This was fantastic Conor. The concept of artistry and craftsmanship is fading away, and the reason is simple, to become good at something one needs to invest time, effort and have patience. In a time of instant gratification, this its increasingly more difficult to find people that understand the value of the best at what you do as opposed to the best at what you say you do.
I love the excellent work you're doing, thank you. I am a poor communicator and so bad doing presentations, let alone speaking in front of an audience. I get uncontrollably nervous that I forget the words I need to say despite all my preparation. This hurt my career over the years and I am truly disheartened at the hopelessness of my situation.
Hey Conor, amongst the gazillions of vids out there about self empowering etc, I find that your delivery and your ideas are really making me wanna listen more. The quiet and stillness of your being just makes the messages and ideas sound really authentic and above all - doable. Keep on the good work and thanks for sharing these vids.
Just what I needed to hear. The point of the matrix and the art of craftsmanship. Perfectly inspired to start a new journey in my life. Brought in clarity where I had been confused on both these aspects. What it takes to inspire the beginners and guide the seniors, the sense or the lack of it in the art of craftsmanship in today's age of specialization.
It is 2021 and your message is so impactful... speaking our minds with state of the art is one of the greatest challenges....thank you and keep inspiring us to move forward! From a Brazilian follower ..lara
Excellent one once again Conor...I assessed my self before joining your online free class a few weeks ago in communication probably I belong to no 2... but right now I am improving fingers cross going to no 4...thanks a lot my mentor...
I still remember your first video I saw (your Ted Talk about Mashmallow, Descipline of execution. "Who will you bet on?"). I've watched that talk to many times to count and I use the principles you taught there every single day. Many videos later, I'm still glad I met you. If you are wondering what's got me glued, it's because i identified myself as a #2 sometimes ago. I know in some videos you talked about the steps to #3/#4 (Record yourself speak everyday with your laptop's camera etc.) Please give us more on the practical steps and how to measure progress. I hope I'm not asking for too much. Thanks alot Conor. Funny part: I learnt the only Spanish I know from that Mashmallow video, "Mo yismo".
Fully agree, #3 overpasses #2 when it comes to marketing oneself especially in promotions and recruitments. World full of actors. With you all the way Mr. Conor. Lead us from #2 to #4. :-)
Interesting... At the moment I'm definitely #2, often still think I am not good enough and improve my skill even further. I am going to use your advise. I love the craftmanship part too, I am like that, but being a craftsman takes a lot of time, though very very 'leerzaam' - learnful (Dutch-English, I feel like the Dutch language supports the craftmanship from its roots). Thank you very much! :D
Your best and most useful video. A majority of the professors, engineers and Businessmen fall in this category. In other words most of the human population fall in the second group. They are highly skilled but not communicator
Thank you for this video Conor !! After I watch your video(s) I take notes and consciously use them for a period of time till it actually becomes a habit. I appreciate your services :)
btw, it was a good idea that you were hiding the other numbers on the graph while explaining any individual cell in the matrix! There are many expert video makers that they don't care about these small details
Great explanation and at the same time there are so many factors and cultural aspects, job level that hinders communication and there are extroverts but younger employees who are good on communication . so to come to a decision strategy on actions required in categorizing employees, i would go by age , experience , position level , function they are into as well as opportunities provided to younger employees as part of motivation.
Dear Mr. Conor Neil, Your videos have been a true source of inspiration for me, to learn more about where I am lacking... in skill and in attitude. Craftsmanship is a theory I have admired and tried to establish for myself to become an expert and tell my own story, especially when looking for jobs. Unfortunately, people who are not forward looking, dont get that concept, (and I am not saying this is as a critique on your video). Most managers, atleast in the tech industry, look for master of one, instead of someone having a holistic view/knowledge, to fill gaps in their teams. I sincerely hope craftsmanship is more valued in the future. You have very thought provoking ideas, and I would love to connect sometime. I live in the Bay area in California, and if you are ever here, I would love to buy you lunch.
Great points and insight. The only area I would challenge is in the area of quadrant 3. If someone is a real expert in what they do, but not a good communicator, I usually shy away from these people in business. Part of actually being an expert (in my opinion) is through effective communication. An expert without the ability to communicate effectively, transparently and quickly is only going to be annoying to work with. This annoyance is going to overshadow their expertise, at least in the long run. I usually only work well with people in quadrant 4. Just my opinion, but the majority of "experts" are in quadrant two or three, not very many are in four. I find this, especially, in the professions such as Medical Practitioners and CPAs. Just my take for what it is worth! In addition, I find it to be comical that there is ageism in the workplace, since most of the people that are in quadrant four are the more older and seasoned individuals. The problem is that these individuals get frustrated working with individuals in the other quadrants and find solace in retiring.
