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I can't afford the 90 day I wish I could .but ty for all the learnings ...he hasn't responded .when I said can I be honest with you I have shame and guilt trying to guilt you in your decisions towards me ...I lefted it at that ...
You've heard the phrase 'stereotypes exist for a reason'? Beliefs do too. If a woman is showing masculine energy it's probably because she's been hurt, probably repeatedly. by men she's given everything to. It's hard to unlearn what circumstances teach us even though they don't apply to every man out there. I'm sorry 😔. Trauma is real
Fully agree! And a strong and good man brings out the feminine in every woman ❤ and let's her get over the trauma of abuse. Because he is there to protect her, to give her the safe space she never had, where she does not have to be afraid to be taken advantage of.
Yes trauma is very real. It takes a lot of time and self discovery and love for ourselves, but I am hoping there is someway for healthy men to come into my life....lots of caution and patience . I pray the trust will come .
Wow 5 % and I found one it was a horrible experience. Now I’m with a guys younger and a lot more masculine and I receiving all the love all the care I a very feminine way
This receiving discussion…wow. I didn’t mother him, I pushed him away. Working on healing this deep childhood wound. I was taught so many dysfunctional things Thanks
I never new about Féminine Energy / Male Energy. Reciever / Giver ❤❤ I am trying to feel worthy. I did everything for every man. I had no idea I was sabataging my relationships. Thank you.
If she feels safe n doesn't settle for less, all of the given factors no matter her history, would be in place .... if she must fake the given points means the man isn't worth it anyway.... it's the vibe ..... don't live in insecurities ladies no matter ur age, that you might have to spend ur entire life alone..... it's better to be alone than to live with a weak man..... A strong man no matter what you portray will always look through you, read ur insecurities, ask you to be urself as he reassures you he is safe n ur home n u can automatically love him, trust him n be ur vulnerable self
Yep. I've never listened to this channel before but it sure seems sexist and like it's filled with instructions to dance around in submission for your man, adoring his every move, praising him for every little thing... praise will happen naturally, love will happen naturally...fun and respect will happen naturally...if the man is safe and shows himself to be.
I love your channel! I love relaxing, receiving & enjoying. I love flowing in my feminine in my marriage of 17 years. My husband is strongly in his healthy masculine. (Thank you, Jesus.) We've made our share of mistakes, but it truly feels like our love for one another & magnetism grows daily. ♥️ I have a question: My husband runs a business, is the sole financial provider & does all the billing. I am a full-time homemaker. We have 2 sons. There are obviously a ton of things to do daily to keep our home/family life running smoothly. How do I stay in my feminine energy while cooking, cleaning, changing our son (who has cerebral palsy), running errands, etc? Yes, my husband helps a ton with our son, etc...but I get the impression from you that if I do those chores, I am in my masculine, unless my husband asks me to do them (?). Surely, you wouldn't expect my husband (+men who are the only $ providers) to carry 100% financial responsibilities, while also cooking for himself, doing his laundry, etc. Hmm...what are your thoughts on running a household with children while also keeping polarity alive? For most families, the concept of having meals delivered daily is unrealistic. Would love to hear your thoughts on this in a future video. ☺️ Thanks again for such a great channel! I've been sharing it. God bless! ❤
Everything you are saying is so very true. Teach women to embrace their femininity, which includes understanding and appreciating his masculinity, and allowing him to embrace who he is. Men love women who make him smile and laugh! Most important be authentic! Let him see your hidden sides.. The more you open up and share who you are, he will naturally begin to trust and open up more to you. I also think it is important that women understand how to receive compliments. It is really important to validate that compliment, so if he says, "Oh my gosh., you are so beautiful" We need to acknowledge and say thank you, even when we want to say "oh i look this way or that way" ..Men Do NOT like that!! and I think it makes them feel rejected when we have a hard time accepting compliments!! because in essence when we act that way., we make them feel foolish and question what he is seeing. That is my belief, and has been my experience, I met the love of my life when I was 49 and he was 33 we have been together for 10 years and married for 7!! My second marriage after 17 yrs. with first. and this is his first ...I'm 59 he is 43! it is magic! Thanks for letting me share! Although men do love to be surprised too!
Thank you so much. This video allready helped Me get back in touch with My feminine after working really hard the last few weeks. Working hard always put Me more in My masculine and I feel how it affects My relationship. Listen this this I reached out sharing how much I appreciate him and also sharing My feelings. It took down the wall and I feel His heart again. This is beautiful. I’m looking forward to learning more.
No.... In my 20s I had the mentality that I didn't really like guys..... But they didn't care! 😂 Looks trumps 😅all. Now I love my man and happily married. If you're a pretty girl.... And decently nice in general.... Guys will do whatever for you. Life is not fair but true❤
I appreciate your channel and content..Excellent. Thank you 😊❤ I'm practicing 😂😂 I ask guys at work for help all the time..Especially the guys who have major crushes on me. I don't feel the same so it's easy. Lol When I really like a guy it's much harder not to do for him once I see him doing for me. I understand I have to support him with my female heart.
My man cheated on me 💔 and I am trying to rebuild our relationship.After all we have been married 24years now. And I am 70 years old now, not wanting to begin with someone new.
I have asked several healthy masculine men if they are good with a woman not giving back in the relationship like a massage, cooking or encouragement & they ALL said they would not have a woman that doesn’t give because then she is a piece of furniture in his life. They went on to say they feel like your wife has you right where she wants you because you are doing all the giving. She doesn’t have to cook, or give to you. I sent them all your video. I think you started out from the right place, but you have taken it too far by telling women to not give to their man. I mentioned this before to you & you hold fast to your beliefs. Women give in different ways but none the less they need to give to a man. Men have needs too.
Yes many men may enjoy those things (especially more feminine men) but even masculine men occasionally the key is if he ASKS for those things or if you are just giving them on your own
It seems hypocritical to use scripted material in a troubled relationship… especially when you’re evoking transparency and vulnerability from your partner.
