I had been molested so many times in my childhood. I told my boyfriend the entire matter and he did understand my feelings . Now he became my husband. So understanding person.
@Beyond Infinity what a solution. Abuse is a situation and for that don't give birth. Giving birth or not is your choice,but please change this mentality of getting rid of abuse by not giving birth. This kind of saying make it more hopeless for millions of kids out there facing abuse. If you don't feel for them it's fine. But don't say such harsh and cheap things.
100% true. I don't leave my kids with anyone except a few trusted people but for very short time if ever. My kids know if someone (regardless of age, gender and relationship) touches them in appropriately it's not ok and they should let me know right away..
knowledge loverz oh please most Indian parents always trusted their relatives rather than their children. It’s not even that they trust their relatives, they fear more what will people say. Thank god my mother would have killed anyone who touched us. Thank god for relatives who protected us. I was lucky to have family who took care of us. I think today parents are becoming more aware. No one will ever touch my kids and get away with it.
My cousin brother kept molesting me since I was 12 yrs old....even my uncle molested me...In my whole life I have been molested by 10 to 11 men...and what's much shocking is they all were relatives....but as I grew up...I started fighting with my fears...I told abt all this to my father..but he simply ignored..then my mother helped me...she was the only hero of my life... she's no more with me...but she made me strong enough to fight against all the adverse situations of life... thanks mum...every boy or girl needs a mother like you...I love you very much
Unfortunately, this can happen. it's not your fault and if you read the comments here you would know that you're not alone and these horrible things can happen to anyone but you're not lonely you have your mother and you have us.we'll pray for you. We're proud of you.Be strong girl!
I am really sorry for your loss .. I can understand .. we are so unsafe .. the world is so unjust towards girls..We have to be each others power and fight against it..
Now I understand why my family members always say me to stay away from any older boys or Uncles.When they told me that I was very sad & unhappy. but now I understand that they just want to protect me and not to make any darkest memory in my mind .Tnx mom & dad
Oh...Goodness...really didn't expect so many likes... thank you everybody...Nd yes..,no man is born as a rapist, but situations tame him to become one...
My father told that to me tooo.... All my relatives tell me to shut up. They talk about the man casualy as if nothing happened many a times in front of me and expect me to just shut my mouth
True. The face of that person comes in front of eyes again and again. In fact the entire experience comes in front of eyes. If feels like he's only toùching again and again. It's really hard to get up once again when you're betrayed by your own family.
@@secretsuperstar4930 yh I am a girl but I can understand . I was mostly bet up by my mom when till 13 yrs old for what my mistakes and also for what I didn't do . Once my mom even crushed my head on the wall as we people do to a coconut not only mine but my younger brothers too. But as I grew I'm 15 now from 14 my mind become machord so if my mom comes to beat me without a reason I stop her hand or i just beat back as self-defense . My dad says me to apologise to my mom for what I do but for the first time in my life I said to my dad that I won't say sorry for what is not my mistake . My brother almost is crazy now eventhough he isn't actually but now all h want is freedom talking bck to mom everyday and getting scolding everyday beating my younger sisters because he saw mom beating me and my older sis he thinks physical abuse is normal .I'm even a victim of emotional abuse didn't ever get hugged from parents . If I continue its a long story
To all people verbally abusing her for being a star kid: 1) She didn't choose to be one. 2) This video proves than being a "star kid" doesn't make you any less talented than a normal human being.
she might be talented and a star kids..but as long as she dont snatch other peoples chance..if she was really ethics..then why she did not utter a word for SSR..she is talented but also a deep hypocrite just like the latest star Akshay or Varun who post thing on SSr just beacuse their film is coming..
@@kumar646 have uh seen her tweets for sush?? Or a tym when she was shouting that I came out after watching ms dhoni?? No?? Search or I will give link 😌
@@priyankagohel6454 the thing is not her comment on Ms dhoni..but her silence..so many knows the killer of SSR..but chose to remain silent..grow up..learn to observe and read between the lines..be a good observer..
@@suhasivnanwani792 It is not as easy as it seems. If we take a look at todays gen we notice a thing that everyone are too addicted to their phn. Even nowadays parents give less time to their children and they even care less. Parents are getting selfish day by day . Though in our times parents were toxic but yet caring. being teen we think that we are r8 but sometimes it seems that our were r8 when they took decision for us.
@@Mahira-nx8df you are right it is not easy as it seems but we can try. And I am not a teen, I am 24, and not addicted to the phone. And also I am a teacher I spent most of the day with children from class 1 to 8th, so I know very well how I have to tackle these little smart kids. Hence, I will not be a toxic parent, Will not be addicted to phone , will not suffocate them, and will make effort to make them a good human being.
@@suhasivnanwani792 I didnt said that you cant be a good parent but many people are still toxic you know. Toxicity is nothing to do with generations. Its a human nature.
@@Mahira-nx8df oh no no no. I was not arguing, I was just trying to say as I am not phone addicted, or toxic. And so there are still many people like you and me exist in this world who are not toxic. Just that. And toxicity is human nature you are absolutely right. 😊
The worst thing is some children don't even realize that they're being molested , they're too young to even realize what is happening . And when they grow up and realize , they hate themselves . Many people don't believe them because they're children .
I am too disgusted to think about it again but 'm glad that i escaped. The sad thing is that till now i can' t talk about it to anyone because they would think that its a lie.
My thoughts exactly! You should see how an elephant mom protects her baby. Not just the mom, but the elder sisters, aunties, grannies of the baby elephant- everybody sides with the baby elephant when there is a predator around. They form a protective circle around the baby. The matriarch of the family leads the attack. You'll get to see this in many videos of elephant herds. They are so united when it comes to fighting off danger, aur in insaano ko dekh lo. Kabhi kabhi lagta hai ki agar main kisi hathini ki aulaad hoti to meri life laakh guna zyada achchi hoti. Kam se kam family waali feeling to is lifetime me experience kar paati.
@@pryo2460 Please shut up and spare me the horror of listening to your pravachan about motherly realizations. I'm 100% sure that you are exactly the type of mother that has been depicted in this video and your guilty conscience is what is making you defend mothers like these. Evil spawn.
@@pryo2460 what? Like literally, it's actually a mother who saves her child from any trouble. I never saw a single women going against it, rapists ki mother tak bachati h apne bache ko to ye to innocent h🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ What mentality u have?
Just few days back my mother told me when I was born my dad's mother told my mother "today u are a girl's mother .if their is ever a situation were ur daughter say anything against her father .trust ur daughter not ur husband. " My father is the best dad in this whole world with great upbringing and values but still my grandmother taught my mother to always listen to ur daughter first and then ur husband. Fortunately I am blessed with a great family and never had to face mental or physical assault.But i am extremely proud of my grandmother for her teachings .
Oh my god you don't know what your grandmother said to your mother Oh god I just have goosebumps I love your grandmother I just want to be like her She is awesome yrr You know what my mother choose her husband over me
I am an only child, my mom was a single mom. When I was 10 yrs old, she met someone and the following year we moved in with him. She was trying to give me a better life, she worked so hard and went to school at the same time. My step father and I had a great relationship.. I finally got something I always wanted, a father. we had a happy little family and our own house. I had my own room. When I was in the 9th grade 14 years old, my mom had an exam out of town and went to spend the night with her sister in that city. I had to stay home alone with my step father. He used this time to molest me. he told me not to tell my mom. the next day she came home and I told her. she made me tell him what happened and what he did. he denied at first. but then he accepted it- maybe he thought if he apologized all will go back to normal. that did not happen. we sold our house and since then my mom and i have been living alone. she never found anyone again. This dirty man went to my family members and lied about what happened, he tried to make me look bad, like i made up the whole thing to have my mom to myself. my moms family doesn't believe me. I stay away from them. I am getting therapy after many years, i have been very depressed, have anxiety, paranoia, suicidal thoughts... but I am dealing with it proper now, getting help. I am 34 years old and I am a survivor. I am sad to see how many other youngsters have gone through something similar, and if you reading this feel alone, please know that you are not alone. Life is beautiful you just need to find your strength and push through. Sending love and healing energy to you all.
This is EXACTLY WHY in islam, when a mother re marries and her daughter is under 10 and son under 7, she loses custody of her children until they reach that age, because children are NOT safe with their step father. Just yesterdays heart breaking news in the uk that a mothers boyfriend killed her, raped her 11 year old daughter and killed her, killed her 11 year old friend that was sleeping over and killed her 13 year old son. 😭😭😭😭, tomorrow because of family breakdown and deviating from religion this will start happening with asian women and their innocent children 😭😭.the son at 13 was not strong enough to take on this man 😭😭😭😭
@razamughal9095 this is not happening because people are deviating from religion. This has been happening always in all cultures, during all eras. But women are silenced then and now because reputation of the family/clan is more important than the physical and mental wellbeing of an individual. In a society where women who are molested are seen as damaged commodities, what use is there speaking up for them? How will people know such evils are happening on a daily basis?
@@jasamkojajesam6108 Well um not when they've been abused emotionally and physically, kids would never lie to their parents about being sexually abused, that's something really severe for a child to know and to be exposed to knowing what they would have went through and the trauma, because kids are innocent and if their innocence is taken away wouldn't that be alarming like imagine if your child came upto you and said that they've been raped, wouldnt that be a red flag for you or would u just sit there and leave ur child suffer. I don't think any parent would unless their evil.
My eldest sister's husband tried to molest me many times when I was a kid. I told my parents, they did nothing. Even today if I speak about it they tell me to shut up. My sister also continues to live with him and avoids me. Such is this world! Happy to be married and away from all of them in America!
@@HarshvardhanKanthode I don't have family molesters here so I am pretty sure I am safe. As per the abortion law, I can always take a trip of India for it. By the way my state is pro choice in the US.
I went through sexual abuse when I was just 6 years old, did not realize it at that age but later understood that it was sexual abuse and why it felt so uncomfortable and I was fraught! I gathered up my courage and 16 years later, told my mom about this just to hear "you gotta just forget about such stuff! they happen!!", That's all that I heard from her, my dad had no reply when I went to him and my younger brother had no words either! now they ask me why I tend to be very negatively connoted about people, even inside the family..... I mean what do they expect!!!!!?!!!
This is very relatable. I remember it happening to me a couple of times at around 6. I didn't realize what was happening to me was wrong, and I still can't believe that what happened to me was molestation, because the person was really close and to be trusted.. Mine just told me to "tell him to stop doing it." That's it.. If there is one thing to be taken from this is that we will be better parents than our own. Stay strong, Nikethana. You have come so far. We will make it in this world, despite it being so cruel. More power to you. 💪💪
I was so abused at very tender age never once i spoke of this until now ..😢😢😢😢😢 now i m 25 just forgot never told anyone..... I dont even know what it it...
