I have made a promise to watch all of your videos going forward. No Contact worked. We are talking at a minimal to not rush the process. All of these techniques are immeasurable for relationships. Just knowing how to handle a situation before it happens is great.
@@RealCoachLee Surely will. I’m trying to manage my anxiety daily. But sooner or later, I know it will balance itself out and I’ll be able to function. Thanks for the support!
43 Days, no social media, no texting, not even in the same town. Grateful? Lost 20 lbs, have more connections now, career-wise, and doing well. Not beating myself up about it, i've learned the lessons from the fallout. Grass ain't always greener on the other side. Appreciate ya Coach Lee
@@yolenda_loves_to_sing Realizing, the past me wasn’t going anywhere. I want more; I used that hurt to drive my change. It wasn’t actually ‘me’ in tat relationship and I had to fight this we within myself. Requires action and consistency
Susan Arsoniadou. That is so TRUE. The no contact gives you TIME to think. What also helps is Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit which is excellent! It has strategies for every situation. myexbackcoach.com/ebk
No contact worked for me! My ex came back today, 2 weeks after our breakup. She told me she missed me so much, loved me, and she never wanted to be without me. We have decided to take things slow and both committed to doing therapy sessions. I bought Coach Lee’s emergency breakup kit and I followed everything he said. I gave her all the space she needed with no contact and worked on myself in the meantime. She is already impressed and proud of everything I have been doing to improve myself. It was tough getting through these days but patience is so important and trying to stay positive. Thank you Coach Lee!
This is an incredible breakup recovery story! Wow reading it makes me so happy for you and your Ex. It didn’t work ok for my ex but it’s heartwarming to hear that you guys both changed and are committed to making this reconciliation work! 🎉keep us updated!
That's great to hear, and I'm with you on that one. I love Coach Lee's content and it makes so much sense in a variety of situations. If you're interested to learn more, Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's a brilliant program that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and keeping it strong after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I believe it's an eye-opening and incredible experience that you won't want to miss out on.
Hey guys im in no contact with my ex for 25 days now and totally ignoring her social media not giving her any attention or validation. Also didn't wish on her birthday last week . She is coming to NY next week and showing me signs that she wants to meet . I'm waiting on her to reach out to me but if she doesn't then i plan to reach out to her day before she comes to NY .Good idea?
I’ve been a dumper and a dumpee. As a dumper he is spot on. I felt all these things (minus having a back up plan). I just thought I needed out. When I tried to get my ex back four months later who was dating someone else, she rejected me and good for her. (Learned a valuable lesson)
@@fj4731 I think you should wait till she contacts you because years ago in a pass relationship I reach out first n never got a replied back n that broke my heart even more was the worst feeling.
Coach Lee you stud! You changed my life man, she reached out, I played it cool. Now she wants to meet up and hear me out after 2 months of making me feel like I mean nothing! I don’t know what it will lead to, or even if I want her back honestly but this stuff WORKS. It’s so hard but it works y’all.
Dear Coach Lee, through the tears and the pain I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your words of wisdom, insight and encouragement. I only just got dumped, but the pain is huge-it is so good to hear from someone who is so knowledgeable on this difficult topic.
Already done when i heard that my ex might already dating someone but hey I'm going to the right path, got my promotion this month and enjoying life as who i am. But in my heart that i wish i could meet someone who's going to stay permanently no matter how hard the situation are. Thanks for the wisdom coach Lee, I'm good now and I'm here watching to support you.
Coach Lee I listened to your videos after my boyfriend broke up with me. I took your advise but I cried myself to sleep every night. I moved on with my life and now he’s begging me to come back to him but there’s no way. He broke up with m via text. Thank you so much for your
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
Been 6 months since break up from a 4 year relationship. I’ve been through hell. I moved to another country for her and to pursue better opportunities. She lives with her family and I live by myself. I still miss them all, they were my only family there. Just 6 months after she is with another person. She graduated while holding the arm of another guy, while I failed my master’s degree due to severe depression. She had to get over me with another guy. I instead focused on myself and now I’m in a way better place physically and mentally. The thing is I still hold this grief unwillingly. I live in a country where no one cares about me but still, I don’t give up and have hope things will get better. Update 4 months later: I am currently national runner-up in grappling (similar to wrestling martial art) in feather weight. It was an old hobby I picked up on doing again and went this far by myself in this country. Currently not dating anyone. Just purely focused on myself. Fell in love with the process. Disciplined as only few can be. I started the year on 200lb and now I am 150lb fit with big arms, chest and abs. Wrote a whole book about everything. The power is in your mind. I wanted nothing else but a biblical comeback that would honor the pain I suffered. Insta: @jorgeovalen
i can relate to this, my ex" was dating within days of us splitting, she split from that guy back in dec and is now already living with another gyuy... and I@m still "stuck" @ day one.
So sorry to hear about this, I can very much relate. I do believe we are never alone. Having faith, no matter where I am, the Creator cares for me and everyone who is lonely.
That is so much tougher than basically all of our situations here let's be honest so I take my hat off to you - feeling isolated and having depression without a support network in a foreign country is one of the hardest. You have done so well trying to rebuild and I am proud of you. Keep going!
@@ameliel8792 thank you for your kind words. I’m currently dating someone new who is restoring my faith in humanity, although I’m cautious. Mentally and physically way way up, although nostalgia comes and goes. Good memories last, as well as we should.
I don’t think that is categorically a true statement. “Not every ex thinks are better than you.” I’ve broken up with maaaany people and not once ever thot I was better than the person I broke up with or there was someone better out there. Thinking you’re better than someone and as a result you break up with them implies a lack of self awareness, grandeur and self importance which CAN be true but not in all cases. Sometimes people simply get exhausted from always trying, talking but not communicating and trying to be right instead of preserving the integrity of the relationship. We still VERY much love each other and have never said one disrespectful word in 5 years. We’re bigger than that. We both understand that we were fitting a square peg in a round hole an decided to stop the madness-for now. NC for 5 months.
This video is a must listen too. I have listened to it about 5 times. I have done everything Coach Lee has said and it has not only worked ... she reaches out several times a week over non issues it has made me feel tremendously better. Fellow Sufferers listen to him. It works!!!
its been like 5 months, coach lee has been helping me alot, i am not sure i want her back anymore but his videos give me strength from time to time, All of the dumpees who have been left for someone else or broken up with, Stay strong. Time will do its magic believe me i never thought i would do so great at the beginning but I get my mojo back,slowly but surely... I hope all the other dumpees get theirs much sooner than i did.... Thanks Coach...
Your videos helped me a lot, especially the emphasis on "no contact". During this no contact phase, I realized that the ex that I was trying to get back is basically a walking red flag. I was only attracted to part of her physique but otherwise we didn't really have much in common, and mostly didn't get eachother a lot. Also our situations in life are very different. It is essential to disconnect yourself from the situation entirely and see it from a colder perspective in order to realize if something is good or bad for yourself. For all these realizations, I'll say one more time, thank you!
