They’ll Ask Why You Changed, But It Was Their Actions That Redefined Who You Became

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  • Опубликовано: 17 дек 2024

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  • @Cottoncandy42
    @Cottoncandy42 Месяц назад +26

    💯

  • @TheRelentlessTheory
    @TheRelentlessTheory Месяц назад +47

    Whoever is reading this, keep going, never give up, stay relentless. You are your most valuable asset in life other than of course GOD. Stay strong! We got this!

  • @dananjayachathuranga7113
    @dananjayachathuranga7113 Месяц назад +39

    I am rebuilding my own discipline after her rejection. There is no time to play with kids. Thank you bro

  • @ultrainstinctbroly4333
    @ultrainstinctbroly4333 Месяц назад +21

    i have rebuilt my entire being with every single lie betrayal and backstab throughout my life. nobody can hurt me, but me. nobody can tug my emotions. but me.

  • @lindakunz9297
    @lindakunz9297 Месяц назад +9

    They look at me with fear and not knowing what to do about it thank you my Friend Joker

  • @elenaandchad
    @elenaandchad Месяц назад +12

    It hard to step away 100% from narcissists when children are involvrd.

    • @KathBona
      @KathBona Месяц назад +1

      @@elenaandchad yes and always put childrens need before thou own

    • @hibiscus1974
      @hibiscus1974 Месяц назад +2

      @@KathBonatrue.. happened to me and my daughter.. every day walking on eggshells

  • @russellcampbell1625
    @russellcampbell1625 Месяц назад +8

    She threw away 12 years of marriage! I lost everything! I dont know the person i have become. I dont trust women anymore! I dont trust anyone anymore! I've lost friends... well, ppl i thought were my friends! Grinding alone in the dark! Becoming a stronger and darker person in the void

  • @user-tk3nm2ul1e
    @user-tk3nm2ul1e Месяц назад +10

    Joker!
    Words to express
    My gratitude for
    Telling my story
    Of survival°
    Still here changed ,protected!
    Blessed to be stronger than I ha ve ever been!!
    Value guidence!!
    Appreciate ur
    Valuable insight !
    ❤🎉

  • @bsgbsg7025
    @bsgbsg7025 Месяц назад +10

    Thank you, I needed this, I'm not bitter, I'm better 😊

  • @davepearson6501
    @davepearson6501 Месяц назад +9

    100% brilliant mate - you’re getting better and better at this 👍
    Liked and Shared.

  • @davidimes
    @davidimes Месяц назад +14

    You write my biography every single day and that of so many people. PLEASE do one on GHOSTING!!!

  • @youalreadykn0w
    @youalreadykn0w Месяц назад +10

    My brother is manipulative and has a heart of stone. And I have 14 years looking out and caring his children. From the moment the kids called me there second dad. He never thanked me and I never asked something for helping. Because I love them very much. And he knows I will do anything for them. That's his weapon. But now he doesn't need me. He tells the kid's lies about me. Lucky, the oldest one knows he is lying because she has hearing and seeing everything. Always drinking beer and drugs.
    Now he is trying to break me.
    Because he doesn't like that his kids love me. I can't stay far away from him because of my love for the kids and his dog Bikkel. I love them so much.
    Thanks for your Joker message it gives me hope 🙏🏼

    • @mistyschachter4173
      @mistyschachter4173 Месяц назад +1

      Fully rely on God the love you have amazing and people who are takers take don't let's this break you I respect that you are brave enough to reach out pray for your bother to keep help for his addiction. My God bless you with wisdom of what's in your control. God answered my prayers. I will pray for your family .Empower yourself! Listen carefully to this advice and reflect on your actions and thoughts to elevate your life!

