In Jesus name thank you Jesus truth TRUTH Truth 301/2 yrs married been through it all speaking truth on ALL levels I never give up on that person but u stand ur grounds
There’s a destructive aspect of love. We don’t want to admit this however when things become unbalanced in a relationship, destruction is lingering somewhere. Love is extremely temperamental and requires balance.
Absolutely without God u cannot comprehend it. Why? Coz how can u forgive wen u r hurt, and how can u sacrifice etc etc. Dat foundation must be laid b4 u can genuinely say u love someone
Basically loving unconditionally; is that you don't expect the one you marry to be perfect, because you know you are not perfect. But you did marry, because of certain things you (love) about each other.💡😉👍
Men, recognize when your woman Loves you unconditionally! Or it's a contract of your woman saying to you thru her actions that "I'm your woman for as long as you're Paying For Me!"!
I loved my kids dad so much an he constantly tells me he don't want anything with me. An that breaks me so bad bcuz I gave him all of me more than I could ever give someone else.
My brother the term Love is Blind kind of to me personally defines What Love Is you really love somebody you don't care about nothing else but that person that you can't see❤
You must begin with fully loving yourself. Self Love then you can begin to love another, Through the whole process God must be there. Before, During & After. ❤❤❤❤
You can't love someone without respect. But you can respect others without love. Love is never unconditional in this day and time, unfortunately in this world it's all about give and take. Guys/girls always want something from their partner like financial/emotional/physical support.
Absolutely speaking fact. A lot of men/women have never considered/studied the traditional marriage vows to know and understand them. I Old lady now; sure wish I understood this many many years ago.
WOW So TRUE BLESS Man of GOD ❤ This would be a BETTER WORLD 🌎 if We (GOD’S Creation) LOVED 🥰 LIKE THIS TO GOD BE THE GLORY ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤💗💗💗💗💗💗💗🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥AMEN 🙏🏾
Love is conditional to respect each persons boundaries that made you even persue them in the first place. . .I've learned having "unconditional love" is like a bully taking from you what they didn't contibute to. I'd never love anybody without loving myself first.
Love is unconditional. When Lord God said follow me he said love if most important. For a husband he said love your wife like Jesus Christ love the church. Our greatest asset is love. Marriage is not a contract, but a covenant im going to love unconditionally to provide and protect you. Wife suppose to respect her husband by submitting to him as the leader in the home, but co-owner with him. Older women teach the younger women how to love their husband.
He thinks my love was conditional because I told him he needed to get off drugs or I was done. It was unconditional for years because I knew about them when he thought I didn't and I was still there
That’s not real love my boy, that’s just attachment. Real love is unconditional & is unselfish. If they’re willing to cross a line because things aren’t going smoothly, they don’t love you.
I personally wouldn't define love there is no definition each individual has their own way of giving receiving interpreting and understanding that word
I had to leave. Gave him the best pieces of me, and all he can do is go be in another relationship and come back and says he wants polygamy? I deserve better. What hurts is knowing that you love them and would take them back if they came back and treated you right, but they just don't want to. Sometimes you have to dry your tears and just leave.🤝 Don't be someone's fool. I can't love him and he loves everyone but me. Nah.
Love here is a contract also when you breech the contract. It's only so much we are going to tolerate loos. Idk what this loss part mean. Like if you make Mee loose. Everything. It's not my best Interest. Somebody explain this I think 💬🤔 it's explained best of my ability.💔❤️🩹 Survivor.
Because of the hurt, betrayal and not completely healed makes we do this contact thing but I truly want to love unconditional so I’m healing and praying for the one who’s going to love me unconditionally ❤️🩹 ❤
The only problem with unconditional love is….it’s one way😂 men could not handle it, the loss would destroy their egos. However, I do not agree that love is unconditional, every person has a unique need to feeling loved.
Having their best interest at heart💯
In Jesus name thank you Jesus truth TRUTH Truth 301/2 yrs married been through it all speaking truth on ALL levels I never give up on that person but u stand ur grounds
Having their best interest, above our own... your thoughts?
