He cuts right through it! I have his book, actually I got the e-book so I could listen to it when I was driving to and from work or just in the car. It's amazing and hilarious at the same time 😂
He’s just a good guy man. I have read and watched a lot about him. Very humble. Came from literally nothing and built his empire and stayed humble and encouraging and funny. Appreciate people like him with great stories
I just went through a break up about an hour ago. I have this protective mechanism where I just shut down every feeling I had for the person, regardless of how much I loved them and I really loved him but I feel Ok. I thought he would be the one for me but I guess I was wrong. He isn't a bad person at all, he just has a hard time being vulnerable and showing his emotions and I think this is what ended US. I will be alright all I want to do right now is work on myself and be better to welcome the one who's for me. I don't want to make any more mistakes
Forgot to mention I'm a virgin and one thing that I appreciated about him was the fact that he respected that and although he wasn't a virgin he had lived (as in, he slept with a few people before we met🙃 so he was very experienced) he matured enough to the point where he wanted a wife. Someone who wanted sex only after marriage which was music to my ears, even when we were close to doing it he stopped it because he respected me enough to not allow me to make a decision in the heat of a moment, he admitted that he was tempted to just say fuck it and do it because he was very attracted to me, he was turned on every time we hung out but his respect for me prevented him from listening to his needs as a man. He is AMAZING I never thought I'd ever meet a man like him. thought I would have had to convince someone to wait but I felt so blessed that I met him. We talked about the future and he told me that he thinks about different ways he would propose to me and he definitely saw us getting married in the future. I'm a pisces he's a cancer. We thought we were soulmates, he's everything I've ever dreamed of my man to be like but unfortunate, you can't always have what you want or things do not always happen the way you want them to. Was trying to avoid thinking about the positives sides of him because it makes me miss him more but whatever
I recently heard comedian say something like, "I think women's intuition is a lie, it doesn't exist (listen to all the women in the audience boo), then he says, "If you have intuition, how come it took so long for you to figure out that I'm an asshole?" You could also say the same things about women, men need to listen to their gut before getting involved with some psycho who is only after his wallet, use you gut and think with the head that is on top of your shoulders. Be very aware of what her intentions for you are. Is she only using you or is she really interested in knowing you and developing something, well at least for a while anyway. My first instinct is ALWAYS, OK, what the hell does she want out of me? See ladies, it works both ways., great huh?
Dont agree with this comment. By saying.this you are saying.that your opinion is always right but who's to honestly say that you dont have issues within yourself that are stopping you from seeing a good man
My now husband started taking care of me from day one! We met in college right at the end of the year. During the summer I was in NJ and he was in Canada. He let me know right away that he was interested in me and was not playing around. He wanted a girlfriend. Throughout the whole summer we called each other and talked ON THE PHONE. We decided to start being serious with each other on July 9th. soon after, he sent me flowers just because. Then for my birthday on July 30th he sent me Roses and a teddy bear. Then at some other point he sent me an amazon gift card so that I could buy stuff I wanted. It wasn't much bc we were in college but it was the thought that mattered. We have been married for 13 years, together for 15 and have two kids. We are actually better today than we were back in college!
Very encouraging uplifting story.im a guy,in a relationship with a woman 10 years my senior,& we are having a blast,so much so a woman 14 years my junior nicknamed us 16&15!we kiss& hug in public& we love it.but I told her it's feelings that count,& we look for ways to please each other.God bless you both!
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Not true all the time, I fell madly in love with a man, that's 56 yrs.old man. He loves his mom like crazy, hick I love her. He has 7 sisters., he love and adores each woman.....And yet to treat a woman right. No matter what. I have to give it to him, he's smooth with the talk and actions at the begin. Then you name.......Smh.
90 day "probation period" and ask up-front what his intentions are. Yes! Men are either playing with you, or planing with you. Does your guy have a plan with you?!
