Realizing the person you were in love with is a terrible person, and is fucked up in the head is HARD. I’m sending Mandii love, my relationship ended 2 yrs ago and I’m still going through it.
It’s also hard to realize you were frontin for many years, building your brand and your connections through fucking ball players and dudes who don’t care about you, only to realize during the pandemic that people need people. A LOT of people were faking the girl boss, I don’t need a man, I can fuck like a nigga persona - ended up wanting and needed a man and affection during the solitude of Covid. It’s all cool except for those same people having shitted on women who expressed desire for relationship and building with men. Then they were “delusional” now she’s one of them. 🤷🏾 Change is good, but change is hard.
Hey girlies! I'm at 5 minutes 30 right now and I just want to talk to Mandii for a moment. You are rebuilding yourself right now. You've been through shit and navigated it in the best way you knew how, which you realize now has lead you away from yourself, your values, your worth. That's why you are scared to trust yourself, because... you did. You trusted your choice in a person who's shown you their flaws, and it lead you to this couch crying on your podcast all in the name of love (and self love!) , and I think that is the bravest thing one can do. Trust the ones we love. Trust ourselves when we can tell others do not love us how we wish to be loved. You were never wrong Mandii, you did your best with what information you knew and you have to forgive yourself for that. Feelings, relationships are not easy and I think it was your first serious one, right? Hang in there, you are an amazing woman, look at all you've built for yourself off of trusting your decision skills. Nothing is wrong with your judgment Mandii. I hope you can rebuild the trust you have for yourself, I hope you heal and I wish you find your way back to you and can maintain that through your next relationships.
I luv that Mandii showed her vulnerable side, we see it on her other pod and I'm glad we get to see it here...these men really will have Ur head fucked up lol. Dnt ever feel u cnt share if Ur having a crappy moment ladies, it's all part of life and dating and Ur fans are here for wotever u wanna share
Dang this break up is getting Mandi. I’m sorry you’re going through this, Mandi. I hope that you get the healing you need and start loving again. It’s worth it once you learn from your mistakes with your ex & apply new boundaries. With love🫶🏾 And Weezy is hilarious🤣
@@smome777 not really. if you heard the way she callously described being the presence of the wives of the men she was sleeping with, you'd understand that karma has to make its rounds.
@f.k.a1010 um.....sure but she also says that was how she survived before and she cried bc she wasn't proud of who she used to be. It's not our job to be judge, jury, and executioner of a stranger's life. We've all made mistakes.
15:48 I was just talking to my sister about this. I agree completely. Therapy is great but there should be a point where you and your therapist break up and you spin the block in times of crisis 💯💯💯💯💯
Totally agree! Some people need coaches not therapists. Some people need a short term therapy plan. Everyone’s going a little too hard on therapy and it’s not always good.
Awww, I want to give Mandii a hug. It’s a beautiful thing to be this vulnerable and also to witness your growth in this stage of your life. One day at a time. ♥️
4:31-- aww LOVE U Mandii!! Sounds like you need to re-evaluate/identify your purpose and passion...when you no longer trust yourself, its not really about the past relationship issues, its more about a crack in your foundation that needs to be identified and fortified. Hang in there boo boo!
Mandi I’m so sorry you’re goin through this, it’s understandable because you mentioned it’s your first relationship and your first love. You’ve usually guarded yourself in past dealings because it was transactional as you’ve stated so this one is going to hit different. Thanks for your transparency, its very relatable
I LOVE when the girls are genuinely enjoying having a nice lil kiki. Even the patreon episodes have been very supportive AND fun. They have worked hard to find a way to keep this sh*t going together because they both know it takes both of them to achieve what they have. They achieved alllllll this while not having the best personal relationship. That speaks volumes but I’m really glad they have days that seem to be easier to get through! 💞
Omg, I'm tearing up at 5:18 and I had to pause just to comment. I'm so sorry you went through that Mandi! I wish I could reach through the TV and give you a big hug. I literally just dumped someone who lied and cheated on me. I understand that raw feeling and the mistrust. I know this sounds cliche, but you will be so much stronger and wiser after this. Healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself. You're an amazing person. I love listening to you guys while I work from home.