This happened with me too. My family consists of me , my mom and dad. My dad worked out of place and my mom was also a working women. Being a single daughter, i had to go through a lot in the past. But i was happy that my mom got a tranfer and moved to another place , we had a neighbour with a family consisting of mom , dad and their 2 daughters. I was happy that i had someone to play with me and the mom of that family made food for me and after school i dress, clean up and prayed then went to neighbours house. Since, my mom is working she came late and till that time i be with that family. So the relationship was like this. One day my moms health got bad and was admitted in hospital ,my dad took care of her and i had to stay with this family(neighbours). This was the worst moments of my life started to begin. Every morning this womens husband touched my private parts to wake me up and when i go to bathroom he peeped through the hole in the door, i was not able to do anything. Even the bathroom didnt gave me protection. So, it was diwali and a craker got busted suddenly and all the smoke went to my eyes i was not able to open .so this guy pressed me against him and was rubbing water in my eyes were his daughters and wife was playing. He rubbed his rubed his dirty parts against me. I was not able to cry or was able to show any emotion , i was numb and was not feeling anything. The next day i told the wife to take me to hospital , we went to the hospital and i cried hugging dad and didnt told him. I went to mom and said that he touched me and my mom told me not to tell anything to dad. That moment i understood the value of myself. I was no one to anybody. That moment onwards i made me realise that i was nothing. That still haunts me. Now, i am 20 years of old ,my mom passed away when i was 17 few days after my birthday. I live my lovely dad who loves me the most.we have a very lovely relationship. One day we were sleeping and some emotions bursted and i told my dad this happened. He said to me that he failed as a dad and that was something that broke him to pieces . After that he was having depression and started drinking and was normal after few weeks. He cares for me protects me and loves me most. I am 20 yrs old and i still sleep next to my dad. He sings and says stories for me to sleep. But i loved my mom and i still love her. Even if i hate her i have forgiven her. I am crying right now writing this but i wanted to share my story. That still haunts me .sorry for my english.❤ to everybody.
Dear young lady . Wish you best wishes for your future. Women in the world. please work together against women discrimination regardless of caste and religion and language and status .
sorry to hear that your mom passed away....... don't forget we all are with you past is past so forget it and start a new life be strong to fight with dirty man
After watching this scene, I understood why my mom used to tell me not to go to any uncles who asks me to go near them when I was a kid. I used to think why she says that.. But now I know.
You have a very sweet mom. Meri maa ne mujhe kuch nahi sikhaya, kisi cheez ke liye prepare nahi kiya. Useless. How funny is it that despite having two parents, I've lived like an orphan and pretty much raised myself!!
@@Nitya-r86 I'm sorry for ur parents behavior. But please stay strong , be always good and prove to society with ur matured behavior that you are respectable tho ur parents are not that good
Most of the abuses are by relatives or friends. This happens to both boys and girls. However, cases are filed very very very very rarely in the police station if the abuse is by someone the family knows.
Believe me this wasn't exist much before but this filthy pornography f****d up the society. In present time our indian society is on peak molesting women.😭😭😭😭
This is very common...even our own parents refuse to accept the bitter reality of their own relatives....for them, their so called izzat matters more than their children's safety....
When she started screaming I had chills all over. She could finally scream after years of torture. I can't imagine the horror people go through and are just told to shut up cause family's reputation >>>>> you're own child. F people and their "izzat" you don't have any respect if you can't take care of and protect your own child.
What pains me more than the actual incident is that the whole family is sitting there listening to her, people are trying to shut her up, calm her down, but not one person cares enough to empathise, not one person gets up to hug her, to acknowledge her, to say that they're sorry it happened to her. They just sit there.
almost every girl in India has faced sexual harassment in some kind of way. as a victim of child abuse i literally cried after seeing this scene. as a girl who had no idea about it but just had a disgusting feeling. when i finally grown up enough to know about these things i realised that even ur close ones and "sensible educated" person do these things. not to forget its always our fault
Not just in india, its the issue of every other country we also face this problem and each time i realise the age of the person doing this shit makes me even more sad honestly.
@123fort andbree it's good that it saved u and I wish the same.. bt how to teach self defence to a 2-3 yr old girl?😢😢😢😢😢 Aaye din aisi khabre aati h jinme masoom bachiyon ka dareendo dwara rape kiya jata h. Kaise bachay unhe😢.. Jb tk hmara law strong nhi hoga inke khilaf.. kuch nhi ho skta.. jb tk aam jnta inke khilaf nhi hogi . Kuch nhi ho skta.
The comments section of this video is arguably and most possibly unlike any other comment section in the entire RUclips video library. The number of people coming forward to share their personal experience is unbelievable. I can’t even imagine the pain the people who have opened up here had to go through or still going through. This just proves that a cinema is not just an entertainment, but a strong and substantial medium to bring out unspoken and difficult truths. To portray images that we mostly pretend to have not seen. I just pray that the Almighty God comfort each one of you, strengthen you and give you peace. Amen!
When she was shouting, it hit hard as a male. Felt like she was shouting on my face. Never felt so belittled as a male. The pain in her eyes, we cant even imagine what humiliation and pain she and many other children go through.
Thank you for understanding our pain. Otherwiss Men don't even listen.. Editing this since my replies not going under this comment anymore -- @Rohit Bhushan Absolutely.. The day I wrote that reply,I came home after getting catcalled by few men. It got me back to old memories. I just got a bit sentimental that day while watching the video and reading the comments which is why I wrote that (this) reply. The male victims and survivors are far more than we can imagine and I know that. I've all my heart for them as well. And about what I wrote that Men don't listen,that was my experience in my life. Now still I'd apologize if you felt I generalized men -- I never had any such intentions. Like you said many male survivors have it worse than female survivors,similarly many female survivors also have it worse than male survivors though I believe pain of abuse is just the worst for the person who experiences it. So I just wrote it out of emotions.
Most of the girls got molested in their life and it's proved by this comment section,I literally cried and realized how we, girls(not all) are not even safe in our own home.
I can understand, even happened to me also at that time, I could not even fight back, but now I don't keep quiet and even try to help girls like me if I find them to be at that position.
This hits hard... cuz even I was too young to realize that I was being molested, all I knew was that this was not some "doctor" game... Not a lot of people talk about child molestation, and i'm glad someone brought this up... and hats off to Alia for her amazing acting...
Shameful how so many parents have silenced their kids on sexual assault. I’ve gone through it too and it’s sickening. Made me feel I can’t even trust my family with my own safety. They never took my side.
And why don't u tell them ki be strong aur agr unke saath koi aisa krta h toh sbse pehle being a parent aap un lo go ko sbk sikhayenge .... Kb tak aur kis kis se bachaoge chhipaoge ladna sikhao betio ko aur betiyan kyun ladko ko bhi aur kaho unn logo se ki jinki niyat khraab h voh apne ghr prr hi baithe kyunki unki jgh humare ghr prr nhi
I told my mum when I was 9 years old. She slapped me across the face and said I was unholy.....I m a 48 year old woman .....we havnt spoken for over 39 years. No loss. My life is way better without toxic family. Abused by father brother and other male relatives in pakistan. I see none of them. My life is rich without them all.....
@@biberflub so you mean to say the father knew he would not like kill his brother and that at the end of the day he would choose his brother over his own daughter? And that justifies it?
This scene gives me goosebumps. Alia has a done a fantastic job. We must teach all our kids about bad touch and good touch right from the beginning. Nowadays it is taught in many schools too. Things are changing, but as parents we also need to have such conversation with our children at home. Together we can make a difference.
Hey Dude what's wrong with you .... Please don't take your father, family and your husband's prosperity and his property because you don't do hardwork for purchase all of this...
You deserved better.I hope you are out of that situation now.Go to therapy it’ll help you.Remember,you are loved and respected even if you didn’t get that from your family, you will get it from others.
Same thing happened to me. At the age of 8 when I don't know nothing. But somehow I asked him one day when he tried to touch me 'Ain't am your daughter?' and that hit him Hard, he stopped and threatened me showing the fan in our hall saying if you say this to anybody you gonna lose your papa. How can I not be scared? Isn't Papa's are every daughters superheroes/ daughters are Papa's princesses? That's what they told me. So I forgiven him After so many years later he abundant us. Last new year Eve I spill this to my mom and brother, she told me she believes me but said ' Don't say this to anybody no one gonna believe you, and he definitely gonna deny it and this evil society will label you as a liar. So just shut up for your on good' So I feel you 😞
Jas baksh ALLAH IS THE SAME GOD YOU WORSHIP YOU HAVEN’T EVEN READ THE QURAN AND DID YOU KNOW JESUS’S AMAZING STORIES ARE MENTIONED IN THE QURAN HOW DARE YOU COME AND TALK NONE SENSE ON SOMETHING THAT YOU DONT KNOW *ANYTHING* ABOUT
The moment she spoke her issue, I started crying with my heart out, regretting that why didn't I let my parents know about my problem. It's been 5 years since I was molested and no one knows this till now, not even my mom. I don't have the courage to speak out and have been carrying this pain in my heart since then. I didn't even know that I was being molested. What she said is indeed true. We must be careful inside our home too........................
Your feelings are very valid. And,you don't have to regret anything. I certainly can't imagine your pain but I can understand how it feels since I went through it too. You're so so so strong,I'm not lying. You deserved better. We can't change the past unfortunately,but can make the future better. I wish you all the very best in life. Sending loads of love and power to your side. 🤍
Dude share it with your parents you know may be it will refuce your pain they are your closer ones you should tell them but only if they are understanding otherwise you have god take him as ypur friend and share everything
Speak up before your parents. I believe they will surely support you but will say "Don't say it to others". Cut those crap. Be leader of your own soul healing. Don't subpress yourself. Give peace to your soul and do whatever that makes your soul at peace. One solution, that I also suggested someone is, "Save a child so that you can save your inner child and give justice to your soul" Be your Own Warrior. Stay Safe and Blessed. My cousin got through somewhat similar situation, and she expressed it before mom and Aunty, but none actually acted. While my mom listening to this matter later on, save guard us from that uncle and said, if something such happens to my child, I'll slit him open. My parents are my strength and That's why maybe I'm Bold in expressing my thoughts.
"didn't even know I was being molested" is the worst part. People saying tell your parents. I would say, tell to the person you feel most comfortable with alongside he/she being mature enough. If that person is a parent for you, then surely tell your parent.
I'VE MADE A PROMISE TO MYSELF, I WILL NEVER EVER BE A SILENT COWARD MOTHER OR A WOMAN. I realised years ago how wise and sensible my mother was when she didn't allow me to go wander alone with my uncles or older male cousins. Some in my family found it weird and thought my Maa was a prude for this but goshh I'm grateful she did that. Even if there was 0.0000001% chances of something happening, she was cautious of it. She also taught me about my personal boundaries and self-respect. She's such a Queen🙏
I wonder how your mom was so aware of this, or stories or maybe experiences (hopefully not) she might have had which no one will get to know, and how deeply this whole curse is embedded in our society. But so proud of your mom. God bless her. ♥️ from Pakistan.
