12 Steps of Intimacy 💋
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
- 12 Steps of Intimacy (Dating Tips for Men)... In this dating advice video, I will be talking about the stages of intimacy and I will give you the 12 steps of intimacy that you should follow if you want to know how to become intimate with a woman. You may want to know the intimacy steps on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to these dating tips for men and be sure to watch the entire video.
I want you to understand women better so that you are able to turn a woman on while making her feel safe with you and all this is possible if you know the process of intimacy. In this dating advice, I will give you the intimacy stages comprising of 12 steps of intimacy and explain to you why it is critical to do the intimacy steps in order.
Knowing the process of intimacy is crucial because it will help you with effective seduction that will lead you to your end goal, which is getting intimate. I want you to know the 12 stages of intimacy because they basically are the progress that will take you from attraction through to the end of the seduction. I want you to embrace the dating tips on how to become intimate that I discuss in this video so that you can be able to leave her wanting more.
As your wingmam, your female wingman, and a dating coach for men, I want to make dating easier for you. I hope and pray that you find this dating advice for men video helpful.
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When I was single I took country dance lessons, it was amazing how comfortable you could become with a "touch" in that environment. Also, the guys who master the steps had it made. Rarely sat out a dance when we had group dances. I think I even dropped a few inches on my waist when I started to country dance two or three times a week. Hey it even got me a wife.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️
Oh man, does her husband know?😁
Oh, you do know dance instructors are on the look out for sleezes. There is touch and there is intimacy; and then there is assault
I did the same thing in my 30's. The class was lots of fun and always more women than men. But I'm not a line dancer. So much focus on the right steps takes the fun out of it for me. I dance my way.
I always bring my attorney and legal consent forms with me on a date.
@bigwave2003 lol thats gotta be the best comment ever & the wisest decision on the safe side otherwise dont go on a date in the 1stplace.
Practicing safe sex in right way
@Bigwave 2003 Do you keep your consent form in one pocket and the other have a peep hole for your attorney °°?
Men need to shave their sideburns
Bigwave2003 I’ve never heard it called an attorney before!
Seriously though: once you've gotten to the handholding stage, you can relax; let her take the initiative from here on in. You're both adults, there's mutual attraction, she wasn't born yesterday and knows where you want this to lead. If she wants you to kiss her, she'll make it happen, and so on. Don't push the passion on the first kiss (let her do that if it's going to happen). Sex? Wait 'til she says 'let's go away for the weekend' or 'Why don't you stay over?' Don't rush things, just stay lose, have fun, let it happen naturally (or as naturally as you can without seeking verbal consent at every move).
One thing to be careful of, though: If you're dating a woman from another culture, the handholding could be as far as it goes, so do your homework on this beforehand.
Consent is amazing, we feel so safe and open up to guys who are respectful and ask for permission
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Makes sense, if only more men were actually listening. Your videos are always educational and entertaining.
Thanks! A man has to be caring, slow and kind but if you ask permission at each step you have no chance. If you do anything she does not like you will hear stop, no or quit. That is the time to stop whatever.
Yes, you shouldn’t be asking permission at each step I definitely watching for the signs of continue or stop. I should have mentioned that in the video, thanks for catching that and making a comment!
Hi Anna,
Actually what your saying is how it goes!
Women love their face being held nicely, it’s actually very important.
I have watched some of your other videos and I love how you don’t expect perfection from yourself, and you don’t take yourself seriously..in a stress way, but your messages are smart, well thought out, and intelligent.
I have been divorced a long time, just recently got over my dislike for women.
Well that changed everything....
They were reading me and I wasn’t aware of it..and I was shutting my my own door, on myself...
I now get asked out, and very different attitude from women, I’m open but I do stay away away from trouble...
Men if you want to hate women then you will be on your own for up to a decade.... or more, put a price on that!
I actually regret my attitude now ... that I have a retrospect on it.
If a woman displays ANY selfish behaviour on a date she is gone, no matter how beautiful she is, it will be future heartache...this includes feminists that I stay a mile away from or anyone who rings her mother daily because she hasn’t left home and is still a girl...
Be tough on yourself guys and strive for excellence if you want a nice life.
Meet someone on the same financial level is a lot nicer than being on your own and that may mean spending on elite dating agency, great for the lonely girl and you and just may save you a fortune....
