I’ve learned in therapy that I need to ask myself this question when I meet someone I’m attracted to: “am I reenacting my relationship with my parent(s)?” Since my relationship with one parent wasn’t great and left me feeling like I always needed to prove my worth yet also deny my feelings and needs, that’s a huge red flag for me to pay attention to when meeting a potential partner.
I'm very impressed with the depth of your content! there is so much shallow, flashy content out there nowadays and I' very pleasantly surprised and really enjoy your vibe.
As you are talking about the clipped wing - you are wearing a shirt with free birds flying free, triumphant and in your power aware of your life ❤️ Such an inspiring video…
This is actually fantastic advice! If I go back in time and ask myself these questions for all of my past relationships, based on the answers it really predicts how they ended. I’m currently engaged and my answer to those questions are all positive 💓 thanks for sharing!
Τhat is so true. I am with someone three years and from the moment i met him i was so relaxed and calm. With all the other men i was anxious and insecure. Vibes always say the truth
Agree! The problem is that many people stuck in bad relationship just because they don't want to be alone. But this is the worst excuse! Better to be alone than with someone who push you down and make sad!
Since youve been moving from different countries in the past few years what advice can u give someone who's anxious and doesnt know what to do when moving to another country outside of his/her personal box
This is so real, last year I was going out with someone that I thought I really connected with but I wasn’t really listening to myself at all. It was just when it ended that I could see how toxic this person was to me and I started to notice how many times I was stressed and cried to my friends about it and how he made me question about myself even when I was the only one giving something in that “relationship”. I feel like “real love is easy” really is true because you have to remember that people who only express physical attraction to you (even if he/she seems sweet and everything) but never tell you how they FEEL about you aren’t meant for you at all so RUN as fast as you can before you get hurt 😂
I was exactly in the same situation two years ago. But I think some experinces just have to be made to learn more about our expectations for „real love relationships“.. still I wish I hadn‘t..😅
Love this Mara! So true about your body trying to guide you. I developed alopecia during my most toxic relationship! My hair was literally falling out because of the stress.
Conclusion: take an analog photography of your crush... ! Merci Mara pour ces conseils qui sortent du lot et sont complètement justes et plein de bon sens lorsque l'on est aveuglé par les premiers instants de "l'amour". Je te souhaite que tu puisses trouver la bonne personne tôt ou tard ! :)
Gosh, why did this video not come out before I jumped into my last relationship? That would had helped me so much to not go into another heartbreak. But let's stay positive: it's never too late to learn! Amazing video
Mara I love you ❤️ also please make videos more regularly, I really like your personality and also you have great knowledge about intuition/esoteric/mystic things 😀 Videos on topics like astrology, tarot, those gorgeous rings that you wear, crystals, magic... Also about style, cause I really love your eclectic, sensual, fury (fake fur 😀), silky, witchy style ❤️
1:48 in my perspective I’d rather be alone than to get a big old piece of rock and smash it onto my skull. That’s how I feel like whenever I fall in love. The only time when I feel at peace in a relationship, is when my partner is not someone I am very much into. However, why’d you want to waste your time in not feeling that deep passion attraction and affection just because you want to be with someone? Bottomline is do what works for you. For me it works better to be single. When I am deeply in love, I feel stressed anxious. I do not want to go crazy just for me not to be referred to a crazy cat lady :)
I agree100%. I wish to Heaven I had really listened to signs, their words, and my intuition. it's a way God talks to us for sure. I have had a few times where I see fire engines everywhere when I need a warning. My friends and sister and I finally just prayed and asked God to choose for us. I'm Christian. I'm very intuitive too. Amazing God did choose for my friend, my sister and He let me know, me too. It was the best relationship choice I made. Get this, I too had cyst in the same places, all three, you had. Amazing. You explained that beautifully. Well done. Thank you. God bless you. Audrey
I never interacted with or watched one of your videos but this appeared on my recommended page. I like to think that this has something to do with me manifesting my specific person!!!
