Monica - The First Night (Video Version 2)

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  • Опубликовано: 11 окт 2024
  • Monica's official music video for 'The First Night'. Click to listen to Monica on Spotify: smarturl.it/Mon...
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    Lyrics:
    Baby baby tell me what's up? Can you hear me?
    Or do I do I need to turn it up? (Huh huh)
    Baby baby tell me what's up? Can you hear me?
    Or do I do I need to turn it up? (Huh what)
    Baby baby tell me what's up? Can you hear me?
    Or do I do I need to turn it up? (Huh huh)
    Baby baby tell me what's up? Can you hear me?
    Or do I do I need to turn it up? (Huh what)
    Boy this evening was it only me
    Feeling completely down to be open
    Down to be open for some satisfaction
    Didn't want to say yes, afraid of your reaction
    I knew it was wrong, for feeling this way
    Especially the thought of givin' in on the first date
    Couldn't let go, it stayed on my mind
    At the end of the night I had to decide, I was thinkin'...
    I should make a move but I won't
    I know you're probably thinkin' something is wrong
    Knowing if I do that it won't be right
    I don't get down on the first night

Комментарии • 2,7 тыс.

  • @livethroughthis3863
    @livethroughthis3863 5 месяцев назад +191

    If your still watching in 2024 you had a good childhood! 💖💖💖 I remember copying this outfit for middle school 😁

    • @Sexy-Chocolate23
      @Sexy-Chocolate23 3 месяца назад +4

      Yep!! I had the dance moves down in middle school too lol

    • @CynthiaBrown-kv5kl
      @CynthiaBrown-kv5kl 3 месяца назад +2

      Yes I did some time I just don't give up like that crazy Ann wadley GA Jefferson county love ya Jesus loves us 😅

    • @nataliecartledge8063
      @nataliecartledge8063 2 месяца назад +5

      One of my fave songs back in the day....and today!

    • @gloriacummings4177
      @gloriacummings4177 Месяц назад +3

      Indeed

    • @leanneswift2445
      @leanneswift2445 Месяц назад +2

      27 years ode now 😢" OH MY DAYS " !!!!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @Naptural85
    @Naptural85 7 лет назад +488

    Ugh.. this sooooong brings me back to my childhood man!!! #GoodStuff

    • @c3realK1ll4h
      @c3realK1ll4h 3 года назад +7

      Sistah dawnt cry

    • @4U2BSinless
      @4U2BSinless 3 года назад +5

      I feel you. I know you for your hair tutorials. I glad that you like the song as much as I do.

    • @jakethesnake4971
      @jakethesnake4971 3 года назад +4

      Wow there missy, you have over a million subscribers! Way to go! Also I was born in 1985 too. Go 80's babies

    • @LaRue1212
      @LaRue1212 3 года назад

      Jake the snake you must not know who she is

    • @PPCSI133
      @PPCSI133 2 года назад +3

      I swear !!!!! 1998 was a special year

  • @mrselection7814
    @mrselection7814 8 лет назад +2744

    I don't care what anyone says. What Jermaine Dupri did for RnB is on the same level as Dr Dre did for hip hop in the 90s. He had an ear for talent and knew how to make hits

    • @raqueledwards2827
      @raqueledwards2827 5 лет назад +24

      Mr Selection agreed and thats on the real😚

    • @blessedk77
      @blessedk77 5 лет назад +43

      Right, and had some of the baddest remixes!

    • @dawb86
      @dawb86 5 лет назад +16

      kelly cherisse completely agree with u. that Biggie "Big Poppa" So So Def remix was better than the original 💯

    • @igfromthe323
      @igfromthe323 5 лет назад +5

      100% agree

    • @MrBenHaynes
      @MrBenHaynes 5 лет назад +4

      Preach! JD y'all.

  • @todayyesterday
    @todayyesterday 2 года назад +367

    That’s the way it’s got to be! Nothing beats 90’s R&B !!! They got a message that hits home

    • @Kevo1993
      @Kevo1993 2 года назад +12

      PREACH!!!!!!!!!! If that delorean was a real time machine I’m definitely going back to the 90’s!!!! All 90’s fans are welcome to come along!!!

    • @nayeontwicestreet132
      @nayeontwicestreet132 2 года назад +4

      Nothing beats Monica

    • @gustabraga3026
      @gustabraga3026 Год назад

      kikiki

    • @KendraLynch-i6b
      @KendraLynch-i6b Год назад +1

      That's when real Voice's & Real Music 😢 left

    • @nataliecartledge8063
      @nataliecartledge8063 2 месяца назад

      Absolutely true!

  • @darla8726
    @darla8726 3 месяца назад +19

    My jam. Love me some Monica. This is Real R&B. Still listening 2024.

  • @1980pancake
    @1980pancake 10 лет назад +1211

    Will there ever be anything as good as 90's r n b?

    • @meredithfripp5803
      @meredithfripp5803 10 лет назад +51

      nope never in this life.....

