Story Time: I stopped saving her

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  • Опубликовано: 18 сен 2020
  • Hey Best Frienddd!!
    How you been?? I hope you've not only been surviving but THRIVING! Welcome to this week's #StoryTime!! This one is an example of when standing up for the bullied doesn't always go as planned.
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  • @Nyques713
    @Nyques713 3 года назад +1412

    Is it possible she was on the spectrum? Like Aspergers maybe?

    • @meghansoloooo
      @meghansoloooo 3 года назад +166

      That was my thought process throughout this video.

    • @NikkiGlamour
      @NikkiGlamour  3 года назад +876

      You know I thought the same thing back then but we were always informed if there there were any special needs students in our class and they never had special needs kids take the same buses home or to school for that reason. That type of environment is way too hectic for anyone on the spectrum. They had buses specifically for special needs kids at our school and she was never placed on it. In the event that was the case, there was no way for me to know and there was no way for me to avoid this situation even if I tried 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @dwjamaicamakeupandmusings6222
      @dwjamaicamakeupandmusings6222 3 года назад +209

      That's valid, but it also shouldn't give her a free pass out of bad behaviour, you feel ?

    • @NikkiGlamour
      @NikkiGlamour  3 года назад +409

      Danielle W I mean yea this is true. I swear on everything tho, I tried to sit on the very edge of that seat to not bother her and had every intention of moving the second I had the chance cause I don’t want to invade anyone’s space but then....the pushing started and I was like oh no.

    • @rachael7441
      @rachael7441 3 года назад +173

      Aspergers is not a separate diagnosis anymore. It’s not a term the autism community appreciates. She very well could’ve been on the spectrum and didn’t “need” to be in special classes. Or maybe her parents hadn’t had her diagnosed by a doctor yet. It’s a lot harder for females to get diagnosed than males. Some are never clinically diagnosed. And she could’ve been so severely bullied up until that point that she didn’t trust anyone. Was she nonverbal? They don’t have to tell the class that someone has special needs. I’m not saying she has a free pass for bad behavior. However, the public school experience for kids on the spectrum is incredibly traumatic. And that bus, with how crowded it sounds like it was, could’ve been absolute hell for her. The idea of someone sitting next to her could’ve sent her into a full panic attack. I would’ve sat on the floor or scooted in with another crowded seat.

  • @blancatovar1435
    @blancatovar1435 3 года назад +3574

    Who else thought this was about Ariel? 🙋🏻‍♀️

    • @EyERuNiT
      @EyERuNiT 3 года назад +406

      For a split second, I did but she stopped the HSS stories and I think it's because people, once again, decided to try and be detectives and try to find "Ariel." People don't know how to mind their business and just listen to the stories. I do miss those stories.

    • @suitevictor5195
      @suitevictor5195 3 года назад +79

      I thought so too. People are so bored they have to dox someone

    • @thediaryofnunu
      @thediaryofnunu 3 года назад +42

      imperfectxangel no she did bring them back after a little while but she stopped yet again . but after that situation she was really suspicious about making another video but i think she only made like one or two and in the beginning she said that she stopped making it like a series and more so her just telling another storytime if that make sense but it’s so sad that people was harassing that lady thinking she was ariel

    • @queenofsheba8948
      @queenofsheba8948 3 года назад +5

      I was JUST sayin that omggg🤭😂💯

    • @Someone-gv2sx
      @Someone-gv2sx 3 года назад +33

      it is too bad that i started watching her videos after she deleted the hss stories... :(
      and i had hope she was going to talk about ariel in this video, but regardless this storytime was great!

  • @phoenixtorres4117
    @phoenixtorres4117 3 года назад +549

    “The nOISE on this bUS is AAAAStroNOMICAL.”

  • @liannemathurin3367
    @liannemathurin3367 3 года назад +1548

    The 3 dislikes are from jenny, her lunch box and backpack

  • @stannyuwu
    @stannyuwu 3 года назад +753

    me nodding yes when she said “wouldn’t you agree, wouldn’t you agree ?” 👁👄👁

  • @victoriarosa475
    @victoriarosa475 3 года назад +475

    I WENT FROM : "aw poor Jenny:(" to "PUSH HER INTO THAT WINDOW" lmaoo

  • @symphonyloughlin2131
    @symphonyloughlin2131 3 года назад +818

    I miss the HHS stories. I wish people would just mind their business. It sucks that she had to stop those stories.

    • @kawaiikoibito3268
      @kawaiikoibito3268 3 года назад +49

      Wait so she stopped?? UGGGG OMG I hate humans why can't yall just enjoy the stories😭😭😭

    • @allylopez2344
      @allylopez2344 3 года назад +3

      Wait why did she have to stop ??😟😔😔

    • @evie5570
      @evie5570 3 года назад +43

      @@allylopez2344 because persons were getting curious and was trying to figure out who her stepsister was and then began harassing random people

    • @evie5570
      @evie5570 3 года назад

      @officiallacrossestick yes

    • @katiaanai3810
      @katiaanai3810 3 года назад +2

      I thought she started them again tho? :( she stopped again😭😔

  • @kelsbels5738
    @kelsbels5738 3 года назад +519

    In the into I say “ HEY BESTFRIEND “ with you haha

  • @suckkyoubis9953
    @suckkyoubis9953 3 года назад +363

    Jennie reminded me so much of myself in the past in the first half of the video. I was always so quiet, had crippling anxiety, read books, and was mute. I wish I had a friend like Nikki growing up or knew someone like her because I felt misunderstood and all alone.

