I am 26 years old, today is the day I actually understood confidence & I appreciate you for that. You put in the simplest form and it makes sense. I felt like confidence was so complex. But you help me realize it’s not. Much gratitude ❤
dark knees sound cool, remember that if they wanted to make an aesthetic photo/video of dark knees they could. They have the most talented people in the world creating these ads
I’m watching this while being a sophomore in high school it’s honestly hard to not care when I hear people whisper about how I’m built or something like I just be wanting to cry because I know it’s true like idk maybe one day I’ll accept that this is just how I am I’ll try this my first day back is tomorrow I hope that I can change from the person I was last year and be outspoken and not have anxiety and feel like every time I hear someone laugh or whispers that it’s about me ,well that’s it really does anyone have more tips to overcome shyness and or anxiety and some tips on how to loose weight as well as some sophomore tips I don’t really have people in my life to tell me things I need to know so this is the next best thing ,ty
hey!! I know people can be so mean :( I'm sorry to hear that but kids who talk down on others are super insecure and they judge themselves! try your best not to take it personally. if YOU agree with any of the mean things they say that's a different problem. anything you don't like that you can change, start the work to change it! because the only options are do nothing or do something. you're young so don't worry, you'll have a glow up! you literally have to go thru certain phases sometimes and grow out of them. trust I look way better now than in HS haha. but if that's something you wanna initiate now you totally can! you can start with more vids like this on my channel and glow up videos on RUclips🩷🩷🩷good luck this school year
Learn about what projections are and how to detach from them (Projection is a defense mechanism where a person unconsciously attributes their own negative traits or emotions to others) Many people (Even family members) project their insecurities onto us and many times they are unconscious about it; meaning not fully grasping the effect words have. People project onto them; they project onto others. (Domino effect) It is important you tune in into yourself and self-love. I used to be criticized a lot from a young age and one mantra I came up with throughout the years was "As long as I know my truth, I do not need anyone else" It helped quiet negative perceptions, however, it was still a hurtful process specially lacking the tools to combat that but hope this help. Be loving and compassionate to yourself. Sending you so much love! 🤍🤍🤍
@@mauikaimalone tysm this just gave me hope lol because I need to learn to go at my own pace the only thing that is making me want to glow up faster is the fact people my age and younger look better than me I’m on my self love /acceptance journey now I’m not gonna let anyone get to me not my classmates ,my family members, no one Ty so much for the words of encouragement!🩷
@@yahairap3418 yes I’m on my self love/acceptance journey as we speak this made me feel a lot less anxious of what people have to say about me because like you said it’s projection I still don’t know my truth but when I find it I won’t care what anyone has to say about me because I will know myself and I have realized that projection actually occurs in my home my siblings very much project on me and it does hurt but I’m starting to fight back and tell them about their selves Ty so much you don’t know how much this really helped I well always remember this when I hit the bottom again Tysm!🤍
This video came on my feed at a right time❤ I have a public speaking presentation tomorrow and this video helped me more than you realize ❤ thank you beautiful soul❤
Update, it was amazing❤ basically I decided when I public speak, I instantly become the woman with a strong voice and unshakable confidence @@mauikaimaloneand I must say not caring for judgment really made it easy ❤ THANK YOU
Gonna be practicing this with you ❤ I worry so much. I know that ages you faster than anything and also causes health issues. I’m practicing daily to just stop worrying so much and take life each day as it comes. Accepting I can’t control the world outside of me only the world I entertain within 🧘🏽♀️
Hey I really love the context of the title , it rlly helped me in the first 7 minutes but then it got wordy which makes it hard to think of what your trying to say. I’m not trying to throw negative feedback but just so yk. I love it tho.
yeah i noticed haha, i’m new to this advice thing so i’m really just rambling and hoping people like it. these ideas aren’t fully fleshed out when i film them. i’ll get better! thanks for the feedback🫶🏾
This is beautiful accountability. When I record videos I can start rambling and getting wordy, and I wish I could be more concise and precise, sometimes i would go off into tangents because i can find things to say that correlate
Omgg!! Obsessed with you and so happy I found your video! Amazing perspective on confidence and I totally need to apply this to my neurotic behaviour🤭🫶🏽✨
Confidence is not caring because confidence is freedom! ~dir. DR. Jerusalem Lung
i agree. it’s like having that “i’m not perfect, but i am” mentality. meaning: i am complete. i am whole. that is perfection.
exactly you get it !
