I had a strong feeling that Kevin has a daughter. This makes so much more sense now. This is why the advice that he gives these women is tough as nails, he speaks from a (black) father's perspective. Please keep on doing what you're doing brother. 🙏🏾
When my son was 15, he found a job in our neighborhood at a pizza shop. In 1987, my son got pissed with me because I wouldn’t pay $100 for a pair of tennis shoes. $60 was my limit. The salesman tried the to entice me by saying if he plays any sports he’s going to need good shoes. My son was about 6’3” at the time. I told him take the $60 shoes or home with nothing. He always worked. When he was 7, he and my neighbors sin had a paper route. You don’t see that anymore. So When he got his first paycheck he went shopping came home excited because he purchased two shirts, two pair jeans and a pair of tennis shoes. Granted this was in 1987.
… he said I didn’t know things were so expensive. I was a single mother and he never asked for much so there were times when I would gladly get him shat he asked for. You can shop for quality clothing for children. without going overboard. That woman is definitely on the wrong path with her son …pay now or pay later !!!!
@@patriciaboulware185 Oh Yeah He was tripping big time! 1985 $100 for some shoes is Extreme! Hell even $60 for some Kicks were generous! Early 2000/01 I was 15 & my Moms limit was $40-60 all I wore were Converse & Vans.. I always understood You get what you want when your an adult not as a Kid
I so agree. I have a daughter and the minute she is mature through nature she will unlearn a non beneficial mindset for a better one. She will be strong , within her femininity. ❤ I agree good brother. This is Vital truth. Truth heals , lies steal reality. Hence spinster dying alone...
I was literally yelling at the computer when the woman said she gave her 16 year old son a new car, a grand a month allowance, and Gucci clothing. He will never learn how to be a man.
@@Nicole-gu5pq youre not a man so you dont know what men want. Your family sounds like they are full of squares. They dont count. I do t know kevins definition of alpha male but just because you have money doesnt make you an alpha male.its alot of simps out here with money. For example the black panther parter wasnt full of millionaires but it was full of alpha males. Do the men in your family exhibit any of the qualities of the black panthers such as being armed, informed and unified.
raj jar It’s not about belittling women. It’s about clearly communicating their education, income, and career will NOT make up for deficits in other areas. That was illustrated by the Tomi Lahren video that’s all over social media. She wants credit for her career and accomplishments, because the men SHE wants have access to FAR more attractive women. Her career doesn’t bridge that gap, so she made a public video ranting about it.
Yes, you can tell by the comments, they don't know the difference between Red Lobster and Bluepointe let alone the Russian Tea Room. These are 1989 style drug dealer girlfriend wannabes (no offense to the dealers out there).
He was a freaking saint. They said he died of high blood pressure. I am sure he kept those frustrations bottled in and it took its toll. Those abrasive ladies effectively indirectly caused his death. Salute to your effort Mr Samuels. I know you are a saint in heaven. Still doing your work in ways we cannot see.... Rip Sir❤🙏
KS content went over many people's heads, men & women. The level of discipline, commitment and focus he put into his brand and messaging was brilliant. Nobody was better at saying the quiet part out loud than KS. Be the best version of yourself then choose from the options you have available and Accountability is Kryptonite was brilliant.
I am a Turkish man 30 years old. I am living in America since last 6 years and I can relate to most advice you give to women out here Mr.Kevin . I make low six figure . I have to work long hours to make my money. I avoid American women like a plague. Even my mom and sisters have changed since we came to America. Toxic feminism has damaged them. I recommend them watching your show. I thank you so much for your hard work.
I like the chat from Ivette saying "less than dress size 6 isn't a woman, it's a child". Nah sis, you're just over weight. My mom is 62 and a size 4, my sister just had twins a few months back and is size 4, shes 31. My ex was a size 2, she's 25. Don't try and put others down because you don't have the self control to get your weight down and keep it down.
I'm 37 and got down to a size 4, 6 months after giving birth to my last child. A 6-8 is acceptable on a very tall woman, because most tend to have a larger bone structure. I'm 5'3, I could stand to drop some more weight and would likely look best at a size 0-2. I don't look like a child by any means.
I make 400k a year and I do not consider myself nor do I want to be a high value man. Im an 8 to 9 and 6 ft 205. After hanging out with that crowd I found many of them to be very shallow and narcissistic. Not my game. I feel comfortable around more blue collar people. Just stay in your lane and do what makes you comfortable and happy.
Good for u. I feel the same. The more i learn about high value men, the more i realize i have everything i need and want with my bf. I think we should all strive to be the best version of ourselves without changing who we are at heart
Kevin really hit the nail on the head. There's nothing wrong with being an an average guy or girl. Not being High Value doesn't mean that you you have no value or arent a good enough man or woman.
The JP Morgan woman left her husband because she thinks that she is better than her husband and deserves a higher value man. In other words, she lost respect for him. Also, IG and social media made people perceived "high-value" to be glamorous and "easily-achievable" and ignore the long-hours and hard work required.
@@dadsarepeopletoo3785 yeah, all the social media hype gives women the false perception that high value man can be easily found when 90% of all women are competing for 10% of men.
A lot of these “educated” women cannot answer simple yes/no questions, they can’t make clear concise points and they giggle and talk like little girls. I don’t get it
It's called a Deflection....women deflect, change the subject or blame someone else when confronted with truths that emotional reasoning cannot fathom.
Another thing is women use the littegirl voice as a defense mechanism when they don't have something to say or are caught, plus women since they figured it out the little girl voice disarms men because they are trained my kids on the call or the mother. You see it clearer in single mom, when you first meet their kids z those kids don't have attachment to you. So you can see the hesitation where your kids will absolutely trust you and mother and not think anything of it, but you get trained to relax without knowing, so when you see a women of 18 and over giggling you are in the ball park that she has dirty thoughts or got caught and trying to find her strategy to get out of whatever she is afraid you will realize, and if you get close the anger will come out , then think cause that's jack pot
I work in HR. My Executive Director has a Doctorate and will tell you. She is 268 pounds. She is very hard to be around. 3 times divorced. The assistant Director has a master's degree and they tag team the men in the office. She cooks TERRIBLY and will watch to see who eats it and who doesn't.
Lol that lady had to go somewhere else in her own house, because her son’s TV was too loud🤦🏾♂️... I’ll be honest, when I was younger, all my father had to do was look at me 😂 smh
I feel embarrassed for the women he’s speaking to. The cognitive dissonance is unreal. Feminism has really mislead women unfortunately. Sorry ladies , I wish our society didn’t feed you lies 😔
First it was "Gangster-Rap to destroy B-lack men .. Now it's "Feminism" to destroy B-lack women! .. Certain people are always being played for a fool .. why?
@@MisTracy39TheVeganLady Indeed, this is the real question. BUT we have to take responsiblity for our own actions still while figuring that out. We can't chop it up to the government and white folk or the deep state.
The GUCCI lady was a good call. I made my son earn everything he got. He’s a doctor now. I didn’t buy him a car. He drove the van at the house. I paid for his college because I told him, if he followed what I told , I would pay for his school. So far so good.
Social media has ruined a lot of people. Kevin is right that we have made normal/average not good enough. People with middle class lifestyles are no longer satisfied. They want to drive Lamborghini, wear very expensive designer clothes, live in mansions and in the case of dating they want a high value man/woman. There is nothing wrong with a middle class man or middle class lifestyle. Women need to stop bypassing these good men trying to date out of their lane. Also, high value doesn't necessarily equate to a suitable mate. If you find a middle class man that treats you well you should go with that and not worry about trying to get a high value man.
So happy 10 years ago I married my man. When we got married we both were bringing in about 70,000 yearly combined. Fast forward 10 years he is now making over 100,000, I work part time and we bring in almost 200,000, I stay home with the kids and do a hybrid home school ( teach at home some days and they go to private school the other days). If I would have been like majority of black women today I would be missing out on this incredible life we have built together by the grace of God. Also he’s an incredible father to our 2 kids and he has have taken us to France, England, Mexico, Belize, Nigeria, and Honduras all before the kids turned 8.
Character, conscientiousness, thoughtfulness, whatever you want to call it, has no intrinsic value. Physical attractiveness and wealth have value. Character might make a person more tolerable to be around, but it sure as hell isn't attractive in and of itself.
A power couple.. huh..? What low aspiration … a fool, be a power person and you don’t need anyone to contribute… it’s your gig… your not dependent on a flake in the future… power couple my ass..!!!
Beyonce and Jay z are considered a "power couple" .. But you can bet that Beyonce submits to her husband .. Even thought she's deceitful in her music! .. You already know Jay-Z is the boss!
