I still don't understand the "what do you expect, it's the internet" defense of people being awful. I prefer the "treat others as you wish to be treated" online or off.
I think you’re doing a great job of fostering open-minded discussion of different ideas. We just need to ignore the nonsense comments and keep moving forward with real discussion. When someone makes a nonsense comment, simply reply, ‘nonsense’
"People are wonderful. I love individuals. I hate groups of people. I hate a group of people with a 'common purpose'. 'Cause pretty soon they have little hats. And armbands. And fight songs. And a list of people they're going to visit at 3am. So, I dislike and despise groups of people but I love individuals. Every person you look at; you can see the universe in their eyes, if you're really looking." - George Carlin
Though I agree with the quote you referenced, the opposite idea was expressed by Russian author Fyodor Dostoevsky: “It’s seems that to my amazement, the more I love mankind, the more I despise man in particular” - I am paraphrasing
Please let's not perpetuate "them vs us" thinking. It's one of mankind's biggest problems, imo. Society will be made of groups for time immemorial. Motorcycle enthusiasts, gardeners, science buffs, psychology... The trick is to accept and allow groups and only challenge them when they have actual facts wrong and especially when they are stepping on other people's toes, which sounds like what you're doing. You're always going to find groups of people with different values than you but rarely fundamental values like all ppl smile, laugh, love, aspire, etc. If you think you're too different from the other, you're perpetuating "them vs us". Them vs us is valid in contexts where rights are being violated.
I've always said that I hate masses and love individuals. If only the masses were aware of their own potential, instead of letting themselves be pushed and shoved.
I think it's also the praise of us as children for being obedient, quiet, and following rules. The disobedient children get scolded or punished. But obedience without discernment is never a good thing. That ought to be introduced in those early years as well.
@@JavohirXR of course not. Encouraging good kids to speak up and speak out when they have a valid reason to disagree has nothing to do with kids who bully others. That's usually rooted in insecurity and lack of compassion...entirely different problem to resolve.
I think this is often an overlooked thing. The video claims that we're hard-wired to conform, or even want to be in a group. But, I think that's not true. We're often raised/taught to be that way and a person can conditioned/relearn to be the opposite of that.
@@lake5044 I think so. I saw an article the other day that said 28% of usa households are single person households. That seemed high to me even though I live alone, but if we were all so hard wired to be in groups I'd think pretty much everyone would be living with others. We probably lean towards larger or smaller groups depending on the size family we grew up in but out of familiarity, not hard wiring. I do think there is some aspect to it but that aspect is manipulated via marketing and pitted against the fear of being alone or missing out which heightens biased group based choices. For example best seller lists. That just means a lot of people bought something, no statement whatsoever that it's good or bad. But it's a common selling point and does work on a lot of people.
@@HappinessinYourLife Yeah you're right. Plus, people claim so many things to be "human nature" with no proof whatsoever. Did anyone compare someone who was conditioned to believe being alone is better and someone who wasn't and found that both hate being alone? A lot of people don't want to admit they prefer being alone so that they're not judged by others to be "weird". Also, it's not exactly familiarity but rather what conviction your brain holds. For example, if two people both lived with a large family in their childhood but one hated it and one loved it, the one who hated it is more likely to prefer smaller groups than the other one if they attributed the bad things to the size of that family. It's all about how your brain modeled the correlation you experienced...
That's actually a great example! Ironic, but also shows their power. There's a great Adam Ruins Everything on it if people haven't seen it. ruclips.net/video/-AFn7MiJz_s/видео.html
Also i learned about this now how much we conform. Can you give few examples where we act in similar way? I also remember watching "The century of the self" documentary where through psychoanalytic study they tried to sell more cigarettes by making people smoke in gatherings? Something like that
When you’d deviate from groups with common habits, you are looked at as the black sheep. When you change your values, approach and habits based on evidence, it disorients people who want certainty in everything. They cannot handle it even if they’ve paid attention to the changes and questions you’ve been asking and juggling. There are people, who will project what they believe to the be majority view, on you, simply because they lack the courage to challenge it, even when it works against them. They project their fear of uncertainty on you, even if it holds you back. They see you take steps and actions towards what you want but they keep asking questions, without accepting the answers, because the answers don’t confirm their certainty or assumptions.
