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Rule should be amended. Because nowadays if a woman become widow she later marry someone else.when parents lost their only child it is very pathetic for their whole life.
Anshuman was her husband for the 5 months only and son for 26 years' wife can get remarried but what about parents who raised him" Reform is the necessity...
Same things happening with many families of soldiers... i know personally the Major Ashish Dhonchak and his family ....the exact same thing is happening to his family also
@@deepakmakhija932 Or biwi sab kuch leke chala jaye or parents jinhone use bada kiya uski bete ko wo log bhik mange ? Parents ka koi hak nehi apne khud ki bete ki upar kya soch hai bahi teri. Or tujhe kis angle se lag raha hai ye widow rahe ga or saas ki gulami kare ga. Saadi karke ghar basa kar mast life jiyega. Bechara parents ka hoga use kon dekhe ga . Dono taraf se sochna chahiye. Parents bechara hai uska koi option nehi, or biwi ka to option hai or o option choose bhi karega. Lagta hai tui parent less hai isiliye asa bol raha hai, 😢😢😢
Who gave birth : Parents Who took effort to educate : Parents Who scrafices everything for dream of the child : Parents Who slept empty stomach for cause of their child's aspirations : parents Who takes Kirti Chakra: Wife that just married 5months ago Who takes money :Wife Who takes Pension : Wife 🙏🙏..
Not at all.. 80% to parents 20% to wife.. and marriage should not be older than 2 years if pregnant and willing to raise child then 60:40 if aborted pregnancy then 100:0 if remarry then 100:0 parents are allowed to file a case against it if abortion or remarry. 50% to wife if marriage older than 5 years and have child.
Its the fault of the individual while filling NOK, He could divide percentage 66% for Wife and 33% for parents. There is obtion of this things not the fault of the system.
Not just this case, in every case a spouse always has the first right over the belongings, money and property of the deceased spouse. Irony is if a female employee dies and her spouse is also dead then her property will goes to her in-laws, not to her parents. These rules need to be changed.
very true…yahan koi bhi aisi baate nahi kar raha ki us ladki ne kya khoya ….kisi aur ke saath shadi kar lene se jindagi pahle jaisi kabhi nahi hogi …aur kisi se shadi karna koi kapre badalne jaisa nahi h ki jab man kare badal lo
She is very young and can remarry but the parents won't get their lost son back. Let her take the money if she wants but Kirti Chakra should be given back to his parents.
Remarry toh saare papa dhul gaye?? Hadd hai, uski life main kitna bada jhatka aaya hai bhai. I agree ki parents should get.something but she also deserves a part of it. Woh yeh sochkar thodi shadi Kari thi ki 5mahine ki hai, she wanted to spend the rest of her.life.with him
@@SuplexCityF5 Why not? So you are saying that a widow of a soldier must not get anything? Are you serious. By the way they had an 8 years old relationship and she married him while knowing all the risks associated with army. She must be compensated. Tum khud hi socho ki tumhari behen ke sasural Wale sab kuchh le le aur tumhari vidhwa behen ko kuchh na mile. Kya ye jayaz hai? Aur ek aur baat Anshuman Singh ji ne apni wife ko NOK niyukt Kiya tha na ki apne ma baap ko. Sab kuchh niyam ke matabiq hi hua hai.
@@sitalmishra7384 isn't it one sided story, just because she doesn't want to go public we should not assume things let alone hating on a women who just got widowed...
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Ap pura inke parents ka video dekho itna wahiyat chiz inke parents ne is ladki ke bare m bola h apko khud sharam aa jayega inko apne baki bacho ke liye Paisa cahiye even yeh log is ladki ki shadi apne dusare beta se karwana cahte h usko force kar rahe h yeh log
@@mamta9624 I'm also from army family and I respect them very much but first time in my life I'm seeing these type of people who are so much greedy that they are making mockery of their son's supreme sacrifice by giving such interviews.
बिल्कुल भाई कीर्ति चक्र पर जितना हक पत्नी का है उतना हीं हक पैरेंट्स का भी है। उस लड़की के बच्चे तो नही है। वो दूसरी शादी करने और पेंशन के पैसे पर मजे करेगी। पेरेंट्स का क्या होगा। पेंशन के पैसे बराबर बांट देना चाहिए। 😢😢😢😢
@@karimganjfilmindustry2474 Care 9 months before born after care and Rising for 24 years thousands times greater than any wife who Suddenly migrate Australia with the money
Most of the people here says she can get another husband, but did she get her life back what she lost at her Yong age, she should give more preference.
Q. Which of the following Gallantry Awards belong to the category of Gallantry in the face of the enemy? A) Ashok Chakra B) Shaurya Chakra C) Vir Chakra D) Kirti Chakra Ans:- C) Vir chakra
Please bro.. They have two more sons and they received 64 lack from govt.. The father receive pension every month they have two more sons....they want share from daughter in laws money.. Please reserch before you speek
All benifits and money are given as per the soldier's nomination and will which is being updated time to time by the soldiers during their service. It's not the fault of policy. Defense and govt money goes to the nominated personal only. No matter it's spouse or parents or children. There is provision of nominating more than one person and different different share of benifits which is purely a choice of solders itself.
As a mature human being , ye aabhi ek tarfa story samne aayi hai . Kirti ke side ki bhi story suun kar hi iss topic par rai depayenge . There should be a will system... Soldier have ever right to choose how much he wants to give his loved ones .