Think of it more as training wheels or guidelines to help you to interact from your feminine just as if you were learning a new language (which you are)
Wow you can’t give a gift ? You can not cook a meal ? What kind of relationship this is ???? This video is making my brain explode !!!! So if you are traveling to a foreign country and you bring little gifts that is masculine ????? If the guy is in your house and he is hungry and you make a quick food is that masculine ?????? Mind blowing
No it's feminine if he asked/lead you to do those things or if you asked if he wanted those things and he said yes. However anticipating his needs and giving to him without him asking is masculine/mothering behavior. It's also important to watch the overall balance in the relationship if you are giving or receiving more. Hope that helps!
I also don’t understand this. Where is basic respect. If I am hungry and I have others in my home including a significant other, I am going to offer them food. I am not going to make something for myself and not say something. Who does this? There are basic courtesies that go into being with people. Yes, can people start taking you for granted. Yes, we are all human and terribly flawed. I think the key is communication and the desire to care and love another person. We have to personally make the decision everyday to show up for another person. It’s all a personal choice.
If you can find the right guy early on, you're golden. Good relationships are a one and done thing. If your first one didn't work out, you will never find another. You won't trust anyone else enough.
It seems to me you are saying change who you are as a woman, and cater to the man. Women are nurturers by nature, and you're saying Don't nuture men. It's so much you want us to change. Women want to be respected too. I'm just going to be my genuine self. I feel there's somebody for everybody, and there will be a man out there who will appreciate my genuine self.
Your not GETTING it, booboo. Of course women should be respected. Your genuine self is probably clueless because you believe the nazi feminist, demonic agendas.
This was my ex. Was too sexual in the beginning of relationship. He knew I loved Christ. I gave him a chance. 6 month relationship but didn't sleep with him. He bolted and never spoke to me again.
The men’s wants be treated like a king 👑 but about the Queen 🤴 the men’s don’t give a dam about that I know for fact because I have a husband he don’t care about me went I give him everything 😢😢😢😢
Don't buy this at all! A strong man respects, a strong woman. I don't think a woman needs to rely on a man for problem solving. The relationship needs to be focused as a team. Both need to be supportive, one to the other, clear communications
The last one is where I have trouble respect I give him full respect. I treat him like a king said so by him and what does he do he disrespects me in public, trying to talk to other women and show that he likes them that it's very disrespectful. I'm not one of those women that can turn her face and look the other way like it's he is being OK. It is not OK.
@@misamisa2677 the video says this is what a woman has to do to make a man melt like butter. it does not say anything about how a man needs to treat a woman.
In the beginning of my relationship with my husband i thought i had to wait on him hand and foot food made when he got home clothes laid out for work clean after him etc. one day he snapped at me and told me to stop i wasnt his mother, that he would ASK me for what he needs when he needs it. I clean no matter what other than that if my husband doesn't open his mouth to me hes hungry or if i can get him some clothes ready i dont lift a finger. The real key i think we're missing is rather than assuming so they dont ask us to do things its having a willingness to let them ask us, take THEIR que to do something for them. Sometimes they just want us to sit there and be pretty and its hard for some to just be. Even tho it sounds so superficial let your man just enjoy you being there nothing more.
My husband was the opposite, had a hissy fit if food wasn't on the table when he got home, micro managed everything etc. I'm still here 50 yrs later and we have adjusted. I didn't let him brow beat me but it are for a firey marriage.
I have so much love to give and same, it wasn't appreciated or returned and he even turned my own family against me. I lost the will to live because everything and everyone I lived for was gone. But please don't give up. I was recently contacted by an ex from highschool. One of the nicest people I ever met. There's a distance between us, but we've been texting and talking almost daily. He's even trying to plan a trip together!! We've gone separate ways and lived lifetimes apart, but he's found himself recently single. I have been able to laugh for the first time in many years.
I have been single for over 10yrs ☆ NO one helps me pay bills etc. ☆ I have only friends or hire people ☆ no family here. Dating is hard when you are a woman with their Sh☆t together ☆ I need to know how to start because I have #1 and #3 #4 #5 ☆ #2 is my weakness
#2 used to be my weakness as well. I was told I needed to be more vulnerable by an ex partner. Like you, I've been single for very long. 9 years. It was only recently when I found myself being able to be vulnerable with someone I fell for. Unfortunately he didn't feel the same way but I met someone else now and I can be vulnerable with him too. It takes practise and confidence in yourself that you're able to do but you basically have to just take the plunge with someone irrespective if whether they return your feelings or not.
They're really both the same, a masculine man doesn't want to be nurtured or mothered by you what he wants is just to be appreciated, trusted and respected and to be able to lead, give to you, solve problems and be your hero.
@@MagnetizeYourManis it mothering if you tell your guy he should wear sunscreen? Or to suggest different ways of eating for his health? I want to be helpful because I love him and want to extend his life for as long as possible. But I don’t want to mother him. That’s the last thing I want to do.
I agree with you. And I think this whole thing with masculine and feminine energy comes from a very patriarchal and conservative place. this is historical grown, there is no serious evidence for this. I think it's oldfashioned BS, sorry. I'd like to have a partner, not a leader, not a hero and not a provider. If he needs to be that, he's immature and insecure.
Thats mothering. My sister's man of 8 years told her he's lost ALL attraction towards her. She mothers him alot. We are women so it comes naturally. Just be an example & don't offer your 'help' unless he asks for it.
