I'm actually really glad that Denise made the decision she did. They're not good together. Also, it's really interesting to me how this show is so much more about dysfunctional people than dysfunctional dogs.
I actually think she made the right call too, but not because of him. She was a bitch. She wasn't looking at all 3 dogs as their dogs, like Victoria said. She was looking at his dogs and her dog. She wanted him to be perfect after 2 days, because hes the human. Humans are creatures of habit, andoldhabitsarehard to break. He was trying. We just didn't get to see it because she was being such a bitch the whole time.
It's amazing how many owners complain about their dog peeing/pooping in he house, and then the solution is just to walk it. Why on earth do people get a dog, if they're not gonna walk it?
23:25 (just prior to this time stamp) he says "the women stick together, because that's what women do." That comment made my blood boil. Right then and there, in addition to the smirks he keeps giving his fiance behind her back, tells me this man is not worth it. Maybe I'll change my mind by the end. His cavalier attitude, disregard and disrespect for his fiance does not bode well for their future even if the dog issues is resolved.
@@CervineSkol , how so? If a woman degrades a man with no merit it's considered bold and brave. If a man degrades a woman it's considered sexist and immoral. No wonder men are claiming to be women and shutting women down with their own double standards.
she own a husky and it's well behaved and he owns 2 small dogs that not will behave that says a lot to me😂 she was right, if he wanted that they could behave he must've put effort into it 😂
Yes being always not serious on things are not good in a relationship 😢 imagine casper has bite a lot of people and he doesnt do anything about the situation when hes dog can be taught 😮💨
2 small dogs that appear to be some type of terrier mix, which are extremely difficult dogs themselves - very high energy and constantly searching and hunting. Obviously he's still a pretty ignorant owner, but his dogs aren't easy just because they're smaller. His dogs are literally the picture perfect example of the frantic anxiety stricken angst a dog lives in constantly when the owner has the attitude he has of "that's just what dogs do!"
Denise cant hard to move on while the guy is so dramatic 😂 its not really dogs problem casper reaction is What happen i thought im the problem 😂😂😂 this couple seems to act like when they are in highschool 😮💨
Honestly Denise made the right decision, some times even strong willed ladies like her are manipulated. But Denise really stood her ground, worked with the problem, gave him time, did everything in her power and was even okay with saying goodbye to him. I am glad she did that, guys like this will just keep pushing and pushing and emotionally manipulating things. And even in the end he never once agreed it was his fault, kept making it like as if it was her fault for giving 2 days time. It was NOT 2 DAYS MARK IT WAS HER WHOLE LIFE - however long she lived with u, she gave all that chance for u to make up for it and u put in zero effort. Denise deserves better and the poor pups deserve better too and the husky too. this is the first time I am seeing someone actually standing up and throwing someone out instead of allowing themselves to be manipulated. Denise is awesome for this ! Mad respectttt for that women !
Love Victoria, wanted so bad to afford her classes but instead learning from her videos is just as good. It’s funny sharing her tips because people look at me like I’m a god when I fix their issues lol
Victoria is a good trainer for sure! Herr techniques aren't that different to many others though... If you want to learn you could get a cheaper course for sure
I believe Denise's issue was primarily related to Mark's overall attitude. It wasn't just about the dogs; they would argue about groceries, his behavior towards other women, and even taking out the trash. Denise would be better off with someone who is more serious, while Mark might be better suited with a girl who is more easy-going.
I'm easy going, and in no way in hell would I even want to be in the same room as that man. He definitely has personal issues. And the fact he has issues with women in general? Only a woman who doesn't value herself as a human would date a person like him.
One can be easy-going and still take responsibility for their actions. I'm not sure anyone would be a good fit for such an immature man. Two such people is just a disaster in the making, in my opinion.
Any man who would let his dogs bite his friends and family members 12-18 times and wouldn't do anything about it until he's kicked out of the house is not fit for a relationship. He needs to grow up.
I think this was a happy ending, all that matters is that Casper got trained and is doing really well. The couple on the other hand, they are gonna be much better off seeing other people because they just really aren’t compatible, with or without the dog issue.
It's shocking that the men was soo nonchalant about everything and the fact that he thought the husky was well behaved speaks such volumes and if the husky was an aggresive dog then the outcomes would be so so bad.....
You're right. He uses 'love' as a way to manipulate her. If he loved or respected any of the friends and family members that those dogs bit 12-18 times he would've done something long before he got kicked out of the house.
Listening them fight is giving me headache. Denise made right decision He is not ready to be serious about this situation. It's hard to put up with such people. I know because I'm one of them.