No doubt rules should be changed but nominations should be filled carefully to avert this kind of embarrassment , kirti chakra toh bahana hai nazar toh gallantry amount pe hain aur jisse tarha media mein baata horahi bohot disgraceful hai parents ko isse bachna chahiye tha Wasa bhi lop , defence minister sab se mulakat hua he tha
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Exactly…she married uske bache hote toh why should she not take 8 yr relationship now she become widow in her 25s ..itna hi kriti chakra chaiye toh ghar jake mil mil lena chaiye tha
Ans: Vir Chakra. Highest Galantry Awards belong to the category of Gallantry in the face of enemy Paramvir Chakra> Mahavir Chakra> Vir Chakra. Gallantry Awards belong to the category of Gallantry without the face of enemy. Ashok Chakra> Kirti Chakra> Shaurya Chakra.
Both sides have lost the same person who they loved them dearly. But morally, it should be given to his parents by her. But if you want to bring constitution into every small act we do, then it becomes quite difficult for judicial every day.
This law does not considered parents condition can be derogatory to in many case it assume on an average case spouse condition become derogatory so all things are given to them but it doesn't mean that parents doesn't need any thing.some portion of assistance must be given to them on basis of their condition (income, property).we should together demand for urgent change in this law.
They already have 2 more kids but they want all the money and were even ready to marry the widow off to their younger son to keep all the money. How disgusting 🤬
After a soldier losing his life for nation , his parents or spouse would be awarded with medal and money. Within this , the govt should bring new law or rule which can allocate the both in a satisfyiable manner.
I want to tell that Brave lady...plz respect her parents in laws... this time is not for doing like this.... obviously thay more grives than any other person....but by the memories of their son thay wanted to feel proud....this is my humble request to you....if you are watching my comments....kindly be humble.... money is nothing...
30% goes to parents, their parents are making mockery of son's sacrifice... Smriti deserve everything.. shaadi ke 5 mahine hue the relationship ko nahi.. she is widow within 5 months, she will get remarried but her husband will not come back..
This rule of government is very unfair I'm also from defence, all the previlliages are given to wife and for parents who nurture their children and mek him that much efficient that he could gaurd his country are not given anything which is very unfair
@@404-user-not-found abe system me tu bhi toh aata he... sense wali baat bhi Kiya kar....aam Janta kya karegi jab law hi hamare haath me nahi he....jo bhi kar sakti hai vo government hi kar sakti hai....common sense use kar 🤌🏻
Parents took care of everything feeding school college clothes house spending 50 percent of their life sacrificing everything hence there pain and sacrifice is much larger and should have a larger right towards the award and other things And rule should be amended in especially for cases like these its just wrong
शहीद की पत्नी अगर लड़के के घर रहती है तब उसको 50% पेंशन मिलनी चाहिये | 50% माता पिता को मिलनी चाहिये. अगर घर पर ना रहे तो कुछ नही मिलना चाहिए | क्योंकि सारा रोल माँ बाप का हैं |
एक मां बाप बच्चे को पैदा करें पाले पोस बड़ा करें अपना सर्वोच्च निछावर करें उस बच्चे पे , बाद में उसी बच्चे की शादी हो जाने पे थोड़े समय पहले आई उसकी पत्नी एक झटके में उसकी मां बाप को अनाथ कर देते हैं बहुत दुर्भाग्य की बात है 😢😢
THIS THING WILL NEGATIVELY IMPACT THE ASPIRANTs WHO WANT TO JOIN THE ARMY BCZ SEEING YOUR PARENTS LIKE THIS AFTER YOU MARTYER FOR NATION IS KIND A HEART BREAKING
भारत सरकार को इस पर गहरी से विचार करने की आवश्यकता है। इस नियम के कारण 50% से ज्यादा हमारे veer सैनिक के पारिवारिक सम्बंध बाधित रहते हैं। पत्नी को अत्याधिक प्राथमिकता देने के कारण पत्नी द्वारा इसका अनुचीत उपयोग बेटे मां या परिवार से दूरी एवम सैनिक आचरण में भी परिवर्तन की जरूरत है जितना एक आर्मी ऑफिसर अपने पत्नी को अहमियत देते है उतना अपने पेरेंट्स को नही देते यह एक कड़वा सच है । एक पत्नी के पास दूसरे शादी का रास्ता होता है मां पिता के पास नही। बेटे को सेना में वेजने का निर्णय मां पिता का होता है न की पत्नी का। है पत्नी एक अभिनय अंग है पर अत्याधिक प्राथमिकता देकर समाज में नए प्रकार के माता पिता के साथ असजता का वातावरण बन रहा है।
@@NamrataGawai28 बिलकुल सही पर गाड़ी से बाहर कर देना या 2 sheeter गाड़ी पे चलना ये सही है क्या जो आज किया जा रहा है। शादी के बाद पत्नी सबसे पहले गाड़ी को ही 2 sheeter बना देती हैं की किसी की जगह ही न रहे ये तो गलत है न
२३ साल माँ बाप ने पढ़ा लिखा कर बड़ा किया वह उसके नजदीकी रिश्तेदार नहीं लेकिन ५ महीने पहिले जिससे शादी हुई वह नजदीकी रिश्तेदार है , क्या बकवास है। और क्या उस लड़की में भी कोई मोरल वैल्यू नहीं की उसके पेरेंट्स को वह कुछ भी नहीं दे रही। हद है की किसी वीरगति को प्राप्त हुए हमारे जवान के पेरेंट्स को इतने दुःख में यह सब और सहना पड़ रहा है। 😡😡😡
शाहिद के मां बाप और बीवी सब पैसों के ही भूखे हैं पैसा और इनाम सभी को चाहिए अंशुमान किसी को भी नहीं चाहिए 😌😌😌 वाह रे दुनिया 😌😌😌 आज शहीद की आत्मा रोती होगी कि उसके जाने का गम किसी को नहीं है बल्कि उसके नाम पर ज्यादा से ज्यादा पैसे और पुरस्कार पानी की होड़ सभी को है
A suggestion: It can be kept as a single or a joint group nominee, like one group as wife/husband/child and other group as his/her parents or a sole nominee based on soldier’s will.