    • @NikkiGlamour
      @NikkiGlamour  3 года назад +108

      Girrrlll I’m sorry 🥺 I understand how that feels. I would’ve sat with you every day girl

    • @selma8337
      @selma8337 3 года назад +8

      I hope you’re doing okay girl

    • @kamiiu
      @kamiiu 3 года назад +4

      me too

    • @nalainabbas1036
      @nalainabbas1036 3 года назад +4

      Nikki Glamour imagine having a friend like Nikki. I’d go back to school just for that and make some memories all over again.

    • @e.n.3316
      @e.n.3316 3 года назад +16

      I was the same way, quiet, small, and nerdy (and poor, my parents didn't have money like that). I looked goofy AF. My girls that lived across the street from me looked out though. They used to give me clothes and do my makeup. They always included me, and their friends would be nice to me too. They also had everyone at school shook lol nobody messed with me because of them. A year later they moved away, I was so sad. Before they left they took time to help me build my confidence to do all those things myself, taught me how to fight and everything. I didn't adjust immediately but eventually I made my own friends and faught my own battles, learned how to dress even with stuff from goodwill lol. They were a huge influence for me. Girls like Nikki leave their mark on people, even though this story wasn't that experience I'm sure she was that one for someone else without even knowing it.

  • @kristingrayden
    @kristingrayden 3 года назад +647

    I don't know why, but when I looked at the thumbnail I thought it said: "I Stopped Shaving her"...oops

    • @kailaaustin1273
      @kailaaustin1273 3 года назад +13

      Same 😭😭

    • @alexis2247
      @alexis2247 3 года назад +8

      Lmao me too 🤣

    • @njc1304
      @njc1304 3 года назад +6

      😂😂😂

    • @NikkiGlamour
      @NikkiGlamour  3 года назад +76

      HAHAHAHAHA

    • @njc1304
      @njc1304 3 года назад +31

      The situation did get a little hairy, ya know?
      😂

  • @Kay-wq3gx
    @Kay-wq3gx 3 года назад +463

    Absolutely nobody:
    Me in the bathroom doing my skin care:
    Nikki: HEY BESTFRIEND
    ME: HEY GURLLLL
    Nikki: I MISSED YOU
    ME:I MISSED YOU TO!!!!

  • @kelsbels5738
    @kelsbels5738 3 года назад +438

    YES NIKKI I NEEDED THIS GIRL SCHOOL STRESSING ME OUT

    • @NikkiGlamour
      @NikkiGlamour  3 года назад +114

      I understandddd! I got you! Take a minute, breathe, drink some water, and then kill your assignments girl. YOU GOT THIS! ❤️

    • @evelynakiwumi3548
      @evelynakiwumi3548 3 года назад +10

      I felt this. I legit thought I had class today and was reading my APUSH textbook before realizing I don't even have class or school

    • @jessicakabelwelter2774
      @jessicakabelwelter2774 3 года назад +2

      Breathe, it’s not forever. College is way better. Your gonna make it. It feels like forever but it isn’t.

  • @diegochavez6520
    @diegochavez6520 3 года назад +728

    The people who are getting mad at Nikki wouldn’t have even defended the girl in THE FIRST PLACE y’all would have sat there and let those kids bully her like the moose’s y’all are

    • @mirandanils5114
      @mirandanils5114 3 года назад +32

      omg why moose 😂😂😂

    • @jmeiahburke5388
      @jmeiahburke5388 3 года назад +19

      Not a moose now😭😭🤣🤣

    • @cherrychubbz3389
      @cherrychubbz3389 3 года назад +1

      Exactly! Periodttttttt

    • @estelitadelao2783
      @estelitadelao2783 3 года назад +8

      @@malibozicek3251 who is “we” honey, it’s literally a proven fact that majority of people say things they “would do” but when that moment actually comes they all of a sudden go MUTE 🤐

    • @malibozicek3251
      @malibozicek3251 3 года назад +1

      @@estelitadelao2783 what

  • @sandyjoseph72
    @sandyjoseph72 3 года назад +187

    You did nothing wrong. That was totally unnecessary.

  • @xaillmerino3880
    @xaillmerino3880 3 года назад +333

    I can’t stop starring at nikkis nails 😍 and her hair like Nikki has the mom look I want 🥺☺️

    • @blackopal8611
      @blackopal8611 3 года назад +8

      She looks beautiful in this vide ok
      The new hair really suits her. And her nails are impeccable

    • @grosebud4721
      @grosebud4721 3 года назад +3

      Dude that hair length is *mwah* P E R F E C T on her!

