No contact rule 101: Everything you need to know!

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  • Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024

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  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  9 месяцев назад +3

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  • @nicole-uh5ds
    @nicole-uh5ds Месяц назад +24

    Being a person with no friends to vent out is soooo devastating, thank you sir, by listening to you I can calm down myself, i can stop myself from talking to him

  • @tishalinton9500
    @tishalinton9500 7 месяцев назад +117

    3 days into no contact! Going strong

    • @msrenee23
      @msrenee23 7 месяцев назад +11

      O M G...me tooooo 😩 It's difficult but WE can do it 🙏🏾💪🏾

    • @melindabararata6888
      @melindabararata6888 7 месяцев назад +3

      How is that going so far has he tried contacting u?

    • @AelaraG1
      @AelaraG1 7 месяцев назад +6

      2 days nc 2nd broke up

    • @rhowe18
      @rhowe18 7 месяцев назад +3

      What should I do? I emotionally respond to my bf not to contact me anymore. Because we had a misunderstanding and it's annoying that he keeps telling me I disrespect him. It's so exhausting 😢 to explain my side with our issue. I am in a long distance relationship with him. Been 1 week no contact.

    • @jaydub7386
      @jaydub7386 6 месяцев назад +2

      Could you give us an update? It's been a month. Are you staying strong?

  • @SenseiDoyle
    @SenseiDoyle 8 месяцев назад +55

    I visited this channel 6 years ago to help with my first relationship break up. Then I was in a relationship for another 5 years so I’m back again because this channel helped me once before

  • @johnryanmartinejr.7232
    @johnryanmartinejr.7232 6 месяцев назад +10

    Halfway through an agreed upon 90 days of no contact. Very, very hard but definitely worth it.

  • @devonjahnjez
    @devonjahnjez 3 месяца назад +9

    55 days going strong She’s a dismissive avoidant!

  • @doughatcher-cq5fi
    @doughatcher-cq5fi Месяц назад +2

    Thank you, Coach Adrian for taking the time out to mentor everyone as we search for the why's of a broken heart in this season. It is extremely difficult to be in the NC phase of a relationship. I have been in this phase for about a month, and I have no explanation why we are here. For some people, they get closure as to why the relationship ended. But for me, I have received nothing. All I am left with is questions. It definitely sucks to be here, and I don't wish this on anyone. Everyone be strong and seek God's guidance, and if you are not a believer, talk about your pain with someone. Holding it in and letting it fester, will only cause you to have a mental breakdown.

  • @CalumOldham
    @CalumOldham 2 месяца назад +5

    4 days no contact rule going strong 💪

  • @MrElvin1975
    @MrElvin1975 6 месяцев назад +31

    80 days in no contact. I'm assuming she expected me to reach out today on Valentines day, because I was removed from her Netflix account today. Haha

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  6 месяцев назад +6

      If you feel like you changed and ready to communicate you can talk to her.

    • @Saboramii
      @Saboramii 6 месяцев назад +2

      😅😆

    • @user-vp4lo3yj8r
      @user-vp4lo3yj8r 3 месяца назад +1

      She wanted u to remeber her n contact her 💯

  • @andrim9931
    @andrim9931 9 месяцев назад +19

    I like the idea of nc until I'm the perfect version of myself. I'm still a mess from the way she betrayed me and seemed to enjoy it and was proud of it. 9 months later and I still can't let go of the pain she caused me. Accepting the loss of a childhood friend was more manageable for me than this

  • @juliabraga78
    @juliabraga78 9 месяцев назад +26

    My ex called a bunch of times saying he missed me and wanted to see me. When I finally called to meet up, we were together for 4 days. He said he was going to leave the rebound and didn’t! He left again.

    • @spider-keithasmr38
      @spider-keithasmr38 9 месяцев назад +8

      You still have Jesus. And Jesus brought Lazarus back from the dead. That is just a minor situation that can be relieved by faith and patience. God will provide your joy whether thru your husband or not.

    • @Afternoon99
      @Afternoon99 9 месяцев назад +9

      For me if I knew he was in the rebound I wouldn’t mess with him in the first place. Holding on to someone who has someone else in the picture is still an unstable situation…

    • @UniquelyHerz
      @UniquelyHerz 8 месяцев назад +5

      If he has to rebound he has no self love, let him go he’s a simp !

    • @FIREENGINE3
      @FIREENGINE3 8 месяцев назад +3

      “You still have Jesus “ 😂😂😂😂🤣☠️☠️☠️☠️🤣 funny, but true

    • @gofigure8251
      @gofigure8251 8 месяцев назад +3

      U gave him the best of both worlds and didn't make him choose by being available. I have to walk away so he realizes your gone for good. Then maybe he comes back

  • @jasminebranygift468
    @jasminebranygift468 4 месяца назад +9

    1 day into no contact 💪🏻

  •  Месяц назад +2

    I got ghosted, the pain is the worst ive ever known. 5 weeks in ive turned pain into gain. Im having better sex with an ex girlfriend that isnt a mental midget. I hope the ghoster reaches out so i can show her how cruel i can be too.