9:48 🇶 *_Which of the following Gallantry Awards belong to the category of Gallantry in the face of the enemy ?_* ✅ Answer:- *[🇨] Vir Chakra* *📝 NOTES:- ♦️♦️* 🔴 The following Indian gallantry awards are given for acts of bravery in the *face of the enemy:* 🟣 *Param Vir Chakra:* The highest military award in India, given for conspicuous bravery, daring acts of valor, or self-sacrifice in the presence of the enemy. 🟣 *Maha Vir Chakra:* The second-highest military decoration, given for conspicuous gallantry in the presence of the enemy. 🟣 *Vir Chakra:* Given for acts of gallantry in the presence of the enemy. 🔴 *The Ashoka Chakra, Kirti Chakra, and Shaurya Chakra* are gallantry awards given for acts of bravery *outside of the face of the enemy.* 🟣 *Ashoka Chakra:* India's highest peacetime military decoration, awarded for self-sacrifice, courageous action, or valor away from the battlefield. It's open to both military and civilians, and can be awarded posthumously. 🟣 *Kirti Chakra:* Awarded for conspicuous gallantry outside of the face of the enemy. 🟣 *Shaurya Chakra:* The third highest peacetime decoration of India, awarded for gallantry outside of the face of the enemy. It's considered the peacetime equivalent of the Vir Chakra. *_जय हिन्द | | जय भारत | | वंदेमातरम् | |_* 🇮🇳 🙏🏽
✅Rule yeh hona chahiye Rule 1 : agar ladki bina next marriage ke ladke ke parents ke sath rehti toh wo NOK rhegi. Rule 2 : Agar wo ladke ke parents ke sath na rehkar dusri marriage karvati toh NOK parents honge.... ✅✅
No sir.. It's not compulsory to keep a single person as a NOK The power to change the NOK and number of NOK and distribution of percentage is always the individual call One can change them as and when required
How weird. Just few days ago, people were defending her on social media, against Muslims who commented vile things about her. Now she has done this, and people's view on her has changed. This is the age of social media.
If people is defending someone for something, then doesn't mean, they will support for everythings, people mindset changes as weather @@DestroyerWolfFenrir
Just talk on reality and reality is that after the death of husband no one should take responsibility for that woman and their child . Hamare pass ek bhi essa example nahi hai jab after death of husband his widow should be leaving peacefully.. Ya to usse sari property le li jati hai and after sometime we should find such news that she is died due to cylinder blast and any other such reason. So just imagine yourself in this condition.....or vesse bhi agar vo again marriage karti hai tab uski jo bhi salary and pention hai wo apne aap hi band kardi jati hai by Army (government).
exactly why people vilifying the wife. The parents are creating drama, they want money in exchange of their son's demise, pathetic! They already get pension have 2 more children working as doctors, life set hai. Indian men especially in army are know to give half or more of their salary to their parents and woman generally never has any rights on money thanks to patriarchy, though i would hope this is changing. Money could've been shared had Capt's parents were struggling but this isn't the case they are well of. A widow's life is full of struggle in indian society money is the bare minimum that is given. Yes she can marry at that point the decision should be brought to the table but not now!
@@Mira-pm3ni not in army the mjaority is from rural background if you know, also condiiton of women irrespective of finanical status is poor compared to men. There is lot of soical stigma attached to w widow
Nok रूल मैं सुधार की जरूरत है । जिन्होंने अपने बच्चे का भविष्य बनाया आज उनके लिए कानून मैं कोई व्यवस्था ही नहीं हैं ये गलत है। सब कुछ माता पिता को मिलना चाहिए । एक साल पहले जो आया उसको सरकार ने सबकुछ दे दिया और जिन्होंने जिसको 27 साल में जो बनाया उनके लिए कानून में कोई प्रावधान ही नहीं है ये कैसा कानून हैं ।
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While filing NOK it must be made compulsory that 66% must go to wife and 33% to parents. Now we have option but it's not compulsory.
Agar ladke ki sadi ke bat 1st kin wife nai hota fir ledki ke sadi ke bat first kin husband se leke ghar ,Paribar sab kyun badaljata hai
I think After marriage there should be 70:30 next to kin ✔
Imagine the profound sorrow that soldier's soul must feel upon witnessing this from heaven...
Exactly
He would regret
Exactly my point.
Ladka hona aasan nhi 😢
😢
Rule should be amended. Because nowadays if a woman become widow she later marry someone else.when parents lost their only child it is very pathetic for their whole life.
No women rights are important
Bring 100% reservation to women
@@sup_reme732bro bring it to 200%
What? 😂 @@sup_reme732
Ya, but for single son only should be made
azadi ke 75 saal bad bhi aise case dekhne ko milte hain 😑
Anshuman was her husband for the 5 months only and son for 26 years' wife can get remarried but what about parents who raised him" Reform is the necessity...