  • @vanessapeinado962
    @vanessapeinado962 3 года назад +56

    It’s the “I wasn’t the bigger person back then, I REALLY WAS NOT” for me 😂😂😂

    • @CoolWavyBaby
      @CoolWavyBaby 3 года назад +5

      You're Gorgeous‼️😻🤩😍🥰😘💋

  • @aiyner
    @aiyner 3 года назад +105

    Don’t get me wrong I have extreme social anxiety myself, but I’ve never and never would treated someone this way. Now I understand that people handle things differently, but still her actions were totally uncalled for especially when someone is being nice and sticking up for you.

  • @amaya-0860
    @amaya-0860 3 года назад +413

    There was this girl who was bullied most of her school life. Everytime on the bus people would not sit with her. One day she had an open spot next to her (only free spot on the bus) and I sat with her. I honestly dont know why ppl wont sit with her. I got to know her and she was actually somewhat of a cool person. I dont regret sitting next to her at all even tho people kept saying why you sitting next to her or eww like dont touch her. I was like wtf stfu

    • @Empathy808
      @Empathy808 3 года назад +30

      Amaya -08 what’s the worst is the teachers seeing kids get bullied and either laugh it off or fucking ignore it like it’s not serious. It’s fucked up. I’d get in trouble for defending the kiddos getting bullied, then the teachers never liked me because I always spoke up but motherfucker they never did ANYTHING to stop the bullying. It’s sad, and probably only getting worse.

  • @makxox
    @makxox 3 года назад +132

    me: *sees title* is ariel making a comeback to the channel? lmao i love you nikki ♡

  • @brandyelisea
    @brandyelisea 3 года назад +126

    “HEY BESSFRAAAAAANN‼️”
    “It’s STORYTIIIIIIIME”
    “YAS GWORL!”
    “Peace TF OUT”
    Oh, don’t mind me... just entertaining myself w/ my fav Nikki lines 🥰

  • @anyaspaulding1751
    @anyaspaulding1751 3 года назад +286

    Just me or did anyone else picture everything on the bus

    • @keiraxo2679
      @keiraxo2679 3 года назад +16

      i do that all the time when someone is telling a story 😂

    • @domination6585
      @domination6585 3 года назад +4

      This is like saying was anybody breathing while listening to the story

    • @jessicakabelwelter2774
      @jessicakabelwelter2774 3 года назад

      Yes.

    • @KCDisney1
      @KCDisney1 3 года назад +1

      Hehe I always do that. That bus in my imagination looked really crowded. Loool

    • @nikkabootravis4612
      @nikkabootravis4612 3 года назад +1

      @@keiraxo2679 lol same here

  • @starwars6718
    @starwars6718 3 года назад +234

    Social anxiety is hard to deal with it and i'm still not over it... and that sucks

    • @NikkiGlamour
      @NikkiGlamour  3 года назад +78

      It takes a minute to try to get it under control girl I understand! It doesn’t go away overnight it really is something that has to be worked on every day. I knowwww that life

    • @peanutcallada4991
      @peanutcallada4991 3 года назад +6

      Omg same and it's so annoying because I automatic bring attention to my self because im tall I'm a 6'0 girl and I'm 15 😢

    • @starwars6718
      @starwars6718 3 года назад +5

      @@NikkiGlamour It means alot to me coming from someone who i look up to as role model and no shade or anything but unlike jenny i tend to be very respectful and kind towards people even though i have issues myself i don't take it out on others

    • @kamiiu
      @kamiiu 3 года назад +1

      same here bb

    • @keiraxo2679
      @keiraxo2679 3 года назад +6

      Nikki Glamour how did you get over your social anxiety? can you make a video?

  • @emelycee6698
    @emelycee6698 3 года назад +219

    i have social anxiety and i literally COULD NOT imagine doing that to someone. either she just really didn’t fuck with anyone or she’s on the spectrum but either way that just ain’t right. i wonder how she’s doing now

    • @mariah-1993
      @mariah-1993 6 месяцев назад

      Samee but by the sound of it she might’ve been autistic ☹️

  • @baylierae5012
    @baylierae5012 3 года назад +77

    She could’ve been on the spectrum, my brother would definitely do things like that, especially if you touch his belongings. Not excusing the behavior, just explaining it.

    • @chia213
      @chia213 3 года назад +12

      maybe but she said that they were informed if they had any special needs kids & they would take a separate bus

    • @brooklynnkrueger5489
      @brooklynnkrueger5489 3 года назад +11

      @@chia213 she could of been undiagnosed

  • @zararosales6342
    @zararosales6342 3 года назад +36

    Everyone’s getting upset that she stop standing up for her.. but I would’ve done the same because I’m not gonna treat you with respect if you don’t treat me with respect. Respect is earned not given .. regardless of whatever issues you have.

  • @eliiannii
    @eliiannii 3 года назад +311

    I understand the trauma of that girl, but if someone is coming at you correct you don't have to act that way :/

  • @Mooncakeslut
    @Mooncakeslut 3 года назад +266

    I feel really bad for this Jenny girl. Honestly, I think it's very possible the reason she ignored Alisha and the other girl trying to talk to her was she felt threatened. She was probably used to being bullied and probably thought they were taking the piss/trying to be catty and pick on her. Also I feel like nobody really owes anybody anything - if a stranger comes up to you on the street and tries to engage with you, you absolutely do not have to do anything. This girl was intimidated and understandably since she would've been bullied a lot therefor constantly in defence mode. I don't agree with the pushing business on the bus though - maybe she did have a lot of built up anger but that's not an excuse to physically start bothering someone else. Idk I just really feel for the girl, she must have been really hurting.