“Just keep letting go” Michael Singer
The hair is everything. 😍
thank you 😊
It's definitely giving ❤
@@rickimcfarland2269 for sure
I am 26 years old, today is the day I actually understood confidence & I appreciate you for that. You put in the simplest form and it makes sense. I felt like confidence was so complex. But you help me realize it’s not. Much gratitude ❤
it really is so simple!! i’m glad my perspective did something for you🥰
dark knees sound cool, remember that if they wanted to make an aesthetic photo/video of dark knees they could. They have the most talented people in the world creating these ads
I’m watching this while being a sophomore in high school it’s honestly hard to not care when I hear people whisper about how I’m built or something like I just be wanting to cry because I know it’s true like idk maybe one day I’ll accept that this is just how I am I’ll try this my first day back is tomorrow I hope that I can change from the person I was last year and be outspoken and not have anxiety and feel like every time I hear someone laugh or whispers that it’s about me ,well that’s it really does anyone have more tips to overcome shyness and or anxiety and some tips on how to loose weight as well as some sophomore tips I don’t really have people in my life to tell me things I need to know so this is the next best thing ,ty
hey!! I know people can be so mean :( I'm sorry to hear that but kids who talk down on others are super insecure and they judge themselves! try your best not to take it personally. if YOU agree with any of the mean things they say that's a different problem. anything you don't like that you can change, start the work to change it! because the only options are do nothing or do something. you're young so don't worry, you'll have a glow up! you literally have to go thru certain phases sometimes and grow out of them. trust I look way better now than in HS haha. but if that's something you wanna initiate now you totally can! you can start with more vids like this on my channel and glow up videos on RUclips🩷🩷🩷good luck this school year
Learn about what projections are and how to detach from them (Projection is a defense mechanism where a person unconsciously attributes their own negative traits or emotions to others) Many people (Even family members) project their insecurities onto us and many times they are unconscious about it; meaning not fully grasping the effect words have. People project onto them; they project onto others. (Domino effect) It is important you tune in into yourself and self-love. I used to be criticized a lot from a young age and one mantra I came up with throughout the years was "As long as I know my truth, I do not need anyone else" It helped quiet negative perceptions, however, it was still a hurtful process specially lacking the tools to combat that but hope this help. Be loving and compassionate to yourself. Sending you so much love! 🤍🤍🤍
@@mauikaimalone tysm this just gave me hope lol because I need to learn to go at my own pace the only thing that is making me want to glow up faster is the fact people my age and younger look better than me I’m on my self love /acceptance journey now I’m not gonna let anyone get to me not my classmates ,my family members, no one Ty so much for the words of encouragement!🩷
@@yahairap3418 yes I’m on my self love/acceptance journey as we speak this made me feel a lot less anxious of what people have to say about me because like you said it’s projection I still don’t know my truth but when I find it I won’t care what anyone has to say about me because I will know myself and I have realized that projection actually occurs in my home my siblings very much project on me and it does hurt but I’m starting to fight back and tell them about their selves Ty so much you don’t know how much this really helped I well always remember this when I hit the bottom again Tysm!🤍
Wow being insecure about having insecurities that definitely struck something in me. I was still thinking I needed to change things to feel confidence
yeah it’s very real! it’s perfectly ok to not love everything about yourself, just don’t hate yourself for that
I’m glad I stopped caring about people especially families opinion on my life and spiritual beliefs. I mentally accept and speak kindly speak nice. ❤
it’s necessary!