The accumulation of wealth is inevitably accompanied by specialization in production and diversification in consumption. The paradox is that if everyone were a craftsman, as you suggest we should aspire to be, everyone would be poorer-as it was in times gone by. Wealth arises through division of labour and trade, as Smith recognized so well. It seems to me that the privilege of becoming a craftsman is reserved for those among us who can rely upon others to specialize in their production. This specialization simultaneously furnishes the craftsman with cheap tools and creates a pool of customers that is sufficiently wealthy to purchase the fruits of the craftsman’s labour, which would necessarily be more expensive.
12:42 Hi Mr Conor. I find tour content yesterday and immediately subscribed. I think I need a expert like you to keep crafting myself. So, thank you very much. My question remained: why do the experts are weaker communicating?
Hello Conor. I've been following you quite long. You have a very good videos. I'm 40 y old business administration bachelor holding a CFO position. I've tried to follow the different advises you tell, about communication, how to lead. This in particular made me think about how far I'm from the 4s at this matrix you described, at this point I'm feeling as 2, working on me in order to become as fast as I can into 4. I'll keep watching your videos and I hope you can come along to Mexico to bring us your knowledge. Saudos
Quite informative speech content, Conor Neill! So thank you for sharing in such a vividly clarified manner. Btw, it should be noted that everyone is a teacher to some extent as they tend to convey some knowledge regarding any physical matters or abstract notions, and there are those who does this professionally. Also, there is a third group of teachers who perceive this profession is a calling and only this category can have a genuine competence in their domain. What is interesting these experts could have poor communicative skill which keeps them in shade of those who blindeningly show off their high communicative ability with no profound expertise.
As I'm Irish I think I was naturally born into #3 but I am working to get to #2 to get up to #4! I remember a Tony Robbins event in Dublin a while back where most of the EO members were in the lobby half way through having had enough of the ra-ra loud music stuff! The craftsman idea is interesting, will go back and watch Rich's video. Would love to meet up for a coffee in Frankfurt at GSEA/GLC if you have time.
There should be a fourth dimension (X,Y, & Z). The Z dimension is one where the units are based on a subconscious ability at finding patterns to problem solution(s). These are people that create new scientific discoveries, where others tweak existing idea's.
It's hard to believe this video had so few hits in over three and half years. Actually this is totally what I was looking for, which I wasn't sure I'm looking for, and I just saw it :)) And also very few comments considering the knowledge being shared. Maybe it's natural, because 2s and 4s are rare people who likes to solve the problems, by not seeing the problems as trouble, but seeing them as the path to understand the way how universe works. 3s are everywhere, when Mr. Neill was talking I was checking my self if I'm one of them, too... There's also an interesting situation, being en expert doesn't mean being perfect, isn't it? Life is way more wider than a profession or expertise. So, in different situations everyone can become no. 1, no. 2, no. 3 or no. 4. This was a great lecture to make you feel more confident about being yourself, if you are a seeker. On the other hand if you are looking for a knowledge gives you a constant calm, after the video, you may meet a different world which abuses you by not showing the perfect examples all the time. :) Thank you very much sir for this insightful video. That's definitely full of joy with lessons. RUclips you made the day again :)))
Dear Conor. What do you think about your video without music? I find it easier listening to your old talks because there was no music and I could focus on what you were saying.
Great V Blog again Conor, Love it , it takes both Character & Competence to have long term effectiveness/ success and Comm's is the most important skill in life and like any skill can be taught & learnt , but Re Tony Robbins he can flex his style he is very different in BIG Crowd as opposed to 121 and the guy who left may have seen it as Hype and I agree the long term sustainable change may be difficult to measure but thats where we need accountability and coaches and mentors (guys like you) to continue the journey . Don't write Tony off is the teaching of Experts as his fee may be the BIG barrier but he can do it and does it many time over Love & Hugs Jim
Thank you Conor, that was great. I was wondering if could please talk about effective or High Impact communication tools (Dynamic - interactive tools), I have seen so many speakers and teachers, handling very interesting topics, sharing valuable information, but, failing in the delivery, because of the structure (either poor or extremely complex) or/and a lack of "marketing skills" (They are not able to make an attractive presentation, speech, sale...). Even highly skilled experts with a really exiting topic, some times over-deliver information hard to digest, instead of using a simple picture, graphic or a related example... Some times the resources they use are just too plain, so the audience falls asleep...