I would tell my ex-boyfriend he was my hero and mention times where he was king. I didn't overdo this yet he told me he didn't feel that he could be what I needed him to be. I guess it was too pressured
And one of the best things about sharing one's emotions with the man that they love and telling the man how they feel from their perspective without blaming then The man learns to communicate as well
I ran away from home at 17 because abuse from my dad but it never made me not like guys are treat other guys bad because of it but I did become my own person and took care of my self and your right a man wants to take care of a women and I couldn't do that after 15 years of marriage he felt like I did not need him ladies listen to this man he's telling the truth and I'm not going to make that mistake this time
@@werdemenschlich i couldnt answer something to him because he is so closed to me now...we see each other only for my niece when he came to see her, he s not talking something, only about her. He still bring me things, cakes, fruits, offers rides, but that s all
It is so good like the dating coaches do not say that wen should be respected , heard , not triggered etc … they just say that women must be stepping on egg shelves so the men do not feel accused , bla bla bla ! All about men
I feel like women over use that term narcissist when really he’s pissed he can’t feel a connection with his partner. Many times I’ve found the woman is the problem or as a couple the couple simply wasn’t compatible, then now he’s responding in a protective way or now he’s trying to find someone he’s feels more fulfilled with.
My husband was so guving. Befire marriage he shiwered me with a gold braceket, a diamond necklace and took me to all the historucal ruins I wanted ti go to. He gave me 5 children and the chikdren loved him. He brought home jokes or artuckes in the newspaper that made me laugh. He had me lsughing everyday. I drove him crazy. I am absent minded, socially inept, and not a great cook. The only things we had in common were politics and a great sex life. I remember our first fight. After getting into bed I turned to kiss and he said, "i thought you were mad at me." Well yes I was but my mom had said never take arguments into the bedroom. You can always resume the argument on the morning. Besides, yes I was angry but I still loved him.
Wow. This is so eye opening. My jaw hit the floor a couple times lol. This info is pure 🔥🔥. Can you please clarify why we shouldn't make dinner for him? Is it only if he asks me too? I make dinner every night for him and my boys. Is this mothering energy? Help lol!!!!
@jenntoro170 wow no wonder I'm burnt out. I work, clean,.cook..been miserable for years. He's a covert narcissist(diagnosed by 2 psychologists)whose emotionally abused me for over 20 yrs. I knew I needed to escape or I'd die from the stress and abuse. I'm currently living in my car..it's the only place that I trust at the moment and he can't find me. Our roles have been inverted since we got married..if only I had known then what I know now. I can neve get those 20 urs back. So incredibly grateful for tbis couple and look forward to joining their course. Long overdue. Curious...how do you feed your kids if it's masculine lol? He works all day then he comes home and cooks for the kids? How does that work?
Cooking is fine if he leads you to cook for him and it feels good to you, or if you asked him if he wants you to cook for him and he said yes. However, in general you still need to watch the balance if you're giving more (masculine) or receiving more (feminine) in the relationship.
If a woman isn’t supportive, encouraging, & he does all the giving then why would he stay with you? This makes the woman look like a taker only. Beautiful women are a dime a dozen! If you’re just a pretty face, he can replace you! If he can find you again…you’re replaceable! A high value man wants more than a woman who just “receives” & doesn’t give back. While it is true you must maintain polarity, relationships only work with 2 givers.
Yes a healthy masculine man doesn't care about those things, however a feminine man or other emotionally damaged men may value you more if you do things for him and give to him that he didn't ask for
I was wondering about this dynamic, too. I have heard something similar from another guy on RUclips who really sounds like he knows his stuff about dating and relationships. I am tempted to message him and see what he thinks about this information. Because it does make the woman sound as if she is a “gold digger” so to speak, or needy, or selfish to not give anything back in return other than verbal praise of the man. I never want to come across as a user. 🤷🏽♀️
Probably cheating. Definitely up to something or why hide it. 99.9% of the time they're hiding their phones, men are cheating. Without openness & trust, there's nothing. You don't need that. I'd ask to use his phone, if he refuses, I'd confront him & already be prepared to wakk away. Good luck!
This is a perfect opportunity to be very vulnerable and tell him how it makes you feel and that you feel frightened it might hurt your relationship. If he says vulnerability drives me wild this is a perfect opportunity to be vulnerable and honest with him.
you only control yourself. you do not control him. You can confront him and tell him you noticed he is texting a lot. Is there an issue in the relationship that needs to be addressed? If you believe he is lying or cheating, you cannot force him to stop. You have to decide if you are willing to tolerate the behavior. He is who is he is and you having an outburst will not change the outcome. Another woman cannot steal your man. He has to say no and be committed to you only. A true connection doesn't require you manipulating a man to be with you.
Greetings!! This is helping me on so many levels, I was NOT aware of… I APPRECIATE YOU FOR BRINGING TO MY ATTENTION!!! This is a LEARNING moment for me!!! There’s so much you’ve answering!! The man I’m interested in & he knows.., & I’ve been attracted to him for sometime… & I send texts to him sharing my feelings… he doesn’t respond, because he doesn’t like to text.. the thing is I want to share, verbally, but I’m afraid..,
My husband would get mad when I would cry and wanted a hug or wanted hear I love you, he didn' t like see his wife cry, he felt the blamed or he is wrong.
I was once out with my daughter and grandson having a coffee and was sat there chatting to my little beautiful boy and when we left a man that was sat next to us with a large group of people came up to me and said ,I was listening and watching you with your grandson and you made my heart beat that bit more and just wanted to tell you so came home told my husband and he just said creep
Jealous that another man noticed you and appreciated you. Lol. Enjoy the gentleman 's compliment!!! Just store it in your heart and take it out and let it make your heart glow, when you need it.
I've was taught ,if you want respect from anyone you need to have a high level of self respect ,you can't give what you don't have,wit men ,its how you talk ,how you react ,how you talk with others in his presence & when your alone , i was raised by 4 brothers who told me to never show fear to no one,cops ,men women ,people in authorit keep my selfrespect at all times but show no fear just cuz I'm a female ,staying smart & sharp even though im a female ,guys dont pick sharp females to as targets ! Always be a lady & never drink with men alone & if you do dont drink to get drunk ,
I love this video - got some opening up to do. However I am showing my inner self, having a complete life (as I believe 100/100, not 50/50 is the way to be in a relationship) & always being natural around him. I appreciate him more than I have ever appreciated someone in my life & he has so much value, I fully respect him & he has my full trust. Besides Jesus he is the 1 I can see myself spend eternity with. ❤❤❤
It is still very hard 7 years post divorce ( I was the superwoman 😥) and being single, to surrender to feminine energy but I am working on it. I come from a very martriachal upbringing, all the women in my family are very strong, independent and breadwinners. My dad, poor guy went out early aged 53 from heart attack. Even my mum at 81, after a couple of unsuccessful relationships, now very happy single and is still active running charities etc and have an entourage to carry out her orders. Some days I am ok with vulnerability but spiritual attacks are still rife so I am still learning about nurturing my feminine energy and walk in the path of a queen. I do however, feel that a man must be conscious of energy because if they vibrate lower than me, they're not for me.