The couple had faith once upon time maybe several years back. But as their promises got broken (especially he never followed through), there’s no more faith and trust in that person. He’s a manipulative guy who was disrespectful towards his own fiancé to live in her place for free.
This guy just wanted to live rent free in her house 😂 he’s not taking any responsibility of his own dogs and he’s blaming her for it! If you really loved her you would have put in the work! Like omg grow up! He was embarrassed when told his dog was scared! 😮 He was happily proud that Casper was violent! C’mon it’s not you she’s talking about! Poor dogs 😢
Jack Russell terriers may be cute, but they're some of the most energetic dogs around. Don't get them unless you're willing to commit to working with them.
Mark doesn't know what hard work is. He preferes to be happy-go-lucky. Effects: stubborn dogs. And of course everyone, the while world is to blame but not him...
Mark had 0 ability to take responsibility. Even when it was pointed out directly to him what he was doing, he claimed that Victoria and his wife were talking that way to him because "that's what women do". His dog bit other people/animals 12 times and he couldn't understand why they were telling him to take it seriously. So frustrating.
If someone told me to pick between them and my dog, my dog always wins. Having said that, being a dog owner means training your dog, walking your dog and making sure he's well behaved otherwise you can't claim to love them, you have to meet their needs and in return they're easy, friendly, and awesome company for everyone and there is no argument.
It’s funny cause he’ll say he’ll choose the dog but then gets mad cause she’s doing the same thing- she’s choosing her dog and cats and child who are living in fear of these untrained dogs but apparently then choosing the pets over a relationship isn’t okay by him
You get your priorities wrong. This man didn’t do his part and he was manipulating her so that he could live with her for free. It’s ridiculous how lame this guy was.
Yes and when things really his wrong why cant he just accept that he didnt follow victorias plan 😮💨 he is hard to talk hes like a kid 🙄 or kid is much better to talk 😅
This is just an all-too-common issue: she can't trust and he gives her no reason to, then he blames her (and women) for it. She can't begin to trust him because he can't follow through on anything short-term. Short-term builds to long-term, and nothing ever gets started.
To own 3 cats, there should be a high cat tree for the cats to perch and get away from the dogs. What Victoria gave them is not good enough. I have 1 dog (Jack Russell) and 4 cats, I have 6 cat trees all over the house, cat highway and catio so the cats can get away from my very and reactive active dog 🐶 you need to be conscious in protecting all animals in your household.
I appreciate that Victoria thought about the cats at least. I think that she just doesn't know enough about cats to get that that amount of height just isn't enough.
I totally agree.wth she didn't have a cat tree with dogs chasing them. I was very judgmental of that. Poor cats. I personally don't see what was so bad about the guy. She needed to lighten up
I've been sort of binge watching a bunch of these full episodes on youtube and I swear Victoria is like Full Time Dog Trainer, Part-Time Human Therapist. lol.
He moved in with two dogs, one of which pees all over her furniture and growls at her. He got too many 'two days'. That dog is also prone to bite people as well. Three strikes against him, all because he really couldn't step up to the plate.
@@XxEmoGothOutcastxX And her dog --- but I was just saying the peeing, growling, and biting people were three strikes. I guess there were five strikes in total, or more, but that all kinda messes up the baseball analogy.
Wow... this toxic relationship makes me mad... people please talk to each other... But honestly? I couldn't imagine living with someone who is not cabable saying a simple : I am sorry.. and meaning it ... but it is so amazing to see how "easy" it can be, training an "old" dog with very bad habits.. I hope the man is training this amazing dogs so they can live a happier life
When I see the "walk your dog" challenge, it amuses me. I can't imagine not play/run/walk daily with my super active border collie! 2-3 times per day. I knew what I was getting into when I took my dog (almost knew, but it's details).
Yikes! This man's attitude grates on my nerves. His dogs are 10 and 9 years old? Really? And he's just NOW thinking about training? The dogs should leave him too...!
"I don't know why Denise gets so angry and personal" Maybe cuz your her fiancé and your so nonchalant about the fact that your dog has bitten her son, bitten her, attacked her dog and her cats. Oh and she's given you 3 years to fix this problem!!
Yeah I thought that was creepy. If it was purely coincidental, fine, but this was a girl he dated in highschool and reunited with 30 years later. I think he may have been the one to track her down after spending 30 years pining after her.
These Kit-Kat sponsorships are so jarring XD I'm watching the playlist of full episodes and like three in a row now have that awkward product placement LOL
It was clearly the Kit Kat that was the last straw here 😂 (Seriously - why put it right at the end instead of after/before one of the nicer moments in the episode? That’s a weird association to make with their sponsorship)
28:57 I thought at this point that these two aren’t even attracted to each other but they’re all they have besides their pets. I really thought this was gonna be about the owners and not just the dogs.