Thank you Conor for sharing great insight on diferent group of people their learning and related communication skills. High introversion can also be a reason on being Category 2 people of not being and a powerful communicator oftentimes. Category 3 people are more successful in careers related to high marketing, theater and media. I often think an element of associating willing suspension of disbelief in learning something new and innovative with aid of arts and theater will actually broaden the ability of Category 2 people on to the next level. It will also help them to see things between the lines and not being manipulated by orchestration of fake news without substantial evidence. Your advice and videos are always thought provoking. Keep up the great work ☺🌠👍
great to have YOU! I work permanently on content and presentation. #4 is a never ending point that I achive once and stay there for ever :) I worked with tony behind the scene too (unleash the power within and business mastery) and for me he is an expert on selling, and this was why I worked there. to learn what he is an expert in but is not teaching :) I experienced too. most of people there in the room are, as you say, beginners in selfdevelopment and sales. by the way, did you consider to improve the voice recrding for your videos? celphone microphones work really well for me.
Hello Conor, I love your videos. You have a unique talent of approaching performance issues with a philosophical/ spiritual angle and identifying the needs of your audience. I am definitely a fan of yours ! I like this video which inspires me to continue thinking about my communication skills. But after listening to the video twice, I find that the question in the title remains unanswered… why are experts often poor communicators?
I am still nervous and afraid on public speaking and presentation. I don't know how to get rid off. My last two presentation were totally flop. I need to be success on my next presentation. But I didn't know how.😌 I have deep knowledge of my work but I don't know how to present to my colleagues particularly in front of the experts.
Great video with useful tips. I was hoping you would give links to content that you referenced. It's common practice with vbloggers to drop links to references they made. So I was hoping you would have link to Richard mullholland blog or RUclips channel. And also a link to okdork.com/blog. Have been following your channel since my GEMBA graduation in 2015. Your channel has come a long way. Recommend you have a look at MKBHD on youtube. I am sure you will pick up lots of tips to benefit your journey on vblogging.
Thank you ! it's very interesting :) I would need it all, lol but to speak is one thing and then it's also about a form from the technical side and this is not easy. Then it's also about the audience, I have all 4 contacts in my address book
Great, in Poland, where I'm from, there is a lot of 3's. The Soft skills education market is really infected by unauthorized "trainers". I got a question - how is it possible to learn from you while not being an IESE student? Do you organize open training or some T4T's? I'm a young trainer (Public Speaking | Communication) from Poland who wants to move to Barcelona (I know IESE is partly there) and I really need to upgrade my skills as I want to develop constantly. I would appreciate your answer.
12 mins and i still don't know why experts are so often poor communicators. great vid on how to sell yourself though. and the delivery was so much better than in the 28 min finishing video. but about integrity - it's doing what you say you'll do. irony is you said you'll give the audience a tool to increase integrity. watched till the end but the postman didn't show up. quadrant #4 sans the integrity imho
Hi Conor, I am involved in archival tasks for my office. I will not call myself a "craftman" because my tasks are repetitive and simple. But I know the whole archival process from the step 1 to the end. I am a poor communicator. How do I improve myself to stage 4?
I just amaze to realizing your worth to inspire me.Every one is expert in their fields so that time I am #4 strong (strength) but (weaknesses)out of my comfort zone its feel like #2 and for the duration of desire,pursuing,accomplishment it's #3 for me(until achievement).
Thank you! There is two life as a fallow individual personal and professional how would you can describe these key fundamental rules to fit into life as two different frame of references.
Thank you Conor for this amazing video,it's really informative 👌✌🌸🌼. we need knowledged Mentoring person like you to improve the cognitive and concept of people.
@@ConorNeill I want you to know that your videos have really helped me become a much better Speaker. And I want to be really a great one. Thanks for your help and Tips.
This is a great video. I could definitely feel the charlatan in me as you went through the matrix. Really expressed the importance of working and refining more competence, thus a more balanced way of being. Brought a lot of perspective and insight. Do you have products?
Hello Mr Connor, I have just enrolled on a business management university in UK to study, first of all i want to say i love your work and it doesn`t really matter what you say, you are captivating to listen and watch at the same time. I find myself in the category one or two because im not aware what skills i have or if i have any, im so bad at communicating and with more than one people that when the moment came for me to speak and introduce myself and say few words in front of the group, i had a massive overthinking and a million thoughts in my head seconds before i speak, when i open my mouth to speak my voice was shaking, im also bad at acting so i guess when i practice my talking i have to "play a role" as in act as someone else perhaps ? What else beside recording myself on webcam for 3 minutes i can do in order to not be anxious?