@@MisTracy39TheVeganLady How a couple is perceived by outsiders has zero basis or premise as to how they came to be. I can appreciate ambition but when coming together with a Woman I prefer to hear more about the soul of that Woman. If she is fueled by pursuits of "Power" It's a No for me. 2) Most Women just weren't raised to be Wives. Most modern Women (@ least as Black Women go) were raised to be independent and strong vs self sufficient and open. End of the day I have no desire to be a Power couple with my would be Wife. Has to be some sort of balance and that isn't it (for me).
To older women (and everyone else): women generally want a ready-made-man and men want a woman with as little experience as possible. You being educated, cultured, etc. is outweighed by your age and current looks. We don’t want a “well traveled” woman with experience, we want to be with you for so many of your “first”, wherein women generally want their man to be successful from the beginning of their relationship.
Umm thats bullshit. It's typically the opposite. Hvm shouldn't expect to be a trainer, you should expect a woman to come ready and know how to move and carry themselves etc. Especially if they are in their late 20s and early 30s by then they have already been places and experienced cultures which should be something that a man would want to share as a common interest not be an introductory course to the world. Especially if she was raised to be a wife her parents already made sure that those boxes were checked by end of high school
@@Drunk-Fly @knineAtheart i hear what yall are saying. It just seems very counter and opposite of what the circle of hvm i grew up w. Educated myself and my friend group w. And these men were drs, judges, city leaders, lobbysits etc. Im not single so it really doesn't affect me its just reflective thinking about it
The home girl point is so needed. Ladies need to hear this. Bro energy will never get you a high value man, Watching sports with him, drinking beer, being loud and aggressive, fighting and cussing in public and wearing sweats and tshirts smhv
Yes but 80% of black women didnt get the memo. They are living in a dream world. And when they get REALITY. They cant deal with it and get up in their feelings and go on the attack. Instead of listening and learning. And that's why the single black women numbers are horrendous. And gonna get worse.
Kevin is a gift to these women. He'll be highly appreciated even more by more women and men in the future. He's not a beast, he's providing a service that's highly needed this day in time. Thanks for caring Sir.
The worst thing you can do for your child is to SPOIL THEM because it’s very difficult to undo bad character when they’re an adult. You have essentially ruined their life.
Absolutely right. I made low six figures most of the time my son was growing up. I taught him that he worked hard, we would earn the right to play hard. Education was non-negotiable. Being respectful and responsible non-negotiable. He's doing well studying engineering in a top university with scholarship. He would tell you I was tough but I was always there. Raising him was and still is the highest priority even above my own life. I immigrated here from Puerto Rico so my mentality is still traditional/old world. 99% of the people I know don't understand me, even my family who grew up in US.
I got a little triggered when he described "The Perfectionist" because I TOTALLY married one! Checks every box. And then what REALLY tripped me out was when he described the "Perpetual Victim/Cry Baby" because she's THAT too!!....And she's a Psychologist with a Phd. I swear I AM NOT MAKING THIS UP!! This guy knows his stuff!!!
When I heard the word allowance, I almost shed a tear for that young man. He might think he has a nice life and I know his moms means well, but an awful life being berated for being a feminine man by men and women combined awaits him. As well as never being able to stand up for himself. 😢To many feminine men are being raised by single mothers who don’t know how to be women let alone raise a man.
I previously thought I was high value, but now realize I’m an average guy. It didn’t occur to me that it is more than income, net worth, and profession. It is a mindset, and I have a very blue collar mindset.
I learned from my dad that a blue collar man will never let you go hungry. During recessions these white collar high value man contemplate suicide because the stock values go down, they are under pressure because they are about to be fired. I was in Finance and I've seen it happen. It actually happened to me during the 2007-2009 recession. I became a truck driver, met my truck driver husband. Now we have 3 kids, 26 trucks, and when recessions come there is TOO much work. If anything ever happens I know he will go to a day labor, warehouse, construction and will do anything he has to do to provide for us. Blue collar mindset is where its at.
This comment section terrifies me. We have men, like myself, who wholehearted agree with Mr. Samuels. And with that, we have some women who would rather insult and shame the men who do, claiming they aren't high value simply to say it with no evidence of this claim instead of listening to what we are saying and acknowledging it for what it is. Ladies, I'll put this in basic terms. It isn't that we don't care about your accomplishments, money, or possessions. The problem comes from when women let those things define them as a woman instead of BEING A WOMAN defining you as a woman. Some of you are new to this channel. If you were following him from the beginning, you would see that he is HARDER on us men than the women because we are supposed to be the leaders and now, MORE THAN EVER, we have to put ourselves in the position to be such. What is being said, for the majority of the time, is what we, as men, have been trying to say for YEARS. It may seem harsh or crude, but it's the truth, nonetheless. We can't say that we love and respect you as black women and continue to allow you to be lied to. And yes, ladies, no matter how you feel, WE LOVE AND RESPECT YOU. However, I understand that this really isn't your fault. This was systematically done dating back to the 1960s. You are just products of your teachings and environment. I get it. What we need you women to understand is that we see the error of your teachings. You've been put in a position to be like men. However, ladies, you have entered into a space where men are willing to lift that load that was put on you so you can quit fighting nature and just BE women. We are, also, tired of fighting with you to do so. We are trying to get to a point where you can trust us men to facilitate the needs you've been fulfilling out of necessity. Yes, ladies, we want you to lay down your "armor" and just BE WOMEN. Just my thoughts. Peace and blessings.
Wow I agree with you! I honestly didn’t hear of feminine or masculine energy, high value men or women until the beginning of this year😬 but I am working on being more feminine well appearance wise, I noticed I get different responses from men when I’m dressed up and not looking homeless. I’m 27 no kids, never been married, I have a bachelors in English Literature & I have a skin care line, I’m worried it maybe too late....
@@Eyana_visions My dear, Mr. Samuels would say you are in the "danger zone," however, you're not too far in it. You're young enough to have children without it being life threatening. All of those accomplishments are great. No one is knocking you for having that. I applaud you. But in order to have a high value man in your life, those accomplishments can't define you as a woman. That's a nonstarter. Most of us will ignore you if you lead with that simply because we look at it like this: You're supposed to do those things as a grownup. Who are you besides all of those things? THAT'S what we're looking for. 27, no kids, you kinda have your feet in the "danger zone." You're in a good spot unlike the women who call in and the other women who try agree with them who are SUBMERGED in the "danger zone." All is not lost. Just...try to look at yourself for WHO you are and not WHAT you are. Just my thoughts, my dear. Peace, blessings, and good luck on your journey.
I read your comment. Thank you for the way that you explained your points. I also appreciate how you responded to the other young woman. If you do not mind, I have a question as well. Do you mind elaborating on your point about a woman not allowing her accomplishments to define her as a woman? I am seeking to understand not to judge or condemn. Similar to the other young woman, I am 28, no children, and in a traditionally male career [danger zone and not desirable to HVM]. I was encouraged by my parents (mother and father in the household) to always do my best in school and work hard enough to become successful. I obeyed my parents. I also learned to cook and keep a house clean because I was taught by my grandmother that housekeeping is part of my role in a marital household. I have no problem with that at all. I actually enjoy cooking and cleaning. I have been listening to Mr. Samuels, gratefully, and I have learned things about men that never occurred to me were different from women. I had my nose in my books too much to pay attention, which I now realize was a mistake. Some of it makes sense now, but I did not realize or understand that men and women are so different in our desires. Any feedback that you provide would be much appreciated. Thank you.
@@v_p_low2373 Honestly, my response to you is similar to the previous lady. Those accomplishments are great. You're doing your thing...for you. And like the previous lady, you're not deep into the danger zone. 1. You don't have a premade family. 2. You know how to keep a house in order from the female side. 3. You haven't reached the age where having children will possibly hurt you or the child by not having the physicality to carry full term without complications. Those things are working in your favor. My only advice would be to embrace your feminine side instead of tending to it every now and again. Define yourself by being FEMININE FIRST, and, in all honesty, that is determined by the man who chooses you. High value men have a standard, and it varies for each man. But, at base level, we want a FEMININE woman who is cooperative and inspirational. Just my thoughts. For anything else, you should either call in when the next show is on and ask Mr. Samuels or book a session with him. He does this for a living and is FAR more experienced than me.
Are the women calling in, afraid of Mr Kevin? Every question he asks, they are second guessing their answer. SPEAK UP. I’m really shocked at how These are Business women who are speaking like this. If he is intimidating with simple questions, how can you date a HVM? I’m new to the channel, let me sit back & watch more!