    • @ajlamont769
      @ajlamont769 10 лет назад +29

      not any time soon thats for sure

    • @williamfoote3094
      @williamfoote3094 10 лет назад +11

      Not these days for sure.😒

    • @farahjoseph
      @farahjoseph 10 лет назад +30

      Tht will never happen tht era in music is gone forever at least we still have these beautiful music to listen too they're our memories. RIP to good ol 90's / early 2000 music

    • @chitownfan06
      @chitownfan06 10 лет назад +1

      +William Foote that's true

  • @nellyluscious
    @nellyluscious 9 лет назад +541

    Summer 98'!! This was the shit!! I remember running to Sam Goody's back in the day to get this cd!! Fire!!

    •  9 лет назад +20

      A Diana ross sample

    • @virgo1677
      @virgo1677 9 лет назад +11

      ***** Yesssss boo the summer I got pregnant...lol....miss them days!

    • @nellyluscious
      @nellyluscious 9 лет назад +2

      mstoya wiggins I know that's right!!! Lol

    • @1polymath
      @1polymath 9 лет назад +23

      ***** WHOA! Did you just say Sam Goody? LOL Man you just made me go back in a hot second!

    • @stonedog238
      @stonedog238 9 лет назад +5

      Camelot Music for me

  • @Didisouth
    @Didisouth 10 лет назад +125

    The First Night is another one of those Monica songs that was before her time and is still relevant today.

    • @cashoutsteve2495
      @cashoutsteve2495 2 года назад +3

      It sure is!!!

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il Год назад

      How are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today and my name is Winton Moore and how is the weather over there

  • @munamanilla3751
    @munamanilla3751 Год назад +42

    i miss the old days

  • @thekingjamesversion
    @thekingjamesversion 4 года назад +114

    One of my favorite Monica songs!

  • @ConsciouzTv
    @ConsciouzTv 7 лет назад +318

    This song was a MASTERPIECE so smooth so groovy the bridge was beautiful the break dance entry this song could NOT have been arranged better!!! When I first saw this video I was like this video is so sponsored by GAP clothing the white tee's and khaki pants, but the video was shot beautifully. R&B music reminded you that you were human and had feelings and that it was ok to be emotional it was ok to be in touch with your heart music now a days is just some ratchet lyrics to a quick beat nothing soulful or humane about it some era's should be fought for rather than allowed to fade and be a thing of the past esp era's and art that kept us in check with the beautiful aspects of our humanity like love, empathy, compassion, sensitivity and transparency!

    • @visiow2691
      @visiow2691 2 года назад +5

      Original is Diana Ross love hangover

  • @IamKirkoBangz
    @IamKirkoBangz 9 лет назад +603

    BRING BACK THIS ERA OF MUSIC. THIS IS MUSIC

    • @Bembrunt
      @Bembrunt 6 лет назад +6

      Kirko Bangz True... greetings from Germany

    • @jamiesalley604
      @jamiesalley604 3 года назад

      No

    • @Iknowyoumadnow
      @Iknowyoumadnow 3 года назад +1

      Nigga u ain't kirko

    • @AxlAX
      @AxlAX 2 года назад

      Yes!! But they won't. Now they just promote talentless sell outs!

    • @IamKirkoBangz
      @IamKirkoBangz 2 года назад

      I got drank in my cup

  • @christianclaros4075
    @christianclaros4075 Месяц назад +7

    One of the iconic beats of my youth. I still go back to this. The fashion, the vibe and the mood entirely. Thank you.

  • @melodysanger103
    @melodysanger103 4 года назад +148

    August 15, 1998 - 22 Years Ago Today: Monica had the Hot Shot Debut at No. 14 on the Billboard Hot 100 Chart with her single, "The First Night." This was Monica's 8th chart entry and it became her second No. 1 hit of the year as "The Boy Is Mine," with Brandy was winding down its 13-week reign at No. 1. "The First Night" became Monica's 6th Top Ten and 2nd of three consecutive No. 1's. The single samples Diana Ross's "Love Hangover," which was a No. 1 hit in 1976. "The First Night" also enjoyed a 6-week run at No. 1 on the Billboard R&B Chart. Monica was 17-years-old at the time this single debuted and 14 years-old when she began her streak of 8 Top Tens. "The First Night" was written by Jermaine Dupri, Marilyn McLeod, Tamara Savage and Pam Sawyer. [08/15/2020]

    • @angholloway5091
      @angholloway5091 2 года назад +3

      Monica was older than 17 in 1998 she was 18 right?

    • @mbizo86
      @mbizo86 Год назад +2

      Thanks a mill for this.

    • @GiveItUpDot
      @GiveItUpDot Год назад

      Respect for that💯

    • @donitotia151
      @donitotia151 Год назад

      Classic 🔥🔥

    • @deionamuhammad4102
      @deionamuhammad4102 Год назад

      I watched this music video a thousand times. I remember having to record it on a VHS tape 😁

  • @Jedi_Luke
    @Jedi_Luke 4 года назад +122

    If Monica and Aaliyah did a song together with them both dancing in their best in the video, it would've sold millions and millions.

