Please remember me in your dua that i get married to a righteous and a pious man soon...going through a very difficult and depressed time..facing harassment by family and friends because of this....May Allah make it easy for everyone..Ameen
@ Neel….when you InshaAllah get married soon. Then you can show those people who make fun of and harass you that Allah is by your side and gave you the greatest gift.
I'm 35 years old girl and I never met anyone that is suitable for a marriage. I'm really worried about my age, may Allah will bless me with a nice man. I'm really in need of help from Allah.
@@bella8145-d9z you should not regret because if you met the right one you would have been married by now. Not all ladies want to marry anyone just to be called a wife /married…Believe in Allah and in yourself. Wish you all the best beautiful… 🙏
Did you know that archeology has proven once and for all that the greatest god of Arabia is none other than the moongod sin depicted by a crescent moon. This is only one of the many gods that the semitic Arab tribes brought with them from SYRIA. These were the original Arabs who worshipped 360 gods including HUBAL ALLAH allat manat Al-uzza to name but a few. The greatest of these gods was the moongod sin depicted by the crescent moon which adorns your mosques as he watches over his flock. ALLAH came later as it was only an Arab word for God. One thing is definite is none of these pagan deities were the god of Israel . That was the true god Yahweh.
Everyone around me keep asking me the question about married, till the point that make me really uncomfortable. I'm consistently making an effort and pray to Allah. It just not coming yet. I trust Allah timing. May Allah help all of us and unite us in marriage soon. Aamiin
Same bro, same situation, and it’s incredibly sad and lonely. But you have to do what you can and trust the rest in Allah. When it comes (the marriage) all this patience, waiting, and sadness, will turn to a very small event and will feel like fluff.
Don't get yourself fooled by anxiety. It's not part of the straight way. If you want something ask for it. It will come immediately if you are brave enough. may Allah bless you
@Wsziha bushra age is not just a number it cannot be, every growing person with his age gain somthing losse somethings got anxiety and depression and if you're not married at the age of 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 you're living your hell, you might be watching bad stuff thinking k mera waqt to aay nahi jab ameer hoonga ya ameer hooongi tab karun gi, tab tak kiya? kiya shaitan ki pervi main hain aap tab tak? no marriage brings blessings it brings wealth all you have to do is try to work harder and better connect with ALLAH more and leave it on him with complete tawaqul, but saying age is just a number haan 35 me kerlain gay shadi 36 me bachay tab tak na hum active hoongay us tarhan se na woh baat hogi us relation me woh passion mer chuka compromise ki age nahi aap head strong ho jatay tab tak all you'll do as your heart says lanat sab se bari un baron un maa baap per hai jo kehtay pehlay kamao mature ho jao bhai maturity to wahin se a gayi jahan woh aap se sincere ho ker nikkah ki demand ker raha phir jab us ki khudari per aap chot den hgay to kamai ga bhi aap se zyada kamaye ga yeh kiya k pelay kamao baqi time awara gardi aur KHUDA NAKHASTA ussy moqa mill gaya uskay urges main ZINAH ka aur ker gaya woh zinah kiya maa baap uskay is gunah ko apnay sir lene k liye tayyar hain? jahan ads me awards shows me indta acc se youtube ki dance videos se leke fb whats aap k ganday group then porn tak aap ko seduce ker ker aap ko physical and mental harms me dala ja raha "a guy woh masturbates" it's not that simple yeh jokes k mera hath hiu kaafi kis mindset ko aap itna promotion de rahay? a guy woh masturbates is not just watching porn he is watching 5 min video then another till 1 hour min, then doing that twice a week 8 to 10 times a month where he watched 240 naked women fucked up in a month 2880 women in a year what do you think he will thin kof a normal women even covered nothing but a piece of meat, we are destroyed, yeh late marriages k dramay per, and women can easily say hamay to shadi nahi kerni but they actually are destroying them skelves in way manny ways, thing aren't this simple these days, it's a little too complicated than how we think,
our bodys are not ment to live forever my friend. this viewpoint is dangerous. you might oversleep important things in life and regret it later. may allah bless you inshAllah
I m 43 yrs old i m in great trouble because many people say about my marriage taunt me Please all sisters and brothers pray for me to get marriage soon inshallah
it’s 2021, almost 2022 and I think we as a muslim community MUST move forward and stop shaming our women who are half of society. Many muslim women are above 30 and unmarried and some can’t have children and that IS OKAY! We shouldn’t deem them as spinsters and saying that they are not marriage material. Our prophet married Khadijah(as) who was almost 20 years older. So let’s stop this as it’s not part of our religion. I am 39, unmarried and can’t have children and this is NOT shameful. This is not my fault and I am not a vehicle for children. I am a beautiful woman who is worthy. And I am proud of who I am. If you are a man or woman of the muslim faith reading this, then know you are not alone and you are worthy! Let’s end the discrimination
May Allah make it easy for you. For the rest of the sisters, don’t wait until you hit 30. Capitalize when you are younger, because youth, beauty and fertility fades with time.
@@TheMrpalid Men shouldn’t wait until 30 to get married. Men should capitalise their youth because youth fades, fertility fades and men sperm quality gets worse by age (after 20s)
It’s more than love, people can love someone and be in a toxic relationship. The main thing is about respect and how their relationship is with in themselves and god
@@kunnshope3023 Masha Allah....you should not decline. Age doesn't matter.....Allah made our spouses long before we were born....he already paired us. So Alhamdulillah U have found urs.
My family wants me to marry...But honestly and I never wanna...I love being in my solitude...I don't want unnecessary responsibility and problems...I love being single
time may come at some point. it's different for everyone. The most inportant thing is to stay away from zina and devilish things. Tell your parents that you aren't ready yet. may Allah bless you
Alhamdulillah I got married all praise to Allah .. I'm 34 not married yet..but i don't blame parents...but my economical condition didn't allow..but I'm complaining just doing sabr n doing salath..as Allah say take Allah s by sabr n salath... please make dua for me...
Salemou3leykoum Doua for mariage « rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqir » Traduction en français « Seigneur, j’ai grand besoin de toute grâce dont Tu voudras bien me gratifier ! » (Coran 28/24).
it's my first time that i am writing or saying this i am really tired from this life sometimes people or your own mother make life difficult for you whenever i look to my life to my situation then i think that maybe marrage will be solution of all this difficulties if i marry i can go away from my mother bCZ she demage me mentally but when i see to my dreams that I have so i should to study and acheive my dreams WALLAH i am 18 YEARS i dont know what i have to do WALLAH some words OR SOME PEople kill you from inside My BROTHERS AND SISTER plzz pray for me thAT my allah make it easy for me and to give ME sabr and to show me a right way
yeh i rather be a shaheed then getting married now when m getting close to my thirties, the women i like don't wanna get married yet, so yeah m stuck, ALLAH rather give me shahada and call me back to the life that is forever, cause loneliness is the actual toture in this world where you handle things aon your own and people are there to just end you, MAY ALLAH guide our parents may ALLAH guide US ALL
im also struggeling. my fear was to mary a women that isn't clean. But all we have nowdays are sinners that don't know allah and religions and make zina everyday. I also would rather die lonely and hope for my eternal best than mary a misguided person that doesn't fit with my iman levels.
@@shehryarkhan9896 Marry, it is Sunnah. It is easy to marry, just lower your demands. If you can't find a beautiful, pious wife, then go for an ugly, pious wife. There is absolutely nothing wrong with marrying ugly women. If their character and Deen is all right then go ahead with marriage.
I am looking for an answer from many days. I have not found any single answer or discussion about that.. What if Marriage is not in my luck ? I cant spend all of life by fasting. Please what would i do ?