High value does not mean high status or income - even though that’s how most interpret it. To me high value is about character. If you’re kind, dignified, thoughtful, hard working, honest and try to be your best every day you are a high value man in my books. I am not young, thin, rich model-material but I am a high value woman because of my character, my desire to improve myself and the world around me. I’m sure many would say I’m wrong and naive but I’m quite ok with that. Character is what creates or lessens value in my eyes. Have a beautiful day
@@halcyondays8945 when you said “my opinion”, that said EVERYTHING 🤷🏾♂️ you can’t determine your value out here. The world is your mirror 🪞 work on yourself and you will reflect what you TRULY ARE, without “talking about it” 🎯💯👌🏾
Mimi's boy is being set up to fail. At 16-18 I hated my dad because he was tough on me and made me adhere to a strict daily routine and did not tolerate laziness or entitlement. Looking back, I can't thank him enough. The world is a hard place for a man, it's harder when you're weak and undisciplined. I know parents like her feel they're being loving and caring when they coddle their teenage boys but the future ramifications of that are not so good.
@@NCGNTO202 My Ex-wife tries that crap with my son, but I have schooled him on how he should respect his mom, but not to be bullied by her, as she tries to turn her venom for me on to him.
That's exactly how my ex-wife is with my mid-20s son. Exactly!! He has a great job and a gf but he does live with his mom (far away from me). She has done a wonderful job making sure he has very little interest in ever coming to see me
As a black man I'm happily I'm married because listening to these ladies is terrified. If I was a single dude it would've been to much for me. I don't have time or the patience to all the good black men out there good luck.😓
@@dapeace316 You can say that again. And it's only going to get worse. Soon there will be 80% single black women. And they will STILL think none of this is their fault. It's a gender disaster. And sadly it's not going to change.
Bless you Kevin for giving the last caller a reality check! My sister falls into the same category of women. For years I have encouraged her to change this behavior. Her son, my nephew is not her pseudo husband! Upon graduation, he had planned to attend college which would require a plane trip away from her. However, she convinced him to attend a local college where he would not have to struggle as much and save on housing costs by living at home! What a heart breaking situation. I am only an older sister. Our older brother had tried to step in when he was younger. She interfered in this process after our brother ‘got in her sons' butt’ for behavior unbecoming of a man! In high school, despite her disapproval (he'd have to rise at 4:00 a.m.), he made the decision to workout with his uncle, and learn from him. Their time jogging hills, swimming laps and weight lifting has produced much growth. He will graduate college this year with a degree in security technology. Single ladies, please do society a favor. Stop the madness! Sisters, can you put your ego aside for the sake of your sons masculinity and all it embodies? Again, thanks Kevin for offering women this much needed platform. My hope is they will take to heart your comments and change these negative behaviors.
Really loved that conversation with the last caller . We really do need to open our eyes and start realizing that we are actually destroying our children’s lives , and this nonsense needs to stop! We are not doing these kids any favour by stopping their fathers to be involved in their lives ;we are ruining them . 🤦🏾♀️EVERY child needs their father, and it takes a MAN to raise a MAN!!
Ice COLD bruh an they do it too themselves. Fact is the bulk of these heffas cant be pleased better to focus on our happiness let them get in where they fit in. Nothing is ever their fault you notice.
That last caller doesn't know that she's creating a monster that society is going to have to deal with. My husband's step brother is the same way. This dude has had so many breaks in life, it's ridiculous. These women don't understand what they're doing when they do this.
There's no way that should have broken your heart. Those stores are fine. The heartbreak is going to be the sixteen-year-old boy wearing $400 t-shirts when he tries to make it in this world.. If we don't learn how to work without being up under mommy we are in trouble.
@@Kelly-pp1et so, ive made this comment before because I was curious. Now, this iw just anecdotal...but from my observations it has to do with social circle. If thr man and woman werent high school sweethearts...they met in med achool and developed porpinquity, due to long hours and close contanct. Other than that they met at their jobs. Like I said, it's social circle. Which is why you cant go out there and meet a millionaire... You dont even know WHERE they hang out.
@@Kelly-pp1et I want to say the ones you know are the exception, not the norm. Again, were those couples high school sweethearts, or did they already have a history? Again though, without a quantitative study.....we are only basing our opinions on what we observe. You know we do data over here in this space
@@Kelly-pp1et blessings to you. Agree and disagree though. For us(cuz clearly you got some kinda common sense and are smart) that works. I DISAGREE though, because that is how stereotypes get ingrained in a society, you know? Like, all Indians are either doctors, or own hotels and corner stores lol 🤷🏾♂️
2:46:43 The woman who is giving her son $1000 a month was mind-blowing. He is being pampered and won't know how to earn things on his own. I barely got $5 at his age for allowance.
You're right. My mother did this. She coddled my brothers and was really hard on me. So, I ended up married to someone who expected coddling. Not good.
It Is terrifying how accurate this is....especially in the workplace. Glad I'm not the only one that sees this happen, I thought I was the weird one noticing all these red flags in the STEM field
Kevin really hits the nail on the head, my mom was similar to the last lady he interviewed but she didn’t buy me everything. Still I wasn’t allowed to work and earn on my own. I just had to accept what she thought I should have. This cause a lot of complications when I tried to accomplish tasks and acquire money. I had to constantly miss opportunities, make mistakes, and navigate minefields. Boys need to be able to earn their rewards, learn from, mistakes, and take risk.
Forget about only “high value men” , you must be fit and healthy with any man as far as my reality goes. Vitality, sexual capacity, and so many other female truths as far as nature must be met. My generation and the next have been so untethered and lied to it’s just a sick sick perversion of nature’s truth. And I absolutely do not believe any woman who says she’s happy or empowered being ALONE! We need good alpha men to submit to and be guided through life. Thank you Kevin for speaking truth, it’s plain to see you truly care, it’s evident by the amount of energy you continue to put into insight, for most of us it’s literally enlightenment. I had zero ideas about life or men until the man I serve literally helped me wake up out of this damn la la land I was living in. Bless you and everyone living by nature’s truth. ❤️
I make 6 figures, live in metro Atlanta. Married. I cannot imagine putting up with the type of women that call into the show. What I do appreciate is this show does well to elucidate what I've noticed in listening to women over the years.
I love this guy. I am so glad I heard this show about the mom with the young man. I have the same beliefs re raising boys. This was a bonus. He needs to have a TV show and a podcast. He is one person who can help all black women of all ages along with his base, black men. He should help everyone other than high value men. He must expand his target audience which he tends to do anyways.
Clinton. C. Jr your on to something...i dont see a good scenario here...something is goin to give and every relationship she has (including her own family) will self destruct. She Fucced up big and there’s no going bacc.
So he really asked a woman what she has to offer and her best reply was “I leveled up”?😂🤣😂🤣 These women tell you who they are fellas. BELIEVE THEM. Even the hippos think they don’t have to be agreeable anymore.🤣🤣🤣
Why do you want a high value men mr kevin asks( ps: 33 year old divorcee with two children), and the answer was because i FEEL i have LEVELLED Up 😂😂😂 my kevin reaction was priceless😂😂😂
Whoa!!!! The money she spends on a 16 year old boy!!! My parents gave us girls a nice life with used cars at 16, dinners, vacations nice home and clothes. They did not get into big labels and when asked it was a no.
Bruh you had it real easy most 16 year old kids don’t get cars. You make it sound like she is spoiling her kid(which she is) but you were spoiled as well.
@@hughflucas7075 Nah that's not spoiling. I worked and paid for it also, as my Daddy taught me responsibility. Adults shouldn't breed if they can't provide for their offspring.
@@laj4186 no you had it easy, you don’t realize it because you thought that is how life works. But no you probably wasn’t spoiled but you still had advantages and grew up in a financially stable home. Vacations, cars, and stuff like that is a luxury some kids don’t get. They only get the basics. You, my friend got extra. So yes you were a lucky kid, and when you say my “daddy” it just gives me that spoiled high school girl vibe lol
That is sad but true. When I was a single Man dating was horrible.. Seriously , I was swimming in an ocean of baby mamas, divorced chics that file 1st and overall have a past of back to back failed relationships. Those women will aggressively pursue you but not for you as a person but for you as an ideal that exist in her head. My advice is that for single women with no children to put themselves out there and let it be known that you're single no children.. never married... and available.. It must be said women with children have different motives when it comes to relationships.. So, fellas you can see how they conveniently Miss understand an attempt to make unintelligible excuses all ending in their acceptance. 👇Just look in the comment section👇
That’s not always true that single women with kids have different motives. EVERY woman wants a man to be masculine, lead and provide. Idc if they single with kids or no kids
Book a career session gentlemen. Learn in a one-on-one session how to become high value. Especially if you are in sales. I am closing twice as many deals in 1 month now that I met with Kevin and understood how to earn more income with intentionality. He told me what resources and career positions matter for corporate sales.
@@AL-Broadcast Having a sales coach, having a sales system, and working in outside sales that allows me to maximize my earning potential. B2B for starters.