@xaid6820 I agree! Parents deserve all the glory of sacrifice NOT short-term wife
Not agreed
right
I think there should be a middle ground on both party wife and parents
@@bhartihema8436 Gend me daal lo apna disagreement
10:00 Vir chakra
सारा संसार माता पिता के चरणों में होता है ❤
Wife can get another husband but parents can't get another son.
wo already h unke pass
Kiske pas hai??@@AM-nx2iw
Reality hurts 😢
unko mil bhi gya hoga australia mai
Deep word bhai ❤
Same things happening with many families of soldiers... i know personally the Major Ashish Dhonchak and his family ....the exact same thing is happening to his family also
Thus is all karm
Reality hai bhai civilians bhut kharab hote army air force Jo bhi officer junior shadi karta hai aj ke time bhut log exploit krne ki koshish krte hai
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What happens pls tell me
@@BiswaprakashHansdah25Teri a mm a ko koi th ok ke bhag Jaye to use tu karm manega
Atleast kirti chakra should be given to the parents
Widow ko milna chahiye
Agar shadi karti hai to koi jarurat nahi hai
Independent women hai
Educated hai khud kama sakti hai or uska Naya husband bhi
Aur biwi ko vidhwa ka tag aur SaaS sasur ki gulamee...wah...kya sooch hey...sick
Bhai kirti chakra or money parents ko milna chahiye vo ( wife) sirf drama kr rhi hai money ke liye 😢
@@deepakmakhija932lode dusri Saadi krke bache kr legi to parents dekhkar taali bjayenge ky?? Saara rules bs women ke hi favour mei le loge tum log
@@deepakmakhija932 Or biwi sab kuch leke chala jaye or parents jinhone use bada kiya uski bete ko wo log bhik mange ?
Parents ka koi hak nehi apne khud ki bete ki upar kya soch hai bahi teri. Or tujhe kis angle se lag raha hai ye widow rahe ga or saas ki gulami kare ga. Saadi karke ghar basa kar mast life jiyega. Bechara parents ka hoga use kon dekhe ga . Dono taraf se sochna chahiye. Parents bechara hai uska koi option nehi, or biwi ka to option hai or o option choose bhi karega. Lagta hai tui parent less hai isiliye asa bol raha hai, 😢😢😢
Who gave birth : Parents
Who took effort to educate : Parents
Who scrafices everything for dream of the child : Parents
Who slept empty stomach for cause of their child's aspirations : parents
Who takes Kirti Chakra: Wife that just married 5months ago
Who takes money :Wife
Who takes Pension : Wife
🙏🙏..
They received 64 lakh from govt unpad..
Indians are more feminists tha all countries
Parents should receive. Only legecy of Captain is with parents. She has no child
@@athsatharva4487 do u u even understand how it will feel if someone runs away with their son's last memory u feminists are just pathetic
Right
50% to parents
50% to wife ( if wife has no child & never married again)
Or
40% to parents
60% to wife ( if wife has child)
This is solution
I agree
if any child .. then 70% wifi 30 % parent
Not at all..
80% to parents
20% to wife.. and marriage should not be older than 2 years
if pregnant and willing to raise child then 60:40
if aborted pregnancy then 100:0
if remarry then 100:0
parents are allowed to file a case against it if abortion or remarry.
50% to wife if marriage older than 5 years and have child.
@@kapil_verma35 bachche paalne me paise lagte hai.
Solution is nominee declaration like bank...
Its the fault of the individual while filling NOK, He could divide percentage 66% for Wife and 33% for parents. There is obtion of this things not the fault of the system.
66% agar wo widow hai
Agar shaadi karegi to 20%
Independent women hai khud kama sakti hai or uska Naya husband bhi kama hi raha hoga
@@Xyz-wr6yj options 66 & 33 ka hai be c
Option is of any percentage, soldier can decide, ignorant fool...@@MonuKumar-mr5yk kuch pata ha ni hate felao bs
NOK WILL BE WIFE ONLY...
Option 50-50 ka bhi hota h C@@MonuKumar-mr5yk
Not just this case, in every case a spouse always has the first right over the belongings, money and property of the deceased spouse. Irony is if a female employee dies and her spouse is also dead then her property will goes to her in-laws, not to her parents. These rules need to be changed.
Esa kuch bhi hota he kya?
@@ChetanSharma-mc5kr yes
She has been his wife for 5 months and they have been his parents for 26 years.
very true…yahan koi bhi aisi baate nahi kar raha ki us ladki ne kya khoya ….kisi aur ke saath shadi kar lene se jindagi pahle jaisi kabhi nahi hogi …aur kisi se shadi karna koi kapre badalne jaisa nahi h ki jab man kare badal lo
@@anuradhanarayan5611 ladki ko dusra husband mil jaega but parents ko dusra beta nhi milega.
She is very young and can remarry but the parents won't get their lost son back. Let her take the money if she wants but Kirti Chakra should be given back to his parents.
Why
Remarry toh saare papa dhul gaye??
Hadd hai, uski life main kitna bada jhatka aaya hai bhai.
I agree ki parents should get.something but she also deserves a part of it.
Woh yeh sochkar thodi shadi Kari thi ki 5mahine ki hai, she wanted to spend the rest of her.life.with him
Parents ko 65 lakhs mil gaye hai aur wife ko 85 lakhs. Compensation sabko Mila hai
it should not be her money to begin with. parents made him who he is with all their life with so much sacrifice & not a 5 months wife
@@SuplexCityF5 Why not? So you are saying that a widow of a soldier must not get anything? Are you serious. By the way they had an 8 years old relationship and she married him while knowing all the risks associated with army. She must be compensated. Tum khud hi socho ki tumhari behen ke sasural Wale sab kuchh le le aur tumhari vidhwa behen ko kuchh na mile. Kya ye jayaz hai?
Aur ek aur baat Anshuman Singh ji ne apni wife ko NOK niyukt Kiya tha na ki apne ma baap ko. Sab kuchh niyam ke matabiq hi hua hai.
She's his wife 👰 she didn't told thaat she marrying for five months only she married him for whole life
Parents have the first right😢
Both have equal rights.
@D.2601 wife 5 months parents 26 yr
@@D.2601then you're trying to say woman are not independent enough to earn ??
