannot date until finished school (same with me) there’s also the fear from our Aunt that if they didn’t turned out to be great or professional she will be blamed by our parents. And both my sisters helped me thru my College and even paid for everything so I can have a better life in Canada. I owe it to them! So Jazzy thank you for this and for my beloved Sister. And that “serenade” thing how you express you like a girl we call it “harana” in Filipino.
I love you❤❤ thank you for tuning in!!!
This was beautiful Jazzy!!!! I love this ❤
This was such a good video! I’m glad you’re back to making videos, it’s so fun to see your creativity shine through
I'm really happy to be back too...... I miss us😔🥀
This is literally the best video I have ever watched omg
thank you to these 2 beautiful women for shairng their wisdom
I am LOVING the new content lately 💌
I haven’t seen your mom in a long time in your vids aww I clicked on this video immediately
genuinely this gave me so much hope ❤ love u guys ugh i shed a tear
seeing both of you pretty women being extremely aware of your actions and the reasonings behind them is insanely healing. I love my mom but there are obviously some communication problems which i hope we can fix. Great video love u Jazzy🤍
love the mics, jaz
im so so grateful ur back!!!! we missed u sm
LOVE THE NEW INTRO 😍
i can’t wait to be able to talk with my mom like this one day
This is so wholesome💗
not really on topic,but your fashion sense is completely amazing
44:35 (hi jazzy i loved this video btw!) i just watched to touch on this as an atheist girlie because i respect dating based on personal religious belief because i often feel the same way when looking for a partner, but i do believe it is a little misguided to say that atheists don't have a particular wonder about the world and that we believe in "nothing"!! although i don't specifically believe in a higher being or god and i grew up as an atheist, i do have really personal and optimistic beliefs on the beauty/cycle of life and personhood that are harder to define under an institutional religion and they are rlly personal and important to me :) but i think not wanting to date an atheist is completely valid because i'm also not sure i would want to date someone who were very religious due to that pressure to convert and not being able to see eye to eye; i am also a bisexual asian girl (yay!!) and have experienced a lot of first-hand push back and hurtful comments about my sexuality from "friends" who claimed to be devout christians, so i think it can get complicated sometimes. i don't think those people represent all christians, but i have seen how religion can be used as a weapon sometimes for hatred and discrimination and i guess i just wanted to vouch not only for religious toleration amongst people of different religions but also those who may not practice religion at all as well! i cannot speak for all nonreligious people because there are horrible people in every group, but i often feel misunderstood and misrepresented as a nonreligious person because i don't want to be lumped in with a stereotype or minority of atheists who are just "edgy" and unkind to spiritual people who have different beliefs. i believe that i am also "religious" in my own way due to the personal philosophy and morals i hold dear to me, even if it's not as conventional as others or it doesn't involve a god. without rambling for too long and oversimplifying core beliefs of mine, i do believe in a "balance" and joy in life that makes the human experience meaningful (similar to the order and hope christians may see in a god, i see it in the universe and in other people) and i get emotional thinking about my role in the world as well. it is difficult to communicate these abstract feelings/thoughts to people who may be more used to seeing this value in a god, but i hope others understand that i am someone who has love and optimism for the world as much as they do.
as someone who has had a very complicated relationship with my mom over the years due to a lot of emotional and physical abuse in my childhood, i loved this video so much :) forgiveness has been difficult for me even after spending some apart at college, and although she has gotten better and i am very patient with her, i know i have not fully forgiven her for the trauma and that i still resent her even if i try to ignore it. at the same time, i am proud of myself for persevering through difficult circumstances and i feel that a lot of the love i have for myself comes from knowing i could advocate for myself and survive through difficult times. seeing how you have repaired your relationship with your mom is so beautiful and comforting to see. :) i never comment on youtube videos (especially stuff this personal and i apologize for writing so much) but i just had to respond to yours! i've been struggling a lot lately because i'm a junior in college and graduating early this year, so the stress of postgrad has made me feel lost and overwhelmed lately. watching youtubers like you and seeing people in my own age range give advice or talk about important topics makes me feel less alone sometimes in this stage of life! you're doing such good work :')
Thank you so much for commenting about this because I myself was feeling the same way. Maybe jazzy meant she couldn’t connect with atheists on a spiritual level, but I also feel it was misguided to say we don’t have the same wonder about the world. People have this misconception that atheists are just the way they are because they don’t bother to worry about the higher powers in the universe or we just don’t care but actually most of us did have that wonder about the world, which is how we came to our conclusion, that we are atheists. Infact we still have that same wonder just not spiritually and in different ways like you said with your philosophical beliefs as someone who doesn’t believe in god.