After three months he's been with other women. He's suggesting whore mongering. Read the Bible! Why would you want to think like a man. Who the f..k is Steve Harvey the comedian?
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
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Women are not faultless when it comes to not revealing intentions. Most women keep a bird in the bush (to take them to dinner and movues if they have not found their dream guy) and continue to shop for something better. Even better most women always have a man waiting in the wings if their main target does not work out.
A female should always wait,cause guys really what sex above a lot of things.i want sex from a woman,but what I've learned is that it's far better to have to have a man who has your back,& be there for the long haul,no matter what,but that woman has to do her part by finding out about him& let him know.Steve gave some great advice.
@@kirsten1007 This was how it was back then. What ruined it is the woman that the guy waited for stepped out, so now guys don't wanna wait as there are men who don't have to
Yes he is actually right but also consider this, don't be a doble standard society. Don't touch or mislead a woman if you have no future plans with her. What comes around comes back around.
I am actually cool with that as long as women do the same. Do not let me waste my time wining and dining you if you already know you are not interested. Better yet, do not agree to marry me unless you are passionately in love with me.
I remember I asked a guy what his intentions were and he was like, "Wooow I see you like getting straight to the point..." 😂😂😂. I don't know why guys don't expect us to ask them these kind of questions at this time and age.
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Thank you so much for your lovely comments. My husband does tell me constantly that he loves me,calls me a hundred times a day while he's at work,and is a good husband in every way. If you seriously want a good woman,you must be a good man. So if you speak vulgar for example,you cant really expect your wife not too.Not saying that you're not a good man,but there's an expression, like attracts like. You will attract someone with good values if you yourself have good values,and im sure you do!!!
Absolutely Love Steve! Listened to him on Oprah’s Master Class and his story is inspiring. I want to leave a legacy behind when I go, like Steve, so my children’s children will remember what I gave them.
This is something that each one of us should incorporate in our relationship. It's very helpful to me since I just reconcile with my partner and I don't want to lose him again anymore.
The story he says in the beginning is true. It happened to me. I felt disrespected with how he spoke and had this gut feeling that I deserved more. So I made it clear to him that that was what I was looking for and I didn't want to waste my time with someone who speaks that way to me (one time offender but still) so I ended it. He definitely changed his act (which I wasn't expecting) and I've never seen a man work so hard for me... happily. :)
@@jackie41083 thanks for your comment! I forgot I wrote this 10 years ago! Yes, we are happily married 🥰 Steve is right on the money. Old fashioned works and you gotta be very straightforward with men.
@@BeautifulDreamerK Oh, wow! That’s amazing 🥰 I’m so happy for you. I guess men can really change for a woman they want. I would’ve seen that as a red flag, but I guess if we address something, and they change it, they really want to make it work. Cheers to ya
Lol Steve is the man he always keep it real at the end of the day we all make mistakes nobody is perfect God gave this man a second chance and I respect Steve for that
his insight is EXPERIENCE and OBSERVATION. Not all men possess that ability. Also, he has not claim to be an expert on relationships. He tells women how men behave and why they behave the way they do. SIMPLE
Trust me if he acting at some point the real him will come out and 90 days is along wait for players.If you pay attention to the details you will see the red flags.
Ellen many many years ago. You gave us a ride home after your performance. I'll never forget this time. You are such a lovely lady. Thank you so much. You touched my heart.
We don’t know how men think because men are not honest even if we ask them . They twist information however favors them, that’s why us women don’t know. I didn’t read your book but you give great advice from videos I was watching . Smart talk!
Do a background and serious reconnaissance. Do what you have to do. Got cameras now you can't even SEE. Your house, you can rig it up as you want. I stf would.