@@corakingmoore2402 I completely understand. We accidentally started talking again during the first few months but I cut it off cuz it felt even worse. I think it's better this way anyways. It's been 6 months and the pain is mostly gone but still there and I sometimes have moments where I do miss him, especially at night. But I've grown so much. Time does help. Stay strong tho hope ur doing better now
I got dumped after 8 years. She told me she didn't love me anymore outta nowhere.....She lost a 30 pounds and started making 2 dollars more an hour than me. Her ego went ultra high.... I just left easily and let her have everything. She knows I'm gone for good. I couldn't believe it at first but I'm good now thou. She knows I'm a successful person, 35 years old, No kids..... Ill be aight in these streets
Such an important reminder, Coach Lee. Very motivating, too! I don't want my ex anymore - but I still watch your videos as they help and inspire me to become a better person FOR MYSELF! 🙌 Always grateful for your knowledge!
Hey Liv! Good to see you around, it's always been nice to read your positive comments in Lee's videos! Hope you are well and still hitting the gym, also hope your injury is doing better!
@@terael5637 Hey, you changed your name, was a bit confused! 😀 All is good, thank you, nice of you to remember. I am more moving outdoors these days as the weather is glorious at the moment - but I still train as much as I can in the gym, too. Sending good vibes! 💫
Thank you Coach Lee for the hard truth and motivation to keep going! Got dumped from a 4 year relationship off and on… met him in daycare at 10 years old💔 It’s been over for two months now and I decided to finally join the military rather than sitting around begging but even still I was doing all the wrong things to hold on🥴😣 On Day 8 NC after leaving all dignity and pride at his door😭I ship out next month:) wish me luck! Ps. I usually don’t share so much but I want to be able to come back to this comment one day and share my success story💛 Love and light💛✨
Wishing you all the best of luck on your new life adventure! You are magnificent and will thrive, expand, love and ARE loved! Thank you for your service and keep shining brightly!
Update: I went 25 days no contact then broke it to check on them🥺😫 I don’t want to start my count over bc I was going sooo well. I did block right after once I came back to my senses. It’s really hard being an empathetic person especially when the other person is going through a lot… but I know I have to take care of me first, I have to check in with myself first💛 going to keep going no contact. I leave for bootcamp in two weeks where they will take my phone away for 6 weeks so that should help a lot. *Sigh*
I can't believe how powerful no contact is in more ways than one. Was kinda giving up hope until this evening out of the blue she message asking if I wanted to go for dinner tonight.... Unfortunately I had already eaten but maybe another time 😜 Let's see how long the second bout of no contact goes ✨ Have faith people, coach Lee is the G.O.A.T
Update on my story: As I wrote in the above comment no contact worked amazingly for me and she returned after 28 days. But unfortunately when she came back into my life I didn't listen to coach Lee's advice on what to do when that happens. In the three weeks that followed it felt great initially as we spent almost every day together, but really I should have been taking it slow and sticking to the plan. Instead I made everything about her again arranging to see her one day after the next. I stopped working out and my diet went out the window. These were the things that made me feel strong and gave me control but I lost sight of them and made everything about her again when I should have continued to focus on myself. It's self improvement that is attractive and I let that all go. Of course this ended badly and today was a repeat of the breakup we had a few months ago. So once again I am watching coach Lee's videos again trying to get my head straight and back on the road to success. I can only hope no contact will work for us again and I will try to focus on coach Lee's advice on what to do if she comes back again... Got to find the balance and take it slow. Thanks coach Lee.
There are many coaches out there but I have to say coach Lee is amazing, with the direction within his communication to us the audience. The focus alone of face to the camera makes you feel he is only talking to you and its confatable, but to know its for all that are suffering in this moment in time is a blessing, your so helpful to all. I thank you Lee for helping so many people global with your nolage.
55 days of absolute no contact! I'm forced to see the ex everyday in the office and it is so hard to remain sane, but I have realised how toxic my ex was and is and we are a complete oppisite to each other! In fact, I do very clearly understand the reason now why I was attracted to my ex in the first place. It was purelt physical attraction that happened when I was just at the loose end! I struggle a lot, I can feel that my self-esteem and self-confidence have been shattered. But each I realise that the sooner this mental person is out of my entire mind and life the better. Thank you Coach
Coach Lee I want to say thank you for being here for us and for giving us the though love honesty that we need to hear and wake up to. I’m over the emotional games but you are teaching us how to take our own power back! ❤️
Couldn't agree with you more. Coach Lee always has powerful messages in his videos and so grateful that he imparts his wisdom upon us. Just wanted to give you the heads up about Coach Lee’s live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." Seriously, it's a game-changer! This workshop is all about rescuing your relationship and then keeping your relationship strong after the breakup or separation. Oh, and get this: you'll also have a coaching call every month for 6 whole months! So you won’t be going at it alone or anything. To find out more, hit up Coach Lee's team. You can schedule an appointment to discuss all the details at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. If you do, it will blow your mind and give you the support you need!
Thank you sooooo much for your videos. Did the no contact for 25 days and he reached out. Bought your emergency kit to know what to do next without messing up things and it did work perfectly! We're back together. Now let's see how long it's gonna last. Without your advice I would probably have done everything wrong and push him away 😘🙏🙌
No contact worked for me. He has been distant since beginning of june. I left him alone although I did message here and there every few days. Finally I stopped. It was 4 days and he reached out to me today telling me he was so sorry for how he was acting. He said he loves me and needed to figure things out. He was working and asked if he could call me later to talk without any distractions. I kept calm and will keep calm. He really hurt my heart but this man and I had what I thought was an amazing relationship. I am really confused. I don’t know where this will lead but I will take coach Lee’s advice and make him fix this. Good luck everyone.
My ex just left me, and I didn’t see it coming. Came across this video. I just want to get over him and work on myself. I’ve asked him to work things out, and he boastfully says he wants out. I needed to hear this from a guy……
4 year online friendship and 2.5 years of romantic relationship, we never met but we video chatted weekly, talked daily for hours and text none stop and we were planning to meet in February, 1 days prior to him breaking up with me he assured me 100% he was coming in February, but then he decided to tell me the next day he wasn't in love with me anymore like I am with him. He said he just loves me like a best friend and that is why he doesn't see our future together. We had plans, why give up so close to us actually being together? It doesn't make sense. Also 2 days prior to the breakup i had said I was worried it was the beginning of the breakup and he told me it absolutely was not and promised we would work on things.
Thank you God for coach Lee you're saving my life, my dignity, myself respect, myself worth, and myself confidence and getting me through a difficult breakup. I am looping your videos on no contact to keep in no contact is very difficult as a new concept counterintuitive. I will continue to binge watch Coach lee in order to stay strong motivated since i have tendencies and beta urges to text or wana vent pain but i will stay away remain in no contact. Thank you I have faith in the process. I did Tip jar kudos Coach Lee!
Coach Lee - This video shows the degree of how intelligent you are. This video is really well articulated and people can ask themselves why isn't this taught by the right people way back starting at the high school level. The schools are misinformed on how to prepare students to become the adults students need to be to function as strong young, middle, and older adults.
Thank you for the kind words! I don't know if you are aware, but Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's an incredible learning experience that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and then keeping it after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I think you'll agree that it's an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.
Hi Lee. I started watching Coach Lee as soon as my ex and I broke up. I binge watched him for so many days, I lost count. He helped me see what my ex really was, and he taught me that I was better off. I suggest you watch ALL his videos. He's the BEST! ❤️ LOVE YOU!!