Of course, its always "women stick together" and "they ganged up on me". IF you can admit you are wrong, and prove that you have the drive to fix the past mistakes, they wouldn't be telling you you need to fix it and take it seriously! Own up to the fact you have done nothing to help before now, and make the effort to make that necessary change.
I had a reactive dog for 12 yrs (angst driven and traumatised due to a biting incident when he was a puppy) and people like this drive me so freaking mad! Take this seriously god damnit! A reactive dog is dangerous. You have to be on watch everytime. Controll your dog.
To be honest, she was self fulfilling the prophecy. She treated him like he can't do right, so the moment he can't, she says, "See? I was right." But he gave her every reason to think so. Not once did he give her confidence that he CAN do right. I think Victoria coming should have been a good chance for her to be more supportive outwardly and for him to get his head in the game.
This is a mixed bag…both of them have to work on the training. Because if they were to get married it would no longer be my dog vs your dog it would be “our” dogs. If they can’t work together on “their dogs” then it’s not going to be just a dog issue. They are like oil and water…I think she just used the dog as an excuse.
Why is it that people think "small" dogs are cute when they growl or jump etc, but if a large dog did the same, wed be alarmed that he is going to turn into a "misbahaved/dangerous dog" .....they are ALL dogs! Small dogs need AS MUCH, if not MORE training to ensure they dont end up ha ing issues like " small dog syndrome" ...
I think the call to Victoria/the show was at least a year too late (and Mark was ten and nine years, respectively, too late in training his dogs). Denise was done from her first minute and that's why she was so harsh, IMO. Casper has attacked her dog on multiple occasions and bit her child and his response to that was 🤷♂. It's hard to give leeway at that point. Mark used up all his slack over the course of their relationship/three-year engagement.
I noticed it too. At the time these were aired it probably wasn't taken that seriously, but should have been censored when re-uploading the old episodes. (I did agree with him on many points though, and think her expectations for how quickly the changes should happen were unrealistic, but they both seem to have a habit of getting way too personal and just digging in deeper rather than stopping to think how much damage it will do.)
@@Lorgayle138:57 the slur he says here that starts with an r is extremely ableist and it's so bad that disabled people don't even touch it -disabled autistic person
@carolegreen9938 this dog has bitten over a 'dozen' times. He is lucky that none of that was reported because if it was he wouldn't have a choice in the matter of it being put down
I think she only says this because she thinks this is the only language this dude perhaps understands. She clearly doesn't mean that she thinks the dogs need to be put down. Then it would have already happened and she wouldn't be in this situation for 2 years. She even says so much at the beginning. She wants the dude to (finally) step up.
23:10 “That’s what women do, they stick together” - would he have taken this more seriously if it was a male trainer pointing out how dangerous his dog is? Or would he have dismissed it still as someone capitulating to his ‘sensitive’ fiancée’s feelings? Either way’s not a good look, but I get the sense that part of this guy’s problem is views any criticism from his girlfriend as ‘nagging’
It's just deflection, he redirects the attention back on her so he doesn't have to take responsibility for the fact that his dogs have bitten 12-18 times and he's done nothing about it. It's what people who are pathologically self absorbed do on auto pilot. If they can make you angry it works better do of course he'll throw something sexist in there or call her the r word....because he 'loves' her.
My husband and i have 4 dogs 1 cat, 1 fish, 1 dove, 1 brown headed cow bird and 40 chickens...we live in peace...totally possible and my husband and i have a great relationship!!!
When there is no trust left, it is done. I couldn't trust my husband of 23 years. I still loved him. But I could not trust him, so I divorced him. It hurt me as much if not more than it hurt him. He never forgave me for divorcing him due to his unconstrained alcoholic behaviors.
How is a dog supposed to behave sensibly around people and his family when even the adult owners behave like bitchy little children towards each other? Unfortunately, that's not uncommon in this show. No wonder the dog is trying to gain control.
It's funny how everyone is down on Mark. He was learning, too. However, his passive personality and Denise's personality are NOT a match. Bottom line, our pets are our responsibility to keep them safe, entertained, loved, fed, etc. If you can't commit.... don't bring them home.
His passive personality and dog ownership are not a match. Imagine allowing your dogs to bite people 12-18 times including children and saying to people who have a problem with it that you're making too big of a deal out of this. Anyone of those people that got bit could've pressed charges and demanded the dogs got put down. His careless attitude is a danger to his pets. He should not be a dog owner, he's making those dog's lives a living hell.