"my milkshake brings all the boys to the yard and their like it's better than yours" Thats what came to my mind when Ellen said don't let them boys in your yard :P
christi crenshaw bullshit. Yall do nag. He's just been rich long enough. His wife probably leaves him alone lol. Regular women will bring up uncomfortable conversations with terrible timing. When a man comes in from work give him 90 minutes to decompress first. If the game is on, the convo can wait til tomorrow. Very simple things that can avoid antagonizing your partner. Lol
@@istayfliNY Yeah they want to fix things & be Superman hero God ego complex so why else use this. Just as I thought last few yrs & that it dawned on me. It so an excuse to avoid revealing truth of things & how they genuinely think, feel, and not commit, avoid it ATM or indefinitely forever so won't be vulnerable showing weakness you can use against him ! ! !
The Illest Creation “if the game is on it can wait til tomorrow “ bitch really ? Ok so if I cheated and real housewives of atl is on it better wait til tomorrow 😂😂😂😂
As informational as this interview is and I have watched it over and over again. The best part is Steve's face when the women go crazy after he says Cupid. 🤣
If your standard is to wait until marriage then that is what he has to meet You're either valuable and worth it to him or you're not In the meantime I haven't lost anything
Well said 🙌 Thank you so much as I needed to hear this!!! Definitely resonates with me and making a lot of changes while single so when the time comes I know. Thanks, Steve!
I can comfirm almost every thing this man said. I do wish he also mentioned that men should also have higher standards as well. I've seen too many men and women set their standards too low.
That never gets addressed by him. Men all too often get caught up in a woman's physical features. More often that not, that is the only good thing these women bring to any relationship. Women can get caught up in physical looks but they are usually attracted to status or a strong personality--without giving the slightest thought to character because they see good men as boring.
Look beyond. I know a guy dating a cute girl, but KNOWN and ADMITTED as well as ACTIVE drug addict!! Yeah, cute isn't everything. Hope he doesn't get AIDS or something. Drug addicts are not picky about who they whore around with.
Yep, Love his advice & book! But what should men hear & work on? why does it seem like its all on the woman? how about Steve write a book to encourage/teach more men to “Quit Playing & Do More Planning”. I guess its like there will always be crime so get an alarm system & security bars…boys will be boys😳 After losing his wife once he almost lost her again had she not called him to the carpet…smh, Lord help me. Stand Up Men Love ya! women are tired of having to say stand up! Here’s another analogy-just because you see a window open or door unlocked @ someones home, doesn’t mean you can go in & take stuff! Who raised you??!! smh
“We’re either playing with you or planning with you.” That is gold!!!!
He cuts right through it! I have his book, actually I got the e-book so I could listen to it when I was driving to and from work or just in the car. It's amazing and hilarious at the same time 😂
That is disgusting
@@HarleeGurl is he the narrator?
O man...that's true...and scary
How to know it
He’s just a good guy man. I have read and watched a lot about him. Very humble. Came from literally nothing and built his empire and stayed humble and encouraging and funny. Appreciate people like him with great stories
Except for the cheating part...
Any man can do that, it's what they're built for
@@babyc.3015 lol wtf
Am also a good guy
@@billionanime1592 Lmao
Crazy this advice was dropped 10 years ago but is still so relevant!
Yeah ENJOY being SINGLE more until last day of your LIFE!
Yassssss girlll
ukr!
That cos men don't change 🤣
Men wil always be Men thats why
I'm a 30 year old man and I have never cheated and what he is saying is true.
Where you at 😊
@@Sfw20brinoue 7 years in the past
@@Sfw20brinoue 7 years ago...check his comment
This comment gave me hope for my life :)
how do you feel after 9 years now 🧍
Everyone is laughing, but he’s telling the truth! Listening with a broken heart!
Are you feeling better friend?