Exactlyyyyy
@@Blessed.2.Teach.4GodThat's Truth ✊🏾
Ifatunde, you the truth!!
Love is only unconditional when they are not destroying you
SAY IT HONEY❤
Love is giving someone power to destroy you but wholeheartedly trust that they won’t.
@@katiajordan_that’s not love I’m sorry
@@jennifercooljeo6552 it’s a quote
There’s a destructive aspect of love. We don’t want to admit this however when things become unbalanced in a relationship, destruction is lingering somewhere. Love is extremely temperamental and requires balance.
Man cannot understand or comprehend love unless he has God in his life😮😮😮😮😮 amen
Only if He loves his wife, like Christ loves the church!
Absolutely without God u cannot comprehend it. Why? Coz how can u forgive wen u r hurt, and how can u sacrifice etc etc. Dat foundation must be laid b4 u can genuinely say u love someone
ABSOLUTELY, and you must learn to love yourself, otherwise you won't know if you are being loved@@abeeikah2384
@@abeeikah2384
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Bruhhhh men and women. Im sick of women like you. Trynna put blame on men. Just stop it!
He nailed it! I feel like most women are looking for that type unconditional love and most man are looking for contracts
That is called loving someone more than you love yourself. Buzzer sound!
Basically loving unconditionally; is that you don't expect the one you marry to be perfect, because you know you are not perfect.
But you did marry, because of certain things you (love) about each other.💡😉👍
Thank youuuuuu!!! And coming from a black man...quite refreshing...
Amen! Thank you this is perfectly said. ❤❤
That is absolutely correct!!! I am experiencing it personally, hope nothing but the best for them, even if it doesn't include me💯❤️👑
That's Deep🎉
Men, recognize when your woman Loves you unconditionally! Or it's a contract of your woman saying to you thru her actions that "I'm your woman for as long as you're Paying For Me!"!
Truth 💯🕊️🤍🌟✨
Love is Unconditional ❤
I loved my kids dad so much an he constantly tells me he don't want anything with me. An that breaks me so bad bcuz I gave him all of me more than I could ever give someone else.
This guy's is seriously deep. I like this explanation
My brother the term Love is Blind kind of to me personally defines What Love Is you really love somebody you don't care about nothing else but that person that you can't see❤
I agree.To Love and Be Loved,unconditionally.And you said it committed.
Stand On It 1,000.000%
Dr.O always comin with the truth
YOU RIGHT UMAR
Love is unconditional but there are boundaries in a relationship there is a differance
I totally agree on everything this young man have just said totally agree😊😊😊😊
Ain't no loss in love!
Love is unconditional
Truth is, God already to us how to Love
Yes love is unconditional good/bad time sick/healthy 😊 not perfect but work in progress 💚💚💚
So my king, wear your crown 👑
You must begin with fully loving yourself. Self Love then you can begin to love another, Through the whole process God must be there. Before, During & After.
❤❤❤❤
Well said BROTHA
I agree love is unconditional
Thats so true 100 all the way
Having their best interest at heart. That is love
Well said
Dr. J, idk about your nah sayers, for me - you speak the truth. Most won't/don't get it, but many of us do.
wow thanks for your good massage
Actual facts god!!!!!
Going through this right now and still learning more about being unconditional but moving forward just like the Sun ☀️ daily👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽🙏🏾
You can't love someone without respect. But you can respect others without love. Love is never unconditional in this day and time, unfortunately in this world it's all about give and take. Guys/girls always want something from their partner like financial/emotional/physical support.
I love this 🫠
If you fall in or out, it's not love. Unconditional love is something you become.
Righteous 💛🦅💛
That is how I am I love my family unconditionally
Love is the greatest of them all true authenticity
❤PREACH DR. UMAR❤
UNDER NO CONDITIONS JUST PURE LOVE.
Damn he is right
I used to love like that.
I believe that unconditional love is not without hopes and expectations..... Although it can defy logic.
