I'm glad someone is finally saying something about these niam tsev line dancers😂 it's one thing to pay and watch young girls perform traditional dances but to waste everyone's time watching old ladies take over the dance floor is so xu siab. Yes, do it for exercise,for being healthy, to have fun with your gfs but don't waste everyone party time. Stop taking over the dance floor you are not the only ones who want to dance and have fun!
These line dancer groups need to stop it! I’m so sick and exhausted watching these old ladies doing the same line dancing over and over. Every music regardless if it’s fast or slow, same dance group and same line dance style. I stopped going to Hmong parties because of these line dancers. 😂😂 They literally take over the whole dance floor.. doing the same thing over and over again
Story 2 niam tais aw ua siab loj os tsis yog kj ib leeg os peb txhua tus uas muaj mi tub mi nyuam ces yeej ntsib qhov ko nawb mog es yus ua txhaum niam txiv lawm ces cia yus hlub lawv xwb txhob tos qhov lawv yuav hlub yus rov qab os mog 😢
I do see them posting line dancing at that party in Facebook, why every party these housewives go do line dancing like that, every party I go now it’s happening like these, not fun anymore.
Story #2 As a parent, you need to set boundaries and rules in your household. An example: anyone that reaches the age of 18 has to move out if they don’t continue their education, only the one(s) that continues their education can stay until they are done. We as parents have to be tough and hard sometimes if we want our children to learn and grow into independent individuals.
Story # 1 Niam tais aw!!! Tsis yog koj ib leeg xwb os peb cov los zoo ib yam koj hais thiab os peb yog niam ces peb nyoo xwb thiaj zoo nawb. Kuv mas kuv tseem them cov tooj rau sib tin sis os😢
People can dance however they want. Just because they don't have room to shake their asses they're here to complain 😂. They can only complain about their VIP table to the host of that party only.
That’s right! It’s annoying when you want to go dance freely, but all these ladies takes up the dance floor line dancing. They need to rent their own place privately so they could line dance all night- no outsiders.
Hais rau tus niam tsev story ob nawb, koj tus me ntxhais yog teenager nws lub hlwb tseem mos mos. Koj yog niam continue koj txoj hauj lwm niam mus. Coob tus teenger yeej coj li. Thaum lawd hnub nyug 20 rau 25 xyoo ces lawd yeej tig rov hlub koj nawb. Yuav tau xyau kaw qhov ncauj thiab nawb you tus ua niam na.
Zaj #1 mas, kuv kuj tsis tau mus lawv lub Red Tie Party ntawv thiab. Tabsis, tamsimno ces Hmoob cov party ces lubtwg los ibpab ibpab Niamtsev npab npab-nauj mas los dhia 123, 123, 123 tagli xwb os. Tejtug teem teem taub, toov toov, los nim cov povtwg tsoo peb pawglug thiab tseem phoom tsuj peb tej ko-taw thiab tiag. Yog ho haistias lam ua tau xev-xev-xis thiab nov mas kuj zoo saib thiab mav. Tabsis ntsia mas feem coob tib pab zais zais plab, toov toov zooli nyuamqhuav tuaj Nplogteb tuaj xwb thiab es tsawg tsawg pab thiajli ua tau zoo saib xwb as Nancy. Qhov lawv txeeb chaw dance tag mas yeej meem-txom kawg li thiab nawb.
agreed thiab nawb,cov niam tsev no mas ua ib kab ib kab tig mus tig los tsis muaj qab hau, lawv xav tias haib2 li ,tiam sis took all the space and copy Laotian.
Story 2: why are you expecting so much from your kids? I have a 20 yo daughter too. As long as she stays out of trouble and pays her own bills, I don’t bother her. She goes out with her friends and comes home before curfew. As long as she tells me where she’s going, I’m good. I don’t expect gifts from her but she buys me gifts anyways. I told her that my only expectation for her is to be a good and responsible person. As a parent, we can’t expect equal treatment from our children because it is not an equal relationship. As a parent, you will give more than receive, if anything. Txhob Xav khib ok?!
Yog li koi hais lawm nawb, txhua yam yeej tsis yog tag li lawm os. Cov niam tsev los ua dance 123 tig sab laug / sab xis no khij xuaj heev nawb, tsis tsim txiaj kiag li laiv, muaj plhus tiag 2 li yom.
Niam tais Nancy awd tos cov Niam tsev no ho muaj linedanc los cov Txiv Neej Haus2 cawv ces cov niam thiaj ua line dance thiaj tsi laj laj tos cov txiv vim tsi xav sib nrauj lawm nas
Story 2 tus mi niam tsev aw txhob tu siab os mog tsis yog kj ib leej xwb os peb los yeej ib yam thiab os cov mi nyuam uas kam nrog yus nyob ces twb yog luag tsis kam them nuj nqis es luag thiaj nrog yus nyob xwb tsis yog lawv hlub 2 yus os
Story #2 what’s go around is come around as she’s a girl too when you watch National Geography and how’s the Opossum mothers raise her babies and how’s her babies raise their babies so be glade of yourself ua li yus ua tau xwb nawj don’t push yourself beyond what you can’t do. God bless you
hmoob pib yuav ua rog 30 quav dev thiab laud, zoo mloog kawg nkaus... ua cas ho tsis nrhiav neej 6 hmoob kom hmoob muaj neej ua thiab ho mus ua cov num noj dawb noj do li no... muab nej cov nyiaj $300-500-1000 mus pab hmoob kom hmoob muaj neej ntshe yuav tshav 3 ntuj nrig in the future...es hmoob ntse li no xwb!
Hmoob yog peb txhob vam meej mus deb2 es peb txhob hnov tsis tau party, txawm yuav nyob deb nyob ze los yeej yuav mus kom tau. Yog peb txhob zoo li no ces yeej tsis muaj leej twg yuav npaj party thiab dag tau nej nyiaj. Tsis tim lawv cov tswv party, muab hais ces tim yus yus tsis mus leej twg yuam tau yus na, nyiaj nyob yus hnab
If it’s true, per the Complainants, there should be a full refunds. Plus the line dances are out of control. Pleased have courtesy for other party goers.
#1 Host needs to put down in writing what you agreed to do for VIP tables. VIP guests make sure you have host’s words in writing. He says, she says goes nowhere.
Story #2: niam tais aw koj muab nws hlub dhau lawm os. Koj tsis muab expectations rau koj tus ntxhais. Yog nws tsis txawj xav li ntawd ces kom nws mus nyob nws thaum pom kev txom nyem thiaj li paub os. Yog nws tsis kam mus ces neb ob niam txiv yuav tsum charge rent. Yog nws khiav mus lawm 2-3 hnoob ces pauv pob qhov rooj force nws out. Yeej yuav mob koj dua vim koj hlub nws. Tough love mama! Stay strong and good luck!
Nancy, peb mus lawv lub last night Royal Ball party at the NY fairground. Lawv hais tias ib tug neeg yog $50. Peb tsis tau them nyiaj vim peb yog cov dance team winners parents, who were required to attend the Royal Ball party. There was not food and drink. For those who actually paid $50 a person, they might be disappointed also.
Story 2, tus niam no tus ntxhais ce tag kev cia siab, xaiv seb pua tau tus vauv zoo2 thaum kawg seb pua hlub koj xwb…saib koj coob noob seb pua yog noob liam thiab..koj tus txiv los ib yam, yog muaj noob tsi zoo ce tso pov tseg zoo dua, 18 xyoo lawm kom nws mus nyob nws zoo heev nawb..