This video came on my feed at a right time❤ I have a public speaking presentation tomorrow and this video helped me more than you realize ❤ thank you beautiful soul❤
@@fantacyencephalon_jess it’s gonna go so well! you got this!!
Update, it was amazing❤ basically I decided when I public speak, I instantly become the woman with a strong voice and unshakable confidence @@mauikaimaloneand I must say not caring for judgment really made it easy ❤ THANK YOU
6:07 yep that's exactly my mind 😅
Your look and style is so adorable and pretty and unique
thank you 🩷
"Figure it out" 💯💯🎯
This video has appeared at a crucial time in my life. Thank you so much ❤
Gonna be practicing this with you ❤ I worry so much. I know that ages you faster than anything and also causes health issues. I’m practicing daily to just stop worrying so much and take life each day as it comes. Accepting I can’t control the world outside of me only the world I entertain within 🧘🏽♀️
you got the right idea! it takes consistency and resisting the urge to fall back into old negative patterns and ways of thinking
This was amazing, keep up the good work you literally gave us a free therapy session and I love that.
ahh thank you !!
Love your hair style 🌹
thank you!
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@@mauikaimalone Welcome 🌹
The knees part had me 😂😂 bc yes! Same girl
lmaooo
Wow what a powerful message thank you so much for sharing 😇 your channel is going to grow to the greatest level👑
thank you 😊 🙏🏾
This is by far the best video I’ve seen on confidence! I love this perspective and practicing this week has already helped me! Thank you girl!🦋🩵🙏🏽
such a beautiful compliment omg!! i wish you the best in your confidence endeavors🩷
keep on coming back to this video, great work 💖💖💖 appreciate it
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Literally the best video on confidence I’ve seen🫶🏽👸🏽
omg tysm!
keep going🩶
This was soooo golden ✨✨✨
glad you enjoyed🫶🏾
girl you're amazing!!! thank you so much for sharing this! keep doing what you do! ❤❤❤
@@sabrinaalves9613 thank you 🥰
Loved this, just what I needed to hear ❤
glad to hear it!!
Great observation
Absolutely, keep it up. You are a gift and a blessing ❤
thank you 😊
This just makes me wanna be myself even more. Thank you! ❤ 😅
glad i could help!!
Hey I really love the context of the title , it rlly helped me in the first 7 minutes but then it got wordy which makes it hard to think of what your trying to say. I’m not trying to throw negative feedback but just so yk. I love it tho.
yeah i noticed haha, i’m new to this advice thing so i’m really just rambling and hoping people like it. these ideas aren’t fully fleshed out when i film them. i’ll get better! thanks for the feedback🫶🏾
This is beautiful accountability. When I record videos I can start rambling and getting wordy, and I wish I could be more concise and precise, sometimes i would go off into tangents because i can find things to say that correlate
OMG I was thinking about this in the morning and this video happens to show up on my RUclips and you just spoke my mind
omg good!!
thankyou so much for the video, i love your hair too its giving 🥰
haha thank you!
Love this message
Thanks for this! New subscriber🎉
glad you enjoyed! more content like this coming soon 🩷
Exactly amen 🙌
Hi Maui! Love this piece - I am looking forward to your next video! Greetings from Poland!
ahh glad to know my video reach this far!! watch my others in the meantime 😊
Thank you love is the way ❤️
You're my new SHE-RO
omg🥹
thank you so much
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This is amazing. You and this video are a blessing to me❤
so glad❤️❤️
This was sooo good!! Thank you 🤩🤩
glad you enjoyed 🥰
Love this! Thank you
of course!🩷
Off topic but you are sooo gorgeous
omg thank you ☺️
Love this ❤
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❤ keep it up
Perfeita, nenhuma falha
good shi fam
For real
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I think I am confident enough to tell you I have a crush on you ❤❤❤ 😅
Being confident means don't be a Karen ! Mind your own business!
Omgg!! Obsessed with you and so happy I found your video! Amazing perspective on confidence and I totally need to apply this to my neurotic behaviour🤭🫶🏽✨
omg so glad !!