@@AL-Broadcast honestly It is disrespectful to him for you to ask him for free information that he paid for. It is literally asking something for nothing. If you want something valuable, it keeps value when you pay. If you are a man you should be ashamed
It's sad that people can't articulate themselves today. How do you expect to thrive in the world if you can't verbally express your thoughts? Goddamn "Texting Tens" ruined society. Linguistics and the "Art Of Talking" is insanely invaluable, especially in dating/marriage. Keep making us laugh, ladies.
Imagine if the other talk shows on TV were like this we would have so many more happy people getting married and starting families because they learned the truth about relationships.
That last call taught a powerful message. I hired a young man that had to call his mom and ask how to feel out the tax forms....29 years old 4th job. I was shocked. This same guy had to ask his mom for the security deposit for his apartment. He was moving out of an apartment he previously shared with his baby mama.
I'm just listening to this show, and I swear I almost crashed my car! The description of the HR chick who's rotund and the parking memo was HI-LAR-I-OUS!!!! And the music being played with it just took it over the top.
Had no idea how bat shit insane single moms actually were til i started watching your channel. Seriously, how you keep your composure, proves you're a better man than most.
Before graduating High School every African American boy should listen to the best of KS condensed into 20 hours. I tell you this - as a HVM at the very top of one of the leading professions - if I could have listened to this sort of content between the ages of 18 and 22, some of the mistakes I made in my 20s and 30s with women might have been avoided. Young men take note.
Same, when he said... she even brings her lunch Bc she doesn’t want to miss anything at the office. Lol she knows all the gossip about everyone. Described her to the T.
I'm glad to hear you having this conversation with the Ladies. Too often Women attempt to equate their successes financially/academically as value that equates to a great long term companion. It's hardly ever the case but kudos on your successes single Ladies.
One of the secrets of life is knowing where you are on the totem pole. You can be happy and fulfilled at any level. But pretend to be somewhere you are not and you will be miserable and make others miserable. Know thyself.
I had a strong feeling that Kevin has a daughter. This makes so much more sense now. This is why the advice that he gives these women is tough as nails, he speaks from a (black) father's perspective. Please keep on doing what you're doing brother. 🙏🏾
When my son was 15, he found a job in our neighborhood at a pizza shop. In 1987, my son got pissed with me because I wouldn’t pay $100 for a pair of tennis shoes. $60 was my limit. The salesman tried the to entice me by saying if he plays any sports he’s going to need good shoes. My son was about 6’3” at the time. I told him take the $60 shoes or home with nothing. He always worked. When he was 7, he and my neighbors sin had a paper route. You don’t see that anymore. So When he got his first paycheck he went shopping came home excited because he purchased two shirts, two pair jeans and a pair of tennis shoes. Granted this was in 1987.
… he said I didn’t know things were so expensive. I was a single mother and he never asked for much so there were times when I would gladly get him shat he asked for. You can shop for quality clothing for children. without going overboard. That woman is definitely on the wrong path with her son …pay now or pay later !!!!
Well said
@@patriciaboulware185 Oh Yeah He was tripping big time! 1985 $100 for some shoes is Extreme! Hell even $60 for some Kicks were generous! Early 2000/01 I was 15 & my Moms limit was $40-60 all I wore were Converse & Vans.. I always understood You get what you want when your an adult not as a Kid
I so agree. I have a daughter and the minute she is mature through nature she will unlearn a non beneficial mindset for a better one.
She will be strong , within her femininity. ❤ I agree good brother. This is Vital truth. Truth heals , lies steal reality.
Hence spinster dying alone...
I was literally yelling at the computer when the woman said she gave her 16 year old son a new car, a grand a month allowance, and Gucci clothing. He will never learn how to be a man.
Was doin the same lol i didnt even hv a phone till i was 16...that boy needs to go live with his dad, it might b even too late for that
Facts. I was like goddamn 😂
That's her man and if she did find a man, the son will always have say so
1G a month allowance for a 16 year old and all the rest? She's raising a pimp OR she's not telling the truth.
I feel so bad for her son. He is going to grow up weak. His father needs to take him now. And that woman annoying as hell
Ladies, no man cares about your degree, especially if you are unpleasant to be around.
@raj jar Most men would take a hot young Walmart cashier before an overweight Woman with a PHD.
@@Nicole-gu5pq they are beta males they dont count.
@@Nicole-gu5pq you must be fat?
@@Nicole-gu5pq youre not a man so you dont know what men want. Your family sounds like they are full of squares. They dont count. I do t know kevins definition of alpha male but just because you have money doesnt make you an alpha male.its alot of simps out here with money. For example the black panther parter wasnt full of millionaires but it was full of alpha males. Do the men in your family exhibit any of the qualities of the black panthers such as being armed, informed and unified.
raj jar It’s not about belittling women. It’s about clearly communicating their education, income, and career will NOT make up for deficits in other areas. That was illustrated by the Tomi Lahren video that’s all over social media. She wants credit for her career and accomplishments, because the men SHE wants have access to FAR more attractive women. Her career doesn’t bridge that gap, so she made a public video ranting about it.
Some ladies don't want a high valued men, they want a high valued life style. -Kevin Samuels
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I think that is " MOST"...not " SOME"...
hmmm
Yes, you can tell by the comments, they don't know the difference between Red Lobster and Bluepointe let alone the Russian Tea Room.
These are 1989 style drug dealer girlfriend wannabes (no offense to the dealers out there).
Well they can whistle for it with their nasty attitudes for company.
This show is genius, hand this man an Emmy already...
Amen brother.
He was a freaking saint. They said he died of high blood pressure. I am sure he kept those frustrations bottled in and it took its toll. Those abrasive ladies effectively indirectly caused his death. Salute to your effort Mr Samuels. I know you are a saint in heaven. Still doing your work in ways we cannot see.... Rip Sir❤🙏
KS content went over many people's heads, men & women. The level of discipline, commitment and focus he put into his brand and messaging was brilliant. Nobody was better at saying the quiet part out loud than KS. Be the best version of yourself then choose from the options you have available and Accountability is Kryptonite was brilliant.
@@fteoOpty64I thought same thing these women killed him is not even a conspiracy… they’re capable of killing people with ignorance and stupidity 😂
I am a Turkish man 30 years old. I am living in America since last 6 years and I can relate to most advice you give to women out here Mr.Kevin . I make low six figure . I have to work long hours to make my money. I avoid American women like a plague. Even my mom and sisters have changed since we came to America. Toxic feminism has damaged them. I recommend them watching your show. I thank you so much for your hard work.
I have also seen women who come to this country change.
Yea they change for the better when they realize they have more rights and autonomy over their own lives.
@@XailensWorld😂
@@XailensWorld spoken like a toxic feminist.
@@aprilrawls5162 spoken like a male-identified Mammie
I like the chat from Ivette saying "less than dress size 6 isn't a woman, it's a child". Nah sis, you're just over weight. My mom is 62 and a size 4, my sister just had twins a few months back and is size 4, shes 31. My ex was a size 2, she's 25. Don't try and put others down because you don't have the self control to get your weight down and keep it down.
Well Said!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
So true
Thankyou!!
I'm 37 and got down to a size 4, 6 months after giving birth to my last child. A 6-8 is acceptable on a very tall woman, because most tend to have a larger bone structure. I'm 5'3, I could stand to drop some more weight and would likely look best at a size 0-2. I don't look like a child by any means.
Well said and I totally agree with you
Non-singles are also watching. We are trying to also fix our relationships and your advice hits home, Kevin.
Concur
Truth
Yup
Agree.
Got me eating right and exercising
Now I realize my wife is a genius. At age 26 she married me. She was a lot smarter than 90% of these women. Kevin is telling women the truth.
And where are the other black men like you?
A genuine question: She’s genius because she married you at 26?
@@heyyashleyyy2669 yes
Calling her a genius for marrying you is a bit narcissistic my guy
Fat shaming doesn’t exist. It’s called telling someone they’re unhealthy for their own good. Deal with it.
It’s only fat shaming regarding women. No man on earth talks about you’re fat shaming me, as a man you’re either lose the weight or remain fat.
It's how one says it that matters most. People can be mean about it which isn't cool.
S'busisiwe Shaba Can’t women be mean when they reject the men that approach them, specifically the ones they perceive to be ugly?
S'busisiwe Shaba arthritis, amputations and heart attacks probably hurt more than words and delivery of them.
Dudley Squibbles Someone like Shaba will only say that when the tables are turned on her. Ask her if she’ll go out with a Man shorter than her.
I make 400k a year and I do not consider myself nor do I want to be a high value man. Im an 8 to 9 and 6 ft 205. After hanging out with that crowd I found many of them to be very shallow and narcissistic. Not my game. I feel comfortable around more blue collar people. Just stay in your lane and do what makes you comfortable and happy.
Good for u. I feel the same. The more i learn about high value men, the more i realize i have everything i need and want with my bf. I think we should all strive to be the best version of ourselves without changing who we are at heart
Agreed. The way he describes HVM’s is so shallow and superficial. Other than that I agree with 98% of what he says.