Anxious is a sign that you care - the challenge is not to be less anxious but to only speak about things that are so important that it’s worth the pain
Hi, Thanks a lot for these discussions .. Would u change some of your recommendations if women in business were your audience? Can you address significant things u see related/affects women becoming leaders in particular
You know, effective communication skills overtake who has greatest skills. Its painful to communicate with others to make others understand. You know communication skilled person big promotions the tech skilled person. Its my personal experience in 20-years of my professional experience. Some times I am thinking to resign and develop new skill for self sufficiency
Or find a context that values tech skills over comm skills... you can’t communicate your way to chess GM rating, you can’t comm your way to Olympic medals... the more obvious competence is, the more valuable it becomes
Thank you for this and all your videos, Connor. I've been digesting them one at a time and trying to see where I'm failing...or if the problem is something else. My fundamental question is when do you know if it's a communication problem, or if the thing you are trying to sell is just too big and transformative that even the best presenter could not sell it? I have developed and modeled - over 3,000 hours (the "expert" part) a new kind of building. The building would straddle a major river, the East River in NYC and house or provide workspaces for over 20,000 people. Here is an article in the Broadsheet about it, with a link to a 3-minute RUclips video: bit.ly/BroadsheetRA1. My few partners (which includes 2 developers, 2 architects, an engineer, a lawyer) and I have been trying to sell the building to bigger developers, investors, Electeds, for nearly 2 years now, but have not gotten beyond a couple of supportive letters and some "Let us know how it goes" neutral responses. My Developer partner with 35 years experience says I am presenting too much detail, but this is partly in response to previous presentations where questions have arisen that I then went back to answer in my, now, 67-slide presentation; it was only 29 slides when I presented it to AECOM at the beginning, and that actually got a more positive response. How do I know what I'm doing wrong, or if a $20.4b project (ROI $28.1b when all 7,630 condos are sold) is just too big a leap for the people I need to persuade to make? No one gives you feedback, you just don't get your emails/calls returned. Are you available for private consultation?
I'm writing this comment to say how much I loved your video Conor. I usually only half listen to videos while reading the comments but watch and listen to you because it's a pleasure to look at your beautiful smile and handsome, likeable face. The content of this particular video might not apply to me because I learn political facts and ideas and then communicate them to others. It's not a skill as such but it's important to wake people up about the danger we're all in from the billionaires behind the EU, UN and the World Health Organisation who are using covid to implement Agenda 21 and to cover for the lethal effects of the military weapon 5G.
Do you believe that a person can embody both types of teachers? Would it be worthwhile to be excellent in both? I feel like it is achievable but often overlooked...
I’m a #2 Conor. Just at the start of a big journey... again. I want to reach out to you this year when a few more ducks are lined up for me. Best, Tommy
This was fantastic Conor. The concept of artistry and craftsmanship is fading away, and the reason is simple, to become good at something one needs to invest time, effort and have patience. In a time of instant gratification, this its increasingly more difficult to find people that understand the value of the best at what you do as opposed to the best at what you say you do.
Conor is a #4. He has achieved that level through dedication and hard work developing his natural gifts! Great coaching session. Thank you Conor.
I’m a 2.5 for sure. Thank you Conor for helping me articulate the problem to myself
I love the excellent work you're doing, thank you. I am a poor communicator and so bad doing presentations, let alone speaking in front of an audience. I get uncontrollably nervous that I forget the words I need to say despite all my preparation.
This hurt my career over the years and I am truly disheartened at the hopelessness of my situation.
I should have watched this before my presentation to investors!! Valuable video
Thank you mr neill. you're number 4 to me.
Hey Conor, amongst the gazillions of vids out there about self empowering etc, I find that your delivery and your ideas are really making me wanna listen more. The quiet and stillness of your being just makes the messages and ideas sound really authentic and above all - doable. Keep on the good work and thanks for sharing these vids.
Kind words, thank you 🙏 Welcome to the Rhetorical Journey!
The greatest education is watching the master at work.
God bless you Professor.
🙌😍🙌
Kind words, thank you 🙏
Just what I needed to hear. The point of the matrix and the art of craftsmanship. Perfectly inspired to start a new journey in my life. Brought in clarity where I had been confused on both these aspects. What it takes to inspire the beginners and guide the seniors, the sense or the lack of it in the art of craftsmanship in today's age of specialization.
Love this! I'm a Supply Chain manager and watched you during my first break.
Craftsman - great perspective!
Thank you 🙏
It is 2021 and your message is so impactful... speaking our minds with state of the art is one of the greatest challenges....thank you and keep inspiring us to move forward!
From a Brazilian follower ..lara
Kind words, thank you 🙏
OMG! I was never drawn to TR programs. Now I know why. I am looking for someone who works with an expert. Thank you for the revelation!