I love this! these types of conversations open up an array of flowing thoughts and even some resistance but at least the conversations exist and can be heard out loud even if just between two people
I do love the idea of a safe space for people to talk through their disagreements respectfully. It sounds so basic but I honestly can't think of a space that exists like this.
Keep looking. They’re still rare, but I’ve heard of the occasional ones such as one from a TED talk that I wish I remembered the name of. Or better yet, create your own! Find a place to meet, set some rules about hearing people out and treating each other as people first, and you should have a good start.
@@93alvbjo no It is the biggest hoax collectivists have come up it, where 51% of people can vote out the rights of all other 49%. Democracy is mob rule
Fully agreed with this one. Resisting is hard. Change is hard. To change is also about overcoming adversity. And we heard this thing about creativity in the face of adversity. So how do you progress then? Get creative. "But I don't have/don't know my talent is and it's hard" Yeah, it is hard, start creating then. Repeat that to address all the issues of not knowing/having talent. With enough repetitions, you might end up having enough skills to say that you have a talent.
There is like a major exception too this so called "people who receive a error signal when alone to long" and those are stereotypical autistic people and some phycopaths. I am such a autistic person who is quite conformable being alone for hours. Where the conflict arises is when the only realistic option is to having to listen to conformist BS on economics and what is supposed to be realistic in the near future.
Maybe you should stop feeling entitled to a woman’s body and do something about the kids who are already here. People like you will always be the problem, overpopulation will heighten and you’re upset over a clump of cells getting terminated before it’s formed into an actual baby or brought into this world
Very interesting video. I think it is EXTREMELY important to think freely no matter what it is the majority may think, because if what they think is something wrong or unethical you should be able to go against that.
Conformity is America's biggest issue right now. "Obey, shut up, dont ask questions, do what you're told, dont think for yourself" its the movies "They live" and "idiocracy" manifest into a reality.
"We can disagree and still love each other, unless your disagreement is rooted in my oppression and denial of my humanity and right to exist." James Baldwin
Even thought in some cases collective convictions or so called "social constructions" are wrong or not based on evidence, there is a reason they are there and in most cases they hold society together and prevent it from falling into chaos and self destruction.
Public shaming works. There are a lot of people who lived an unhealthy lifestyle, who got shamed into developing healthy habits and thus a better future for themselves. Unfortunately, a sense of shame is needed for this, and not everybody has it.
@@rahulmohanan2026 But in a modern globalist platform, you’ll always ‘do it together’. A bunch of loners commenting on a YT thread is like groupthink in a way right?
I want to think of a witty comment, this topic is right up my alley. Maybe something will come to me later. In the meantime; please try to accept others who have a different perspective than your own.
Sure, why bother with individual thought when you can simply follow the herd, right? After all, who needs progress when you can have the comfort of blending in seamlessly with the masses? Let's embrace the beauty of conformity, where everyone thinks the same, acts the same, and heaven forbid, questions nothing! Because who needs critical thinking skills when you can have the security of groupthink? Why bother with diverse perspectives and dissenting voices when you can just stick to the tried-and-true path of conformity? After all, history has shown us time and time again that conformity leads to the most groundbreaking innovations, said no one ever! But wait, there's more! Conformity isn't just about following the crowd, it's also about avoiding those pesky individuals who dare to question the status quo. Who needs progress when you can have the safety of stagnation? Yes, conformity, the tried-and-tested* method of ensuring that we never challenge the norm, never question authority, and certainly never make any real positive change in the world. Because, let's face it, why bother striving for progress when we can simply settle for mediocrity? So, here's to conformity, the ultimate recipe for the undoing of the world! Because who needs innovation, diversity of thought, and the courage to question when we can just follow the crowd, right off the cliff of regression! 🐑💭🚶♂🌍🤷♂ *Repeating something endlessly doesn't make it any more true.