Be smart, work out your parameter set....and then go to work on a nice life and put in the effort.
My personal view is human being we’re NOT designed to be alone, it’s very bad for your health.
I’d actually like to know? We will never know? How many happy couples have come out of Anna’s work?
I’d say heaps.
There are certain women who fit into the goddess category, it’s style, confidence, sultry and cheeky and the ability to identify and laugh at her own flaws, and still be happy, and then put in to help others.
The main thing is we keep participating and keep love in our hearts.
Because life is short.
Personally I would switch step 1 and step 2. But it depends on the character of the woman though
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
This was very informative and actually just fun to watch. You are very good at this! 👍🏻
Your a sweet woman and your advice sounds about right , intimacy proceeds by increments. Inappropriateness is when one jumps stages. I think I knew all this before but I’m a mature man , though I never quite thought it out so concisely .
Kinda of a change in your voice when you got to stage 10 , it was lovely
12 Steps of Intimacy Dating Tips for Men ❤️ *To be effective* (i.e. escalating while making her feel safe) means knowing the order of 12 steps of intimacy. *Women need to feel safe* and *Women are also horny!* Get this right and you'll both be getting it on. You're welcome. ;) Be the man that gets to first base (so you can get to the rest of the bases): members.wingmam.com/get-women/
If someone just walked up and kissed me, I'd say "Thank you! Come again!" :D
I’m enjoying what I’m seeing ! And really hearing, thanks so much. HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Its great listening and watching your videos you make everything seen so relaxed and realisic not like some other keep it up x
❤🥰🔥💯👋👋 Good one Red. 😊😊🙏💯. Romance before the Dance 👍💪💯
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@@YourWingmam 😚👍
It's kind of funny the way you break things down and when you say get consent because or you won't be getting anything from anyone.. you're definitely telling the truth! I love your videos because you don't use profanity and you do a wonderful job explaining the stages of intimacy 😂👋👋👋
Review! So helpful, more recap/review whenever possible please. It saves endlessly thumbing through the video in case you missed something while pouring steaming hot coffee in your lap...
Lol
I like how this was presented very explicitly because that's how men's brain work.
Anna...
Us guys have like, one stage to intimacy… so its difficult to figure all of this out without keeping notes on hand.
Maybe teach some females how to have less stages of intimacy? lol
Somehow "intercourse" sounds dirtier when you say it. 😂
LOL
Isn't there a Bad Company song "I feel like making intercourse"...
What about a outer-course step?
BAHAHAHA
The only reason I would want to be intimate, If she loves me as much as I love her!
Why? Have you never had a one night stand? Sex doesn't have to involve love.
I agree 100%
I made it to stage 6 then messed up. I hope I get too see her again.
🙏
“The Goodie zone” 😂😂😂😂
You made it seems like the 12 procedures on how to open the nuclear code. Just do it instinctively ... other wises you need to write down this check list and do it reading each step in front of her or memorize it which I cant..
12 Steps of Intimacy in order------> 1- Eye to body (noticing the person)... ... 2- Eye to eye (acknowledging each other)... ... 3- Voice to voice (communication)... ... 4- Hand to hand... ... 5- Hand to shoulder... ... 6- hand to waist (including hugging)... ... 7-
you forgot 8-12
What if i spent more time in getting to know the woman as you proposed only to find out we are not sexually compatible in the end?
IDK about what Anna the Wingmam is saying, but I am digging her soft long hair, and eyes.
I'm focused on your facial expressions it so adorable🥰😍😘
Another great video Anna! Well said and worth listening to. 😊
Thank you and thanks for watching and commenting❣️👈
Anna an expert on pickup woman & seducing woman,
Me: can I notice you?
Her: ok.
Me: can I make eye contact with you?
Her: ok.
Me:: can I speak to you?
Her: you already spoke to me twice before asking creep, see you in court! 🤣
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for sharing!
I got a huge laugh off Greg Brophy's comment. Make her mad. lol. Ok so WingmanTV, Your a goddess. The sooner you say yes to me, the sooner we can get married.
I love your vids ! I have so much more social confidence from all your tips and tricks
Yay!!
There are good women out there guys. Had a couple of doozies myself. If you learn from past mistakes and know what to look for, see the signs, it makes it easier to find a good one. Oh and lay your woman WELL. Get to know her turn ons. And offs. Know when to stand your ground. Know when to shut the fuck up. Im no expert like. Well done if you read this. Cheers. 👍
Thank you Ann.