It's always pleasure to listen to you Conor.
One of the best videos I’ve seen on learning styles, coming from the three.
Its just great to know which category I fall in and what I should do to improve
Excellent one once again Conor...I assessed my self before joining your online free class a few weeks ago in communication probably I belong to no 2... but right now I am improving fingers cross going to no 4...thanks a lot my mentor...
I still remember your first video I saw (your Ted Talk about Mashmallow, Descipline of execution. "Who will you bet on?"). I've watched that talk to many times to count and I use the principles you taught there every single day. Many videos later, I'm still glad I met you. If you are wondering what's got me glued, it's because i identified myself as a #2 sometimes ago. I know in some videos you talked about the steps to #3/#4 (Record yourself speak everyday with your laptop's camera etc.)
Please give us more on the practical steps and how to measure progress. I hope I'm not asking for too much. Thanks alot Conor.
Funny part:
I learnt the only Spanish I know from that Mashmallow video, "Mo yismo".
Fully agree, #3 overpasses #2 when it comes to marketing oneself especially in promotions and recruitments. World full of actors.
With you all the way Mr. Conor. Lead us from #2 to #4. :-)
This is absolutely refreshing.
Interesting... At the moment I'm definitely #2, often still think I am not good enough and improve my skill even further. I am going to use your advise. I love the craftmanship part too, I am like that, but being a craftsman takes a lot of time, though very very 'leerzaam' - learnful (Dutch-English, I feel like the Dutch language supports the craftmanship from its roots). Thank you very much! :D
I firmly believe that No one can teach like you on this planet
Kind words, thank you ;-)
Your best and most useful video. A majority of the professors, engineers and Businessmen fall in this category. In other words most of the human population fall in the second group. They are highly skilled but not communicator
I have put your videos on my facebook page to train people...
facebook.com/NisaarYNadiadwala
what a humble person!
Thank you for this video Conor !! After I watch your video(s) I take notes and consciously use them for a period of time till it actually becomes a habit. I appreciate your services :)
btw, it was a good idea that you were hiding the other numbers on the graph while explaining any individual cell in the matrix! There are many expert video makers that they don't care about these small details
So helpful. I've never seen this matrix. This is so good. Especially the Actor Speaker comparison. thanks Conor
Great explanation and at the same time there are so many factors and cultural aspects, job level that hinders communication and there are extroverts but younger employees who are good on communication . so to come to a decision strategy on actions required in categorizing employees, i would go by age , experience , position level , function they are into as well as opportunities provided to younger employees as part of motivation.
I'm glad I bumped into this channel, thanks much for the insight rabii hehe it doesn't get old
Your way of talking is so soothing
That can be the reason,
One of my favourite channels this is :)
Thanks ! Conor . God bless You 🙏 .
You are Amazing 👏.
Great video; I am aware of which quadrant I tend to fall into.
Thank you for this post.
Dear Mr. Conor Neil,
Your videos have been a true source of inspiration for me, to learn more about where I am lacking... in skill and in attitude. Craftsmanship is a theory I have admired and tried to establish for myself to become an expert and tell my own story, especially when looking for jobs. Unfortunately, people who are not forward looking, dont get that concept, (and I am not saying this is as a critique on your video). Most managers, atleast in the tech industry, look for master of one, instead of someone having a holistic view/knowledge, to fill gaps in their teams. I sincerely hope craftsmanship is more valued in the future.
You have very thought provoking ideas, and I would love to connect sometime. I live in the Bay area in California, and if you are ever here, I would love to buy you lunch.
Great points and insight. The only area I would challenge is in the area of quadrant 3. If someone is a real expert in what they do, but not a good communicator, I usually shy away from these people in business. Part of actually being an expert (in my opinion) is through effective communication. An expert without the ability to communicate effectively, transparently and quickly is only going to be annoying to work with. This annoyance is going to overshadow their expertise, at least in the long run. I usually only work well with people in quadrant 4. Just my opinion, but the majority of "experts" are in quadrant two or three, not very many are in four. I find this, especially, in the professions such as Medical Practitioners and CPAs. Just my take for what it is worth! In addition, I find it to be comical that there is ageism in the workplace, since most of the people that are in quadrant four are the more older and seasoned individuals. The problem is that these individuals get frustrated working with individuals in the other quadrants and find solace in retiring.
If every man spoke with the spirit of God rather than with his ego, other men would listen, learn and be inspired forever.
Well said
I totally agree!