Amanda Tidwell me too .... listening with a broken heart (and I made him wait 90 days) 😂😂😂😂
I just went through a break up about an hour ago. I have this protective mechanism where I just shut down every feeling I had for the person, regardless of how much I loved them and I really loved him but I feel Ok. I thought he would be the one for me but I guess I was wrong. He isn't a bad person at all, he just has a hard time being vulnerable and showing his emotions and I think this is what ended US. I will be alright all I want to do right now is work on myself and be better to welcome the one who's for me. I don't want to make any more mistakes
Forgot to mention I'm a virgin and one thing that I appreciated about him was the fact that he respected that and although he wasn't a virgin he had lived (as in, he slept with a few people before we met🙃 so he was very experienced) he matured enough to the point where he wanted a wife. Someone who wanted sex only after marriage which was music to my ears, even when we were close to doing it he stopped it because he respected me enough to not allow me to make a decision in the heat of a moment, he admitted that he was tempted to just say fuck it and do it because he was very attracted to me, he was turned on every time we hung out but his respect for me prevented him from listening to his needs as a man. He is AMAZING I never thought I'd ever meet a man like him. thought I would have had to convince someone to wait but I felt so blessed that I met him. We talked about the future and he told me that he thinks about different ways he would propose to me and he definitely saw us getting married in the future. I'm a pisces he's a cancer. We thought we were soulmates, he's everything I've ever dreamed of my man to be like but unfortunate, you can't always have what you want or things do not always happen the way you want them to. Was trying to avoid thinking about the positives sides of him because it makes me miss him more but whatever
Ah yeah. It’s a painful process. Amanda you will be okay xoxo
This is such a great book but I think the biggest thing of all is always trust your intuition. Ladies! Your gut feeling is always right about a man 💯%
I recently heard comedian say something like, "I think women's intuition is a lie, it doesn't exist (listen to all the women in the audience boo), then he says, "If you have intuition, how come it took so long for you to figure out that I'm an asshole?" You could also say the same things about women, men need to listen to their gut before getting involved with some psycho who is only after his wallet, use you gut and think with the head that is on top of your shoulders. Be very aware of what her intentions for you are. Is she only using you or is she really interested in knowing you and developing something, well at least for a while anyway. My first instinct is ALWAYS, OK, what the hell does she want out of me? See ladies, it works both ways., great huh?
YUSSSSSSS!
That's the key! Some advice is good, but follow your own intuition 1st
Have a guy friend with you or a woman that doesn't like your type. They'll spot all the flags right off.
Dont agree with this comment. By saying.this you are saying.that your opinion is always right but who's to honestly say that you dont have issues within yourself that are stopping you from seeing a good man
"Messin' up those flowers, diggin' holes..." LMAO, I LOVE Steve Harvey!!!!!!
13 years later and his advice is still very true ! 👍
Facts .
This book actually changed my life.
"Y'all keep talking to each other bout men, and keep swapping stupid information" I HOLLERED!! THAT WAS SO TRUE AND FUNNY!"
😂yes
EXACTLY
I read your comment as he said it 😁😁😁
My now husband started taking care of me from day one! We met in college right at the end of the year. During the summer I was in NJ and he was in Canada. He let me know right away that he was interested in me and was not playing around. He wanted a girlfriend. Throughout the whole summer we called each other and talked ON THE PHONE. We decided to start being serious with each other on July 9th. soon after, he sent me flowers just because. Then for my birthday on July 30th he sent me Roses and a teddy bear. Then at some other point he sent me an amazon gift card so that I could buy stuff I wanted. It wasn't much bc we were in college but it was the thought that mattered. We have been married for 13 years, together for 15 and have two kids. We are actually better today than we were back in college!
Very encouraging uplifting story.im a guy,in a relationship with a woman 10 years my senior,& we are having a blast,so much so a woman 14 years my junior nicknamed us 16&15!we kiss& hug in public& we love it.but I told her it's feelings that count,& we look for ways to please each other.God bless you both!