@@caratblinkforever2006 aw same here, always good to see a fellow Carat💖💙 And sorry for replying so late RUclips is so weird.... sometimes I don't get any notifications at all
@@anilkumarpr-sub who r u to judge someone's character.. just because she date a few people.. don't give a character certificate.. there is bad relationship and better to be away from such relationship than getting stuck to it.. I swear bad mentality...
@@devanshipandya4857 first know what i am talking about... she behaved very badly in kapil sharma... but she copyright striked it to hide it.. and dating is not a bad behaviour.
The comments section is breaking my heart. It's one thing to be touched without permission, it's something else when your own parents don't support you because of shame. Let's teach all of our kids to understand what is consent.
Anuradha Pandit What the hell did u just said... Consent... Are you even in your senses that what word u have chosen for kids molestation.... Please bewate with your words they havr impact differently ob different minds... Pls aways think before u speak shit out of your mouth..., 😠😠😠😠
First time in my entire life I thank Karan Johar for Introducing us to Alia. She is really good actress. I mean when she screamed it brought shivers down my spine.
Alia and her flaring nostrils are distracting AF.. i hate K jo for introducing alia she gets everything sitting at home stealing opportunities from other actots
Powerful scene! Parents, please listen to your kids when they report incidents of molestation. And don't just ignore them. Take necessary action against the perpetrator.
After reading the comment section, seeing everyone coming out of their dark places is one of the most satisfying but at the same time, kinda gut-wrenching feeling. Whether it's a girl or a boy, I salute every one of you. That's why we need sex education.
I used to feel perhaps I'm unlucky to have experienced these horrors but I now realise all that I faced has been faced by so many people. Anyway,I hope for this world to be a better place.🙏🏼
That moment when she finally screams and makes everyone shut up is so powerful. All the pain and anger against this vile uncle and society in general that Veera had bottled up for years is finally released. It makes me cry every time.
It hurts even more when u can't talk about this things to anyone, keeping all inside you, being depressed, resenting yourself because u can't do anything. It also affects your mental state a lot, you won't be able to trust anyone anymore after this, it feels like this whole world is gonna betray you. Eventually you won't have any friends, because you are too scared to get near someone or to open up yourself, you will be lonely and empty inside. But i believe i can heal myself so u can too. Have faith in you.
Its so sad that many people who saw her only in Soty and then went on to judge her for being a star kid without acting talent. Alia is one of the few star kids that is an amazing actress!
my mother was never friendly with me, always into her family and stuff. my father never knew what exactly is happeneing in the house,as he fulltime working outside. my mother's favorite brother molested me but my mother is not aware. i dont think she would take my side also. saddest part is i am 30 and suffer till today. i try hard to forgive but not possible i just cant accept her as my mother,because she was the main reason for the worst of worst of all the things happened to me. even today if i tell her she is not capable of understanding a bit of what we have through
I was in class 9th , he used to come everyday . Did the same with me . I told my mother , she said , " Aise hote hain log , ignore karo." I couldn't do anything , kept quiet for 4 years . Grades went down , had clinical depression , results ruined and I couldn't tell anyone what happened . Finally , I dared not to suffer anymore . Fought everybody and left my house . After some days , called the molester and said all that I wanted . That incident still has an impact on me . I grow anxious at times , want to cry out loud and let all the pain out . Don't keep quiet girls , fight back , dare to let these monsters out . I come here often , reading the comments and the incidents shared by people .
Don't worry you have RUclips to share your feelings. Even if I never went through such a thing, I understand what it feels like... I read ffs so I know what kind of a disgusting feeling it is. Don't keep it inside. Let it out. We're here for you 💜
Many times in childhood, many girls were abused but they were child enough to realise that they are molested. When they realise what was happened to them, sometimes they face trauma and mental effects. This situation is really tough.
@@atka._ thats all upto taste yaar you may have different taste....here its not about starkid (only reason why ppl hate her and avoiding her masterpiece acts like raazi dear zindagi highway udta punjab) its genuinly about acting....and she played it well,i m not her fan but still i never forget to praise her for her act...
My view on alia bhatt's acting After soty: ehh another star kid After highway: uh ok maybe she's not that bad... After raazi: someone give her an award already
Actually alia's acting was superb nly in highway..after that it became repetitive..she used the same acting technique in every film..same crying loud and screaming in udtha punjab raazi..nly the characters are different but her acting remains the same..sehmat behaves not the same as veera does..but in alia's acting veera ,sehmat all are same
@@cutecat0000 who ever you are most probably can't be a man for sure and this fake feminism thing show it to someone else and btw just remember if all men have been the same then your father too would be living in jail for committing a crime like this or may even be *slapped to death or beyond* so mind your language before saying such thing
@Pooja Lokhande Then you become strong and raise voice against your mom also, why is she protecting her daughter's perpetrator ,such type of mom,s need a lesson,
This doesn't just happen with girls. It happens with boys as well. It happened with me :( There are good and bad people in the world. Gender doesn't matter. Respect to the beautiful Alia Bhatt for taking and bringing up such an issue.
It happened with me too.... from my uncle..... and he blackmailed and blamed me for that and I actually thought am the one who z responsible for it......... I still dream about killing him.... am 30 years old now.....
@@koya4065 Hmm. I know how it feels to go through that shit pal. With me it happened in my school when I was around 9 years old. Now I'm 25. Whatever the heck happened it triggered a bad habit of stammering in me. I hope I can break this habit for good pretty soon. Just remember that these scars that we've endured aren't meant to weaken us, they're meant to strengthen us.
Bahot achchha aliya ma'am, vo girl Jo khul kar apne sath ho rahe aanyay ko lekar aawaj nhi utha pati unke liye inspiration h ye clip, please girl ab aap akele nhi ho, aap khud ke sath ho aur O har shaks jo sach me achchha inshan h🥺🫂🙋🏻👑
I don't know if anybody noticed it or not but when she pointed at her father , her hands were shaking . This shows that even if she is acting , she is so angry on them that at any moment she might burst out of rage ..... Salute to ALIA BHATT
Abu bakar ko BHI Kaha Hoga Aisha na but khalifa banane ke liye unhone 6 Saal ke Aisha Ka nikha Kar Diya 55 Saal ke Mohamed paigambar SA .Kitna roye hoge Aisha but kisee na Nahi Sunna Alia Ka dard dekhkar Aisha Ka dard Yaad AA Gaya 😎
@@Indian14197darindey aur haivaan raam ney jab 3 saal ki masoom bacchi sita ki seal todi to socho usko dard kitna huwa hoga bichari 😔😔😔😔sita par kya beeti hogi jab 3 saal Ki umar mai shaitaan ramu ney uska balaatkaar kiya hoga Aur aaj usi darindey raam bhagwaan ko poojtey hai kuch chutiye 😡😡😡. Yeah cult religion hindu dharam waley hi asli molester hai jo apni molester bhagwaan ki pooja kartey hai jo apney molester bhagwaan ko follow kar rahey hai
@@Shreyayadav3031-w2k mohammad paigambar ki date of birth jante ho but brahma ki nahi ?? Mohammad nae Aisha ke saath marriage Kari kyu jabki uske father Abu Bakar jinda thae Aisha widow nahi thi 🧐🧐😜 phir uske bachi ke saath marriage kyu Kari बूढ़ा saayad पागल हो गया था भूल गया होगा बेटी के साथ शादी करके सुहागरात मनाते हैं
@@Shreyayadav3031-w2k zainab kon thi jiske saath mohammad paigambar nae sex karne ke liye marriage kare wo uske step son ki wife thi . Islam religion mae bhai bhen baap beti sabke saath sex jayaj hain😜 bhai jaan isliye bolti hain kyuki jisko bhai bola uske saath bhi marriage ho jaati hain
I told my dad about it, he called me a liar. Couldn’t tell my mom because my parents had an ugly separation which caused me not having contact with my mom. So I told my best friend at that time she helped me, regain confidence. But it still left hurt, I was gang raped by strangers, by my dad’s friend and my aunt’s husband. My aunt stopped my uncle but that doesn’t stop the pain n trauma/sleepless nights or nightmares of it all happening and reliving those moments in my sleep. I am married now with a amazing man. Who comforts me when I am scared or had those dreams again. If your child ever comes to you to talk about something. Don’t shut them up. Listen and help them. Abuse isn’t something to lie about it a serious matter. Don’t fail as a parent whose responsibility is to protect them and guide them.
Shayel Singh You are brave, you struggled with your past and came out from it, i can understand , what have u been through, you had a difficult time, but i am happy that u have a very soothing companion, God bless you both.
God bless u my dear....u are very strong..who did them to u are from hell .They live in a hell when they are alive and when they are dead also.You keep moving forward..n help others on your way!
Every female..I repeat,Every Female,even 90 yr old isn't safe, should learn to protect themselves from all abusive male's..abusive, Husbands too.. Respect being a Women❤️
The comment section says how many of them has faced such situations where there family didnot supprt them...such a worst moment in life when our parents are not believing us
This story is not about girls but boys also. No one can talk about the molestation with boys. But their ratio is slightly more than the girls. Whoever is reading this , please protect your son/brother as well.
the same happened to me and was even molested so many times but later i met a beautiful soul who understood me my feelings i told him all the bitter truth but he still loved me and said it was not my but societies fault and yup today i am proud to say that he is my husband !
Parents should be understand that though there are rights of parents over their children but they have to be careful about their responsibilities too .
extremely beautiful scene.....one sld know to protect thier ownselve even when our elderly ones dont understand the situation...hatss off imtiaaz sir and alia mam
As blood-curdling and gut-wrenching this scene was, how can a child protect herself/ himself from sexual abuse? Let alone when it comes from within the family? If parents and the education systems take a little more effort, hopefully, there would be lesser disgusting and heinous situations to deal with and children can grow up in a lesser traumatic environment.
Not only women i am a boy it happened with me too when i was a chid by my home tutor. I never understand what was happening but was disturbed by the situation and later understood what happened with me. #no one is safe Either a girl or a boy
Felt sad for u ☹️😔 but u know what I just noticed that people replied to these kinds of comments written by girls but didn't gave much attention to boys but stay strong 😄😄wishes from a girl
For those who dont understand urdu/hindi ill tell you what she kept saying (main point) " 2:56 you dident bring the chocolate today... Wheres the choclate? When are you gonna give it to me? Where? In the bathroom? Like you did everyday when I screamed for help? you don't know what I am talking about?! I'll remind you. I was in the bathroom. I screamed! I screamed so hard. And you would put your on my mouth making sure no one would hear IT REMEMBER?! Making sure everything OK. HOW COULD YOU GUYS NOT HEAR ME?! I was 9! You put your hand on my mouth.... Dont make a voice. I cried every night. Dident you notice that?! You told me to be careful when I go outside.... There's lots of bad people out there but why dident you tell me to be carefull inside the house as well? I was inside. I was inside. Why dident you tell me to be carefull indoors as well? Be careful with the people I know.... Be careful with you guys? I may be weak, skinny, uncomfident but I'll never be like you guys! I'm moving out and I'm never coming back! " This hiw best I could translate. I may say some lines that weren't EXACTLY spoken on the video but I hope i helped
The true revenge of this condition is not to humiliate or stand against of any woman in your life . None can be better in this world than parents but remember that they are also human beings and their minds are also overwhelmed by cultures of society's. It's always better trying to bring change. To me, if my parents are doing wrong to me and it is unbearable then the best decision is only to do duties to them and lowing down emotional attachment, but not hurting them back, as I have got this life and I am still alive just because of them.