It’s been 4 months no contact. I didn’t beg or cry. I been working on my self. I don’t care anymore if he comes back. My ex pushed me to far. It wasn’t meant to be.
100 days, no contact. Feeling better, don't need my ex because there's a lot opportunities coming to me without asking. I would never go to bare minimum will never ever settle for less. Goodluck guys! It's just a beggining, move forward and survive! ❤️
Around 25 days into no contact, 30 into the breakup itself. No correspondence from either side and she’s even removed my following and hers from me on most social media even when I wasn’t watching or liking anything. Just doing my best to move forward at this point. She still has our pictures up and was watching my stories but idk guess she didn’t like seeing it. Coach Lee has kept me sane and confident during this whole thing and I just want to say thank you cause the comment section also helps
Day 11 of no contact. Trying very hard to keep it rolling. Gotta be very tact and intelligent with my words. Credit to you coach. If her and I do end up getting back together, I will definitely send an email of the whole story start to finish.
She told me she thinks she can do better. Whatever, I’m fit and look better than 95% of people my age. I just had issues with with myself that I’m working through. If not her, I’m the “better” for someone else!!!
Hey Coach Lee, I am struggling every day since November last Year. The first love of my live broke up with me after almost 7 years. She said, she need time for herself and she have to concentrate on her life and she is not able to work on our relationship. At first I begged her to stay... After she said we two never getting back together I started no contact and I unfollowed her. I act like I am happy for all the people outside. But when I am alone, I crying a lot. I am scared that my girl could have an other guy. I try my best to move on. But it is so hard. She send me her new phone number and asked me some normal things. But nothing more. I watch every of your videos and bought your emergency breakup-kit. This helped me trough this hard time. Thank you Coach and all the best from germany.
My ex finished with me 2 years ago said he had found some one better we was together 6 years, felt like I had been kicked in the tummy, he is still with her and a lot younger than me, I am 69 his parter who he left me for is 57 and he is now 80… I can’t ever think I did wrong by him.. I blocked all contact and never ask why or what I had done.. as much I was devastated I just watched you on here watched lots of them and past 2 years your videos have helped me so so much.. it’s been 2 years now and never lower myself to ask him back not once… because I realised I am the better one… I have only just healed so hope to find that special soon… many thanks coach Lee… your a star,
The last bonus point is the icing on the cake...the ex is very jealous that I just started seeing some one else.. He never saw it coming... He, (the ex) is now crawling back... I'm moving on with my life.
My ex left boke up with a text message while I was on a travel RN assignment. It’s only been a few weeks since our break up. After watching Coach Lee’s videos, I’ve come to a realization that I don’t care if we’re together or not. I would like to make amends but I don’t care if she doesn’t want to. I keep the door open but as time goes by, it’s slowly closing.
It's been 7 days of NC and it hurts as hell,but when feel like i want to call her i watch one of the Coach Lee's videos and i feel better,cuz i know if i call her i will get hurt even more,i hope i wont break the No Contact rule.Stay strong people.
It gets easier. She reached out to me after I went silent on social media and no more bombarding here phone after a month. But she just wanted to test the waters I’m sure. Keep your head up. I recommend to watch his videos they helped me a lot and still do. Some days the pain isn’t there and then it feels like a knife in my heart other days.
After a week no ctc, broke it. After 4 days nc, broke it again yet nothing change. Coach Lee is right. Should just go NC and let them reach out to you. In thr meantime, do what makes yourself happy and forget about them.
The messages may seem harsh in this video but actually its great for snapping out of it and wanting to prove them wrong. I know I'm attractive and it's time to act like it.
Coach Lee this is too much worry putting on our heads just feel free and let you mind Wonder and live your life that's my idea and all this is like complicated life situations
No contact for 6 months now, first 3 months i felt like crap, emotionally destroyed, started to heal just a little by 4th month, by 5th month it was more like resignation, 6th month just faint hope, i had been tempted to contact but everytime i freeze and overthink, i already said what i had to say , if that wasnt enough then its time to move on, but is extremely difficult to accept it, i dont regret it, i will do it over again although is very painful, i just learned to live with that pain. Didnt work with her, my heart is ready for the next .
Planet Negative. I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you which is excellent! It has strategies for every situation. myexbackcoach.com/ebk
We all need to listen to this man. He knows his stuff. This makes me mad that my Ex thinks he's better looking then me? 😮 Coach if you saw both of us you would laugh at that. This video makes me work even harder on myself. What arrogant, ,crazy thoughts on the Ex part.
Good for you. These people are ridiculous and don't have the sense to choose the right person in the first place. Maybe you do and that's why you didn't break up with them.
This video is very good! Especially when you feel like breaking No Contact... if you are a man/women of virtue this will stop you dead in tracks from breaking No Contact....
Five months of no contact. Seemingly great two year relationship. I still love her but I have moved on with my life. Oddly, I went out with my first ever girlfriend last night as we’ve remained friends through the years. Well we wound up kissing after having a nice evening last night. 27 years since my very first kiss with her. Not sure it counts as a success story as I believe we’ll still keep the friendship level as I live a few states away, but life is too short.
Day 1. I’ve yet again gotten dumped via text. How can I not think there is something wrong with me since every relationship since I started dating after my divorce has ended this way. Thank you for your videos. I immediately started watching your videos again to help me try to get through this.
9 times out 10, a person dumps someone over text because they want to avoid the awkwardness. It is very weak of them. Sometimes people break up over text, instead of in person, because they dont want to see you and change their mind and wimp out. It is hard to understand but it says more about them than it does about you.
40 days of no contact. She called me in the middle of the night mad as hell because I haven't tried to talk to her. I stayed calm and let her get it out of her system. Anyway we are talking like sane humans again. Mot dating yet, we both still have some things to work out. But it's moving forward. Thanks.
My ex always thought I was the best-looking woman out there in his eyes and after 4 days he hooked up with some other woman, and she in no way is better looking than I am or even your average woman, cause sadly this woman is hard looking really. So he didn't hook up with better than who he had. My ex and I were together for over 10 years, and I believe that his two adult daughters had a part in him leaving me and us not getting along very well because he was the worse when it came to communication. My ex isn't close to the best-looking man around, but I loved him so much that I saw him as good-looking to me, even when others would ask me what I saw in him. Now, im left behind in pain and tears and can't seem to let him go out of my head, for my ex is my first love and I thought we would be together forever. I want him back but know that I couldn't help but picture him with that other woman who is ugly from the inside and out.
You been on a roll with videos.... How about a video on no contact for over a year begged for 3 weeks or so then no contact for over a year but I dont want to reach out but if she does I'm willing but with the approach how you said to handle it . What's the longest you seen no contact work ? Thank you great coach
Could you please do video with your best steps to deal with ex neither reaching out during no contact of around two months, nor responding to perfect single message (per your backup advice) after no contact? For example when or if to send second message. Other coaches contradict each other on handling this situation. Your old video on reaching out (as backup) doesn’t address no response at all
Coach Lee you are amazing! I’ve been in no contact with my ex outside of work since early January. We still talk a bit but only at work. He reached out once already and it wasn’t anything special. I responded, but then he sent a thank you and I didn’t say anything. And that was mid June when I reached out. I still care about him and like him a lot, but I know that I can’t wait. He has been a couple dates with other women as some of my coworker know the situation and know we were a thing, and they told me that. I keep a strong head. He thinks he can get me back, but once he reaches out fully he will know. Plus it’s almost our first time seeing each other outside of work and with the big rodeo happening soon, he will be there, that was our first date stop too. He hasn’t blocked me on Snapchat so he gets to see all the fun things I’m doing and I like it. Coach Lee you are truly amazing! All your advice you gave here is spot on! Love it!
