Stop These Insecure Dating Behaviors! - w/ Sabrina Zohar

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Комментарии • 54

  • @tedtalksrock
    @tedtalksrock Месяц назад +57

    Audrey adds 300% to every episode, podcast, interview whatever she joins in on. Every person should add her to the discussion- they’d be nuts not to!

  • @JessicaEyman
    @JessicaEyman Месяц назад +39

    *Gems in this episode*
    -Don't trauma dump (have other people you can talk to about certain things).
    -Therapy therapy therapy!
    -Honesty, vulnerability, express yourself firmly without "attacking" your partner/anyone else.
    -Enforce boundaries (don't fold, even for your partner)
    Help add more gems in the comment section ⬇️

  • @creepypisces83
    @creepypisces83 Месяц назад +17

    Absolutely adore Audrey, such a compassionate and articulate woman. She's such and amazing addition to your work Matthew ❤️

  • @CeciledeLuire
    @CeciledeLuire Месяц назад +17

    it is so interesting to hear how different you process emotions, Audrey and Matthew! Audrey needs to vent first (i completely feel you !) and solutions come afterwards, and Matt is "complaining don't help, we find a solution NOW" 😀 And none of it is better or worse, it's just different approaches.
    Thank you for sharing and being so approachable ☺

  • @magicznaszyszka6944
    @magicznaszyszka6944 Месяц назад +9

    I’m too much but I’m not enough- THIS. This felt so hard, I stopped doing whatever I was doing and I was just thinking about this. It was such a great conversation to listen to!

  • @heyu123
    @heyu123 Месяц назад +4

    Two women both have very different energies. Audrey is a gentle soul and Sabrina is quite a strong character

  • @oliviaszeplaki4386
    @oliviaszeplaki4386 Месяц назад +8

    I know Sabrina's story, but her personality is so strong that i could hear it a hundreds of other time

  • @stephen12holbrook
    @stephen12holbrook 27 дней назад +1

    I love the contrast between Sabrina's rapid spitfire and swearing style of speaking with Matthew/Audrey's softer, slower style of speaking. Love seeing these three talk!

  • @sayoutube88
    @sayoutube88 Месяц назад +12

    Thanks Audrey - for being a gentle, kind & sweet host. Sabrina has a very hard & strong personality - I am not sure about her advice or views on relationships- as it’s based on her own projections of her own upbringing. It works for Sabrina now - because she is in a safe relationship with a partner that seems to have a huge bandwidth for her. But not all partner can hold up so long like this.

    • @user-fn5bo2gq2d
      @user-fn5bo2gq2d 15 дней назад +2

      arent matthew and audrey also projecting ... they re all tallking based on what they know worked for them really none of this is science lol

    • @safiatu7018
      @safiatu7018 4 дня назад

      Sounds like you're the one projecting onto Sabrina 😂

  • @bumblebee_mrs
    @bumblebee_mrs Месяц назад +6

    Loved this interview so much.

  • @Inventiff
    @Inventiff Месяц назад +2

    I resonate so much with the behavior and patterns Sabrina experienced! I love this episode so much!

  • @sonne56
    @sonne56 Месяц назад +5

    it seems to me that you have to know yourself very well in order to express your needs, what if i have a partner who doesn't know himself well and instead of saying what he needs he is just angry - is the relationship doomed to fail even though it may just be a misunderstanding or a different approach to dealing with issues? you could react angry to aurdrey and audrey could feel not being seen for her approach - both of you would feel not being seen and missunderstood - even if you love each other the relationship could end when stuff like this happens a lot..

  • @diharmony5532
    @diharmony5532 Месяц назад +8

    Thank you so much for this video! Sabrina, I totally feel you. I had a similar story in my childhood. God bless therapy! 🙌

    • @bumblebee_mrs
      @bumblebee_mrs Месяц назад

      I had the exact same childhood, but i had a malignant narc mother.

  • @nickysmith5808
    @nickysmith5808 22 дня назад

    Thank you for a real conversation between three people who like and respect each other. Loved the blend of each energy and feedback. 🙏

  • @Anonymous_frog88
    @Anonymous_frog88 Месяц назад +1

    Fantastic and relatable!

  • @dazza8551
    @dazza8551 Месяц назад

    Great conversation! Learnt a lot from it, thank you 🙏

  • @anakacarova9646
    @anakacarova9646 Месяц назад +2

    Wow! Dream collaboration ❤
    I have been listening Sabrina's podcast Do the work for some time. And i have always been thinking "wow, she reminds me of Matthew..."
    Amazing job 🎉
    Congrats from Bulgaria 🇧🇬

  • @noticeyourneighbor8649
    @noticeyourneighbor8649 Месяц назад +4

    After plenty of relationship struggles, my biggest hurdle is what you talk about at the 28 minute mark. I was just talking to my friends about how puzzling it is to determine where my needs, wants, and desires eclipse or conflict with my partners’ and vice versa. I fear it will be a lifelong dissatisfying struggle and it makes me think I am not really able to have a healthy relationship.

  • @wildbarenutrition
    @wildbarenutrition 22 дня назад

    A really great and informative talk, thanks 🙌🏻

  • @miz6229
    @miz6229 21 день назад +1

    Yay, San Diego! It's still "challenging," but not that bad. It's all about your attitude.