I was young in the era of womens lib so all of this is, to me, rather chauvinistic and if I were to behave like this I would lose my self respect. Also I would lose respect for a man who is so immature that he needs this kind of treatment. It s very interesting indeed. I can't imagine behaving like this.
We are in the process of getting divorced after 10 years of perfectly happy marriage. The cause was a fight manipulated by his daughter and my husband's medical condition, he suffers from myasthenia gravis, and that made him a deeply unhappy and stressful person. I still love him but I Cann't deal with his daughter anymore. What should I do?
It's a sensitive situation Kate and sorry to hear that, I'd recommend starting with our love quiz at MagnetizeYourMan.com and we can help you more directly there :)
Thank you sooo much for being so clear on everything… your AMAZING 🌟 How does this work if your guy is going through cancer & you want to help him out 🤔 still only help if he asks otherwise leave it ..can I ask … “Can I help you in anyway with anything” ???
Curious, how would you tell a man in a feminine way, you don't appreciate his consistent negative attitude/energy? Was thinking, 'I feel nervous with all the negative energy and will you help me work through this?, but not sure.
Like this: May I share something with you? (wait) I feel nervousness. (wait) because I have been noticing that you seem to be unhappy about a lot of things lately and I'm telling myself a story that something is bothering you and I'm not sure what to do...
I wouldn't say "hate" just that most masculine men don't really care about getting gifts as it subtly puts them energetically into the feminine. It also depends on the specific man and how masculine or feminine he may already be.
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I can't afford the 90 day I wish I could .but ty for all the learnings ...he hasn't responded .when I said can I be honest with you I have shame and guilt trying to guilt you in your decisions towards me ...I lefted it at that ...
You've heard the phrase 'stereotypes exist for a reason'? Beliefs do too. If a woman is showing masculine energy it's probably because she's been hurt, probably repeatedly. by men she's given everything to. It's hard to unlearn what circumstances teach us even though they don't apply to every man out there. I'm sorry 😔. Trauma is real
I agree,it's really hard to
unlearn ,what, circumstances teach us.
Fully agree!
And a strong and good man brings out the feminine in every woman ❤ and let's her get over the trauma of abuse. Because he is there to protect her, to give her the safe space she never had, where she does not have to be afraid to be taken advantage of.
It's a shame because im living in my masculine energy, and married to a weak man and I hate it.
Yes trauma is very real. It takes a lot of time and self discovery and love for ourselves, but I am hoping there is someway for healthy men to come into my life....lots of caution and patience . I pray the trust will come .
does online romance exsist??
Wow 5 % and I found one it was a horrible experience. Now I’m with a guys younger and a lot more masculine and I receiving all the love all the care I a very feminine way
This receiving discussion…wow.
I didn’t mother him, I pushed him away. Working on healing this deep childhood wound. I was taught so many dysfunctional things
Thanks
Welcome! :)
Wow that's amazing
I never new about Féminine Energy / Male Energy. Reciever / Giver ❤❤ I am trying to feel worthy. I did everything for every man. I had no idea I was sabataging my relationships. Thank you.
Welcome! :)
If she feels safe n doesn't settle for less, all of the given factors no matter her history, would be in place .... if she must fake the given points means the man isn't worth it anyway.... it's the vibe ..... don't live in insecurities ladies no matter ur age, that you might have to spend ur entire life alone..... it's better to be alone than to live with a weak man..... A strong man no matter what you portray will always look through you, read ur insecurities, ask you to be urself as he reassures you he is safe n ur home n u can automatically love him, trust him n be ur vulnerable self
Yep. I've never listened to this channel before but it sure seems sexist and like it's filled with instructions to dance around in submission for your man, adoring his every move, praising him for every little thing... praise will happen naturally, love will happen naturally...fun and respect will happen naturally...if the man is safe and shows himself to be.
Your podcast is the best. I am older widow and I am learning so much from you, thank you! You really have a ministry to us ladies!
I love your channel!
I love relaxing, receiving & enjoying.
I love flowing in my feminine in my marriage of 17 years.
My husband is strongly in his healthy masculine.
(Thank you, Jesus.)
We've made our share of mistakes, but it truly feels like our love for one another & magnetism grows daily. ♥️
I have a question:
My husband runs a business, is the sole financial provider & does all the billing.
I am a full-time homemaker.
We have 2 sons.
There are obviously a ton of things to do daily to keep our home/family life running smoothly.
How do I stay in my feminine energy while cooking, cleaning, changing our son (who has cerebral palsy), running errands, etc?
Yes, my husband helps a ton with our son, etc...but I get the impression from you that if I do those chores, I am in my masculine, unless my husband asks me to do them (?).
Surely, you wouldn't expect my husband (+men who are the only $ providers) to carry 100% financial responsibilities, while also cooking for himself, doing his laundry, etc.
Hmm...what are your thoughts on running a household with children while also keeping polarity alive? For most families, the concept of having meals delivered daily is unrealistic.
Would love to hear your thoughts on this in a future video. ☺️
Thanks again for such a great channel! I've been sharing it. God bless! ❤
Great information thank you so much! 🙏
A lot of new insights.
I am a giver have been all my life. Time to change that!!
You are so welcome!
Thank you so much.
I really appreciate this video.
Please keep making them.