Hearing her say that kinda made me a bit disappointed (this is completely personal) because it felt like confirming a paranoia I have whenever I meet new people. In general I have the irrational fear of people I’ve just met with clashing beliefs thinking differently of me and stereotyping or having some sort of prejudice against me because I say I believe/am apart of a certain thing, especially with religion. And like you also said, your “friends” treated you exactly like that. I just feel more comfortable around atheists or people with similar beliefs about religion because it feels like I’m automatically accepted. Not saying I wouldn’t get along with a religious/spiritual person but I feel wary around them because of that paranoia that they might feel harshly towards me, but I’ve met some religious people who are very sweet and understanding, so I’m not at all saying all of them will react like this.
But overall I can’t control peoples values/beliefs nor can I tell them who they should and shouldn’t want to be friends with, I respect anyone as long as they themselves are respectful with their beliefs. I also don’t comment often but I related a lot to this comment as somebody who also happens to be a bisexual Asian atheist girl with a seemingly similar outlook on life so thanks
6:54 omg your mom is so sweet. I understand being more yourself around friends because my friends are queer and my parents are homophobic🤪 So this was very beautiful to hear
Me trying to figure out where the microphones are for 52 minutes straight
this is so so so wholesome.🫶
I love your mom so much it’s insane❤❤❤
Well I love her more😠😠😠😠😠
@ no I love her more 😤😤😤
WE 💗 YOU MOMMA JAZZ ‼️
thank you for sharing this❤
2 iconic divas using toothbrushes as mics 🫡
I am so grateful for this video. ❤
she’s now OUR mom 🫶🏼
heyyy girl heyyy JAZZY posted
this video made me very happy thank you both never die
i loved this video so much its a beautiful video
Aww your mom is so pretty
JAZZYY I hope this was such a fun video to make
IT WASSSSS I love my mommy so much!!! I hope you can tell it was fun to do😊
Coming from coys podcast!!! U are sooo funny so had to come to ur channel and subscribe!!!!
AHHH welcome to the channel I hope you enjoy what you watch!!! 😊
i love this bc i don’t have a mum to ask these things :,)
jazzy did you dress your mom? i love her outfit and it is so you! or maybe you are so her? i love you guys❤️
I think you guys look amazing I wish that i could kick it awhile but all my busines keeps me busy . I hope to link up soon so that I can best enjoy y'alls company. 😂
This was so genuine
I love this !!
this is an iconic moment 🥹love yall down
your videos bring me joy
love this. thank you.
34:55 my favorite part❤️🩹
You two are so fashionable 😭
absolutely loved this.
Love the new intro
awww i love this😖
Ur mom's outfit ATE
That was so precious wow
i quite do love this
this is lovely
I LOVE YOU JAZZY your videos are so healing I've watched you for the longest and this is one on my tops because you're so real I adore you ❤
awwww tita is talking about HARANA 31:29 🫶🥰
Your mom is so wise
This is so healing
Omg ur mom is so chill
omg her mum is adorable
“i don’t like jazzy at all!” i say, then i suddenly tripped and fell to the ground as multiple pictures of her fell out of my bag, “Wait!” i say “these aren’t mine!”
we KNOW these DIVAS💜
Jazzy what do you think helped you get closer to your mom, and letting go of some of your ego to connect with her better?
Yea yea yea
35:24 ate down
Lmao the way your mom talks about sex my mom could never but she’s gotten better with my younger siblings
thank you mom
I have missed this megawatt smile.
It took me 10 minutes to realize they were holding up toothbrushes instead of a microphone😭
the og Diva mother 💜
nice video with your mom jazzy
Does the title say "Asian" instead of Filipina because it would be recommended to more people?
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Using a toothbrush is amazing🎉🎉🎉
We all know this diva