So happy you found each other! So many of us aren’t so lucky, but it gives us hope for live & happiness! 🙏🏼💕🤗
im 58yrs old. the best advice i can give ladies on dating is this: how a man talks about and treats his mother will tell you everything you need to know. if he disrespects the first woman in his life,the one who gave him life,then thats how hes going to treat all the other women in his life. if possible,watch and listen to him when hes around his mama. dont tell him what youre doing cause he can be faking it to impress you. good luck. i wish someone had told me this when i first started dating.
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Cathy T this is not true. His mother could’ve treated him bad his whole life. You don’t know everyone’s situation
@@emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 really
Not true all the time, I fell madly in love with a man, that's 56 yrs.old man. He loves his mom like crazy, hick I love her. He has 7 sisters., he love and adores each woman.....And yet to treat a woman right. No matter what. I have to give it to him, he's smooth with the talk and actions at the begin. Then you name.......Smh.
What about amamas boy. He gets what he wsnts
Who is here December 2019
2020 lol
How he lifts Ellen hands for a high five 😂I love this man
90 day "probation period" and ask up-front what his intentions are. Yes! Men are either playing with you, or planing with you. Does your guy have a plan with you?!
Kyra Renee T this is excellently stated Kyra
Stop letting men step in your yard wanting to taste your cookies .
After three months he's been with other women. He's suggesting whore mongering. Read the Bible! Why would you want to think like a man. Who the f..k is Steve Harvey the comedian?
Yes because fuckboys are always 100 percent honest right? Lol
@@kathysmall6303 Well if they are not, you waste only 90 days.
Steve is a fucking genius. I cannot believe he spit that much knowledge in 2 seconds. Such an eye opening video
His books r so good own teo of them and don't regret buying them
Kelli R. Morris You do that with every man you've been with.
Read the book It is a GEM
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
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Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
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Steve; "if there wasn't women in this world I wouldn't even bathe"
Ellen: "amen brother"
*clap*
so wholesome this cracked me up
Hahhhhhhhhhhhhh
😂😂😂😂😂 that part
Timestamp pleEASE!? I DESERVE IT
Love Steve H. Every woman should have standards. A man should be able to tell a woman his intentions.
True
Sheila Garner I love you there
i doubt woman tell their intentions either
Women are not faultless when it comes to not revealing intentions. Most women keep a bird in the bush (to take them to dinner and movues if they have not found their dream guy) and continue to shop for something better. Even better most women always have a man waiting in the wings if their main target does not work out.
And women should be ready to find out their true intentions
Watching this April 2019
Watching in May 2019 😂
@@Rita-yb6pk 😂😂😂
Who is there in January 2020?
Shut up.
It's July already
Alexis Marie Cruz, September.
I own his book and it's absolutely one of the best bits of information I've ever got my hands on!
I learned this years ago when recovering from codependency. Never lay down with a man, wait it out. 3 months sounds like a good goal.
Yess I learned this as well!!!! Sometimes we have to learn hard lessons
A female should always wait,cause guys really what sex above a lot of things.i want sex from a woman,but what I've learned is that it's far better to have to have a man who has your back,& be there for the long haul,no matter what,but that woman has to do her part by finding out about him& let him know.Steve gave some great advice.
who is still here May 2019
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You just basically described why he says hold out 90 days. If a guy can't wait 90 days for you, he's not worth having sex with.
Already
But women still give it to guys sometimes the first time.though now with all the diseases out here,I'd think anyone would know better.
Honestly if they want you they wait EVEN longer
@@kirsten1007 This was how it was back then. What ruined it is the woman that the guy waited for stepped out, so now guys don't wanna wait as there are men who don't have to
It's not worth having a RELATIONSHIP with :)
Not only is he funny but he is very smart! God Bless him n his family
Yes he is actually right but also consider this, don't be a doble standard society. Don't touch or mislead a woman if you have no future plans with her. What comes around comes back around.
I am actually cool with that as long as women do the same. Do not let me waste my time wining and dining you if you already know you are not interested. Better yet, do not agree to marry me unless you are passionately in love with me.