You are helping me a lot.
Glad you like them!
Everything you are saying is so very true. Teach women to embrace their femininity, which includes understanding and appreciating his masculinity, and allowing him to embrace who he is. Men love women who make him smile and laugh! Most important be authentic! Let him see your hidden sides.. The more you open up and share who you are, he will naturally begin to trust and open up more to you. I also think it is important that women understand how to receive compliments. It is really important to validate that compliment, so if he says, "Oh my gosh., you are so beautiful" We need to acknowledge and say thank you, even when we want to say "oh i look this way or that way" ..Men Do NOT like that!! and I think it makes them feel rejected when we have a hard time accepting compliments!! because in essence when we act that way., we make them feel foolish and question what he is seeing. That is my belief, and has been my experience, I met the love of my life when I was 49 and he was 33 we have been together for 10 years and married for 7!! My second marriage after 17 yrs. with first. and this is his first ...I'm 59 he is 43! it is magic! Thanks for letting me share! Although men do love to be surprised too!
Thank you so much. This video allready helped Me get back in touch with My feminine after working really hard the last few weeks. Working hard always put Me more in My masculine and I feel how it affects My relationship. Listen this this I reached out sharing how much I appreciate him and also sharing My feelings. It took down the wall and I feel His heart again. This is beautiful. I’m looking forward to learning more.
Great to hear! :)
She said "HIS FACE TURNS RED" when she speaks to him. What should SHE do?
Wow you are amazing thanks new subscriber here!!!!
Welcome and great to have you here! :)
No.... In my 20s I had the mentality that I didn't really like guys..... But they didn't care! 😂 Looks trumps 😅all. Now I love my man and happily married. If you're a pretty girl.... And decently nice in general.... Guys will do whatever for you. Life is not fair but true❤
I appreciate your channel and content..Excellent. Thank you 😊❤ I'm practicing 😂😂 I ask guys at work for help all the time..Especially the guys who have major crushes on me. I don't feel the same so it's easy. Lol When I really like a guy it's much harder not to do for him once I see him doing for me. I understand I have to support him with my female heart.
I have gave everything to this relationship and got nothing back .So I can take it no more.😮It been yr now and I care for him so much.
Same here. God will heal your heart. Only court a man who sincerely loves the Lord and is intentional.
@@danilaroche1156 I will try and find someone.Thank you .
Can you ask a question like this: don’t you ever want to be loved again in your life?
My man cheated on me 💔 and I am trying to rebuild our relationship.After all we have been married 24years now. And I am 70 years old now, not wanting to begin with someone new.
Sorry to hear that Barbara and yes we can help! :)
Thank you this is so helpful💕 maybe he pulled away because i tried to lead the communication
You’re welcome 😊
Great stuff…. What is the info to get your coaching? Thank uou
Good teaching
Glad you like it!
Thank you :)
Welcome!
So what do you do if you want to give them something like for birthday or something like surprise party
Give him a book. No parties if he's not your spouse.
I have asked several healthy masculine men if they are good with a woman not giving back in the relationship like a massage, cooking or encouragement & they ALL said they would not have a woman that doesn’t give because then she is a piece of furniture in his life. They went on to say they feel like your wife has you right where she wants you because you are doing all the giving. She doesn’t have to cook, or give to you. I sent them all your video. I think you started out from the right place, but you have taken it too far by telling women to not give to
their man. I mentioned this before to you & you hold fast to your beliefs. Women give in different ways but none the less they need to give to a man. Men have needs too.
Yes many men may enjoy those things (especially more feminine men) but even masculine men occasionally the key is if he ASKS for those things or if you are just giving them on your own
You keep talking! But what is the Five
So bias giving to a man that tells him that he can't do it himself?
I don't know whose comment this is but it's not mine.
Can you tell him you miss him
Omg i just texedd im feeling sad i dont know what to do he responded in two seconds .now what I said work is unstable.
It seems hypocritical to use scripted material in a troubled relationship… especially when you’re evoking transparency and vulnerability from your partner.
Think of it more as training wheels or guidelines to help you to interact from your feminine just as if you were learning a new language (which you are)
What if he wants u to tell him what you're doing yet don't want you to text or call all the time.
Tell him in a calm way you need alone time. Your busy. He's not your spouse. He needs to chill. Don't be intimidated.
DAMN I NEEDED TO WATCH THIS!!!!🎉❤
Wow you can’t give a gift ? You can not cook a meal ? What kind of relationship this is ???? This video is making my brain explode !!!! So if you are traveling to a foreign country and you bring little gifts that is masculine ????? If the guy is in your house and he is hungry and you make a quick food is that masculine ?????? Mind blowing
No it's feminine if he asked/lead you to do those things or if you asked if he wanted those things and he said yes. However anticipating his needs and giving to him without him asking is masculine/mothering behavior. It's also important to watch the overall balance in the relationship if you are giving or receiving more. Hope that helps!
I also don’t understand this. Where is basic respect. If I am hungry and I have others in my home including a significant other, I am going to offer them food. I am not going to make something for myself and not say something. Who does this? There are basic courtesies that go into being with people. Yes, can people start taking you for granted. Yes, we are all human and terribly flawed. I think the key is communication and the desire to care and love another person. We have to personally make the decision everyday to show up for another person. It’s all a personal choice.
If you can find the right guy early on, you're golden. Good relationships are a one and done thing. If your first one didn't work out, you will never find another. You won't trust anyone else enough.
Taking away the dream - sad - don’t believe-
It seems to me you are saying change who you are as a woman, and cater to the man. Women are nurturers by nature, and you're saying Don't nuture men. It's so much you want us to change. Women want to be respected too. I'm just going to be my genuine self. I feel there's somebody for everybody, and there will be a man out there who will appreciate my genuine self.
Your not GETTING it, booboo. Of course women should be respected. Your genuine self is probably clueless because you believe the nazi feminist, demonic agendas.
Why throw shade on someone for sharing their opinion? All negativity you throw out comes back to you double. Be kind to everyone.