Sending you all the love and light Mandi ❤ the ptsd from dealing with a narcissist really fucks with your mental because they are terrible and insidious. You’re already on the right track! Be patient with yourself during your healing journey and don’t blame yourself for being vulnerable. The only way out is through 🙏🏽
Hey Weezy, I loved how you held space for Mandii to be vulnerable while she was talking about her breakup. To you Mandii, it's hard, but you're harder, and you'll get through it
Awww Mandii wish I could hug you I know it's been tough unfortunately a lot of us women have similar stories..if you need time to be alone even away from the show it's fine you dont have to force yourself to do the show for us I understand you need time to get yourself together❤️❤️ hope you get better Queen👑
What Weezy was saying about therapy [sometimes] making things worse is real honest and im glad she shared that. I feel that way about meditation sometimes because there is a such thing as TOO much introspection sometimes 😵💫
I wish nothing but healing and peace for Mandi ❤ I hate that she's going through this terrible breakup. Thank you for being so open and honest. Much love 🫶🏽❤️
Mandi I totally feel you. I’m in my second year of my break up and it literally is so much mentally. I pray you find the peace you deserve. Love yall ladies
I’m in the same space with Mandi not know who you are right now and wanting to be your best, but not knowing where you are mentally. It’s tough especially when dating. I’m in the space also where I don’t trust myself to date, but i have a fear of if i don’t date then that isolation becomes scary to me.😢
I commend Mandii and sharing her journey with us, if your reading this I love you and thank you! And your so courageous and trust me your helping someone out there! ❤
I’m excited for Mandi to emerge from this hurt and become the new person that’s she’s suppose to be, eventually. I feel so bad for her. Not in a “woe is me” way but having your life change so drastically. At least it’s out now. I wonder if he planned to “conquer” her because the stories get crazier and crazier. You can’t help but think it’s deliberate. Much love and continued success to Mandi and Weezy 💕.
Awww Manii :( sending you so much love and healing. Please take your time with this. Not trusting yourself after something so traumatic is normal. I'm praying you and I'm praying for the day that man never crosses your mind again
Thanks for your vulnerability at the beginning Mandi. You will be the Pheonix at the end of this Healing Journey, you will be brought down to ashes to then be reborn into a beautiful bright Pheonix shinning bright as the sun! I personally went through a healing phase this last few months and it was hard but im so much better. I am currently the best version of myself that i have ever been. Thank you for sharing your experience Mandi. ❤ Love yall @whoreible
Mandii you made me cry with you, but it’s so sad that I know exactly how you feel. You have to give yourself so much grace and time, and you will be humping the couch again… trust me 😏🥹😅 appreciate you both for being so open 🤍
39:46 I went through a period where I had to introduce some dry ampoules in my cat, and after 2-3 days of moving and peeing, they'd be knocking or just fall into the toilet (I had been celibate w no master bation for 3 years at that point, so VERY CLOSED HOLE). Hope that helps with anything.
I’m sorry you feel that way Weezy. I’m an only cold with older parents and it’s on my mind too. It’s our reality and we want to prepare for it, but there’s no way to prepare. I think it’s a fear of being utterly alone in the world that scares me.
Yo I was thinking the same thing. I think Weezy doesn’t really know what to say and how to make it better so she changes the subject to kinda help get them on the next page. Totally just guessing though. But I dead ass laughed at home my bitch just changes the subject. No transition. No emotion. Just next page. 😂😂😂
“Dungeons & Dragons” is 1 of my favorite movies all because it’s Action Pack but just listening to y’all to both, reminds me of an Action Pack… By the way I love y’all ways 100% ❤🔥❤🔥
Weezy has a point when talking about therapy. Honestly therapy should help with teaching someone the tools to deal with their problems outside of sessions. Only in serious circumstances and cases should someone do therapy for a long term, ironically the goal of therapy is to be able to not have to come back (only on need-to basis) lol
Great episodes ladies❤. Mandii I hope you find the strength to get through this tough time and I love how you have the ability and the mindset to keep showing up for yourself. You’re not the problem, it’s these 🥷🏾.