    • @youalreadykn0w
      @youalreadykn0w Месяц назад

      @mistyschachter4173 Thank you for your kindness, God bless you 🙏🏼
      I appreciate your reaction ♥️

    • @Britdv
      @Britdv Месяц назад +2

      You are a Miracle for those Kids and the Dog 🐕 God Bless you ❤
      This is a Classic example of what Narcissistic people do - they try destroy others because inside they're nothing but a cold, empty shell spewing Evil & it's horrific I know. I'm not over my experience 12+ yrs on 💔
      Yet Kids can C thru the charade..or eventually will when their old enough. I'll Pray 🙏 4U my friend - you've a ❤ of Gold. Stay strong. Karma will deal with UR Brother. U got this💯☑️👍x

    • @youalreadykn0w
      @youalreadykn0w Месяц назад

      @Britdv Thank you so very much for your kind words ❤️🙏🏼

    • @youalreadykn0w
      @youalreadykn0w Месяц назад

      @@mistyschachter4173 Thank you very much for your encouraging words 🙏🏼

  • @Michelle-v2t
    @Michelle-v2t Месяц назад +13

    Thank you! This was excellent to listen to as I continued to write my own book.

    • @Dark-sd5xh
      @Dark-sd5xh  Месяц назад +4

      🖤❤️🖤

    • @KathBona
      @KathBona Месяц назад +2

      @@Michelle-v2t your the BEST

    • @Michelle-v2t
      @Michelle-v2t Месяц назад

      @@KathBona Thank you.

    • @anitasue3208
      @anitasue3208 Месяц назад

      I need to write the book 📖 too for real! These narcs keep coming for me?!!!!

    • @Michelle-v2t
      @Michelle-v2t Месяц назад +1

      @anitasue3208 I definitely understand. Totally get it, though. Handwriting my book has helped me out a little bit more. It's taken me forever, I feel like. Considering I've actually been actually working on it versus putting it off to the side. It's been helping me be able to cope with a thing's a little bit easier. It's a good form of relief, especially when you know you're not alone. It's definitely a lot different from speaking on it verbally as well. It's definitely not always easy speaking on it. It definitely requires a lot when it comes to the healing aspect of things as well.

  • @joannturi3968
    @joannturi3968 Месяц назад +18

    I will never let anyone change my good nature. They will never dim my light. I'm the same person that I was born to be. I can adjust to their negative attitudes towards me, but I'm always going to be me. Case closed.

    • @AmyAllan-wd3cm
      @AmyAllan-wd3cm Месяц назад +2

      💯❤

    • @biotoxic9691
      @biotoxic9691 Месяц назад

      Then leave. We don’t need your lies here. Inside, you’re no different than anyone else.

    • @joannturi3968
      @joannturi3968 Месяц назад +2

      @biotoxic9691 Everyone was created as a unique individual, no two people are alike not even twins. Ask your local doctor. Do you think that God Almighty created a bunch of dumbass clones? You are sadly mistaken.

    • @joannturi3968
      @joannturi3968 Месяц назад

      @@biotoxic9691 You must have been created in a lab, or a test tube, therefore you were not granted a soul. You weren't created in the right way or manner according to God's plan, now I know why you replied and said what you said. You are simply a man made meat suit. Condolences to you.

    • @alinaelisabetei7624
      @alinaelisabetei7624 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@joannturi3968He was referring, babygirl, about the negative side. You are the same person in the void of negativity, that's probably what he meant, because to be truly DIFFERENT is to be in positivity, in Light, through virtue, spiritual life and a righteous person and woman, and you know, pretty baby sister 🎉 how hard you will find such a beauty woman or man with an innocent heart ❤
      Kudos to you, pretty sister, we are the same 😎 🥂🌹💋

  • @cb3391
    @cb3391 Месяц назад +23

    This is the face and voice of my shadow self,
    I didn't choose it,
    It chose me...

  • @guinevere7494
    @guinevere7494 Месяц назад +3

    I a left my ex. I warned him he wouldn’t like it if he breaks me. I think he thought that meant I would crumble. When I couldn’t take anymore and told him I was done. It was the day my voice toward him changed. I still have reason to be concerned about safety. I found this today with my heart still breaking but he will never know it. He said I changed. He wants me still. He wants the old me. I will never be that person again. I am rebuilding new, stronger. He is not done with me but fixation will not last because my voice is new. I did need to find your channel because I’ve watched several and it’s helping my brain. Thank you

    • @bradberkowitz4429
      @bradberkowitz4429 Месяц назад +2

      Or… he moved on 5 years ago. And your residual attachment to who you were with him haunts you because you won’t ever be the version of yourself that deserved his love. So. Yeah.

  • @Eddie03220
    @Eddie03220 Месяц назад +5

    Joker....this one resonates with me and the abuse I felt from my parents...
    I forgave them, but I'm not the way I used to be when I was younger and I don't know what to think about it...
    That innocence is gone and I don't remember what it feels like anymore....