SAD part is these Players play the Husband role so good even past 90 days & only way to see his true colors is just let his acting play out
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A man can and will screw a woman but he sud tell her beforehand he's just looking for fun. It's on him to let her know.
Actions speak louder than words
This man is a genius.
lol.
Facts!
He is humble down to Earth & he says he isn't smartest, no one is, true, etc but he is pretty smart. I like how he speaks. He is so funny about it.
Lol
Amen
His face when the crowd starts cheering at Cupid is hilarious 😂😂😂
That's so true he's either playing with you or planning with you
I remember I asked a guy what his intentions were and he was like, "Wooow I see you like getting straight to the point..."
😂😂😂. I don't know why guys don't expect us to ask them these kind of questions at this time and age.
...because you girls never did in the first place?
Or "I like a woman who knows what she wants!" 🙄😅
Guys brain are built different lol
Yes , tell me about it
Say goodbye, if they don't want to know.
My husband and I have been married for 55 years. I loved the tribute that Steve gave to Marjorie on Mother’s Day. It was beautiful!
Ellen is hilarious!!! " don't you let those men step in your yard"!!😂😂😂😂
I love this man,he keeps smile on my face.
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Steve Harvey: Cupid!
The audience goes wild
Steve Harvey: 👀
LOL
😂😂😂😂
LMFAOOO OMG
Why are they going crazy on the mystery word? Does the audience get a free book? Lol
😍😂😂😂😂
@@sallyskellington6344 yes, and he didn't know that
Watching June 2019. Thank you uncle Steve. I watch you all the time and I always learn something new. Thank you
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Thank you so much for your lovely comments. My husband does tell me constantly that he loves me,calls me a hundred times a day while he's at work,and is a good husband in every way. If you seriously want a good woman,you must be a good man. So if you speak vulgar for example,you cant really expect your wife not too.Not saying that you're not a good man,but there's an expression, like attracts like. You will attract someone with good values if you yourself have good values,and im sure you do!!!
Absolutely Love Steve! Listened to him on Oprah’s Master Class and his story is inspiring. I want to leave a legacy behind when I go, like Steve, so my children’s children will remember what I gave them.
This is something that each one of us should incorporate in our relationship. It's very helpful to me since I just reconcile with my partner and I don't want to lose him again anymore.
Hahaha. I absolutely love this!!!
He's so on point! Love his charisma too ❤❤❤
Who's still here in October 2019. 10 years on the advice's still RELEVANT! Steve's pants still killing me though. Lol
The Benefit package and the fences really hit home!
Ellen: Don’t you let those men step in your yard...
Steve: Yeah, messin' up your flowers, diggin' holes...
Me: Bouncin’ around in your bushes...
@@theresaandrade8261 ux
😂😂😂😂 EXACTLY
Steve's been in weeds and flowers! Lol!
🤣
Repeatedly, in and out between those bushes.
The story he says in the beginning is true. It happened to me. I felt disrespected with how he spoke and had this gut feeling that I deserved more. So I made it clear to him that that was what I was looking for and I didn't want to waste my time with someone who speaks that way to me (one time offender but still) so I ended it. He definitely changed his act (which I wasn't expecting) and I've never seen a man work so hard for me... happily. :)
Thank you for this ❤ Just wondering if you are still with him?
@@jackie41083 thanks for your comment! I forgot I wrote this 10 years ago! Yes, we are happily married 🥰 Steve is right on the money. Old fashioned works and you gotta be very straightforward with men.
@@BeautifulDreamerK Oh, wow! That’s amazing 🥰 I’m so happy for you. I guess men can really change for a woman they want. I would’ve seen that as a red flag, but I guess if we address something, and they change it, they really want to make it work. Cheers to ya
IDK why but Steve reminds me of a black Dr. Phil
@Blondie Nicole It’s the Bald head and mustache, no doubt.
So true
Bold and a beard and smart and great advice! There u go.