Wwwooww, okay this is a very interesting thing happening with you Mandi. Every one of us hits a wall where we see that we need to invest in ourselves! This is probably the best thing to happen to you, and it hurts so bad but ...ots about to be lot flr you babes
We are praying for you Mandi🙏🏽Just know that celibacy brings clarity. You will feel hyper sensitive for a while bc your thoughts and judgement aren’t clouded by sex. I know you don’t believe in this..but God is always speaking to your spirit and when you remove things like sex you are more in tune to what’s being spoken to your spirit and soul. Let God continue to cleanse and reshape your heart. It will be worth it I promise❤️
It always makes me laugh so hard when the other woman wants to talk about how bad the man’s relationship was. It’s giving gullible as hell. It’s giving pick me pick me!!
Realizing the person you were in love with is a terrible person, and is fucked up in the head is HARD. I’m sending Mandii love, my relationship ended 2 yrs ago and I’m still going through it.
Dealing with the same and I think the hardest part is letting go of the image you had of them in the beginning which wasn't the real them anyway smh
It’s also hard to realize you were frontin for many years, building your brand and your connections through fucking ball players and dudes who don’t care about you, only to realize during the pandemic that people need people. A LOT of people were faking the girl boss, I don’t need a man, I can fuck like a nigga persona - ended up wanting and needed a man and affection during the solitude of Covid. It’s all cool except for those same people having shitted on women who expressed desire for relationship and building with men. Then they were “delusional” now she’s one of them. 🤷🏾
Change is good, but change is hard.
Hey girlies! I'm at 5 minutes 30 right now and I just want to talk to Mandii for a moment. You are rebuilding yourself right now. You've been through shit and navigated it in the best way you knew how, which you realize now has lead you away from yourself, your values, your worth. That's why you are scared to trust yourself, because... you did. You trusted your choice in a person who's shown you their flaws, and it lead you to this couch crying on your podcast all in the name of love (and self love!) , and I think that is the bravest thing one can do. Trust the ones we love. Trust ourselves when we can tell others do not love us how we wish to be loved. You were never wrong Mandii, you did your best with what information you knew and you have to forgive yourself for that. Feelings, relationships are not easy and I think it was your first serious one, right? Hang in there, you are an amazing woman, look at all you've built for yourself off of trusting your decision skills.
Nothing is wrong with your judgment Mandii. I hope you can rebuild the trust you have for yourself, I hope you heal and I wish you find your way back to you and can maintain that through your next relationships.
Love this ❤
This is beautiful 💕 couldn’t agree more
I luv that Mandii showed her vulnerable side, we see it on her other pod and I'm glad we get to see it here...these men really will have Ur head fucked up lol. Dnt ever feel u cnt share if Ur having a crappy moment ladies, it's all part of life and dating and Ur fans are here for wotever u wanna share
Dang this break up is getting Mandi. I’m
sorry you’re going through this, Mandi. I hope that you get the healing you need and start loving again. It’s worth it once you learn from your mistakes with your ex & apply new boundaries. With love🫶🏾
And Weezy is hilarious🤣
Yea ts is really working her
It's just part of her karma. She has more heartbreaks to go through.
@f.k.a1010 this feels pretty evil to say..... ://
@@smome777 not really. if you heard the way she callously described being the presence of the wives of the men she was sleeping with, you'd understand that karma has to make its rounds.
@f.k.a1010 um.....sure but she also says that was how she survived before and she cried bc she wasn't proud of who she used to be.
It's not our job to be judge, jury, and executioner of a stranger's life.
We've all made mistakes.