You can tell she hates Casper. No wonder he growls at her. She claims to be in love with Mark but she’s just an angry, hateful person about everything, and Mark claims to love her too but he doesn’t act like it either. I’m glad they broke up.
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I'm actually really glad that Denise made the decision she did. They're not good together. Also, it's really interesting to me how this show is so much more about dysfunctional people than dysfunctional dogs.
It is usually the reason the dogs are dysfunctional. Their humans made them that way.
The British episodes especially the newer ones have more functional and all around better owners.
If a couple is about to break up over a dog, that relationship was never going to last.
Honestly me too he showed how little he actually cared by how little work he was willing to put in
I actually think she made the right call too, but not because of him. She was a bitch. She wasn't looking at all 3 dogs as their dogs, like Victoria said. She was looking at his dogs and her dog. She wanted him to be perfect after 2 days, because hes the human. Humans are creatures of habit, andoldhabitsarehard to break. He was trying. We just didn't get to see it because she was being such a bitch the whole time.
It's amazing how many owners complain about their dog peeing/pooping in he house, and then the solution is just to walk it. Why on earth do people get a dog, if they're not gonna walk it?
Not wanting to walk the dog is literally the only reason why I don't have one.😂😢😂
They think with a small dog, " just let it run around a yard that's enough "
This! If you never want to go out and walk your dog, then get a different pet!
@@Fumi007yes but had people with the same mindset that you do just been that self aware there would be so much less of an issue in their lives
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23:25 (just prior to this time stamp) he says "the women stick together, because that's what women do." That comment made my blood boil. Right then and there, in addition to the smirks he keeps giving his fiance behind her back, tells me this man is not worth it. Maybe I'll change my mind by the end. His cavalier attitude, disregard and disrespect for his fiance does not bode well for their future even if the dog issues is resolved.
He wasn't lying. Your blood was boiling most likely because you saw the truth of what he said.
Him being both sexist AND bad dog owner?! What a catch! And people in comments dare to defend him, downplay his behavior and blame the woman.
@@rer1967 nah its just sexism, not the truth at all.
@@CervineSkol , how so? If a woman degrades a man with no merit it's considered bold and brave.
If a man degrades a woman it's considered sexist and immoral.
No wonder men are claiming to be women and shutting women down with their own double standards.
It's maddening. He is such a sexist. He doesn't really respect the concerns bought up, no wonder Denise is at her breaking point. There is no respect.
she own a husky and it's well behaved and he owns 2 small dogs that not will behave that says a lot to me😂
she was right, if he wanted that they could behave he must've put effort into it 😂
Yes being always not serious on things are not good in a relationship 😢 imagine casper has bite a lot of people and he doesnt do anything about the situation when hes dog can be taught 😮💨
2 small dogs that appear to be some type of terrier mix, which are extremely difficult dogs themselves - very high energy and constantly searching and hunting. Obviously he's still a pretty ignorant owner, but his dogs aren't easy just because they're smaller. His dogs are literally the picture perfect example of the frantic anxiety stricken angst a dog lives in constantly when the owner has the attitude he has of "that's just what dogs do!"
my thoughts exactly 😂
Small dogs are anxious most of the time then bigger onces.
And huskies are insane too. I’m really impressed with how good they are!
Victoria is not just a dog trainer, she is also a family therapist
Absolutely agree!🥰
So is Jo Frost supernanny
This man has no sense of responsibility man he’s ALL TALK
The lack of accountability & responsibility, on his part, is disgustingly atrocious at best.
I think there’s a lot more issues in this relationship than just the dogs.
Denise cant hard to move on while the guy is so dramatic 😂 its not really dogs problem casper reaction is What happen i thought im the problem 😂😂😂 this couple seems to act like when they are in highschool 😮💨
SO much
It's never just the dogs, is it?
Dude did not put any effort into that relationship. He thought he could eat his cake and have dessert too. Glad he’s gone.
Casper bit her son and now Denise is hyper vigilant. She is doing what’s best for her son and pets.
Honestly Denise made the right decision, some times even strong willed ladies like her are manipulated. But Denise really stood her ground, worked with the problem, gave him time, did everything in her power and was even okay with saying goodbye to him. I am glad she did that, guys like this will just keep pushing and pushing and emotionally manipulating things. And even in the end he never once agreed it was his fault, kept making it like as if it was her fault for giving 2 days time. It was NOT 2 DAYS MARK IT WAS HER WHOLE LIFE - however long she lived with u, she gave all that chance for u to make up for it and u put in zero effort. Denise deserves better and the poor pups deserve better too and the husky too. this is the first time I am seeing someone actually standing up and throwing someone out instead of allowing themselves to be manipulated. Denise is awesome for this ! Mad respectttt for that women !