Kuv los yeej thuam rau cov ua red tie es khib koo nyiaj rau lub rooj VIP $500 thiab nawb kuv twb yog ib tug nyob lub VIP rooj thiab kuv cav cia2 siab na tau 2 pob mov nplaum 1taig qaub txaus 1 leeg noj 1 pob tawv npua 2 pob ntses xwv txaus 4 leeg noj es lub rooj yog 10 Leej es peb tsi pom qab noj li kawg muaj tseeb2 kawg li nawb
Hi Nancy, it would have been beneficial to directly verify any complaints or concerns with the event organizers before sharing that information. Misunderstandings and miscommunication can easily occur, especially when information is passed along without being properly checked for accuracy. This is not only protects your own credibility but also ensures that the people involved are not unjustly harmed by unverified claims. Case in point, in November, 2024, you, with great passion, passed along information you received from the former president of the Hmong Southeast Phuav Pheej, Inc. (HSP) in North Carolina, who falsely claimed that the current governance team members were going to remove the gate constructed at the entrance to the HSP park. Of course, none of it was true and because your failure to verify the information, a great deal work was spent to rebuild the reputation of the new team with general public. I RECOMMEND YOU STAY AWAY FROM CONTROVERSIAL TOPICS. You are a good story teller and a funny one; stick to that!
Yes, children these days do not love us parents anymore. They buy their girlfriends and boyfriends gifts, but nothing for us parents. We parents need to prepare to go nursing homes when we aged.
Q#2 rau tus niam tsev uas muaj tus mes nyuam tawv tawv nawb. Ok. saib thaum koj tu koj tus me nyuam ntawm koj cob qhia nws thaum yau yau tuaj li cas. Thaum koj tseem yau koj coj li cas rau koj niam koj txiv. Koj tus txiv ne lawv caj ceg puas muaj cov tawv tawv li ntawm. Cov laus hais tias lub noob txiv ntoo ces yuav poob tsis deb ntawm nws lub hauv paus no nawb. Thiab Kev tsav coj ntawm yus cov me nyuam ces lawv yuav coj raws nkaus li qhov yus cob qhia lawv xwb os.
Tus Viv ncaus aw! Koj tau cov menyuam huab tsis lawm. Me nyuam huab tais, yeej zoo li nawb. Yog koj tsis xav tau menyuam huab tais, tus tub tus ntxhais twg muaj 18 xyoo lawm kom nws mus nyob nws ywj she siab. Txij no lawm pem suab, peb muaj ib tug laus, puv ib 120 xyoo. kom txiv coj xai, txhob foom Kom peb txhua tus ciaj huab tais, tau me nyuam huab tais lawm. uatsaug koj qhia paub, thiab faj kuv lus rau lwm tus niam tsev tau kawm.
Kom tus niam ntsev ua nws cov me nyuam tsis txawj xav tsis hlub nws tsis pab nws na txhob tu siab cov be me nyuam nyob teb chaw meka no ces yeej zoo li ib leej niam yug xwb tsua yog txawv xeem xwb be kom nws txhob tu siab cia be lawv ua ywj siab es yus them2 nuj nqi tag yus lawm ces lawv ntxeev tiaj khwv twg Los xij xwb hais vs ntau ces tseem ua lub chaw rau tej me nyuam ntxub xwb os mog
Hais rau tus niam tais story number. Hais txog cov mi nyuam zoo koj tus ko kuv los muaj ib co los zoo li ko thiab tiag.sawv daws ua hauj lwm ib yam muaj ib zaug kuv .uab daim nqi fais rau lawv pab them. Tus muab pov rau tus lawv sib ceg tshuav sib ntaus. Kuv tu siab nrho tsis thov lawv pab li lawm. Tu siab tiag2 tej mi nyuam yug tau hlub npaum yus ua niam ua txiv no na. Txheej mi nyuam no ib txhia yeej tsis hlub niam hlub txiv lawm.
Ib hlis 2 txhiab ces tsis txaus siv li os. Lawv hluas mas twb tsis txaus yuav McDonald os. Tej hauj lwm hauv tsev ces yus ua niam kav tsij ua xwb. Lawv lub neej lawv yuav ua cas los xij lawv, yus lub twb dhau lawm es yuav txhawj los txhawj yus lub xwb.
Story # 1: hais rau cov kwv tij phooj ywg nyiam ua party, tsis hais nyob rau lub pwj cheeb twg los xij…tsis paub xyov Hmoob xav li cas rau ntawm txoj kev ua neej ua neeg li lawm, nws yog lub caij nyoog ntiaj teb muaj kev kub ntxhov txhua yam pauv hloov tas lawm, sab kev phem sab kev zoo los peb tsis pom tsis paub, qhov peb yuav ntsib no xyov yog phem los zoo rau peb, peb tsis paub pig kis yuav zoo li cas rau koj, kuv peb thiab peb tsev neeg Hmoob. Nej tsis los tawm tswv yim yuav ua li cas peb thiaj nyob nyab xeeb, peb puas muaj siab muaj ntsws muaj paj hlwb, peb tsuas yog xav txog thiab nyiam ua party qw mus tos neeg tuaj hu nkauj qw ua lom ua vab haus cawv qaug tsav tsheb muaj teeb meem sib ntaus sib tua, tsim teeb meem rau tej nom tswv daws ua rau lawv ntxub yus Hmoob, peb twb yog tib neeg thiab ne..yog vim li cas peb tsis muaj kev pom kev xav txog tias tej yam peb ua no dhau cai lawm, yuav tau tsum thiab ua ib tug zoo qauv rau tej yau tej hluas tom qab rau lawv kawm coj thiab ua mus rau qhov yog kom luag lwm haiv neeg txhob thuam tau peb Hmoob. Zoo li peb Hmoob lam tuaj nyob rooj teb no xwb peb ua tsis tau ib yam tseem ceeb los txhawb peb tsev neeg Hmoob kom neeg ntiaj teb pom thiab lawv qhuas peb li, tsuas pom luag thuam luag hnyos peb Hmoob nkaus xwb, nej tsis paub tu siab li los Hmoob? Tsim nyog sawv daws twb paub tab paub cai ua neeg tseem ceeb rau hauv lub zej zog sawv daws nyob kawg Ii lawm. Peb muaj ntau yam yuav ua yuav npaj lub neej rau tom ntej no nawv, tsim nyog sawv daws twb pom txog paub txog lawm cas tsam no tseem zoo li sawv daws lub paj hlwb twb tseem tsis ntse tsis loj npaum li tus me nyuam muaj 5 xyoos, tseem qes tshaj plaws li lawm? Peb puas tsim txiaj thiab vam meej txog rau sab kev ua party mus haus cawv qw ua lom ua vab rau tom tej tsev qhua? Peb puas txaj muag rau txoj kev ua neej ua neeg os cov kwv tij nkauj muam niaj hnub sib txeeb ua party lom zem sib cav sib ceg tas li tsis muaj ib hnub Hmoob zoo li ? Puas tsim nyog peb yug los ua Hmoob lawm? Hais rau cov niam tsev txiv tsev nyiam txhawb rau sab kev mus party lom zem, yog koj twb txaus siab nqa nyiaj mus txhawb lawv lawm, kev cog lug tsis muaj tseeb vim tsis sau rau hauv daim ntawm