The accumulation of wealth is inevitably accompanied by specialization in production and diversification in consumption. The paradox is that if everyone were a craftsman, as you suggest we should aspire to be, everyone would be poorer-as it was in times gone by. Wealth arises through division of labour and trade, as Smith recognized so well. It seems to me that the privilege of becoming a craftsman is reserved for those among us who can rely upon others to specialize in their production. This specialization simultaneously furnishes the craftsman with cheap tools and creates a pool of customers that is sufficiently wealthy to purchase the fruits of the craftsman’s labour, which would necessarily be more expensive.
12:42 Hi Mr Conor. I find tour content yesterday and immediately subscribed. I think I need a expert like you to keep crafting myself. So, thank you very much.
My question remained: why do the experts are weaker communicating?
Hello Conor. I've been following you quite long. You have a very good videos. I'm 40 y old business administration bachelor holding a CFO position. I've tried to follow the different advises you tell, about communication, how to lead. This in particular made me think about how far I'm from the 4s at this matrix you described, at this point I'm feeling as 2, working on me in order to become as fast as I can into 4. I'll keep watching your videos and I hope you can come along to Mexico to bring us your knowledge. Saudos
Quite informative speech content, Conor Neill! So thank you for sharing in such a vividly clarified manner. Btw, it should be noted that everyone is a teacher to some extent as they tend to convey some knowledge regarding any physical matters or abstract notions, and there are those who does this professionally. Also, there is a third group of teachers who perceive this profession is a calling and only this category can have a genuine competence in their domain. What is interesting these experts could have poor communicative skill which keeps them in shade of those who blindeningly show off their high communicative ability with no profound expertise.
that is great scaled idea)
As I'm Irish I think I was naturally born into #3 but I am working to get to #2 to get up to #4! I remember a Tony Robbins event in Dublin a while back where most of the EO members were in the lobby half way through having had enough of the ra-ra loud music stuff! The craftsman idea is interesting, will go back and watch Rich's video. Would love to meet up for a coffee in Frankfurt at GSEA/GLC if you have time.
This is a great video, and your videos are always great. Mr Conor.
There should be a fourth dimension (X,Y, & Z). The Z dimension is one where the units are based on a subconscious ability at finding patterns to problem solution(s). These are people that create new scientific discoveries, where others tweak existing idea's.
It's hard to believe this video had so few hits in over three and half years. Actually this is totally what I was looking for, which I wasn't sure I'm looking for, and I just saw it :)) And also very few comments considering the knowledge being shared. Maybe it's natural, because 2s and 4s are rare people who likes to solve the problems, by not seeing the problems as trouble, but seeing them as the path to understand the way how universe works. 3s are everywhere, when Mr. Neill was talking I was checking my self if I'm one of them, too... There's also an interesting situation, being en expert doesn't mean being perfect, isn't it? Life is way more wider than a profession or expertise. So, in different situations everyone can become no. 1, no. 2, no. 3 or no. 4. This was a great lecture to make you feel more confident about being yourself, if you are a seeker. On the other hand if you are looking for a knowledge gives you a constant calm, after the video, you may meet a different world which abuses you by not showing the perfect examples all the time. :) Thank you very much sir for this insightful video. That's definitely full of joy with lessons. RUclips you made the day again :)))
Very valuable video, thank you for making this, stay blessed
Thanks Conor, I found this video very inspiring.
I still need more practice or acting to be a good communicator : ) Good points. Thank you Conor.
Thank you Conor for this great video
U r just awesome! I respect you and your passion to spread knowledge...
Thank you 🙏
Yes, that is very good advice.
Dear Conor. What do you think about your video without music? I find it easier listening to your old talks because there was no music and I could focus on what you were saying.
Great V Blog again Conor, Love it , it takes both Character & Competence to have long term effectiveness/ success and Comm's is the most important skill in life and like any skill can be taught & learnt , but Re Tony Robbins he can flex his style he is very different in BIG Crowd as opposed to 121 and the guy who left may have seen it as Hype and I agree the long term sustainable change may be difficult to measure but thats where we need accountability and coaches and mentors (guys like you) to continue the journey . Don't write Tony off is the teaching of Experts as his fee may be the BIG barrier but he can do it and does it many time over Love & Hugs Jim
Agreed
Thank you Conor, that was great. I was wondering if could please talk about effective or High Impact communication tools (Dynamic - interactive tools), I have seen so many speakers and teachers, handling very interesting topics, sharing valuable information, but, failing in the delivery, because of the structure (either poor or extremely complex) or/and a lack of "marketing skills" (They are not able to make an attractive presentation, speech, sale...). Even highly skilled experts with a really exiting topic, some times over-deliver information hard to digest, instead of using a simple picture, graphic or a related example... Some times the resources they use are just too plain, so the audience falls asleep...