    • @Jaraart-qw3ht
      @Jaraart-qw3ht 3 года назад +20

      Exactly what I am thinking

    • @marinamarinamarinaa
      @marinamarinamarinaa 3 года назад +31

      lol. people owe each other respect, and if they don't give it they can expect to have their ass handed back to them.

    • @retro1533
      @retro1533 3 года назад +18

      Marina EXACTLY💯 I didn’t have the best life and still don’t but I always showed EVERYBODY respect then and now

    • @mirandanils5114
      @mirandanils5114 3 года назад +6

      maybe her pain is a reason but not an excuse. you can’t continue the cycle of pain like that.

    • @holagataeang
      @holagataeang 2 года назад +3

      Excuses. I was bullied when I was in school as well and yet I still treat people with respect,kindness, and compassion regardless of how I was treated in the past. There is no way to justify her behavior that isnt just an excuse for what is honestly just bitchiness.

  • @baybeshh
    @baybeshh 3 года назад +29

    I’m an Aquarius and I’m the same way. I always gravitate toward the outcast because I don’t like seeing people being outcast. Period. I’ve had similar things happen to me. And I realized when I was treated that way by the “outcast”, it’s because those people are so used to being treated badly, they don’t know how to handle someone being nice. And when they act rude or disrespectful, it’s like their defense mechanism. Anyway love you girl!! Always look forward to your videos!

    • @litsie3755
      @litsie3755 3 года назад +5

      As a Capricorn I might be low key shy but when I see somebody being mistreated or bullied i forget about my shell and stand up for them

  • @ninaacosta2490
    @ninaacosta2490 3 года назад +50

    Guuuurrrll, you need a home skillet biscuit clothing line.

  • @ziathegoat2447
    @ziathegoat2447 3 года назад +82

    Ugh, yes! Something to watch with my breakfast! Also, let’s not even address how badass that hair is with that brown background! 🤯

  • @mariatangled
    @mariatangled 3 года назад +6

    nikki you’re so right about how damaging feeling unaccepted and bullied is to your self esteem and someone standing up for the underdogs really means the most. love people that help out

  • @mariems.5847
    @mariems.5847 Год назад +4

    😂😂😂 you had me laughing out loud when you explained that back pack struggle loolll

  • @jillian771
    @jillian771 3 года назад +13

    i’m so sad you and alicia aren’t friends anymore 😞 you always smile when you talk about her

  • @yj9005
    @yj9005 3 года назад +135

    She might’ve had Autism. My little sister has a thing with focus and if she’s focusing on something, she blocks everything out even if someone is talking to them. She also has a thing about touching other people and making eye contact.

    • @Nada-ux4we
      @Nada-ux4we 3 года назад +12

      That’s what I thought too but who am I to make that judgment

    • @user-vi6sn5bc9u
      @user-vi6sn5bc9u 3 года назад +8

      You know she be in a special need Bus

    • @yj9005
      @yj9005 3 года назад +15

      Empire of Butterflies not really. If you’re high functioning with autism, they don’t usually put you on the small bus, due to other kids needing that separation more than them.

    • @zainabzolita8436
      @zainabzolita8436 3 года назад +1

      @@user-vi6sn5bc9u not necessarily

    • @Salazuki
      @Salazuki 3 года назад +11

      Y J Not true , they still do put you on the bus and make room for you. I was one of the kids on the special bus for having agoraphobia, etc and a guy who was high functioning like he was also super popular but had autism was on our bus. (Many students like him were also on our bus)
      It’s possible that her and or her parents didn’t know and didn’t inform the school .

  • @Atomantia
    @Atomantia 3 года назад +6

    Frr people be giving themselves to bullies on a platter by being obnoxious for no reason

  • @gabijimenez6426
    @gabijimenez6426 3 года назад +148

    Ok so here’s MY story time: I’m crying rn without even seeing the video. Tears of joy because I NEEDED something to help me unwind after the horrific first week of remote learning (I’m a teacher)...so thanks Nikki lol thanks gurl

    • @anyaspaulding1751
      @anyaspaulding1751 3 года назад +12

      Hang in there it gets easier and thank you for teaching love

    • @gabijimenez6426
      @gabijimenez6426 3 года назад +5

      Anya Spaulding thank you🤍✨

    • @j4m3sph0b1c
      @j4m3sph0b1c 3 года назад +7

      Just remember that most people appreciate the work you do, but there will always be people who take you for granted

    • @gabijimenez6426
      @gabijimenez6426 3 года назад +2

      Dr.Doofinshmertz yessir

    • @kirstengolnaz7327
      @kirstengolnaz7327 3 года назад +2

      Hey, you're doing great. I'm rooting for you :)

  • @brim9961
    @brim9961 3 года назад +3

    There are certain people that it's like they don't have friends for a reason.

