Why Women Go From Hot to Cold (And How to Fix It)

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  • Опубликовано: 29 ноя 2024

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  • @itsdannyvera
    @itsdannyvera  Месяц назад

    ✅ Boost your text game with women in just 7 days (free): bit.ly/4fDV5iK

    • @Reverie_State78
      @Reverie_State78 Месяц назад +1

      Why did you delete my comment? I didn't criticize you or your video...was just speaking my mind about the subject of dating apps in general. Why delete comments from people just expressing their mind about the subjects you talking about?? I what are you trying to accomplish by muting your followers?

    • @itsdannyvera
      @itsdannyvera  7 дней назад

      @@Reverie_State78 i actually never delete comments

  • @n.m.3760
    @n.m.3760 Месяц назад +30

    If she starts acting "hot and cold" or flakey, I walk away and ignore her completely. Never chase, grovel or beg. It's about having self-respect, high standards and not putting up with entitled bad behavior.

    • @Alpito123
      @Alpito123 Месяц назад +1

      amen

    • @ChrisTian-cy7eu
      @ChrisTian-cy7eu Месяц назад +2

      Absolutely, a woman did not tell me that our date was off and tried to excuse it with “you should have reaffirmed”. That is a clear sign of disrespect and there is no way to overcome that.

  • @jessewright8930
    @jessewright8930 Месяц назад +45

    Bra everytime I stop talking to a woman this man come out with a video that fits the situation.

    • @lucas106s
      @lucas106s Месяц назад

      Fr... it's been 6 days and here we are. Shit's almost creepy

    • @PrinceOfTheCity1
      @PrinceOfTheCity1 Месяц назад +5

      Fam it’s cuz we’re all going thru the same shit constantly.

    • @Jaboukii
      @Jaboukii Месяц назад

      Damn, I guess Danny is Your Spirit Guide lol

    • @JohnM...
      @JohnM... Месяц назад

      It’s ‘brah’ - bra is something that you rip off….

  • @karl2477
    @karl2477 Месяц назад +17

    the fact that she has so may options as a very average looking girl shows the state of dating

    • @chechanrevolution992
      @chechanrevolution992 Месяц назад +2

      Yeah…it’s dark

    • @PB22559
      @PB22559 Месяц назад

      If she actually had options, she wouldn't be single. Women are in denial and men are simping. The men she wants don't want her for anything long term. That same logic could be applied to 99.9% of women.

    • @carlgonzalez3337
      @carlgonzalez3337 Месяц назад +2

      not as much as they think. as Danny said, 90% of those options are simps, and they don't give them a chance.. or perhaps only use them for free dinners and drinks, but ghost them the next morning.. so, "real good options they actually like", they don't have as much..

    • @peterhel1077
      @peterhel1077 Месяц назад +2

      ​@@carlgonzalez3337it doesn't matter they are simps or not simps. Everyone deserves a chance and respect if they genuinely are interested in a woman and she agrees to meet. It's just crazy that we're at the point where normal human interaction cannot occur without some crazy power dynamics war.

    • @philipramsden4975
      @philipramsden4975 Месяц назад

      Dudes out here treating 5's like 10's is crazy af

  • @MMKnight_1
    @MMKnight_1 Месяц назад +9

    The "it's not the right time" is crazy relatable

  • @calebleday9184
    @calebleday9184 Месяц назад +14

    Bro I love that red shirt. It’s fire, keep up the good work.

  • @philipramsden4975
    @philipramsden4975 Месяц назад +8

    This shit is so broken now. Being married 20 years and being thrown into this disaster is making getting back together with my ex wife seems like the better option

    • @DPMusicStudio
      @DPMusicStudio 20 часов назад

      Divorced after 15 years of marriage and also just getting out there... but I can PROMISE YOU getting back with the ex is not the answer.

  • @DanielP-f3r
    @DanielP-f3r 20 часов назад

    This hits hard. Was just hitting it off with a girl that I met a month ago. She was in my social circle. She approached ME and asked for my number. Cute face, not an ounce of fat on her, incredible body.
    Things were great... We were hanging out regulary. She made it easy to make plans. We were getting more physical, I was escalating with her. I started letting my guard down. I opened up.
    I escalated properly - asked her back to my place. Moved physically, kissed her... later asked her back to my place again. She was hesitant.
    Then the texting stopped. She "wasn't feeling well." She "missed my text."
    Last weekend... She showed up at a social event that I went to (that we would have gone to together).... she was really friendly and even came over and sat next to me. Talked to me. We danced together several times.
    End of the night? Left with a different guy that I know from the circle.
    I feel fucking gut punched right now.
    I've barely been able to work this week.