nws yog tham lus xwb ntshe koj los nej cov VIP yuav tsis tau nyiaj rov qab li siab xav lawm vim Hmoob ua dab tsi Hmoob yeej tsis muaj ntaub ntawv sau kos tseg ntawm qhov xwm txheej. Koj los nej qhov teeb meem nrog lawv cov neeg ua party no yog nej li xwb, txhob cuam tshua rau lwm tus kom lawv ua nej lub ncauj cev lus rau nej thiaj yog txoj cai, yus yuav tau mus daws yus qhov teeb meem xwb thiaj yog txoj cai, yus thiaj yog tus paub tus pom, yus daws nrog lawv yus thiaj tau yus qhov nyiaj rov los, yog yus tsis txaus siab rau yam twg lawv ua lawm ces ncaj qha mus ntsib kiag lawv daws koj qhov teeb meem xwb, tej no mas tsis yog niam tais ci nplas li teeb meem, nej txhob muab ib ceg tw rau niam tais ci plas ev nawv. Story # 2 : tus niam tsev, ntawm koj tus ntxhais, yog koj thiab koj tus txiv neb tseem coj qub kev cai no neb yuav tau ua ib thaj neeb saib thiab kho nws, tej zaum nws puas rau sab ntsuj plig lawm, muaj cov ntsuj plig phem los yob los ua rau nws lub siab ntsws coj zoo Ii ntawv los kuj muaj thiab, thaum koj tus ntxhais tseem yau ne nws puas coj tus cwj pwm zoo Ii tam sim no? Cov tub ntxhais tiam no lawv lub siab txoj kev xav lawv tsis pom deb tsis pom dav, lawv pom lawv xyaum ua raws li lawv cov phooj ywg ua lawm xwb, lawv tsis hwm niam hwm txiv lawm. Qhov koj yuav paub qhov tseeb txog koj tus ntxhais tus cwj pwm xeeb ceem kev coj ces koj yuav tau mus nrhiav cov niam neeb txiv yaig pab saib rau koj lawm xwb, tsis muaj lwm txoj hauv kev lawm nawv. Yog koj tsis pab tsis daws tam sim no mus ces tej zaum lwm zaus yuav nyuaj tshaj rau koj los tsis paub thiab os..mam nug mam li mus saib seb tus twg yog tus muaj lub siab dawb ncaj ncees saib pab rau koj nws tsis yuav nyiaj mas koj mam li saib nawv.
Lawv lub red tie party ko xyoo no kuv tus txiv wb tsis tau mus lawm tsis pom lawv muab zaub mov noj li cas tab sis yog hais txog qhov dance ces yeej muaj li lawv hais ko kawg yog leej twg tsis txawj dance mev cov music los yog cov laas voos uas mev ua2 ces tsis txhob mus nawb
18 Xyooj lawm ces yog news xav ua zoo ces Kab tsij nyob es xyaum Tus zoo neeg, yog news tsis xav ua zoo ces ua Twb zoo ua Siab Ntev mug hais zoo2 yog news yeem ua li ntawd lawm xwb no ces kom news kav tsij mus ua li Txooj kev uas news xav ua es thiaj li tsis tab Maum nestle lib Neej no mog
#1...😂😂😂 it's a Hmong party...what did you expect? Lol... You should have address the situation to the hosts at the time of the party and hold them accountable. Most Hmong people are not humble enough to hold themselves accountable...too prideful. For now, this is all hearsay. Cant wait to hear the other side's story. 😂
Story 2: your daughter got spoiled. Be little more strict on having things available for her. Teach her to be independent. You may be too afraid of her safety if she move out. I don’t depends on my kids to help me around the house. I have them did the chores with me when they’re younger and gave them the idea of being by themselves after graduate from high school
Niam tais ci blas koj hais ib qho cas nim no tseem muaj ib co niam tsev sawv los sib tw dhia maum caum lawm thiab? Puas yog cov no pheej los ua rau nej tsis tau kev ua las voos nas?
Hais rau story # 2 kuv muaj ib tug txhais xwb nws ua hauj lwm nws yuav tsev rau wb ob niam txiv nyob nws them txhuas yam ib them nqis av xwb . Hos hais txog koj tus txhais yog nws lub siab twb hos phem npaum kom es tsi pab koj ib qho lis no ces kawg kom nws cas lis tawm kom nws mus nyob nws xwb os mog vim koj twb tu nws loj hlob lawm ces tsi txhob muab nws tu kom laus thiab os mog ua ib siab tu siab nrog hais tias koj yug tsi muaj no xwb mas lov niam tais 😢😢😢😢😢
Story #2, koj tus mes nyuam koj thiaj mob siab - hais tsis tau kom muab naw tawm hau koj lub tsev, tab sis nyob lub teb chaws American no yog tus mis nyuam muaj 18 xyoo lawm ces cia nws mus nyob nws tus kheej.
Story 2: Sister aw....peb ib leeg muaj ib tug zoo li koj tus. Yog zoo li Meskas es ua taus siab tawv ces muab ncaws tawm tsev xwb. Coj neeg txawj ntse hais tias coj li peb Hmoob coj ces tab tom pha menyuam mus rau kev tub nkeeg xwb. 1 ces ua siab tawv qhawv Kom nws mus nyob nws es nws phem zoo los koj ua ib siab xwb. 2 ces cia nws nyob nrog koj li ko es koj uv xwb. Yog koj xaiv 2 ces kuv txhawb koj li no. At least she is working. Even if she doesn't help you with anything, at least she has a job and is not a gangster or doesn't do drugs or ua meb cab. So only think of the positive Sister. Kids today are changing. We cannot raise them as Hmong parents way anymore. We have to learn to be like American parents. Kick them out when they are 18. They will only get something if they pay with their own money.
Story # 1Red Tie. Kuv hais rau nej hais tias yog Fresno lub red tie party quav dev npaum li ntawd ces txij yav no lawm tov cez nej tseg kiag txhob mus txhawb, txhob yuav lawv cov tables lawm ces lawv tsis tau nyiaj ces kawg nyob taus taus. Cov hmoob nyob qab teb poob qab deb ho hmoob nyob qaum teb vam meej dua. Pem qaum teb mas Neeg mus koom lawv tej party kev lomzem yeej muaj zaub mov noj dej haus tibsi.
Story #2: Parents, it's time to tell her to move out on her own. I have a very stingy daughter like that too. I stop giving her gifts or money. I only buy gifts for my grandchildren only. Lawv hlub yus li cas ces yus hlub lawv li ntawd xwb.
#2, set clear expectations for your daughter. Either she gives your $400 for rent/utilities or go live on her own. She's in your home, follow your expectations, and has house chores. Don't give the car keys to her. She can take the bus to work or find a way. Have her give you $20 each time she uses the car. The problem is you spoiled her. My 16 year old gives me $100 per month for his car payment because he works part-time and makes $300 a month.