Well said!! 🎉
Yes, illuminating & real talk
“Doesn’t nip that often” - aggressive nipping a guests just once is a big deal 😭
Love Victoria, wanted so bad to afford her classes but instead learning from her videos is just as good. It’s funny sharing her tips because people look at me like I’m a god when I fix their issues lol
SAME. I've taught my housemate so many tricks for his dogs 😂
Victoria is a good trainer for sure! Herr techniques aren't that different to many others though... If you want to learn you could get a cheaper course for sure
Man, these two fight dirty. The things they say to each other are so destructive!
The guy should definitely put more work into the dogs and the girl should be less harsh
I believe Denise's issue was primarily related to Mark's overall attitude. It wasn't just about the dogs; they would argue about groceries, his behavior towards other women, and even taking out the trash. Denise would be better off with someone who is more serious, while Mark might be better suited with a girl who is more easy-going.
I'm easy going, and in no way in hell would I even want to be in the same room as that man. He definitely has personal issues. And the fact he has issues with women in general? Only a woman who doesn't value herself as a human would date a person like him.
@@ameliawilder28Agree
One can be easy-going and still take responsibility for their actions. I'm not sure anyone would be a good fit for such an immature man. Two such people is just a disaster in the making, in my opinion.
Any man who would let his dogs bite his friends and family members 12-18 times and wouldn't do anything about it until he's kicked out of the house is not fit for a relationship. He needs to grow up.
Now, these two know why they broke up so many years ago.
I think this was a happy ending, all that matters is that Casper got trained and is doing really well. The couple on the other hand, they are gonna be much better off seeing other people because they just really aren’t compatible, with or without the dog issue.
It's shocking that the men was soo nonchalant about everything and the fact that he thought the husky was well behaved speaks such volumes and if the husky was an aggresive dog then the outcomes would be so so bad.....
He loves her? He doesn't even seem to respect her!
He loved her. She didn't give a crap about him. He should have left her a long time ago
You're right. He uses 'love' as a way to manipulate her. If he loved or respected any of the friends and family members that those dogs bit 12-18 times he would've done something long before he got kicked out of the house.
Maybe he loved _the idea_ of Denise.
pinstripesuitandheels IF HE DOES NOT RESPECT HER HE DOES NOT LOVE HER. THEY GO HAND AND HAND.
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Listening them fight is giving me headache. Denise made right decision He is not ready to be serious about this situation. It's hard to put up with such people. I know because I'm one of them.
At least you’re self aware 😂
For. Real. I had to rewind a few times to understand someone's opinion but then I'd get mad 😡 😂
the couple had no faith in each other, such a shame. Victoria is brilliant as always xx
I think you had the perfect comment on this. ❤
I was hoping this couple worked out. I was shocked the way the episode ended like that 💀 I wonder what happened with them
The couple had faith once upon time maybe several years back. But as their promises got broken (especially he never followed through), there’s no more faith and trust in that person. He’s a manipulative guy who was disrespectful towards his own fiancé to live in her place for free.
This guy just wanted to live rent free in her house 😂 he’s not taking any responsibility of his own dogs and he’s blaming her for it! If you really loved her you would have put in the work! Like omg grow up! He was embarrassed when told his dog was scared! 😮 He was happily proud that Casper was violent! C’mon it’s not you she’s talking about! Poor dogs 😢
But if he wanted to live free, then why didn’t he just get rid of the dogs because the dogs are essentially the reason why he’s in an apartment
Jack Russell terriers may be cute, but they're some of the most energetic dogs around. Don't get them unless you're willing to commit to working with them.
They are not cute. They are destructive balls of hyperactive energy.
He is a middle schooler who got a dog and doesn't want to take care of it. She is better off finding an actual man.
He constantly minimizes her feelings and concerns then blames her for reacting.
Classic gaslighting (source: I'm a trainee counsellor).
After 12-18 times of biting friends and family including her CHILD. He's gross. I hope she's rid of him.
Mark doesn't know what hard work is. He preferes to be happy-go-lucky. Effects: stubborn dogs. And of course everyone, the while world is to blame but not him...
Ya, that's exactly it !
Mark had 0 ability to take responsibility. Even when it was pointed out directly to him what he was doing, he claimed that Victoria and his wife were talking that way to him because "that's what women do". His dog bit other people/animals 12 times and he couldn't understand why they were telling him to take it seriously. So frustrating.