I remember watching all these breakup videos. Ex ended things with me after 6 months. Week after was my birthday. She reached out and wished me happy birthday. Which threw me a loop. Then nothing for a year and a few months. Them she reached out to update me. Her friend was passing and she wanted to update me. I responded with Sympathies and Condolences. And she thanked me. Don’t see her reaching out again.
my ex broke up with me on March 4TH, she only contacted me a week after to ask if i could send me her stuff, after that i instantly went to the GYM 6 times a week and now am the best version of myself again. I don't know if she would ever contact me ever but i did the no contact rule from the start till now and i move on with my life.. Never wait on somebody, thank you Coach Lee for all the advice in your emergency break up kit. I hope there will be a day she could see how i leveled up, but it was a long distance (1,5 hour drive every time).
she is also a bussy professional badmintonplayer and with the long distance it is even harder.. so those are the hard ones to attract back.. i don't know if she would ever come back but atleast i followed everything coach Lee told me to do and it helped me develop so much! Thank you coach
Thank you so much for mentioning the point about an ex leaving for another person - really appreciated! And I love that this video actually makes me more assured I don’t want my ex back… Your videos are medicine to the soul. Thank you, coach Lee, I love what you’re doing - all the blessings to you ♥️
From my experience and that of my friends, colleagues and acquaintances i could say that (that there is another one, having done 'things' with them or not) is the reason number 1 in most breakups. May be by far.
I divorced my husband 18 yrs ago he took it very hard I didn’t want to I just gave up because of the unkindness but now just recently he’s gotten in contact with me I love him still very much an he confessed he’s still in love with me
Preciate you! Got your Emergency Breakup kit We’ll see what happens I’m at the point in this relationship, that I just want to prove to myself and can do this No Contact, whether I get her back or not. I would like to. But, she seemed pretty determined. I’ll keep you posted Would like to talk to you sometime if at all possible Thanks 🙏 again
I was the one who broke up with her… 1. No 2. Yes - she was disrespectful . 3. Yes. I wouldn’t allow myself to be back with her. 4. No. 5. Yes. She has contacted me once per month likely around ovulation, with some reason or another. We’re both strong, but I’m more disciplined. Bonus. No. She will, and I genuinely hope she does. I like your info but I’d like to see more content from the perspective of the dumper.
oicu81279. I can recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you which is excellent and POWERFUL. It has EVERYTHING in it including strategies for every situation. myexbackcoach.com/ebk
We broke up cause I was unavailable too much. If I continue to not be there she will be right in her action of breaking up. I have to be there as much as possible
27 days since I last saw him and spoke to him. It hits a nerve from Coach Lee saying how they dumped us and in their tiny brains, they're better than us. My ex is a body builder that uses many drugs that got him his physique and uses many others to keep it. I remember feeling insecure because I had gained some weight but he'd always assure me I was beautiful and he loved what I thought was horrid....I hate to think he lied. It makes me nauseas thinking he left me for some flusie because she was fit....😪
friskies89, I highly recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you. It's excellent and it will help you. It has EVERYTHING in it including strategies for every situation myexbackcoach.com/ebk
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I have made a promise to watch all of your videos going forward. No Contact worked. We are talking at a minimal to not rush the process. All of these techniques are immeasurable for relationships. Just knowing how to handle a situation before it happens is great.
I truly wish you the best! Please email MyExBackCoach@gmail.com with your story!
@@RealCoachLee Surely will. I’m trying to manage my anxiety daily. But sooner or later, I know it will balance itself out and I’ll be able to function. Thanks for the support!
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Congrats, hope all is well for you. Trying to go no contact by she keeps reaching out to me every 5-7 days by text, she seems confused.
@@philippelaurent8140does she say anything of value in her texts ?
43 Days, no social media, no texting, not even in the same town. Grateful? Lost 20 lbs, have more connections now, career-wise, and doing well. Not beating myself up about it, i've learned the lessons from the fallout. Grass ain't always greener on the other side. Appreciate ya Coach Lee
Keep going my friend. Inspiring.
20 lbs is a lot! How did you do that in 43 days? :)
62 days mate 👌🏻 lost 20lbs too.
Sadly it's still hurting sometimes but nothing like the first month.
@@yolenda_loves_to_sing Realizing, the past me wasn’t going anywhere. I want more; I used that hurt to drive my change. It wasn’t actually ‘me’ in tat relationship and I had to fight this we within myself. Requires action and consistency
@@foreverred105 appreciate it. I am; it’s a process, but I’m going stronger in it
The thing about no contact is that if enough time goes by you are not so sure you want them back again...
Susan Arsoniadou. That is so TRUE. The no contact gives you TIME to think.
What also helps is Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit which is excellent! It has strategies for every situation.
myexbackcoach.com/ebk
If you know how to apply these 3 things in life, you are always gonna win :
1.patient
2.strength
3.time
Thank you Coach Lee much respect
No contact worked for me! My ex came back today, 2 weeks after our breakup. She told me she missed me so much, loved me, and she never wanted to be without me. We have decided to take things slow and both committed to doing therapy sessions. I bought Coach Lee’s emergency breakup kit and I followed everything he said. I gave her all the space she needed with no contact and worked on myself in the meantime. She is already impressed and proud of everything I have been doing to improve myself. It was tough getting through these days but patience is so important and trying to stay positive. Thank you Coach Lee!
This is an incredible breakup recovery story! Wow reading it makes me so happy for you and your Ex. It didn’t work ok for my ex but it’s heartwarming to hear that you guys both changed and are committed to making this reconciliation work! 🎉keep us updated!
I'm happily married and STILL watch Coach Lee's content, because I appreciate his wisdom and insight into human behavior! Thanks, Coach!
Same
Many people tune in just to listen to his analogies, regardless of their personal status.
That's great to hear, and I'm with you on that one. I love Coach Lee's content and it makes so much sense in a variety of situations. If you're interested to learn more, Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's a brilliant program that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and keeping it strong after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I believe it's an eye-opening and incredible experience that you won't want to miss out on.
Yea I wish I would have found these videos months ago
The more attractive thing to do is walk away and become better ❤
Not so easy
Sometimes when they walk away. You find another person and they are just so amazing you don't even think about them anymore.. trust me
@@zhangjamees6470 i dont care
I'm just here supporting coach lee after getting my ex back
Listening to coach Lee, is like a magic
, my ex finally texting me and ask for meet up after 54 days no contact , Thanks Coach Lee 🙏
Congratulations! What are you going to do and where are you going to go? Hoping it goes really well for you. 🤞🤞🤞
Hey guys im in no contact with my ex for 25 days now and totally ignoring her social media not giving her any attention or validation. Also didn't wish on her birthday last week . She is coming to NY next week and showing me signs that she wants to meet . I'm waiting on her to reach out to me but if she doesn't then i plan to reach out to her day before she comes to NY .Good idea?