    • @jamiesalley604
      @jamiesalley604 3 года назад +4

      Brandt dedicated 2 albums to her

    • @tjcnbrz2799
      @tjcnbrz2799 4 месяца назад

      @@jamiesalley604 Brandy*

    • @shaylawatson1244
      @shaylawatson1244 4 месяца назад +4

      Sure would have god I wish she lived longer

  • @brandonbates9259
    @brandonbates9259 10 лет назад +268

    Back when the artist personal lives didnt overshadow the music that we liked

  • @sabrinashields687
    @sabrinashields687 7 лет назад +64

    Monica has ALWAYS been Gorgeous!

    • @Keezie27
      @Keezie27 4 года назад +1

      For sure

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il Год назад

      How are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today and my name is James and how is the weather over there

  • @malemadonna13
    @malemadonna13 9 лет назад +487

    People always talking about they want REAL R&B music back but don't support it when it drops. Monica's new album CODE RED is coming soon. BUY IT.

    • @mariodemeritte
      @mariodemeritte 9 лет назад +8

      Male Madonna yesssssssss

    • @Neen88
      @Neen88 9 лет назад +10

      Male Madonna truth bomb right there

    • @ThePharaoho
      @ThePharaoho 7 лет назад +40

      Male Madonna The new generation is the biggest market in the US and they're conditioned and programed to think trash is music.

    • @putjesusfirst9814
      @putjesusfirst9814 7 лет назад

      Menelik Charles very true

    • @sarahwaters3869
      @sarahwaters3869 7 лет назад

      Mario Demeritte vjhhh

  • @XSPXtremesimmerproductions
    @XSPXtremesimmerproductions 2 года назад +131

    This song is hella relatable for me being a teenager in today’s society is a nightmare it’s all about “getting down” 😂 I wanna get down but not the first night I needs some security first ”💍”

    • @sammy69831
      @sammy69831 2 года назад +16

      That's right bby,very smart of you to think of yourself, your feelings, and the short term long term repercussions of what "getting down" will mean for you once you take that leap. Plus sex ain't going anywhere.... it'll still be there when your ready

    • @Redisdead98
      @Redisdead98 2 года назад +5

      Shoot I can’t find anyone nowadays that actually wants to wait or work on things or work past things as a team lol little things are going to happen don’t let the little things ruin a great thing you know wait work and get things done together

    • @XSPXtremesimmerproductions
      @XSPXtremesimmerproductions 2 года назад +5

      @@Redisdead98 I found one and tied them down lol

    • @Redisdead98
      @Redisdead98 2 года назад +4

      @@XSPXtremesimmerproductions haha that’s good now just wish me all the luck I can get for that same thing 🤣

    • @XSPXtremesimmerproductions
      @XSPXtremesimmerproductions Год назад +4

      @@Redisdead98 7 months later 😅😅😅 it didn’t work out unfortunately but I’m happier single but I hope you find that someone

  • @branj18
    @branj18 5 лет назад +88

    I will always and forever love this beat. Ever since I was a kid that’s what grabbed me.

  • @michellepreweda20
    @michellepreweda20 9 лет назад +535

    I dont know why, but back then I found their matching white tops and beige pants pretty cool! I miss the simpler days

    • @knightmaremystery1553
      @knightmaremystery1553 9 лет назад

      Thats hot wats ur ig lol

    • @michellepreweda20
      @michellepreweda20 9 лет назад

      +Knightmare Mystery What's ig?

    • @deljean
      @deljean 8 лет назад +17

      I would rock tht now

    • @HoneyBee1980
      @HoneyBee1980 6 лет назад +1

      michelle preweda IG IS SHORT FOR WHATS YOUR INSTAGRAM?

    • @inreallife767
      @inreallife767 5 лет назад +2

      still is, in the 2019. Not to mention no Guys or Girls Butts are hanging out.

  • @LaCheleWallace
    @LaCheleWallace 9 лет назад +126

    I had this song on repeat like nobody's business. She was/is so pretty.

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il Год назад

      How are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today and my name is James and how is the weather over there

  • @sweetophe
    @sweetophe 8 лет назад +475

    I cannot believe this song is 20 years old.