  • @flynnoflenniken7402
    @flynnoflenniken7402 Месяц назад +6

    That was my first girlfriend. She always seemed to like me before I asked her out. I would flirt with her and tell her she's pretty and stuff, and she seemed to like being around me. So I finally ask her out, and she's happy and says yes. Even brags to her friends about it. Then the very next day she suddenly seems cold and irritated by my presence. Any affection or attention I try to give her is met with disgust. This goes on for a few weeks, and I'm just baffled the whole time before I finally break up with her because I don't feel like dealing with it anymore. Still have no idea what that was about.

    • @murraymcgregor7829
      @murraymcgregor7829 Месяц назад +3

      Sorry about that man! Focus on yourself. Read books, get strong in the gym and keep going out to sharpen your social sword! I am 30 and have never felt healthier since I have been eating more meat, lifting weights and cutting out the sugar and processed junk. I prefer sweet fruit. Gives me a lot of minerals for improved well being.

    • @pancakerepairman
      @pancakerepairman Месяц назад +3

      it's called bipolar.

  • @therhymerr
    @therhymerr Месяц назад +11

    So what your saying is at any given moment a women is changing her persona like a chameleon to match her environment? Holy shit no wonder there are so many issues with social media today.

  • @tomgardner2253
    @tomgardner2253 Месяц назад +2

    Spot on video. I see lots of guys saying it's not worth it, but nothing changes if nothing changes. Yes there is a lot of male competition but 90% of the guys are boring/idiots. It's not hard to level up ahead of the pack. But carry on having a defeatist attitude, it helps those of us trying to get results. The challenge I'm finding is keeping them engaged a few dates in and not them not checking the apps "Just in case"

    • @TheWedabest
      @TheWedabest Месяц назад

      Why keep fighting a losing war? If you want to stay in the game fine. If other men choose to leave and choose not to play games, don't bag on them!

  • @sunburn74
    @sunburn74 Месяц назад +2

    10000 likes on a solid mid girl. Good lord. I'm like a 7-8 as a guy (tall, good looking, wealthy, fit and get I get like 1% of that). Crazy

  • @FlyingSoulworld
    @FlyingSoulworld Месяц назад +10

    They can be way weirder in their behaviour: I've been asked out by 2 women (separate situations, of course) that din't show up at the meeting point and didn't answer my calls. Women are slaves of their emotions, it's true only what they feel in THAT moment, nothing else counts. But what it's true is that if she genuinly desires you, she will always come back to you.

    • @murraymcgregor7829
      @murraymcgregor7829 Месяц назад

      Get with a girl of whom is known to the other girls. Watch them break.

    • @PB22559
      @PB22559 Месяц назад +1

      Desire doesn't last for long. She'll eventually get bored and want something new. Modern women are not geared up to be wives and mothers.

    • @carlgonzalez3337
      @carlgonzalez3337 Месяц назад +1

      there is no such thing as "genuine desiere" anymore.. they just focus on what benefit can they get from you

    • @FlyingSoulworld
      @FlyingSoulworld Месяц назад

      @@carlgonzalez3337 just because you haven't experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

  • @artofsound6275
    @artofsound6275 Месяц назад +1

    Best channel when it comes to dating 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

  • @soichirohonda267
    @soichirohonda267 Месяц назад +3

    No single word about dating apps algorithms. It favorites best 2-10% of man. Also they have interest not to match normies fast, if ever, yet to squeez the money from them slowly, with memberships, "premium accounts" etc.

  • @benlane7282
    @benlane7282 Месяц назад +72

    Honestly, it’s just not worth the headache.

    • @jessewright8930
      @jessewright8930 Месяц назад +7

      So what you gonna be gay?

    • @Demarcus925
      @Demarcus925 Месяц назад +2

      @@jessewright8930😂

    • @benlane7282
      @benlane7282 Месяц назад

      @@jessewright8930I’m stacking up my money working a job I like, working out every day, just went travelling for a year and gonna go again when I feel like doing so. I can assure you this kinda thing is more rewarding than playing these games just to get a girl that will break up with you after a while ‘cause it was only your turn or only likes you because of your wallet, why tf would I want any of that

    • @squarecracker
      @squarecracker Месяц назад +1

      @@jessewright8930 seriously considering it at this point. the game is beyond rigged. you are expecting to 'take the lead' but if you misjudge her you are a sex criminal.
      not worth it at all

    • @maykolee
      @maykolee Месяц назад +7

      @@jessewright8930nah not attracted to the same sex, so ima just go my own way 🙃

  • @pikeflowed
    @pikeflowed Месяц назад +1

    I personally don't want to " fix it ", i just want them to fix themselves :)

  • @nightknightlegion1273
    @nightknightlegion1273 Месяц назад

    Good content Danny. I've been listening to Dr. Orion Taraban lately, and he sums it up pretty much the same in an academic way. When could you do a fall dress up, miss those content.