Bas idea. Let her reach out. Not you. She is coming in town.
Damn that’s nothing. Lucky you
Congratulations, I hope you both learn something from each other
I’ve been a dumper and a dumpee. As a dumper he is spot on. I felt all these things (minus having a back up plan). I just thought I needed out. When I tried to get my ex back four months later who was dating someone else, she rejected me and good for her. (Learned a valuable lesson)
Same here. I was a dumper, and I learned a lesson. Good for us, too. :)
Did you ever think about her when you wasn't with her?
@@fj4731 I think you should wait till she contacts you because years ago in a pass relationship I reach out first n never got a replied back n that broke my heart even more was the worst feeling.
What made you want to go back?
Thank you for sharing, I needed to hear it
Coach Lee you stud! You changed my life man, she reached out, I played it cool. Now she wants to meet up and hear me out after 2 months of making me feel like I mean nothing! I don’t know what it will lead to, or even if I want her back honestly but this stuff WORKS. It’s so hard but it works y’all.
SlipResistantMan I highly recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit which is fantastic! It has strategies for every situation.
myexbackcoach.com/ebk
Dear Coach Lee, through the tears and the pain I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your words of wisdom, insight and encouragement. I only just got dumped, but the pain is huge-it is so good to hear from someone who is so knowledgeable on this difficult topic.
Forgive your ex and yourself about everything and move on and not go back i think will be good
Already done when i heard that my ex might already dating someone but hey I'm going to the right path, got my promotion this month and enjoying life as who i am. But in my heart that i wish i could meet someone who's going to stay permanently no matter how hard the situation are. Thanks for the wisdom coach Lee, I'm good now and I'm here watching to support you.
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Coach Lee I listened to your videos after my boyfriend broke up with me. I took your advise but I cried myself to sleep every night. I moved on with my life and now he’s begging me to come back to him but there’s no way. He broke up with m via text. Thank you so much for your
Good for you. Know your worth
How long was it til he came back? Good for you btw- champion 😎
@@LG-ly7pw yeah just like the previous person asked…. How long till they came back begging?
Good for you girl. I am literally praying to God to completely forget my ex.
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
Been 6 months since break up from a 4 year relationship. I’ve been through hell. I moved to another country for her and to pursue better opportunities. She lives with her family and I live by myself. I still miss them all, they were my only family there. Just 6 months after she is with another person. She graduated while holding the arm of another guy, while I failed my master’s degree due to severe depression. She had to get over me with another guy. I instead focused on myself and now I’m in a way better place physically and mentally. The thing is I still hold this grief unwillingly. I live in a country where no one cares about me but still, I don’t give up and have hope things will get better.
Update 4 months later:
I am currently national runner-up in grappling (similar to wrestling martial art) in feather weight. It was an old hobby I picked up on doing again and went this far by myself in this country. Currently not dating anyone. Just purely focused on myself. Fell in love with the process. Disciplined as only few can be. I started the year on 200lb and now I am 150lb fit with big arms, chest and abs. Wrote a whole book about everything. The power is in your mind. I wanted nothing else but a biblical comeback that would honor the pain I suffered.
Insta: @jorgeovalen
i can relate to this, my ex" was dating within days of us splitting, she split from that guy back in dec and is now already living with another gyuy... and I@m still "stuck" @ day one.
So sorry to hear about this, I can very much relate. I do believe we are never alone. Having faith, no matter where I am, the Creator cares for me and everyone who is lonely.
That is so much tougher than basically all of our situations here let's be honest so I take my hat off to you - feeling isolated and having depression without a support network in a foreign country is one of the hardest. You have done so well trying to rebuild and I am proud of you. Keep going!
@@ameliel8792 thank you for your kind words. I’m currently dating someone new who is restoring my faith in humanity, although I’m cautious. Mentally and physically way way up, although nostalgia comes and goes. Good memories last, as well as we should.
Sorry to hear this😢
They think that they are better than you.
PROVE THEM WRONG!
I don’t think that is categorically a true statement. “Not every ex thinks are better than you.” I’ve broken up with maaaany people and not once ever thot I was better than the person I broke up with or there was someone better out there. Thinking you’re better than someone and as a result you break up with them implies a lack of self awareness, grandeur and self importance which CAN be true but not in all cases. Sometimes people simply get exhausted from always trying, talking but not communicating and trying to be right instead of preserving the integrity of the relationship. We still VERY much love each other and have never said one disrespectful word in 5 years. We’re bigger than that. We both understand that we were fitting a square peg in a round hole an decided to stop the madness-for now. NC for 5 months.
This video is a must listen too. I have listened to it about 5 times. I have done everything Coach Lee has said and it has not only worked ... she reaches out several times a week over non issues it has made me feel tremendously better. Fellow Sufferers listen to him. It works!!!
its been like 5 months, coach lee has been helping me alot, i am not sure i want her back anymore but his videos give me strength from time to time, All of the dumpees who have been left for someone else or broken up with, Stay strong. Time will do its magic believe me i never thought i would do so great at the beginning but I get my mojo back,slowly but surely... I hope all the other dumpees get theirs much sooner than i did.... Thanks Coach...
So what happen man? She ever reach out?
Im 5 months into no contact myself
@@Deuceswild47 no she doesn't ..... And I haven't too
Your videos helped me a lot, especially the emphasis on "no contact". During this no contact phase, I realized that the ex that I was trying to get back is basically a walking red flag. I was only attracted to part of her physique but otherwise we didn't really have much in common, and mostly didn't get eachother a lot. Also our situations in life are very different. It is essential to disconnect yourself from the situation entirely and see it from a colder perspective in order to realize if something is good or bad for yourself. For all these realizations, I'll say one more time, thank you!
@@Ansu66_ Nop
I think you know that this is a compliment, but the nights that I can't stop my head spinning, your videos help me get off to sleep.
Day 20 and it’s so hard. Some days are better than the others but almost everyday has been difficult :( but it is getting easier!
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@@corakingmoore2402 I completely understand. We accidentally started talking again during the first few months but I cut it off cuz it felt even worse. I think it's better this way anyways. It's been 6 months and the pain is mostly gone but still there and I sometimes have moments where I do miss him, especially at night. But I've grown so much. Time does help. Stay strong tho hope ur doing better now
I got dumped after 8 years. She told me she didn't love me anymore outta nowhere.....She lost a 30 pounds and started making 2 dollars more an hour than me. Her ego went ultra high.... I just left easily and let her have everything. She knows I'm gone for good. I couldn't believe it at first but I'm good now thou. She knows I'm a successful person, 35 years old, No kids..... Ill be aight in these streets
I’m so sorry to hear. You will be fine, time will help 🤍
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Such an important reminder, Coach Lee. Very motivating, too! I don't want my ex anymore - but I still watch your videos as they help and inspire me to become a better person FOR MYSELF! 🙌 Always grateful for your knowledge!
Hey Liv!
Good to see you around, it's always been nice to read your positive comments in Lee's videos!