    • @badbitch7676
      @badbitch7676 7 лет назад

      tasha gardiner 19 years old 20 next year

    • @thalyapontes7437
      @thalyapontes7437 6 лет назад +5

      20 years just in July (2018)

    • @needacleaner14
      @needacleaner14 6 лет назад +3

      tasha gardiner OMG...I feel so old. 😊
      Strangely enough, this video came out a month after I graduated from high school. 😏

    • @vivanonnonanni9318
      @vivanonnonanni9318 4 года назад +7

      This was #1 in the charts the day I was born. Fact is, this is the first time I've ever heard it

    • @153bettyboop
      @153bettyboop 4 года назад +2

      Viva NonnoNanni same

  • @KessyWetta-wz8lr
    @KessyWetta-wz8lr Месяц назад +3

    Her voice, the beat, the choreography, the rap... etc. Everything is just FIRE in this song ❤❤❤

  • @vlog_tv1161
    @vlog_tv1161 Год назад +13

    That briiiiiidgeee is fiireeee 🔥

  • @ChrisDeRoin
    @ChrisDeRoin 9 лет назад +260

    Fish-eye lens, choreographed dancing, high contrast colors, sweeping pans, breakdancing, all white clothes (from The Gap presumably?), rolled up pant legs, a couch...this video had all the late 90's jams!

  • @bensimpson9381
    @bensimpson9381 8 лет назад +374

    2:12
    RIP to "the bridge" in R&b music

    • @harishs3878
      @harishs3878 5 лет назад +5

      What's a bridge ???

    • @Markadown
      @Markadown 5 лет назад +59

      @@harishs3878 It can either be a pre-chorus which is after a verse but before your chorus or a section of the song that either returns you to the chorus or another verse. These are typically the most creative and contrasting pieces of the song as they can change the melody, tone, or even the beat of the song.

    • @DayvidDavis
      @DayvidDavis 5 лет назад +36

      Master Harish A Bridge is the climax of a song.

    • @lalakuma9
      @lalakuma9 5 лет назад +26

      Yeah songs today are so boring. They usually just repeat the same annoying hook over and over again regardless of whether it even sounds good.

    • @kensongillis9249
      @kensongillis9249 4 года назад +6

      Lala OMG YESSS NOW YOU SAID THAT I DON’T SEE MANY ARTISTS DO THAT !!😨 THEY JUST REPEAT THE SAME THING OVER !🎶🙄

  • @vwiggins1847
    @vwiggins1847 8 лет назад +205

    Monica mean self sooo pretty. 😄😋😘

    • @mochas9249
      @mochas9249 4 года назад +8

      Lol she do seem kinda mean

    • @kekebsmith2726
      @kekebsmith2726 4 года назад +4

      Well they did say she slap brandy😂😂😂

    • @kammore6209
      @kammore6209 4 года назад +7

      Mocha S She just hood 😂

    • @mochas9249
      @mochas9249 4 года назад +1

      Kam More 😂😂

    • @mochas9249
      @mochas9249 4 года назад +1

      C. C. Right, she built like that til this day i hate it

  • @HighMaintenanceMinimalist
    @HighMaintenanceMinimalist 4 года назад +41

    This song used to be my JAM! I'm glad they played it on Verzuz.

  • @CaapriceTube1
    @CaapriceTube1 4 года назад +30

    That All-White & Khaki Combo, crisp!
    Doesn't get more 1998 than that.

    • @ryanmartin73
      @ryanmartin73 4 года назад +4

      The whole video was a damned gap commercial.

    • @jonathandonley3299
      @jonathandonley3299 4 года назад +2

      I thought something pretty similar. Is it just me or were even the clothes better back then?

    • @davidmthekidd
      @davidmthekidd 2 года назад +1

      @@ryanmartin73 those colors were hot that summer of 98, I wore those all the time.

  • @chunkycheese09
    @chunkycheese09 10 лет назад +510

    monica always got the finest dudes in her videos

    • @billydiggs6192
      @billydiggs6192 6 лет назад +1

      Nisha B.
      Girls always get what they want rich or not flabbergasted 😲

    • @billydiggs6192
      @billydiggs6192 6 лет назад

      Nisha B.
      LOL

    • @XF990
      @XF990 5 лет назад +4

      I say the same thing lol

    • @blessedk77
      @blessedk77 5 лет назад

      Always!

    • @johnlewis3891
      @johnlewis3891 5 лет назад +5

      @John Edwards Citation needed. What is your source?

  • @jmaclover428
    @jmaclover428 10 лет назад +149

    I love how simple the costumes were! Wardrobe budget was probably $50.....with change left

    • @TheCreatorNFE
      @TheCreatorNFE 4 года назад +3

      @Winter Sky Lmao

    • @deljean
      @deljean 4 года назад +2

      @Winter Sky 😂😭😂

  • @brandybell9834
    @brandybell9834 4 года назад +14

    This Beat izz SICK🔥🔥🔥

  • @Kallah_DaughterOfYAHUAH
    @Kallah_DaughterOfYAHUAH 26 дней назад +4

    One of the most UNDERRATED songs ever!

  • @spinsterschool
    @spinsterschool 3 года назад +156

    Monica is so pretty. Such an icon. Still listening to this in 2021.

  • @Magg827
    @Magg827 11 лет назад +29

    I used to love this song! Listening to it again and I'm still feeling it!