  • @kaicooper9421
    @kaicooper9421 Месяц назад +4

    I'm doing this now and it, is, hard. I've been approaching almost 1 a day. I tried to talk to 1 at the gym and it was ackward as I'm not that good. Exactly what you said I was talking to a girl and got her number. Everything was going well but I noticed that the 2x I asked her as I'm not looking for whatsapp buddy. Just let it go and move on. Its no easy for me at least but like you said, I want take more control

    • @murraymcgregor7829
      @murraymcgregor7829 Месяц назад

      Yeah diffictult for me to. Keep strong. Keep meeting woman and sharpening your social sword. Try go to music festivals where there are large amounts of the friendliest people!

  • @foleskinfoley8617
    @foleskinfoley8617 Месяц назад

    When’s the fashion course coming out mate?

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery Месяц назад +1

    *It’s crazy how quickly women can switch from hot to cold. What do you think is the biggest trigger for this behavior?*

  • @chilledchad
    @chilledchad Месяц назад

    They did this before social media took off. it's in their nature.

  • @AngelofJustice412
    @AngelofJustice412 Месяц назад +24

    It doesn’t matter dude. It doesn’t matter how attractive you are. The system is broken.

    • @TheUnkindness
      @TheUnkindness Месяц назад +13

      True. I have beautiful women chasing me, that's not the issue. It's just that they aren't worth shit. They're only faithful to their emotions of the moment.

    • @Nickbronline
      @Nickbronline Месяц назад

      Black pill cope

    • @julianwarren__
      @julianwarren__ Месяц назад +1

      ⁠​⁠@@TheUnkindnessdamn humble bragging in the youtube comments is just wild to me

    • @TheUnkindness
      @TheUnkindness Месяц назад

      ​@@julianwarren__ I'm not bragging. Just trying to let other men know that most of the time they aren't the problem. Most women are simply unable to be faithful to anything else than their emotions and therefore aren't worth your time or feeling sorrow.
      If I bragged I would've said that I can bag all these women, which isn't true. They're just after my looks and then when another guy they like comes their way they leave as quick as they arrived.

    • @c0nvict_pleb174
      @c0nvict_pleb174 Месяц назад

      Piss poor attitude dude

  • @bruhbruhh5103
    @bruhbruhh5103 Месяц назад +1

    Damn, I did this..guess I let it slip away.

  • @davidsolis9350
    @davidsolis9350 Месяц назад +1

    Hi Danny, your videos are great. I wonder by any chance would you be interested in adding English & Spanish subtitles to your videos?

  • @jjexpress134
    @jjexpress134 Месяц назад +2

    800 like is 1) this year ? 2) what city are you in ? 3) is is a new account ?

  • @jimh527
    @jimh527 23 дня назад

    Find a smart, average looking girl with a great education from a good family.
    Live happily ever after. 😃

  • @TRAVELLEROFWORLDS
    @TRAVELLEROFWORLDS Месяц назад +5

    Sometimes its best to start fresh.
    Even if you're scared.

  • @markkelderman2439
    @markkelderman2439 Месяц назад +64

    Women this, women that... You guys should read Mastering The First Impression by Casanovareads if you want to be successful with high-value women.

  • @heathRocco
    @heathRocco Месяц назад +1

    Just be clear & direct. You'll know right away if she's keen or not.
    Its much easier moving forward without all the verbal gymnastics 😂

  • @weimengcheng9035
    @weimengcheng9035 Месяц назад

    thanks bro

  • @slowlee25
    @slowlee25 Месяц назад +3

    I like your content, but I think Point #1 should be universal for both men and women. Why would you want to spend time with someone you don't click with? No matter how hot she is, you gonna have to talk with her before and after sex its not worth it haha. Also putting so much importance on sex is'nt healty and won't help you get more sex. When I got picky about not just the looks but also the character of a girl it actualy led me to have more sex and with better quality women. I mean think about it, would you rather hang out with a girl that you know wants to have sex with you no matter what or with a girl that likes you and wants to get to know you? It's basicaly what you do with abundance - you first try to find out who you like. It's probably similary atractive mindset and much less time consuming.

    • @PB22559
      @PB22559 Месяц назад

      You may click with her for a while but eventually that desire will fade too. Modern women just want the butterfly feeling and when it's not there, they're ready to move on. Long term relationships are supposed to be about family, duty, commitment, compromise, having the ability to resolve conflicts and grow together. 99% of Modern women just aren't geared up to be true wives and mothers.

  • @RobertPaulsim
    @RobertPaulsim Месяц назад

    is when her "demo version" expires and now you have to pay for it. trust me. its been for eternity, its biological. be a man and pay. all grown ups pay for it. your grandpa, your father did it. it is your turn. just accept it and be happy because once you pay now YOU have the leverage. use this power to your advantage.