If someone told me to pick between them and my dog, my dog always wins. Having said that, being a dog owner means training your dog, walking your dog and making sure he's well behaved otherwise you can't claim to love them, you have to meet their needs and in return they're easy, friendly, and awesome company for everyone and there is no argument.
It’s funny cause he’ll say he’ll choose the dog but then gets mad cause she’s doing the same thing- she’s choosing her dog and cats and child who are living in fear of these untrained dogs but apparently then choosing the pets over a relationship isn’t okay by him
People who pick animals over people are broken.
You get your priorities wrong. This man didn’t do his part and he was manipulating her so that he could live with her for free. It’s ridiculous how lame this guy was.
It sounds like he was blaming her for being upset
Yes and when things really his wrong why cant he just accept that he didnt follow victorias plan 😮💨 he is hard to talk hes like a kid 🙄 or kid is much better to talk 😅
Mark: I messed up, I'm sorry, now get over it!
you're always messing up.@@bun04y
The fact is that this show is 90% if the time about the people not the dogs
Indeed, dog issues stem from people🙂
This is just an all-too-common issue: she can't trust and he gives her no reason to, then he blames her (and women) for it. She can't begin to trust him because he can't follow through on anything short-term. Short-term builds to long-term, and nothing ever gets started.
Voilà, well said!
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you capcilated this concept perfectly 👌🏻
To own 3 cats, there should be a high cat tree for the cats to perch and get away from the dogs. What Victoria gave them is not good enough. I have 1 dog (Jack Russell) and 4 cats, I have 6 cat trees all over the house, cat highway and catio so the cats can get away from my very and reactive active dog 🐶 you need to be conscious in protecting
all animals in your household.
I feel so sorry for these cats. They cannot be happy like this.
@@mignonhagemeijer3726No. They're not. They're scared for their lives. It's sad we barely see them on camera because they're hiding
I appreciate that Victoria thought about the cats at least. I think that she just doesn't know enough about cats to get that that amount of height just isn't enough.
I totally agree.wth she didn't have a cat tree with dogs chasing them.
I was very judgmental of that.
Poor cats.
I personally don't see what was so bad about the guy.
She needed to lighten up
I dont understand having both if they can't get along...
I've been sort of binge watching a bunch of these full episodes on youtube and I swear Victoria is like Full Time Dog Trainer, Part-Time Human Therapist. lol.
More like part time dog trainer and full time human therapist 💀
@@JaydeLov3 Exactly😅
Denise is better off without him. Good for her!
He moved in with two dogs, one of which pees all over her furniture and growls at her. He got too many 'two days'.
That dog is also prone to bite people as well. Three strikes against him, all because he really couldn't step up to the plate.
Don't forget her three cats
@@XxEmoGothOutcastxX And her dog --- but I was just saying the peeing, growling, and biting people were three strikes. I guess there were five strikes in total, or more, but that all kinda messes up the baseball analogy.
Total lack of respect for her house and her animals and biting her son!!! If it were me, he would been out a lot sooner as well!
It was never actually about the dogs.
yes it was.
@@sallyjoan nope
yes it was.@@yourpetyourway
@@sallyjoanIt is not and if you would like me to summarize the whole video I will not😃
@@_hmm_1456 yes it is.
Wow... this toxic relationship makes me mad... people please talk to each other... But honestly? I couldn't imagine living with someone who is not cabable saying a simple : I am sorry.. and meaning it ...
but it is so amazing to see how "easy" it can be, training an "old" dog with very bad habits.. I hope the man is training this amazing dogs so they can live a happier life
OOOF, that was hard to watch. What a guy.
When I see the "walk your dog" challenge, it amuses me. I can't imagine not play/run/walk daily with my super active border collie! 2-3 times per day. I knew what I was getting into when I took my dog (almost knew, but it's details).
Yikes! This man's attitude grates on my nerves. His dogs are 10 and 9 years old? Really? And he's just NOW thinking about training? The dogs should leave him too...!
This episode is brought to you by..... KIT KAT!!
Have a break, have a kitkat!! 😅
The guy is a juvenile, never growing up into adulthood. A mommy's boy at heart
ugh!! Denise made the right decision in the end.....😓
First 30 seconds I’m like nah it’s not the dogs once them doggos trained they will find other things to battle about
"I don't know why Denise gets so angry and personal" Maybe cuz your her fiancé and your so nonchalant about the fact that your dog has bitten her son, bitten her, attacked her dog and her cats. Oh and she's given you 3 years to fix this problem!!
am I the only one weirded out that he named one of his dogs with his ex's last name?
Yeah I thought that was creepy. If it was purely coincidental, fine, but this was a girl he dated in highschool and reunited with 30 years later. I think he may have been the one to track her down after spending 30 years pining after her.