100 people have liked this comment and only 1 reply, that too of yours
It means almost 100% people support parents @@D.2601
Ya greedy parents, they got money still saying they got nothing
She will remarry very shortly, what about parents????
wow u are quick to assume that...
@@Xyz-wr6yju quickly assume that she will not marry again....
@@Xyz-wr6yjshe will definitely marry again lol but look at his parents got nothing
@@manjeetchoudhary7115😂😂😂😂😂
@@Xyz-wr6yjshe will within 2 years write it down in your diary.. I saw her in interview she is over being smart
Parents have one more Son n a Daughter.
Who will help widow?
It's her choice if she is getting married again
Parents will never get another son. She will get as many husbands she wants
to fir naukri aur shadi se bacha ke rakhna chahiye aiso ko
apne bete ko
He has given his supreme sacrifice ,he will not be happy by seeing this, they should resolve this matter at home instead going publicly 😢.a
Un necessary mess created by these guys. Martyrs memory is being tainted in all this
@@richanigam2097 totally agree
@@richanigam2097 unhone kiya he but wife and her parents are not doing same they just ignoring and blocking the call of her in laws
@@sitalmishra7384 isn't it one sided story, just because she doesn't want to go public we should not assume things let alone hating on a women who just got widowed...
@@sitalmishra7384because in laws told bshu to marry their other son for the 35 lakh money... how can she not block them
विचारणीय बात सिर्फ यही है कि *सैनिक* को सेना में भेजने का निर्णय माता पिता का होता है न कि पत्नी का...
इसीलिए उनका प्राथमिक अधिकार होना चाहिए बेटे के सम्मन या पुरस्कार पर...
नियमों में बदलाव अवश्य होना चाहिए।❤❤😢😢😢
To unke bap se puchiye unke nok me kiska nam h??
@@niharikatripathi1591usne apne wife pe trust Kiya yahi uski galti hui
@@ManishaAutade-ib8bckaisi galti?
Answer: C) Vir Chakra
Sir Anshuman should be crying to see all this from heaven parents and wife both are right and both are wrong simple as that😢
she is gold digger now living in Australia
Ap pura inke parents ka video dekho itna wahiyat chiz inke parents ne is ladki ke bare m bola h apko khud sharam aa jayega inko apne baki bacho ke liye Paisa cahiye even yeh log is ladki ki shadi apne dusare beta se karwana cahte h usko force kar rahe h yeh log
@@karimganjfilmindustry2474 see the girl is hardly 25 yrs, she can marry again and start new.
@@mamta9624 I'm also from army family and I respect them very much but first time in my life I'm seeing these type of people who are so much greedy that they are making mockery of their son's supreme sacrifice by giving such interviews.
बिल्कुल भाई
कीर्ति चक्र पर जितना हक पत्नी का है उतना हीं हक पैरेंट्स का भी है।
उस लड़की के बच्चे तो नही है।
वो दूसरी शादी करने और पेंशन के पैसे पर मजे करेगी।
पेरेंट्स का क्या होगा।
पेंशन के पैसे बराबर बांट देना चाहिए।
😢😢😢😢
@@karimganjfilmindustry2474 Care 9 months before born after care and Rising for 24 years thousands times greater than any wife who Suddenly migrate Australia with the money
Loving a person means it should be loving and caring their families also 😒😔🤷♂️
Aise saas-sasur ke sath rehke kya karegi jinne usse duniya se samne zaleel karne se pehle 2 baar nahi socha.
Many women marries because of the greed of men Govt jobs.
Most (this is reality) 95%
Thik bhi hai ,
Har koi better partner chahte hain fir chahe vo ladki ko ya ladka
An educated girl will never ever ever marry a uneducated man out of love......even if she marries she will ditch him for sure....@Prince-ho8ms
@I.K.illedThatBeardGuyjo gawar chahta h....usko tharki bolte h
@@Prince-ho8mslekin loyal bhi to Hona chahiye lifepartner ko , iski tarah dhokebaaz nahi
10:09 option:-C , vir chakra is the right answer sir 🙏
Most of the people here says she can get another husband, but did she get her life back what she lost at her Yong age, she should give more preference.
Q. Which of the following Gallantry Awards belong to the category of Gallantry in the face of the enemy?
A) Ashok Chakra
B) Shaurya Chakra
C) Vir Chakra
D) Kirti Chakra
Ans:- C) Vir chakra
His wife is literally an example of for our youth to think twice or thrice before marrying a women 😊
Yes
you should marry a man then.
Yes, that's why our parents always choose best for us
@@Thecreativethinker12 Ofcourse I am 24 Unmarried And I Agree With you
Please bro.. They have two more sons and they received 64 lack from govt.. The father receive pension every month they have two more sons....they want share from daughter in laws money.. Please reserch before you speek
All benifits and money are given as per the soldier's nomination and will which is being updated time to time by the soldiers during their service. It's not the fault of policy. Defense and govt money goes to the nominated personal only. No matter it's spouse or parents or children. There is provision of nominating more than one person and different different share of benifits which is purely a choice of solders itself.
I have also witnessed same case... Girl took all money and returned to her parents.
Aur je v possible hai ki saas sasur poore paise hadpne k chakkr mein usko maar de.....fr vo kya kare
Woh toh safe place pe jayegi
As a mature human being , ye aabhi ek tarfa story samne aayi hai .
Kirti ke side ki bhi story suun kar hi iss topic par rai depayenge .
There should be a will system... Soldier have ever right to choose how much he wants to give his loved ones .
People are unnecessary getting emotional, without listening to both parties how can someone judge who is right who is wrong.