How should a godly woman respond when a man is very sexual at the beginning? Give him a chance because it might be a test or write him off?
Aren’t we supposed to have boundaries while still keeping it light and fun?
This was my ex. Was too sexual in the beginning of relationship. He knew I loved Christ. I gave him a chance. 6 month relationship but didn't sleep with him. He bolted and never spoke to me again.
The Bible even says: women respect your husband and men, love your wife. » The Lord knows that!
And a narcissist man will attempt to destroy every one of these qualities in their partner.
Body, that was in the 60s& 70s, we are no longer waiting for "a" man . Women brains are no longer subdue, and our minds are as good. Sorry!
There are guys don’t like women just receiving lol
This is the most nonsense I’ve ever heard. I just learned today I am not settling for a man anymore I need a cat, they will also adore me
The men’s wants be treated like a king 👑 but about the Queen 🤴 the men’s don’t give a dam about that I know for fact because I have a husband he don’t care about me went I give him everything 😢😢😢😢
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Don't buy this at all! A strong man respects, a strong woman. I don't think a woman needs to rely on a man for problem solving. The relationship needs to be focused as a team. Both need to be supportive, one to the other, clear communications
So basically you're saying that. If you're strong independent woman that turns me off really bye. Bye.
Ohhhh stretch it out why dont you..yawn yawn
🤢🤮 who cares?
1. appreciate men. 2. vulnerability is a strength and not a weakness. 3. I receive. 4. having fun. 5. Trust and respect
....As long as he is not emotionally immature, and a basic Narcissist.
The last one is where I have trouble respect I give him full respect. I treat him like a king said so by him and what does he do he disrespects me in public, trying to talk to other women and show that he likes them that it's very disrespectful. I'm not one of those women that can turn her face and look the other way like it's he is being OK. It is not OK.
@@misamisa2677 the video says this is what a woman has to do to make a man melt like butter. it does not say anything about how a man needs to treat a woman.
Thank you for saving me an hour I will never get back😂
@@misamisa2677this is addressed at about 14:00
In the beginning of my relationship with my husband i thought i had to wait on him hand and foot food made when he got home clothes laid out for work clean after him etc. one day he snapped at me and told me to stop i wasnt his mother, that he would ASK me for what he needs when he needs it. I clean no matter what other than that if my husband doesn't open his mouth to me hes hungry or if i can get him some clothes ready i dont lift a finger. The real key i think we're missing is rather than assuming so they dont ask us to do things its having a willingness to let them ask us, take THEIR que to do something for them. Sometimes they just want us to sit there and be pretty and its hard for some to just be. Even tho it sounds so superficial let your man just enjoy you being there nothing more.
Going on 13 years now
Yes totally, great points and great share! :)
Love this
My husband was the opposite, had a hissy fit if food wasn't on the table when he got home, micro managed everything etc. I'm still here 50 yrs later and we have adjusted. I didn't let him brow beat me but it are for a firey marriage.
I was with an narcissist and still just the thought of having a man taking care of me, makes me cry because I was in so many crumbs
I have so much love to give and same, it wasn't appreciated or returned and he even turned my own family against me. I lost the will to live because everything and everyone I lived for was gone.
But please don't give up. I was recently contacted by an ex from highschool. One of the nicest people I ever met. There's a distance between us, but we've been texting and talking almost daily. He's even trying to plan a trip together!! We've gone separate ways and lived lifetimes apart, but he's found himself recently single. I have been able to laugh for the first time in many years.
I rather be respected and heard than “adored” .
Thank you!!!
For sure
Yes!
I just want to be emotionally safe. More than the rest.
My man is a great man, he says I'm his everything and he wants to marry me, our relationship is amazing ❤❤❤
Awesome!
Thank you so much ❤️
I honestly thought it was me for a second who wrote this til I seen it wasn't my name ,, I'm exactly the same ❤️
2:23 @@boredweegie553
So why are you here listening ti advice?
I personally would be scared if a man only said things I’d like to hear.
I have been single for over 10yrs ☆ NO one helps me pay bills etc. ☆ I have only friends or hire people ☆ no family here. Dating is hard when you are a woman with their Sh☆t together ☆ I need to know how to start because I have #1 and #3 #4 #5 ☆ #2 is my weakness
#2 used to be my weakness as well. I was told I needed to be more vulnerable by an ex partner. Like you, I've been single for very long. 9 years. It was only recently when I found myself being able to be vulnerable with someone I fell for. Unfortunately he didn't feel the same way but I met someone else now and I can be vulnerable with him too. It takes practise and confidence in yourself that you're able to do but you basically have to just take the plunge with someone irrespective if whether they return your feelings or not.
Sometimes, I get confused about the difference between mothering and being nurturing. Isn't mothering being nurturing? Is mothering more bossy?
They're really both the same, a masculine man doesn't want to be nurtured or mothered by you what he wants is just to be appreciated, trusted and respected and to be able to lead, give to you, solve problems and be your hero.
@@MagnetizeYourManis it mothering if you tell your guy he should wear sunscreen? Or to suggest different ways of eating for his health?
I want to be helpful because I love him and want to extend his life for as long as possible. But I don’t want to mother him. That’s the last thing I want to do.
I agree with you. And I think this whole thing with masculine and feminine energy comes from a very patriarchal and conservative place. this is historical grown, there is no serious evidence for this. I think it's oldfashioned BS, sorry. I'd like to have a partner, not a leader, not a hero and not a provider. If he needs to be that, he's immature and insecure.
@@blackeneddove Yes
Thats mothering. My sister's man of 8 years told her he's lost ALL attraction towards her. She mothers him alot. We are women so it comes naturally. Just be an example & don't offer your 'help' unless he asks for it.
When I read your affirmations to elevate us give me so much release. You should make a video of affirmation for women. Thank you for what you do.