I'm going to shower you with attention and my awareness. I'm going to give you a lot of my time. I'm going to be in physical proximity to you. I'm going to touch you, hold you, cuddle you. I'm going to try to connect with you physically, emotionally, intellectually, spiritually. I'm going to take good care of you. I'm going to care about your needs. I'm going to help you to meet your needs. I'm going to help you to survive. I'm going to shelter you from excessive suffering, fear and trauma. I'm going to have your back. I'm going to defend you and be loyal to you. I'm going to take on your agenda as my own. I'm going to make you an extension of me. I'm going to treat you as well as i would treat myself. I'm going to be happy for you when you succeed. I'm going to want for you what you most want for yourself. I'm going to sacrifice for you and work on your behalf. I'm going to support you nurture you and encourage you. I'm going to cheerlead you. I'm going to encourage your self-exploration, self-expression and self-actualization. I'm going to respect your sovereignty as a consciousness. I'm not going to try to manipulate you, control you, dominate you or exploit you. I'm going to totally accept you and never judge you. I'm going to value you for your sake and appreciate you and see your intrinsic beauty. I'm not going to need anything from you and I'm not going to make you a tool to satisfy my own needs. I'm going to respect your point of view, wanting to understand your point of view, wanting to understand you, your uniqueness, taking the time to deeply get to know you. I'm not going to force my agenda or point of view on you. I'm going to listen to you and care about your interests and share similar interests with you. I'm going to develop togetherness with you and collaborate with you. I'm going to be there for you when you're down and hopeless. I'm going to be there for you when you're lonely. I'm going to validate your feelings, sharing your emotions with you, empathizing with you. Your pain is going to be my pain. I'm going to meet you where you're at, at your developmental level. I'm going to forgive you for your mistakes. I'm going to be patient with you. I'm going to see the good in you even when you don't see the good in yourself. I'm going to be generous and kind. I'm going to give you verbal approval and praise. I'm going to compliment you on your uniqueness. I'm going to keep my promises to you. I'm going to keep my peace with you, avoid conflict with you. I'm going to tell the truth to you. You're going to be able to fully trust me and I'm never going to cash in on that trust. I'm going to see your realness, warts and shadow and all as you truly are. I'm going to deeply appreciate the finite portion of consciousness that you are and I'm going to accept your selfishness whenever you have the urge to be selfish. Now ask yourself on a scale of 0 to 10 how loved do you feel? Open Your Eyes. 😂🦘🦘🧨
Sure feels better here for the average Joe than across the waters. As a matter of fact I know boatloads of them. They came, prospered and aged here. They could have went back but they stayed for the great American dream experience. But there is an illusion at the time here in America and it’s meant to destroy that even while boat loads a day migrate here.
Well, maybe you need to try living in a third or second world country and then form an opinion on the matter! Although It has it's own problems the United states is a great place to become "successful" and build a comfortable live for you and your family. I am speaking from a third world country and dream to go and live in north America.
The American dream is not as illusive as people make it out to be. I've known many immigrants that have taken their families to America and had incredible success.
We know this is a problem, the speaker even provided evidence for the naysayers, but there is no real solution to this. The only solution is to start a revolution? Because to break the conformity we need a louder voice, which ends up being going against something that does not exist as it could be perceived majority. This is so confusing to me right now. I need to read more about this.
The only solution is to start a revolution? NO, revolution is not the only solution. Talking and compromise are much better solutions. Do you want to tear our country apart and cause mass suffering? Do you want your town or city to look like Ukraine? Edit: Ukraine is fighting for their country. We have our country if we don't throw it away.
nha, i think majority of us watching this video online on YT are nerds who are NOT afraid of being different then our group .. i´m completely different then most of the ppl around me.. so,, not a "pack-animal"
@@Catlily5 That’s ironic considering every entertainment institution, govt bureaucracy, tech, mainstream media, professional sports, colleges, Google, Apple, Microsoft, Nike, Adidas, big pharma, etc bends the knee and conforms to the woke mob groupthink.