    • @matthewwheeler2231
      @matthewwheeler2231 Год назад

      Me too 😊😊

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il Год назад

      How are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today and my name is James and how is the weather over there

  • @MrDimwitted
    @MrDimwitted 9 лет назад +72

    I trip on these 90's R&B tunes and how much class and restraint they show. It's like we still had some sense of decency. That's all changed now in the seventeen years since. Narcissism, misogyny, cynicism and lack of respect for others and their viewpoints and opinions has now taken hold. The internet has been great for some things but has been outright ruinous for others in regards to our social mores. I'm picking on the internet because that is the changing variable from now compared to 1998 when the internet was just getting started and social media was just a germ of an idea.

    • @electrogeek77
      @electrogeek77 9 лет назад +12

      Odinspirit You didn't listen to much music in the 90's, did you? Because I recall the majority of it being similar to as it is now. Things didn't change - you, I, and every other music fan got older and wiser.

    • @RichGrimes
      @RichGrimes 9 лет назад +1

      electrogeek77 thank you

    • @Dakid015
      @Dakid015 4 года назад +1

      @@electrogeek77 Thank you electrogeek! You hit the nail on the head. Telling from his or her tone, the OP is probably just reminiscent about this time in the 90s and maybe is still living in it. Nothing wrong with being nostalgic at all but the fact is...music evolved, culture evolved, we grew. Nothing wrong it's just how things manifested.

  • @caneimcdo9136
    @caneimcdo9136 8 лет назад +3016

    back when brandy, monica, mya, and aaliyah were the teen dreams of r&b

    • @reggiebanks3607
      @reggiebanks3607 8 лет назад +138

      You mean Brandy , Monica and Aaliyah. Mya wasn't in the same league as them

    • @TINKERB121
      @TINKERB121 8 лет назад +152

      +Reggie Banks She wasn't as big but she was popular enough.

    • @SaraLuvsElla
      @SaraLuvsElla 6 лет назад +101

      I loved Aaliyah! I cried for days when she passed away :/

    • @malikdamartian6863
      @malikdamartian6863 6 лет назад +112

      Mya wasn't as big as a name as them but I wouldnt sleep on her either. She was doing her thing with them too

    • @keelyleilani1326
      @keelyleilani1326 5 лет назад +62

      What the hell are you talking about Mya blew up around 1998 and was a household name by 2000. Her popularity also outlasted Brandy's and Monica's.

  • @DenayTheDiva
    @DenayTheDiva 4 года назад +32

    Forever a classic! 🔥

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il Год назад

      How are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today and my name is James and how is the weather over there

  • @ForeverThatQueen
    @ForeverThatQueen 3 года назад +26

    Omg I grew up loving this ! 😍 and still love and respect the message 💯💞💪🏽✨

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il Год назад

      How are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today and my name is Winton Moore and how is the weather over there

  • @ÖmerÖzdamar-m6h
    @ÖmerÖzdamar-m6h 11 дней назад +3

    ❤Happy birthday to you my love ❤

  • @Phyx1us
    @Phyx1us 9 лет назад +97

    Love it! Thanks to Diana Ross' Love Hangover sample which made this song.

    • @lissetteh.1595
      @lissetteh.1595 9 лет назад +1

      😕 why was that necessary?

    • @jarvishudsonbey6736
      @jarvishudsonbey6736 9 лет назад +14

      thanks for the info . I didn't know that sample

    • @akuapiatas
      @akuapiatas 9 лет назад +5

      +Paul Forster yes it has love hangover intonations to the music.

    • @deljean
      @deljean 8 лет назад +2

      yes

    • @kirk5487
      @kirk5487 4 года назад +1

      It sure did!❤

  • @RY-fe3rt
    @RY-fe3rt 6 месяцев назад +5

    Whoever was doing her hair during TBIM era is still the boss!

  • @jayviBaby09
    @jayviBaby09 6 лет назад +22

    People talk about hits. This was number one, including “The boy is mine” song, Monica had 3 number one hits in one year from one album. Props to the Queen

  • @needacleaner14
    @needacleaner14 6 лет назад +179

    Back when it was considered cool for us as young women to have respect for our own selves. Seriously, shout out to the sisters who still have respect for their own selves. As women, it starts and ends with us.

    • @linusrandall9339
      @linusrandall9339 Год назад +8

      But sadly in the “good old days“ many women were robbed of their choice as to whether they would get down on the first night.

    • @AliciaNelson-rb6ph
      @AliciaNelson-rb6ph Год назад +1

      First of God bless eveery

    • @KendraLynch-i6b
      @KendraLynch-i6b Год назад

      That's me 🎉

    • @imthefuture22
      @imthefuture22 Год назад

      @@linusrandall9339😂

    • @AlphaOmeg-y3h
      @AlphaOmeg-y3h 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@linusrandall9339leave the rape talk for another conversation. This about women who still have good moral fiber

  • @shanielegance
    @shanielegance 8 лет назад +127

    the message in this song is all...girls nowadays this should be your anthem.