You can marry an any age actually inshaAllah, as long as you adjust your standard based on your age. If your standard in your 30 still the same when you were 20, that's make your option very limited. My neighbour married in her 60, after retired as a lecturer, (her first marriage) with her old friend in junior high whom his wife passed away, just as an example, change your standard could open new doors
Dear Allah, you gave us so much more than I deserve I'm so so thankful to you Allah....My parents are in search of a groom for me, I'm getting rejected just bcz of my skintone😭😭😭 You created me the way you wanted to be Allah but I feel so sad😭😭 whyyy in Islam still they look for whitesh girls to get married. Yeah Allah😭😭 to whom I should share this pain I really don't know what to do .. you created me Allah.. I have no problem with my skintone but people are not ready to accept the way that I'm....😭😭😭😭😭 Please Allah make this easy for me make me to get married soon with the soul who is meant for me...the one who is created by you...for me...Make this easy for My parents my family .... To find the right one😭😭😭😭😭😭 Please Allah 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭01/06/21
This life is a test and everyone on this planet is tested differently,and if this test bring you close to Allah....then know you are winner no matter what "If we have Allah we have everything we desire but if we don't have Allah nothing we desire will make us happy"...so be patient , indeed Allah is with the patient...may Allah grant you a righteous husband and children that will become the coolness of your eyes and make you among the righteous.... Ameen
Make sure he fears Allah and prays. The disgusting bad habits like anger management or drugs and alcohol are bad signs. Find a decent hard working Allah fearing man.
The person i love wants to marry me but i am younger than him i am 20 his father is not well he wants us to get married but i am not able to tell my parents.Can someone please help me what should i do😭😭
Sir please.. This type of Imana booster video make in urdu...jajakallahu bhai ..i am also watch the free quran education urdu.....mashallah sir Nouman ali khan sir ALLLAH GIVE THE JANNATUL FIRDOUS
I want to get married and have kids and I'm 27 but where I live there are not so much muslim man hardly seen on the street. Online dating is a mess. In my hometown where I travel once in 2 years the girls are getting married really quick they have so many options but I don't and I'm not ready for a distance relationship so there is not a chance for me to find someone. No one in my family is rushing but I feel the need of someone sadly people who hate the idea of marriage are getting married and people who want to marry have to wait or can't find someone.
So true. I'm 24 and I already see some of my peers getting married. And they're very wealthy so they're able to pull it off. But for the average folks like me it remains difficult.
@@RaiLCyuuute I'm not a shy person, if there is no human beeing to marry how can I be able to miss an opportunity ? when I say there are no muslim man around I don't mean I reject them..there is literally no man out there who I can meet or think of marriage. That's why I'm sad. People are able to reject people and I'm here without any chance to see someone.
@@placebo6628 maybe talk to your parents about it. Or join a Muslim community online and share your concerns and hopefully they can do something for you. The kind of situation you are in, sounds like the only logical option would be to move out to a muslim dominant community. If your intense urge to get married is weighing down on you, then I'd like to think that its kinda obligatory upon you to find ways to move out to a place where coming across Muslim men is relatively easier than otherwise.
I was also stressed, my mother urged me to get married, now iam 25 I kept praying to get a shaleh man and it took effort and prayer. Please do'a for me
Assalamualaikum sir, but sir, people say that everyone's tastes are not always the same If you change your mindset tomorrow, the person you are marrying today will not like it anymore .. What could be the answer ?
Alot of women high maintain divorced women are seeking the same qualities in men. While being divorced from their husbands who were also doctors, engineers, or business owners... I personally don't care about a woman's career, money, assets or whatever they have.
Does anybody have advice for someone who has been watching bad videos often in his past and has stopped doing so to become a better muslim and find a wife insha'Allah but because of watching these videos ib his past he now has a different perspective about how a woman should look like. He isn't satisfied with the beauty of an average woman anymore and it's really frustrating to him because he wants to marry on the one hand but has trouble finding a wife who he finds physically appealing enough. Does anybody have some advice? Dua would also be really appreciated
Do more istigfar everyday, strive to be closer to Allah as much as you can and it will lead you to a peace and different , increase your dua.. In sha allah , Allah will help you and heal you, no worries
Who said you all aren't ready? As a woman you don't need to do anything to be ready. You can learn through marriage. But as a man you need a good house, good job, good degree, etc I don't know why you women always say you're not ready.
I'm 29 year old still unmarried. I get rejected by 13 boys because I'm not much beautiful. I'm going through a very difficult time. Even my family is accusing me that I'm not beautiful enough. Please pray for me.
im 39 and with 2 kids and im not married, i live with father of my kids ... i became a revert in November 2020, I think we should marry only because he is father of my kids and also because we live together, but honestly i don't want to marry him, nor live with him, but he won't move out. this is my apartment. i don't know what to do
I have no knowledge in this topic but i couldn't just pass your comment. In my opinion if the husband is a muslim and hard working man you should marry him or atleast open communication about the topic and islam.
Speak to your local imam/Sheikh or someone with experience in marriage/counselling. They’ll be able to advise you. Allah has guided you to Islam and inshallah He may guide your partner too. But if that is not the best outcome for you, then inshallah there will be something better. There are additional challenges with reverting and how that affects a person’s family dynamics. I pray that Allah makes it easy for you.
Instead of marrying that guy, best kick him out. Stand your ground. You say it is your apartment, you mean you pay the bills right? Legally you can kick him out. You are only cohabiting, not married yet. If he can’t respect your wishes than he won’t respect them anymore than he does now if you marry him. If you so wish to have a husband whom to stay with you and care for you and the kids than find someone! Locate your nearest marriage bureau, or find a site online for muslims who want to marry. If you have friends ask them for help in finding someone. Don’t give up hope! InshaAllah with your efforts and duas you will find the right solution to your problems.
@@LearnTawhid I disagree with you. It's not enough for the man to be a Muslim and hardworking. They need to have good morals and character and compatibility with his wife so that they may live happily and raise a healthy family.
I am 29 years old and every Muslim woman I’ve ever liked and wanted to marry has rejected me from the outset. I have never been considered by anyone. I hate this life and I wish I was never born
Do not allow other people's opinion of you define you. Believe in yourself and know that if those women didn't see the value in you, then perhaps it's because they do not know what is valuable after all. Also, Allah sometimes takes keeps some people out of our lives because they are not good for us, even when we think they are all that. He knows what we know not, though, doesn't He? So do not despair, for if you do, the women would have beaten you twice- rejected you and destroyed your life. Let them not win, brother. I wish I could chat with you more to get you of this
@@aishafaridaahmad2832 very hard to believe in yourself when I’ve been rejected my entire life. Even if one lady just considered me and then said no, I’d have a bit of hope. But that’s never happened. Also keeping some people out of our lives, sure that makes sense, but why have me come across them and fill me with hope, only to them crush me over and over again?? What’s the wisdom behind that? I’ve come to the conclusion that finding the love of your life is purely luck, and it’s not in everyone’s qadr; the evidence for this is, so many toxic people find love whereas a lot of good people don’t. So it’s all luck. Right now, I want to be able to accept that, more than wanting to find a wife. The sooner I’m able to cross that hurdle and force my emotions and mind to accept that, the quicker I can move in my life. Jzk for your thoughts
@@thomasbuxton2648 dude, those women who rejected you are not worth it, Allah will give you yours. Here or next life, but that doesn't mean that in this life you won't get a lover. it's maybe written for you and just ask Allah and be the best person for whoever she is. Allah created us in pairs.
@@ashbringer78 I’ve been asking Allah for 15 years now. I never had a girlfriend or messed around with girls during my youth. Whereas my friends who did, most of them are happily married. I am still working on myself but how much more do I have to work? I have a well paid job, I’m a hafidh, I’m respectful and courteous, driven. Yet I’m still not good enough. My friends tell me get built and muscular and a six pack, rich with six figures, then if you can’t find a woman you can complain. Whilst I am working on those things, last time I checked not every man who is happily married has all of these things, so why do I have to? I feel resentful that I’ll never be able to find a woman who loves me for me and not some BS superficial attributes about me. Maybe cos I’m a short 5’2 midget that I have to achieve all of these things to be good enough
@@thomasbuxton2648 my man, you dont need to be rich with six figures, when you want to marry you must be confident about yourself and be strong like built so you look good, just like how girls they get beautiful before meeting you. Second try halal dating and be like romantic and funny. Don't ever lose hope, just remember the prophet married khadijah when she was about 40 years old. Always be hopeful about the future.
Hello I’m 17 years old! And my family found a good guy for me, but I’m not ready yet and I dont want to. Should I say yes Even if I don’t want? Pls answer me, bc I’m very confused
Say yes to him if he is a good guy. And your parents approve. Cause trust me, options start declining with the increasing age. But definitely get married at the age of 18 or above.