#2: sister, you didn't mentioned if you only have 1 daughter, or couple daughters and she is the only one giving you problems. So, I'm guessing she is your only daughter. She is 19, so she is some what passed her teen years and growing into adulthood. And at this point, it's too late to help your rebellious daughter to be respectful towards you & your husband and help you in the house & money at this point. She will have to learn the hard life lesson herself. In the end, she will either turn her life around or end up wasting it. You can help by not yelling at her even though it's hard and try to say nice things to her & encourage her and that you are there for her even when you want to disown her. She is looking for acceptance & love. Hopefully, she will see that love & change once she learn from her mistakes & grows older. Our Hmong have many children so our children do not get enough attention from us. We are also financially burden whether married or divorced so we put our children last. Children need guidance, attention, and steering from a very young age so that they don't fall into the wrong crowd. It's very HARD to raise a successful human being or child at least in my opinion. Txhov tu siab vicaus tiam 21 nos tsis hais leej tug mob toj hauj ib yas li os hais txov me nyuam na
For story #2 I'm not here to judge u or anything bc I dnt knw ur parenting, everyone's parenting is different within and to each their own. I have a 19 yr old too, who also lives at home, part time school and part time work. She doesn't make as much as ur daughter and she works to save for her car. We dnt ask her to pay any bills, but she is responsible for her own gas unless we use the car and the car is still mine. She does help out around the house wen askd to do so, and she does offer to buy food for us wen she's out or on days she gets paid. Maybe u and ur husband can try to talk to her and let her knw what is expected at home...at the end of the day, she is still living under ur roof. Dnt let her be too entitled bc kids these days think they are, but u as the parent also need to be firm and let them knw also. Hope everything works out for u and u guys find a solution. Raising these teenagers nowadays are a tad bit complex bc they're not built like us!
Nev nev nev tuag tsis tuag nej txoj ke ua party es niam VIP table npaum ub npaum no tab sis thaum luag tuaj txog nej ho ua tej lub ruam2 os....paub lawm los pos, nej twb tsis ua li nej hais ces kav tsij refund $200 rov qab rau cov VIP nawb nej na. Hos cov poj hmoob niam no los cav yuav khav lawv co ua ko taw ua luaj thiab es nej tsis paub tias nej muab ua ko taw ces take space ntau2 no los cas na, tig sab twg los sib phoom tas li xwb kuv los dhuav kawg li thiab tiag.
Aub yaub, muaj teebmeem loj ua cas tsis hais nawb? Business is business tsis yog pub dawb. Hais kiag tim party kom lawv paub ntag. Nej twb tsis muaj peevxwv hais kom meej. Nej cia dlauv mus nej mam li complain ces nej Xav rhiav teebmeem xwb. Lawv ua saib tsis tau nej cov customer ua cas hos tsis hais lub sibhawm ntawv no. Nej cia dlauv ces means tias nej yeej zoo siab thiab no. Hmoob muaj muaj teebmeem vim hmoob coj niag cwjpwm qia neeg li no.. tej zaum lawv ua tau yuam Kev los cov customer tsis paub hais tib zoo kom nkag siab ces coj mus kev sib txiav sib ntxhub li no
#2 As a mother you do everything so your kids will do nothing. If you want them to help you out act like you don't know anything and be a lazy mom so the kids will do eveerything
Story#2 Adult child - entitlement and selfish. You can still love her by not spoiling and enabling her ways. If she doesn't help you at all, fine. She should not be coming back to you for her needs after she spent all her money on herself -her wants. Stop giving her the cars if she doesn't help pump gas...or allow her to drive only 1 car and she have to pay for gas on that one.
For story #2. Yog koj tus ntxhais phem li koj hais tiag ,qhov zoo ces muab nws ncaws tawm tsev xwb nws mus nyob nws kom nws muaj nuj nqi them nws thiaj paub
I didn't get a vip table or partner up with the red tie party. But owner of my vip table did complained n went home early. so I will not say anything about free foods n drinks. But here are some of my thoughts about the party. Yes if it was promised to vip the VIP table it should be as promised. You who bought the VIP table should also get the name of who you bought the table from or spoke with. I personally do not like how all the line dance shows too. Red Tie owner shouldn't allowed line dancer shows bcos ppl pay to get in, to enjoy n have fun not to see ladies line dance shows. If the party was free than yes you guys can do whatever is. Eventually the dance floor is free of style but to best smooth out the event. If it is too packed, as owners of the party should give spaces to your guesses. If it's pretty empty floor than yes go keep it entertaining of free styles. I personally do think the line dance show n the not giving spaces for your guesses is not friendly professional. Owners of party should not get mad over this but learned from it.
I'm glad someone is finally saying something about these niam tsev line dancers😂 it's one thing to pay and watch young girls perform traditional dances but to waste everyone's time watching old ladies take over the dance floor is so xu siab. Yes, do it for exercise,for being healthy, to have fun with your gfs but don't waste everyone party time. Stop taking over the dance floor you are not the only ones who want to dance and have fun!
Ntxub cov las voos ko kawg li.
These line dancer groups need to stop it! I’m so sick and exhausted watching these old ladies doing the same line dancing over and over. Every music regardless if it’s fast or slow, same dance group and same line dance style. I stopped going to Hmong parties because of these line dancers. 😂😂 They literally take over the whole dance floor.. doing the same thing over and over again
Kuv ntxub cov niam dev uas ua line dance...123 tig sab right, 123 tig sab left. Cas yuav ntxim ntxub ua luaj.
Story 2 niam tais aw ua siab loj os tsis yog kj ib leeg os peb txhua tus uas muaj mi tub mi nyuam ces yeej ntsib qhov ko nawb mog es yus ua txhaum niam txiv lawm ces cia yus hlub lawv xwb txhob tos qhov lawv yuav hlub yus rov qab os mog 😢
I am here with you txhais
I do see them posting line dancing at that party in Facebook, why every party these housewives go do line dancing like that, every party I go now it’s happening like these, not fun anymore.
Story #2
As a parent, you need to set boundaries and rules in your household. An example: anyone that reaches the age of 18 has to move out if they don’t continue their education, only the one(s) that continues their education can stay until they are done. We as parents have to be tough and hard sometimes if we want our children to learn and grow into independent individuals.
If it's too good to be true, it's a RED FLAG PARTY 😂
Muaj tiag Lo Koj hais kawg Kuv twb mus thiab
Story # 1 Niam tais aw!!! Tsis yog koj ib leeg xwb os peb cov los zoo ib yam koj hais thiab os peb yog niam ces peb nyoo xwb thiaj zoo nawb. Kuv mas kuv tseem them cov tooj rau sib tin sis os😢
People can dance however they want. Just because they don't have room to shake their asses they're here to complain 😂. They can only complain about their VIP table to the host of that party only.
Story#2
Sister Txhob Tu siab os, niam no peb cov me nyuam ces feem coob yeej zoo li ntawv lawm xwb, tsis zoo li peb cov ua niam ua Txiv siab xav lawm
Yep we were there, dinner portion for VIP table were too small for 10 people.
Tus me nyuam zoo li koj hais mas nws yog lub siab hlau txias naj !
That’s right! It’s annoying when you want to go dance freely, but all these ladies takes up the dance floor line dancing. They need to rent their own place privately so they could line dance all night- no outsiders.
Hais rau tus niam tsev story ob nawb, koj tus me ntxhais yog teenager nws lub hlwb tseem mos mos. Koj yog niam continue koj txoj hauj lwm niam mus. Coob tus teenger yeej coj li. Thaum lawd hnub nyug 20 rau 25 xyoo ces lawd yeej tig rov hlub koj nawb. Yuav tau xyau kaw qhov ncauj thiab nawb you tus ua niam na.