Mandi my love 🥹 you are closing an era and a lot of things will die in order to make space for the new 🤧🫶🏽
This.
15:48 I was just talking to my sister about this. I agree completely. Therapy is great but there should be a point where you and your therapist break up and you spin the block in times of crisis 💯💯💯💯💯
Totally agree! Some people need coaches not therapists. Some people need a short term therapy plan. Everyone’s going a little too hard on therapy and it’s not always good.
Awww, I want to give Mandii a hug. It’s a beautiful thing to be this vulnerable and also to witness your growth in this stage of your life. One day at a time. ♥️
I totally understand what Mandii is going through. I'm questioning a lot now
Same
Sammmmeee these ninjas and trauma are crazy
totally relatable to Mandii on all levels🙏🏾
Aww Mandi I love your transpency !! and I relate so much to how you feel! Sending you hugs
I absolutely love these episodes with no guests❤️❤️❤️
The dialogue is too relatable
4:31-- aww LOVE U Mandii!! Sounds like you need to re-evaluate/identify your purpose and passion...when you no longer trust yourself, its not really about the past relationship issues, its more about a crack in your foundation that needs to be identified and fortified. Hang in there boo boo!
Mandi I’m so sorry you’re goin through this, it’s understandable because you mentioned it’s your first relationship and your first love. You’ve usually guarded yourself in past dealings because it was transactional as you’ve stated so this one is going to hit different. Thanks for your transparency, its very relatable
I LOVE when the girls are genuinely enjoying having a nice lil kiki. Even the patreon episodes have been very supportive AND fun. They have worked hard to find a way to keep this sh*t going together because they both know it takes both of them to achieve what they have. They achieved alllllll this while not having the best personal relationship. That speaks volumes but I’m really glad they have days that seem to be easier to get through! 💞
Omg, I'm tearing up at 5:18 and I had to pause just to comment. I'm so sorry you went through that Mandi! I wish I could reach through the TV and give you a big hug. I literally just dumped someone who lied and cheated on me. I understand that raw feeling and the mistrust. I know this sounds cliche, but you will be so much stronger and wiser after this. Healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself. You're an amazing person. I love listening to you guys while I work from home.
Sending you all the love and light Mandi ❤ the ptsd from dealing with a narcissist really fucks with your mental because they are terrible and insidious. You’re already on the right track! Be patient with yourself during your healing journey and don’t blame yourself for being vulnerable. The only way out is through 🙏🏽
Hey Weezy, I loved how you held space for Mandii to be vulnerable while she was talking about her breakup. To you Mandii, it's hard, but you're harder, and you'll get through it
🫶🏽 sending love to Mandi. Seeing y’all growth and friendship change over the years has been so dope to watch. Love the content ladies ❤
Watching Mandi's journey is amazing, the growth!
Awww Mandii wish I could hug you I know it's been tough unfortunately a lot of us women have similar stories..if you need time to be alone even away from the show it's fine you dont have to force yourself to do the show for us I understand you need time to get yourself together❤️❤️ hope you get better Queen👑
This typpa break up took me 2yrs to heal 😂chill.
.
But after you heal from this you become the best version of you
What Weezy was saying about therapy [sometimes] making things worse is real honest and im glad she shared that. I feel that way about meditation sometimes because there is a such thing as TOO much introspection sometimes 😵💫
I wish nothing but healing and peace for Mandi ❤ I hate that she's going through this terrible breakup. Thank you for being so open and honest. Much love 🫶🏽❤️
Mandi I totally feel you. I’m in my second year of my break up and it literally is so much mentally. I pray you find the peace you deserve. Love yall ladies
I’m in the same space with Mandi not know who you are right now and wanting to be your best, but not knowing where you are mentally. It’s tough especially when dating. I’m in the space also where I don’t trust myself to date, but i have a fear of if i don’t date then that isolation becomes scary to me.😢
Same and so many women are because so many of these "men" aren't ish ugh
I just love how you both seeming like y'all really having fun together ❤
I commend Mandii and sharing her journey with us, if your reading this I love you and thank you! And your so courageous and trust me your helping someone out there! ❤
See y’all Seattle heaux on Thursday!!!