My pleasure ❤️
Pure gold.
I always wondered why i fellt creeped out when approached by a woman in a grocery store. They usually skip the first four parts, maybe they have an excuse, I'm 70 years old and 35 year old girls do that to me because they want to get ther befoer i'm dead? (most of them think I'm forty and are surprised to fine out I'm twice their age. But it is really creepy to skip the first four steps she mentioned.
I hold my breath and breath in slowly
Maybe at the 3rd stage.
My sixth sense kicks in and I'm
Feeling my smiling gears melting.
I begin to hear my blood pressure
I'm feeling the contents in the bottom draw leaning forward.
The sweet smell numbs the brain
Stage 4 convinced the feeling is mutual informed consent ,
Stage 5 reassurance wrapping the lips into a fold and press.
Feeling the soft figure firmly up close
As if blind "who needs eyes"
Stage 6ex instinctively feeling each soft sensation through the grain of each finger print each taste bud.
Each beat and pulse of a
"Bugger" I can't remember stage 7
Thanks wingman
Truly, excellent .
Correction Wingmam TV
She's gorgeous 😘💖
Thank you, Boris! :)
Ikr 😏
Just because she's beautiful like Mary Poppins doesn't mean she's gonna be the one you want. She could be ugly on the inside and you could have a horrible relationship. This is what she's trying to teach us. Listen. learn.
@@AllisonMagicElite True lol but we all have flaws . It's called being human 😉.
@@AllisonMagicElite Yes she is ... Much respect too her for doing so .
I remember visiting a woman in her apartment. After talking a while, she asked if she could get more comfortable. She left the room, and later came back in a night robe, and was taking a birth control.pill. What did I do wrong?
EXCELLENT.
Thank you.
Oscar
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!
Hej, woman, I am a little bit confused. The bed behind you looks like a single (one-person) bed. Is it your bed? If yes, how can a woman (one that understands relations, sex and all the relaing matters so perfectly) sleep in a single bed? Other than that, you are very good.
I think it can go quite quickly from hand to waist, or even straight to waist. I appreciate the videos though
Wow! 13 steps! That’s a real obstacle course.
I love how coy you become with your eyes when mentioning sex or intercourse - LOL
Accelerated version:
I Tarzan
You Jane.
Andreas Delleske spot on
This woman's hilarious...she has no idea..
Ha ha. No shit. She is clueless.
Watch FACE&LMS for the truth. Black pilled PAIN. Cope, Dope, or Rope. Looks are all that matter. You can be a fuckin dork but if you're chad she'll ignore how stupid or awkward you are. Just look at who they let knock them up.
She doesn't necessarily need to believe it as long as she is making a video out of it which is viewed by hundreds of thousands of men.
Thank you sweetheart🌹🦄🌹😎🍀💯🇺🇸🐏
My pleasure ❤️
The delusion on this channel is an exotic blend of surreal and entertaining.
And the best part? This woman probably actually believes what she's saying.
But the fact remains: The Wall is undefeated, because it's made of unobtainium.
'Consent' hmmmmm....that just killed it :-)
You can get consent in a way that will actually turn her on more. It's almost a tease. Plus, it's way better than being me too'd lol
Wingmam you certainly float my boat from your stunning looks to your sexy voice! Grrr!
Does this apply to a wife with 2 daughters when she said she need time?
I gave up a while ago and Im alot happier..😊
First you do this, then you do that, then... The man:12 steps, the woman: Nothing, but deciding on me too or not.
Why bother?! I just ignore women until they take the initiative and tell me they want me.
Works fine!
Oh! Saint Josef!
Lady, know that you turn already frighten, simping and anxious guys off with this soap alternative for goodbye. Lol!
Wow I have a tattoo on my lower wrist-never thought of using it for stage 4 (touching hands) before-I'll have to make sure not to make it sound like bragging when I show it off.
Helpfull. Thanks.
She see everything in my eyes
In your eyes........THE WEEKEND
nice ending
I want the goodies! Yay!
😂
lol
I met a lady last year, very beautiful & accomplished lady, an anesthesiologist, I went from stage one to stage seven with in the first 15 minutes, so is that wrong?