@@Anjali3196S that's what I am saying.
No doubt rules should be changed but nominations should be filled carefully to avert this kind of embarrassment , kirti chakra toh bahana hai nazar toh gallantry amount pe hain aur jisse tarha media mein baata horahi bohot disgraceful hai parents ko isse bachna chahiye tha Wasa bhi lop , defence minister sab se mulakat hua he tha
exactly, its not even been a month.
Bhai Jo L.O.P. Milne Gya tha uski fan h Yh Mata ji Baaki khud taare jorh lo.. Vo pehle v Agniveer k ghr pe gya jhooth felaya
ADG IP ko ana prha tweet krne clarification dene vo bnda bs Neechta pe agya h power lane k liye aur khud ko Limelight me rkhne k liye 👍
Suna h 2 bête aur bhi h Aunty ji k unko chahiye Kya paise ?!
@@amitsharma1337 haan bass aapna roti seek raha saab
Exactly…she married uske bache hote toh why should she not take 8 yr relationship now she become widow in her 25s ..itna hi kriti chakra chaiye toh ghar jake mil mil lena chaiye tha
@@sarikasingh1036MIL and wife were present at medal recieving and MIL said she didnt get chance to tak medal in hand
Reform is compulsory 😢😢😢😢
In old age who will look and take care to parents. So financial assistance should be divided into two. 50% to wife and 50% to parents. .
In case wife re marries the pension should be 100% given to his parents only
@@anitasharmajyhi rule H present me
@@antarkanwar4130nahi hai. Waise parents ko 65 lakhs milenge aur father khud retired army man hai aur unka dusra beta doctor hai.
Ans: Vir Chakra.
Highest Galantry Awards belong to the category of Gallantry in the face of enemy Paramvir Chakra> Mahavir Chakra> Vir Chakra.
Gallantry Awards belong to the category of Gallantry without the face of enemy.
Ashok Chakra> Kirti Chakra> Shaurya Chakra.
Parents suffer more than wife as they have no future and support 😢
But they have a doctor son and a doctor daughter are they not enough???
And also got 65 lakhs . And also father is retired army man so he must be getting good pension.
@@moooncloverfir kya hua patni khaali haath aayi thi apne ghr se
To khali haath jaana hota he
A year ago, in odisha There is same case
Its the time to change the rules.... parents should be given equal right
Both sides have lost the same person who they loved them dearly. But morally, it should be given to his parents by her. But if you want to bring constitution into every small act we do, then it becomes quite difficult for judicial every day.
There should be work a special committee to study such cases and make a proper proposal of financial or other assistance ❤
If children do something good it's parents responsible and children do bad also parents responsible so it award should be given to parents
Actually it's real issue regardless of party government needs to solve this issue
Jo log ye sochte hain ki patni ko dusra sathi milega..ye itna asan nehin hai....kuchh v pehle jesa nehin rehta... ..
This law does not considered parents condition can be derogatory to in many case it assume on an average case spouse condition become derogatory so all things are given to them but it doesn't mean that parents doesn't need any thing.some portion of assistance must be given to them on basis of their condition (income, property).we should together demand for urgent change in this law.
The govt should enact a law asap to ensure justice for Anshuman's parents because they have lost their child forever.
हम लोग भी उनकी wife को एक secrifice की मूरत की तरफ हर तरफ शेयर करते हैं उनके perents की क्यों नही।
हम as a socity इन सब परिस्थिति के कारण हैं
Right 😢
Feminism ☹️
She will get another husband but she will keep his ex husband's all the medals , pension and financial assistance . How disgusting 🤬🤬🤬
They already have 2 more kids but they want all the money and were even ready to marry the widow off to their younger son to keep all the money. How disgusting 🤬
Now, literally understand that line ❤" Ye duniya gorakh dhanda hei sab jag maya me andha hei "❤❤
जिस अंधे ने प्रभु को देखा नही वो, रूप बताना क्या जाने😊
After a soldier losing his life for nation , his parents or spouse would be awarded with medal and money.
Within this , the govt should bring new law or rule which can allocate the both in a satisfyiable manner.
Anshuman ji ki parents ko v 100% justice milna chaihe.
I want to tell that Brave lady...plz respect her parents in laws... this time is not for doing like this.... obviously thay more grives than any other person....but by the memories of their son thay wanted to feel proud....this is my humble request to you....if you are watching my comments....kindly be humble.... money is nothing...
सरकार कूल बनने के चक्कर मे महिलाओं को आवश्यकता से अधिक अधिकार दे दी है
Sahi hai bhai
100 true❤
Sahi bola yr
For Increase vote Bank. 🤣🤣
Real
Answer C- Vir Chakra
I support the parents they are absolutely right there are many loopholes
Ans (C) Vir Chakra .
इसी तरह से प्रयागराज में उमेश पाल केस में हुआ शहीद पुलिस कर्मी की पत्नी सब कुछ लेकर चली जाती है बूढे माँ बाप को छोड़कर
Ans c Vir chakra
War time gallantry awards
Param Vir chakra
Mahavir chakra
Vir chakra
Parents deserve better
30% goes to parents, their parents are making mockery of son's sacrifice... Smriti deserve everything.. shaadi ke 5 mahine hue the relationship ko nahi.. she is widow within 5 months, she will get remarried but her husband will not come back..
Shame on her !
This is the rule and everyone should accept this. Country runs on laws not some emotions.
This rule of government is very unfair
I'm also from defence, all the previlliages are given to wife and for parents who nurture their children and mek him that much efficient that he could gaurd his country are not given anything which is very unfair
@@pradeepthapliyal9115 system hi kharab hai Desh ka 😑🤌🏻
NOK is defined by soldier, they have option to give 66 to wife and 33 to parents, most do not choose in case if they have children, so its not system.