Mara, you are the best! I like all your videos, especially about your own experience ! Please, don’t stop🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 you help and make my mind more clear ! Best regards, Rita
Hello Mara, another amazing video 🙌🏻🌟 Thank you so much for your advice, so true about that ‘gut feeling’. Intuition is key. Your videos are like coffee talks with a best friend. Can’t wait for more 🥰 Love from Australia x x
I loooove the content you put up! As a gamini I am very in tune with my intuition and every time I didn't listen it proved me how right it was! I always try to listen to it and I never ever was wrong about a person in my life. Can't wait to see what you will teach us next! Love to se content about self-love, about intuition, about signs,relationships,universe and similar topics!
Communication is the no 1 key always Anxiety can be a person that is very in tune with the earth people etc and are very sensitive to when they feel something is off and not in alignment with them and causes anxiety plus from past trauma or memory that keeps been brought over from past lives till we fix the problem but partner’s communication is 50/50 or it’s a no go long term 🙏💜
I think communication is key. It’s good to ask your partner questions. Ppl are traumatize nowadays because our parents didn’t ask the questions and tolerated the bad behavior, which lead to heartbreak. This is why ppl are afraid of love and are very choosey.
Wow thank you so much I was curious what you are going to tell, and it’s so simply and clear, it helps really much. The other point I was curios about, is that you are a beautiful girl, and I sometimes have the impression the more beautiful a girl is the more complicated things become dating men (which think they will never have a chance with her, that they even don’t start to flirt with you) If ever you want to make a video of this topic would be awesome!!
Haha, the omen stories made me laugh 😂 I had similar experiences, my body would always give me signs, and I just now learnt not to ignore them and actually take them seriously. I’m glad I came across this video, because I was thinking the exact same things but sadly I’ve never heard anyone talking about this. So thank you! :)
I think that when you finally start to slowly learn the lessons from your mistakes and develop the habit to listen to you feelings and recognise fear in order to not take decisions based on fear but based on what you truly care about, what makes you feel alive and happy and strong, intuition gets stronger. I do not see many external signs honestly, at least I do not remember any. But I think I am learning to develop the "listening to myself" part. I try to listent to my feelings. If something makes me happy and lowers my "stress levels", makes me feel in a positive way, then I think it is the right decision. Not only in love but in everything. I think about doing things that many people would consider scary, but I realise that they make me much happier than those who are just "safe". I am in a distant relation with a boy from another country who I met in a country which was not mine and not even his. We are apart since one year after being actually together only for few weeks. We did not even speak the same language and I think this really contributed in pushing me to listen to my intuition while deciding if I should have trusted him. I was not listening to what he was telling me, I was looking at his behaviour to have an idea of who he really was. After one year we are still waiting for each other and talking about our future together, even if I had no expectations for this thing to continue so long in these conditions. It's just as if we were both ready let each other go, but that day did not come. We also talked openly about this, about the fact that being apart so much we could have found someone else. But we never found anyone else who could take the place of the other one. We are really helping each other to grow, exploring our different cultures, languages, food and life experiences. We are so different and so similar at the same time and I have the feeling he is the best guy I ever met. So, I think that in the end it is clear when a men truly wants you. He plans his future with you, even when things are not easy, he admires you, he respects you, he is ready to help you and he is ready to improve himself for you, he listens to your advices and gives you advices, he is honest and open because he trusts you, he is ready to sacrifice something for you. And of course all this should be reciprocated, otherwise he would be the only one in love.