No way! He's not that intelligent!
Or maybe dr phil is a white steve harvey
2020 and we still need advice from Legend
“We saw you we saw something we wanted and we’re going over there to see how much it’s going to cost to get it”
🤯 Reality mind-blowing
When it’s high cost , they value it and it’s low cost they don’t.
13 years later am here watching and listening to this
“ if u are a Man U r supposed to meet the standards”
His reactions after each segment was hilarious. The real deal Steve.
"amen brother" I'm literally ROFL
i love steve harvey, he is sooo honest, and just plain simple.
Lol Steve is the man he always keep it real at the end of the day we all make mistakes nobody is perfect God gave this man a second chance and I respect Steve for that
his insight is EXPERIENCE and OBSERVATION. Not all men possess that ability. Also, he has not claim to be an expert on relationships. He tells women how men behave and why they behave the way they do. SIMPLE
Dude can act one way for 90 days, split on the 91st. Look at his actions, judge with a level head and move from there.
Trust me if he acting at some point the real him will come out and 90 days is along wait for players.If you pay attention to the details you will see the red flags.
THIS!!!!!
@@rhiyoncegold8087 i once heard steve say 'dont collect red flags'
Don't tell him u r waiting 90 days, don't give the playbook so to speak. If he asks just say I'm not ready yet or something like that
@Hawa Fuseini I agree that the 90 day rule is stupid
Famous band sung these lines, “Thunder only happens when it’s raining. Players only love you when they’re playing.”
Yep
Watched Friday, Nov.22,2019 and this is prevalent today like it was yesterday!😍
You mean "relevant." Not prevalent.
Two of my favorite comedians ever!!!
Who still with me in September 2019
Me bro
Still here🙋
Love this two together I wish they make more shows together
Love the Ford analogy... He said "If it wasn't women in this world I wouldn't even bathe' LOL
Ellen many many years ago. You gave us a ride home after your performance. I'll never forget this time. You are such a lovely lady. Thank you so much. You touched my heart.
Earth Wind& Fire... Fantasy!!!!y favorite song! I love Steve Harvey 💙
We don’t know how men think because men are not honest even if we ask them . They twist information however favors them, that’s why us women don’t know. I didn’t read your book but you give great advice from videos I was watching . Smart talk!
milachyc88 laossoswelwow
milachyc88 observe behavior and then the pieces will fall in place.
And women are honest?
@@don8668 yes we are
Do a background and serious reconnaissance. Do what you have to do. Got cameras now you can't even SEE. Your house, you can rig it up as you want. I stf would.
"my milkshake brings all the boys to the yard and their like it's better than yours"
Thats what came to my mind when Ellen said don't let them boys in your yard :P
Yess even he’s a humorous person, but actually all he said are true! I couldn’t agree more
Steve u are just the kinda of advisor any couples would love to have.... U speak about the social n spiritual side of the relationship
Playing with you?
OR
PLANNING with you?
Which is it?
Which do you want?
Cynthia McCrea Bo
OMG I finally heard a man admit about nagging. I have been saying it for years nagging is bull shit. A way to keep from answering questions.
christi crenshaw bullshit. Yall do nag. He's just been rich long enough. His wife probably leaves him alone lol. Regular women will bring up uncomfortable conversations with terrible timing. When a man comes in from work give him 90 minutes to decompress first. If the game is on, the convo can wait til tomorrow. Very simple things that can avoid antagonizing your partner. Lol
@@istayfliNY Yeah they want to fix things & be Superman hero God ego complex so why else use this. Just as I thought last few yrs & that it dawned on me. It so an excuse to avoid revealing truth of things & how they genuinely think, feel, and not commit, avoid it ATM or indefinitely forever so won't be vulnerable showing weakness you can use against him ! ! !