  • @lolife1981
    @lolife1981 Месяц назад

    People (Women) had lives before they met you.
    Not using online in 2024, is like only apply for jobs in person.

  • @curlyhairdudeify
    @curlyhairdudeify Месяц назад

    They best way to get a woman to go from cold to hot.... Ignore her. She'll be all over you.

  • @MonkeyDAbdi
    @MonkeyDAbdi Месяц назад

    lmao this girl i talk to memphis depay is in her dms imagine LOOL im battling with high tier footballer.

  • @maykolee
    @maykolee Месяц назад +6

    The juice isn’t worth the squeeze

  • @JugglernautNr9
    @JugglernautNr9 Месяц назад

    fantastic, thx!

  • @Jaboukii
    @Jaboukii Месяц назад

    Many time women will through signals at me such as physical interaction to strong eye contact but, shii no way im taking them on G. Way to hard to make small talk lmao

  • @anita-di2fb
    @anita-di2fb Месяц назад +3

    It's very simple-The man wasn't "the one"! The man ! She was temporarily "beguiled" The man thought he had "beguiled" her! The spell dissipated! (her emotions changed!) End of story! Goodbye!!

    • @davidwhite206
      @davidwhite206 Месяц назад

      Nobody cares. There are billions of them out here. One particular pussy is not special.

  • @wchamp170
    @wchamp170 Месяц назад

    We all know exactly what Danny is talking about. It's not new. Just keep in mind men, the only power she has is the power you give her. If you allow her to treat you as an option that's all you will ever be. Be. She is the option. Don't ever forget that . Danny's phenomenal value added comes from consistently making these videos and repeating the material over and over and over again. You only learn something after many repetitions, and thank you very much for what you do

    • @stevemann1299
      @stevemann1299 Месяц назад

      A handsome guy with options already does this. It's the millions of weak simps that can't get the memo...

  • @Vlad_Ciprian
    @Vlad_Ciprian 11 дней назад

    She's really random yes

  • @carlgonzalez3337
    @carlgonzalez3337 Месяц назад +4

    summary: DON'T DATE. this is too much information to remember, too many problems and stress, and too complicated to put up with.. they're full of crappy games, and we're done with it

  • @nytracus9680
    @nytracus9680 Месяц назад +1

    Failure to escalate at the right time is a great observation. Guys need to just go for it if a window opens. I don't really know why most girls won't wait for a guy they like to make a move, but in general they just won't.

  • @mrfrismich1581
    @mrfrismich1581 Месяц назад

    is there any woman in the comments, who can confirm or deny that?
    No?

  • @AnAussieinNorway
    @AnAussieinNorway Месяц назад +3

    Bro, that girl at 11:00 is borderline below average

    • @sunburn74
      @sunburn74 Месяц назад

      Yeah but she probably thinks she's a 10 and is picking only the men who are 10s. Crazy

  • @nathanscharf5116
    @nathanscharf5116 Месяц назад +2

    I’ll just stay single and stay in my own lane

  • @pancakerepairman
    @pancakerepairman Месяц назад

    too droning, didn't listen. if a woman suddenly loses interest i would just assume she found a better option. most likely her ex drunk dialed her and she took him back.

  • @TheMensHighway
    @TheMensHighway Месяц назад

    I dated a girl who got 10,000 likes in two days. She was average at best with shitty pics. She told me the things guys say and I couldn't believe it. There so many losers out there who have ZERO game.
    Be the guy that she is afraid to lose.
    It takes time but it is SO worth it in the long term.

  • @MSOTV-ug4ln
    @MSOTV-ug4ln Месяц назад

    so much false information in this video!

  • @Egghead1199
    @Egghead1199 Месяц назад +1

    I feel like this dude is speaking facts, but his experiences are full of shit.

  • @typicalmegaman
    @typicalmegaman Месяц назад

    .

  • @blueberry9696ify
    @blueberry9696ify Месяц назад +2

    Nice video . But I disagree in the way you expose the problem, it’s like it’s all on « us » Men to act right and do the right things, but you never question what’s modern Women behavior in 2024 ? You can check by yourself the outstanding numbers of videos in RUclips with the title « why men are not approaching women anymore? ». Because nowadays their behavior on the dating scene is absolutely disgusting . In your video you never put that in question, why many of them are not worthy to get approach online or in real ? Because their expectations, behaviors are influenced by social media , saturation of dating apps , and corrupt materialistic society creating hungry venal woman …In reality in many cases you are dealing with monsters despite being the best Version of yourself. We reached the breaking point in 2024 and never it has been so hard to create a genuine connection !