Or he changed the dogs name as a way to weasel back into her life.
These Kit-Kat sponsorships are so jarring XD I'm watching the playlist of full episodes and like three in a row now have that awkward product placement LOL
It was clearly the Kit Kat that was the last straw here 😂 (Seriously - why put it right at the end instead of after/before one of the nicer moments in the episode? That’s a weird association to make with their sponsorship)
Mark comparing Denise to Casper is so rude.
28:57 I thought at this point that these two aren’t even attracted to each other but they’re all they have besides their pets. I really thought this was gonna be about the owners and not just the dogs.
Of course, its always "women stick together" and "they ganged up on me". IF you can admit you are wrong, and prove that you have the drive to fix the past mistakes, they wouldn't be telling you you need to fix it and take it seriously! Own up to the fact you have done nothing to help before now, and make the effort to make that necessary change.
I've used these training techniques with my own dog.
That's why we should let old relationships sleep and not give them life again.🙏🏻
I had a reactive dog for 12 yrs (angst driven and traumatised due to a biting incident when he was a puppy) and people like this drive me so freaking mad!
Take this seriously god damnit!
A reactive dog is dangerous. You have to be on watch everytime.
Controll your dog.
This was more about that toxic couple than the dogs.
Victoria is basically a human psychologist at this point
Neither of the dogs were the problem, he was. He was childish through the entire episode.
To be honest, she was self fulfilling the prophecy. She treated him like he can't do right, so the moment he can't, she says, "See? I was right."
But he gave her every reason to think so. Not once did he give her confidence that he CAN do right.
I think Victoria coming should have been a good chance for her to be more supportive outwardly and for him to get his head in the game.
These 2 people are not a good match.
Poor kitties
I don't see how they even use the litter box. But it's on Denise to protect them.
This is a mixed bag…both of them have to work on the training. Because if they were to get married it would no longer be my dog vs your dog it would be “our” dogs. If they can’t work together on “their dogs” then it’s not going to be just a dog issue. They are like oil and water…I think she just used the dog as an excuse.
Victoria this whole episode: listen I know we called this show “it’s me or the dog” but we didn’t mean that literally 😳
I’ve learnt alot from Victoria how to train your dog. My boy is well behaved an that’s cos I paid attention to Victoria training all these dogs.
Im using Victoria's techniques to train my puppy
They were EXs for a reason…. They should have kept it that way….
Why is it that people think "small" dogs are cute when they growl or jump etc, but if a large dog did the same, wed be alarmed that he is going to turn into a "misbahaved/dangerous dog" .....they are ALL dogs! Small dogs need AS MUCH, if not MORE training to ensure they dont end up ha ing issues like " small dog syndrome" ...
It drives me nuts. The behaviour is the same regardless of size and little teeth can give nasty bites too.
Dogs bitten people 12-18 times and yet he does nothing until he's kicked out? Dude is a liability.
21:20 the ultimate gaslighting
That dude doesn't have respect for women AT ALL
So Important to keep your dog exercise and mind so your will not be bored 😑
She is clearly so fed up she wouldn't allow 1 step aside from anything. It was clear from the start they wont work
I think the call to Victoria/the show was at least a year too late (and Mark was ten and nine years, respectively, too late in training his dogs). Denise was done from her first minute and that's why she was so harsh, IMO. Casper has attacked her dog on multiple occasions and bit her child and his response to that was 🤷♂. It's hard to give leeway at that point. Mark used up all his slack over the course of their relationship/three-year engagement.
I didn't like this guy from jump and then he uses the r slur (and editors didn't bleep it??). Screw that guy.
r slur? I'm not sure what that means... sorry
I noticed it too. At the time these were aired it probably wasn't taken that seriously, but should have been censored when re-uploading the old episodes. (I did agree with him on many points though, and think her expectations for how quickly the changes should happen were unrealistic, but they both seem to have a habit of getting way too personal and just digging in deeper rather than stopping to think how much damage it will do.)
@@Lorgayle138:57 the slur he says here that starts with an r is extremely ableist and it's so bad that disabled people don't even touch it -disabled autistic person
People used that term back in the day. Awareness has changed that.
@@Lorgayle1Retard. It's a verb but people used to use it to describe a person who is mentally challenged.
If someone would've told me you had to put your dog down... I would say go to hell. It's not love. Wonder why he was with her so long.
Denise's _repetition and nonchalance_ saying of wanting Casper to be put to sleep is _sickening._
No.
It's a waste of skin.