Thank you for sharing your knowledge
Thank you Conor for sharing great insight on diferent group of people their learning and related communication skills. High introversion can also be a reason on being Category 2 people of not being and a powerful communicator oftentimes. Category 3 people are more successful in careers related to high marketing, theater and media. I often think an element of associating willing suspension of disbelief in learning something new and innovative with aid of arts and theater will actually broaden the ability of Category 2 people on to the next level. It will also help them to see things between the lines and not being manipulated by orchestration of fake news without substantial evidence. Your advice and videos are always thought provoking. Keep up the great work ☺🌠👍
great to have YOU!
I work permanently on content and presentation. #4 is a never ending point that I achive once and stay there for ever :)
I worked with tony behind the scene too (unleash the power within and business mastery) and for me he is an expert on selling, and this was why I worked there. to learn what he is an expert in but is not teaching :)
I experienced too. most of people there in the room are, as you say, beginners in selfdevelopment and sales.
by the way, did you consider to improve the voice recrding for your videos? celphone microphones work really well for me.
I agree. audio is more important than video. which microphone do you use?
Hello Conor, I love your videos. You have a unique talent of approaching performance issues with a philosophical/ spiritual angle and identifying the needs of your audience. I am definitely a fan of yours ! I like this video which inspires me to continue thinking about my communication skills. But after listening to the video twice, I find that the question in the title remains unanswered… why are experts often poor communicators?
Thank you Conor… Often times type 2 ends up working for type 3. Any advice for the 2 in this situation?
Great stuff! One question: does it mean good communicators don't need scripts?
Conor I love your body language. I have been trying to develop.Please suggest me how I could develop it.
Thank You.
I am still nervous and afraid on public speaking and presentation. I don't know how to get rid off. My last two presentation were totally flop. I need to be success on my next presentation. But I didn't know how.😌 I have deep knowledge of my work but I don't know how to present to my colleagues particularly in front of the experts.
Great video with useful tips. I was hoping you would give links to content that you referenced. It's common practice with vbloggers to drop links to references they made. So I was hoping you would have link to Richard mullholland blog or RUclips channel. And also a link to okdork.com/blog. Have been following your channel since my GEMBA graduation in 2015. Your channel has come a long way. Recommend you have a look at MKBHD on youtube. I am sure you will pick up lots of tips to benefit your journey on vblogging.
Thank you ! it's very interesting :)
I would need it all, lol but to speak is one thing and then it's also about a form from the technical side and this is not easy. Then it's also about the audience, I have all 4 contacts in my address book
Great, in Poland, where I'm from, there is a lot of 3's. The Soft skills education market is really infected by unauthorized "trainers".
I got a question - how is it possible to learn from you while not being an IESE student? Do you organize open training or some T4T's? I'm a young trainer (Public Speaking | Communication) from Poland who wants to move to Barcelona (I know IESE is partly there) and I really need to upgrade my skills as I want to develop constantly.
I would appreciate your answer.
12 mins and i still don't know why experts are so often poor communicators. great vid on how to sell yourself though. and the delivery was so much better than in the 28 min finishing video. but about integrity - it's doing what you say you'll do. irony is you said you'll give the audience a tool to increase integrity. watched till the end but the postman didn't show up. quadrant #4 sans the integrity imho
Hehe, good catch. The title is really misleading, but because Connor is a #4, he manages to make up for that ;-)
Hi Conor, I am involved in archival tasks for my office. I will not call myself a "craftman" because my tasks are repetitive and simple. But I know the whole archival process from the step 1 to the end. I am a poor communicator. How do I improve myself to stage 4?
Thanks Conor, do you have podcast?
Very useful Sir....
A #2 checking in! ;🙂
I just amaze to realizing your worth to inspire me.Every one is expert in their fields so that time I am #4 strong (strength) but (weaknesses)out of my comfort zone its feel like #2 and for the duration of desire,pursuing,accomplishment it's #3 for me(until achievement).
It's my pleasure!
Can i ask Why any one want to follow the #3 to take a leap of faith from 2# to #4.
Thank you!
There is two life as a fallow individual personal and professional how would you can describe these key fundamental rules to fit into life as two different frame of references.
Thank you Conor for this amazing video,it's really informative 👌✌🌸🌼.
we need knowledged Mentoring person like you to improve the cognitive and concept of people.
I love the explanation and the graphic
@@ConorNeill I want you to know that your videos have really helped me become a much better Speaker. And I want to be really a great one. Thanks for your help and Tips.