@@hitmanx3475 I’ve been reading comments and I’ve seen couple of your comments, they are full of hate and weird questions bro. Give good advice or don’t say anything!
@@hitmanx3475 you talking with fear right now brother. Do you know how many sisters are out there that are over 25-26 unmarried? Why? Because A lot of them have this kinda mindset that they want someone perfect. Or they always say am too young to get married. So if this sister parent found a good guy for her, why discourage her? It’s impossible for some sisters to find a guy for them selves because today’s day and age 80% of the guys are like bulls with 2 horns brother. Abu Hurairah narrated that: The Prophet said: "A widow should not be given in marriage until she is ask, and a virgin should not be given in marriage until her permission is sought, and her silence is her permission."
@@hitmanx3475 brother u just said to this sister free mixing is haram and u out here talkin about friendship between male n female this and that, like what? The girl parents knows who’s a good boy and bad boy it’s that simple. Some girls don’t know what kinda boy is good for them. Definitely it’s someone that practice the deen. Someone that have taqwa. You want our sisters to have a friendship with a nonmahram and then get married and that’s the most haram thing. A lot of sisters did that before and they end up pregnant and then the guy leaves them. U are not educated about this marriage stuff at all.
Age matters greatly, years go by,and if you are not settled as a man you won't get looked at. If a woman is in her late 20's to early 30, she will witness the same. Don't wait to long, you'll find yourself trapped, the misery is real.
So what do you suggest to do? Go to random guys and propose to them? Drag them by hair to a sheikh and force them to marry me? Please! You are that person who makes people feel like crap and hurt about smth they are already hurt by.
@@Azr721 I'm in the same boat! I'm not saying this to piss anyone off. I'm just saying this because the longer time goes by, the harder your comfort zone will make u settle. Not like I'm happy with this state either. Only I'm realistic.
Actually in my family and society the woman is getting blamed for not setteling, I recieve a lot of blame and guilt shaming for not setteling and just marrying a man even I don't like ... in the same time I do wann get mariied but no good options, I am in so much pain and I don't know what to do, what hurts the most is feeling that God doesn't answer my prayers.
Well I had nothing No one bother I ask my parents they don't bother Now I have everything My parents pressure me everyday but now I don't bother them Now every family try to communicate with my family with their ifs and buts But for me it's over and I decided never marry in my life Alhamdulillah I'm very happy
Well if you will never marry you better make sure you don’t commit Zina not even once cause some people are out their praying to have the means to get married but they don’t have it but you got it all but choose not to marry
This is precisely the reason why more Muslim men are avoiding marriage. Because they don't want to be seen as ATM machines. Just like you don't want to be seen as a baby popping enterprise
I love someone who is non Muslim. it's been 4years.i don't know what to do!!!! I can't leave him..i can't marry him also.. someone plzz suggest me it's ruined my life..
This is why as a man I never fall for non Muslim women. Because I know it always leads to compatibility issues. Either get him interested in Islam or forget about him. There are more interesting Muslim brothers out there who are single and would do anything in their means to have a girl like you. Never ever think that you as a Muslim woman are valued less in the marriage market when the demand is actually quite high. Heck idc even id marry you in a heartbeat if I had the chance.
Please leave that guy if he is not becoming muslim. Don't ruin yourself. The process will be painful . I'm telling you with personal experience. I fell in love with a non muslim guy ,expected him to become Muslim , he didn't , alhamdulillah i couldn't change either. Hence told him no n made him changed his mind for years n finally he moved on n this year he is getting married n I'm still single. Trust me convincing him to move on n then letting him go just wasn't easy. My heart broke in thousand pieces each day , even till now it's not easy. But you have to do it. Choose heaven or hell for yourself. Remaining 30 years with your non muslim spouse in this world n then forever hell or suffer for a while here n trust allah that he will heal u n help u.
Moreover u are wasting his time too. Don't repeat my mistake. Let him go n live his life. It's easy to say than implement. But trust me , allah helps. Suffer for a while , get out of this relationship n the reward is hereafter. Don't sail in 2 boats. Don't torture yourself. Pray to allah n please stop wasting your time n his time too. 3 years i kept on telling him no . After that he moved on. It took a hell lot of courage n sacrifice to say him no when he was perfect for me except religion difference. It wasn't easy. But isn't our own fault in the first place that we got involved . We choose the wrong path n hence we are suffering. Allah gave all the instructions . We didn't follow. I blame myself for my actions but my ex suffered emotionally and mentally along with me. It was equally painful for him to depart n move on n i will never forgive myself for that.
So please gather yourself up. Do the right thing n stick to iman n allah. Nothing is important than allah. To allah we belong n to allah we return , remember that. Let him go so that he can be happy too.
Im 25 & unmarried plz pray for me im literally ill thinking where is he i fell in love with a playboy & he just left me for another girl i loved him & he told me we will get married after few months but he made me cry everyday & is very disrespectful & cheated on me i still love him but he tortures me alot what should i do im very tensed & i felt like commiting suicide
If u allow toxic in your life without searching for exiting. Then its your fault. Just remember every pure woman is a queen, so be treated like a queen or leave.
The problem is you dont know what is good for you. Imagin playboy and you shock he cheat on you? Come on sister wake up. Go find decent man who prays and fears Allah
But age is still a factor, for both men and women but more so women because of the biological clock so u yes still have to worry about your age because what you can get at 31 isn’t the same as 21/25 and everyone knows this. As people get older their standards become lower with each passing year. And then if u want kids unfortunately there’s a limit to have them which is scary for a woman.
How do u take action if ur a woman? It's not a woman's job to pursue and charm men it's a man's job to come to her. Online 'dating' is a sham Arranged marriage in my family and the process they do it in is unhealthy and toxic. Associates that I know they are single themselves and don't know anyone.
improvise adapt overcome. Find a good boy and ask his father. Allah won't care if you say you were too shy. Don't fall for your nefs, and take my joke seriously because it may be a true fact. May Allah bless you!
You can approach muslim men!! Also, it is your wali's JOB to seek out marriage prospects if you can't so 1000% ask your dad if, through his connections, he knows any good marriage prospects, or your brother etc. Just ask them to keep an eye out bc they should be looking for you as well edit: oh nvm, just read what u said abt arranged marriages
remove your profile picture and wear the hijab. get rid of any feminist thoughts and ideas that go against islam. practise islam properly. Don't free mix with the opposite gender, pray your salah etc. Increase your knowledge, you can watch assim al hakeem for quick boosts of knowledge. Don't be scared of the people even if they know that you were not practising before. forget about them and change or you will regret it until your death and after that because of the sinful life you had led before. if you are fat lose weight. Thats probably the best advice I can give. it would defiantly increase the chances and you would find someone a lot quicker. If you have high expectations lower them. your expectations may be unrealistic, and you will never find someone that meets all the criteria.
Darling...don't think that the proposals you rejected were any good for you. if it was,,,,Allah swt would have make it happen for you. You really have to trust the timing. and don;t listen to negativity from other people.. You do hijaab whenever you are ready for your lord out of love for him. not because retarded people condemn you and judge you for it. May Allah swt grant you a pious husband. who is faihfull and thrustworthy and treat you as the queen you are. Ameen
@@shadowstorm5261 shut up/..... whether she wears a hijab or doesnt. is non of your bussines. you can make du3a for her. and mind your own bussiness. we are living in different time and age and we can be as perfect muslim as you pretend to be.
@@Basilicum83 it is my business. The hijab isn't a choice. The hijab is mandatory like salah. are you going to say salah is a choice? that we live in a different day and age? if you are a kafir and reject the Quran and Sunnah then say it
""Dont worry about your age when it comes to marriage in Islam"" I really thought the video is about that, I got excited then ... naah, my problem is that I have high self-esteem that I don't like anybody, nobody is even good for me, can you solve that? 😒
if you didn't make any zina and are a brave person look for a virgin. Theres no need to accept a fate you didn't want to start with. Also life is short, you can also just wait and hope to get things right in your afterlife.