Absolutely speaking fact. A lot of men/women have never considered/studied the traditional marriage vows to know and understand them. I Old lady now; sure wish I understood this many many years ago.
I love plants. But if it doesn't bloom, doesn't give fruit, doesn't give shade, I root it out. It's that simple. Love is not unconditional.
It called an Oath !
WOW So TRUE BLESS Man of GOD ❤ This would be a BETTER WORLD 🌎 if We (GOD’S Creation) LOVED 🥰 LIKE THIS TO GOD BE THE GLORY ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤💗💗💗💗💗💗💗🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥AMEN 🙏🏾
That hit me!❤🔥
You are so right❤❤❤❤
THANKS!!
Two fold however though that love is mutual and there would be no necessity to loss
That’s WHAT I’m SAYN 💫🤍💫
I truly agree 💯💯💯
Woow. Thank you sir
All facts!!
Snapple facts ❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂 talk that real shit dr.umar
Absolutely 100
True That ❤
Love is conditional to respect each persons boundaries that made you even persue them in the first place. . .I've learned having "unconditional love" is like a bully taking from you what they didn't contibute to. I'd never love anybody without loving myself first.
beautiful
...even if it is to your lost. This ooooo😊
Blessings
God Jesus Christ set a example for us so i represent only love's lovingly hearts with servings mind.
Like a mother or father!!!
Love is unconditional. When Lord God said follow me he said love if most important. For a husband he said love your wife like Jesus Christ love the church. Our greatest asset is love. Marriage is not a contract, but a covenant im going to love unconditionally to provide and protect you. Wife suppose to respect her husband by submitting to him as the leader in the home, but co-owner with him. Older women teach the younger women how to love their husband.
Absolutely 💯
I knew before I came here, I've NEVER been in Love !
So many ppl are under contracts.
He thinks my love was conditional because I told him he needed to get off drugs or I was done. It was unconditional for years because I knew about them when he thought I didn't and I was still there
So true❤
Yes so true
Love os unconditional
Love is unconditional
Wisdom ❤
Totally agree
Yesss ❤️🔥 ❤️🔥 ❤️🔥 ❤️🔥
Amen brother
Love is conditional.
Thats why its so many deaths and heart breaks and fall outs when a line is crossed dealing with love.
That’s not real love my boy, that’s just attachment. Real love is unconditional & is unselfish. If they’re willing to cross a line because things aren’t going smoothly, they don’t love you.
Love is not unconditional thus saith the Lord
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Proverbs 8:17 I love them that love me; and those that seek me early shall find me.
I personally wouldn't define love there is no definition each individual has their own way of giving receiving interpreting and understanding that word
Exactly!!!!!
So true
Say it baby
Ok finally you sayin something we can agree on hundo
Ivan Morales needs to hear this!!
Deep
I had to leave. Gave him the best pieces of me, and all he can do is go be in another relationship and come back and says he wants polygamy? I deserve better. What hurts is knowing that you love them and would take them back if they came back and treated you right, but they just don't want to. Sometimes you have to dry your tears and just leave.🤝 Don't be someone's fool. I can't love him and he loves everyone but me. Nah.
And best interest means their wellbeing
Even in discipline.
Amen 🙏🏽
Love here is a contract also when you breech the contract. It's only so much we are going to tolerate loos. Idk what this loss part mean. Like if you make Mee loose. Everything. It's not my best Interest. Somebody explain this I think 💬🤔 it's explained best of my ability.💔❤️🩹 Survivor.
Because of the hurt, betrayal and not completely healed makes we do this contact thing but I truly want to love unconditional so I’m healing and praying for the one who’s going to love me unconditionally ❤️🩹 ❤
Facts
Correct
Amen!🙏🏾
Apart from God‘s unconditional love, you can see examples of that between parents and their children. Any other love is contractual and conditional.
Amen
The only problem with unconditional love is….it’s one way😂 men could not handle it, the loss would destroy their egos. However, I do not agree that love is unconditional, every person has a unique need to feeling loved.