Bravo to the girl….. my family can’t imagine how many times I have screamed my heart out myself. It’s a sad life…. When the ones closest to you try to shut you up and the ones who should be punished are roaming free in an unsafe house. The true meaning of family is represented by keeping a distance from the truth teller and shunning them out when they open their mouth but the actual villain tend to eat with family, play with family and are welcomed into the family. My heart hurts by seeing this. Cause I remember living like this since I was in 5th grade until I was 36 years old!
One of my teacher - He always has taught me that never touch a girl in a obscene manner .. He even if give punishment to girl ..He do not touch them... That's the man ...I hve learned many thing..
@@aaryaprakhar1608, that was another case you should give punishment by complaining or by hitting a slap. It's a case of harassment, abusing any body. That would be another case.
After reading all the cmnts I came to know that your life partner ur husband is the most sincerest person in this world..may every girl have a caring husband ..
I had been molested so many times in my childhood. I told my boyfriend the entire matter and he did understand my feelings . Now he became my husband. So understanding person.
You are such a lucky to have such an understanding soul.
I'm happy you got your true soulmate that understands you❤wish you both have a great life
Wow you are so lucky
He is your soulmate....God bless you
Tina Sharma same story
One rule...never trust ANYONE when it comes to the safety of your child and second rule....ALWAYS listen to your child.....
manish srivastava Well said
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@Beyond Infinity what a solution. Abuse is a situation and for that don't give birth. Giving birth or not is your choice,but please change this mentality of getting rid of abuse by not giving birth. This kind of saying make it more hopeless for millions of kids out there facing abuse. If you don't feel for them it's fine. But don't say such harsh and cheap things.
100% true. I don't leave my kids with anyone except a few trusted people but for very short time if ever. My kids know if someone (regardless of age, gender and relationship) touches them in appropriately it's not ok and they should let me know right away..
knowledge loverz oh please most Indian parents always trusted their relatives rather than their children. It’s not even that they trust their relatives, they fear more what will people say. Thank god my mother would have killed anyone who touched us. Thank god for relatives who protected us. I was lucky to have family who took care of us. I think today parents are becoming more aware. No one will ever touch my kids and get away with it.
Aalia's best performance till date.... she nailed it...She lived the character... Hatsoff
Movie name plz
@@mehanazmahi2337 Highway
@@mehanazmahi2337highway
Movies name
Highway
"kidnapp ho gayi, par waha azaad thi"
an extremly powerful line.
Can u tell me the movie
@@pramiteechakrabarty6391 its a skit, its not a movie scene
@@kyrariddle9042 no it's a movie called "highway" i got it from internet. Don't worry ..
@@pramiteechakrabarty6391 oh, i wasnt aware, thanks
@@kyrariddle9042 It's a beautiful movie.. You might have already watched it by now
I AM A 19 YEAR GIRL BUT I PROMISE THAT WHENEVER I WILL BECOME MOTHER I WILL ALWAYS LISTEN TO MY CHILDREN
Me too I'm 19 years old and my parents don't listen to me
When i will become a mother I'll always listen to my children
@@yosa__gi Ya good
I AM 16 AND WHEN I WAS 9, I PROMISED THE SAME TO MYSELF...
(Aditi)
My parents listen to me and my siblings no matter what!
Yes I'm 19 too i will also listen to my children and will help them no matter what.
The greatest betrayal is when your own mom silences you
😭 completely agree
True that is more painful than molestation 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Man....that is the nightmare of the century and i hope no one gets it
@Vichu V just suffer until you get capable of earning some money and after that just run away from your home to live a life you are craving for
Mom's never do such things
My cousin brother kept molesting me since I was 12 yrs old....even my uncle molested me...In my whole life I have been molested by 10 to 11 men...and what's much shocking is they all were relatives....but as I grew up...I started fighting with my fears...I told abt all this to my father..but he simply ignored..then my mother helped me...she was the only hero of my life... she's no more with me...but she made me strong enough to fight against all the adverse situations of life... thanks mum...every boy or girl needs a mother like you...I love you very much
Unfortunately, this can happen. it's not your fault and if you read the comments here you would know that you're not alone and these horrible things can happen to anyone but you're not lonely you have your mother and you have us.we'll pray for you. We're proud of you.Be strong girl!
I am really sorry for your loss .. I can understand .. we are so unsafe .. the world is so unjust towards girls..We have to be each others power and fight against it..
@@nafishy Well-said !!
Salute to such mothers!!! You're really lucky! Cuz anyone rarely stand by you at this kind of situation.
Pr jab maa hee hame bura bataye dusro ke saamne even khud ke ghr walo ke saamne toh fir uss ladki ka kya like me
Now I understand why my family members always say me to stay away from any older boys or Uncles.When they told me that I was very sad & unhappy. but now I understand that they just want to protect me and not to make any darkest memory in my mind .Tnx mom & dad
True, same here. At first even I wouldn’t understand this because I was a kid too but now I totally understand.
A woman has three greatest enemies : men, another woman, and silence...
Nice ... I am posting your sentence as a motivational quote ... Thanks for these sentences ...👌👌👌🙂🙏🙏🙏
@@Sci-fiAuthor so does every Human
This is so true!!
I think u should mistakenly put men because not men are rapist 🤗🤗
Oh...Goodness...really didn't expect so many likes... thank you everybody...Nd yes..,no man is born as a rapist, but situations tame him to become one...
The saddest part was the father, after knowing the truth, expects his daughter to talk sensible😑.
My father told that to me tooo.... All my relatives tell me to shut up. They talk about the man casualy as if nothing happened many a times in front of me and expect me to just shut my mouth
And that mother too ... How could she stop her like it was her mistake
My Parents responded the same way , even acted like they don't know nothing about sexual molestation , & they diverted it as mere fight 😡😡😡
I feel really pity 4 such kind of parents. Such a bloody fake people.
Fathers are like this only,even worse. They're just glorified. Fucking Patriarchal Society.
There would be many people who would just be scrolling,remembering their own pain,but still can't write of the pain that happened to them.💔💔
Bk Ranjan very true
😥😥😥😥😢😢😢
True
Right......:(
Right yr
Shi kaha yaha bohot ese log h .very true😭😭😭😭
That scream is enough to explain her pain ! 💔
A girl who experiencing any bad experiences in childhood like this...she fears about physical touch for her whole life
True. The face of that person comes in front of eyes again and again.
In fact the entire experience comes in front of eyes.
If feels like he's only toùching again and again.
It's really hard to get up once again when you're betrayed by your own family.
@@justbreathing8003 💔
@Joe more power to u
@Sargam Jhunjhunwala 😬
No its worse . I still feel dirty and unpure . Even touch of my own kids during sleep I wake up to those memories .
I got goosebumps when she shouts ...
This pain can only be understood by girls only
Not only girls.. boys, too.
@@secretsuperstar4930 yh I am a girl but I can understand . I was mostly bet up by my mom when till 13 yrs old for what my mistakes and also for what I didn't do . Once my mom even crushed my head on the wall as we people do to a coconut not only mine but my younger brothers too.
But as I grew I'm 15 now from 14 my mind become machord so if my mom comes to beat me without a reason I stop her hand or i just beat back as self-defense . My dad says me to apologise to my mom for what I do but for the first time in my life I said to my dad that I won't say sorry for what is not my mistake . My brother almost is crazy now eventhough he isn't actually but now all h want is freedom talking bck to mom everyday and getting scolding everyday beating my younger sisters because he saw mom beating me and my older sis he thinks physical abuse is normal .I'm even a victim of emotional abuse didn't ever get hugged from parents . If I continue its a long story
@@nuts3100 So sorry for your loss.. Sister... I can't even imagine what u guys going through... i hope you will feel free soon... 💔💌
Not girls or boys , it's about victim
@@secretsuperstar4930 I think I'm getting free slowly btw thanks for your words
To all people verbally abusing her for being a star kid:
1) She didn't choose to be one.
2) This video proves than being a "star kid" doesn't make you any less talented than a normal human being.
Soo true!!!!
she might be talented and a star kids..but as long as she dont snatch other peoples chance..if she was really ethics..then why she did not utter a word for SSR..she is talented but also a deep hypocrite just like the latest star Akshay or Varun who post thing on SSr just beacuse their film is coming..
@@kumar646 have uh seen her tweets for sush?? Or a tym when she was shouting that I came out after watching ms dhoni?? No?? Search or I will give link 😌
@@priyankagohel6454 the thing is not her comment on Ms dhoni..but her silence..so many knows the killer of SSR..but chose to remain silent..grow up..learn to observe and read between the lines..be a good observer..
@@kumar646 just a min uh watch properly!!
When Today's generation will become parents they will be the bestest parents of all the generations ❤
Right, I will take all the decisions wisely for my children.
@@suhasivnanwani792 It is not as easy as it seems.
If we take a look at todays gen we notice a thing that everyone are too addicted to their phn. Even nowadays parents give less time to their children and they even care less. Parents are getting selfish day by day . Though in our times parents were toxic but yet caring.
being teen we think that we are r8 but sometimes it seems that our were r8 when they took decision for us.
@@Mahira-nx8df you are right it is not easy as it seems but we can try. And I am not a teen, I am 24, and not addicted to the phone. And also I am a teacher I spent most of the day with children from class 1 to 8th, so I know very well how I have to tackle these little smart kids.
Hence, I will not be a toxic parent,
Will not be addicted to phone , will not suffocate them, and will make effort to make them a good human being.
@@suhasivnanwani792 I didnt said that you cant be a good parent but many people are still toxic you know. Toxicity is nothing to do with generations. Its a human nature.
@@Mahira-nx8df oh no no no. I was not arguing, I was just trying to say as I am not phone addicted, or toxic. And so there are still many people like you and me exist in this world who are not toxic. Just that.
And toxicity is human nature you are absolutely right. 😊
The worst thing is some children don't even realize that they're being molested , they're too young to even realize what is happening . And when they grow up and realize , they hate themselves . Many people don't believe them because they're children .
Ss this happed to me but when I knew this I was grown up I don't know wt to do now😭😭😭
I am too disgusted to think about it again but 'm glad that i escaped. The sad thing is that till now i can' t talk about it to anyone because they would think that its a lie.