@@Catlily5 Not all groups are the same. Big difference is which ones actually encourage and are tolerant of diversity of thought. Example: What happens when you question the SJW, PC, woke mob of Twitter?
I was waiting for somebody to make this response! It's like people who want to attain enlightenment. If you want to meditate in order to gain something, you've lost the point entirely.
I do, so what? What makes you so discomforted or amused by people doing something done since the dawn of humanity? I have discovered new uses for masks such as cleaning in dusty or stinky places, cold windy weather, or not breathing the same air as sentient potatoes triggered by masks cause the tv tells them to.
@@tjwoosta "Group think behind the paranoia"😂 Like people paranoid about wearing a mask during a pandemic, to the point of irrational behavior in public view, which I find far more amusing than even noticing someone masked up in public like people do for millions of reasons beyond politics of righty tighty goofballs. Whatever floats your broat I guess...
Watch “medcram “ new video - the results of mask on plane verses not. Something like less than 5% chance with mask on but over 30% if not masked. The Study wasn’t planned & was done pre mask mandates , after a airplane with a contagious person didn’t wear a mask. The results are clear & factual. Government doesn’t care about us , they would rather see our faces !
How can we foster open-minded discussion of different ideas?
Whoever can get a RUclips comment section to foster open-minded discussion of different ideas should be given the Nobel Prize
I still don't understand the "what do you expect, it's the internet" defense of people being awful. I prefer the "treat others as you wish to be treated" online or off.
Both, Nature and Nurture need to be managed...
I think you’re doing a great job of fostering open-minded discussion of different ideas. We just need to ignore the nonsense comments and keep moving forward with real discussion. When someone makes a nonsense comment, simply reply, ‘nonsense’
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"People are wonderful. I love individuals. I hate groups of people. I hate a group of people with a 'common purpose'. 'Cause pretty soon they have little hats. And armbands. And fight songs. And a list of people they're going to visit at 3am. So, I dislike and despise groups of people but I love individuals. Every person you look at; you can see the universe in their eyes, if you're really looking." - George Carlin
Though I agree with the quote you referenced, the opposite idea was expressed by Russian author Fyodor Dostoevsky:
“It’s seems that to my amazement, the more I love mankind, the more I despise man in particular” - I am paraphrasing
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Please let's not perpetuate "them vs us" thinking. It's one of mankind's biggest problems, imo. Society will be made of groups for time immemorial. Motorcycle enthusiasts, gardeners, science buffs, psychology... The trick is to accept and allow groups and only challenge them when they have actual facts wrong and especially when they are stepping on other people's toes, which sounds like what you're doing. You're always going to find groups of people with different values than you but rarely fundamental values like all ppl smile, laugh, love, aspire, etc. If you think you're too different from the other, you're perpetuating "them vs us". Them vs us is valid in contexts where rights are being violated.
@@mashiyatahmed Very interesting reply,, it adds more nuance to the original comment. Appreciate it 👌
I've always said that I hate masses and love individuals. If only the masses were aware of their own potential, instead of letting themselves be pushed and shoved.
I think it's also the praise of us as children for being obedient, quiet, and following rules. The disobedient children get scolded or punished. But obedience without discernment is never a good thing. That ought to be introduced in those early years as well.
Yeah, but not punishing bullies is not a good idea...
@@JavohirXR of course not. Encouraging good kids to speak up and speak out when they have a valid reason to disagree has nothing to do with kids who bully others. That's usually rooted in insecurity and lack of compassion...entirely different problem to resolve.
I think this is often an overlooked thing. The video claims that we're hard-wired to conform, or even want to be in a group. But, I think that's not true. We're often raised/taught to be that way and a person can conditioned/relearn to be the opposite of that.