  • @MrRoadromeo
    @MrRoadromeo 6 месяцев назад +8

    4+ month no contact 😅, painful but going strong

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  6 месяцев назад +1

      Hi,After 4 months, you might consider reaching to your ex if you made the changes needed.

  • @shalusingh3487
    @shalusingh3487 6 месяцев назад +3

    I claim this positive energy ❤🙏

  • @libraladynior2249
    @libraladynior2249 8 месяцев назад +2

    Good information!

  • @melissabrzescinski494
    @melissabrzescinski494 8 дней назад

    The block technique is superior 😃

  • @hugoescalantecrsabrsres8280
    @hugoescalantecrsabrsres8280 7 месяцев назад +1

    The best in the business!

  • @rose1iverson3
    @rose1iverson3 9 месяцев назад +8

    How long should no contact last for a relationship of 2 months that ended because of miscommunication

    • @keithbrown2425
      @keithbrown2425 9 месяцев назад +3

      Iv been in no contact for 5 months but that also can be because she found somone new and she blocked me lol

    • @rose1iverson3
      @rose1iverson3 8 месяцев назад

      @@keithbrown2425 well so far I haven’t been blocked, she watches my stories and hit me with the I hope you have a good day text the other morning out of nowhere. Don’t wanna read too much into it though

    • @jeffh6960
      @jeffh6960 7 месяцев назад +2

      2 month relationship? Brother.... send a "how have you been text ?" Only of you haven't harrased her

  • @gemini1561
    @gemini1561 8 дней назад

    Thank u for this . Great video

  • @paulineabas213
    @paulineabas213 7 месяцев назад +1

    We're just friends

  • @jeromejackson1203
    @jeromejackson1203 6 месяцев назад +4

    I'm trying to do No Contact. But it's so hard.

  • @Shestylez1988
    @Shestylez1988 2 месяца назад +1

    Day 1 😢 omg this is hurtful

  • @eyeviewdubai7410
    @eyeviewdubai7410 7 месяцев назад +5

    Any one in 3 days 😂hands up

  • @toddfreeman8132
    @toddfreeman8132 Месяц назад +1

    Been 3 months doing great

  • @user-fe8rc7gr1d
    @user-fe8rc7gr1d 6 месяцев назад

    Many thanks, great support

  • @terryforrest889
    @terryforrest889 9 месяцев назад +4

    She can stay gone at this point

  • @ItsJesse89
    @ItsJesse89 6 месяцев назад +1

    How do I go no contact when she won’t stop contacting me? I believe she’s either missing me and confused or she’s bread crumbing me and don’t want me to go wandering off too far so if her single life doesn’t work out.

  • @kgosanamahlong905
    @kgosanamahlong905 8 месяцев назад +2

    I tried to do no contact she will call and ask about how i am i doing and tell me my son wanted to talk with me

  • @jacesundaybraimah9162
    @jacesundaybraimah9162 9 месяцев назад +1

    You're good
    Thank you.

  • @valiant.1
    @valiant.1 6 месяцев назад +1

    When I’ve initiated no contact and my ex sends me a RUclips video on Messenger (without comment, just the video link), should I break no-contact and respond, or should I wait for her to actually call or text me?

  • @dirkdiggler2695
    @dirkdiggler2695 6 месяцев назад +2

    Hey coach i messed up the whole first month after she left. I begged and pleaded, we have 2 kids together and i feel empty without her. Everytime i see her its so hard. Will no contact still work if i start now?

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  6 месяцев назад +2

      I'm sorry to hear that you're going through such a tough time. No contact can still be effective even if you start now. Focus on yourself and give her some space to think things through.

    • @dirkdiggler2695
      @dirkdiggler2695 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Thank you for replying back. I hope it works. Liked and subbed

  • @andresnunez1402
    @andresnunez1402 Месяц назад +2

    Day five.

  • @zacharydevore4478
    @zacharydevore4478 9 месяцев назад +2

    Where can i reach out to you about my specific situation

  • @Daynish
    @Daynish 4 месяца назад +3

    Day 1

  • @aftabsheikh4243
    @aftabsheikh4243 9 месяцев назад +2

    Does no contact work when you are blocked everywhere?

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  9 месяцев назад +1

      Hi there
      It could possibly work, we would need to know more details
      Please reach out to us!
      Thanks
      Coach Adrian

    • @ordon3858
      @ordon3858 7 месяцев назад +1

      Even MORE. You block

    • @Tommykey07
      @Tommykey07 7 месяцев назад +5

      If you're being blocked, then that is a pretty good sign you should not contact that person.