I got up to the point of holding her hand.
Thanks! From stage 7 i can manage myself🤗
Only 12 stages?
Phew What a relief!
I was sure there were at least 47 stages.
Bwaaaaa Haaaaa Haaaa Haaaa!!!! Me too!
PL Lpsy lol I left out the nuances ;) jk jk
PL Lpsy 12 stages is the start, there are a never ending amount.
@@YourWingmam I'm attempting to seduce you over the internet. 😅
@@1974jrod Show her your resources.
I just act like I am not interested until they are throwing themselves at me lol, works 9/10 times.
Wow. Didn’t think I would get my comment highlighted! I would like to add that this works even better if her friends think you and her should be dating and you are around each other regularly.
In layman terms--DON'T GIVE A DAMN!!
You can't just ignore them. You have to have a line in the water, a lure. Aloofness gets translated into arrogance or no interest. You should show just enough interest that they will think they can tip the balance.
Bill Cosby didn't know how to count to 12.
Lol
He was like the bugatti of dating; he went from 0 to 100 in a couple of seconds.
zerothehero123
And most of all he had the 3 most important things going for him:
He is famous
He has the right cars and houses
He is rich
If you got these 3 you don‘t need to go through the 12, you get the „go to start and collect all the goodies“ card!
Lmao 👍
In his voice....” first you take the jelloooo, then you put the roofy in the jello.........
It is amazing that we actually need a 'manual' to interact these days. That said, I enjoy your videos 👍
Why do you find it "amazing"?
I think it’s about LEARNING to be BETTER to your Partner! To love is to aim to please!!
There has always been a manual. It is just that due to recent development in human rights, the rules of how men and women should interact are in flux causing some confusion. It will stabilize over time. Is it troublesome? Yes, but its just teething issues as women gets more equality over time.
In the meantime, respect and open communication is key. :)
"I know you are young and inexperienced, so you can count on me to be sensitive and understanding. Tequila?"
" 12 Steps of Intimacy " Leaving the toilet seat up with have you back at stage one. Dating is like the game snakes and ladders.
I've always left the toilet seat up. Some of the women in my life haven't liked this at all and demanded that I replace the seat down. I comply, but from then on I don't put the seat up and urinate all over the seat. After a short time, they have wanted me to put the seat up and weren't too concerned whether or not I replaced it down again. A wet bottom is a good motivator.
I ALWAYS just put BOTH the seat And Lid down... Whoever gets there next, lifts what needs to be lifted, and leaves down what needs to be...
When they finish... leave it the way they found it... with BOTH parts down.
I put a nice, decorative cover on it, that is comfortable to sit on to dry off from a bath or shower... and no one is looking into an open toilet every time they enter the bathroom.
And no one has some kind of "Favored Status"... and even if you go in the middle of the night, in the dark, you already know what you will find.
I've heard women don't like it when you ask if it's ok sometimes (hand holding and such) because to her it might seem like you are nervous of her. Id say it's better to gage based on her closeness to you and other signs that you can learn to see over time. Of course if she pulls away you pull away too and smile play it off casually.
I just did this with a new girl. It was over about a week of hanging and I just do things that feel normal to me. I dont watch a video and do exactly what it says unless it feels right. I did every single step she talked about a couple of nights ago and it just so happened they went I every order that she mentioned so she for sure has some credibility with me now.
aha, here's the rest of your comment lol ... and thank you for that validation, Boss, *and* congrats on getting some cookie! ;)
Overall this is really good. But when it comes to expressly asking for sexual consent i would never ever keep dating a woman who wanted it that way. I WOULD make sure she actually wanted me to get physical with her, and i might seductively ask her now and then if she likes it. And i don't go on with women who say no, either i ask them what's the problem (if they seem to have genuine concerns) or i dump them immediately because of this "legal" shit, which has gone way too far, and is only worth my utmost contempt (while the woman's safety is my top priority, provided i'm into her at all, otherwise i will not want that intimacy with her at all). But i won't "ask" for permission about everything in our romance, because that kills the mood and turns me completely off. Any wacko woman who would want me to tiptoe this way about her is better out of my life completely, so i don't waste my time on her anymore but can seek out another woman who has the common sense not to go about it this way (i don't keep dating douchebags, only sensible women who know what they want), and who is both attractive and attracted to me. And no i don't ever fuck anyone not sharing mutual love with me, i'm way too sensitive for that. And too picky, especially since i'm always hoping for longterm.