  • @jubilantsleep
    @jubilantsleep 8 лет назад +68

    Face + Voice + Body = Monica has it all

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il Год назад

      How are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today and my name is Winton Moore and how is the weather over there

    • @hughesHughes-p8k
      @hughesHughes-p8k 11 месяцев назад

      Facts

  • @kaylaore
    @kaylaore Год назад +5

    4EVER A CLASSIC

  • @PGTransformed
    @PGTransformed 3 года назад +12

    Monica definitely had her own LOVE HANGOVER here!! That sample was Pure Genius!!

  • @robertb1275
    @robertb1275 3 года назад +18

    Jermaine Dupree is one of the greatest producers in the music business.

  • @dkms12231988
    @dkms12231988 8 лет назад +89

    This cd was everything!!!

    • @rushud1
      @rushud1 7 лет назад +3

      right!

    • @moonraker30
      @moonraker30 4 года назад +1

      From start to finish

    • @Keezie27
      @Keezie27 4 года назад +1

      I love this entire album

  • @christinasamalia
    @christinasamalia 5 месяцев назад +13

    40 years old, married and still BUMPIN'!
    "If you want me, you've got to know me, and if you want my love. You've gotta wait, my love." Idc..

  • @AntoinetteChanel
    @AntoinetteChanel 8 лет назад +129

    This, plus the Gap's khaki campaign of 1998 had me BEGGING my mom for new khakis and white tees every week.

  • @Thatb-yk8cw
    @Thatb-yk8cw 4 года назад +7

    I LOVE ALL THE MELANIN QUEENS AND KINGS IN THIS VIDEO

  • @bravesoul5743
    @bravesoul5743 3 года назад +14

    I loved this song back in the day!!

  • @lambda494
    @lambda494 8 лет назад +313

    That Diana Ross sample never gets old

    • @blackberry9013
      @blackberry9013 7 лет назад +9

      Big Core Mk X I swear🔥❤

    • @moonraker30
      @moonraker30 4 года назад +10

      It’s everything

    • @Seriousthing13
      @Seriousthing13 4 года назад +31

      Yes that love hangover joint..I bet Ms. Ross was getting hella checks in the late 90s for the sampling of her songs this song and Mo Money, Mo Problems

    • @deljean
      @deljean 4 года назад +4

      Too fire

    • @rowdyjman94
      @rowdyjman94 4 года назад +8

      Cold rock a party mc lyte (well, a remix of it) uses upside down

  • @littlejhova
    @littlejhova 8 лет назад +108

    who else remembers watching this on TRL on MTV? #1998

  • @ARMG3-e9t
    @ARMG3-e9t 8 лет назад +47

    GIRL the lead man in this video is an exception, hey blassiiiiaaannnnn

  • @MzMack-oo3vr
    @MzMack-oo3vr 4 года назад +18

    I remember when this song hit number 1 on Planet Groove on BET. Been jamming monica since Tha 90 's.

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il Год назад

      How are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today and my name is James and how is the weather over there

  • @lisarogers4459
    @lisarogers4459 Год назад +4

    Still play this 🔥

  • @videovixen203
    @videovixen203 9 лет назад +196

    when rnb was clean and comfortable.

    • @BboyTurok1990
      @BboyTurok1990 4 года назад +7

      So true. It wasn't always a sex thing, but the RnB in the 90s was like I want to love you in a passionate yet sexy way.

    • @lolosmith8446
      @lolosmith8446 4 года назад +17

      @@BboyTurok1990 lmao you guy's memory must be limited because the 90s had a plethora of nasty r&b too. Just had more of a balance between that and this.

    • @amberhinson3867
      @amberhinson3867 4 года назад +8

      ... guess you weren’t listening to the real versions...

  • @ribeawatson8447
    @ribeawatson8447 7 лет назад +116

    Monica Aaliyah Brandy mya all beautiful natural

  • @lexis.6075
    @lexis.6075 7 лет назад +26

    This song is still as great as it was when it first came out!

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il Год назад

      How are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today and my name is James and how is the weather over there

  • @cidkult
    @cidkult 4 года назад +6

    When this tune drops in Verses 🥺👌🏾🔥🔥

  • @wezlee17
    @wezlee17 3 года назад +10

    This is crazy underrated for being a Billboard Hot 100 #1.

  • @breonaruss938
    @breonaruss938 9 лет назад +41

    "If you want me you got to know me and if you want my love, you gotta wait my love, baby that's the way it got to be"
    I don't get down on the first night !

    • @tevinjohnson3462
      @tevinjohnson3462 3 года назад +4

      Basically saying get to know me as a person Before we move forward

    • @mayovanexrodriguez6753
      @mayovanexrodriguez6753 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@tevinjohnson3462 this how it is women doesn't 💋 on the 🥇 day or get jiggy jiggy you know what I mean they looking for a man to take it slow and get to know each other

  • @Ten0692
    @Ten0692 11 лет назад +11

    The beats in this generation was so smooth and chilled, so glad to be a 90's kid!