Hope you are well and still hitting the gym, also hope your injury is doing better!
@@terael5637 Hey, you changed your name, was a bit confused! 😀 All is good, thank you, nice of you to remember. I am more moving outdoors these days as the weather is glorious at the moment - but I still train as much as I can in the gym, too. Sending good vibes! 💫
@@livbeyond why are you still watching this then? just curious
@@gagsjjmomom9014 I explained in my comment why! 😉💗
Almost 2 years in September and coach Lee has been that big brother I needed!
Thank you Coach Lee for the hard truth and motivation to keep going!
Got dumped from a 4 year relationship off and on… met him in daycare at 10 years old💔
It’s been over for two months now and I decided to finally join the military rather than sitting around begging but even still I was doing all the wrong things to hold on🥴😣
On Day 8 NC after leaving all dignity and pride at his door😭I ship out next month:) wish me luck!
Ps. I usually don’t share so much but I want to be able to come back to this comment one day and share my success story💛
Love and light💛✨
Wishing you all the best of luck on your new life adventure! You are magnificent and will thrive, expand, love and ARE loved! Thank you for your service and keep shining brightly!
@@mamziemay1575 Thank you, that made me tear up a bit🥲 Love and light to you!💛✨ and you are very welcome!
Wish you the best in military training!
@@madgestye1325 Thank you!☺️
Update: I went 25 days no contact then broke it to check on them🥺😫
I don’t want to start my count over bc I was going sooo well. I did block right after once I came back to my senses. It’s really hard being an empathetic person especially when the other person is going through a lot… but I know I have to take care of me first, I have to check in with myself first💛 going to keep going no contact. I leave for bootcamp in two weeks where they will take my phone away for 6 weeks so that should help a lot. *Sigh*
You're way too good a coach! Your teachings have proved to be 100‰ effective. My only regret is not discovering your channel in time.
I can't believe how powerful no contact is in more ways than one.
Was kinda giving up hope until this evening out of the blue she message asking if I wanted to go for dinner tonight....
Unfortunately I had already eaten but maybe another time 😜
Let's see how long the second bout of no contact goes ✨
Have faith people, coach Lee is the G.O.A.T
How long were you in NC?
Lucky you
Update on my story:
As I wrote in the above comment no contact worked amazingly for me and she returned after 28 days. But unfortunately when she came back into my life I didn't listen to coach Lee's advice on what to do when that happens.
In the three weeks that followed it felt great initially as we spent almost every day together, but really I should have been taking it slow and sticking to the plan.
Instead I made everything about her again arranging to see her one day after the next.
I stopped working out and my diet went out the window.
These were the things that made me feel strong and gave me control but I lost sight of them and made everything about her again when I should have continued to focus on myself.
It's self improvement that is attractive and I let that all go.
Of course this ended badly and today was a repeat of the breakup we had a few months ago.
So once again I am watching coach Lee's videos again trying to get my head straight and back on the road to success.
I can only hope no contact will work for us again and I will try to focus on coach Lee's advice on what to do if she comes back again... Got to find the balance and take it slow. Thanks coach Lee.
@@mattimattwa9064 stay strong!
I agree the breakup kit is incredibly powerful and insightful material. I really appreciate the effort and dedication you put into your breakup kit.
There are many coaches out there but I have to say coach Lee is amazing, with the direction within his communication to us the audience. The focus alone of face to the camera makes you feel he is only talking to you and its confatable, but to know its for all that are suffering in this moment in time is a blessing, your so helpful to all. I thank you Lee for helping so many people global with your nolage.
Thanks Coach Lee! I'm not even watching your videos to get him back. I just watch them to help me improve myself.
Love how your dropping these videos back to back really appreciate you ! 💙💙
55 days of absolute no contact! I'm forced to see the ex everyday in the office and it is so hard to remain sane, but I have realised how toxic my ex was and is and we are a complete oppisite to each other! In fact, I do very clearly understand the reason now why I was attracted to my ex in the first place. It was purelt physical attraction that happened when I was just at the loose end! I struggle a lot, I can feel that my self-esteem and self-confidence have been shattered. But each I realise that the sooner this mental person is out of my entire mind and life the better. Thank you Coach
Coach Lee I want to say thank you for being here for us and for giving us the though love honesty that we need to hear and wake up to. I’m over the emotional games but you are teaching us how to take our own power back! ❤️
Couldn't agree with you more. Coach Lee always has powerful messages in his videos and so grateful that he imparts his wisdom upon us. Just wanted to give you the heads up about Coach Lee’s live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." Seriously, it's a game-changer! This workshop is all about rescuing your relationship and then keeping your relationship strong after the breakup or separation. Oh, and get this: you'll also have a coaching call every month for 6 whole months! So you won’t be going at it alone or anything. To find out more, hit up Coach Lee's team. You can schedule an appointment to discuss all the details at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. If you do, it will blow your mind and give you the support you need!
So tired of spam replies on Coach Lee's videos...I'm still happy to support him.
Thank you sooooo much for your videos. Did the no contact for 25 days and he reached out. Bought your emergency kit to know what to do next without messing up things and it did work perfectly! We're back together. Now let's see how long it's gonna last.
Without your advice I would probably have done everything wrong and push him away 😘🙏🙌
Yay! For you! I did everything wrong and pushed my ex away. Now he's dating someone else. But I am just working on myself.
Today is my 25th day.
No contact worked for me. He has been distant since beginning of june. I left him alone although I did message here and there every few days. Finally I stopped. It was 4 days and he reached out to me today telling me he was so sorry for how he was acting. He said he loves me and needed to figure things out. He was working and asked if he could call me later to talk without any distractions. I kept calm and will keep calm. He really hurt my heart but this man and I had what I thought was an amazing relationship. I am really confused. I don’t know where this will lead but I will take coach Lee’s advice and make him fix this. Good luck everyone.
More great content Coach Lee!
#1 Thing Guys: Get a Mission that really drives you, and pursue it with ruthless, relentless energy! Do it for you!
I like this guy. He says it how it is, even though it hurt. Mad respect.
Everytime i hear you ... I forget my pain.
@Benjamin joy no thanks... I will do it my own way
My ex just left me, and I didn’t see it coming. Came across this video. I just want to get over him and work on myself. I’ve asked him to work things out, and he boastfully says he wants out. I needed to hear this from a guy……
4 year online friendship and 2.5 years of romantic relationship, we never met but we video chatted weekly, talked daily for hours and text none stop and we were planning to meet in February, 1 days prior to him breaking up with me he assured me 100% he was coming in February, but then he decided to tell me the next day he wasn't in love with me anymore like I am with him. He said he just loves me like a best friend and that is why he doesn't see our future together. We had plans, why give up so close to us actually being together? It doesn't make sense. Also 2 days prior to the breakup i had said I was worried it was the beginning of the breakup and he told me it absolutely was not and promised we would work on things.
Thank you God for coach Lee you're saving my life, my dignity, myself respect, myself worth, and myself confidence and getting me through a difficult breakup. I am looping your videos on no contact to keep in no contact is very difficult as a new concept counterintuitive. I will continue to binge watch Coach lee in order to stay strong motivated since i have tendencies and beta urges to text or wana vent pain but i will stay away remain in no contact. Thank you I have faith in the process. I did Tip jar kudos Coach Lee!