Zaj #1 mas, kuv kuj tsis tau mus lawv lub Red Tie Party ntawv thiab. Tabsis, tamsimno ces Hmoob cov party ces lubtwg los ibpab ibpab Niamtsev npab npab-nauj mas los dhia 123, 123, 123 tagli xwb os. Tejtug teem teem taub, toov toov, los nim cov povtwg tsoo peb pawglug thiab tseem phoom tsuj peb tej ko-taw thiab tiag. Yog ho haistias lam ua tau xev-xev-xis thiab nov mas kuj zoo saib thiab mav. Tabsis ntsia mas feem coob tib pab zais zais plab, toov toov zooli nyuamqhuav tuaj Nplogteb tuaj xwb thiab es tsawg tsawg pab thiajli ua tau zoo saib xwb as Nancy. Qhov lawv txeeb chaw dance tag mas yeej meem-txom kawg li thiab nawb.
May God love n bless you 🙏 ❤️ #2
agreed thiab nawb,cov niam tsev no mas ua ib kab ib kab tig mus tig los tsis muaj qab hau, lawv xav tias haib2 li ,tiam sis took all the space and copy Laotian.
kuv agree li ko hais kawg... lawv them nyiaj tabsis mus saib lawv cov pojniam los dance xwb...kuv pom zoo cov niam tsev koj mus performance pem tshav poob
Nej txhob mus txhawb nqa lawv kom lawv xwb thiab tshav pob Fresno nws kim3 dhau lawm tsis yog hmoob lub lawm yog chaw khwv Nyiajtxo lawm xwb peb tsis txawb nqa lawm cov neeg mus ces yog cov neeg tau nyiaj dawb es tsis tau khwv thiaj mus xwb mad
Story 2: why are you expecting so much from your kids? I have a 20 yo daughter too. As long as she stays out of trouble and pays her own bills, I don’t bother her. She goes out with her friends and comes home before curfew. As long as she tells me where she’s going, I’m good. I don’t expect gifts from her but she buys me gifts anyways. I told her that my only expectation for her is to be a good and responsible person. As a parent, we can’t expect equal treatment from our children because it is not an equal relationship. As a parent, you will give more than receive, if anything. Txhob Xav khib ok?!
Yog li koi hais lawm nawb, txhua yam yeej tsis yog tag li lawm os.
Cov niam tsev los ua dance 123 tig sab laug / sab xis no khij xuaj heev nawb, tsis tsim txiaj kiag li laiv, muaj plhus tiag 2 li yom.
The 1st story is too funny, lol!!
Story #1 I hate line dance I kinda think it more like they try to show off how good they are.
Am yog lawv xav entertain kom nej tuaj saib mos hehe
Niam tais Nancy awd tos cov Niam tsev no ho muaj linedanc los cov Txiv Neej Haus2 cawv ces cov niam thiaj ua line dance thiaj tsi laj laj tos cov txiv vim tsi xav sib nrauj lawm nas
Nyob zoo xyoo tsiab os Viv ncaus aw 🎉🎉❤❤
Story 2 tus mi niam tsev aw txhob tu siab os mog tsis yog kj ib leej xwb os peb los yeej ib yam thiab os cov mi nyuam uas kam nrog yus nyob ces twb yog luag tsis kam them nuj nqis es luag thiaj nrog yus nyob xwb tsis yog lawv hlub 2 yus os
Story #2 what’s go around is come around as she’s a girl too when you watch National Geography and how’s the Opossum mothers raise her babies and how’s her babies raise their babies so be glade of yourself ua li yus ua tau xwb nawj don’t push yourself beyond what you can’t do. God bless you
hmoob pib yuav ua rog 30 quav dev thiab laud, zoo mloog kawg nkaus... ua cas ho tsis nrhiav neej 6 hmoob kom hmoob muaj neej ua thiab ho mus ua cov num noj dawb noj do li no... muab nej cov nyiaj $300-500-1000 mus pab hmoob kom hmoob muaj neej ntshe yuav tshav 3 ntuj nrig in the future...es hmoob ntse li no xwb!
Niam cib nplas, hmoob tub sab hmoob nyiag xas muag tsab muaj xwb
Ruam2 laiv
Hmoob yog peb txhob vam meej mus deb2 es peb txhob hnov tsis tau party, txawm yuav nyob deb nyob ze los yeej yuav mus kom tau. Yog peb txhob zoo li no ces yeej tsis muaj leej twg yuav npaj party thiab dag tau nej nyiaj. Tsis tim lawv cov tswv party, muab hais ces tim yus yus tsis mus leej twg yuam tau yus na, nyiaj nyob yus hnab
txhais lawm lam hais xwb os. yawg laus wb twb nyob hauv thiab mas. peb lub VIP yog $500 table. ib case beer ib tray zaub mov . water bottle. tsis tas li peb tseem mus pab yuav khoom noj thiab as. peb tsis muaj teeb meem nas. lawv lam hais xwb..kuv yog koj tus phawj txawj thaiv lis os nawb.
Yog cov niam tsev nyiam nyiam ua line dance na….
If it’s true, per the Complainants, there should be a full refunds. Plus the line dances are out of control. Pleased have courtesy for other party goers.
#1
Host needs to put down in writing what you agreed to do for VIP tables. VIP guests make sure you have host’s words in writing. He says, she says goes nowhere.
Should’ve expose their names 😂😂😂😂
Niam tais Nancy cas koj yuav tau koj cov nplaub hau zoo nkauj nkawg li es xa yuav 2 lub thiab es koj yuav qhov twg os qhia kuv thiab os
Story #2: niam tais aw koj muab nws hlub dhau lawm os. Koj tsis muab expectations rau koj tus ntxhais. Yog nws tsis txawj xav li ntawd ces kom nws mus nyob nws thaum pom kev txom nyem thiaj li paub os. Yog nws tsis kam mus ces neb ob niam txiv yuav tsum charge rent. Yog nws khiav mus lawm 2-3 hnoob ces pauv pob qhov rooj force nws out. Yeej yuav mob koj dua vim koj hlub nws. Tough love mama! Stay strong and good luck!
Q # 1 quav dev dhau os.
Nancy, peb mus lawv lub last night Royal Ball party at the NY fairground. Lawv hais tias ib tug neeg yog $50. Peb tsis tau them nyiaj vim peb yog cov dance team winners parents, who were required to attend the Royal Ball party. There was not food and drink. For those who actually paid $50 a person, they might be disappointed also.
Nej mus laib liab lub party yog nej tsis mag ntaus ces zoo kawg lawm es txhob tuaj cem cem lawv os
Story 2, tus niam no tus ntxhais ce tag kev cia siab, xaiv seb pua tau tus vauv zoo2 thaum kawg seb pua hlub koj xwb…saib koj coob noob seb pua yog noob liam thiab..koj tus txiv los ib yam, yog muaj noob tsi zoo ce tso pov tseg zoo dua, 18 xyoo lawm kom nws mus nyob nws zoo heev nawb..
Red tie used to be one of the best party…. Not anymore….
Story#2 peb cov me nyuam los yeej ib yam nkaus li thiab os tus me niam tais aw cov me nyuam niam no ces txhob cia siab li os mog !!