Love you and your videos Mara! I really needed this. I’ve had so much heartbreak and your advice is so helpful and has really made me feel better. Thank you 💕
Thank you for sharing. You know I was always thinking I have to loose weight to be loved. I always thought that girl has to look beautiful to be happy. And when you told that you had a heart broken I was so surprised, because you are so gorgeous and beautiful. Thank you again for sharing your methods. It's good to feel we are not alone on it 💖 gros bisous
I wish I could have seen this video 5 years before. I would prevent me from a lot of pain from that karmic relationship. Thanks mara keep making videos like this. 🥰 Pd: I want to have yo predicted analogic camara 😅
Notice how your potential partner handles challenges. Do they have a heart for the downcast or do they mock them? What is their relationship like with their own parents. Are they optimistic and hopeful or do they expect things to fail. Also, if they share a similar spiritual view then the foundation is stronger to build on. So many tells and potential red flags. I am hopeful myself but I will be very careful in choosing:)
I'm always in a second question situation still now. Thank you for telling me these tips and I'm also going to go for a mental therapy 😃 for my health! Happy new year ❤️ wish love n peace in life always 🍬
Haven't finished the video yet but oh my God... It happened to me that I was in a relationship where I was not sure if the person actually liked me, because sometimes they were good to me but then their actions were doubtful. And since I am a very anxious person I always thought that I must have been misunderstanding things and I was the crazy one, I spent like two years trying to change myself to accept the things I didn't like until we broke up. But it's good to know someone else went through that too.
Good info! May I ask how one can be able to distinguish between anxiety and intuition? I myself have anxiety as well and I can never tell if it's just that, or it's my intuition telling me something. :(
You may have high functioning anxiety ( like me. I was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder and went through years of different types of therapies) but in any case, something I learnt is that it can be a compass. As I’m saying in the video, if you’re constantly triggered by anything and everything and your anxiety fires up all the time, I think it’s better to start with a therapy 🤍 ( it’s self care at its finest ) . Then, what I’m trying to say is that whenever your feel anxious “ for no reason “ it can be your intuition talking to you. When we get used to our own anxiety, we learn to dismiss our own feelings and invalidate them for the sake of anxiety. When you are triggered by something, it tells you something crucial ! Your anxiety works hand in hand with your intuition to help you get to a safe place when you feel threatened. They both want to protect you at all cost. Follow that tingle. If it does not sit right, there’s a reason to that ! Xx
I’ve learned in therapy that I need to ask myself this question when I meet someone I’m attracted to: “am I reenacting my relationship with my parent(s)?” Since my relationship with one parent wasn’t great and left me feeling like I always needed to prove my worth yet also deny my feelings and needs, that’s a huge red flag for me to pay attention to when meeting a potential partner.
my personal quarantine therapist: mara haha
I'm very impressed with the depth of your content! there is so much shallow, flashy content out there nowadays and I' very pleasantly surprised and really enjoy your vibe.
As you are talking about the clipped wing - you are wearing a shirt with free birds flying free, triumphant and in your power aware of your life ❤️ Such an inspiring video…
This is actually fantastic advice! If I go back in time and ask myself these questions for all of my past relationships, based on the answers it really predicts how they ended. I’m currently engaged and my answer to those questions are all positive 💓 thanks for sharing!
Τhat is so true. I am with someone three years and from the moment i met him i was so relaxed and calm. With all the other men i was anxious and insecure. Vibes always say the truth
Do you have any book reccommendations, Mara? You touch on so many interesting topics I’d love to learn more about! xx
Agree! The problem is that many people stuck in bad relationship just because they don't want to be alone. But this is the worst excuse! Better to be alone than with someone who push you down and make sad!
Since youve been moving from different countries in the past few years what advice can u give someone who's anxious and doesnt know what to do when moving to another country outside of his/her personal box
This upload was a good omen 🌜🌞💫
This is so real, last year I was going out with someone that I thought I really connected with but I wasn’t really listening to myself at all. It was just when it ended that I could see how toxic this person was to me and I started to notice how many times I was stressed and cried to my friends about it and how he made me question about myself even when I was the only one giving something in that “relationship”.
I feel like “real love is easy” really is true because you have to remember that people who only express physical attraction to you (even if he/she seems sweet and everything) but never tell you how they FEEL about you aren’t meant for you at all so RUN as fast as you can before you get hurt 😂
I was exactly in the same situation two years ago. But I think some experinces just have to be made to learn more about our expectations for „real love relationships“.. still I wish I hadn‘t..😅
Emphatizing with you. I had same experience!