@@chaeun-woon8405 Polygamy is an option for women who may not be able to get married, it's not haram. And if the guy and his 1st wife accept it, there's nothing wrong with it. Rather that, than zina.
Did you talk with your parents/local religious people about this? I hope Allah guides you towards someone you truly seek for. Also make sure that anxiety is not part of the straight path which we muslims want to go through, so never hesitate to speak to someone and ask for help.
lower expectations and try to get married. avoid wasting time on other things and focus on meeting the fathers of your potential interest. you can't just be idle and expect something to land on your lap
I am 28 and i am a girl ..... Due to many circumstances I didn't marry earlier..... I studied and some kind of fear of bad marriages I thought I should get financially stable first because my parents weren't financial stable.... My mom now and then says why you needed to study you should have married a load would be reduced. I know she worries for me her intention is good but it demotivates me to the core.
Don't have this intention that your future husband should be your ATM machine for your household. While men are supposed to be the breadwinners, it is really a very big turn-off if the woman only wants to work just for her own fancies and do lala-haha with her friends while the husband only works his tail off to make both ends meet. Spoken by a man. You can be modern AND conservative at the same time. It remains fard for him to work nonetheless but if two people work and two people contribute in the household work, that;s called teamwork
Same with me I am 32 and focused on career instead of marriage and kids. I regret it now as guys think I am too old for them. I am thinking of suicide sometimes because it's that difficult
Salaam to everyone Allah is the greatest he has made so many rules for us to follow butt we think no we know better than Allah as Muslim we get our sisters and kid married at an early age butt so many pearants have fallen for the education trap thay are now crying because the woman are getting older and older thay can't find Mr perfect 6 foot tall he must have his own house 6 figure income plus he has to have a full head of hair and under 25yrs old lol wishful thinking
i feel like todays society is making men too anxious with all the expectations. also the fact that school and gaining wealth takes time until the age of 30, and marriage needs start at around 13-21 shows theres a big imbalance in the system.
well, have you entered puberty? are you attracted to the opposite gender? try get married young then. and focus on building yourself up properly as a man. when you are able to get a job and earn some money. but since you may not be able to tp work depending on where you live, you should focus on your physical health
Please remember me in your dua that i get married to a righteous and a pious man soon...going through a very difficult and depressed time..facing harassment by family and friends because of this....May Allah make it easy for everyone..Ameen
Where are you from
May Allah bless you with what's best for you Really soon.
Ameen
Suffering from same...
God bless us all
@ Neel….when you InshaAllah get married soon. Then you can show those people who make fun of and harass you that Allah is by your side and gave you the greatest gift.
Ameen. Pray same for me sis
I'm 35 years old girl and I never met anyone that is suitable for a marriage. I'm really worried about my age, may Allah will bless me with a nice man. I'm really in need of help from Allah.
I am 31 girl and same case as you. I regret I didn't married at my 20s when I am beautiful and young. I am also worried. are you working
Allah is best planner.. He knows who is best for us so better be late then never..
Women Can't live without Men 🤣
@@bella8145-d9z you should not regret because if you met the right one you would have been married by now. Not all ladies want to marry anyone just to be called a wife /married…Believe in Allah and in yourself. Wish you all the best beautiful… 🙏
@@larabeauty7828 I am afraid I already met the one but I reject it. so now I am start at scratch again and never meet the right men for married
Been trying to get married and prayed for 10 years - please make dua for me
May Allah help you Ameen suma Ameen
May Allah grant you whatever you are praying for .
Me also for 10 years.. my age is 30.. plz pray for me
Allah knows the best time for your marriage. Be patient and keep moving forward in life.
Did you know that archeology has proven once and for all that the greatest god of Arabia is none other than the moongod sin depicted by a crescent moon. This is only one of the many gods that the semitic Arab tribes brought with them from SYRIA.
These were the original Arabs who worshipped 360 gods including HUBAL ALLAH allat manat Al-uzza to name but a few.
The greatest of these gods was the moongod sin depicted by the crescent moon which adorns your mosques as he watches over his flock.
ALLAH came later as it was only an Arab word for God.
One thing is definite is none of these pagan deities were the god of Israel . That was the true god Yahweh.
My marriage still delayed 😢😢
I'm 30 still single. Having so many difficulties. Everyone pray for me May Allah SWT accept me and all. Ameen.
I am also 30 and unmarried.. I am so worried.. may Allah grant us a beautiful and righteous miracle soon
Don't worry, my sister got married at 34 to a guy who is just like the person she always wished for, Alhamdulillah.
Assalamu Alaikum I'm also 30,pls pray for me to get a righteous soulmate
Everyone around me keep asking me the question about married, till the point that make me really uncomfortable. I'm consistently making an effort and pray to Allah. It just not coming yet. I trust Allah timing. May Allah help all of us and unite us in marriage soon. Aamiin
Same bro, same situation, and it’s incredibly sad and lonely. But you have to do what you can and trust the rest in Allah. When it comes (the marriage) all this patience, waiting, and sadness, will turn to a very small event and will feel like fluff.
So relatable
Don't get yourself fooled by anxiety. It's not part of the straight way. If you want something ask for it. It will come immediately if you are brave enough.
may Allah bless you
May Allah SWT open the doors of marriage for all of us..
Amin
Age is just a number. Any time can be your time. I've seen countless examples
no i disagree
@@shehryarkhan9896 i understand and respect your "Opinion"
@Wsziha bushra age is not just a number it cannot be, every growing person with his age gain somthing losse somethings got anxiety and depression and if you're not married at the age of 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 you're living your hell, you might be watching bad stuff thinking k mera waqt to aay nahi jab ameer hoonga ya ameer hooongi tab karun gi, tab tak kiya? kiya shaitan ki pervi main hain aap tab tak? no marriage brings blessings it brings wealth all you have to do is try to work harder and better connect with ALLAH more and leave it on him with complete tawaqul, but saying age is just a number haan 35 me kerlain gay shadi 36 me bachay tab tak na hum active hoongay us tarhan se na woh baat hogi us relation me woh passion mer chuka compromise ki age nahi aap head strong ho jatay tab tak all you'll do as your heart says lanat sab se bari un baron un maa baap per hai jo kehtay pehlay kamao mature ho jao bhai maturity to wahin se a gayi jahan woh aap se sincere ho ker nikkah ki demand ker raha phir jab us ki khudari per aap chot den hgay to kamai ga bhi aap se zyada kamaye ga yeh kiya k pelay kamao baqi time awara gardi aur KHUDA NAKHASTA ussy moqa mill gaya uskay urges main ZINAH ka aur ker gaya woh zinah kiya maa baap uskay is gunah ko apnay sir lene k liye tayyar hain? jahan ads me awards shows me indta acc se youtube ki dance videos se leke fb whats aap k ganday group then porn tak aap ko seduce ker ker aap ko physical and mental harms me dala ja raha "a guy woh masturbates" it's not that simple yeh jokes k mera hath hiu kaafi kis mindset ko aap itna promotion de rahay? a guy woh masturbates is not just watching porn he is watching 5 min video then another till 1 hour min, then doing that twice a week 8 to 10 times a month where he watched 240 naked women fucked up in a month 2880 women in a year what do you think he will thin kof a normal women even covered nothing but a piece of meat, we are destroyed, yeh late marriages k dramay per, and women can easily say hamay to shadi nahi kerni but they actually are destroying them skelves in way manny ways, thing aren't this simple these days, it's a little too complicated than how we think,
And hell is just a hot room
And prison is just a room
our bodys are not ment to live forever my friend. this viewpoint is dangerous. you might oversleep important things in life and regret it later.
may allah bless you inshAllah
May Allah bless us all with a righteous spouse ......Ameen ya rab 😭
This ummah is indulge in successive loving. They thinks it is Mohammad s.a.w way as he also did. But this is mind of adultery in this ummah.
Actually there is no righteousness in this ummah. It's hybride ummah which do not want unity but division.
While Islam have one ummah one faith Islam.
Love is a wonderful blessing from Allah ,only if we give true value of our loved ones,we will be blessed
And most importantly that we love Allah Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala and his prophet more than anyone.
34 not married... may Allab bless us all with the best here and here after ameen...