Tus niam tsev hais txog menyuam. Qhov teeb meem yog yus ua niam txiv xwb. Yog yus tsum tsis pab lawm, ces lawv yeej yuav xyaum ua lawv lub neej. Yog koj pheej ntshai menyuam tu siab, lawv yeej yuav siv yus mus li.
2. Do not pay for your daughters bills insurance, phone, etc
Got to give her a taste of the real life.
Kuv tsev neeg yeej ib txwm tsis quav ntseg txog tej niag party ntawv li
Kuv los yeej thuam rau cov ua red tie es khib koo nyiaj rau lub rooj VIP $500 thiab nawb kuv twb yog ib tug nyob lub VIP rooj thiab kuv cav cia2 siab na tau 2 pob mov nplaum 1taig qaub txaus 1 leeg noj 1 pob tawv npua 2 pob ntses xwv txaus 4 leeg noj es lub rooj yog 10 Leej es peb tsi pom qab noj li kawg muaj tseeb2 kawg li nawb
Kv lo yeej xav hais kawg thiab li o cov hniag poj hmoob ruam tssb ntse nyob frasno na
Hi Nancy, it would have been beneficial to directly verify any complaints or concerns with the event organizers before sharing that information. Misunderstandings and miscommunication can easily occur, especially when information is passed along without being properly checked for accuracy. This is not only protects your own credibility but also ensures that the people involved are not unjustly harmed by unverified claims.
Case in point, in November, 2024, you, with great passion, passed along information you received from the former president of the Hmong Southeast Phuav Pheej, Inc. (HSP) in North Carolina, who falsely claimed that the current governance team members were going to remove the gate constructed at the entrance to the HSP park. Of course, none of it was true and because your failure to verify the information, a great deal work was spent to rebuild the reputation of the new team with general public. I RECOMMEND YOU STAY AWAY FROM CONTROVERSIAL TOPICS. You are a good story teller and a funny one; stick to that!
Yes, children these days do not love us parents anymore.
They buy their girlfriends and boyfriends gifts, but nothing for us parents.
We parents need to prepare to go nursing homes when we aged.
Lawv ib co yog neeg zoo , txhob hais lawv npe🤔 Cas tsawm zoj lus ntsees kom xa tsab xov no mus kom txog lawv ⁉️😜🤣
Q#2 rau tus niam tsev uas muaj tus mes nyuam tawv tawv nawb. Ok. saib thaum koj tu koj tus me nyuam ntawm koj cob qhia nws thaum yau yau tuaj li cas. Thaum koj tseem yau koj coj li cas rau koj niam koj txiv. Koj tus txiv ne lawv caj ceg puas muaj cov tawv tawv li ntawm. Cov laus hais tias lub noob txiv ntoo ces yuav poob tsis deb ntawm nws lub hauv paus no nawb. Thiab Kev tsav coj ntawm yus cov me nyuam ces lawv yuav coj raws nkaus li qhov yus cob qhia lawv xwb os.
Nancy lub party redtie ntawd mas zoo li cov niam ntsev mas 2 zaj nkauj qhib xwb ho muasec none stopped li nawb peb tsi paub txog Nyiaj nawb
Tus Viv ncaus aw! Koj tau cov menyuam huab tsis lawm. Me nyuam huab tais, yeej zoo li nawb.
Yog koj tsis xav tau menyuam huab tais, tus tub tus ntxhais twg muaj 18 xyoo lawm kom nws mus nyob nws ywj she siab. Txij no lawm pem suab, peb muaj ib tug laus, puv ib 120 xyoo. kom txiv coj xai, txhob foom Kom peb txhua tus ciaj huab tais, tau me nyuam huab tais lawm. uatsaug koj qhia paub, thiab faj kuv lus rau lwm tus niam tsev tau kawm.
Red Tie es twb yog pab Gang xwb ne. Cov blue mus ces kawg mag sib do xwb los mas
Kom tus niam ntsev ua nws cov me nyuam tsis txawj xav tsis hlub nws tsis pab nws na txhob tu siab cov be me nyuam nyob teb chaw meka no ces yeej zoo li ib leej niam yug xwb tsua yog txawv xeem xwb be kom nws txhob tu siab cia be lawv ua ywj siab es yus them2 nuj nqi tag yus lawm ces lawv ntxeev tiaj khwv twg Los xij xwb hais vs ntau ces tseem ua lub chaw rau tej me nyuam ntxub xwb os mog
Teb rau tus niam tsev yog pog yawg niam txiv muaj Kev khaum Kev npam COV me nyuajmnab ROG poob los rau tej tub ki tom qab
Hais rau tus niam tais story number. Hais txog cov mi nyuam zoo koj tus ko kuv los muaj ib co los zoo li ko thiab tiag.sawv daws ua hauj lwm ib yam muaj ib zaug kuv .uab daim nqi fais rau lawv pab them. Tus muab pov rau tus lawv sib ceg tshuav sib ntaus. Kuv tu siab nrho tsis thov lawv pab li lawm. Tu siab tiag2 tej mi nyuam yug tau hlub npaum yus ua niam ua txiv no na. Txheej mi nyuam no ib txhia yeej tsis hlub niam hlub txiv lawm.
Ib hlis 2 txhiab ces tsis txaus siv li os. Lawv hluas mas twb tsis txaus yuav McDonald os. Tej hauj lwm hauv tsev ces yus ua niam kav tsij ua xwb. Lawv lub neej lawv yuav ua cas los xij lawv, yus lub twb dhau lawm es yuav txhawj los txhawj yus lub xwb.
VIP tickets got scammed 😂😂😂
Story # 1: hais rau cov kwv tij phooj ywg nyiam ua party, tsis hais nyob rau lub pwj cheeb twg los xij…tsis paub xyov Hmoob xav li cas rau ntawm txoj kev ua neej ua neeg li lawm, nws yog lub caij nyoog ntiaj teb muaj kev kub ntxhov txhua yam pauv hloov tas lawm, sab kev phem sab kev zoo los peb tsis pom tsis paub, qhov peb yuav ntsib no xyov yog phem los zoo rau peb, peb tsis paub pig kis yuav zoo li cas rau koj, kuv peb thiab peb tsev neeg Hmoob. Nej tsis los tawm tswv yim yuav ua li cas peb thiaj nyob nyab xeeb, peb puas muaj siab muaj ntsws muaj paj hlwb, peb tsuas yog xav txog thiab nyiam ua party qw mus tos neeg tuaj hu nkauj qw ua lom ua vab haus cawv qaug tsav tsheb muaj teeb meem sib ntaus sib tua, tsim teeb meem rau tej nom tswv daws ua rau lawv ntxub yus Hmoob, peb twb yog tib neeg thiab ne..yog vim li cas peb tsis muaj kev pom kev xav txog tias tej yam peb ua no dhau cai lawm, yuav tau tsum thiab ua ib tug zoo qauv rau tej yau tej hluas tom qab rau lawv kawm coj thiab ua mus rau qhov yog kom luag lwm haiv neeg txhob thuam tau peb Hmoob. Zoo li peb Hmoob lam tuaj nyob rooj teb no xwb peb ua tsis tau ib yam tseem ceeb los txhawb peb tsev neeg Hmoob kom neeg ntiaj teb pom thiab lawv qhuas peb li, tsuas pom luag thuam luag hnyos peb Hmoob nkaus xwb, nej tsis paub tu siab li los Hmoob?