She should have just left with her animals. She had no right to say a dog has to be put to sleep because of its behaviour.
if the dog was a pit he would have beeeen put down , sds and small dog privilege
@carolegreen9938 this dog has bitten over a 'dozen' times. He is lucky that none of that was reported because if it was he wouldn't have a choice in the matter of it being put down
I think she only says this because she thinks this is the only language this dude perhaps understands. She clearly doesn't mean that she thinks the dogs need to be put down. Then it would have already happened and she wouldn't be in this situation for 2 years. She even says so much at the beginning. She wants the dude to (finally) step up.
Well done Victoria you are amazing ❤
THE DOGS COULD ALSO
B EITHER TRAINED ,POSSIBLY
REHOMED.
I AM NOT SURE I WOULD
TRUST MARK TO DO
THE RIGHT THING.
He's already slacking after a couple of days, those poor dogs deserve better
You're right. There's a reason Casper is anxious. His owner is too self absorbed to be a good dog owner.
That’s why the show is called what it is.
it's so interesting how, similar to kitchen nightmares, the american ver. episodes are so dramatic
Why are they even together?? First red flag 20 years ago, heed that warning people don’t change for you! Byyyye
23:10 “That’s what women do, they stick together” - would he have taken this more seriously if it was a male trainer pointing out how dangerous his dog is? Or would he have dismissed it still as someone capitulating to his ‘sensitive’ fiancée’s feelings? Either way’s not a good look, but I get the sense that part of this guy’s problem is views any criticism from his girlfriend as ‘nagging’
It's just deflection, he redirects the attention back on her so he doesn't have to take responsibility for the fact that his dogs have bitten 12-18 times and he's done nothing about it. It's what people who are pathologically self absorbed do on auto pilot. If they can make you angry it works better do of course he'll throw something sexist in there or call her the r word....because he 'loves' her.
Two days or 5secs can be detrimental!
He just can’t see the severity!
Too dangerous to depend on!
I wonder if they got back together. We need an update lol
I felt for the man and the woman lost the trust and it never worked i see him doing well on his own with his dog.
Never ever get rid of your fur family for any relationship!
I ❤me some Mrs.victoria I'm half way through let's I 💕 watching her work on the couples n families 😉 ❤😊
My husband and i have 4 dogs 1 cat, 1 fish, 1 dove, 1 brown headed cow bird and 40 chickens...we live in peace...totally possible and my husband and i have a great relationship!!!
Such a good idea Victoria love it 😊
I don't know when this episode originally aired, but it's a shame that they could not work out their differences as a couple.
Poor cats
When there is no trust left, it is done. I couldn't trust my husband of 23 years. I still loved him. But I could not trust him, so I divorced him. It hurt me as much if not more than it hurt him. He never forgave me for divorcing him due to his unconstrained alcoholic behaviors.
Good for you. I hope you're enjoying your independence from his alcoholic behaviors.
Mark uses the dogs as a sheild to avoid real commitment to Denise & never actually marrying.
How is a dog supposed to behave sensibly around people and his family when even the adult owners behave like bitchy little children towards each other? Unfortunately, that's not uncommon in this show.
No wonder the dog is trying to gain control.
Husband didn’t train his dogs.
They should have taken the hint that they were not meant for each other the first time they broke up. The dogs were just trying to tell them that.
The owners need the training 😂😂😂 poor dogs and cats😂😂😂
Good episode. I wish the programme makers didn't keep repeating parts of the programme during it.
I love this show
What the heck?!? The episode is not over. What ended up happening ?!?
I feel bad for those dogs. Casper’s so sweet. I wish Denise could’ve taken them.
They don’t need Victoria, they need dr.phil
😂Yeah
Yes
Dr. Phil is a quack. I wouldn't send ANYONE I cared about to him.
No, they need a real psychologist lol
It's funny how everyone is down on Mark. He was learning, too. However, his passive personality and Denise's personality are NOT a match. Bottom line, our pets are our responsibility to keep them safe, entertained, loved, fed, etc. If you can't commit.... don't bring them home.
His passive personality and dog ownership are not a match. Imagine allowing your dogs to bite people 12-18 times including children and saying to people who have a problem with it that you're making too big of a deal out of this. Anyone of those people that got bit could've pressed charges and demanded the dogs got put down. His careless attitude is a danger to his pets. He should not be a dog owner, he's making those dog's lives a living hell.
You can tell she hates Casper. No wonder he growls at her. She claims to be in love with Mark but she’s just an angry, hateful person about everything, and Mark claims to love her too but he doesn’t act like it either. I’m glad they broke up.
I'll bet after 3 years of living with those 2 awful dogs & him just laughing about it w/ his goofy "no big deal" face---you'd be angry too.