Thanks coach Lee. For being a blessing to a cruel world.
Coach Lee - This video shows the degree of how intelligent you are. This video is really well articulated and people can ask themselves why isn't this taught by the right people way back starting at the high school level. The schools are misinformed on how to prepare students to become the adults students need to be to function as strong young, middle, and older adults.
Coach Lee I can’t get enough of your content. Thank you for your consistency. You always seem to post just when I need some reassurance.
I absolutely agree
Thank you for the kind words! I don't know if you are aware, but Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's an incredible learning experience that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and then keeping it after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I think you'll agree that it's an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.
This is the first video I have watched and thought "I don't want her back anymore". Thanks coach Lee🤙
Hi Lee. I started watching Coach Lee as soon as my ex and I broke up. I binge watched him for so many days, I lost count. He helped me see what my ex really was, and he taught me that I was better off. I suggest you watch ALL his videos. He's the BEST! ❤️ LOVE YOU!!
It’s been 4 months no contact. I didn’t beg or cry. I been working on my self. I don’t care anymore if he comes back. My ex pushed me to far. It wasn’t meant to be.
100 days, no contact. Feeling better, don't need my ex because there's a lot opportunities coming to me without asking. I would never go to bare minimum will never ever settle for less. Goodluck guys! It's just a beggining, move forward and survive! ❤️
This is the truth leave them alone to live there lives away from you.
Around 25 days into no contact, 30 into the breakup itself. No correspondence from either side and she’s even removed my following and hers from me on most social media even when I wasn’t watching or liking anything. Just doing my best to move forward at this point. She still has our pictures up and was watching my stories but idk guess she didn’t like seeing it. Coach Lee has kept me sane and confident during this whole thing and I just want to say thank you cause the comment section also helps
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Thanks Coach I hope you make a video on:
"No contact and how it helps with anger or resentment over the breakup."
Every time I hear Coaches Theme, I know Wisdom has entered the Room.
@Benjamin joy get a real job BOT
Day 11 of no contact. Trying very hard to keep it rolling. Gotta be very tact and intelligent with my words. Credit to you coach. If her and I do end up getting back together, I will definitely send an email of the whole story start to finish.
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i believe what ever doesn't kill you simply makes you stronger or stranger, you choose
She told me she thinks she can do better. Whatever, I’m fit and look better than 95% of people my age. I just had issues with with myself that I’m working through. If not her, I’m the “better” for someone else!!!
Hey Coach Lee, I am struggling every day since November last Year.
The first love of my live broke up with me after almost 7 years. She said, she need time for herself and she have to concentrate on her life and she is not able to work on our relationship. At first I begged her to stay...
After she said we two never getting back together I started no contact and I unfollowed her. I act like I am happy for all the people outside. But when I am alone, I crying a lot. I am scared that my girl could have an other guy. I try my best to move on. But it is so hard.
She send me her new phone number and asked me some normal things. But nothing more. I watch every of your videos and bought your emergency breakup-kit. This helped me trough this hard time.
Thank you Coach and all the best from germany.
Same happened to me...pray everything goes your way.
I struggle so much, coach 🥺 16 days of NC. I love how you give encouragement but keep it real at same time.
My ex finished with me 2 years ago said he had found some one better we was together 6 years, felt like I had been kicked in the tummy, he is still with her and a lot younger than me, I am 69 his parter who he left me for is 57 and he is now 80… I can’t ever think I did wrong by him.. I blocked all contact and never ask why or what I had done.. as much I was devastated I just watched you on here watched lots of them and past 2 years your videos have helped me so so much.. it’s been 2 years now and never lower myself to ask him back not once… because I realised I am the better one… I have only just healed so hope to find that special soon… many thanks coach Lee… your a star,
That bonus tho...was worth staying until the end. Thanks for making it so appetizing, Coach! Keep'em coming!
I’m poor. I don’t know what I would have done without Coach Lee’s and Dr Ramani’s videos. Thank you so very much!
After hearing this.... my ex is looking really repulsive to me.
this man is so professional, how come I didnt find his channel sooner?
@@jennifterlopez9585 i screwed up badly with my crush, got blocked and stuff, but this man helps me understand much things
My ex just left me, and I didn’t see it coming. Came across this video. I just want get over him and work on myself. I needed to hear this from a guy.
You should make a video for multiple breakups ! Another for situations when religion/parents someone else influence them
The last bonus point is the icing on the cake...the ex is very jealous that I just started seeing some one else.. He never saw it coming... He, (the ex) is now crawling back... I'm moving on with my life.
My ex left boke up with a text message while I was on a travel RN assignment. It’s only been a few weeks since our break up. After watching Coach Lee’s videos, I’ve come to a realization that I don’t care if we’re together or not. I would like to make amends but I don’t care if she doesn’t want to. I keep the door open but as time goes by, it’s slowly closing.
After nearly 90 days of NC I’m starting to think I’ll never see my ex again… 🤷♂️
It's been 7 days of NC and it hurts as hell,but when feel like i want to call her i watch one of the Coach Lee's videos and i feel better,cuz i know if i call her i will get hurt even more,i hope i wont break the No Contact rule.Stay strong people.
It gets easier. She reached out to me after I went silent on social media and no more bombarding here phone after a month. But she just wanted to test the waters I’m sure. Keep your head up. I recommend to watch his videos they helped me a lot and still do. Some days the pain isn’t there and then it feels like a knife in my heart other days.
After a week no ctc, broke it. After 4 days nc, broke it again yet nothing change. Coach Lee is right. Should just go NC and let them reach out to you. In thr meantime, do what makes yourself happy and forget about them.
Hold to NC,that's the only way to get over or get back together.stay strong!
The messages may seem harsh in this video but actually its great for snapping out of it and wanting to prove them wrong. I know I'm attractive and it's time to act like it.
Coach Lee this is too much worry putting on our heads just feel free and let you mind Wonder and live your life that's my idea and all this is like complicated life situations
No contact for 6 months now, first 3 months i felt like crap, emotionally destroyed, started to heal just a little by 4th month, by 5th month it was more like resignation, 6th month just faint hope, i had been tempted to contact but everytime i freeze and overthink, i already said what i had to say , if that wasnt enough then its time to move on, but is extremely difficult to accept it, i dont regret it, i will do it over again although is very painful, i just learned to live with that pain. Didnt work with her, my heart is ready for the next .
Planet Negative. I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you which is excellent! It has strategies for every situation.
myexbackcoach.com/ebk
Shared your channel to a friend he needs it bad.
Breaken up with me is a great blessing to me,I am in my best version growth
We all need to listen to this man. He knows his stuff. This makes me mad that my Ex thinks he's better looking then me? 😮 Coach if you saw both of us you would laugh at that. This video makes me work even harder on myself. What arrogant, ,crazy thoughts on the Ex part.
Second time in no contact after five months since she left. I’m done with her. Moving on and forward!
Good for you. These people are ridiculous and don't have the sense to choose the right person in the first place. Maybe you do and that's why you didn't break up with them.
This video is very good! Especially when you feel like breaking No Contact... if you are a man/women of virtue this will stop you dead in tracks from breaking No Contact....