Tsim nyog sawv daws twb paub tab paub cai ua neeg tseem ceeb rau hauv lub zej zog sawv daws nyob kawg Ii lawm. Peb muaj ntau yam yuav ua yuav npaj lub neej rau tom ntej no nawv, tsim nyog sawv daws twb pom txog paub txog lawm cas tsam no tseem zoo li sawv daws lub paj hlwb twb tseem tsis ntse tsis loj npaum li tus me nyuam muaj 5 xyoos, tseem qes tshaj plaws li lawm? Peb puas tsim txiaj thiab vam meej txog rau sab kev ua party mus haus cawv qw ua lom ua vab rau tom tej tsev qhua? Peb puas txaj muag rau txoj kev ua neej ua neeg os cov kwv tij nkauj muam niaj hnub sib txeeb ua party lom zem sib cav sib ceg tas li tsis muaj ib hnub Hmoob zoo li ? Puas tsim nyog peb yug los ua Hmoob lawm?
Hais rau cov niam tsev txiv tsev nyiam txhawb rau sab kev mus party lom zem, yog koj twb txaus siab nqa nyiaj mus txhawb lawv lawm, kev cog lug tsis muaj tseeb vim tsis sau rau hauv daim ntawm nws yog tham lus xwb ntshe koj los nej cov VIP yuav tsis tau nyiaj rov qab li siab xav lawm vim Hmoob ua dab tsi Hmoob yeej tsis muaj ntaub ntawv sau kos tseg ntawm qhov xwm txheej. Koj los nej qhov teeb meem nrog lawv cov neeg ua party no yog nej li xwb, txhob cuam tshua rau lwm tus kom lawv ua nej lub ncauj cev lus rau nej thiaj yog txoj cai, yus yuav tau mus daws yus qhov teeb meem xwb thiaj yog txoj cai, yus thiaj yog tus paub tus pom, yus daws nrog lawv yus thiaj tau yus qhov nyiaj rov los, yog yus tsis txaus siab rau yam twg lawv ua lawm ces ncaj qha mus ntsib kiag lawv daws koj qhov teeb meem xwb, tej no mas tsis yog niam tais ci nplas li teeb meem, nej txhob muab ib ceg tw rau niam tais ci plas ev nawv.
Story # 2 : tus niam tsev, ntawm koj tus ntxhais, yog koj thiab koj tus txiv neb tseem coj qub kev cai no neb yuav tau ua ib thaj neeb saib thiab kho nws, tej zaum nws puas rau sab ntsuj plig lawm, muaj cov ntsuj plig phem los yob los ua rau nws lub siab ntsws coj zoo Ii ntawv los kuj muaj thiab, thaum koj tus ntxhais tseem yau ne nws puas coj tus cwj pwm zoo Ii tam sim no? Cov tub ntxhais tiam no lawv lub siab txoj kev xav lawv tsis pom deb tsis pom dav, lawv pom lawv xyaum ua raws li lawv cov phooj ywg ua lawm xwb, lawv tsis hwm niam hwm txiv lawm. Qhov koj yuav paub qhov tseeb txog koj tus ntxhais tus cwj pwm xeeb ceem kev coj ces koj yuav tau mus nrhiav cov niam neeb txiv yaig pab saib rau koj lawm xwb, tsis muaj lwm txoj hauv kev lawm nawv. Yog koj tsis pab tsis daws tam sim no mus ces tej zaum lwm zaus yuav nyuaj tshaj rau koj los tsis paub thiab os..mam nug mam li mus saib seb tus twg yog tus muaj lub siab dawb ncaj ncees saib pab rau koj nws tsis yuav nyiaj mas koj mam li saib nawv.
Lawv lub red tie party ko xyoo no kuv tus txiv wb tsis tau mus lawm tsis pom lawv muab zaub mov noj li cas tab sis yog hais txog qhov dance ces yeej muaj li lawv hais ko kawg yog leej twg tsis txawj dance mev cov music los yog cov laas voos uas mev ua2 ces tsis txhob mus nawb
Lawn los show law cov line dance Ntaj dhau lawm
18 Xyooj lawm ces yog news xav ua zoo ces Kab tsij nyob es xyaum Tus zoo neeg, yog news tsis xav ua zoo ces ua Twb zoo ua Siab Ntev mug hais zoo2 yog news yeem ua li ntawd lawm xwb no ces kom news kav tsij mus ua li Txooj kev uas news xav ua es thiaj li tsis tab Maum nestle lib Neej no mog
Hmong cov thawj coj Pam ciaj Pam tuag yeej ib txwm corrupt los lawm ntev. From my experience yeej tsis pom ib tug coj ncaj hlo li.
#1...😂😂😂 it's a Hmong party...what did you expect? Lol...
You should have address the situation to the hosts at the time of the party and hold them accountable. Most Hmong people are not humble enough to hold themselves accountable...too prideful.
For now, this is all hearsay. Cant wait to hear the other side's story. 😂
No hais rau zaj 2 nawb,sister neb muab hlub dhau heev lawm xwb,muab kick out nws twb laus txaus lawm
Story 2: your daughter got spoiled. Be little more strict on having things available for her. Teach her to be independent. You may be too afraid of her safety if she move out. I don’t depends on my kids to help me around the house. I have them did the chores with me when they’re younger and gave them the idea of being by themselves after graduate from high school
Niam tais ci blas koj hais ib qho cas nim no tseem muaj ib co niam tsev sawv los sib tw dhia maum caum lawm thiab? Puas yog cov no pheej los ua rau nej tsis tau kev ua las voos nas?
Someone got 🧠 washers by the Hmong's Patham in Fresno...
Hais rau story # 2 kuv muaj ib tug txhais xwb nws ua hauj lwm nws yuav tsev rau wb ob niam txiv nyob nws them txhuas yam ib them nqis av xwb . Hos hais txog koj tus txhais yog nws lub siab twb hos phem npaum kom es tsi pab koj ib qho lis no ces kawg kom nws cas lis tawm kom nws mus nyob nws xwb os mog vim koj twb tu nws loj hlob lawm ces tsi txhob muab nws tu kom laus thiab os mog ua ib siab tu siab nrog hais tias koj yug tsi muaj no xwb mas lov niam tais 😢😢😢😢😢
Story #2, koj tus mes nyuam koj thiaj mob siab - hais tsis tau kom muab naw tawm hau koj lub tsev, tab sis nyob lub teb chaws American no yog tus mis nyuam muaj 18 xyoo lawm ces cia nws mus nyob nws tus kheej.
Story 2: Sister aw....peb ib leeg muaj ib tug zoo li koj tus. Yog zoo li Meskas es ua taus siab tawv ces muab ncaws tawm tsev xwb. Coj neeg txawj ntse hais tias coj li peb Hmoob coj ces tab tom pha menyuam mus rau kev tub nkeeg xwb. 1 ces ua siab tawv qhawv Kom nws mus nyob nws es nws phem zoo los koj ua ib siab xwb. 2 ces cia nws nyob nrog koj li ko es koj uv xwb. Yog koj xaiv 2 ces kuv txhawb koj li no. At least she is working. Even if she doesn't help you with anything, at least she has a job and is not a gangster or doesn't do drugs or ua meb cab. So only think of the positive Sister.
Kids today are changing. We cannot raise them as Hmong parents way anymore. We have to learn to be like American parents. Kick them out when they are 18. They will only get something if they pay with their own money.