  • @jayraul2291
    @jayraul2291 9 месяцев назад

    What a good video

  • @kaybautista2306
    @kaybautista2306 2 месяца назад

    Is it advised to block them during no contact?

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  2 месяца назад +1

      Not necessarily, if you can control your emotions no need to block them.

  • @vinoddr438
    @vinoddr438 Месяц назад

    Sir, I am into No contact, but circumstances or universe made us (both of us) to come to a specific place.

  • @user-od2jh2bv6m
    @user-od2jh2bv6m 6 месяцев назад

    Hey how do you do no contact when you have a child together? my ex is also saying that she’s moved on and keeps saying things like she doesn’t want to give me mixed signals and has said there will never be an us again because she can’t trust me after I had a mental breakdown and ended the relationship 3 months ago.
    What do I do?

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  6 месяцев назад

      Here's a video for you :
      ruclips.net/video/_3hPe5EFFA0/видео.html

  • @monicaddj5295
    @monicaddj5295 13 дней назад

    what if i broke no contact like 10 times since the break up, which happened a month ago. lol there’s no hope right

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  5 дней назад

      There's hope but it's necessary to do no contact the right way. You can book a coaching session if you need more advices.

  • @verronicasanchez4127
    @verronicasanchez4127 7 месяцев назад

    How to know if the no contact rules starts working

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  7 месяцев назад +1

      It's great that you're interested in knowing if the no contact rule is working! In general, you'll start noticing positive changes in your situation, such as receiving messages from your ex or a better understanding between you and the other person. Keep up the good work!

  • @zeldsfan
    @zeldsfan 8 месяцев назад +2

    I sent mine a closure letter a monther after we broke up, aka she money branched onto a guys she met 3 weeks prior to our break up and it came back unopened.
    Is it like, really over?

  • @katrinabrown3561
    @katrinabrown3561 3 месяца назад

    No contact 7 days!

  • @owenf.9686
    @owenf.9686 8 месяцев назад +3

    But what if during no contact period your ex message you and meet you? Is it okay?

    • @TrainerLiz1
      @TrainerLiz1 7 месяцев назад +1

      No. No contact is no contact.

    • @balmond671
      @balmond671 7 месяцев назад

      Nah bro. Don't make the same mistake again.

    • @melindabararata6888
      @melindabararata6888 7 месяцев назад +1

      If they message u to get back with u then message them back

  • @91sse
    @91sse 6 месяцев назад

    What if you are still a mess more than a year after ?

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  6 месяцев назад +1

      Don't give up! I know it can be tough but you can overcome this situation.

  • @AtouchofCHARM
    @AtouchofCHARM 8 месяцев назад +3

    I really wanted to like the video but the first 3-5 min all your doing is repeating yourself saying it in different ways. Can you get to the point. Didn’t even want to watch or skip to hear. Have a nice day just some criticism to get more viewers

    • @TrainerLiz1
      @TrainerLiz1 7 месяцев назад +2

      I skipped to 1:50

  • @Anita-ob9qy
    @Anita-ob9qy 8 месяцев назад +2

    I’m confused is no contact same as ghosting? How can I know the difference,He just stopped replying to my texts all of sudden but he didn’t delete me but I did deleted him bcs I felt so anxious and I’m regretting but still I feel so confused I reached out but he doesn’t open my messages then I just saw in his story putting about no contact, someone can help me to understand, his bday is soon and I don’t know if I should send him a message or not 😮‍💨

    • @sohelshaikh3786
      @sohelshaikh3786 8 месяцев назад

      If you both have a good equation then just say happy Birthday nothing else and if he wants to get back with you he will reply in nice way more than just thanking

    • @yahumaraiversen6618
      @yahumaraiversen6618 8 месяцев назад +5

      No birthday message. Ignore, ignore, ignore until he reaches out to you.

    • @Tommykey07
      @Tommykey07 7 месяцев назад +1

      You adopt No Contact in response to the other person ghosting you.

  • @Losi_Los
    @Losi_Los 9 месяцев назад

    should I put my Instagram on private or leave it on public? I'm on no contact but I don't know if I should allow her to look at my story if she wants.

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  9 месяцев назад +9

      Thank you for the post
      It could work in your favor if you keep it public so your ex has visibility to the new you
      Coach Adrian

    • @jacesundaybraimah9162
      @jacesundaybraimah9162 9 месяцев назад

      @@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      Exactly💯

  • @nehakale414
    @nehakale414 4 месяца назад

    He has another woman in his life now what should I do then ?
    Please reply

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  4 месяца назад

      You should check this video :
      ruclips.net/video/p6NdrMEWdiY/видео.html

  • @AnonymousxxxV
    @AnonymousxxxV 2 месяца назад

    What should i say to break no contact? Just a casual hi?

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  2 месяца назад

      I encourage you to watch this video : ruclips.net/video/eEugKX5KpvY/видео.html