Love this Mara! So true about your body trying to guide you. I developed alopecia during my most toxic relationship! My hair was literally falling out because of the stress.
Conclusion: take an analog photography of your crush... !
Merci Mara pour ces conseils qui sortent du lot et sont complètement justes et plein de bon sens lorsque l'on est aveuglé par les premiers instants de "l'amour". Je te souhaite que tu puisses trouver la bonne personne tôt ou tard ! :)
Gosh, why did this video not come out before I jumped into my last relationship? That would had helped me so much to not go into another heartbreak. But let's stay positive: it's never too late to learn! Amazing video
Mara I love you ❤️ also please make videos more regularly, I really like your personality and also you have great knowledge about intuition/esoteric/mystic things 😀 Videos on topics like astrology, tarot, those gorgeous rings that you wear, crystals, magic... Also about style, cause I really love your eclectic, sensual, fury (fake fur 😀), silky, witchy style ❤️
Its true.The right person will not make you double yourself,
not will leave you in a pool of anxiety
this video gave me so much thoughts like my head is bruning after watching , you're so inspiring 🌷
Thank you! People don't want to do the work just be with anyone for any reason.
1:48 in my perspective I’d rather be alone than to get a big old piece of rock and smash it onto my skull. That’s how I feel like whenever I fall in love. The only time when I feel at peace in a relationship, is when my partner is not someone I am very much into. However, why’d you want to waste your time in not feeling that deep passion attraction and affection just because you want to be with someone? Bottomline is do what works for you. For me it works better to be single. When I am deeply in love, I feel stressed anxious. I do not want to go crazy just for me not to be referred to a crazy cat lady :)
my sentimental anxiety resolved in 27 min haha ! thank u a lot
I agree100%. I wish to Heaven I had really listened to signs, their words, and my intuition. it's a way God talks to us for sure.
I have had a few times where I see fire engines everywhere when I need a warning.
My friends and sister and I finally just prayed and asked God to choose for us. I'm Christian. I'm very intuitive too. Amazing God did choose for my friend, my sister and He let me know, me too. It was the best relationship choice I made.
Get this, I too had cyst in the same places, all three, you had. Amazing.
You explained that beautifully. Well done. Thank you. God bless you. Audrey
I never interacted with or watched one of your videos but this appeared on my recommended page. I like to think that this has something to do with me manifesting my specific person!!!
Mara you are so intelligent! I love your energy and your disposition to talk about this incredible, useful tip 🤎
Mara, you are the best! I like all your videos, especially about your own experience ! Please, don’t stop🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 you help and make my mind more clear ! Best regards, Rita
Absolutely true everything!! Intuition and bad signs 100%%%
Hello Mara, another amazing video 🙌🏻🌟 Thank you so much for your advice, so true about that ‘gut feeling’. Intuition is key. Your videos are like coffee talks with a best friend. Can’t wait for more 🥰 Love from Australia x x
Oh my god, how spiritually you are, how magical, love:)
This is such a great point of view. Digging deep to really understand what it is you want, and listening to your intuition.
aw you are so beautiful inside and out, thank you so much for sharing this has been such a blessing to witness
OH MY GAWD! THANK YOU FOR SHARING!
I loooove the content you put up! As a gamini I am very in tune with my intuition and every time I didn't listen it proved me how right it was! I always try to listen to it and I never ever was wrong about a person in my life. Can't wait to see what you will teach us next! Love to se content about self-love, about intuition, about signs,relationships,universe and similar topics!
I am blown away by your beauty your depht and your wisdom.