solo episodes are the best
Mandy thank you for your transparency ❤
The hardest part of healing from a break up/the trauma of a toxic relationship is forgiving yourself and retrusting yourself
“ just cause he bald “ 😂
I'm sorry you're going through this, Mandii. I can completely relate to what you are going through. It'll all get better in time. ❤
Mando started crying & I did too. Praying that she heals from this. 💜
I’m excited for Mandi to emerge from this hurt and become the new person that’s she’s suppose to be, eventually. I feel so bad for her. Not in a “woe is me” way but having your life change so drastically. At least it’s out now. I wonder if he planned to “conquer” her because the stories get crazier and crazier. You can’t help but think it’s deliberate. Much love and continued success to Mandi and Weezy 💕.
I love you Mandii B and Weezy ❤❤
Not the episode being released 6pm west coast time, I can get used to that! Can’t wait to see y’all at Bimbo’s in SF this weekend!
Mandi made me cry. Im in the same place too. Its a crazy feeling but I hope things will get better.
They always get better. Sending you a hug.
Awww Manii :( sending you so much love and healing. Please take your time with this. Not trusting yourself after something so traumatic is normal. I'm praying you and I'm praying for the day that man never crosses your mind again
Mandii I appreciate how open you’re being about your heartbreak. I love you deeply and hope you can come out stronger from this
Thanks for your vulnerability at the beginning Mandi. You will be the Pheonix at the end of this Healing Journey, you will be brought down to ashes to then be reborn into a beautiful bright Pheonix shinning bright as the sun! I personally went through a healing phase this last few months and it was hard but im so much better. I am currently the best version of myself that i have ever been. Thank you for sharing your experience Mandi. ❤ Love yall @whoreible
Mandii you made me cry with you, but it’s so sad that I know exactly how you feel. You have to give yourself so much grace and time, and you will be humping the couch again… trust me 😏🥹😅 appreciate you both for being so open 🤍
Love you mandi nd how open you can be.
Your healing I can't wait for you to be on the other side if this.
Can’t wait for you guys to be in Phx
See you in Phoenix!!!! ❤
Mandy your vulnerability is beautiful. Thank you for sharing and good luck on your celibacy journey 🤎🤎🤎🤎
I feel so special watching this early lol … I hope nobody get fired tho 🤣
Blessings knowing 3+3+4= ? In your Native Language with or without the Tribes of Israel? Would you travel to Israel with or without a Israelite?
@17:54 Mandii, we made the same face 🥴🤣
39:46 I went through a period where I had to introduce some dry ampoules in my cat, and after 2-3 days of moving and peeing, they'd be knocking or just fall into the toilet (I had been celibate w no master bation for 3 years at that point, so VERY CLOSED HOLE). Hope that helps with anything.
Awww Mandi I wish for your healing and true love
wow mandi, love you, dont cry baby girl, I feel you so deep
weezy crazy...
〽️🌜🎷🥳🥳🥳
I’m sorry you feel that way Weezy. I’m an only cold with older parents and it’s on my mind too. It’s our reality and we want to prepare for it, but there’s no way to prepare. I think it’s a fear of being utterly alone in the world that scares me.
16:19 was me realizing just because your around them don’t mean they can help
I Love Weezy talking about lets prank call LOL
Mandii… sending you so much love, babe. I’m two years into being single and I still feel the same way. ❤
Damn the first minutes in and I wanted to give mandi a comforting hug🤗🤗🤗
you guys are hilarious, love you guys
The way that Mandi will speak about herself and Weezy will just respond with stuff about her then change the topic 😂😂😂 you may have ADHD girl 😂😂😂😂
Damn sis I really tried to be quiet in the beginning lmao - but I do have it.
@@DecisionsPod It can also be perceived as empathy.