@vijay thik bhi toh tumhe h karna hoga bro
@@404-user-not-found abe system me tu bhi toh aata he... sense wali baat bhi Kiya kar....aam Janta kya karegi jab law hi hamare haath me nahi he....jo bhi kar sakti hai vo government hi kar sakti hai....common sense use kar 🤌🏻
@@vijay_attitude143 meri h galti hai bhai... Bhul gya tha youtube pe aadhe gyan ke log jayada hai
Yess this law should be Changed. Govt. Should amend It as soon as possible.
There is an urgent need for the amendment of this rule.
2:57. Sir please correct it , Not 19th July
Daughter in law should understand... memories nhi Leni jani chahiye 😢
Parents took care of everything feeding school college clothes house spending 50 percent of their life sacrificing everything hence there pain and sacrifice is much larger and should have a larger right towards the award and other things
And rule should be amended in especially for cases like these its just wrong
1:44 Video Start
Thank you so much......😅
Absolutely amend the law now....now a days society has totally changed .
Parents ko mila 🔔🔔🔔
पुत्र शोकम निरंतरम . No amount of compensation can compensate the loss of son.
शहीद की पत्नी अगर लड़के के घर रहती है तब उसको 50% पेंशन मिलनी चाहिये | 50% माता पिता को मिलनी चाहिये.
अगर घर पर ना रहे तो कुछ नही मिलना चाहिए |
क्योंकि सारा रोल माँ बाप का हैं |
Yes rule should change
My brother was also passway years year he was also in Indian army
एक मां बाप बच्चे को पैदा करें पाले पोस बड़ा करें अपना सर्वोच्च निछावर करें उस बच्चे पे , बाद में उसी बच्चे की शादी हो जाने पे थोड़े समय पहले आई उसकी पत्नी एक झटके में उसकी मां बाप को अनाथ कर देते हैं बहुत दुर्भाग्य की बात है 😢😢
Maybe it is possible that divides into two parts 50/50.
Legal system is a curse.
This is one situation , there can be other situations as well, we can nvr generalise , so the law must consider parents and spouse.
THIS THING WILL NEGATIVELY IMPACT THE ASPIRANTs WHO WANT TO JOIN THE ARMY BCZ SEEING YOUR PARENTS LIKE THIS AFTER YOU MARTYER FOR NATION IS KIND A HEART BREAKING
@@ashishku.pradhan1047bro option is already present to divide the NOK benefits between parents and wife, so it's not systems fault
@@Xyz-wr6yj
It's fault of sir's wife that they trusted her for NOK
Parents are important ❤
पुत्र पर माता-पिता का पहले अधिकार होता है न्याय मिलना चाहिए
If this happens to your father then
Saadi ke patni ka pahile adhikar hai
Yes not right parents are always more important simple❤
भारत सरकार को इस पर गहरी से विचार करने की आवश्यकता है।
इस नियम के कारण 50% से ज्यादा हमारे veer सैनिक के पारिवारिक सम्बंध बाधित रहते हैं। पत्नी को अत्याधिक प्राथमिकता देने के कारण पत्नी द्वारा इसका अनुचीत उपयोग बेटे मां या परिवार से दूरी एवम सैनिक आचरण में भी परिवर्तन की जरूरत है जितना एक आर्मी ऑफिसर अपने पत्नी को अहमियत देते है उतना अपने पेरेंट्स को नही देते यह एक कड़वा सच है ।
एक पत्नी के पास दूसरे शादी का रास्ता होता है मां पिता के पास नही। बेटे को सेना में वेजने का निर्णय मां पिता का होता है न की पत्नी का।
है पत्नी एक अभिनय अंग है पर अत्याधिक प्राथमिकता देकर समाज में नए प्रकार के माता पिता के साथ असजता का वातावरण बन रहा है।
Marriage is such a institution. Parents have to take backseat.
Family matter h chomu 😂
Kl ko tu khega govt wife bhi dundh ke de
@@NamrataGawai28 बिलकुल सही पर गाड़ी से बाहर कर देना या 2 sheeter गाड़ी पे चलना ये सही है क्या जो आज किया जा रहा है। शादी के बाद पत्नी सबसे पहले गाड़ी को ही 2 sheeter बना देती हैं की किसी की जगह ही न रहे ये तो गलत है न
We have given 10 years for Govt ..but Still no use .
Justice for his parents ❤❤
२३ साल माँ बाप ने पढ़ा लिखा कर बड़ा किया वह उसके नजदीकी रिश्तेदार नहीं लेकिन ५ महीने पहिले जिससे शादी हुई वह नजदीकी रिश्तेदार है , क्या बकवास है। और क्या उस लड़की में भी कोई मोरल वैल्यू नहीं की उसके पेरेंट्स को वह कुछ भी नहीं दे रही। हद है की किसी वीरगति को प्राप्त हुए हमारे जवान के पेरेंट्स को इतने दुःख में यह सब और सहना पड़ रहा है। 😡😡😡
it's harsh reality of our society that's not only restrictionist to army but even other parents felling the same😢😢
शाहिद के मां बाप और बीवी सब पैसों के ही भूखे हैं पैसा और इनाम सभी को चाहिए अंशुमान किसी को भी नहीं चाहिए 😌😌😌 वाह रे दुनिया 😌😌😌 आज शहीद की आत्मा रोती होगी कि उसके जाने का गम किसी को नहीं है बल्कि उसके नाम पर ज्यादा से ज्यादा पैसे और पुरस्कार पानी की होड़ सभी को है
@@samriddhiyadav8786 bilkul sahi bat .