I m 43 yrs old i m in great trouble because many people say about my marriage taunt me
Please all sisters and brothers pray for me to get marriage soon inshallah
I am 31 year old woman. Please make dua for me to get married to a right person soon ameen
May Allah bless you ameen
Ameen
May ALLAH (SWT) always grant you much more than you ask for, very quickly.
@@bassamimam1019 ameen . Thank u brother. jazakAllah khair
Suma Ameen
I'm also still not get married because of my disability plz make dua for my marriage 🤲🤲🤲🤲
insha'Allah. Sister please change the profile, it's not appropriate, esp that men see this as well.
Where are you reshma
May ALLAH (SWT) grant you the very best husband in DUNYA and AKHIRA, very, very, very, soon from now!
@@mohamedim4765 Summa ameen
@@bassamimam1019 Ameen suma Ameen
Please pray for me, I get married soon to a righteous husband.
May ALLAH (SWT) grant you the very best spouse and offspring, in DUNYA and AKHIRA. Keep making DUA to ALLAH (SWT).
Please pray for me to I'm so depressed and I want to get marry
Aameen
Love is one thing but, there is one thing that is more important than love. That’s stronger than love and that is VALUE!
May Allah grant us all righteous spouse!!
Ameen!
Reall love can't disagree bacuse that feeling not by words .its deep from heart..may Allah protect...
it’s 2021, almost 2022 and I think we as a muslim community MUST move forward and stop shaming our women who are half of society.
Many muslim women are above 30 and unmarried and some can’t have children and that IS OKAY!
We shouldn’t deem them as spinsters and saying that they are not marriage material.
Our prophet married Khadijah(as) who was almost 20 years older.
So let’s stop this as it’s not part of our religion. I am 39, unmarried and can’t have children and this is NOT shameful.
This is not my fault and I am not a vehicle for children.
I am a beautiful woman who is worthy. And I am proud of who I am.
If you are a man or woman of the muslim faith reading this, then know you are not alone and you are worthy!
Let’s end the discrimination
InshaAllah Allah gives you the best husband. You're beautiful MashaAllah. Praying istigfar apparently helps
@@user-fg6uu2fu9x insha-Allah, and thank you
May Allah make it easy for you. For the rest of the sisters, don’t wait until you hit 30. Capitalize when you are younger, because youth, beauty and fertility fades with time.
@@TheMrpalid Men shouldn’t wait until 30 to get married. Men should capitalise their youth because youth fades, fertility fades and men sperm quality gets worse by age (after 20s)
@@TheMrpalid Women can have children in their 30s not only in their 20s. Women don’t hit menopause in their 20s-30s
It’s more than love, people can love someone and be in a toxic relationship. The main thing is about respect and how their relationship is with in themselves and god
Alhamdullilah.... I'm 40 and my husband is 23.
We met 3 yrs ago
Subhan Allah ❤
Wow.. Cool
@@KasanSanna Subhan Allah 🌹
MashAllah❤Do you ever face people's question??and if yes then how you answer them??
Someone also offered me for marriage but he is 32 and i am 22..so i just want to know that should i accept or not
@@kunnshope3023 Masha Allah....you should not decline. Age doesn't matter.....Allah made our spouses long before we were born....he already paired us. So Alhamdulillah U have found urs.
No one loves you as much as Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala.
To all comments here for the struggle of marriage may Allah lets ys meet in jannah
I am 29 still single. all are settled of my age. The one whom I like also got married and here I m depressed
May ALLAH (SWT) send you the very best spouse and offspring, in DUNYA and AKHIRA. May ALLAH (SWT) make it happen very soon!
Same here😢
I am 30.. my younger sister and brother are also married.. I am hopeful from Allah till now to give me a righteous companion.. and a beautiful miracle
M 36 years old ..kindly pray for me ..I may get married soon inshallah
ameen
ameen summ ameen
Aameen..
My family wants me to marry...But honestly and I never wanna...I love being in my solitude...I don't want unnecessary responsibility and problems...I love being single
Just tell them
They can't force you cuz forced marriage is haram
time may come at some point. it's different for everyone. The most inportant thing is to stay away from zina and devilish things. Tell your parents that you aren't ready yet.
may Allah bless you
Then you are impotent
Still single end of thirties. Pray for me😪
I'm also single 32 year old 😭
@D B LOL!! 🙏🙏🙏 pray for me
Where are you tina afsana
@@imransaleem7294 Bd
@@tinaafsana4961 what the bd
JazakAllahu Kheyran 🤍 may Allah subhana wa ta’ala accept our duas in the best way 🤍 Allahumma Ameen Ya Rabb Al Alamin🤲🏼
I'm 34 and praying for past few yrs to get married. My younger sister will get married soon and I still haven't found someone😢
Asalamalaikum Everyone here my parents especially my mom is in depression bcz of my marriage I ask everyone for me so that I get married soon
Why would you get married for your mom? You get married because you want to, not because of your mom.
Alhamdulillah I got married all praise to Allah ..
I'm 34 not married yet..but i don't blame parents...but my economical condition didn't allow..but I'm complaining just doing sabr n doing salath..as Allah say take Allah s by sabr n salath... please make dua for me...
same situation i am 27 and still not.get married.some.time i feel like.i should end my life
My age is 30.. please make Dua for me also
May Allah send miracles in our lives.. and give us righteous companion..
In sha Allah may Allah bless you with pious spouse aamin ya rabbul alamin@@HafsaSalahuddin-s7d
Remember us(me and my sister)in your prayers that we get married soon with righteous spouses that fears Allah and loves us and treat us kindly ❤
Salemou3leykoum
Doua for mariage
« rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqir »
Traduction en français
« Seigneur, j’ai grand besoin de toute grâce dont Tu voudras bien me gratifier ! » (Coran 28/24).
Just Allah is the one in my life ❤
This is a great video.
Im 30 and I get pressured by family all the time regarding this
it's my first time that i am writing or saying this i am really tired from this life sometimes people or your own mother make life difficult for you whenever i look to my life to my situation then i think that maybe marrage will be solution of all this difficulties if i marry i can go away from my mother bCZ she demage me mentally but when i see to my dreams that I have so i should to study and acheive my dreams WALLAH i am 18 YEARS i dont know what i have to do WALLAH some words OR SOME PEople kill you from inside My BROTHERS AND SISTER plzz pray for me thAT my allah make it easy for me and to give ME sabr and to show me a right way
Please make dua for me i fell in love with a girl older then me by a year I have intention to marrying her
Ya rab grant us all loving spouses! May Allah give you tawfiq in marrying her inshallah, good luck ♥
yeh i rather be a shaheed then getting married now when m getting close to my thirties, the women i like don't wanna get married yet, so yeah m stuck, ALLAH rather give me shahada and call me back to the life that is forever, cause loneliness is the actual toture in this world where you handle things aon your own and people are there to just end you, MAY ALLAH guide our parents may ALLAH guide US ALL
im also struggeling. my fear was to mary a women that isn't clean. But all we have nowdays are sinners that don't know allah and religions and make zina everyday. I also would rather die lonely and hope for my eternal best than mary a misguided person that doesn't fit with my iman levels.
Dude, be realistic.
@@olegnurmagomedov750 wdy mean?
@@shehryarkhan9896 Marry, it is Sunnah. It is easy to marry, just lower your demands. If you can't find a beautiful, pious wife, then go for an ugly, pious wife. There is absolutely nothing wrong with marrying ugly women. If their character and Deen is all right then go ahead with marriage.
I am 36 not married yet.
What stops you?
@@afghandiamond1225 none of ur business. It’s their life not yours
@@NANA-jh8gs who asked u lol 🤡
@@afghandiamond1225 everyone doesnt need to get married.
May ALLAH (SWT) send you NIKAH and offspring, in DUNYA and AKHIRA, special delivery and very soon.
I am looking for an answer from many days. I have not found any single answer or discussion about that..
What if Marriage is not in my luck ? I cant spend all of life by fasting. Please what would i do ?