Kuv hais tias nws muaj 18 xyoo lawm ces muab nws ntiab kom tawm tsev xwb os nawb es thiaj tsis nyuaj2 koj siab os
Story # 1Red Tie. Kuv hais rau nej hais tias yog Fresno lub red tie party quav dev npaum li ntawd ces txij yav no lawm tov cez nej tseg kiag txhob mus txhawb, txhob yuav lawv cov tables lawm ces lawv tsis tau nyiaj ces kawg nyob taus taus. Cov hmoob nyob qab teb poob qab deb ho hmoob nyob qaum teb vam meej dua. Pem qaum teb mas Neeg mus koom lawv tej party kev lomzem yeej muaj zaub mov noj dej haus tibsi.
Story # 2 nyuj kub tsis nyhav nyuj hau os
story #2.. Yuav tau xyaum ua li Mekas 18 xyoo lawm ces ncaws tawm txhob quav ntsej txog thiaj tsis nyuaj yus siab..
Story #2: Parents, it's time to tell her to move out on her own. I have a very stingy daughter like that too. I stop giving her gifts or money. I only buy gifts for my grandchildren only. Lawv hlub yus li cas ces yus hlub lawv li ntawd xwb.
#2, set clear expectations for your daughter. Either she gives your $400 for rent/utilities or go live on her own. She's in your home, follow your expectations, and has house chores. Don't give the car keys to her. She can take the bus to work or find a way. Have her give you $20 each time she uses the car. The problem is you spoiled her. My 16 year old gives me $100 per month for his car payment because he works part-time and makes $300 a month.
xav xav ua VIP 😂 besides hnov tsis tau ib party qhov ywg nrov tim siv mus ua vip 😂😂😂 Nco ntsoov tias suav ntxias luam xwb ok txhob mus kiag ma..
Muab ncaws tawm xwb Nws twb muaj 20 xyoo lawm.. zaj number 2.
#2: sister, you didn't mentioned if you only have 1 daughter, or couple daughters and she is the only one giving you problems. So, I'm guessing she is your only daughter. She is 19, so she is some what passed her teen years and growing into adulthood. And at this point, it's too late to help your rebellious daughter to be respectful towards you & your husband and help you in the house & money at this point. She will have to learn the hard life lesson herself. In the end, she will either turn her life around or end up wasting it. You can help by not yelling at her even though it's hard and try to say nice things to her & encourage her and that you are there for her even when you want to disown her. She is looking for acceptance & love. Hopefully, she will see that love & change once she learn from her mistakes & grows older.
Our Hmong have many children so our children do not get enough attention from us. We are also financially burden whether married or divorced so we put our children last. Children need guidance, attention, and steering from a very young age so that they don't fall into the wrong crowd. It's very HARD to raise a successful human being or child at least in my opinion.
Txhov tu siab vicaus tiam 21 nos tsis hais leej tug mob toj hauj ib yas li os hais txov me nyuam na
For story #2
I'm not here to judge u or anything bc I dnt knw ur parenting, everyone's parenting is different within and to each their own.
I have a 19 yr old too, who also lives at home, part time school and part time work. She doesn't make as much as ur daughter and she works to save for her car. We dnt ask her to pay any bills, but she is responsible for her own gas unless we use the car and the car is still mine. She does help out around the house wen askd to do so, and she does offer to buy food for us wen she's out or on days she gets paid.
Maybe u and ur husband can try to talk to her and let her knw what is expected at home...at the end of the day, she is still living under ur roof. Dnt let her be too entitled bc kids these days think they are, but u as the parent also need to be firm and let them knw also.
Hope everything works out for u and u guys find a solution.
Raising these teenagers nowadays are a tad bit complex bc they're not built like us!
Nev nev nev tuag tsis tuag nej txoj ke ua party es niam VIP table npaum ub npaum no tab sis thaum luag tuaj txog nej ho ua tej lub ruam2 os....paub lawm los pos, nej twb tsis ua li nej hais ces kav tsij refund $200 rov qab rau cov VIP nawb nej na. Hos cov poj hmoob niam no los cav yuav khav lawv co ua ko taw ua luaj thiab es nej tsis paub tias nej muab ua ko taw ces take space ntau2 no los cas na, tig sab twg los sib phoom tas li xwb kuv los dhuav kawg li thiab tiag.
😂that's ripped off people kinda bullshit party i demanding my refund 😂😂😂
Aub yaub, muaj teebmeem loj ua cas tsis hais nawb? Business is business tsis yog pub dawb. Hais kiag tim party kom lawv paub ntag. Nej twb tsis muaj peevxwv hais kom meej. Nej cia dlauv mus nej mam li complain ces nej Xav rhiav teebmeem xwb. Lawv ua saib tsis tau nej cov customer ua cas hos tsis hais lub sibhawm ntawv no. Nej cia dlauv ces means tias nej yeej zoo siab thiab no.
Hmoob muaj muaj teebmeem vim hmoob coj niag cwjpwm qia neeg li no.. tej zaum lawv ua tau yuam Kev los cov customer tsis paub hais tib zoo kom nkag siab ces coj mus kev sib txiav sib ntxhub li no
#2 As a mother you do everything so your kids will do nothing. If you want them to help you out act like you don't know anything and be a lazy mom so the kids will do eveerything
Story#2
Adult child - entitlement and selfish.
You can still love her by not spoiling and enabling her ways.
If she doesn't help you at all, fine. She should not be coming back to you for her needs after she spent all her money on herself -her wants. Stop giving her the cars if she doesn't help pump gas...or allow her to drive only 1 car and she have to pay for gas on that one.
Wtf…who forced you to go to the party? Quit attending parties, and you wouldn’t get cheated
That’s why I never get VIP table for Hmong party not worthy at all. Waste $$$ it’s not for a good cause.😊
Hahaha good luck for the refund..you pay ..you lost 😂😂😂😂 I bet you anything they won’t refund you guys the $200 back 😂😂😂
For story #2. Yog koj tus ntxhais phem li koj hais tiag ,qhov zoo ces muab nws ncaws tawm tsev xwb nws mus nyob nws kom nws muaj nuj nqi them nws thiaj paub
story 1: you got SCAMMED! nej raug dag lawm.
Cov niag hmoob xyaws2 ruam xwb neeg pluag tsab muaj xwb peb tsi mus khoom as. Mus khoom los tsi tau khib qhuav dab tsi ?
Story #2. Koj tus me nyuam koj pos ib txwm khaiv thaum me2 los thiab thaum qhia qhuas xwb txhob cem
I didn't get a vip table or partner up with the red tie party. But owner of my vip table did complained n went home early. so I will not say anything about free foods n drinks.
But here are some of my thoughts about the party. Yes if it was promised to vip the VIP table it should be as promised. You who bought the VIP table should also get the name of who you bought the table from or spoke with. I personally do not like how all the line dance shows too. Red Tie owner shouldn't allowed line dancer shows bcos ppl pay to get in, to enjoy n have fun not to see ladies line dance shows. If the party was free than yes you guys can do whatever is. Eventually the dance floor is free of style but to best smooth out the event. If it is too packed, as owners of the party should give spaces to your guesses. If it's pretty empty floor than yes go keep it entertaining of free styles. I personally do think the line dance show n the not giving spaces for your guesses is not friendly professional. Owners of party should not get mad over this but learned from it.