Always great videos, I easily became a follower, share your videos weekly with friends. You may be #4 in this matrix. Thanks 👏👏
This is a great video. I could definitely feel the charlatan in me as you went through the matrix. Really expressed the importance of working and refining more competence, thus a more balanced way of being. Brought a lot of perspective and insight. Do you have products?
am on #2 .......I have a poor communication skills........ the problem is Everytime taking in group I felt like my mind g blank
Hello Mr Connor, I have just enrolled on a business management university in UK to study, first of all i want to say i love your work and it doesn`t really matter what you say, you are captivating to listen and watch at the same time.
I find myself in the category one or two because im not aware what skills i have or if i have any, im so bad at communicating and with more than one people that when the moment came for me to speak and introduce myself and say few words in front of the group, i had a massive overthinking and a million thoughts in my head seconds before i speak, when i open my mouth to speak my voice was shaking, im also bad at acting so i guess when i practice my talking i have to "play a role" as in act as someone else perhaps ? What else beside recording myself on webcam for 3 minutes i can do in order to not be anxious?
Anxious is a sign that you care - the challenge is not to be less anxious but to only speak about things that are so important that it’s worth the pain
Awesome insights and very useful.
but what if you're an expert in communication?
I am number 2, and have often been told that!
Another very informative talk...which country are you from sir...I'm from Jamaica🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
"If you can't explain it simply, you don't understand it well enough" ~ Einstein.
Hi,
Thanks a lot for these discussions .. Would u change some of your recommendations if women in business were your audience? Can you address significant things u see related/affects women becoming leaders in particular
Good Advice Sir
You know, effective communication skills overtake who has greatest skills. Its painful to communicate with others to make others understand. You know communication skilled person big promotions the tech skilled person. Its my personal experience in 20-years of my professional experience. Some times I am thinking to resign and develop new skill for self sufficiency
Or find a context that values tech skills over comm skills... you can’t communicate your way to chess GM rating, you can’t comm your way to Olympic medals... the more obvious competence is, the more valuable it becomes
You deserve more views and subs, Sir.
Another #2 check in here😊
Good framework - though I remember complaining to Mike that his whole course was a #3-fest, crowding out all the rest...
Well I am indebted to you -- and keeping the "so what, what are you going to do" answer for whenever I get a complaint from a Client :)
I have a question if you have some time to answer it
Oh my gosh! I am number 2. Huhu.
Love it!
Thanks
Thank you for this and all your videos, Connor. I've been digesting them one at a time and trying to see where I'm failing...or if the problem is something else. My fundamental question is when do you know if it's a communication problem, or if the thing you are trying to sell is just too big and transformative that even the best presenter could not sell it? I have developed and modeled - over 3,000 hours (the "expert" part) a new kind of building. The building would straddle a major river, the East River in NYC and house or provide workspaces for over 20,000 people. Here is an article in the Broadsheet about it, with a link to a 3-minute RUclips video: bit.ly/BroadsheetRA1. My few partners (which includes 2 developers, 2 architects, an engineer, a lawyer) and I have been trying to sell the building to bigger developers, investors, Electeds, for nearly 2 years now, but have not gotten beyond a couple of supportive letters and some "Let us know how it goes" neutral responses. My Developer partner with 35 years experience says I am presenting too much detail, but this is partly in response to previous presentations where questions have arisen that I then went back to answer in my, now, 67-slide presentation; it was only 29 slides when I presented it to AECOM at the beginning, and that actually got a more positive response. How do I know what I'm doing wrong, or if a $20.4b project (ROI $28.1b when all 7,630 condos are sold) is just too big a leap for the people I need to persuade to make? No one gives you feedback, you just don't get your emails/calls returned.
Are you available for private consultation?
I'm writing this comment to say how much I loved your video Conor.
I usually only half listen to videos while reading the comments but watch and listen to you because it's a pleasure to look at your beautiful smile and handsome, likeable face.
The content of this particular video might not apply to me because I learn political facts and ideas and then communicate them to others. It's not a skill as such but it's important to wake people up about the danger we're all in from the billionaires behind the EU, UN and the World Health Organisation who are using covid to implement Agenda 21 and to cover for the lethal effects of the military weapon 5G.
I'm definitely no. 1
Deep 🙏
If you are not expert in one thing then you cannot become an expert in any other thing.
Fantastic
Interesting.... Amazing video. Thanks for sharing this excellent information.
Do you believe that a person can embody both types of teachers? Would it be worthwhile to be excellent in both? I feel like it is achievable but often overlooked...
I suck at communication
Good
I’m a #2 Conor. Just at the start of a big journey... again. I want to reach out to you this year when a few more ducks are lined up for me. Best, Tommy
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