@@lake5044 I think so. I saw an article the other day that said 28% of usa households are single person households. That seemed high to me even though I live alone, but if we were all so hard wired to be in groups I'd think pretty much everyone would be living with others. We probably lean towards larger or smaller groups depending on the size family we grew up in but out of familiarity, not hard wiring. I do think there is some aspect to it but that aspect is manipulated via marketing and pitted against the fear of being alone or missing out which heightens biased group based choices. For example best seller lists. That just means a lot of people bought something, no statement whatsoever that it's good or bad. But it's a common selling point and does work on a lot of people.
@@HappinessinYourLife Yeah you're right. Plus, people claim so many things to be "human nature" with no proof whatsoever. Did anyone compare someone who was conditioned to believe being alone is better and someone who wasn't and found that both hate being alone? A lot of people don't want to admit they prefer being alone so that they're not judged by others to be "weird". Also, it's not exactly familiarity but rather what conviction your brain holds. For example, if two people both lived with a large family in their childhood but one hated it and one loved it, the one who hated it is more likely to prefer smaller groups than the other one if they attributed the bad things to the size of that family. It's all about how your brain modeled the correlation you experienced...
US Collective illusion: Inventing a term to skew perception that cars are more important than people naturally walking on the streets
@@shawnmurphy2900 The term jaywalking presented in this video as a widespread concept.
That's actually a great example! Ironic, but also shows their power. There's a great Adam Ruins Everything on it if people haven't seen it. ruclips.net/video/-AFn7MiJz_s/видео.html
So then maybe walk on the sidewalk instead of the streets.
This concept applies in so many ways... Once you know, you can't unsee it.
I just learned about this with the story of New Coke! The vocal minority changed everyone's perception. You really do start seeing it everywhere!
@@theharvardyard2356 wow interesting! Hey can you share any article or source explaining about the story of new coke and what you learned. Curious.
Also i learned about this now how much we conform. Can you give few examples where we act in similar way? I also remember watching "The century of the self" documentary where through psychoanalytic study they tried to sell more cigarettes by making people smoke in gatherings? Something like that
My man james clear says it best : “We are rather wrong with the crowd than right by Ourself”
Well put! Deviating from the crowd can make you feel more vulnerable than being wrong but liked and with strength in numbers.
I would rather be right by myself. Many groups are only as strong as their weakest link.
When you’d deviate from groups with common habits, you are looked at as the black sheep. When you change your values, approach and habits based on evidence, it disorients people who want certainty in everything. They cannot handle it even if they’ve paid attention to the changes and questions you’ve been asking and juggling.
There are people, who will project what they believe to the be majority view, on you, simply because they lack the courage to challenge it, even when it works against them. They project their fear of uncertainty on you, even if it holds you back. They see you take steps and actions towards what you want but they keep asking questions, without accepting the answers, because the answers don’t confirm their certainty or assumptions.
I love this! these types of conversations open up an array of flowing thoughts and even some resistance but at least the conversations exist and can be heard out loud even if just between two people
I do love the idea of a safe space for people to talk through their disagreements respectfully. It sounds so basic but I honestly can't think of a space that exists like this.
Keep looking. They’re still rare, but I’ve heard of the occasional ones such as one from a TED talk that I wish I remembered the name of. Or better yet, create your own! Find a place to meet, set some rules about hearing people out and treating each other as people first, and you should have a good start.
This video does a good job at pointing out a flaw in democracy and other forms of collectivism.
Lol democracy is the opposite of collectivism.
@@93alvbjo no It is the biggest hoax collectivists have come up it, where 51% of people can vote out the rights of all other 49%. Democracy is mob rule
The thing is beyond democracy everything becomes even more collectivist.
@@93alvbjo Tell that to the 49%.
Wow from your opinion it appears you were sleeping during the video and missed the point.
Fully agreed with this one. Resisting is hard. Change is hard. To change is also about overcoming adversity. And we heard this thing about creativity in the face of adversity. So how do you progress then? Get creative. "But I don't have/don't know my talent is and it's hard" Yeah, it is hard, start creating then. Repeat that to address all the issues of not knowing/having talent. With enough repetitions, you might end up having enough skills to say that you have a talent.
omg!!!! you are reading my mind!! i literally was THINKING about this today
I’m an INFJ with ADHD. Conformity isn’t really my thing most of the time.