  • @andeet509
    @andeet509 Месяц назад +4

    This time they really fucked up. I’ve embraced the monster inside. I can’t fight her off anymore. We are one. 🖤

  • @Sunflower-wq6re
    @Sunflower-wq6re Месяц назад +7

    Haven,t listened yet but thumbed up already because i know it will be amazing .
    Thank you
    ❤🇬🇧

  • @frankdigiovanni3666
    @frankdigiovanni3666 Месяц назад +1

    That’s EXACTLY how I “changed”!!! You explain the process soooooo perfectly and it’s soooooooo comforting to know I’m doing the right thing.
    You’re a LEGEND!!!…. Kid

  • @allyfrasier6306
    @allyfrasier6306 Месяц назад +5

    Gratitude ❤

  • @4ChristStanding
    @4ChristStanding Месяц назад +1

    Very powerful! I’m fighting to be there for my kids and my ex has made accusations that cost me my career. She’s used the state to prevent me and lies to not allow me to see my kids. We adopted all the kids together and 4 months after the adoption of the last one was when she called it quits. During the separation, I was nice and tried to be helpful. It came back and bit me hard. She admitted to taking advantage of a nice guy who wouldn’t stand up for himself only during an argument. She’s constantly talking bad about me and my family to the kids and lies about it. She uses the kids as a shield while hurling insults at me. Saying to keep the kids out of it, yet lies and talks to the kids about stuff that they should be left out of. I keep going for myself and to be there for my kids. So they have one parent who won’t manipulate and lie at every chance they can. My faith keeps me on the right path.

  • @galinaverbitsky9357
    @galinaverbitsky9357 Месяц назад +7

    I never know this people exist till now very sad thanks for more open eyes to human

  • @Roddy_Zeh
    @Roddy_Zeh Месяц назад +7

    Not worth trying to explain to them. They don't care, they don't wanna know, they only listen to what they want.
    You just tell 'em you changed because times change.
    ☕️🗿

  • @mistyschachter4173
    @mistyschachter4173 Месяц назад +3

    Empower yourself! Listen carefully to this advice and reflect on your actions and thoughts to elevate your life!

  • @drewmoore365
    @drewmoore365 Месяц назад +7

    Here's the program......first is Joker (right after the pain) to get your mind right.....but then you have to switch to the action videos. Check out his focus, fight like hell, and no excuses videos. After you have your mind and plan together

  • @jonnyrebel4800
    @jonnyrebel4800 6 дней назад

    God changed me by showing me the truth, obviously I wanted to change but didn't know until God showed me.❤ ❤

  • @poonsrisrethaphakdi5776
    @poonsrisrethaphakdi5776 Месяц назад +3

    Thank you 100%❤!

  • @anitasue3208
    @anitasue3208 Месяц назад +2

    111 comments intuition! This is spot on joker 🤡 the joke’s on them! 😅 it’s like you telling my story! 🤯

  • @breandabrown4683
    @breandabrown4683 22 дня назад

    Hell yeah!!!! But he got a taste of who I am now this weekend. I love this version of me and needed this change over my life because some people are monsters and will pretend to love you but they only love what you do for them and soon as they no longer need you they toss you aside. But only the strong survive. I am glad I am resilient.

  • @up3564
    @up3564 Месяц назад +8

    This sucks hard when it’s your parents . . . because I didn’t get to choose them

    • @50shadesofbish
      @50shadesofbish Месяц назад +4

      Same. Just remember though…granted we didn’t choose them…but we get to choose our OWN family now. My circle is small..and it doesn’t include my parents.

    • @yonypanofsky2763
      @yonypanofsky2763 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@50shadesofbishsounds heart-breaking... I am sorry for you.... did you explain your feelings to them?

    • @63Smooth_Mc
      @63Smooth_Mc Месяц назад

      Why would I even try? They never heard me before. Even less now that the masks are off.​@@yonypanofsky2763

    • @50shadesofbish
      @50shadesofbish Месяц назад +3

      @@yonypanofsky2763 don’t feel sorry for me…I don’t play the “ victim “ card. It’s in the past … I live in the PRESENT 💕😊

    • @joannturi3968
      @joannturi3968 Месяц назад +3

      You can pick your friends but not your family.