His follow up question for assessment would be about tour parents. Their marriage, & their careers.
@@JT-oc2dn Will Smith & Obama stay on Social media. What does income have to with how much you are on the web?
@@JT-oc2dn Just work for it urself and see.
Kevin really hit the nail on the head. There's nothing wrong with being an an average guy or girl. Not being High Value doesn't mean that you you have no value or arent a good enough man or woman.
So what level are you on?
right. My question is where is the value on the spirit, morals, and values. All this crap is temporary. We all valuable PERIOD. smh.
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@@Jj-ke3ug what level are you on
One thousand percent agree. Ppl that are average that call him seem to be delusional
The JP Morgan woman left her husband because she thinks that she is better than her husband and deserves a higher value man. In other words, she lost respect for him. Also, IG and social media made people perceived "high-value" to be glamorous and "easily-achievable" and ignore the long-hours and hard work required.
She blew up her family for money
@@dadsarepeopletoo3785 yeah, all the social media hype gives women the false perception that high value man can be easily found when 90% of all women are competing for 10% of men.
Money does NOT make a woman high value either. Kevin has several points that make a man hv also
A lot of these “educated” women cannot answer simple yes/no questions, they can’t make clear concise points and they giggle and talk like little girls. I don’t get it
It’s simple. The majority of women, even the “educated” ones, are children.
They sound even more like children when they get proven wrong & have no rebuttals.
It's called a Deflection....women deflect, change the subject or blame someone else when confronted with truths that emotional reasoning cannot fathom.
Which means they are not educated, with attention to what they don't teach in school.
Another thing is women use the littegirl voice as a defense mechanism when they don't have something to say or are caught, plus women since they figured it out the little girl voice disarms men because they are trained my kids on the call or the mother. You see it clearer in single mom, when you first meet their kids z those kids don't have attachment to you. So you can see the hesitation where your kids will absolutely trust you and mother and not think anything of it, but you get trained to relax without knowing, so when you see a women of 18 and over giggling you are in the ball park that she has dirty thoughts or got caught and trying to find her strategy to get out of whatever she is afraid you will realize, and if you get close the anger will come out , then think cause that's jack pot
I work in HR. My Executive Director has a Doctorate and will tell you. She is 268 pounds. She is very hard to be around. 3 times divorced. The assistant Director has a master's degree and they tag team the men in the office. She cooks TERRIBLY and will watch to see who eats it and who doesn't.
Wow😳😳
This sounds like pure comedy!!!
Geez....I know the type. Not until I got older I understood the cause.
😂😂😂 sounds like she just cooks to punish you all.
@ honestly! Miserable Mildred needs company.
i learned from judge judy and i quote "when you answer a question with a question, you're giving yourself time to come up with an excuse"
Judge Judy is the best. Love that show. She sees right through the games people play with the truth.
True!
Or repeat the question which they clearly just heard
Kevin is too good at peeping liars. Made me rethink a lot of my relationships. I didn’t think woman lied that much.
Yes they do.
Right to your face bro
It's blowing my mind to bro
💯👏You and me both brotha
They lie as if they fucking invented it.
When a woman says toxic, she means, I can't talk to him the way I want to, most likely the way she speaks to a child.
Yep
💯
Feminism has a lot to answer for.
@@peacegiver1000 maybe it's you who are generalizing?
@@peacegiver1000 AARREE YOUUUU SUUURREE???
Lol that lady had to go somewhere else in her own house, because her son’s TV was too loud🤦🏾♂️... I’ll be honest, when I was younger, all my father had to do was look at me 😂 smh
To be fair back in the day a phone was attached to a wall. If there was noise, the noise had to leave. Now you can leave the noise
Ian Harrison A touch tone phone on the wall right. If it was a rotary then we gotta go back another decade lol.
As small as it is, her children not respecting her authority is DIRECTLY the cause of no man being around
Mine too
@@groneass2006 😂😂 i know thats right!!
I feel embarrassed for the women he’s speaking to. The cognitive dissonance is unreal. Feminism has really mislead women unfortunately. Sorry ladies , I wish our society didn’t feed you lies 😔
There's tough and whatever this is, its beyond categorization.
💯💯👏 Exactly
I totally agree with you.
First it was "Gangster-Rap to destroy B-lack men .. Now it's "Feminism" to destroy B-lack women! .. Certain people are always being played for a fool .. why?
@@MisTracy39TheVeganLady Indeed, this is the real question. BUT we have to take responsiblity for our own actions still while figuring that out. We can't chop it up to the government and white folk or the deep state.
The GUCCI lady was a good call. I made my son earn everything he got. He’s a doctor now. I didn’t buy him a car. He drove the van at the house. I paid for his college because I told him, if he followed what I told , I would pay for his school. So far so good.
Social media has ruined a lot of people. Kevin is right that we have made normal/average not good enough. People with middle class lifestyles are no longer satisfied. They want to drive Lamborghini, wear very expensive designer clothes, live in mansions and in the case of dating they want a high value man/woman. There is nothing wrong with a middle class man or middle class lifestyle. Women need to stop bypassing these good men trying to date out of their lane. Also, high value doesn't necessarily equate to a suitable mate. If you find a middle class man that treats you well you should go with that and not worry about trying to get a high value man.
This is so true.
@Technicians87 You are so right!
So happy 10 years ago I married my man. When we got married we both were bringing in about 70,000 yearly combined. Fast forward 10 years he is now making over 100,000, I work part time and we bring in almost 200,000, I stay home with the kids and do a hybrid home school ( teach at home some days and they go to private school the other days). If I would have been like majority of black women today I would be missing out on this incredible life we have built together by the grace of God. Also he’s an incredible father to our 2 kids and he has have taken us to France, England, Mexico, Belize, Nigeria, and Honduras all before the kids turned 8.
ElectricSpirit A man making six figures ($100,000) wins all the time. Peace. 🙏🇺🇸
@@tjandcj123 I am so glad to hear what a wonderfully amazing life you and your family have! Kuddos!💐
Why are these callers so long winded with their questions and answers..just get to the GD point. 🤨👍
Tierra was get'n it 😍😍😍
Because contrary to what we're told, a lot of women don't know how to communicate effectively and/or efficiently.
@@Jaslath I agree
@@Jaslath Yup.
@@Jaslath true
High character and high value aren’t the same.
Amen
Character, conscientiousness, thoughtfulness, whatever you want to call it, has no intrinsic value. Physical attractiveness and wealth have value.
Character might make a person more tolerable to be around, but it sure as hell isn't attractive in and of itself.
But those women don't want quaractor, they want high value i.e. money.
@NO SWEETHEART A Good/Sound outweighs or should outweigh a person's physical attributes or financial status.
Yea, I get it. But your typical "modern" and "hypergamous" woman would trade high value for high quality any day.
When I hear a Woman say "I want to be a Power Couple" I go the other direction.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I hate that term.
A power couple.. huh..? What low aspiration … a fool, be a power person and you don’t need anyone to contribute… it’s your gig… your not dependent on a flake in the future… power couple my ass..!!!
@@daughterofYAHWEH shii thats what im tryna find out... Tf is a "power couple"
Beyonce and Jay z are considered a "power couple" .. But you can bet that Beyonce submits to her husband .. Even thought she's deceitful in her music! .. You already know Jay-Z is the boss!
@@MisTracy39TheVeganLady How a couple is perceived by outsiders has zero basis or premise as to how they came to be. I can appreciate ambition but when coming together with a Woman I prefer to hear more about the soul of that Woman. If she is fueled by pursuits of "Power" It's a No for me. 2) Most Women just weren't raised to be Wives. Most modern Women (@ least as Black Women go) were raised to be independent and strong vs self sufficient and open. End of the day I have no desire to be a Power couple with my would be Wife. Has to be some sort of balance and that isn't it (for me).
To older women (and everyone else): women generally want a ready-made-man and men want a woman with as little experience as possible. You being educated, cultured, etc. is outweighed by your age and current looks. We don’t want a “well traveled” woman with experience, we want to be with you for so many of your “first”, wherein women generally want their man to be successful from the beginning of their relationship.
Well said!
My nigga
Why do men want that? Is it because of ego or do they feel they control someone with little experience.
Umm thats bullshit. It's typically the opposite. Hvm shouldn't expect to be a trainer, you should expect a woman to come ready and know how to move and carry themselves etc. Especially if they are in their late 20s and early 30s by then they have already been places and experienced cultures which should be something that a man would want to share as a common interest not be an introductory course to the world. Especially if she was raised to be a wife her parents already made sure that those boxes were checked by end of high school
@@Drunk-Fly @knineAtheart i hear what yall are saying. It just seems very counter and opposite of what the circle of hvm i grew up w. Educated myself and my friend group w. And these men were drs, judges, city leaders, lobbysits etc. Im not single so it really doesn't affect me its just reflective thinking about it
The home girl point is so needed. Ladies need to hear this. Bro energy will never get you a high value man, Watching sports with him, drinking beer, being loud and aggressive, fighting and cussing in public and wearing sweats and tshirts smhv
Praise the Lord!!! Finally someone that understands that energy doesn't work. Real men love real women. Feminine energy is sexy as all hell.