  • @lindafuls5032
    @lindafuls5032 21 час назад

    I loved the book. I bought it at Barnes and noble thank you. I don’t read books a lot but I did yours.❤️

  • @MiaDolceJulia
    @MiaDolceJulia Месяц назад +2

    Sabrina is so real😊🎉 Love it ❤️
    Emotional and embrace it!

  • @YolandaVaSa
    @YolandaVaSa Месяц назад

    Thank you!🤍

  • @marialiedel7971
    @marialiedel7971 Месяц назад +10

    I love Audrey so much🥹

  • @vikinglass5496
    @vikinglass5496 16 дней назад

    Sabrina is speaking my story. Thank you for this 😮😮😮😮 In therapy for a bit for abandonment and setting boundaries.

  • @CeciledeLuire
    @CeciledeLuire Месяц назад +4

    oh and hello from one sensitive little ball of fire to another, Sabrina Zohar! : )

  • @SethNobrega
    @SethNobrega Месяц назад

    This was a remarkable interview. I felt like I related to her quite a bit.

  • @BarbusBanks
    @BarbusBanks Месяц назад +7

    I love this guest. I really relate to her experience

  • @lisanathan7336
    @lisanathan7336 Месяц назад

    Amazing ❤

  • @Chris-hp2gg
    @Chris-hp2gg 8 дней назад +1

    We're all cut from the same cloth.😂

  • @CeciledeLuire
    @CeciledeLuire Месяц назад +7

    can i double-like?
    i feel touched.

  • @bibibamusxx
    @bibibamusxx 20 дней назад

    This whole 55 minutes were spot on and powerful 🥰😍

  • @Meredith31
    @Meredith31 2 дня назад

    Matthew & Audrey are couple goals ❤

  • @bigcatenergy3707
    @bigcatenergy3707 Месяц назад

    Hi Matthew, thank you for this video. There’s a particular topic I don’t think you’ve covered that I wanted to seek advice on. What if you genuinely just don’t want to put in the effort to date? Is it ok to just fully let go and take a break? Sometimes I worry that I won’t come back from it but I genuinely don’t have the desire to date rn. Thank you 🙏

  • @ghaili1175
    @ghaili1175 28 дней назад

    Waiting for my book

  • @kyee9723
    @kyee9723 Месяц назад +1

    awesome

  • @lylyanazarela4807
    @lylyanazarela4807 Месяц назад +2

    Can you please make one with Sadia Khan ❤

  • @melpp2000
    @melpp2000 Месяц назад +1

    I LOVE AUDREY

  • @tmi925
    @tmi925 Месяц назад

    ❤ wowwy...Brand-New to channel...too much all @ once! Lol.. it's xtrodinary to verbally diagram how the psyche jumps from protective mechanism to inseting/finding a hole/break to let something else guide you... to unburden yr psyche.. I'll have to come back to the video.
    RUclips has literally been my guide to self-help.

  • @user-ro3ci5jw7y
    @user-ro3ci5jw7y Месяц назад +1

    Sabrina❤

  • @hunghnguyen6257
    @hunghnguyen6257 Месяц назад

    Dating in London at 11pm

  • @bigcatenergy3707
    @bigcatenergy3707 Месяц назад

    40 minutes was key for me

  • @joshuadarocha7421
    @joshuadarocha7421 25 дней назад +1

    I did some reflection the other day and I have been with people who always needed me to be there to help them fix something about themselves and I never fixed myself during those relationships, I am currently dating someone who is perfect but I am having thoughts that she doesn't need me and lack of self confidence, what should I do?

    • @Dragonboy55564
      @Dragonboy55564 22 дня назад +1

      She chose to stay with you. That is something you should trust in. If she is really a perfect person like you say, that means she sees something in you that you may not see in yourself.
      Relationships shouldn't be about "fixing" each other, but complementing each other while still maintaining individuality. Basically, you should be uplifting each other while still being able to stand on your own.
      Maybe you should consider if there's anything you can do to increase your opinion of yourself. Are there any hobbies or trainings you can do to make yourself more valuable (for example: being a great cook, being fit, being knowledgeable / cultured / well-read, being creative, being kind and socially conscious etc.)? Working on yourself is one way you can be more confident in yourself.

    • @joshuadarocha7421
      @joshuadarocha7421 5 дней назад

      @@Dragonboy55564 Thank you so much for saying this! I am trying to work on myself to read more, be more individualist and be healthy

  • @hadiza1
    @hadiza1 Месяц назад +1

    💜💜💜

  • @isas6473
    @isas6473 Месяц назад +1

    Woa

    • @isas6473
      @isas6473 Месяц назад

      I've never been a first comment to a popular channel before. . . Very cool 😮

  • @rosswardrop465
    @rosswardrop465 28 дней назад

    I was put on this earth.To be happy and find love.My life has turned to be crap.my advice stay single.Its a better life.To many Golddiggers .Stay lonely.

  • @rosswardrop465
    @rosswardrop465 28 дней назад +1

    Men please stay single.You will get ripped off .Women want to much.

  • @brookeedgecombe8527
    @brookeedgecombe8527 Месяц назад

    I don't like the way Matt says "her" or "she". Also don't like that he calls her complaining.