If only I had seen this years ago... hahaha! You are so precise, thanks for the words
In love with this video thank you so much!! Your energy and beauty is so special 💫
Communication is the no 1 key always Anxiety can be a person that is very in tune with the earth people etc and are very sensitive to when they feel something is off and not in alignment with them and causes anxiety plus from past trauma or memory that keeps been brought over from past lives till we fix the problem but partner’s communication is 50/50 or it’s a no go long term 🙏💜
We love a mara upload
Yes queen!!!! Spitting truths!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think communication is key. It’s good to ask your partner questions. Ppl are traumatize nowadays because our parents didn’t ask the questions and tolerated the bad behavior, which lead to heartbreak. This is why ppl are afraid of love and are very choosey.
Wow thank you so much
I was curious what you are going to tell, and it’s so simply and clear, it helps really much.
The other point I was curios about, is that you are a beautiful girl, and I sometimes have the impression the more beautiful a girl is the more complicated things become dating men (which think they will never have a chance with her, that they even don’t start to flirt with you) If ever you want to make a video of this topic would be awesome!!
Haha, the omen stories made me laugh 😂 I had similar experiences, my body would always give me signs, and I just now learnt not to ignore them and actually take them seriously. I’m glad I came across this video, because I was thinking the exact same things but sadly I’ve never heard anyone talking about this. So thank you! :)
Wow you’re prophetic. I just came across this channel randomly because of your hair but that analog camera story got me scared hahaha
We are our first guide 💯👍🏼👏🏼
My Guides can come as dreams too
thanks for your wisdoms sweetheart ♥️
I think that when you finally start to slowly learn the lessons from your mistakes and develop the habit to listen to you feelings and recognise fear in order to not take decisions based on fear but based on what you truly care about, what makes you feel alive and happy and strong, intuition gets stronger. I do not see many external signs honestly, at least I do not remember any. But I think I am learning to develop the "listening to myself" part. I try to listent to my feelings. If something makes me happy and lowers my "stress levels", makes me feel in a positive way, then I think it is the right decision. Not only in love but in everything. I think about doing things that many people would consider scary, but I realise that they make me much happier than those who are just "safe".
I am in a distant relation with a boy from another country who I met in a country which was not mine and not even his. We are apart since one year after being actually together only for few weeks. We did not even speak the same language and I think this really contributed in pushing me to listen to my intuition while deciding if I should have trusted him. I was not listening to what he was telling me, I was looking at his behaviour to have an idea of who he really was. After one year we are still waiting for each other and talking about our future together, even if I had no expectations for this thing to continue so long in these conditions. It's just as if we were both ready let each other go, but that day did not come. We also talked openly about this, about the fact that being apart so much we could have found someone else. But we never found anyone else who could take the place of the other one. We are really helping each other to grow, exploring our different cultures, languages, food and life experiences. We are so different and so similar at the same time and I have the feeling he is the best guy I ever met. So, I think that in the end it is clear when a men truly wants you. He plans his future with you, even when things are not easy, he admires you, he respects you, he is ready to help you and he is ready to improve himself for you, he listens to your advices and gives you advices, he is honest and open because he trusts you, he is ready to sacrifice something for you. And of course all this should be reciprocated, otherwise he would be the only one in love.
A video i actually didn’t know I needed
Wow you are such an inspiration! We need more videos xxx
Thank you Mara :* It is really helpful!
You remind me so much of PAULINA PORIZKOVA so much . esp with the fringe x
Love you and your videos Mara! I really needed this. I’ve had so much heartbreak and your advice is so helpful and has really made me feel better. Thank you 💕
Thank you for sharing. You know I was always thinking I have to loose weight to be loved. I always thought that girl has to look beautiful to be happy. And when you told that you had a heart broken I was so surprised, because you are so gorgeous and beautiful. Thank you again for sharing your methods. It's good to feel we are not alone on it 💖 gros bisous
I wish I could have seen this video 5 years before. I would prevent me from a lot of pain from that karmic relationship. Thanks mara keep making videos like this. 🥰
Pd: I want to have yo predicted analogic camara 😅
Notice how your potential partner handles challenges. Do they have a heart for the downcast or do they mock them? What is their relationship like with their own parents. Are they optimistic and hopeful or do they expect things to fail. Also, if they share a similar spiritual view then the foundation is stronger to build on. So many tells and potential red flags. I am hopeful myself but I will be very careful in choosing:)
Thank you for sharing! You should tell us your hurtbreaks stories and how you recovered from it!