I'm 34 and still single ..plz pray for me
You can marry an any age actually inshaAllah, as long as you adjust your standard based on your age. If your standard in your 30 still the same when you were 20, that's make your option very limited. My neighbour married in her 60, after retired as a lecturer, (her first marriage) with her old friend in junior high whom his wife passed away, just as an example, change your standard could open new doors
I am 22 this year i ll be 23 i want to get marry so badly 😓😭
abhi tu ap young.ho
Desperation isn't cute, though
I m 43 yrs old and not married mostly people taunt about marriage
Please all sisters and brothers pray for me
I have never gotten anyone who loved me enough to marry me, sometimes I feel like a failure 😭😭😭please pray for me
Dear Allah, you gave us so much more than I deserve I'm so so thankful to you Allah....My parents are in search of a groom for me, I'm getting rejected just bcz of my skintone😭😭😭
You created me the way you wanted to be Allah but I feel so sad😭😭 whyyy in Islam still they look for whitesh girls to get married.
Yeah Allah😭😭 to whom I should share this pain I really don't know what to do .. you created me Allah.. I have no problem with my skintone but people are not ready to accept the way that I'm....😭😭😭😭😭 Please Allah make this easy for me make me to get married soon with the soul who is meant for me...the one who is created by you...for me...Make this easy for My parents my family .... To find the right one😭😭😭😭😭😭 Please Allah 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭01/06/21
This life is a test and everyone on this planet is tested differently,and if this test bring you close to Allah....then know you are winner no matter what
"If we have Allah we have everything we desire but if we don't have Allah nothing we desire will make us happy"...so be patient , indeed Allah is with the patient...may Allah grant you a righteous husband and children that will become the coolness of your eyes and make you among the righteous.... Ameen
@@nashidanajar1450 Ameen Suameen Thank you so much deaeeee❤️ May Allah bless you
Ameen ...may Allah bless you too my precious sister❤️
Ameen
@@believer1070 Ameen... Thank you so much ❤️
I'm 31 and unmarried and unemployed
Ya Ali as Madad.. May Almighty bless every person with generosity, kindness.. And bless them with a Good and best Life partner, Ameen...
Ya Allah Madad
You calling Hazrat Ali for help? La hawla wa la quwatta illa billah.
I,m 36 nd unmarried ...plzz pray for me to get married as soon as possible ...
Sure..
May ALLAH (SWT) send you NIKAH and beautiful offspring, in DUNYA and AKHIRA. and may HE (SWT) do so very soon.
@@bassamimam1019 ameen sum ameen ❤️....boht shukria ...duaa mein yad rkhyie ga
I'm a muslim girl and still not married. I hope to find the love of my life soon and live happily with him. Make douae for me please
You might consider some guy 15 or 20 years older than you to find someone who really loves you
Make sure he fears Allah and prays. The disgusting bad habits like anger management or drugs and alcohol are bad signs. Find a decent hard working Allah fearing man.
@@RaviSingh-tk9ut Can you explain to me why please?
@@MekkaMehamedi Yeah I really hope to find someone like that 🙏🏼
@ipmanman8806 dont listen that advice
Because . Every man is good all age can love u
The person i love wants to marry me but i am younger than him i am 20 his father is not well he wants us to get married but i am not able to tell my parents.Can someone please help me what should i do😭😭
Age difference is not an issue.. let him with his family come and talk to your parents first.. insha allah everything will be khair..
Im yemeni born in Singapore 61 now seeking marriage
@@shiblirahat111 😂
@@shiblirahat111 whats funny? why you laugh
Sir please..
This type of Imana booster video make in urdu...jajakallahu bhai ..i am also watch the free quran education urdu.....mashallah sir Nouman ali khan sir
ALLLAH GIVE THE JANNATUL FIRDOUS
I want to get married and have kids and I'm 27 but where I live there are not so much muslim man hardly seen on the street. Online dating is a mess. In my hometown where I travel once in 2 years the girls are getting married really quick they have so many options but I don't and I'm not ready for a distance relationship so there is not a chance for me to find someone. No one in my family is rushing but I feel the need of someone sadly people who hate the idea of marriage are getting married and people who want to marry have to wait or can't find someone.
So true. I'm 24 and I already see some of my peers getting married. And they're very wealthy so they're able to pull it off. But for the average folks like me it remains difficult.
Don't be shy. If you fall for your nefs the angels can't guide you. Keep praying don't lose your hope and never miss an opportunity.
@@RaiLCyuuute I'm not a shy person,
if there is no human beeing to marry how can I be able to miss an opportunity ? when I say there are no muslim man around I don't mean I reject them..there is literally no man out there who I can meet or think of marriage. That's why I'm sad. People are able to reject people and I'm here without any chance to see someone.
@@placebo6628 maybe talk to your parents about it. Or join a Muslim community online and share your concerns and hopefully they can do something for you. The kind of situation you are in, sounds like the only logical option would be to move out to a muslim dominant community. If your intense urge to get married is weighing down on you, then I'd like to think that its kinda obligatory upon you to find ways to move out to a place where coming across Muslim men is relatively easier than otherwise.
Why? Why clickbait on such an important subject?
They didn't address the age issue as advertised on the thumbnail. That's wrong
I was also stressed, my mother urged me to get married, now iam 25 I kept praying to get a shaleh man and it took effort and prayer.
Please do'a for me
InshaAllah
Aameen
Did you get marry?
@@Cute-h4z no
Have patience.Keep yourself busy. Inshallah you will get good spouse.
26 still unmarried
Pray for me ❤
Assalamualaikum sir, but sir, people say that everyone's tastes are not always the same If you change your mindset tomorrow, the person you are marrying today will not like it anymore .. What could be the answer ?
Alot of women high maintain divorced women are seeking the same qualities in men. While being divorced from their husbands who were also doctors, engineers, or business owners... I personally don't care about a woman's career, money, assets or whatever they have.
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Does anybody have advice for someone who has been watching bad videos often in his past and has stopped doing so to become a better muslim and find a wife insha'Allah but because of watching these videos ib his past he now has a different perspective about how a woman should look like. He isn't satisfied with the beauty of an average woman anymore and it's really frustrating to him because he wants to marry on the one hand but has trouble finding a wife who he finds physically appealing enough. Does anybody have some advice? Dua would also be really appreciated
Watch the 3 Muslims channel, they have a lot of advice
Do more istigfar everyday, strive to be closer to Allah as much as you can and it will lead you to a peace and different , increase your dua..
In sha allah , Allah will help you and heal you, no worries
stop watching those crappy videos
My parents are making me marry but im not ready fully, and they are rushing me.
May Allah(S.W.T) Help you sister.
I’m in the same boat. I don’t feel ready yet, but they want me to find someone
Who said you all aren't ready? As a woman you don't need to do anything to be ready. You can learn through marriage. But as a man you need a good house, good job, good degree, etc I don't know why you women always say you're not ready.
Speak to a family member or a sheikh
@@Abu-Kurdi There’s many reasons why we can say that. You won’t know unless you are the one experiencing it.
May allah give such life partner who make me closer to my allah
I'm 29 year old still unmarried. I get rejected by 13 boys because I'm not much beautiful. I'm going through a very difficult time. Even my family is accusing me that I'm not beautiful enough. Please pray for me.
im 39 and with 2 kids and im not married, i live with father of my kids ... i became a revert in November 2020, I think we should marry only because he is father of my kids and also because we live together, but honestly i don't want to marry him, nor live with him, but he won't move out. this is my apartment. i don't know what to do
I have no knowledge in this topic but i couldn't just pass your comment. In my opinion if the husband is a muslim and hard working man you should marry him or atleast open communication about the topic and islam.
Speak to your local imam/Sheikh or someone with experience in marriage/counselling. They’ll be able to advise you. Allah has guided you to Islam and inshallah He may guide your partner too. But if that is not the best outcome for you, then inshallah there will be something better. There are additional challenges with reverting and how that affects a person’s family dynamics. I pray that Allah makes it easy for you.
Instead of marrying that guy, best kick him out. Stand your ground. You say it is your apartment, you mean you pay the bills right? Legally you can kick him out. You are only cohabiting, not married yet. If he can’t respect your wishes than he won’t respect them anymore than he does now if you marry him.
If you so wish to have a husband whom to stay with you and care for you and the kids than find someone! Locate your nearest marriage bureau, or find a site online for muslims who want to marry. If you have friends ask them for help in finding someone. Don’t give up hope!