@@Random-nb2jr i relate 😔 it makes me hate myself and i feel so disgusted in myself 😭
Right
Yes i was molested when i was about 6, i don't know what it meant but still i remember what happened. Now that i realize it was so wrong.
Even an animal tries to save his child when someone tries to touch it
My thoughts exactly! You should see how an elephant mom protects her baby. Not just the mom, but the elder sisters, aunties, grannies of the baby elephant- everybody sides with the baby elephant when there is a predator around. They form a protective circle around the baby. The matriarch of the family leads the attack. You'll get to see this in many videos of elephant herds. They are so united when it comes to fighting off danger, aur in insaano ko dekh lo.
Kabhi kabhi lagta hai ki agar main kisi hathini ki aulaad hoti to meri life laakh guna zyada achchi hoti. Kam se kam family waali feeling to is lifetime me experience kar paati.
We have societt civilisation blah blah which makes us worst than animals
@@Nitya-r86 i think u don't understand ur mom at all...i hope u be one soon then u will realise everything
@@pryo2460 Please shut up and spare me the horror of listening to your pravachan about motherly realizations. I'm 100% sure that you are exactly the type of mother that has been depicted in this video and your guilty conscience is what is making you defend mothers like these. Evil spawn.
@@pryo2460 what? Like literally, it's actually a mother who saves her child from any trouble. I never saw a single women going against it, rapists ki mother tak bachati h apne bache ko to ye to innocent h🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ What mentality u have?
Just few days back my mother told me when I was born my dad's mother told my mother "today u are a girl's mother .if their is ever a situation were ur daughter say anything against her father .trust ur daughter not ur husband. " My father is the best dad in this whole world with great upbringing and values but still my grandmother taught my mother to always listen to ur daughter first and then ur husband. Fortunately I am blessed with a great family and never had to face mental or physical assault.But i am extremely proud of my grandmother for her teachings .
That's the thing.. we women need eachother's support and understanding..
Oh my god you don't know what your grandmother said to your mother
Oh god I just have goosebumps
I love your grandmother
I just want to be like her
She is awesome yrr
You know what my mother choose her husband over me
i wish i ad family like urs
@@kajalmishra8971 so sorry to hear that . I hope you are doing good. 😀
@@koushikiaich8128 yeah kind of
Thank you😊
I am an only child, my mom was a single mom. When I was 10 yrs old, she met someone and the following year we moved in with him. She was trying to give me a better life, she worked so hard and went to school at the same time. My step father and I had a great relationship.. I finally got something I always wanted, a father. we had a happy little family and our own house. I had my own room. When I was in the 9th grade 14 years old, my mom had an exam out of town and went to spend the night with her sister in that city. I had to stay home alone with my step father. He used this time to molest me. he told me not to tell my mom. the next day she came home and I told her. she made me tell him what happened and what he did. he denied at first. but then he accepted it- maybe he thought if he apologized all will go back to normal. that did not happen. we sold our house and since then my mom and i have been living alone. she never found anyone again. This dirty man went to my family members and lied about what happened, he tried to make me look bad, like i made up the whole thing to have my mom to myself. my moms family doesn't believe me. I stay away from them. I am getting therapy after many years, i have been very depressed, have anxiety, paranoia, suicidal thoughts... but I am dealing with it proper now, getting help. I am 34 years old and I am a survivor. I am sad to see how many other youngsters have gone through something similar, and if you reading this feel alone, please know that you are not alone. Life is beautiful you just need to find your strength and push through. Sending love and healing energy to you all.
Please achhe se raho behan.......
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
This is EXACTLY WHY in islam, when a mother re marries and her daughter is under 10 and son under 7, she loses custody of her children until they reach that age, because children are NOT safe with their step father. Just yesterdays heart breaking news in the uk that a mothers boyfriend killed her, raped her 11 year old daughter and killed her, killed her 11 year old friend that was sleeping over and killed her 13 year old son. 😭😭😭😭, tomorrow because of family breakdown and deviating from religion this will start happening with asian women and their innocent children 😭😭.the son at 13 was not strong enough to take on this man 😭😭😭😭
@razamughal9095 this is not happening because people are deviating from religion. This has been happening always in all cultures, during all eras. But women are silenced then and now because reputation of the family/clan is more important than the physical and mental wellbeing of an individual. In a society where women who are molested are seen as damaged commodities, what use is there speaking up for them? How will people know such evils are happening on a daily basis?
Be proud of your mother who took a bold step for u. God bless her
Your mother is hero of your life 💞
👏👏👏she deserve a round of applause.... Brilliant acting... A common issue ignored by everyone in this society.. 😳😡😡
Society allows it
Thats the problem and theres no way anyone can contradict this because its true!!
What is it about? I couldn't understand
Babe, it's not common issue. It is major issues which is avoided by elders because of society.
@@ramyapatel3769 sala babe Hain vo!!!
@@Armaan48499 right
Moral of the story- A child never lies
that is actually pretty accurate, which is why I always ask lil kids how I look 😂
@@eeshaa8428 lool na don't think like that about urself ur pretty
@@sahara8169 aaww thanks even though u haven't seen my face, but I can tell u that you really are Beautiful from the inside and the outside
@@sahara8169 Um kids do lie alot
@@jasamkojajesam6108 Well um not when they've been abused emotionally and physically, kids would never lie to their parents about being sexually abused, that's something really severe for a child to know and to be exposed to knowing what they would have went through and the trauma, because kids are innocent and if their innocence is taken away wouldn't that be alarming like imagine if your child came upto you and said that they've been raped, wouldnt that be a red flag for you or would u just sit there and leave ur child suffer. I don't think any parent would unless their evil.
My eldest sister's husband tried to molest me many times when I was a kid. I told my parents, they did nothing. Even today if I speak about it they tell me to shut up. My sister also continues to live with him and avoids me. Such is this world! Happy to be married and away from all of them in America!
Sex is make you silent even youre in america
It's also happens with me
@sakina's travel diary - may God bless you with lots of happiness and love.
I mean stuff like this happens in the States too, with the current decision on abortion looming I can't say it is a very safe place for women
@@HarshvardhanKanthode I don't have family molesters here so I am pretty sure I am safe. As per the abortion law, I can always take a trip of India for it. By the way my state is pro choice in the US.
I went through sexual abuse when I was just 6 years old, did not realize it at that age but later understood that it was sexual abuse and why it felt so uncomfortable and I was fraught! I gathered up my courage and 16 years later, told my mom about this just to hear "you gotta just forget about such stuff! they happen!!", That's all that I heard from her, my dad had no reply when I went to him and my younger brother had no words either! now they ask me why I tend to be very negatively connoted about people, even inside the family..... I mean what do they expect!!!!!?!!!
This is very relatable. I remember it happening to me a couple of times at around 6. I didn't realize what was happening to me was wrong, and I still can't believe that what happened to me was molestation, because the person was really close and to be trusted.. Mine just told me to "tell him to stop doing it." That's it.. If there is one thing to be taken from this is that we will be better parents than our own. Stay strong, Nikethana. You have come so far. We will make it in this world, despite it being so cruel. More power to you. 💪💪
Forget it is the easiest words some parents use they feel community is their God and not their own kids
@Hieracium7051 hope u r fine brother it's my first time to know abt a boy's version really 😞
I was so abused at very tender age never once i spoke of this until now ..😢😢😢😢😢 now i m 25 just forgot never told anyone..... I dont even know what it it...
Relatable
This happened with me too. My family consists of me , my mom and dad. My dad worked out of place and my mom was also a working women. Being a single daughter, i had to go through a lot in the past. But i was happy that my mom got a tranfer and moved to another place , we had a neighbour with a family consisting of mom , dad and their 2 daughters. I was happy that i had someone to play with me and the mom of that family made food for me and after school i dress, clean up and prayed then went to neighbours house. Since, my mom is working she came late and till that time i be with that family. So the relationship was like this. One day my moms health got bad and was admitted in hospital ,my dad took care of her and i had to stay with this family(neighbours). This was the worst moments of my life started to begin. Every morning this womens husband touched my private parts to wake me up and when i go to bathroom he peeped through the hole in the door, i was not able to do anything. Even the bathroom didnt gave me protection. So, it was diwali and a craker got busted suddenly and all the smoke went to my eyes i was not able to open .so this guy pressed me against him and was rubbing water in my eyes were his daughters and wife was playing. He rubbed his rubed his dirty parts against me. I was not able to cry or was able to show any emotion , i was numb and was not feeling anything. The next day i told the wife to take me to hospital , we went to the hospital and i cried hugging dad and didnt told him. I went to mom and said that he touched me and my mom told me not to tell anything to dad. That moment i understood the value of myself. I was no one to anybody. That moment onwards i made me realise that i was nothing. That still haunts me. Now, i am 20 years of old ,my mom passed away when i was 17 few days after my birthday. I live my lovely dad who loves me the most.we have a very lovely relationship. One day we were sleeping and some emotions bursted and i told my dad this happened. He said to me that he failed as a dad and that was something that broke him to pieces . After that he was having depression and started drinking and was normal after few weeks. He cares for me protects me and loves me most. I am 20 yrs old and i still sleep next to my dad. He sings and says stories for me to sleep. But i loved my mom and i still love her. Even if i hate her i have forgiven her. I am crying right now writing this but i wanted to share my story. That still haunts me .sorry for my english.❤ to everybody.
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Dear young lady . Wish you best wishes for your future.
Women in the world. please work together against women discrimination regardless of caste and religion and language and status .
sorry to hear that your mom passed away.......
don't forget we all are with you
past is past so forget it and start a new life
be strong to fight with dirty man
I seriously got emotional after reading your comment dear😥
Brave girl, don’t let your past, to impact your future. Be happy.
After watching this scene, I understood why my mom used to tell me not to go to any uncles who asks me to go near them when I was a kid. I used to think why she says that.. But now I know.
👍
You have a very sweet mom. Meri maa ne mujhe kuch nahi sikhaya, kisi cheez ke liye prepare nahi kiya. Useless. How funny is it that despite having two parents, I've lived like an orphan and pretty much raised myself!!
Even my mom also never leave me alone. My father and mother are so responsible ❤❤
My mom never let me go with my uncles alone
She is very protective both for me and my elder sister and my dad too
@@Nitya-r86 I'm sorry for ur parents behavior.
But please stay strong , be always good and prove to society with ur matured behavior that you are respectable tho ur parents are not that good
cant imagine that such family even exist... lucky to have parents like mine
Most of the abuses are by relatives or friends. This happens to both boys and girls. However, cases are filed very very very very rarely in the police station if the abuse is by someone the family knows.
Believe me this wasn't exist much before but this filthy pornography f****d up the society. In present time our indian society is on peak molesting women.😭😭😭😭
This is very common...even our own parents refuse to accept the bitter reality of their own relatives....for them, their so called izzat matters more than their children's safety....
Yes !! They do exist !!