thanks as always for your honest insight
happy valentine's from america 🤍💙
I'm always in a second question situation still now. Thank you for telling me these tips and I'm also going to go for a mental therapy 😃 for my health! Happy new year ❤️ wish love n peace in life always 🍬
4:05 - hey, Tanya from the future, it’s the checkpoint. please, listen to it again
This is the most insightful video I have ever seen on relationships & dating. So so to the point
i love this talk so much! Thank you for sharing this talk! I can't to hear your next discussion. Sending good vibes Mara! :)
this was amazing. just amazing
This is a very insightful video. Sounds like an advice I always needed from a sister.
Male tutorial please 🙏.. You're so beautiful I just can'ttttt 😭
This beautiful angel motivate so much. ❤️❤️❤️
Haven't finished the video yet but oh my God... It happened to me that I was in a relationship where I was not sure if the person actually liked me, because sometimes they were good to me but then their actions were doubtful. And since I am a very anxious person I always thought that I must have been misunderstanding things and I was the crazy one, I spent like two years trying to change myself to accept the things I didn't like until we broke up. But it's good to know someone else went through that too.
You are a wonderful person, thank you 🌹
Good info! May I ask how one can be able to distinguish between anxiety and intuition? I myself have anxiety as well and I can never tell if it's just that, or it's my intuition telling me something. :(
You may have high functioning anxiety ( like me. I was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder and went through years of different types of therapies) but in any case, something I learnt is that it can be a compass. As I’m saying in the video, if you’re constantly triggered by anything and everything and your anxiety fires up all the time, I think it’s better to start with a therapy 🤍 ( it’s self care at its finest ) . Then, what I’m trying to say is that whenever your feel anxious “ for no reason “ it can be your intuition talking to you. When we get used to our own anxiety, we learn to dismiss our own feelings and invalidate them for the sake of anxiety. When you are triggered by something, it tells you something crucial ! Your anxiety works hand in hand with your intuition to help you get to a safe place when you feel threatened. They both want to protect you at all cost. Follow that tingle. If it does not sit right, there’s a reason to that ! Xx
I needed this video thanks so much beautiful ♥️
NO WAY!!!! I had the same issue with analog photography and shitty people 🤯
You’re the best 💔
I love u Mara. I am watching you from Turkey
In minute 26... not only our psychology wirks like that, its universal laws of life.
The Best Beautiful Woman ✨
Amazing video!! ☺🥰
amo, gracias por los tips maraa tqm salu2 desde Paraguay
omg, your hands are beautiful!
I think I may need to borrow your analog camera 🙈🤣
Great videos girl!
The 6th sense
Amazing video!! wish it also traduced in spanish to show my friends :(
I probably should try analogue photography next time haha! Maybe it's a thing - the analogue photograph technique..
Don’t want to sound weird or anything but you are so beautiful
good video , how is france , is there much restrictions with the corona
Love you 😍
yup
One question? Isn’t the feeling of Valentine’s Day everyday in France?
No .......? why would it be ?
Mara una mujer inmensamente BELLA😍 😚😚😚😚😚😚😚
Les histoires des photos et des ailes 😳
Hey Mara can you please make a video on law of attraction
❤️ 💐
just go one honey
❤️
Come to turkey, you will feel lit
I need your camera!!!
I love you.
How beautiful you are, how gorgeous your soul is, i would marry your heart💛forever
i m 174
talk about it
*Wrap your wings around my body...*
Lmao you already know too much ....
@@mara.lafontan It was just a presumption. Talented guy though. Saw him live two times. 🤣
alec csikos sebastian my name
you're a woman not just a girl; congradulations
Good stuff, but I lost you at karmic partner..
ana
let me talk with u