If only someone with this mind set could run for President. Everyone now adays is so polarizing.
Supporting a president is conformity
There is like a major exception too this so called "people who receive a error signal when alone to long" and those are stereotypical autistic people and some phycopaths.
I am such a autistic person who is quite conformable being alone for hours.
Where the conflict arises is when the only realistic option is to having to listen to conformist BS on economics and what is supposed to be realistic in the near future.
Excellently relates to the abortion issue; its coming out now that a majority of Americans believe that abortion shod be legal.
Abortion is murder 99% of the time!
Maybe you should stop feeling entitled to a woman’s body and do something about the kids who are already here. People like you will always be the problem, overpopulation will heighten and you’re upset over a clump of cells getting terminated before it’s formed into an actual baby or brought into this world
Wow - this is a brilliant. I'm going to watch it several more times to make sure I fully understand its nuances.
Brilliant. Thank you so much for your amazing work.
Glad you liked it, thanks so much for watching!
Religion is a good example
Charles Mackay's ‘Extraordinary Popular Delusions and the Madness of Crowds’………one of the most importatnt books you’ll ever read.
Great book. Just as relevant today as when it was written more than 100 years ago.
I had no clue mimes were the influence to directing traffic. Great lesson
Very interesting video. I think it is EXTREMELY important to think freely no matter what it is the majority may think, because if what they think is something wrong or unethical you should be able to go against that.
really well done
That floating chair is amazing
Excellent video! I'm glad I've never been a conformist!
That was powerful.
Brilliant!
Conformity is America's biggest issue right now. "Obey, shut up, dont ask questions, do what you're told, dont think for yourself" its the movies "They live" and "idiocracy" manifest into a reality.
Very good.
Bring back the wild individualism for America.
Great video! The Majority Illusion (K. Lerman) comes to mind.
Loved the conclusion at the end. The recent Twitter acquisition will hopefully be a big win in this regard!
"We can disagree and still love each other, unless your disagreement is rooted in my oppression and denial of my humanity and right to exist." James Baldwin
Even thought in some cases collective convictions or so called "social constructions" are wrong or not based on evidence, there is a reason they are there and in most cases they hold society together and prevent it from falling into chaos and self destruction.
Hi Mondr, thanks for the thought. Want to share some examples?
Wonderful video you almost understand the problem unfortunately weather you miss the target by an inch or a mile you still missed it.
Public shaming works. There are a lot of people who lived an unhealthy lifestyle, who got shamed into developing healthy habits and thus a better future for themselves. Unfortunately, a sense of shame is needed for this, and not everybody has it.
I just learned about this from EmpLemon's Coke video! The vocal minority changed everyone else's perceptions, despite the testing Coke did beforehand.
I'm not a pack person. Never have been. I walk my own walk.n talk my own talk. kinda a loner.😊 Thanx 4 sharing this.
but you still belong to a group of people that do this
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Yes, but they don't do it together. That's the point
@@rahulmohanan2026 But in a modern globalist platform, you’ll always ‘do it together’. A bunch of loners commenting on a YT thread is like groupthink in a way right?
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I want to think of a witty comment, this topic is right up my alley. Maybe something will come to me later. In the meantime; please try to accept others who have a different perspective than your own.
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If you want to hear this said in a much more impactful manner, read Ralph Waldo Emerson. We need his words and wisdom now more than ever.
How many mimes were maimed while playing the shame game?
We don't know, nobody said anything.
10/10
Choose your crowd guess we the Big Think crowd.
Bogota changes were made in one year
but it does not work on me )
Unity in Diversity
So those who are un- conformists CAN be correct?
Sure, why bother with individual thought when you can simply follow the herd, right? After all, who needs progress when you can have the comfort of blending in seamlessly with the masses? Let's embrace the beauty of conformity, where everyone thinks the same, acts the same, and heaven forbid, questions nothing! Because who needs critical thinking skills when you can have the security of groupthink?