Me 🙋to
When she started screaming I had chills all over. She could finally scream after years of torture. I can't imagine the horror people go through and are just told to shut up cause family's reputation >>>>> you're own child. F people and their "izzat" you don't have any respect if you can't take care of and protect your own child.
What pains me more than the actual incident is that the whole family is sitting there listening to her, people are trying to shut her up, calm her down, but not one person cares enough to empathise, not one person gets up to hug her, to acknowledge her, to say that they're sorry it happened to her. They just sit there.
@Log To Khenge yarr it still happens today. So stfu
This is target on hindus. May be malechas do this.. malechas are there in every religion..
Yes sirf movies mein ho sakta hai.. Added effect ke liye..
Indian families be like :
Thats the reality ...why people do not hug survivors. Society never change .
almost every girl in India has faced sexual harassment in some kind of way. as a victim of child abuse i literally cried after seeing this scene. as a girl who had no idea about it but just had a disgusting feeling. when i finally grown up enough to know about these things i realised that even ur close ones and "sensible educated" person do these things. not to forget its always our fault
No
Yes
Been through the same..... Scrolling through the comments and realizing that I am not the only one is so sad😢
Stay strong❤
Name of the movie?
Not just in india, its the issue of every other country we also face this problem and each time i realise the age of the person doing this shit makes me even more sad honestly.
I don't care about status or anything else.
If someone does that to my child and i find out, i am going to bury him alive in the ground.
Yes
Good do that because these people don't deserve any mercy I mean seriously how can they think a child as sexual object
@@stutikhanna987 yes
@123fort andbree it's good that it saved u and I wish the same.. bt how to teach self defence to a 2-3 yr old girl?😢😢😢😢😢 Aaye din aisi khabre aati h jinme masoom bachiyon ka dareendo dwara rape kiya jata h. Kaise bachay unhe😢.. Jb tk hmara law strong nhi hoga inke khilaf.. kuch nhi ho skta.. jb tk aam jnta inke khilaf nhi hogi . Kuch nhi ho skta.
@123fort andbree han girls above 5 we can teach... Below 5??
The comments section of this video is arguably and most possibly unlike any other comment section in the entire RUclips video library. The number of people coming forward to share their personal experience is unbelievable. I can’t even imagine the pain the people who have opened up here had to go through or still going through. This just proves that a cinema is not just an entertainment, but a strong and substantial medium to bring out unspoken and difficult truths. To portray images that we mostly pretend to have not seen. I just pray that the Almighty God comfort each one of you, strengthen you and give you peace. Amen!
Aameen
When she was shouting, it hit hard as a male. Felt like she was shouting on my face. Never felt so belittled as a male. The pain in her eyes, we cant even imagine what humiliation and pain she and many other children go through.
Thank you for understanding our pain.
Otherwiss Men don't even listen..
Editing this since my replies not going under this comment anymore --
@Rohit Bhushan Absolutely.. The day I wrote that reply,I came home after getting catcalled by few men. It got me back to old memories. I just got a bit sentimental that day while watching the video and reading the comments which is why I wrote that (this) reply.
The male victims and survivors are far more than we can imagine and I know that. I've all my heart for them as well.
And about what I wrote that Men don't listen,that was my experience in my life. Now still I'd apologize if you felt I generalized men -- I never had any such intentions.
Like you said many male survivors have it worse than female survivors,similarly many female survivors also have it worse than male survivors though I believe pain of abuse is just the worst for the person who experiences it. So I just wrote it out of emotions.
Thanks..... Good to see humanity alive..... Coz other men think were lying just for attending 😔😔😔😔😔
Men who think like you are rare. VERY rare in India, to be honest. Most wouldn't give a shit.
THANK for understanding our felling brother
@@Nitya-r86 And most would call such people 'simp', which is sad, unfortunately :(
Most of the girls got molested in their life and it's proved by this comment section,I literally cried and realized how we, girls(not all) are not even safe in our own home.
Not everyone
@@taslimabegum3843 if so,I would be very happy for them
thank you.Every women should provide their safety and i can provide my safety.
me too . not only one tym but 10 -20 tyms only at the age of 14 . 20 tyms 😫😫😫😫😫😰😰😰😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I can understand, even happened to me also at that time, I could not even fight back, but now I don't keep quiet and even try to help girls like me if I find them to be at that position.
This hits hard... cuz even I was too young to realize that I was being molested, all I knew was that this was not some "doctor" game... Not a lot of people talk about child molestation, and i'm glad someone brought this up... and hats off to Alia for her amazing acting...
Shameful how so many parents have silenced their kids on sexual assault. I’ve gone through it too and it’s sickening. Made me feel I can’t even trust my family with my own safety. They never took my side.
Tell ur kids loudly that Ghar walon say b careful hona hai⚠️
And why don't u tell them ki be strong aur agr unke saath koi aisa krta h toh sbse pehle being a parent aap un lo go ko sbk sikhayenge .... Kb tak aur kis kis se bachaoge chhipaoge ladna sikhao betio ko aur betiyan kyun ladko ko bhi aur kaho unn logo se ki jinki niyat khraab h voh apne ghr prr hi baithe kyunki unki jgh humare ghr prr nhi
yes..esp in present world
@@shitalsoni1196 correct
Correct mere ghar me bhi ek yesa insan hai
Really I m crying
I told my mum when I was 9 years old. She slapped me across the face and said I was unholy.....I m a 48 year old woman .....we havnt spoken for over 39 years. No loss. My life is way better without toxic family. Abused by father brother and other male relatives in pakistan. I see none of them. My life is rich without them all.....
strong one dear.. god bless u
More power and love to you . From India ❣️
I'm so sorry for you to be have gone through such an experience
More power to you sister ,💓
😭
Father should be so possessive about his daughter, can't imagine a father not helping his daughter.
i think that deep down the father said that because he knew if that was the truth he would beat the shit out of the uncle XD
@@biberflub so you mean to say the father knew he would not like kill his brother and that at the end of the day he would choose his brother over his own daughter? And that justifies it?
There are so many fathers even like the chocolate givers. Shame on them
Absolutely correct...
This scene gives me goosebumps. Alia has a done a fantastic job. We must teach all our kids about bad touch and good touch right from the beginning. Nowadays it is taught in many schools too. Things are changing, but as parents we also need to have such conversation with our children at home. Together we can make a difference.
As a brother I will always protect my little sister through this and I hope this never happens
Inshallah😍😍 ap ki sisters safe rahe ameen🥰🙏
@@shafiazahid8899 shukriya bhai
May god bless & always stay happy safe your sister🙏
Aww..... Your sister must be lucky to have a protective brother like you
May God Bless You And Your Sister.
I hope you treat other Girls around you,like your sister..... :)
Stay Blessed Bhai.
i never expected this level of acting from alia...wow she did such a great job i love her :)
Watch udtha punjab
Watch razzi
@@shaynasaini8090 Is RAAZI uploaded on you tube or any other online source???
Alia can do anything she is made for acting
This is the clip of "Highway" movie
She is definitely a result of nepotism but still looking at her talent, it seems pardonable. Alia Bhatt is an amazing actress.
If ur dad give u manager post in his private business, will it be nepotism?? Rip to ur IQ.
And one more if your colleague gets seat in competitive exam with lower percentage just because of cast benefit...it won't be nepotism??
@@chudasamabhargavrajchudasa8249 the film industry is not running on ur tax!! It's completely private sector!! Use some brain plz!
Hey Dude what's wrong with you ....
Please don't take your father, family and your husband's prosperity and his property because you don't do hardwork for purchase all of this...
Atleast she is talented than the persons who are writing the comments
Wow...she has been an excellent actress since then..hats off to her acting..she brought tears into our eyes...
I was 8. It was my dad. I finally told my family when I was 16. They didn't believe me. They were women.
does he still doing that?
So bad . How can your family not listen .
You deserved better.I hope you are out of that situation now.Go to therapy it’ll help you.Remember,you are loved and respected even if you didn’t get that from your family, you will get it from others.
How are u ? Hope u are fine now
Same thing happened to me. At the age of 8 when I don't know nothing. But somehow I asked him one day when he tried to touch me 'Ain't am your daughter?' and that hit him Hard, he stopped and threatened me showing the fan in our hall saying if you say this to anybody you gonna lose your papa. How can I not be scared? Isn't Papa's are every daughters superheroes/ daughters are Papa's princesses? That's what they told me. So I forgiven him
After so many years later he abundant us. Last new year Eve I spill this to my mom and brother, she told me she believes me but said ' Don't say this to anybody no one gonna believe you, and he definitely gonna deny it and this evil society will label you as a liar. So just shut up for your on good'
So I feel you 😞
May Allah Protect All Girls Women & Kids from these situations🥀
Allah don’t protect anyone, he told Mohammad to do this kind of act to any child or woman he want. Islam is a sick religion, and you don’t see that.
Jas baksh
ALLAH IS THE SAME GOD YOU WORSHIP
YOU HAVEN’T EVEN READ THE QURAN AND DID YOU KNOW JESUS’S AMAZING STORIES ARE MENTIONED IN THE QURAN
HOW DARE YOU COME AND TALK NONE SENSE ON SOMETHING THAT YOU DONT KNOW *ANYTHING* ABOUT
Cloud Dreamer Jesus is the God of the Quran. Exactly the opposite.
@@omarelmasri9939 ha to har jagah allah allah mat ghusaya karo samjhe na ye koi jagah thi allah allah karne ki
@@jasbaksh41 OH GAWDDDD WHAT TYPE OF A PERSON U ARE ASTAGHHHHHHHFURRULLLAHH UR GOING TO HELL INSHALLAH
The moment she spoke her issue, I started crying with my heart out, regretting that why didn't I let my parents know about my problem. It's been 5 years since I was molested and no one knows this till now, not even my mom. I don't have the courage to speak out and have been carrying this pain in my heart since then. I didn't even know that I was being molested. What she said is indeed true. We must be careful inside our home too........................
Your feelings are very valid. And,you don't have to regret anything.
I certainly can't imagine your pain but I can understand how it feels since I went through it too.
You're so so so strong,I'm not lying. You deserved better.
We can't change the past unfortunately,but can make the future better. I wish you all the very best in life.
Sending loads of love and power to your side. 🤍
Dude share it with your parents you know may be it will refuce your pain they are your closer ones you should tell them but only if they are understanding otherwise you have god take him as ypur friend and share everything
I am so sorry for you.
Speak up before your parents.
I believe they will surely support you but will say "Don't say it to others". Cut those crap. Be leader of your own soul healing.
Don't subpress yourself.
Give peace to your soul and do whatever that makes your soul at peace.
One solution, that I also suggested someone is, "Save a child so that you can save your inner child and give justice to your soul"
Be your Own Warrior.
Stay Safe and Blessed.
My cousin got through somewhat similar situation, and she expressed it before mom and Aunty, but none actually acted. While my mom listening to this matter later on, save guard us from that uncle and said, if something such happens to my child, I'll slit him open.