InshaAllah with your efforts and duas you will find the right solution to your problems.
@@LearnTawhid I disagree with you. It's not enough for the man to be a Muslim and hardworking. They need to have good morals and character and compatibility with his wife so that they may live happily and raise a healthy family.
can't you kick him out? legally aren't you allowed to since it's your apartment?
Incha Allah find my partner
inshaAllah!
It's inshallah
May ALLAH (SWT) always answer your DUA, very quickly.
Plz pray for me.
I am 29 years old and every Muslim woman I’ve ever liked and wanted to marry has rejected me from the outset. I have never been considered by anyone. I hate this life and I wish I was never born
Do not allow other people's opinion of you define you. Believe in yourself and know that if those women didn't see the value in you, then perhaps it's because they do not know what is valuable after all. Also, Allah sometimes takes keeps some people out of our lives because they are not good for us, even when we think they are all that. He knows what we know not, though, doesn't He? So do not despair, for if you do, the women would have beaten you twice- rejected you and destroyed your life. Let them not win, brother. I wish I could chat with you more to get you of this
@@aishafaridaahmad2832 very hard to believe in yourself when I’ve been rejected my entire life. Even if one lady just considered me and then said no, I’d have a bit of hope. But that’s never happened. Also keeping some people out of our lives, sure that makes sense, but why have me come across them and fill me with hope, only to them crush me over and over again?? What’s the wisdom behind that? I’ve come to the conclusion that finding the love of your life is purely luck, and it’s not in everyone’s qadr; the evidence for this is, so many toxic people find love whereas a lot of good people don’t. So it’s all luck. Right now, I want to be able to accept that, more than wanting to find a wife. The sooner I’m able to cross that hurdle and force my emotions and mind to accept that, the quicker I can move in my life. Jzk for your thoughts
@@thomasbuxton2648 dude, those women who rejected you are not worth it, Allah will give you yours. Here or next life, but that doesn't mean that in this life you won't get a lover. it's maybe written for you and just ask Allah and be the best person for whoever she is. Allah created us in pairs.
@@ashbringer78 I’ve been asking Allah for 15 years now. I never had a girlfriend or messed around with girls during my youth. Whereas my friends who did, most of them are happily married.
I am still working on myself but how much more do I have to work? I have a well paid job, I’m a hafidh, I’m respectful and courteous, driven. Yet I’m still not good enough. My friends tell me get built and muscular and a six pack, rich with six figures, then if you can’t find a woman you can complain. Whilst I am working on those things, last time I checked not every man who is happily married has all of these things, so why do I have to? I feel resentful that I’ll never be able to find a woman who loves me for me and not some BS superficial attributes about me.
Maybe cos I’m a short 5’2 midget that I have to achieve all of these things to be good enough
@@thomasbuxton2648 my man, you dont need to be rich with six figures, when you want to marry you must be confident about yourself and be strong like built so you look good, just like how girls they get beautiful before meeting you. Second try halal dating and be like romantic and funny. Don't ever lose hope, just remember the prophet married khadijah when she was about 40 years old. Always be hopeful about the future.
Im 39 and single, never been married, tried a lot now I simply dont care.
Hello I’m 17 years old! And my family found a good guy for me, but I’m not ready yet and I dont want to. Should I say yes Even if I don’t want? Pls answer me, bc I’m very confused
Say yes to him if he is a good guy. And your parents approve. Cause trust me, options start declining with the increasing age. But definitely get married at the age of 18 or above.
@@mahrukhbutt9161 mashallah May Allah reward you for your beautiful answer
@@hitmanx3475 I’ve been reading comments and I’ve seen couple of your comments, they are full of hate and weird questions bro. Give good advice or don’t say anything!
@@hitmanx3475 you talking with fear right now brother. Do you know how many sisters are out there that are over 25-26 unmarried? Why? Because A lot of them have this kinda mindset that they want someone perfect. Or they always say am too young to get married. So if this sister parent found a good guy for her, why discourage her? It’s impossible for some sisters to find a guy for them selves because today’s day and age 80% of the guys are like bulls with 2 horns brother.
Abu Hurairah narrated that:
The Prophet said: "A widow should not be given in marriage until she is ask, and a virgin should not be given in marriage until her permission is sought, and her silence is her permission."
@@hitmanx3475 brother u just said to this sister free mixing is haram and u out here talkin about friendship between male n female this and that, like what? The girl parents knows who’s a good boy and bad boy it’s that simple. Some girls don’t know what kinda boy is good for them. Definitely it’s someone that practice the deen. Someone that have taqwa. You want our sisters to have a friendship with a nonmahram and then get married and that’s the most haram thing. A lot of sisters did that before and they end up pregnant and then the guy leaves them. U are not educated about this marriage stuff at all.
Age matters greatly, years go by,and if you are not settled as a man you won't get looked at. If a woman is in her late 20's to early 30, she will witness the same. Don't wait to long, you'll find yourself trapped, the misery is real.
Funny , u say that as if we wait to get married by choice!
You can't do anything, its not in person's hands
So what do you suggest to do? Go to random guys and propose to them? Drag them by hair to a sheikh and force them to marry me?
Please! You are that person who makes people feel like crap and hurt about smth they are already hurt by.
@@Azr721 agreed
@@Azr721 I'm in the same boat! I'm not saying this to piss anyone off. I'm just saying this because the longer time goes by, the harder your comfort zone will make u settle. Not like I'm happy with this state either. Only I'm realistic.
where can I listen to this full audio??
Actually in my family and society the woman is getting blamed for not setteling, I recieve a lot of blame and guilt shaming for not setteling and just marrying a man even I don't like ... in the same time I do wann get mariied but no good options, I am in so much pain and I don't know what to do, what hurts the most is feeling that God doesn't answer my prayers.
Alhamdulilah will never get married. Marriage is nothing but pain, betrayal, fights and heartaches.
I am facing this problem.
I am single at 32 and was never married. I sometimes think of suicide because of this. May Allah help me.
Salemou3leykoum
Make this doua everyday :
« rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqir »
(Coran 28/24).
Who is the second speaker
Well I had nothing
No one bother
I ask my parents they don't bother
Now I have everything
My parents pressure me everyday but now I don't bother them
Now every family try to communicate with my family with their ifs and buts
But for me it's over and I decided never marry in my life
Alhamdulillah I'm very happy
Well if you will never marry you better make sure you don’t commit Zina not even once cause some people are out their praying to have the means to get married but they don’t have it but you got it all but choose not to marry
Am actually looking for that person who would care about me who would value me i have been single for too long
If it’s money or marriage I well always choose money over marriage
This is precisely the reason why more Muslim men are avoiding marriage. Because they don't want to be seen as ATM machines. Just like you don't want to be seen as a baby popping enterprise
I love someone who is non Muslim. it's been 4years.i don't know what to do!!!! I can't leave him..i can't marry him also.. someone plzz suggest me it's ruined my life..
This is why as a man I never fall for non Muslim women. Because I know it always leads to compatibility issues. Either get him interested in Islam or forget about him. There are more interesting Muslim brothers out there who are single and would do anything in their means to have a girl like you. Never ever think that you as a Muslim woman are valued less in the marriage market when the demand is actually quite high. Heck idc even id marry you in a heartbeat if I had the chance.
Please leave that guy if he is not becoming muslim. Don't ruin yourself. The process will be painful . I'm telling you with personal experience. I fell in love with a non muslim guy ,expected him to become Muslim , he didn't , alhamdulillah i couldn't change either. Hence told him no n made him changed his mind for years n finally he moved on n this year he is getting married n I'm still single. Trust me convincing him to move on n then letting him go just wasn't easy. My heart broke in thousand pieces each day , even till now it's not easy. But you have to do it. Choose heaven or hell for yourself. Remaining 30 years with your non muslim spouse in this world n then forever hell or suffer for a while here n trust allah that he will heal u n help u.
Moreover u are wasting his time too. Don't repeat my mistake. Let him go n live his life. It's easy to say than implement. But trust me , allah helps. Suffer for a while , get out of this relationship n the reward is hereafter. Don't sail in 2 boats.
Don't torture yourself. Pray to allah n please stop wasting your time n his time too.
3 years i kept on telling him no .