Why bother with diverse perspectives and dissenting voices when you can just stick to the tried-and-true path of conformity? After all, history has shown us time and time again that conformity leads to the most groundbreaking innovations, said no one ever!
But wait, there's more! Conformity isn't just about following the crowd, it's also about avoiding those pesky individuals who dare to question the status quo. Who needs progress when you can have the safety of stagnation?
Yes, conformity, the tried-and-tested* method of ensuring that we never challenge the norm, never question authority, and certainly never make any real positive change in the world. Because, let's face it, why bother striving for progress when we can simply settle for mediocrity?
So, here's to conformity, the ultimate recipe for the undoing of the world! Because who needs innovation, diversity of thought, and the courage to question when we can just follow the crowd, right off the cliff of regression!
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*Repeating something endlessly doesn't make it any more true.
Just hang on, Earth! Lightworkers are on the way.
I'm going to shower you with attention and my awareness. I'm going to give you a lot of my time. I'm going to be in physical proximity to you. I'm going to touch you, hold you, cuddle you. I'm going to try to connect with you physically, emotionally, intellectually, spiritually. I'm going to take good care of you. I'm going to care about your needs. I'm going to help you to meet your needs. I'm going to help you to survive. I'm going to shelter you from excessive suffering, fear and trauma. I'm going to have your back. I'm going to defend you and be loyal to you. I'm going to take on your agenda as my own. I'm going to make you an extension of me. I'm going to treat you as well as i would treat myself. I'm going to be happy for you when you succeed. I'm going to want for you what you most want for yourself. I'm going to sacrifice for you and work on your behalf. I'm going to support you nurture you and encourage you. I'm going to cheerlead you. I'm going to encourage your self-exploration, self-expression and self-actualization. I'm going to respect your sovereignty as a consciousness. I'm not going to try to manipulate you, control you, dominate you or exploit you. I'm going to totally accept you and never judge you. I'm going to value you for your sake and appreciate you and see your intrinsic beauty. I'm not going to need anything from you and I'm not going to make you a tool to satisfy my own needs. I'm going to respect your point of view, wanting to understand your point of view, wanting to understand you, your uniqueness, taking the time to deeply get to know you. I'm not going to force my agenda or point of view on you. I'm going to listen to you and care about your interests and share similar interests with you. I'm going to develop togetherness with you and collaborate with you. I'm going to be there for you when you're down and hopeless. I'm going to be there for you when you're lonely. I'm going to validate your feelings, sharing your emotions with you, empathizing with you. Your pain is going to be my pain. I'm going to meet you where you're at, at your developmental level. I'm going to forgive you for your mistakes.
I'm going to be patient with you. I'm going to see the good in you even when you don't see the good in yourself. I'm going to be generous and kind. I'm going to give you verbal approval and praise. I'm going to compliment you on your uniqueness. I'm going to keep my promises to you. I'm going to keep my peace with you, avoid conflict with you. I'm going to tell the truth to you. You're going to be able to fully trust me and I'm never going to cash in on that trust. I'm going to see your realness, warts and shadow and all as you truly are. I'm going to deeply appreciate the finite portion of consciousness that you are and I'm going to accept your selfishness whenever you have the urge to be selfish. Now ask yourself on a scale of 0 to 10 how loved do you feel? Open Your Eyes. 😂🦘🦘🧨
I agree such as the collective illusion of the American Dream
Sure feels better here for the average Joe than across the waters. As a matter of fact I know boatloads of them. They came, prospered and aged here. They could have went back but they stayed for the great American dream experience. But there is an illusion at the time here in America and it’s meant to destroy that even while boat loads a day migrate here.
Well, maybe you need to try living in a third or second world country and then form an opinion on the matter!
Although It has it's own problems the United states is a great place to become "successful" and build a comfortable live for you and your family.
I am speaking from a third world country and dream to go and live in north America.
The American dream is not as illusive as people make it out to be. I've known many immigrants that have taken their families to America and had incredible success.
collective ilusion of "Diversity, Equality, Inclusion."