My parents are my strength and That's why maybe I'm Bold in expressing my thoughts.
"didn't even know I was being molested" is the worst part. People saying tell your parents. I would say, tell to the person you feel most comfortable with alongside he/she being mature enough. If that person is a parent for you, then surely tell your parent.
I'VE MADE A PROMISE TO MYSELF, I WILL NEVER EVER BE A SILENT COWARD MOTHER OR A WOMAN. I realised years ago how wise and sensible my mother was when she didn't allow me to go wander alone with my uncles or older male cousins. Some in my family found it weird and thought my Maa was a prude for this but goshh I'm grateful she did that. Even if there was 0.0000001% chances of something happening, she was cautious of it. She also taught me about my personal boundaries and self-respect. She's such a Queen🙏
God I have always seen you in Seventeen related videos but seeing you here really made me felt good happy to see a carat❤️❤️
I wonder how your mom was so aware of this, or stories or maybe experiences (hopefully not) she might have had which no one will get to know, and how deeply this whole curse is embedded in our society. But so proud of your mom. God bless her.
♥️ from Pakistan.
@@caratblinkforever2006 aw same here, always good to see a fellow Carat💖💙
And sorry for replying so late RUclips is so weird.... sometimes I don't get any notifications at all
@@timewarnerhk yeah it's upto us to break this cycle, more power to all the strong women around the world 🙏❤️
@@sundaymorningrainisfalling it's ok even I forgot about this no worries 💎💎
i don't like alia bhatt at all but hands down for this performence loved her performence
Happy to hear that
@@anilkumarpr-sub who r u to judge someone's character.. just because she date a few people.. don't give a character certificate.. there is bad relationship and better to be away from such relationship than getting stuck to it.. I swear bad mentality...
@@devanshipandya4857 first know what i am talking about... she behaved very badly in kapil sharma... but she copyright striked it to hide it.. and dating is not a bad behaviour.
@@anilkumarpr-sub v cannot judge a person from a scripted show..
@@devanshipandya4857 if it was scripted, then why should she copyright strike the video?
The comments section is breaking my heart. It's one thing to be touched without permission, it's something else when your own parents don't support you because of shame. Let's teach all of our kids to understand what is consent.
Can you please tell me the name of this movie? I been looking for this movie for years
@@toniecruz1003 highway
Anuradha Pandit they’re children. children cannot give consent. instead teach molesters and rapists not to rape. and #BelieveSurvivors
Seriously 😟
Anuradha Pandit What the hell did u just said... Consent... Are you even in your senses that what word u have chosen for kids molestation....
Please bewate with your words they havr impact differently ob different minds...
Pls aways think before u speak shit out of your mouth..., 😠😠😠😠
First time in my entire life I thank Karan Johar for Introducing us to Alia. She is really good actress.
I mean when she screamed it brought shivers down my spine.
Goosebumps
Really she has done a job.
zindag me 1st time is larki ne acting ko serious lia a🤣
@@Itx.balooshiya first time? Udta punjab, raazi, kapoor and sons, gully boy and there are much more where Alia has proved herself as an actress!
Alia and her flaring nostrils are distracting AF.. i hate K jo for introducing alia she gets everything sitting at home stealing opportunities from other actots
Powerful scene! Parents, please listen to your kids when they report incidents of molestation. And don't just ignore them. Take necessary action against the perpetrator.
After reading the comment section, seeing everyone coming out of their dark places is one of the most satisfying but at the same time, kinda gut-wrenching feeling. Whether it's a girl or a boy, I salute every one of you. That's why we need sex education.
Hi
I used to feel perhaps I'm unlucky to have experienced these horrors but I now realise all that I faced has been faced by so many people.
Anyway,I hope for this world to be a better place.🙏🏼
@@user-vq2zs2ej4s It will… It has to. And You’re a strong woman.💙
Ye bollywood wale bahut haraami hai,
har muslmaan k ghar ki kahani Shukla aur Vira Baby k naam se dikhate hai
@@nil_rv_4924 wht do you mean by musalman ka ghr ke kahani
Please believe in your own kids first.. they are the most innocent and the most truthful as well
That moment when she finally screams and makes everyone shut up is so powerful. All the pain and anger against this vile uncle and society in general that Veera had bottled up for years is finally released. It makes me cry every time.
@Oindrila Ghosh movie Highway
Role of hero is played by Randeep Huda
Directed by Imtiyaz Ali
Agree yr
It hurts even more when u can't talk about this things to anyone, keeping all inside you, being depressed, resenting yourself because u can't do anything. It also affects your mental state a lot, you won't be able to trust anyone anymore after this, it feels like this whole world is gonna betray you. Eventually you won't have any friends, because you are too scared to get near someone or to open up yourself, you will be lonely and empty inside. But i believe i can heal myself so u can too. Have faith in you.
I had goosebumps when she screamed.....Alia Bhatt was so good in this movie!!
film name ?
@@noumankhan8913 "highway"
@@kritijain9515 Most welcome ☺️ btw. i am not man 😂
I can relate whenever my anger outbursts happen this is what they are like it's just becomes so frustrating that I only think to shout
The movie Highway is Alia's second film and this shows how talented she is❤️She played her role perfectly.
Movie name
Highway
The saddest part in this film.. Alia proved her acting skills and it was soooo natural
Literally I m cried too..
Me too
Movie name........????
@shivangi goyal highway movie hai
Its so sad that many people who saw her only in Soty and then went on to judge her for being a star kid without acting talent. Alia is one of the few star kids that is an amazing actress!
@@shibourne2000 right!!
This scene moved me. I wish I had been able to speak like her to my parents about this. I took me 30 years to do so
my mother was never friendly with me, always into her family and stuff. my father never knew what exactly is happeneing in the house,as he fulltime working outside. my mother's favorite brother molested me but my mother is not aware. i dont think she would take my side also. saddest part is i am 30 and suffer till today. i try hard to forgive but not possible i just cant accept her as my mother,because she was the main reason for the worst of worst of all the things happened to me. even today if i tell her she is not capable of understanding a bit of what we have through
I took 37 years 😢
I was in class 9th , he used to come everyday . Did the same with me . I told my mother , she said , " Aise hote hain log , ignore karo." I couldn't do anything , kept quiet for 4 years . Grades went down , had clinical depression , results ruined and I couldn't tell anyone what happened . Finally , I dared not to suffer anymore . Fought everybody and left my house .
After some days , called the molester and said all that I wanted . That incident still has an impact on me . I grow anxious at times , want to cry out loud and let all the pain out .
Don't keep quiet girls , fight back , dare to let these monsters out .
I come here often , reading the comments and the incidents shared by people .
Kudos to you👏 Be strong and i hope you get over it and live a wonderful and happy and blessed life🙂
Don't worry you have RUclips to share your feelings. Even if I never went through such a thing, I understand what it feels like... I read ffs so I know what kind of a disgusting feeling it is. Don't keep it inside. Let it out. We're here for you 💜
it takes courage to write ur story i am sorry u had to go through all that
yes, I think mousumi sen is right and I think we should not trust anybody and be strong and ready to fight back against this type of monster.
So strong you are 💗 , just like a warrior, always love yourself.
Many times in childhood, many girls were abused but they were child enough to realise that they are molested. When they realise what was happened to them, sometimes they face trauma and mental effects. This situation is really tough.
Right.
True
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Here I am got abused for 2 years
I cried literally...her acting level is just out of word
@@atka._ fan of katrina
@@atka._ bcz you laughed at this acting
@@atka._ thats all upto taste yaar you may have different taste....here its not about starkid (only reason why ppl hate her and avoiding her masterpiece acts like raazi dear zindagi highway udta punjab) its genuinly about acting....and she played it well,i m not her fan but still i never forget to praise her for her act...
@@atka._ be happy and god bless you dear😘😘
@@atka._ okk...chill
That scream of Alia!!! Heart breaking!!
We all want to scream like this at one point of life but can't!!
My view on alia bhatt's acting
After soty: ehh another star kid
After highway: uh ok maybe she's not that bad...
After raazi: someone give her an award already
bro u forgot highway. incredible acting!! shes so natural
Even she had so many awards in highway and 2 states ,Udta Punjab and raazi she deserve it
The best was Udta Punjab,
Dear Zindagi too it's really underated
Actually alia's acting was superb nly in highway..after that it became repetitive..she used the same acting technique in every film..same crying loud and screaming in udtha punjab raazi..nly the characters are different but her acting remains the same..sehmat behaves not the same as veera does..but in alia's acting veera ,sehmat all are same
She is the only female actress who really bring out ugly world reality in just few moments of display of that character
Maybe u havent watched enough movies
Just wanted to give a tight slap on her mom's face.. 😡
.
this kind of woman still exist!?!😤
Meri mom to aisa karne wale ki jaan le leti.ye kaisi maa hai jo beti ko hi chup kara rahi hai.
@@cutecat0000 who ever you are most probably can't be a man for sure and this fake feminism thing show it to someone else and btw just remember if all men have been the same then your father too would be living in jail for committing a crime like this or may even be *slapped to death or beyond* so mind your language before saying such thing
True
right
@Pooja Lokhande Then you become strong and raise voice against your mom also, why is she protecting her daughter's perpetrator ,such type of mom,s need a lesson,
Her acting is just another level 😢❤❤
This doesn't just happen with girls. It happens with boys as well. It happened with me :(
There are good and bad people in the world. Gender doesn't matter.
Respect to the beautiful Alia Bhatt for taking and bringing up such an issue.
It happened with me too.... from my uncle..... and he blackmailed and blamed me for that and I actually thought am the one who z responsible for it......... I still dream about killing him.... am 30 years old now.....
@@koya4065 Hmm. I know how it feels to go through that shit pal. With me it happened in my school when I was around 9 years old. Now I'm 25. Whatever the heck happened it triggered a bad habit of stammering in me. I hope I can break this habit for good pretty soon. Just remember that these scars that we've endured aren't meant to weaken us, they're meant to strengthen us.
You are right our parents didn't teach us what is a bad touch and good touch my boy is growing up surely I will teach him
I hope you guys have gotten the help you need to recover- It's never your fault,! Strange we are in a world were parents have become cowards
It is also happen with me from my cousin
Don't trust anyone, never leave ur kid with anyone,,, she is oly safe under ur wings
But when I came to knew about this I asked help from an Ngo
gryffindor queen don't know, have no answer
True
Movie name??
When alia shouted...tears ran out of my eyes...it's so painful 😔
its true it really felt like everyday we are going through somewhere something damn hell
Can you tell me what is the name of this movie please
@@atefaatefa5551 highway
Isn't it strange most of the viewers of this video are not parents
@Son Of Bharat yeah you are right atleast we can raise our children in such a way that they could speak to us about anything from marks to abuse
Bahot achchha aliya ma'am, vo girl Jo khul kar apne sath ho rahe aanyay ko lekar aawaj nhi utha pati unke liye inspiration h ye clip, please girl ab aap akele nhi ho, aap khud ke sath ho aur O har shaks jo sach me achchha inshan h🥺🫂🙋🏻👑
I have promised myself that I would listen to everything my kids have to say to me.