Love the last name
Yes but 80% of black women didnt get the memo. They are living in a dream world. And when they get REALITY. They cant deal with it and get up in their feelings and go on the attack.
Instead of listening and learning. And that's why the single black women numbers are horrendous. And gonna get worse.
Rubbish. Alot of men are bias, they'll date women who are just like that and tell me that I'm too boring for them.
They will date but seldom marry if they think you are too boring for being classy then they weren’t read for commitment
Kevin is a gift to these women. He'll be highly appreciated even more by more women and men in the future. He's not a beast, he's providing a service that's highly needed this day in time. Thanks for caring Sir.
The worst thing you can do for your child is to SPOIL THEM because it’s very difficult to undo bad character when they’re an adult. You have essentially ruined their life.
That's what "spoiled" rotten means .. When something is spoiled you throw it out! 🙄
Absolutely right. I made low six figures most of the time my son was growing up. I taught him that he worked hard, we would earn the right to play hard. Education was non-negotiable. Being respectful and responsible non-negotiable. He's doing well studying engineering in a top university with scholarship. He would tell you I was tough but I was always there. Raising him was and still is the highest priority even above my own life. I immigrated here from Puerto Rico so my mentality is still traditional/old world. 99% of the people I know don't understand me, even my family who grew up in US.
Watching these streams confirm that, many would rather hear pretty lies than the ugly truth.
I got a little triggered when he described "The Perfectionist" because I TOTALLY married one! Checks every box. And then what REALLY tripped me out was when he described the "Perpetual Victim/Cry Baby" because she's THAT too!!....And she's a Psychologist with a Phd. I swear I AM NOT MAKING THIS UP!! This guy knows his stuff!!!
I married a perfectionist. She’s a doctor. Perpetual victim. Pain in the ass. That’s why we’re apart now.
How are you putting up with that?
@@benji89917 It's tough but I'm just focusing on my own happiness and trying to stick it out for my son
@@tdogg65 man, you are a legend 👊 keep that selfless attitude going. Do it for the kid ❤️
Get out bro. You will be happier and your son will see it. I did and was much happier. I wish you well bud.
I do agree with him about women losing weight and staying healthy
Lol as you should that’s not up for debate
When I heard the word allowance, I almost shed a tear for that young man. He might think he has a nice life and I know his moms means well, but an awful life being berated for being a feminine man by men and women combined awaits him. As well as never being able to stand up for himself. 😢To many feminine men are being raised by single mothers who don’t know how to be women let alone raise a man.
Doesn't an allowance enable children to learn about work and budgeting? What's feminine about it?
He wont know what hit him when he gets out into the real world
"too" many feminine men 🙄
@@zsanettgalantay1772 exactly bro.
Reality will show him the other side of life😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I previously thought I was high value, but now realize I’m an average guy. It didn’t occur to me that it is more than income, net worth, and profession. It is a mindset, and I have a very blue collar mindset.
Good for you! No shame in that at all
Nothing wrong with that!
And that’s OK! Nothing wrong with that at all!!!!!
I learned from my dad that a blue collar man will never let you go hungry. During recessions these white collar high value man contemplate suicide because the stock values go down, they are under pressure because they are about to be fired. I was in Finance and I've seen it happen. It actually happened to me during the 2007-2009 recession. I became a truck driver, met my truck driver husband. Now we have 3 kids, 26 trucks, and when recessions come there is TOO much work. If anything ever happens I know he will go to a day labor, warehouse, construction and will do anything he has to do to provide for us. Blue collar mindset is where its at.
Did y'all hear that sista say friendzoned all of those dudes? That's the blueprint on how you end up in............THE DANGER ZONE 😂✈️🎶
Truth
Damn. Knowledge is power and this man is bench pressing 18 semi-trucks. Pay attention folks!
😂🤣🤣🤣 Spot on! Cracked me up.
Man this comment is underrated 🤣🤣🤣
This comment section terrifies me. We have men, like myself, who wholehearted agree with Mr. Samuels. And with that, we have some women who would rather insult and shame the men who do, claiming they aren't high value simply to say it with no evidence of this claim instead of listening to what we are saying and acknowledging it for what it is. Ladies, I'll put this in basic terms. It isn't that we don't care about your accomplishments, money, or possessions. The problem comes from when women let those things define them as a woman instead of BEING A WOMAN defining you as a woman. Some of you are new to this channel. If you were following him from the beginning, you would see that he is HARDER on us men than the women because we are supposed to be the leaders and now, MORE THAN EVER, we have to put ourselves in the position to be such. What is being said, for the majority of the time, is what we, as men, have been trying to say for YEARS. It may seem harsh or crude, but it's the truth, nonetheless. We can't say that we love and respect you as black women and continue to allow you to be lied to. And yes, ladies, no matter how you feel, WE LOVE AND RESPECT YOU. However, I understand that this really isn't your fault. This was systematically done dating back to the 1960s. You are just products of your teachings and environment. I get it. What we need you women to understand is that we see the error of your teachings. You've been put in a position to be like men. However, ladies, you have entered into a space where men are willing to lift that load that was put on you so you can quit fighting nature and just BE women. We are, also, tired of fighting with you to do so. We are trying to get to a point where you can trust us men to facilitate the needs you've been fulfilling out of necessity. Yes, ladies, we want you to lay down your "armor" and just BE WOMEN. Just my thoughts. Peace and blessings.
Wow I agree with you! I honestly didn’t hear of feminine or masculine energy, high value men or women until the beginning of this year😬 but I am working on being more feminine well appearance wise, I noticed I get different responses from men when I’m dressed up and not looking homeless. I’m 27 no kids, never been married, I have a bachelors in English Literature & I have a skin care line, I’m worried it maybe too late....
@@Eyana_visions My dear, Mr. Samuels would say you are in the "danger zone," however, you're not too far in it. You're young enough to have children without it being life threatening. All of those accomplishments are great. No one is knocking you for having that. I applaud you. But in order to have a high value man in your life, those accomplishments can't define you as a woman. That's a nonstarter. Most of us will ignore you if you lead with that simply because we look at it like this: You're supposed to do those things as a grownup. Who are you besides all of those things? THAT'S what we're looking for. 27, no kids, you kinda have your feet in the "danger zone." You're in a good spot unlike the women who call in and the other women who try agree with them who are SUBMERGED in the "danger zone." All is not lost. Just...try to look at yourself for WHO you are and not WHAT you are. Just my thoughts, my dear. Peace, blessings, and good luck on your journey.
I read your comment. Thank you for the way that you explained your points. I also appreciate how you responded to the other young woman. If you do not mind, I have a question as well. Do you mind elaborating on your point about a woman not allowing her accomplishments to define her as a woman? I am seeking to understand not to judge or condemn.
Similar to the other young woman, I am 28, no children, and in a traditionally male career [danger zone and not desirable to HVM]. I was encouraged by my parents (mother and father in the household) to always do my best in school and work hard enough to become successful. I obeyed my parents. I also learned to cook and keep a house clean because I was taught by my grandmother that housekeeping is part of my role in a marital household. I have no problem with that at all. I actually enjoy cooking and cleaning. I have been listening to Mr. Samuels, gratefully, and I have learned things about men that never occurred to me were different from women. I had my nose in my books too much to pay attention, which I now realize was a mistake. Some of it makes sense now, but I did not realize or understand that men and women are so different in our desires.
Any feedback that you provide would be much appreciated. Thank you.
@@v_p_low2373 Honestly, my response to you is similar to the previous lady. Those accomplishments are great. You're doing your thing...for you. And like the previous lady, you're not deep into the danger zone. 1. You don't have a premade family. 2. You know how to keep a house in order from the female side. 3. You haven't reached the age where having children will possibly hurt you or the child by not having the physicality to carry full term without complications. Those things are working in your favor. My only advice would be to embrace your feminine side instead of tending to it every now and again. Define yourself by being FEMININE FIRST, and, in all honesty, that is determined by the man who chooses you. High value men have a standard, and it varies for each man. But, at base level, we want a FEMININE woman who is cooperative and inspirational. Just my thoughts. For anything else, you should either call in when the next show is on and ask Mr. Samuels or book a session with him. He does this for a living and is FAR more experienced than me.
Very well said
Signed,
A feminine woman.