  • @paolamolina4879
    @paolamolina4879 3 года назад +10

    NIKKI! 🤍 I’m 31...but when you tell these stories. Girl, they take me back for sure! High school was so much fun! And everything that comes with.

  • @danielabandamarin7350
    @danielabandamarin7350 3 года назад +6

    awww you're such a good person. I was super quiet and shy in middle school, I DREADED lunch. There was this girl Gabby (and her friend) that always whenever they would see me just standing there nervous by myself, they would always invite me to hang out with them. They were also very popular and were friends with the 'popular' girls, but they were so nice!! they even came to my bday, had a big dance party at my house, watched movies and just hanged out. This reminded me of them, Gabby now has 2 little girls and a hubby and I'm so happy for her, she always has a special place in my heart!!

  • @blzzxr
    @blzzxr 3 года назад +10

    I’m dead “hey girl👀” 17:22 is everything!!

  • @chinalgona1434
    @chinalgona1434 3 года назад +22

    Girl I just left my ex caught him cheating doing drugs and I took all of the shit he threw at me. Hitting me biting me. I’m sad that I feel like I wasn’t good enough for him to change. So I’ve been on this journey of trying to get me back together. And it’s only been a week so I feel super shitty but this video made my day better.

    • @SlayerGirl18
      @SlayerGirl18 3 года назад +2

      You’re good enough. You’re better off without him sis. ☺️😊💕

    • @g.molina3269
      @g.molina3269 3 года назад +2

      Do not blame yourself for someone else’s problems when you were just trying to help! You are enough and you shouldn’t need to change your partner, find someone worthy of YOU that you don’t have to fight to change into what you’re looking for. I hope you feel better🤍

    • @missgrace97
      @missgrace97 3 года назад +1

      You don’t need no man 👏🏼

    • @chinalgona1434
      @chinalgona1434 3 года назад +2

      Thank u lady’s u have no idea how good that feels to read these messages . I really am trying to understand that concept that it wasn’t me .i really do appreciate u lady’s. 💞

    • @FaceLifeOpenMinded
      @FaceLifeOpenMinded 3 года назад

      Baby girl it was never about you. His battle is his own. You are more than good enough and you will find someone who deserves you and treats you like a queen. I hope you take the time to heal from this and find happiness in your life.

  • @jmeiahburke5388
    @jmeiahburke5388 3 года назад +6

    “I’m not doing that. I’m not doing that.” I LOVE WHEN SHE SAYS THAT😭😭❤️❤️❤️ idk whyyyy

  • @AliceMate
    @AliceMate 3 года назад +20

    I remember I had a classmate in college that was JUST.LIKE.THIS. I tried to talk to him or ask him things but apparently just because he studied in an international school in High school meant he was a ‘better person’ than us. I remembered we went to his house to do a project and the entire time he talked to ME in a condescending way, always tell me I’m doing everything wrong but in the end I’m the only one who fixed it. He also told me and our other group mates to buy our own food because he doesn’t give food to guests LIKE WHAT?! we just had to finish the project immediately and get away from him. After that I never talked to him and didn’t tried to make friends with him because of his attitude. I also punched him at one point outside of school because he thought it would be nice to touch my butt in Public- he forgot that I have quick reflexes and a mean left hook. His jaw got slightly dislocated i remembered but I told him that if he tries to contact the authorities HE would be the one in trouble instead of me.

  • @harley9989
    @harley9989 3 года назад +9

    She may have been being that rude because she'd been bullied so much. Bullies can be so passive aggressive that when you've been bullied enough its impossible to tell if someone's being legit nice you or not. I'm honestly kinda disturbed by how much this reminds me of myself in middle school (i'm autistic) and if someone that I didn't know sat next to me on the bus it was almost always to be mean, I've had to put my backpack between myself and other people because of that.

  • @amandadean9095
    @amandadean9095 3 года назад +7

    There Are Some Girls That Would Pull Really Cruel Jokes After They Would “Befriend” You. But You Are Absolutely Right In This Situation. She Didn’t Have To Be Rude On The Bus At All. Stay Great Nikki 💙 Much Love And Positive Vibes Baby 🦋

  • @lizethmendez2470
    @lizethmendez2470 3 года назад +6

    I had social anxiety and one time this girl stood up for me! I was too nervous to tell her thank you but how I wish I could have!

  • @rhiannondoyle7388
    @rhiannondoyle7388 3 года назад +23

    Can I just say she’s giving serious queen elegant vibes from this look and I’m loving it 😍😍😍 love you Nikki ! All the way from the UK! Hope ur staying safe 🥰

  • @alessandrav.3230
    @alessandrav.3230 3 года назад +2

    YEESSS! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 A video from Nikki is what I NEEDED TODAY! I was at work going on 2 hrs of sleep, nauseas. dealing w. so many Karen’s, saw my crazy ex, stained my pants w. period blood.. coming home & seeing ur notification made my day not gonna lie. Ur vids really do brighten our days 🤍 thank u Nikki!