Same here
@@amrisha12 my sister in law's name too is Amrisha😊
@@novkalp21185 😃
You realised this now SHAME
I don't know if anybody noticed it or not but when she pointed at her father , her hands were shaking . This shows that even if she is acting , she is so angry on them that at any moment she might burst out of rage ..... Salute to ALIA BHATT
Abu bakar ko BHI Kaha Hoga Aisha na but khalifa banane ke liye unhone 6 Saal ke Aisha Ka nikha Kar Diya 55 Saal ke Mohamed paigambar SA .Kitna roye hoge Aisha but kisee na Nahi Sunna Alia Ka dard dekhkar Aisha Ka dard Yaad AA Gaya 😎
@@Indian14197darindey aur haivaan raam ney jab 3 saal ki masoom bacchi sita ki seal todi to socho usko dard kitna huwa hoga bichari 😔😔😔😔sita par kya beeti hogi jab 3 saal
Ki umar mai shaitaan ramu ney uska balaatkaar kiya hoga
Aur aaj usi darindey raam bhagwaan ko poojtey hai kuch chutiye 😡😡😡. Yeah cult religion hindu dharam waley hi asli molester hai jo apni molester bhagwaan ki pooja kartey hai jo apney molester bhagwaan ko follow kar rahey hai
@@Indian14197fir to saraswati ko v aisa hi dard hua hoga jab brahma ne chxda hoga 😂 vo v to uski usji beti hi thi😂 lol. Bakwas kerwa lo bas inse
@@Shreyayadav3031-w2k mohammad paigambar ki date of birth jante ho but brahma ki nahi ?? Mohammad nae Aisha ke saath marriage Kari kyu jabki uske father Abu Bakar jinda thae Aisha widow nahi thi 🧐🧐😜 phir uske bachi ke saath marriage kyu Kari बूढ़ा saayad पागल हो गया था भूल गया होगा बेटी के साथ शादी करके सुहागरात मनाते हैं
@@Shreyayadav3031-w2k zainab kon thi jiske saath mohammad paigambar nae sex karne ke liye marriage kare wo uske step son ki wife thi . Islam religion mae bhai bhen baap beti sabke saath sex jayaj hain😜 bhai jaan isliye bolti hain kyuki jisko bhai bola uske saath bhi marriage ho jaati hain
I told my dad about it, he called me a liar. Couldn’t tell my mom because my parents had an ugly separation which caused me not having contact with my mom. So I told my best friend at that time she helped me, regain confidence. But it still left hurt, I was gang raped by strangers, by my dad’s friend and my aunt’s husband. My aunt stopped my uncle but that doesn’t stop the pain n trauma/sleepless nights or nightmares of it all happening and reliving those moments in my sleep. I am married now with a amazing man. Who comforts me when I am scared or had those dreams again.
If your child ever comes to you to talk about something. Don’t shut them up. Listen and help them. Abuse isn’t something to lie about it a serious matter. Don’t fail as a parent whose responsibility is to protect them and guide them.
God bless you dear..jai mata di
You should had complained to police...dont be silent🔇
I was told to keep my mouth shut or something else would happen.
Shayel Singh You are brave, you struggled with your past and came out from it, i can understand , what have u been through, you had a difficult time, but i am happy that u have a very soothing companion, God bless you both.
God bless u my dear....u are very strong..who did them to u are from hell .They live in a hell when they are alive and when they are dead also.You keep moving forward..n help others on your way!
Every female..I repeat,Every Female,even 90 yr old isn't safe, should learn to protect themselves from all abusive male's..abusive, Husbands too..
Respect being a Women❤️
The comment section says how many of them has faced such situations where there family didnot supprt them...such a worst moment in life when our parents are not believing us
When it comes to our relatives no one speaks up! This is our culture??? Keep up our relationships even if it sucks!!
Haan..thts the only reason..ki family membr h..
Chahe vohi family member jaan lele.
Honour killings
So true
Absolutely right
Screw that relation
Seriously i NEVER expected this kind of acting from her!!!!AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The worst thing is this is the story of every 7 women out of 10...in India...this is true
This story is not about girls but boys also.
No one can talk about the molestation with boys.
But their ratio is slightly more than the girls.
Whoever is reading this , please protect your son/brother as well.
true
i caught a guy molesting my son when my son was only 2 yrs... 😭
@@mamtadasagarwal506 ohh.
That's sad.
I hope you did the best you can.
ratio of boys is comparatively very less than girls.... but i support both boys and girls..
@@vanshikajoshi9898 may be.
But I know many guys so that's why I'm saying.
she is no more a makeup doll...she can act like wow😘
She never was a make up doll!
People use to consider her that only...but she shut all their mouths through Highway !!
No.. She did good acting in her first movie only.. She was made fun for all the jokes..
+Nikita Ramani in highway she did only the base makeup.....just she didint cover the dark cirlces under her eyelids.........
That was only her first film...Highway,Humpty,Kapoor and sons,Udta punjab...she always acted !
the same happened to me and was even molested so many times but later i met a beautiful soul who understood me my feelings i told him all the bitter truth but he still loved me and said it was not my but societies fault and yup today i am proud to say that he is my husband !
You totally deserve him. Proud of you.
Is this some movie
Wow!!how lucky you are ..
THIS IS SO ACCURATE. THIS KIND OF CHILDHOOD TRUMA STAYS WITH YOU FOREVER. AND NOTHIG IS BITTER THAN THIS!
My mom's brother was the abuser.. but mu mom told me to shut up and dress modestly . I'd rather be an orphan
😥
Be strong ! Seek justice dont obey what they tell to you they are not good example . Parents should protect thier child in every way.😢
Parents should be understand that though there are rights of parents over their children but they have to be careful about their responsibilities too .
Stand against it , I am with you
Shame on a lady like ur mom
extremely beautiful scene.....one sld know to protect thier ownselve even when our elderly ones dont understand the situation...hatss off imtiaaz sir and alia mam
As blood-curdling and gut-wrenching this scene was, how can a child protect herself/ himself from sexual abuse? Let alone when it comes from within the family? If parents and the education systems take a little more effort, hopefully, there would be lesser disgusting and heinous situations to deal with and children can grow up in a lesser traumatic environment.
She is a starkid but she is sooooo much talented loved her acting..ruh kaap gyi yrr when she shouted..
This is an eye opener. Hats off to Imtiaz Ali for making a brilliant film.
Not only women i am a boy it happened with me too when i was a chid by my home tutor. I never understand what was happening but was disturbed by the situation and later understood what happened with me.
#no one is safe
Either a girl or a boy
Felt sad for u ☹️😔 but u know what I just noticed that people replied to these kinds of comments written by girls but didn't gave much attention to boys but stay strong 😄😄wishes from a girl
Heyy don't worry.. if u could find that tutor again.. teach him a good lesson
Stay strong bro.... and yes if you can find him again teach him a lesson such that it sucks him even when he goes near his wife
@Hania Kazim yah i know how it feels.
@Hania Kazim don't worry darling they will get their prizes.
For those who dont understand urdu/hindi ill tell you what she kept saying (main point) " 2:56 you dident bring the chocolate today... Wheres the choclate? When are you gonna give it to me? Where? In the bathroom? Like you did everyday when I screamed for help? you don't know what I am talking about?! I'll remind you. I was in the bathroom. I screamed! I screamed so hard. And you would put your on my mouth making sure no one would hear IT REMEMBER?! Making sure everything OK. HOW COULD YOU GUYS NOT HEAR ME?! I was 9! You put your hand on my mouth.... Dont make a voice. I cried every night. Dident you notice that?! You told me to be careful when I go outside.... There's lots of bad people out there but why dident you tell me to be carefull inside the house as well? I was inside. I was inside. Why dident you tell me to be carefull indoors as well? Be careful with the people I know.... Be careful with you guys? I may be weak, skinny, uncomfident but I'll never be like you guys! I'm moving out and I'm never coming back! "
This hiw best I could translate. I may say some lines that weren't EXACTLY spoken on the video but I hope i helped
Nani ?! O
Tq
Nani ?! Thanks
thanks bro
@bing bingbung hey brother
Alia deserve an applause👏👏
❤️❤️ I wasn't expecting such a good acting from Alia!😍
Which movie
@@jainyanil9964 highway
She is a great actress. It doesn't matter what you think
As a mother who had been through childhood trauma I don’t trust anyone when it comes to my kids not even their father.
she was just 20 years old and her performance 🔥🔥
One of the best scenes Alia ever gave
It's true! Parents are always different with girl child!
yes,My Parents are so selfish...I hate them
The true revenge of this condition is not to humiliate or stand against of any woman in your life .
None can be better in this world than parents but remember that they are also human beings and their minds are also overwhelmed by cultures of society's. It's always better trying to bring change.
To me, if my parents are doing wrong to me and it is unbearable then the best decision is only to do duties to them and lowing down emotional attachment, but not hurting them back, as I have got this life and I am still alive just because of them.
yup i agree with u, ve seen it happen to my sisters
@Diya Chakraborty Stark Another so called priviledged ranting nonsense
Absolutely true
Bravo to the girl….. my family can’t imagine how many times I have screamed my heart out myself. It’s a sad life…. When the ones closest to you try to shut you up and the ones who should be punished are roaming free in an unsafe house. The true meaning of family is represented by keeping a distance from the truth teller and shunning them out when they open their mouth but the actual villain tend to eat with family, play with family and are welcomed into the family. My heart hurts by seeing this. Cause I remember living like this since I was in 5th grade until I was 36 years old!
One of my teacher - He always has taught me that never touch a girl in a obscene manner ..
He even if give punishment to girl ..He do not touch them...
That's the man ...I hve learned many thing..
Ambrish Yadav that's nice dudee all should give respect to girls
Thank you #Meghana_Ji
And if a girl hits u? What would you do just walk away like the coward u are????
@@aaryaprakhar1608, that was another case you should give punishment by complaining or by hitting a slap. It's a case of harassment, abusing any body. That would be another case.
Chinu Beura so a teacher hitting a boy for his mistake is justified and if a teacher hits for her mistake is called harassment
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After reading all the cmnts I came to know that your life partner ur husband is the most sincerest person in this world..may every girl have a caring husband ..
Yeah...
Who said this? The one who gave chocolate was also someone's husband.
Most of the man who do shit are married.
Syedairhabatool Wrong. There are husbands who sell their wife’s for money.
@@harshaniya Oh yes great point. How did I forget,thank you.
Just take a moment to appreciate Alia for her brilliance in the movie, that was just her second Film ❤️
Movie's name???
Movie name???
Can any one tell us Movie name??
@@vineeshavinni7655 highway
@@jaspreet8257 thank you
Believe me or not but She is the best kudos actress of our generation.