The Illest Creation “if the game is on it can wait til tomorrow “ bitch really ? Ok so if I cheated and real housewives of atl is on it better wait til tomorrow 😂😂😂😂
@Doreece make ur own financial stability
What they consider nagging I say is talking and trying to work thing out
As informational as this interview is and I have watched it over and over again. The best part is Steve's face when the women go crazy after he says Cupid. 🤣
Who here February 2020 lurking ? ❤
If your standard is to wait until marriage then that is what he has to meet You're either valuable and worth it to him or you're not In the meantime I haven't lost anything
Amen to that comment
Still laughing in 2019! Steve was so confused when he said the mystery word LOL
Steve Harvey tells it how it is! Great information for women
Don’t believe him. His advice will keep you single and unhappy
Amazing 😁, the book is so awesome! I love Steve Harvey's personality, and true words lol.
"Amen bro" got me so much🤣🤣🤣💯
I have both of Steve Harvey's books. Read the first one. I will reread it again!!!!
We LOVE our Steve🌹😍❤ He's amazing!!!!😍😍
This was 13 years ago (2009) and Steve looks EXACTLY THE SAME in 2022!!
Well said 🙌
Thank you so much as I needed to hear this!!! Definitely resonates with me and making a lot of changes while single so when the time comes I know. Thanks, Steve!
What he said is very true
Yep and that baby on your profile pic is one BEAUTIFUL boy or girl!
Veeryy true kay!
Oh man.... Ellen always has a crazy surprise!! Steve's expressions are priceless!!!!!
Ellen said,"Amen brother." Loved that!!!
My daughter bought this book, and she was a waitress/bartender, she took it to the bar with her and would read this book to customers!
I love Steve Harvey God bless him
This is so funny- I literally have an 8 foot fence round my place, with locks on the gates. :)
I can recommend you to a man who will helped you get your ex back
Message him on Whatsapp
Steve is real and un-cut
“ how high the bar is and how much it cost to get there “
I can comfirm almost every thing this man said. I do wish he also mentioned that men should also have higher standards as well. I've seen too many men and women set their standards too low.
That never gets addressed by him. Men all too often get caught up in a woman's physical features. More often that not, that is the only good thing these women bring to any relationship. Women can get caught up in physical looks but they are usually attracted to status or a strong personality--without giving the slightest thought to character because they see good men as boring.
Look beyond. I know a guy dating a cute girl, but KNOWN and ADMITTED as well as ACTIVE drug addict!!
Yeah, cute isn't everything. Hope he doesn't get AIDS or something. Drug addicts are not picky about who they whore around with.
Shout out to the Libras, Capricorns and Aquarians. Honest communication!
“..and 6 months later I was COOL with it.”
People and their self made illusions are very entertaining thanks guys.
Love myself some Steve Harvey shows & advice
Steve is right lol if it wasnt for women I wouldnt shave, I wouldnt clip my toenails, I wouldnt brush my teeth, I wouldnt brush my hair, or etc lol
You just are nasty lol
MrYellaboi2010 he's right if I didn't like anyone I'll still be fat
Too funny!! Love it! Where are you?
Man do it for yourself bruh
Id still keep myself up regardless. You sound stupid
Women should really hear this. Great job Steve and Ellen. Thanks
Yep, Love his advice & book! But what should men hear & work on? why does it seem like its all on the woman? how about Steve write a book to encourage/teach more men to “Quit Playing & Do More Planning”. I guess its like there will always be crime so get an alarm system & security bars…boys will be boys😳 After losing his wife once he almost lost her again had she not called him to the carpet…smh, Lord help me. Stand Up Men Love ya! women are tired of having to say stand up! Here’s another analogy-just because you see a window open or door unlocked @ someones home, doesn’t mean you can go in & take stuff! Who raised you??!! smh
Lol I like how steve grabbed ellen's hand to give her a high five lmao!!!!
My husband and I have been married for 55 years. We are very Blessed!
Best Advices ever... Thank you Steve...😍