Five months of no contact. Seemingly great two year relationship. I still love her but I have moved on with my life.
Oddly, I went out with my first ever girlfriend last night as we’ve remained friends through the years. Well we wound up kissing after having a nice evening last night. 27 years since my very first kiss with her. Not sure it counts as a success story as I believe we’ll still keep the friendship level as I live a few states away, but life is too short.
No contact works if your relationship was somewhat healthy if you want your ex to come back . If it was toxic it doesn’t work to get him back
Day 1. I’ve yet again gotten dumped via text. How can I not think there is something wrong with me since every relationship since I started dating after my divorce has ended this way. Thank you for your videos. I immediately started watching your videos again to help me try to get through this.
9 times out 10, a person dumps someone over text because they want to avoid the awkwardness. It is very weak of them. Sometimes people break up over text, instead of in person, because they dont want to see you and change their mind and wimp out. It is hard to understand but it says more about them than it does about you.
There’s nothing wrong with you! It’s the cowards way out
40 days of no contact. She called me in the middle of the night mad as hell because I haven't tried to talk to her. I stayed calm and let her get it out of her system. Anyway we are talking like sane humans again. Mot dating yet, we both still have some things to work out. But it's moving forward. Thanks.
Thank you soooo much for your content... You helped me soooo much... I'm still in no contact.. feeling better each time I see your Videos
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My ex always thought I was the best-looking woman out there in his eyes and after 4 days he hooked up with some other woman, and she in no way is better looking than I am or even your average woman, cause sadly this woman is hard looking really. So he didn't hook up with better than who he had. My ex and I were together for over 10 years, and I believe that his two adult daughters had a part in him leaving me and us not getting along very well because he was the worse when it came to communication. My ex isn't close to the best-looking man around, but I loved him so much that I saw him as good-looking to me, even when others would ask me what I saw in him. Now, im left behind in pain and tears and can't seem to let him go out of my head, for my ex is my first love and I thought we would be together forever. I want him back but know that I couldn't help but picture him with that other woman who is ugly from the inside and out.
Coach Lee I'm on 8 days NC. Feel better now. Thank you for guiding us on our darkest times! Stay strong everyone! God bless coach Lee. 🇵🇭❤️❤️
On the 5th Day it is getting better I know at days can be harder hang on there
On the 7th it feels like my life is killing me I don't know how long I can keep this up all I want is my person
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I’m on day 8. We got this!
I’m right behind you! it’s been 7days of NC:)
You been on a roll with videos....
How about a video on no contact for over a year begged for 3 weeks or so then no contact for over a year but I dont want to reach out but if she does I'm willing but with the approach how you said to handle it . What's the longest you seen no contact work ?
Thank you great coach
It's been a year of no contact and they haven't reached out once? Have they checked your stories or liked anything on your social media?
This is one of the most honest video from coach lee. Thanks a lot
Could you please do video with your best steps to deal with ex neither reaching out during no contact of around two months, nor responding to perfect single message (per your backup advice) after no contact?
For example when or if to send second message. Other coaches contradict each other on handling this situation. Your old video on reaching out (as backup) doesn’t address no response at all
Coach Lee you are amazing! I’ve been in no contact with my ex outside of work since early January. We still talk a bit but only at work. He reached out once already and it wasn’t anything special. I responded, but then he sent a thank you and I didn’t say anything. And that was mid June when I reached out. I still care about him and like him a lot, but I know that I can’t wait. He has been a couple dates with other women as some of my coworker know the situation and know we were a thing, and they told me that. I keep a strong head. He thinks he can get me back, but once he reaches out fully he will know. Plus it’s almost our first time seeing each other outside of work and with the big rodeo happening soon, he will be there, that was our first date stop too. He hasn’t blocked me on Snapchat so he gets to see all the fun things I’m doing and I like it. Coach Lee you are truly amazing! All your advice you gave here is spot on! Love it!
I remember watching all these breakup videos. Ex ended things with me after 6 months. Week after was my birthday. She reached out and wished me happy birthday. Which threw me a loop. Then nothing for a year and a few months. Them she reached out to update me. Her friend was passing and she wanted to update me. I responded with Sympathies and Condolences. And she thanked me. Don’t see her reaching out again.
my ex broke up with me on March 4TH, she only contacted me a week after to ask if i could send me her stuff, after that i instantly went to the GYM 6 times a week and now am the best version of myself again. I don't know if she would ever contact me ever but i did the no contact rule from the start till now and i move on with my life.. Never wait on somebody, thank you Coach Lee for all the advice in your emergency break up kit. I hope there will be a day she could see how i leveled up, but it was a long distance (1,5 hour drive every time).
she is also a bussy professional badmintonplayer and with the long distance it is even harder.. so those are the hard ones to attract back.. i don't know if she would ever come back but atleast i followed everything coach Lee told me to do and it helped me develop so much! Thank you coach
Thank you so much for mentioning the point about an ex leaving for another person - really appreciated!
And I love that this video actually makes me more assured I don’t want my ex back… Your videos are medicine to the soul.
Thank you, coach Lee, I love what you’re doing - all the blessings to you ♥️
From my experience and that of my friends, colleagues and acquaintances i could say that (that there is another one, having done 'things' with them or not) is the reason number 1 in most breakups. May be by far.
I divorced my husband 18 yrs ago he took it very hard I didn’t want to I just gave up because of the unkindness but now just recently he’s gotten in contact with me I love him still very much an he confessed he’s still in love with me
Preciate you!
Got your
Emergency Breakup kit
We’ll see what happens
I’m at the point in this relationship, that I just want to prove to myself and can do this No Contact, whether I get her back or not.
I would like to.
But, she seemed pretty determined.
I’ll keep you posted
Would like to talk to you sometime if at all possible
Thanks 🙏 again
Please do more long distance breakup videos
He came back often but I closed the door forever …
I was the one who broke up with her…
1. No
2. Yes - she was disrespectful .
3. Yes. I wouldn’t allow myself to be back with her.
4. No.
5. Yes. She has contacted me once per month likely around ovulation, with some reason or another. We’re both strong, but I’m more disciplined.
Bonus. No. She will, and I genuinely hope she does.
I like your info but I’d like to see more content from the perspective of the dumper.
oicu81279. I can recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you which is excellent and POWERFUL. It has EVERYTHING in it including strategies for every situation.
myexbackcoach.com/ebk
We broke up cause I was unavailable too much. If I continue to not be there she will be right in her action of breaking up. I have to be there as much as possible
Coach, you've done it again. Brilliant!
27 days since I last saw him and spoke to him. It hits a nerve from Coach Lee saying how they dumped us and in their tiny brains, they're better than us. My ex is a body builder that uses many drugs that got him his physique and uses many others to keep it. I remember feeling insecure because I had gained some weight but he'd always assure me I was beautiful and he loved what I thought was horrid....I hate to think he lied. It makes me nauseas thinking he left me for some flusie because she was fit....😪
friskies89, I highly recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you. It's excellent and it will help you. It has EVERYTHING in it including strategies for every situation
myexbackcoach.com/ebk
@@jannlewandowski5540 I will look into this. Thank you for sharing this with me. 🫂