After that he moved on. It took a hell lot of courage n sacrifice to say him no when he was perfect for me except religion difference. It wasn't easy. But isn't our own fault in the first place that we got involved . We choose the wrong path n hence we are suffering. Allah gave all the instructions . We didn't follow. I blame myself for my actions but my ex suffered emotionally and mentally along with me. It was equally painful for him to depart n move on n i will never forgive myself for that.
So please gather yourself up.
Do the right thing n stick to iman n allah.
Nothing is important than allah.
To allah we belong n to allah we return , remember that.
Let him go so that he can be happy too.
By letting him go , be happy in his happiness when he will find someone else. May allah heal your heart n soul . Everything will be fine. Take care.
I’m nearly 30 year old and still not get married
Im 25 & unmarried plz pray for me im literally ill thinking where is he i fell in love with a playboy & he just left me for another girl i loved him & he told me we will get married after few months but he made me cry everyday & is very disrespectful & cheated on me i still love him but he tortures me alot what should i do im very tensed & i felt like commiting suicide
If u allow toxic in your life without searching for exiting. Then its your fault.
Just remember every pure woman is a queen, so be treated like a queen or leave.
The problem is you dont know what is good for you. Imagin playboy and you shock he cheat on you? Come on sister wake up. Go find decent man who prays and fears Allah
But age is still a factor, for both men and women but more so women because of the biological clock so u yes still have to worry about your age because what you can get at 31 isn’t the same as 21/25 and everyone knows this. As people get older their standards become lower with each passing year. And then if u want kids unfortunately there’s a limit to have them which is scary for a woman.
Assalamu alaikum pray for my nikha
May ALLAH (SWT) grant you what you need and want, and much more, in DUNYA and AKHIRA.
How do u take action if ur a woman?
It's not a woman's job to pursue and charm men it's a man's job to come to her.
Online 'dating' is a sham
Arranged marriage in my family and the process they do it in is unhealthy and toxic.
Associates that I know they are single themselves and don't know anyone.
If you find out lemme know sis
@@momanaj5023 Sure, I'll try find it on Amazon 😅
@@JC-ce8uw hahaha
improvise adapt overcome. Find a good boy and ask his father.
Allah won't care if you say you were too shy. Don't fall for your nefs, and take my joke seriously because it may be a true fact.
May Allah bless you!
You can approach muslim men!! Also, it is your wali's JOB to seek out marriage prospects if you can't so 1000% ask your dad if, through his connections, he knows any good marriage prospects, or your brother etc. Just ask them to keep an eye out bc they should be looking for you as well
edit: oh nvm, just read what u said abt arranged marriages
I am still not married coz when proposals were coming i rejected the blessings of Allah. Now I want someone in life but no person in my life
Ohhh Allah will show his blessings on you ameen
remove your profile picture and wear the hijab. get rid of any feminist thoughts and ideas that go against islam. practise islam properly. Don't free mix with the opposite gender, pray your salah etc. Increase your knowledge, you can watch assim al hakeem for quick boosts of knowledge. Don't be scared of the people even if they know that you were not practising before. forget about them and change or you will regret it until your death and after that because of the sinful life you had led before.
if you are fat lose weight. Thats probably the best advice I can give. it would defiantly increase the chances and you would find someone a lot quicker. If you have high expectations lower them. your expectations may be unrealistic, and you will never find someone that meets all the criteria.
Darling...don't think that the proposals you rejected were any good for you. if it was,,,,Allah swt would have make it happen for you.
You really have to trust the timing. and don;t listen to negativity from other people..
You do hijaab whenever you are ready for your lord out of love for him. not because retarded people condemn you and judge you for it.
May Allah swt grant you a pious husband. who is faihfull and thrustworthy and treat you as the queen you are. Ameen
@@shadowstorm5261 shut up/..... whether she wears a hijab or doesnt. is non of your bussines. you can make du3a for her. and mind your own bussiness. we are living in different time and age and we can be as perfect muslim as you pretend to be.
@@Basilicum83 it is my business. The hijab isn't a choice. The hijab is mandatory like salah. are you going to say salah is a choice? that we live in a different day and age?
if you are a kafir and reject the Quran and Sunnah then say it
Now people saying Allah allow men to marry not mature young girls (not reach their puberty) saying is it mentioned in quran is it true.
a woman has to reach puberty to be old enough for marriage.
Where exactly do they talk about age in the video? Click bait much?
Marriage should be strictly 18+
""Dont worry about your age when it comes to marriage in Islam"" I really thought the video is about that, I got excited then ... naah, my problem is that I have high self-esteem that I don't like anybody, nobody is even good for me, can you solve that? 😒
I'm old too
I too worried b/c I am 33 so now I decided I a get marry with someone who already married and Wana second marriage 🙁
if you didn't make any zina and are a brave person look for a virgin. Theres no need to accept a fate you didn't want to start with. Also life is short, you can also just wait and hope to get things right in your afterlife.
@@RaiLCyuuute Polygamy is allowed. Why can't she not be a 2nd wife .
@@blueflame3531 because of jealousy
@@blueflame3531 because there are single men who are virgins. It’s better to marry a virgin but it’s up to her.
@@chaeun-woon8405 Polygamy is an option for women who may not be able to get married, it's not haram. And if the guy and his 1st wife accept it, there's nothing wrong with it. Rather that, than zina.
I'm 23 years old my name is samiira I'm Muslim searching really marriage husband halal you religiou Islam good manners serious
Did you talk with your parents/local religious people about this?
I hope Allah guides you towards someone you truly seek for. Also make sure that anxiety is not part of the straight path which we muslims want to go through, so never hesitate to speak to someone and ask for help.
You help me
Insha allah, everything will be fine for you.. Allah will make it easier for you sister... no worries..🥰
what if your 12 and hes 18
I’m over50 never married. Haven’t found the one
lower expectations and try to get married. avoid wasting time on other things and focus on meeting the fathers of your potential interest. you can't just be idle and expect something to land on your lap
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I am 28 and i am a girl ..... Due to many circumstances I didn't marry earlier..... I studied and some kind of fear of bad marriages I thought I should get financially stable first because my parents weren't financial stable.... My mom now and then says why you needed to study you should have married a load would be reduced. I know she worries for me her intention is good but it demotivates me to the core.
Don't have this intention that your future husband should be your ATM machine for your household. While men are supposed to be the breadwinners, it is really a very big turn-off if the woman only wants to work just for her own fancies and do lala-haha with her friends while the husband only works his tail off to make both ends meet. Spoken by a man. You can be modern AND conservative at the same time. It remains fard for him to work nonetheless but if two people work and two people contribute in the household work, that;s called teamwork
Same with me I am 32 and focused on career instead of marriage and kids. I regret it now as guys think I am too old for them. I am thinking of suicide sometimes because it's that difficult
@@mathisnotforthefaintofheart I want to support my husband as well as my parents until my brother is established.
@@L91-r5b please dear don't think so make duwa i hope everything will be fine..
@@L91-r5byou regret being financially stable?
I just can't see a 32 years old man marrying a woman 57 years old. The mother and wife are the same age, maybe I'm wrong.
Im 30 i have anxiety is it possible marry
I am also 30.. and worried alot.. may Allah send miracle in our lives..
@@HafsaSalahuddin-s7d insha'Allah where are your country
Salaam to everyone Allah is the greatest he has made so many rules for us to follow butt we think no we know better than Allah as Muslim we get our sisters and kid married at an early age butt so many pearants have fallen for the education trap thay are now crying because the woman are getting older and older thay can't find Mr perfect 6 foot tall he must have his own house 6 figure income plus he has to have a full head of hair and under 25yrs old lol wishful thinking
this is very harsh and sadly 100% the reality of todays sociaity .
i feel like todays society is making men too anxious with all the expectations. also the fact that school and gaining wealth takes time until the age of 30, and marriage needs start at around 13-21 shows theres a big imbalance in the system.
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I saw a dream about marriage but bro I am 12 💀💀
What do I do I am worried
well, have you entered puberty? are you attracted to the opposite gender?
try get married young then. and focus on building yourself up properly as a man. when you are able to get a job and earn some money. but since you may not be able to tp work depending on where you live, you should focus on your physical health