Bhai mere ab unke parent ka sath pesa hi dega ,log nhi dege ,log aayge dikhava ke liye , budhape me kon sath dega ma bap ?
@@l.saarya3334 ❤
Tu kya unke parents ki seva karne jayoge
Financial assistance toh chahiye hi...kisi ko b....
A suggestion: It can be kept as a single or a joint group nominee, like one group as wife/husband/child and other group as his/her parents or a sole nominee based on soldier’s will.
9:48 🇶 *_Which of the following Gallantry Awards belong to the category of Gallantry in the face of the enemy ?_*
✅ Answer:- *[🇨] Vir Chakra*
*📝 NOTES:- ♦️♦️*
🔴 The following Indian gallantry awards are given for acts of bravery in the *face of the enemy:*
🟣 *Param Vir Chakra:* The highest military award in India, given for conspicuous bravery, daring acts of valor, or self-sacrifice in the presence of the enemy.
🟣 *Maha Vir Chakra:* The second-highest military decoration, given for conspicuous gallantry in the presence of the enemy.
🟣 *Vir Chakra:* Given for acts of gallantry in the presence of the enemy.
🔴 *The Ashoka Chakra, Kirti Chakra, and Shaurya Chakra* are gallantry awards given for acts of bravery *outside of the face of the enemy.*
🟣 *Ashoka Chakra:* India's highest peacetime military decoration, awarded for self-sacrifice, courageous action, or valor away from the battlefield. It's open to both military and civilians, and can be awarded posthumously.
🟣 *Kirti Chakra:* Awarded for conspicuous gallantry outside of the face of the enemy.
🟣 *Shaurya Chakra:* The third highest peacetime decoration of India, awarded for gallantry outside of the face of the enemy. It's considered the peacetime equivalent of the Vir Chakra.
*_जय हिन्द | | जय भारत | | वंदेमातरम् | |_* 🇮🇳 🙏🏽
Great 👍
Sir please whenever you are making videos please tell us how we can relate or which video we can relate with which subject ❤
✅Rule yeh hona chahiye
Rule 1 : agar ladki bina next marriage ke ladke ke parents ke sath rehti toh wo NOK rhegi.
Rule 2 : Agar wo ladke ke parents ke sath na rehkar dusri marriage karvati toh NOK parents honge....
✅✅
No sir.. It's not compulsory to keep a single person as a NOK
The power to change the NOK and number of NOK and distribution of percentage is always the individual call
One can change them as and when required
Noo, most of time parents harass kids and their spouses. After marriage Spouse should be number one priority! The rule is correct.
What about parents
And what is source of your false claims
@@ManishaAutade-ib8bclol 😂 pick me
*Reformation is Must right away*
50 50 milna chahiye baat khatam
Kahe ko dusri jagah sadi karni he fir bhai Aisa nai hona chahiye
@@UNmi.It's constitution right to marry anyone want
@@UNmi.Bilkul shi bol rhe bhai....gold diggers se shadi kv ni krna chahie🗿
50/50 milna chahiye
Parents should remain as NOK until and unless an army personnel himself changes the name. This should be the personal choice for the the personal.
A young lady lost her brave husband. And Parents too.. Both should get equal respect.
How weird. Just few days ago, people were defending her on social media, against Muslims who commented vile things about her.
Now she has done this, and people's view on her has changed. This is the age of social media.
Its not weird it's correct decision of people,
@@achu10mech41 The weird part is that, how perception could change so soon nowadays. I am not juding the decisions.
If people is defending someone for something, then doesn't mean, they will support for everythings, people mindset changes as weather @@DestroyerWolfFenrir
People just saying wrong to the wrong. If she does justice to her in laws in future, people will appreciate her work again
@@praloysarkar8254how do you know the way her inlaws are treating her?? People are just barking without knowing the both sides of story
Option-C 👍
क्योंकि A,B,D शांति के समय में दिए जाते हैं
Just talk on reality and reality is that after the death of husband no one should take responsibility for that woman and their child .
Hamare pass ek bhi essa example nahi hai jab after death of husband his widow should be leaving peacefully..
Ya to usse sari property le li
jati hai and after sometime we should find such news that she is died due to cylinder blast and any other such reason.
So just imagine yourself in this condition.....or vesse bhi agar vo again marriage karti hai tab uski jo bhi salary and pention hai wo apne aap hi band kardi jati hai by Army (government).
exactly why people vilifying the wife. The parents are creating drama, they want money in exchange of their son's demise, pathetic! They already get pension have 2 more children working as doctors, life set hai. Indian men especially in army are know to give half or more of their salary to their parents and woman generally never has any rights on money thanks to patriarchy, though i would hope this is changing. Money could've been shared had Capt's parents were struggling but this isn't the case they are well of. A widow's life is full of struggle in indian society money is the bare minimum that is given. Yes she can marry at that point the decision should be brought to the table but not now!
@@Focused76 maybe in rural areas but in urban areas a widows life is normal especially if the widow comes from a well financial background .
@@Mira-pm3ni not in army the mjaority is from rural background if you know, also condiiton of women irrespective of finanical status is poor compared to men. There is lot of soical stigma attached to w widow
Nok रूल मैं सुधार की जरूरत है । जिन्होंने अपने बच्चे का भविष्य बनाया आज उनके लिए कानून मैं कोई व्यवस्था ही नहीं हैं ये गलत है। सब कुछ माता पिता को मिलना चाहिए । एक साल पहले जो आया उसको सरकार ने सबकुछ दे दिया और जिन्होंने जिसको 27 साल में जो बनाया उनके लिए कानून में कोई प्रावधान ही नहीं है ये कैसा कानून हैं ।