Currently out of a years long loving yet strained relationship that came to a tragic ending (i screwed up unintentionally), having tried two relationships after that, though i called them off because i wasn't being treated the way i deserved, therefore i allowed them to kill my love for them (after telling them of my concerns which they didn't listen too), then i left. I am a considerate giver in love, but i don't stay with a woman who doesn't reciprocate properly, it's her loss. I know my worth and i treat the woman i'm with in a way that would strengthen her worth, waiting to see if she is willing to reciprocate or just be selfish, in which case i move on.
If you do it in the wrong order, there might be a 13th step...foot to nuts.
Lol!
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LMFAO!! Good One!!
Dude I love a girl with nice feet, totally on board for this haha.
Lmao!!!🤣
There is a lot of great coaches on youtube and they are all good in their own way but guys this woman is better than any male coach by far because she KNOWS exactly how women really think. Great content!
I'd only disagree when it comes to Alexander Grace. They're equally insightful for different reasons.
Ignorance is one's worse enemy (especially when it comes to women) . THANK YOU for the education in life 101 !
Awesome video ,always respect a woman , relationship and intercourse is amazing , best when it's done right and consensual , remember a woman allows you inside her mind ,heart and body ,not to be taken for granted
When she wants you, it won't be so complicated. Also if you ask too many questions it can come across as lacking confidence. Key is to go slowly until she says no. If she she doesn't resist and smiles just move naturally and slowly.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
If you do not have the social proof
You need to learn Quantum dating theory
Yeah no wonder the population of USA is shrinking.. all the men sound like walking contraceptives.. 😅
If she doesn’t want to, you’ll know.. enough of this mincing “consent” cobblers. Grow a pair of balls, don’t talk it. 😅
Two ex wives $6ml gone I think I'm done communicating .
How is this relevant?
And are you saying the first marriage cost millions, and then you went and got married again after that?
6 mil. Damn.
You probably married a 9 or 10 and she knew about your money. If a man marries a 7 or an 8 he will get a more loving,supportive, and loyal wife who is still pretty and sexy and great in bed.
Beyond_the_Infinite Gotta watch out for those 9’s & 10’s. Great to look at can be,& often is, hell to live with, not to mention the perpetual tease.
Go get a dog
I am 35 and I want an intimate relationship with you. I am falling in love. Seriously
I know! Can't you just tell she is a lovely person!
The cultural differences are really interesting and funny at the same time! I'd like to give you guys some eye-opening input on the different attitudes between the US and Europe.
I'm Portuguese-American (born and raised in Portugal, spent almost 20 years in the US, loved it and became an American), so I can say I understand both sides of the equation, the one of being Mediterranean European and somewhat the one of being American (maybe only the good parts of being American LOL).
Let me start by telling you what the bad parts of being American are (I imagine it's a bit hard to fully grasp what I'm gonna say without having a deep knowledge of another totally different culture):
That crap about almost needing a "limitation of liability contract" to have a flirt with a woman in the US is absurd in Europe. Not only does it cut off the emotion of the moment, but it would seem, in Europe, that we would be dealing with someone with a cognitive problem.
Seduction, for a Mediterranean European (be it Portuguese, Spanish or Italian) is not an "elaborated scheme". Quite the opposite, seduction is the art of the erotic subtext, of the subtle, of the implicit and, of course, all of it with the implied consent of both. The emphasis here is on "implied."
This video showing all the explicit "required consents" would look, in Europe, like a child's puppy-love play, a mockery laughable by all.
Don't get me wrong: In Europe, if the flirting is not consensual, you might incur in legal liability and criminal prosecution (or, at least, she might insult you and/or, depending of what you do or say to her, she might slap you on the face).
FYI, any adult is only prosecuted for statutory rape (to be clear, consented s*x between a minor and an adult) if a GIRL (never heard of it related to a boy) is below 14 or 16 years old, depending on which European country you are referring to. In Portugal, a 16 y/o girl is free to have s*x with whomever she wants, but it is statistically known that underage adolescents start their s*xual life anytime between 12 and 14 y/o. Once, one of my high-school male colleagues dated a female teacher and nothing bad happened to anyone. Oh, and you are legally free (underlined "legally") to drink alcohol at 18. Same with smoking tobacco (or pot). If you are good to go to war, you are good to legally drink. You cannot drive below 18, though. Not a perfect world.