  • @yesimoon2706
    @yesimoon2706 3 года назад +10

    God I love this girl. Why isn’t she at a million yet? ❤️

  • @morgyn9320
    @morgyn9320 3 года назад +7

    When I say that I went through the same basic plot points where I was always nice to this one girl (she wasn't being bullied or anything and she had friends but everyone thought she was pretty weird) and she was never not once kind to me and hella rude and annoying to me and my sister. I stopped trying to be nice after she crap-talked my twin sister in front of me.

  • @xoticmars
    @xoticmars 3 года назад +51

    YAYYY i needed something to watch while painting

    • @NikkiGlamour
      @NikkiGlamour  3 года назад +16

      Ohhhh!! I'm thinking about trying to paint too! i'm not artistic at all but it looks soooo relaxing!

    • @halieparker9214
      @halieparker9214 3 года назад +2

      Nikki Glamour omg do a video following a bob ross video or any painter of course

    • @xoticmars
      @xoticmars 3 года назад

      Nikki Glamour OMG YOU SHOULD DEFINITELY GET INTO IT

    • @jhordan441
      @jhordan441 3 года назад

      Nikki Glamour you should try a paint by numbers

    • @rose2654
      @rose2654 3 года назад +1

      I’m watching while painting too! 😄

  • @misaa
    @misaa 3 года назад +5

    i love that you talk to those who seem quiet because i'm a really quiet person and i have an rbf so i appreciate when people make an effort to talk to me

  • @caitlin1900
    @caitlin1900 3 года назад +55

    Nikki handled the situation in the best way she could and I appreciate you for looking out for those who have anxiety because it isn't easy. The way she treated you was unnecessary.

  • @cintiacorral3256
    @cintiacorral3256 3 года назад +9

    Do y'all ever look back at her old videos and see how much she grew like I love it I'm so happy for her ❤❤

  • @lindseyv8296
    @lindseyv8296 3 года назад +5

    Girl the hair, makeup, shirt & background 😍

  • @taylorhartstack99
    @taylorhartstack99 3 года назад +4

    I'm only at 14:25 and I'm remembering all the times people came up to my lunch table while I was reading and asked all nice if I wanted to sit with them or be friends or whatever but it would turn out to be a cruel joke. So much so that I still have trouble believing when people are nice to me. I started ignoring people too. I didnt wanna take the chance they were messing with me and make it funnier for them.

    • @taylorhartstack99
      @taylorhartstack99 3 года назад +1

      So I'm finished the video. I can tell you from experience with a high functioning special needs sister. There are a bunch of special needs kids that you wouldn't know are special needs because they are high functioning enough to be in general ed classes. THIS EXACT SCENARIO is why my sister didnt ride the bus. She got bullied so much that she did trust anyone. Coupled with her anxiety, her need for consistency, and her lack of understanding of social protocols it made for problems just like this. So my sister had a similar experience with someone who had previously been nice and helpful. I'll tell you her side and I'm not saying that's what happened with this girl but maybe

    • @taylorhartstack99
      @taylorhartstack99 3 года назад +3

      So there was a girl who had been nice to my sister a few times and stood up to her. They went on a field trip and the bus had to fill up two to a seat which she was used to riding alone. Already causing anxiety. She starts to notice as the seats fill up that others are asking to seat 3 to a seat and a few straight up say it's to avoid sitting with her. She ends up reading to try and hide her embarrassment and escape. Then the girl who had been nice comes and asks to sit next to her. She is instantly suspicious because maybe all the niceness was to trick her into this moment where something bad could happen. So she just keeps reading. She was worried that responding would kickstart whatever joke she felt was imminent. She set her backpack between them and this is where she did indeed do wrong she pushed against her backpack hoping that it would make the girl uncomfortable and she would ask to move. The entire ride everytime she heard other students laughing it..in her head was them mocking her. She kept it together but when she got home she sobbed and begged to mot have to go back

  • @shannondevlin324
    @shannondevlin324 3 года назад +17

    When she said about Alisha sitting on the seat like hey girl 😅😅😅

  • @gisellemaes
    @gisellemaes 3 года назад +7

    Tell me why “the volume inside of this bus is astronomical” is literally the first thing that came to mind when you said the bus was crowded 😂❤️ LOVE YOU NIKKI

  • @kristinasais9407
    @kristinasais9407 3 года назад +15

    The way you tell your stories is the absolute best! 😂 I’m still just wondering what’s happening with your neighbors! Lol

  • @royaltymajesty8197
    @royaltymajesty8197 3 года назад +59

    At least you took up for her when everyone eles was making fun of her. So I wouldn’t feel guilty for not taking up for her after what she did

  • @ash-vf5bs
    @ash-vf5bs 3 года назад +12

    i had real bad anxiety in high school to the point it was hard for me to socialize but i never went out of my way to be rude to people. if someone said hey to me i would at least wave or say hey. if someone needed a seat on the bus (except for this one dude bc he would literally crush me) i gotchu. she was just an asshole

  • @theboringlifeofemma9473
    @theboringlifeofemma9473 3 года назад +4

    Man that’s so upsetting that she treated you that way after u stood up for her how I wished when I was younger someone would’ve stood up for me like that or asked me to sit with them and stuff it’s very sad how people choose to bully people with social anxiety any ways that was really good thing u did for that girl kinda sad tho she turned out the way she did

  • @izzyandscratchy
    @izzyandscratchy 3 года назад +6

    YES. I love that you wanted to form your own opinion about someone and you didn’t just go along with the crowd. Not everyone is going to be cool with you and that’s ok. But for anyone who is critiquing our QUEEN - Nikki didn’t say she became a bully after this girl messed with her. That’s taking the high road!