I would tell my ex-boyfriend he was my hero and mention times where he was king. I didn't overdo this yet he told me he didn't feel that he could be what I needed him to be. I guess it was too pressured
Dammed if you do, damned if you don't.... Men are confusing.
You slept with him and he got confused.
How does a divorced woman stay in her feminine energy since she now has to be independent?
By using feminine communication and many of the principles and tools we will teach you: MagnetizeYourMan.com
And one of the best things about sharing one's emotions with the man that they love and telling the man how they feel from their perspective without blaming then The man learns to communicate as well
Totally
Love this! Soooo helpful Brody. Thank you. I didn't think I needed this video. But I did. I have definitely been a turtle alot in my life.
You're so welcome!
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I ran away from home at 17 because abuse from my dad but it never made me not like guys are treat other guys bad because of it but I did become my own person and took care of my self and your right a man wants to take care of a women and I couldn't do that after 15 years of marriage he felt like I did not need him ladies listen to this man he's telling the truth and I'm not going to make that mistake this time
Mine told me that he left me because i didnt let hom take care of me.
@@lorenzaicha😢thats so sad...for both of you Guys..what did you answer to that?❤
@@werdemenschlich i couldnt answer something to him because he is so closed to me now...we see each other only for my niece when he came to see her, he s not talking something, only about her. He still bring me things, cakes, fruits, offers rides, but that s all
It is so good like the dating coaches do not say that wen should be respected , heard , not triggered etc … they just say that women must be stepping on egg shelves so the men do not feel accused , bla bla bla ! All about men
I feel like women over use that term narcissist when really he’s pissed he can’t feel a connection with his partner. Many times I’ve found the woman is the problem or as a couple the couple simply wasn’t compatible, then now he’s responding in a protective way or now he’s trying to find someone he’s feels more fulfilled with.
My husband was so guving. Befire marriage he shiwered me with a gold braceket, a diamond necklace and took me to all the historucal ruins I wanted ti go to. He gave me 5 children and the chikdren loved him. He brought home jokes or artuckes in the newspaper that made me laugh. He had me lsughing everyday. I drove him crazy. I am absent minded, socially inept, and not a great cook.
The only things we had in common were politics and a great sex life. I remember our first fight. After getting into bed I turned to kiss and he said, "i thought you were mad at me." Well yes I was but my mom had said never take arguments into the bedroom. You can always resume the argument on the morning. Besides, yes I was angry but I still loved him.
@@kathryncookingham7590 sounds perfect but why all in past tense ?
Wow. This is so eye opening. My jaw hit the floor a couple times lol. This info is pure 🔥🔥. Can you please clarify why we shouldn't make dinner for him? Is it only if he asks me too? I make dinner every night for him and my boys. Is this mothering energy? Help lol!!!!
This may be culture specific too
Maybe it is because it is "wifey" duty. Don't pull "wife duty" unless you are made wifey (commitment/married).
He says cooking is masculine energy
@jenntoro170 wow no wonder I'm burnt out. I work, clean,.cook..been miserable for years. He's a covert narcissist(diagnosed by 2 psychologists)whose emotionally abused me for over 20 yrs. I knew I needed to escape or I'd die from the stress and abuse. I'm currently living in my car..it's the only place that I trust at the moment and he can't find me. Our roles have been inverted since we got married..if only I had known then what I know now. I can neve get those 20 urs back. So incredibly grateful for tbis couple and look forward to joining their course. Long overdue. Curious...how do you feed your kids if it's masculine lol? He works all day then he comes home and cooks for the kids? How does that work?
Cooking is fine if he leads you to cook for him and it feels good to you, or if you asked him if he wants you to cook for him and he said yes. However, in general you still need to watch the balance if you're giving more (masculine) or receiving more (feminine) in the relationship.
If a woman isn’t supportive, encouraging, & he does all the giving then why would he stay with you? This makes the woman look like a taker only. Beautiful women are a dime a dozen! If you’re just a pretty face, he can replace you! If he can find you again…you’re replaceable! A high value man wants more than a woman who just “receives” & doesn’t give back. While it is true you must maintain polarity, relationships only work with 2 givers.
Yes a healthy masculine man doesn't care about those things, however a feminine man or other emotionally damaged men may value you more if you do things for him and give to him that he didn't ask for
I was wondering about this dynamic, too. I have heard something similar from another guy on RUclips who really sounds like he knows his stuff about dating and relationships. I am tempted to message him and see what he thinks about this information. Because it does make the woman sound as if she is a “gold digger” so to speak, or needy, or selfish to not give anything back in return other than verbal praise of the man. I never want to come across as a user. 🤷🏽♀️
@@blackeneddoveexactly
50/50
You give back by being warm and supportive. You don't pay for meals and give him gifts if he's not your spouse.
Thank you for your great advice!
Glad it was helpful!
My man is texting a lot and he seems to be hiding his phone from me
If you can't trust him you don't need him, let him go and find someone new
Probably cheating. Definitely up to something or why hide it. 99.9% of the time they're hiding their phones, men are cheating.
Without openness & trust, there's nothing. You don't need that. I'd ask to use his phone, if he refuses, I'd confront him & already be prepared to wakk away. Good luck!
This is a perfect opportunity to be very vulnerable and tell him how it makes you feel and that you feel frightened it might hurt your relationship. If he says vulnerability drives me wild this is a perfect opportunity to be vulnerable and honest with him.
you only control yourself. you do not control him. You can confront him and tell him you noticed he is texting a lot. Is there an issue in the relationship that needs to be addressed? If you believe he is lying or cheating, you cannot force him to stop. You have to decide if you are willing to tolerate the behavior. He is who is he is and you having an outburst will not change the outcome. Another woman cannot steal your man. He has to say no and be committed to you only. A true connection doesn't require you manipulating a man to be with you.