Are the women calling in, afraid of Mr Kevin? Every question he asks, they are second guessing their answer. SPEAK UP. I’m really shocked at how These are Business women who are speaking like this. If he is intimidating with simple questions, how can you date a HVM? I’m new to the channel, let me sit back & watch more!
Try being questioned by someone like him and you'll see how they feel.
It doesnt shock me. Ive known & seen this for yrs. Degrees dont make you any more socially smart then the next person.🤷🏻♀️
They r lying. No degrees.
Call in and tell him
Welcome...
I'm not a high value man, but I love the content.
High value does not mean high status or income - even though that’s how most interpret it. To me high value is about character. If you’re kind, dignified, thoughtful, hard working, honest and try to be your best every day you are a high value man in my books.
I am not young, thin, rich model-material but I am a high value woman because of my character, my desire to improve myself and the world around me.
I’m sure many would say I’m wrong and naive but I’m quite ok with that. Character is what creates or lessens value in my eyes.
Have a beautiful day
Look at you being honest!
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Fo sho. I don't even want the life style I ain't built for it
@@halcyondays8945 when you said “my opinion”, that said EVERYTHING 🤷🏾♂️ you can’t determine your value out here. The world is your mirror 🪞 work on yourself and you will reflect what you TRULY ARE, without “talking about it” 🎯💯👌🏾
Mimi's boy is being set up to fail. At 16-18 I hated my dad because he was tough on me and made me adhere to a strict daily routine and did not tolerate laziness or entitlement. Looking back, I can't thank him enough. The world is a hard place for a man, it's harder when you're weak and undisciplined. I know parents like her feel they're being loving and caring when they coddle their teenage boys but the future ramifications of that are not so good.
Kevin is very well versed - This show is about to blow up 🧨
You were right!
The executive lady, is turning her son in to a perpetual mamma's boy!
We call them "Sonsbands." I find it disgusting and have seen real life examples of it.
@@NCGNTO202 My Ex-wife tries that crap with my son, but I have schooled him on how he should respect his mom, but not to be
bullied by her, as she tries to turn her venom for me on to him.
That's exactly how my ex-wife is with my mid-20s son. Exactly!! He has a great job and a gf but he does live with his mom (far away from me). She has done a wonderful job making sure he has very little interest in ever coming to see me
@@patrickgroll2046 So sorry - she is 100% WRONG.
As a black man I'm happily I'm married because listening to these ladies is terrified. If I was a single dude it would've been to much for me. I don't have time or the patience to all the good black men out there good luck.😓
Pray for us young single brothers mehn, please we need all the help we can get
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You can say that again. And it's only going to get worse. Soon there will be 80% single black women. And they will STILL think none of this is their fault. It's a gender disaster. And sadly it's not going to change.
Facts!!! I wouldn’t have the patience for the BS. And fro what I’m hearing....there is A LOT BS out there. Smdh
I've heard so many Gen Xers say they're so happy they don't have to date in these times. Makes me mad lol.
PASS PORT lyfe Fellas. Trust Me❗✈✈✈😉👍🏿💯
The format in which callers are interviewed is awesome. Love this show!! Bringing women out of delusion!
I'm sitting here thinking about all the single female attorneys I know. And issa lot of them.
Back almost 2 yrs later, still a fan! ✊🏽❤️
That last caller was crazy smh. Thank you Kevin for what you do
The number #1 thing Kevin does is make people self aware. That is important
Bless you Kevin for giving the last caller a reality check!
My sister falls into the same category of women. For years I have encouraged her to change this behavior. Her son, my nephew is not her pseudo husband!
Upon graduation, he had planned to attend college which would require a plane trip away from her. However, she convinced him to attend a local college where he would not have to struggle as much and save on housing costs by living at home! What a heart breaking situation. I am only an older sister.
Our older brother had tried to step in when he was younger. She interfered in this process after our brother ‘got in her sons' butt’ for behavior unbecoming of a man! In high school, despite her disapproval (he'd have to rise at 4:00 a.m.), he made the decision to workout with his uncle, and learn from him. Their time jogging hills, swimming laps and weight lifting has produced much growth. He will graduate college this year with a degree in security technology.
Single ladies, please do society a favor. Stop the madness! Sisters, can you put your ego aside for the sake of your sons masculinity and all it embodies?
Again, thanks Kevin for offering women this much needed platform. My hope is they will take to heart your comments and change these negative behaviors.
No matter the weight, age, or dress size... they still want a HVM🤷♂️🤦♂️
@@kahleesaangelofthenight2895 Well...congratulations on having a husband & don’t have a house full of cats!😂
@@JoshBrezzy Wasnt no damn husband named....lol sounds like attraction, but not kept.
@@kahleesaangelofthenight2895 you better hit the gym cause man don’t care about your degrees unless they’re bum trying to used you for your money
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Really loved that conversation with the last caller . We really do need to open our eyes and start realizing that we are actually destroying our children’s lives , and this nonsense needs to stop! We are not doing these kids any favour by stopping their fathers to be involved in their lives ;we are ruining them . 🤦🏾♀️EVERY child needs their father, and it takes a MAN to raise a MAN!!
This is very true!!
DL Hughley said it best: If I can't lift you, I can't love you!
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This show was Gold! When he talked about the woman in Timberlands and Lingerie I lost my shit 37:18 😂😂😩
Ice COLD bruh an they do it too themselves. Fact is the bulk of these heffas cant be pleased better to focus on our happiness let them get in where they fit in. Nothing is ever their fault you notice.
tyrese buie great advice on keeping on the grind and happiness.
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Facts I was out like a light 🤣🤣🤣👌🏾
Good Men “wasup dog cmon in mane “ black tear drop under the eye” maaan kevin be killing me 🤣🤣🤣
That frumpy sound has me on the floor 🤣😂😂
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That last caller doesn't know that she's creating a monster that society is going to have to deal with. My husband's step brother is the same way. This dude has had so many breaks in life, it's ridiculous. These women don't understand what they're doing when they do this.
She broke my heart when she came at Ross and Tj Maxx those are my STORES!
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Called me poor without uttering the word, lmao.
Even rich ppl can shop there, only fools don’t like saving money haha
There's no way that should have broken your heart. Those stores are fine. The heartbreak is going to be the sixteen-year-old boy wearing $400 t-shirts when he tries to make it in this world.. If we don't learn how to work without being up under mommy we are in trouble.
Actually, alot of male doctors, physicians in high ranking positions tend to marry other doctors, physicians, and women in other high-value positions.
Ive never seen a fat woman doctor.
@@Kelly-pp1et so, ive made this comment before because I was curious. Now, this iw just anecdotal...but from my observations it has to do with social circle. If thr man and woman werent high school sweethearts...they met in med achool and developed porpinquity, due to long hours and close contanct. Other than that they met at their jobs. Like I said, it's social circle. Which is why you cant go out there and meet a millionaire...
You dont even know WHERE they hang out.
@@Kelly-pp1et I want to say the ones you know are the exception, not the norm. Again, were those couples high school sweethearts, or did they already have a history? Again though, without a quantitative study.....we are only basing our opinions on what we observe. You know we do data over here in this space
@@Kelly-pp1et lol well that's why if I dont have data, I will always preface with 'prima facia' or 'anecdotal'
@@Kelly-pp1et blessings to you. Agree and disagree though. For us(cuz clearly you got some kinda common sense and are smart) that works. I DISAGREE though, because that is how stereotypes get ingrained in a society, you know? Like, all Indians are either doctors, or own hotels and corner stores lol 🤷🏾♂️
2:46:43 The woman who is giving her son $1000 a month was mind-blowing. He is being pampered and won't know how to earn things on his own. I barely got $5 at his age for allowance.
and he's going to belitlte woman and think they are supposed to take care of him
Allowance, what's that? 😆
School clothes and such, I had to work for it past 12.
My mom gave me 20 dollars a week when I was 13 😂.....that was 100 a month and that was a lot of money back in 2003
It wasnt 80 a month ? 🤔 just teasing
Pheebs J omg I cant do math this early in the morning
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Lmao same here except that was all through H.S. And it was more than enough
The way he broke that last caller down to get to the truth was a work of art. R.I.P. Godfather
This is forever a legendary show✊✊✊✊🔥🔥🔥🔥. Thanks for speaking up Mr Kelvin Samuels🙏🙏🙏
You're right. My mother did this. She coddled my brothers and was really hard on me. So, I ended up married to someone who expected coddling. Not good.
It Is terrifying how accurate this is....especially in the workplace. Glad I'm not the only one that sees this happen, I thought I was the weird one noticing all these red flags in the STEM field
Kevin really hits the nail on the head, my mom was similar to the last lady he interviewed but she didn’t buy me everything. Still I wasn’t allowed to work and earn on my own. I just had to accept what she thought I should have. This cause a lot of complications when I tried to accomplish tasks and acquire money. I had to constantly miss opportunities, make mistakes, and navigate minefields. Boys need to be able to earn their rewards, learn from, mistakes, and take risk.