In fact, if a man in Europe would have to have all of this nonsensical mambo-jumbo crap conversation (the idiotic amount of "explicit authorizations to flirt") with a woman in order to flirt with her, any minimally intelligent woman would think that she was talking to a moron, with no notion of seduction whatsoever. And yes, you'd be gone, dude! So, in Europe, be smart and get to know what women want you to do to seduce them - be aware, though: There, a "no" is also a "no", don't you ever take it as a yes, or you'll be in trouble.
On the other hand, in the US, a woman can easily do whatever she wants, if you allow her to: Touching you, saying whatever, teasing you, kissing you, as much as she wants, if she's interested in you, that, right there, there would be no legal consequences for her (unless you'd be gay, and/or you'd feel really pissed at her, I guess.) So good for gender equality!
I think that all of this is just bull-crap hypocrisy and frivolous lawsuits, and it always reminds me of that woman who sued McDonald's for spilling her own hot coffee all over her legs, while driving away from the drive-through, as if McDonald's was to blame for her being an idiot for putting her cup over the dashboard. Or even those soooooo stupid disclaimers printed on every American jet engine saying "Do not insert hand while engine is moving"!!! Duh! Forgive me, but all of this legal and absurd frivolous lawsuits are just a laughingstock to Europeans about the US.
Maybe people should think about ending the bull hypocrisy and the futility altogether. Use your brain and common-sense! It makes life much easier!
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Yeah, I understand completely your outlook on the situation. The woman's empowerment movement here has cost me more headaches than I can possibly mention, but on the flipside I think that education of the sort that is on this video should be mandatory to keep awkward situations from becoming dangerous to women and men alike. European countries have both good and bad aspects to them, and I believe that America should go back to the drawing board, and reimplement what worked well in the constitution, and use the past experiences to develop a better resistance to stupidity by the state and corporate interests alike.
Hard to believe you were once shy AJ, but always beautiful.
Kudos to you for an exquisite vlog. xo
Shoutout to all ADHD people!
There are huge differences between Puritans and Latin cultures. If she really likes you, she will be fired up to go to the sauna by the second date. If you have to convince her so much, the chemistry just isn't strong enough and the relationship will be mental.
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The more I listen to this,the more I'm glad I don't have a girlfriend 😂
you missed step 2 obviously.
Your comment made me laugh.
Thanks Anna
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Step 1: How much for one hour? Step 2: Do the goodie Step 3: Pay the agreed price. Step 4: No worried about the #metoo movement. Step5: No need to lie about loving her.
WingmamTV, Thank you for having a big heart, and caring!
I thought intimacy was inclusive of deep emotional connection not just intercourse.
I've never seen the progression in such as useful form. I agree it is vital to go slowly and listen and watch her response. In fact ideally let her lead , whispering if its what she wants as events become more intimate.
12 stages, what a load of crap.
Stage one: wave a big wad of money in front of her face$$$
Stage two:RUN!!!
i fully agree
Thank You for all your advice and the dedication to these subjects, they are very helpful ! You are making a difference for us in our trying to know and understand one another! Keep up the good work!!!
If you think about it, the 12 stages are like playing a music score. There are multiple movements before the crescendo. I personally don't like moving too quickly; it tends to take away the intensity. I enjoy moving at a fairly slow rate. By the time you finally get to dunk the donut, it's intense :) These videos are informative, and good for the beginner as well as the "seasoned" veteran.
Step 13: Record the intercourse activity to protect yourself and prove it was consenual.
Record with consent. Not in secret or you are a criminal
I love dating during my teenage years. It was simple. Now as an adult based on her past I have guess. If I am a gentleman she pushes me away. To be a jerk she finds me attractive. Ambitious at best in today's dating venue, men have been making a fool of ourselves since kindergarten. How about women understanding our struggle and meet us in the middle.
Is it just my perception of you or are you really becoming more and more attractive while you are getting older?
• a list-maker...is not a risk-taker.
Get consent to hold her hand? You must be joking! If you need to ask consent to hold her hand I think you're probably not yet ready to hold hands! Keep talking to her.