3.71M subscribers, and only 20k views. Why? Is there something strange going on here! 🤔 Just a thought
A perfect example: "men can menstruate"...
We know this is a problem, the speaker even provided evidence for the naysayers, but there is no real solution to this. The only solution is to start a revolution? Because to break the conformity we need a louder voice, which ends up being going against something that does not exist as it could be perceived majority.
This is so confusing to me right now. I need to read more about this.
The only solution is to start a revolution? NO, revolution is not the only solution. Talking and compromise are much better solutions. Do you want to tear our country apart and cause mass suffering? Do you want your town or city to look like Ukraine?
Edit: Ukraine is fighting for their country. We have our country if we don't throw it away.
They are also straight up manipulative af sometimes
im a rebel.
if you have no friends, does that make you a non conformist?
Not necessarily.
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And there was a spiked increase in mimes being run over.
Nowadays resisting conformity is an enrichment, as long as you don't violate liberal culture.
There is liberal conformity and conservative conformity. Both punish you if you step outside of them.
ahh the ol Conform to non-conformity GG
the atypical pedantry of.......
a conformist.
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nha, i think majority of us watching this video online on YT are nerds who are NOT afraid of being different then our group .. i´m completely different then most of the ppl around me.. so,, not a "pack-animal"
But you’re just like every other nerd who thinks they are “different”
@@AMultipolarWorldIsEmerging Is it better to be on the inside of the illusion and risk being mesmerized or on the outside and be/stay your own person?
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Explains why we all should resist the sjw, pc, woke, crybullies on Twitter.
As well as your group.
@@Catlily5 That’s ironic considering every entertainment institution, govt bureaucracy, tech, mainstream media, professional sports, colleges, Google, Apple, Microsoft, Nike, Adidas, big pharma, etc bends the knee and conforms to the woke mob groupthink.
Following Trump is a group. Christianity is a group. Liberals is a group. Ben Shapiro a group. Biden fans a group. Sheep follow different shepherds.
@@Catlily5 Not all groups are the same. Big difference is which ones actually encourage and are tolerant of diversity of thought.
Example: What happens when you question the SJW, PC, woke mob of Twitter?
@@THATMOFODIRT I don't know. I am not on Twitter. But I see both Republicans and Democrats demanding loyalty to their pet ideals here on You Tube.
Mirror in front of mirror, this video is conformity while informing at the same time. A trap.
I was waiting for somebody to make this response! It's like people who want to attain enlightenment. If you want to meditate in order to gain something, you've lost the point entirely.
Bandwagon in 5 minutes 😄
Essentially what Elon musk is doing with twitter
Commenting for the algorithm
Similar/same as bandwagon mentality
First!!🤘☮
e.g. the American dream!
Its the basis for gangstalking…
Up the meds bru
This is very odd of you guys usually you are all about the group think.
Climate change
to total failure and unemployment. sorry
How many watching this video still wearing a mask? 😷🤡
I do, so what? What makes you so discomforted or amused by people doing something done since the dawn of humanity? I have discovered new uses for masks such as cleaning in dusty or stinky places, cold windy weather, or not breathing the same air as sentient potatoes triggered by masks cause the tv tells them to.
Only us sillies that believe the science. Have you ever had polio?
@@milesdantravis Its not the mask wearing itself that is discomforting or amusing, its the groupthink behind the paranoia.
@@tjwoosta "Group think behind the paranoia"😂 Like people paranoid about wearing a mask during a pandemic, to the point of irrational behavior in public view, which I find far more amusing than even noticing someone masked up in public like people do for millions of reasons beyond politics of righty tighty goofballs. Whatever floats your broat I guess...
Watch “medcram “ new video - the results of mask on plane verses not. Something like less than 5% chance with mask on but over 30% if not masked.
The Study wasn’t planned & was done pre mask mandates , after a airplane with a contagious person didn’t wear a mask. The results are clear & factual.
Government doesn’t care about us , they would rather see our faces !
It was the collective illusion that made people racist in 60's! GTFOH!🤣
He didn't say that, he said it was what was gave seggregation a few years before getting stopped.