Greetings!! This is helping me on so many levels, I was NOT aware of… I APPRECIATE YOU FOR BRINGING TO MY ATTENTION!!! This is a LEARNING moment for me!!! There’s so much you’ve answering!! The man I’m interested in & he knows.., & I’ve been attracted to him for sometime… & I send texts to him sharing my feelings… he doesn’t respond, because he doesn’t like to text.. the thing is I want to share, verbally, but I’m afraid..,
My husband would get mad when I would cry and wanted a hug or wanted hear I love you, he didn' t like see his wife cry, he felt the blamed or he is wrong.
Sounds like dismissive avoidant.
@@LorenaBerrenbaum yep.
Sounds insecure. Pray on this and know you can always cry to the Lord. Unfortunately most men can't deal with our emotions.
I miss my fiancé so much
It’s the first time I am in love with a professional person
Please help me to give him his spy
I mean space
I was once out with my daughter and grandson having a coffee and was sat there chatting to my little beautiful boy and when we left a man that was sat next to us with a large group of people came up to me and said ,I was listening and watching you with your grandson and you made my heart beat that bit more and just wanted to tell you so came home told my husband and he just said creep
Jealous that another man noticed you and appreciated you. Lol. Enjoy the gentleman 's compliment!!! Just store it in your heart and take it out and let it make your heart glow, when you need it.
Too many flipping ads on this! I get about monetisation but pls!
Yeah i don't trust him. He's always been a player.
What is on your nose? Shiny on the left (?) side?
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I've was taught ,if you want respect from anyone you need to have a high level of self respect ,you can't give what you don't have,wit men ,its how you talk ,how you react ,how you talk with others in his presence & when your alone , i was raised by 4 brothers who told me to never show fear to no one,cops ,men women ,people in authorit keep my selfrespect at all times but show no fear just cuz I'm a female ,staying smart & sharp even though im a female ,guys dont pick
sharp females to as targets ! Always be a lady & never drink with men alone & if you do dont drink to get drunk ,
I really appreciate and enjoyed watching this. And yes, and amen to the prayer declaration in Jesus name 😊
Glad you enjoyed it!
I love this video - got some opening up to do. However I am showing my inner self, having a complete life (as I believe 100/100, not 50/50 is the way to be in a relationship) & always being natural around him. I appreciate him more than I have ever appreciated someone in my life & he has so much value, I fully respect him & he has my full trust. Besides Jesus he is the 1 I can see myself spend eternity with. ❤❤❤
awe thank you so much for the prayer 🥰 so very kind
Welcome Kelley! :)
It is still very hard 7 years post divorce ( I was the superwoman 😥) and being single, to surrender to feminine energy but I am working on it. I come from a very martriachal upbringing, all the women in my family are very strong, independent and breadwinners. My dad, poor guy went out early aged 53 from heart attack. Even my mum at 81, after a couple of unsuccessful relationships, now very happy single and is still active running charities etc and have an entourage to carry out her orders. Some days I am ok with vulnerability but spiritual attacks are still rife so I am still learning about nurturing my feminine energy and walk in the path of a queen. I do however, feel that a man must be conscious of energy because if they vibrate lower than me, they're not for me.
If a woman is working full time, she's in masculine mode at work. So she needs to have time to unwind after work and get back into her feminine mode
Great content! Thank you 🙏
Glad you liked it!
I was young in the era of womens lib so all of this is, to me, rather chauvinistic and if I were to behave like this I would lose my self respect. Also I would lose respect for a man who is so immature that he needs this kind of treatment. It s very interesting indeed. I can't imagine behaving like this.
You youngins are wildin.
After 40 years we have settled in silence.
The man I love said his intentions for me are honorable, and that he didn't want to take advantage of me. Then he cut me off. What's up?
We are in the process of getting divorced after 10 years of perfectly happy marriage. The cause was a fight manipulated by his daughter and my husband's medical condition, he suffers from myasthenia gravis, and that made him a deeply unhappy and stressful person. I still love him but I Cann't deal with his daughter anymore. What should I do?
It's a sensitive situation Kate and sorry to hear that, I'd recommend starting with our love quiz at MagnetizeYourMan.com and we can help you more directly there :)
Don't allow his daughter to break up marriage. The devil is using her. This is spiritual warfare. Turn to Christ.
Why does a woman have to do things to appease men. How about just liking the woman for who she is. This is BS
Thank you sooo much for being so clear on everything… your AMAZING 🌟
How does this work if your guy is going through cancer & you want to help him out 🤔 still only help if he asks otherwise leave it ..can I ask … “Can I help you in anyway with anything” ???
Yes that's fine to ask
Thank you for asking this question. ❤ I pray your guy is doing well all things considered.
Too complicated no one is that perfect 👌
Thank you so much for your prayers. May Our Lord bless you and keep you the way you are.
A lady from Québec, Canada
how do I ask him to call me? ❤
May I ask for a phone call?
Now, seriously, what are you smoking over there ? 😳
The men I’ve known aren’t like that. It would be nice.
Curious, how would you tell a man in a feminine way, you don't appreciate his consistent negative attitude/energy?
Was thinking, 'I feel nervous with all the negative energy and will you help me work through this?, but not sure.
Like this: May I share something with you? (wait) I feel nervousness. (wait) because I have been noticing that you seem to be unhappy about a lot of things lately and I'm telling myself a story that something is bothering you and I'm not sure what to do...
@@MagnetizeYourMan Thank you! I appreciate it!
He sounds like he's oppressed. Is he a believer? A follower of Christ? I had a boyfriend like this and he lost his mind.
Is there a private email or link where I can ask privately something 🥺 please
Yes at our website: MagnetizeYourMan.com
thank you
Welcome! :)
Come on, not all men are worth it.
I CLAIM 💘 IT
Thankyou for your words of spiritual wisdom ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Welcome!
So does that mean men hate getting Christmas and Birthday gifts from the women in their life?
I wouldn't say "hate" just that most masculine men don't really care about getting gifts as it subtly puts them energetically into the feminine. It also depends on the specific man and how masculine or feminine he may already be.
Amen I receive this prayer in Jesus name. I am single, I am looking for a right marriage life partner. Thank you for your prayer 😊