  • @julie-go8ph
    @julie-go8ph 3 года назад +14

    Ugh I will never get over your new hair. STILL SLAYING IT

  • @Kaydollbeauty
    @Kaydollbeauty 3 года назад +3

    She reminds me so much of me I got jumped and I got bullied online and verbally constantly. I wouldn't have pushed u off the sit cuz that's not how I roll. However, there was a time in my life where I developed kind of the same angry coping mechanism for a short period of time. Where I would IGNORE people like that. In my head I would be like F all of u im gonna not speak to no one at all because no matter what people hate me. Its one of those things that sound weird but u have to go through it to understand it.. So I'm able to understand jenny that way, but I also 100% understand your side of the story and I would of been angry as well.

  • @rada9799
    @rada9799 3 года назад +6

    I couldn't stop laughing when you described that fight omg I'm crying 😂

  • @nicolegulino
    @nicolegulino 3 года назад +5

    i would have loved for someone like you and your friends to be around when i was in school. i was bullied heavily and it traumatized me. no one really stood up for me or looked out for me like that. you guys are so nice.

  • @sandraangulo424
    @sandraangulo424 3 года назад +14

    Those sound effects I can feel them in my soul 😂😂

  • @twilighthaha99
    @twilighthaha99 3 года назад +4

    I was that girl that put my backpack in the seat with me, but when someone ASKED to sit next to me, I'd move it. I wouldnt ignore them. It's rude as fuck to refuse to move it

  • @Catalyna.Salazar
    @Catalyna.Salazar 3 года назад +5

    I love her storytimes, she’s so expressive! She inspires me to share my own crazy story times😂😂💗

  • @marilynrosenguyengarcia308
    @marilynrosenguyengarcia308 3 года назад +23

    I wonder where she is at now ? Like did she ever changed ? Who did she become ? Pretty interesting lol

  • @roarroar5597
    @roarroar5597 3 года назад +10

    Imagining just waking up to niki’s story time?❤️😍😍😍

  • @polinazreiqat2984
    @polinazreiqat2984 3 года назад +9

    GIRL YOUR HAIRSTYLE IS POPPING

  • @queenivana6852
    @queenivana6852 3 года назад +10

    I have severe social anxiety and I think us with social anxiety are actually extremely nice because we are people’s pleaser. And are terrified to be judged. In conclusion I don’t think it was social anxiety what she had.

  • @victoriaann88
    @victoriaann88 3 года назад +5

    Legit was cracking up when you were acting out the pushing back and forth 😂😂😂🤣🤣 love you! 100% my favorite RUclipsr 🤗🤗🥰

  • @Gir0Fan0Number01
    @Gir0Fan0Number01 3 года назад +3

    Loving the new hair Nikki! Those curls are poppin! Absolutely beautiful!

  • @Lizjaguirre
    @Lizjaguirre 3 года назад +2

    I would never have thought you had social anxiety growing up. I’m just now barely finding out that I have it I always thought I was just really shy. I would love to kno how you “grew” out of it. It would help me soo much because it really seems like you get people with social anxiety. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @fonwijikong
    @fonwijikong 3 года назад +4

    yallll i’m soo happy for nikki , the way she has grown .😭🤍

  • @ThatsSoRachel
    @ThatsSoRachel 3 года назад +10

    Liking, commenting and watching all the ads so that nikki can make some coins

  • @SakenaRedmond
    @SakenaRedmond 3 года назад

    I’m so happy I ran across my fav type of Nikki video rn! I’m going through it rn and I was just laying in bed in the dark falling deeper and deeper into my depression and seeing this notification gave me a bit of a boost.

  • @roseprincess87
    @roseprincess87 3 года назад +4

    Commenting before watching lol, but you look gorgeous and giving me JLO in the movie Jersey Girl vibes. ❤️❤️

  • @lady_cassandra
    @lady_cassandra 3 года назад +4

    Damn that was a ride. Love how you tell stories and your personality is fire. Looking forward to more of your content girl!

  • @HerBeautysInsideOut
    @HerBeautysInsideOut 3 года назад +22

    my first thought was she was literally deaf!!

  • @imaniyup7908
    @imaniyup7908 3 года назад +2

    i used to have really bad social anxiety and i would never have been able to physical with someone for no reason like that. Completely uncalled for

  • @amyfalls
    @amyfalls 3 года назад +6

    thank you so much for being a considerate person :( my sister is a nice person but has really bad social anxiety and people always get her wrong

  • @LizGuillen222
    @LizGuillen222 3 года назад +6

    The way your hair and nails look... Nikki really did that!!!!!!!!!