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Good Job - Wingmam. If you are hand holding, and fingers are interlocking, then it means she is ready for you to kiss her at any time after that when the opportunity or your courage presents itself. You can at any point after that advance to kissing her - and you don't have to ask for consent, since your fingers are interlocking, she's been ready and thinking and looking forward to it, and she will have been waiting for you to do this. A girl will not interlock fingers with someone she doesn't want to kiss - period. But always try and make the interlocking of fingers seem like her ideas - you can do that when you are holding hands by straigtening your fingers and separating them - if she's reading for interlocking fingers she'll move right into that, if she's not she won't do that - she'll keep her hand rapped around your fingers or disengage altogether - Interlocking fingers means your good with this girl, for the time being. (but always honor her wishes, especially if she says no).
(If she's alone with you in your apartment, I think you get two try twice, - two no's - because the 1st no might be just to slow you down until she's comfortable with you and being alone in your apartment, and she doesn't want to appear easy - but a second no means its not on for you, it means its off, so respect that - no point in escalating the romance at that point.)
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wow you're really fixated on interlocking fingers. Totally disagree. I've been with my husband 18 years, whom I kiss multiple times daily, and I never prefer interlocking fingers when we hold hands.
@@linneasimchah1621 Well, I only mean that when you are in a new relationship, and you are a guy, and you are wondering if you can elevate the level of intimacy to a kiss - but you don't know for sure. I was in highschool in the 70s, and read that in a book (the first one ever) on body language by a guy name of Julius Fast (I think that was his name). I then used that as a barameter in almost EVERY new relationship I have ever been in, and it has never failed. I think once you have had your first passionate kiss, this is not an issue any more. So you've been married 18 years, but maybe the first time you went out, maybe 20 years ago, maybe, not saying definitely, there came a point where your husband was wanting to kiss you but not sure if you were receptive to that yet. I have had cases where I skipped that because the girl pretty much let me know she wanted to advance things by other means long before we were side by side and holding hands, but I think women really like it when they are ready to advance things but they don't have to tell the man that they are ready, that he just advances things "seemingly" natural and without them having to tell them to advance them. But even if it is not in all cases, I still believe it is so reliable that I would not hesitate to advance to a kiss with a new girlfriend anytime after I found us holding hands with interlocking fingers, but the sooner probably the better.
Pure gold for someone who has been out of the game or broken but who does want to get into a nice relationship I think this is the golden advice your are so clever mate. sets lovely intentions by respecting every boundary and lets you use actual love at the right times. it so brilliant also the asking permission sets up an emotional partnership from the beginning which is very cool. I must confess to using your wisdom when helping my children and friends with their relationships and I have realised its what I have been looking for and how to ask for that now. so genius and emotionally smart. add to this daves lovely very alpha but fun and flirty non wussy "cocky funny" process its easy to be confident when you know which stage your at.
1》An aside: please address the ways, whys, hows, whens to spot and deal w/ some women's thing about whether it's necessary to build, or deal w/a Precursor of "tension".
2》 the possibility of Rejection is a Given. However, there is a societally engineered push towards Self Realization coupled w/ a female "permission" ( progressive/aggressive) to initiate contact and openly express her au courant interest in a particular guy.
I'm not suggesting someone should say, "lay down, I think I ('ll) Love You." Nor am I diminishing the getting to know the person. However, dismissing the potential rejection, why is it necessary for what is tantamount to games. Not trying to be Utilitarian; and perhaps this sounds too Hedonistic; but such a waste of time and emotions.
At the risk of appearing like promescuity... (glaringly) both people would enjoy an end game of *Pleasure* ...
What's your take on:
"Hi!. Do you agree that
Our eyes seem to recognize our mutual attraction?
(She smiles and nods yes)
There are only 24 hrs in a day; and much of it has passed.
I would like to dispense with games and clever civilities because it expends an even more unnecessary waste of time.
Do you have interest in wasting precious time? (w/a quizzical look, she nods no)
Super! Kindly note...that... I can, and will Consent to exploring our mutual interests. Will you Consent to this as well?" (Yes)
Great. Let's go somewhere that nobody we know can distract us.
Seems to me, that this would diminish the Total Time of Steps 1 thru 12.
Rejection. Eh: Not so bad. Faster. Saved time.
Forget the disappointment. *Next*.
Suuuper good video! Good to learn where things fit in the bigger picture
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