  • @ChaeThompson
    @ChaeThompson 4 года назад +194

    This track does NOT get enough love probably cause its telling people the opposite of what most music is smh

    • @petitecheriecocoenrose7256
      @petitecheriecocoenrose7256 2 года назад +9

      I 100% agree🌺🌺🌷🌺🌷🌷🌺🌷

    • @icarosan3088
      @icarosan3088 Год назад

      jáá´eu vou comer ai

    • @laura11007
      @laura11007 Год назад +4

      Yes!! It's a positive message for young women ❤❤❤

    • @smggrizz273
      @smggrizz273 Год назад +1

      Facts

    • @MrExtraFINESSEtrial
      @MrExtraFINESSEtrial Год назад +7

      One billion percent right. People promote the opposite of chaste. Especially this new generation 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @kristianamayes5037
    @kristianamayes5037 4 года назад +9

    Back when natural beauty ‼️real stood out ‼️over the make up ...vibes 💯❤️❤️🔥🔥🎧💪🏽💪🏽

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il Год назад

      Hello How are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today and my name is James and how is the weather over there

  • @bbb12124
    @bbb12124 3 месяца назад +2

    The change up on the bridges in 80/90's r&b always had me geeked. Seriously, let's bring the bridge and fading outros back.

  • @shont8571
    @shont8571 9 лет назад +10

    Real talent! I absolutely LOVE her voice

  • @jennypro819
    @jennypro819 2 года назад +11

    Pure representation of generation X, song and everything , outstanding.

  • @siphosethufaku3041
    @siphosethufaku3041 10 лет назад +29

    Principles and values...shout out to the women who still have those. If em niggaz in a hurry, let em go...They wont stay for long anyway

  • @b-dalebarksdale348
    @b-dalebarksdale348 7 месяцев назад +1

    Always did love this song ❤️💙 such a Banger 💯🔥 I miss these days, 90s were so special, music was so better back then, love Monica, Brandy, Aaliyah 💐🕊️, Mya and Tamia!!

  • @aprilturner5504
    @aprilturner5504 Год назад +2

    The way Monica Brandy Aaliyah TLC SWV Xscape influenced the hair clothes etc was crazy..... I legit remember going to get this exact outfit!!! I had to find a flower hair tie as well I definitely wore my hair like this!!! I was in middle school I remember like it was yesterday!!!! Music made life better back then! I remember it being cool to be a classy teenager and not giving up your cookies, songs like this made it cool!!!

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il Год назад

      How are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today and my name is James and how is the weather over there😊

  • @IBeatDatBitchWitABat
    @IBeatDatBitchWitABat 8 лет назад +98

    A dude will not take you serious if you give it up easy that's why it's best to wait. It depends on the dude but you're better off waiting and respecting yourselves #KeepThatInMind don't let these guys fool you 💯

    • @millymilly8264
      @millymilly8264 6 лет назад +2

      💯💯💯💯

    • @stinger4712
      @stinger4712 6 лет назад +8

      Respect for you has little to do with giving it up easy or playing catch me if you can. You get more respect if you give it up on your own terms. be it day 1 or day x. where x is any positive number other than 1.
      Add to that it also depends on how interesting he finds you as a person.

    • @sherquettaingram6839
      @sherquettaingram6839 4 года назад +1

      💯

    • @aryanaalinnear
      @aryanaalinnear 2 года назад

      💯💯💯💯💯

    • @allthingsequal347
      @allthingsequal347 Год назад

      My friend don't impose your mind

  • @Just_Boo
    @Just_Boo 4 года назад +16

    This is 21 years old now?! 😲😲 Damn, time has went by quick af. I remember jammin to this back then. 🥰

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il Год назад

      How are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today and my name is James and how is the weather over there

  • @AlbertoSuarezMusic
    @AlbertoSuarezMusic 4 месяца назад +3

    Such an underrated song

  • @Hypnotiq604
    @Hypnotiq604 3 месяца назад +2

    so good and so smooth, this vibe will never die!!!

  • @TeeNakii
    @TeeNakii 4 года назад +5

    Monica always slayyyyy every looks ✊✊❤❤

  • @ValiantVisions314
    @ValiantVisions314 2 года назад +4

    Thanks to Monica and all the ladies of the 90s, 80s, early 2000s. Thank yall SOOO MUCH. WE CAN SHOW OUR DAUGHTERS YALL VIDEO AND YALL DANCE MOVES. As a father I can tell them we all loved all of you women even with your clothes on. Thank you Ladies...

  • @raramama
    @raramama 10 лет назад +28

    Still sound so good!