  • @greekyogurt2855
    @greekyogurt2855 3 года назад +7

    Nikki is bringing the autumn vibesss🍂✨

  • @saysadyas
    @saysadyas 3 года назад +2

    i used to have severe social anxiety i would literally in every way possible avoid everyone at school i could go an entire school day without speaking HOWEVER i would never be rude to anyone EVER

  • @haileybates1958
    @haileybates1958 3 года назад +7

    Can I just say I love u nikki ur amazing and I really appreciate that u give me a break with school going on🥺🥺🥺 ilysm dont ever let any hate stop you from doing what you love🥰🥰

  • @miriamhernandez2205
    @miriamhernandez2205 3 года назад +15

    As someone who works in the medical field it sounds to me like this was deeper than social anxiety she might have had aspergers they are very socially awkward without meaning to, and they hate anyone being in their space

    • @sparklykitten0
      @sparklykitten0 3 года назад +4

      She was getting bullied tho. Of course she'll be closed off.

  • @JustGoWithItVlogs
    @JustGoWithItVlogs 3 года назад +7

    Growing up, there was a girl in my neighborhood who would get bullied all the time. She was bullied for her size and I always felt so terrible every time the kids would laugh at her or say rude things. But the minute I stood up for her and tried to become friends with her, I realized SHE was the bully. She antagonized the kids all the time, and even though I treated her with kindness, she would bully me as well. 🙁 Regardless of her intentions, I continued to make nice with her and she slowly let her guard down. We became friends and the other kids in the neighborhood slowly became friends with her as well! I think some people may be so used to being bullied that it becomes hard for them to realize that others may *actually* have good intentions! IN ALL HONESTY THOUGH, at 16 years old, I would have been furious to be treated the way Jenny treated you! Any teenager would've been! And all the people that are trying to diagnose Jenny in those comments gotta understand A TEENAGER has no right to assume the mental health of their classmates. You can't expect any type of respect without giving it. Perioddd

    • @BananaTheNinja
      @BananaTheNinja 3 года назад +2

      Exactly. And it's not even like Jenny didn't know Nikki and had like a reason to distrust her intentions, like they had worked together on projects, she was actually nice towards her, and came at the seat situation really politely. Like regardless of whatever her issues were, that doesn't justify being a jerk to the only person who's been nice to you when they just want a freaking seat.

    • @mjpink8408
      @mjpink8408 2 года назад

      Yea I’ve had that theory in my head as to why Jenny was this way!

  • @lindseyhardesty4339
    @lindseyhardesty4339 3 года назад +2

    Never been so early! Thanks for blessing us with a story time and your beautiful face! Can’t wait to hear this.

  • @jordan_higgins
    @jordan_higgins 3 года назад

    Yaaassss STORYTIME!!!!!!! Girl I've been waiting for a storytime to get me through these few weeks of my 3rd trimester. Can't wait to rewatch this 100 times!!

  • @chaeun-woon8405
    @chaeun-woon8405 3 года назад +5

    I understand you. I think you did a really good job for defending her especially when I look at the way my annoying sophomore class act, but I have to tell you she might have been rude but we don’t know what she was going through and not only that she was also getting bullied and that’s so much stress to handle. She’s human too but you did a good job. I liked this storytime. Btw I think she was being mean because I been in that situation before when you get bullied you are use to what people do to you and when I was young I used what other people did to me to others because I didn’t want others to see me as weak and pick on me. I don’t know I just wanted to tell you my opinion but I liked your story time they are all interesting

  • @TheKraziiChick
    @TheKraziiChick 3 года назад +5

    Back in my freshman year of high school, I tried to befriend the one girl who was being bullied in the class. I didn’t like how everyone in the class was mistreating her so I decided to be her friend. She was the type that wanted to be cool with everyone. I would see her at lunch try to hang out with her bullies and try to insert herself into their conversations. It was awkward to watch and I would always ask her why she was trying so hard to be liked by the people that bullied her. Never gave me a response. But we did realize we had one mutual friend that was in another class. She legit told that girl that I was talking shit about her when I wasn’t. I had that mutual friend confront me through Aim one weekend. I was shocked but that’s when I knew I couldn’t be friends with her no more. I remained cordial around her (since we had made some mutual friends) whenever we all hanged out together. But I knew she could never be trusted. She would take people’s words and twist them and go tell the other person that such and such was talking shit about you. I did come close to fighting her my senior year. My friends and I did realize how toxic she was but it wasn’t until after we graduated that we realized how she manipulated and started a lot of the drama.

  • @vhyee874
    @vhyee874 3 года назад

    Thank you girl I needed this been stressing all week and your story times help me out so much!! I love you Nikki stay gorgeous!!💖

  • @Kpurplegirl11499
    @Kpurplegirl11499 3 года назад +1

    Girl you have no idea how much I look forward to your storytimes 😭 legit the highlight of my day

  • @Eden-in6mu
    @Eden-in6mu 3 года назад +11

    Been having a rough day :( great timing!! Love u❤

  • @victoriadesbiens1142
    @victoriadesbiens1142 3 года назад +14

    I'll be honest, I thought this storytime was going to be about Ariel 😂

  • @jorlynjorgenson9049
    @jorlynjorgenson9049 3 года назад +2

    I love how you always educate on anxiety 💕