From my most manly center, I absolutely love you! The realness and accuracy is what is needed into today’s time.
Forget about only “high value men” , you must be fit and healthy with any man as far as my reality goes. Vitality, sexual capacity, and so many other female truths as far as nature must be met. My generation and the next have been so untethered and lied to it’s just a sick sick perversion of nature’s truth. And I absolutely do not believe any woman who says she’s happy or empowered being ALONE! We need good alpha men to submit to and be guided through life. Thank you Kevin for speaking truth, it’s plain to see you truly care, it’s evident by the amount of energy you continue to put into insight, for most of us it’s literally enlightenment. I had zero ideas about life or men until the man I serve literally helped me wake up out of this damn la la land I was living in. Bless you and everyone living by nature’s truth. ❤️
I make 6 figures, live in metro Atlanta. Married. I cannot imagine putting up with the type of women that call into the show. What I do appreciate is this show does well to elucidate what I've noticed in listening to women over the years.
OMG...the Karen in HR tuba music 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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I was DEAD!!!! The music, the voice and the extreme..the President though? 🤦🏾♂️
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I love this guy. I am so glad I heard this show about the mom with the young man. I have the same beliefs re raising boys. This was a bonus. He needs to have a TV show and a podcast. He is one person who can help all black women of all ages along with his base, black men. He should help everyone other than high value men. He must expand his target audience which he tends to do anyways.
KS went in on this podcast. He honestly helped each and every single one of these women see this reality.
16 yr old getting $1000 a month! He will look for an older women to give him money. Sugar mommy relationships are in his future.
@Hill Jimmy He's not conditioned to. He's been getting it just for being there during his teenage years.
Hill Jimmy how do you have ambition when your allowance is 4x your pay? Dont worry...ill wait.
His Momma better not get no man, he gone be jealous AF!!
Clinton. C. Jr your on to something...i dont see a good scenario here...something is goin to give and every relationship she has (including her own family) will self destruct. She Fucced up big and there’s no going bacc.
We don't really know if she was telling the truth or not.
One thing I know is that women love to make up BS just to make themselves look good..
So he really asked a woman what she has to offer and her best reply was “I leveled up”?😂🤣😂🤣 These women tell you who they are fellas. BELIEVE THEM. Even the hippos think they don’t have to be agreeable anymore.🤣🤣🤣
The women of this era are nothing but cliches.
Black women actually believe that they deserve the best regardless of their condition or situation. Smh unreal.
I’ve gone out with a lot of women over the years but what Kevin is doing is uncovering a mentality I haven’t seen exposed before.
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Nelly Nel FACTS!!!!! That’s what got me hooked of KS. He definitely exposes the craziness of these woman.
thank you Godfather, black men all over the world appreciate you!
You look like Lloyd Banks bro.
Correction, MEN all over the world. lol. Don't have to be black for this information to be useful.
Why do you want a high value men mr kevin asks( ps: 33 year old divorcee with two children), and the answer was because i FEEL i have LEVELLED Up 😂😂😂 my kevin reaction was priceless😂😂😂
Whoa!!!! The money she spends on a 16 year old boy!!! My parents gave us girls a nice life with used cars at 16, dinners, vacations nice home and clothes. They did not get into big labels and when asked it was a no.
Sounds like a good childhood
Bruh you had it real easy most 16 year old kids don’t get cars. You make it sound like she is spoiling her kid(which she is) but you were spoiled as well.
@@hughflucas7075 Nah that's not spoiling. I worked and paid for it also, as my Daddy taught me responsibility. Adults shouldn't breed if they can't provide for their offspring.
@@laj4186 no you had it easy, you don’t realize it because you thought that is how life works. But no you probably wasn’t spoiled but you still had advantages and grew up in a financially stable home. Vacations, cars, and stuff like that is a luxury some kids don’t get. They only get the basics. You, my friend got extra. So yes you were a lucky kid, and when you say my “daddy” it just gives me that spoiled high school girl vibe lol
@@laj4186 when you say all I got was used cars, vacations, and things like that you just sound spoiled lol
That is sad but true. When I was a single Man dating was horrible..
Seriously , I was swimming in an ocean of baby mamas, divorced chics that file 1st and overall have a past of back to back failed relationships.
Those women will aggressively pursue you but not for you as a person but for you as an ideal that exist in her head.
My advice is that for single women with no children to put themselves out there and let it be known that you're single no children..
never married...
and available..
It must be said women with children have different motives when it comes to relationships..
So, fellas you can see how they conveniently Miss understand an attempt to make unintelligible excuses all ending in their acceptance.
👇Just look in the comment section👇
That’s not always true that single women with kids have different motives. EVERY woman wants a man to be masculine, lead and provide. Idc if they single with kids or no kids
The Naked Truth Report why would I need a man to take care of my daughter who lives with her father?
@@Msalike then this dont even apply to you
Alike Cooper that is even a worse red flag because it takes an act of god for a man to win custody of their kids today.
The Naked Truth Report why are you bringing up politics and Mrs Harris?
Book a career session gentlemen. Learn in a one-on-one session how to become high value. Especially if you are in sales. I am closing twice as many deals in 1 month now that I met with Kevin and understood how to earn more income with intentionality. He told me what resources and career positions matter for corporate sales.
Would you care to share?
@@AL-Broadcast Having a sales coach, having a sales system, and working in outside sales that allows me to maximize my earning potential. B2B for starters.
@@AL-Broadcast honestly It is disrespectful to him for you to ask him for free information that he paid for. It is literally asking something for nothing. If you want something valuable, it keeps value when you pay. If you are a man you should be ashamed
@@arthurokello6314 exactly! Couldn’t of said it better myself
It's sad that people can't articulate themselves today. How do you expect to thrive in the world if you can't verbally express your thoughts? Goddamn "Texting Tens" ruined society. Linguistics and the "Art Of Talking" is insanely invaluable, especially in dating/marriage. Keep making us laugh, ladies.
@@Writer341 same here with the marriage. They can't talk without the cell phone in their hands.
That elephant sound bite is taking me all the way out!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I watch with my wife of 27 years. We both find it educational and entertaining.
I am loving this! You pulled my number for sure! I’m in category 3. Thank you for this clarity and honesty.
Bless you, wise woman
Imagine if the other talk shows on TV were like this we would have so many more happy people getting married and starting families because they learned the truth about relationships.
Some times this show can get so intense and so deep. God Bless you God Father.
he nailed the HR directors
It was brilliant....... I had difficulty breathing 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂.....
The parking violation 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That imitation of Karen, "the chaos monster" was priceless. LMAO!
“Holy shit, holy fucking shit!” LMAO I felt that 😂😂😂
I listened and I was rolling! True but ohh so funny! I work in HR and Kevin has a point! Listen and learn. Your honesty is priceless, Sir. ❤️
That last call taught a powerful message. I hired a young man that had to call his mom and ask how to feel out the tax forms....29 years old 4th job. I was shocked. This same guy had to ask his mom for the security deposit for his apartment. He was moving out of an apartment he previously shared with his baby mama.
Sad....smh......
The more things "change" .. the more they stay the same! 😔
I'm just listening to this show, and I swear I almost crashed my car! The description of the HR chick who's rotund and the parking memo was HI-LAR-I-OUS!!!! And the music being played with it just took it over the top.
The tuba music tho 🤣🤣
Big facts 🤣
Had no idea how bat shit insane single moms actually were til i started watching your channel. Seriously, how you keep your composure, proves you're a better man than most.
“I have a joint account with him” I wonder if she ever had a joint account with her man
Before graduating High School every African American boy should listen to the best of KS condensed into 20 hours. I tell you this - as a HVM at the very top of one of the leading professions - if I could have listened to this sort of content between the ages of 18 and 22, some of the mistakes I made in my 20s and 30s with women might have been avoided. Young men take note.
Omg you just describe my co worker to the T LMAO
Same, when he said... she even brings her lunch Bc she doesn’t want to miss anything at the office. Lol she knows all the gossip about everyone. Described her to the T.
I'm glad to hear you having this conversation with the Ladies. Too often Women attempt to equate their successes financially/academically as value that equates to a great long term companion. It's hardly ever the case but kudos on your successes single Ladies.
This is a Great show. Mr. Samuels was on point. Respect for his work. Ladies listen to his advice. Specially Young ladies.
This man is SHARP! In every sense of the word!
One of the secrets of life is knowing where you are on the totem pole. You can be happy and fulfilled at any level. But pretend to be somewhere you are not and you will be miserable and make others miserable. Know thyself.
Convo with Mimi just broke my heart. She was clueless and destroying her sons future.
He’s on it! All his points are valid! Throwing FACTS left and right. Damn