I got pregnant at 18 on purpose and told everyone it was an accident

I got pregnant at 18 on purpose and told everyone it was an accident #reddit #askreddit #redditstories

[@AmethystEyes]

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

[@ZippyPiglin36]

Isn't it technically rape to engage in sexual activity with someone in different circumstances than what was said when the other party consented?
Let's see it this way: If the male says that he is using condoms and the female agrees, but during intercourse the male take off the condom without the female's knowledge, it is rape.
Now, just because one party has to bear the child doesn't mean that the other party is necessarily free here.
In the OP's case, the OP (female) intentionally stopped using protection, but the male consented when OP was using protection.
Taking the previous example analogy, both parties consent when using protection, but one party intentionally and secretly stops using protection.

[@themartdog]

I don't think it's defined as r* but it's definitely some sort of crime in many places. That said, it's impossible to prove in either direction

[@aitanacruz9882]

@@themartdog Stealthing (when a man removes the condom without telling the woman) is not criminalized in most U.S States nor in most countries, though we do have a few cases of it being treated as rape by a court of law. So I imagine the reverse would be even harder to be considered rape, though if the man is very lucky it might help prevent child support.

[@ZippyPiglin36]

@@themartdog What makes you law and justice are the same thing?

[@themartdog]

Imagine having your whole life ahead of you and your only dream is to pop out a screaming kid

[@holly7214]

I always lowkey suspect this is the case whenever anyone says that their pregnancy was unplanned. I always think, ‘probably unplanned for the father…’

[@ZomBabeZoe]

Silly girl