NO...WEEZY IS JUST LIKE GIRLLLLL GET OVER IT!!
Yo I was thinking the same thing. I think Weezy doesn’t really know what to say and how to make it better so she changes the subject to kinda help get them on the next page. Totally just guessing though.
But I dead ass laughed at home my bitch just changes the subject. No transition. No emotion. Just next page. 😂😂😂
@@KarterChanellenooooooo I just was trying to relate!
This episode you guys🔥🔥🔥🙏🙏🙌🙌
39:50 WILD!!! THREE DAYS, Then you pee'd it out. 'Unbelievable Geoff!'
On what Musical balance is your Podcast language scale on at the moment beyond Religion and Business
I love how extra weezy is 😂😂
See yall in the Bayyyy!
Weezy it’s ok to be transparent and I’m praying for your healing ❤
Mandii you'll get through it girl ❤
Weezy😍.. I’ll be in LA from the 13-18.. I’ll be at the show for sure
I’m SCREAMING!!!! My ex lied about cancer too!!! They are crazy…but also it is super damaging being with someone like that
We love you Mandii!! ❤
Really enjoyed this episode
Sending you hugs Mandii 🤗
Im doing photography for Mandi and Weezy tmrw in sf, I definitely gotta talk to Weezy about that bay area stuff shes confused😂
Can't imagine someone podd'n about me giving out mid peen. Redeem your stroke Bro! 🤣🤣🤣
Sending love to you mandiii 🩷
“Dungeons & Dragons” is 1 of my favorite movies all because it’s Action Pack but just listening to y’all to both, reminds me of an Action Pack…
By the way I love y’all ways 100% ❤🔥❤🔥
Yo the part of the convo about acting crazy over good dick had me dying lol
Question: Is thinking or speaking out loud without fear make you human?
Weezy has a point when talking about therapy. Honestly therapy should help with teaching someone the tools to deal with their problems outside of sessions. Only in serious circumstances and cases should someone do therapy for a long term, ironically the goal of therapy is to be able to not have to come back (only on need-to basis) lol
I felt when weezy expressed her fear of losing her mom. I lost my dad and the fear of losing my mother has been bothering me a lot lately.
Great episodes ladies❤. Mandii I hope you find the strength to get through this tough time and I love how you have the ability and the mindset to keep showing up for yourself. You’re not the problem, it’s these 🥷🏾.
Stop saying this the last tour, you hurting my feelings 😂
YAY THE BAYYYYYYYYY!!!!!
😢 Mandii made me cry
Me too😢
It took me like 5 years to get over feeling the way mandi does. It does get better but It is no joke during. Much love 🫶
56:39 I don't believe he needed to tell Weezy about his situation yet. They didn't even go on a "date".
Good episode !
Aww Mandy we love you
We love you Mandi ❤️🩹❤️🩹
Wwwooww, okay this is a very interesting thing happening with you Mandi. Every one of us hits a wall where we see that we need to invest in ourselves! This is probably the best thing to happen to you, and it hurts so bad but ...ots about to be lot flr you babes
you were in love, time will heal! never give yourself 100%
That ain't bay are 😂
Weezy. Your rings are FIRE... Who designed it?
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Not well well 😂😂😂😂😂
It is a turn-off when you are dealing with somebody, and she or he compares you with the ex.
Breath in breath out is not our song 😹😹😹😹😹
❤❤❤❤❤
We are praying for you Mandi🙏🏽Just know that celibacy brings clarity. You will feel hyper sensitive for a while bc your thoughts and judgement aren’t clouded by sex. I know you don’t believe in this..but God is always speaking to your spirit and when you remove things like sex you are more in tune to what’s being spoken to your spirit and soul. Let God continue to cleanse and reshape your heart. It will be worth it I promise❤️
It always makes me laugh so hard when the other woman wants to talk about how bad the man’s relationship was. It’s giving gullible as hell. It’s giving pick me pick me!!
Aww….Mandi in the beginning. 💔😢