    • @barbarabrathwaite1128
      @barbarabrathwaite1128 10 лет назад

      1234567880

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il Год назад +1

      How are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today and my name is James and how is the weather over there

    • @raramama
      @raramama Год назад

      @JamesWilliams-ok3il My day was fantastic, thank you. How about you? How did you stumble on this comment?😅

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il Год назад

      @@raramamaI'm good thank you so where are you from and how was your day today

  • @isaidwhatisaidwitkia1389
    @isaidwhatisaidwitkia1389 9 лет назад +35

    Now Day's Girl's give it up with in Hours not even before the night is up.😩😩

    • @melayahgaither5936
      @melayahgaither5936 8 лет назад +1

      very tru u ain't never lied about that!!! preach on

    • @stinger4712
      @stinger4712 6 лет назад +3

      and whats the problem with that?

    • @journeytrials
      @journeytrials 5 лет назад +2

      They are not raised to be women of virtue or wives! Can’t blame them blame the culture and parents!

  • @jmendoza2003
    @jmendoza2003 Год назад +5

    Nothing like precious High School memories when the 90s was generation when life and this type of music was Care free.

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il Год назад

      How are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today and my name is James and how is the weather over there

  • @richardhaute6739
    @richardhaute6739 2 года назад +4

    its just my opinion ... but monica has one of these voices that has so much jazziness and vibrato in it ... it is almost like it is non-classically super-human ... it is like an ELECTRONIC SYNTHESIZER. almost manufactured. but made by a human! Every single note. Whether low. Or high. Vibrates with this colourful frequency and tone. It is not a clear sound. It is like a coarse. Yet equally razor-precise sound. the only other one who can sing like this. is i think kelly rowland.

  • @Flexican510
    @Flexican510 Год назад +3

    The 90’s Music with R&B & HipHop Will Always Be Undefeated! 🏆 🎶

  • @chrystalp1985
    @chrystalp1985 4 года назад +195

    Who's here after watching the live Verzuz Brandy vs. Monica?

    • @momoshiggles3631
      @momoshiggles3631 4 года назад +3

      Pretty much. I forgot how much I love this song.

    • @musiclover-cn7tb
      @musiclover-cn7tb 4 года назад +4

      @@momoshiggles3631 I thought that blasian looking boy beside Monica was so fine.

    • @jamesregan2648
      @jamesregan2648 4 года назад +1

      Thought she should’ve played this after Brandy played Top of the World as a song match!

    • @sheribrooks8205
      @sheribrooks8205 4 года назад

      Meeeeeeeeeeee

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal 4 года назад

      Me!!!

  • @tialovesya85
    @tialovesya85 10 лет назад +12

    I was in middle school when this came out, I miss this style and the music biz back then, there were so many ladies in the game

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il Год назад

      Hello How are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today and my name is James and how is the weather over there

  • @TheodoreColley-m5p
    @TheodoreColley-m5p Месяц назад +3

    One of the best female videos

  • @donzilla3325
    @donzilla3325 15 дней назад +1

    This joint still 🔥 rock got damn

  • @curlyhead21
    @curlyhead21 10 лет назад +10

    My favorite song from Monica.

  • @claudiatorres2158
    @claudiatorres2158 Год назад +4

    Just found this lost gem, I haven’t heard this song in so long!

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il Год назад

      Hello How are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today and my name is James and how is the weather over there

  • @SoulKidVids
    @SoulKidVids 12 лет назад +6

    Why can't we have music like this today? The Vibe, energy, style, era? Music with SOUL and LIFE to it.

  • @jewelporter2462
    @jewelporter2462 Год назад +2

    ❤ love you lady, great Music always ‼️💙🎉❤🎉😊

  • @diontaedaughtry974
    @diontaedaughtry974 Год назад +2

    Nothing like the feeling of nostalgia watching music videos on this warm summer Sunday night 🌆. Watching videos and nickelodeon and The Simpsons then getting ready for school in the morning. 1998 has my favorite R&B music. Great video 👍👍

  • @jessicawilliams1176
    @jessicawilliams1176 Год назад +3

    This song, her voice, the choreography, and the outfits, I love it all. This song is so amazing and it’s one of my favorite songs and one of my favorite songs by Monica ❤🔥. Happy 25th Anniversary to this amazing album and to one of my favorite albums by one of my 2nd favorite female singers, The Boy Is Mine! ❤🎉7/14/2023

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il Год назад

      How are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today and my name is Winton Moore and how is the weather over there

  • @preetrayat4851
    @preetrayat4851 4 года назад +5

    Wow 1998 this song came out and I was 16! 😊 it’s a amazing song and I remember I took sewing classes during high school and I made a same outfit like Monica is wearing in this music video. Damn! ♥️ da 90’s were the bomb.

  • @ForeverThatQueen
    @ForeverThatQueen 3 года назад +13

    Yessss Monica was the staple for us young girls growing up and the standard 💯💞 thank you for making this timeless gem 💎💞🔥

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il Год назад

      How are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today and my name is James and how is the weather over there

  • @Exceedvictory
    @Exceedvictory 4 года назад +8

    God I miss those days so much....just being a kid and enjoying stuff to the max...

  • @implive17
    @implive17 4 года назад +5

    This beat though 🔥🔥🔥