  • @WillowRayneForest
    @WillowRayneForest Месяц назад

    they don't understand how i am so focused and not giving them anything I am far too busy for the evil my ex-dishes. He keeps love bombing me, but he is evil and abusive. I am only focused on healing and my school. I thank God for my professor Spurgeon and this channel and Lee hammocks channel, this gives me so much help. It's like listening to my life. you are so smart. You empower me. thank you so much

  • @firemage6099
    @firemage6099 Месяц назад +17

    1st coffee with my friend the dark

  • @DoubleOMalley
    @DoubleOMalley 12 дней назад

    This is the absolute best content I've ever found on YT. Amazing stuff. Thank you.

  • @Darkangelbelguim
    @Darkangelbelguim Месяц назад +9

    Keep going ❤

  • @thomassen333
    @thomassen333 Месяц назад

    Thank you for your education seeing you for the first time. Resonate ❤ Bless you for your work

  • @transcendentsacredcourage
    @transcendentsacredcourage Месяц назад +2

    I don't ever want someone to ask such a goofy question: my frankness is at an all time high. If they can't handle the truth, then they better not ask something so stupid.

  • @susrikamila9771
    @susrikamila9771 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you my friend 😊❤

  • @kaidjackson1200
    @kaidjackson1200 27 дней назад

    THIS EXACTLY WHAT I'M GOING THROUGH RIGHT NOW, I HAD TO CHANGE, ONLY IT WASN'T YEARS IT WAS RECENTLY 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏🏿 THANK YOU DARK FORCE!!

  • @cb3391
    @cb3391 Месяц назад +3

    Honestly, more reasons than I can say....,
    I did, I truly did, and they all piled on I am different now.
    Not sad, not mad, I am different now.
    🔥🃏☕

  • @agustinmoralesrodriguez1242
    @agustinmoralesrodriguez1242 Месяц назад +1

    I am a ghost. To a few, mom included, the contact is in my own terms. I dont pock up my phone, no way, no apologies. Not bitter bit better ans stronger. 58 y old man here. The journey is not over. Best wishes.

  • @shadowmonarch7064
    @shadowmonarch7064 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for this my life will have a turning point men.

  • @retrodealer6495
    @retrodealer6495 21 день назад +1

    When my narcissist niece threw me under the bus to die?. I jumped right out instantly on the other side!😠. They saw me standing there😟🤥. And nearly piss themselves lol.

  • @TaofikMarhrani
    @TaofikMarhrani Месяц назад

    It's true that I have learned to grow teeth and fight back against life......but, it's also true that other types of problems started to arise with it.

  • @denisebarry1111
    @denisebarry1111 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you, bless you ❤❤❤

  • @djfliq1
    @djfliq1 Месяц назад +1

    Who tf wrote this and how did they get all the details out of my head??? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Holy crap I feel like they were in my living room.

  • @darrylnewman292
    @darrylnewman292 Месяц назад +3

    I have 3 fathers who don't care about me 😂🤡😂🤡
    Do you want to know what really drove me over the cliff ??
    I really did love my third dad I gave him everything A bit of love i had After my 2 other dads gave up on me
    All I had left was pieces of my heart to give to him And he still chose to leave fifteen years of my life from 10 years old all the way to 18 .He ghosted me from 18 to now 26 years old
    Keep the video coming because there are some people in this world.That have no one standing next to them To give them advice that they need to hear.
    and I know the relationship between mom and dad.Didn't work out
    But it doesn't mean you just leave a child behind

    • @amandaburke6530
      @amandaburke6530 Месяц назад +1

      As a mother of a son who's father broke his heart and stomped on it his whole life, this infuriates me & hits home. I hope you know it's THEIR huge loss. And I hope you find strength to distance yourself from that toxicity & find peace. And never be like them.

  • @TopNotchV
    @TopNotchV Месяц назад +1

    It’s crocodile tears! I guess there’s a smile too. I can see it on him now that I look back 😅 smh

  • @vlasispsaradellis1722
    @vlasispsaradellis1722 Месяц назад +1

    I am a Scorpio I react to the environment they are the environment

  • @nickolasanastasiadis5960
    @nickolasanastasiadis5960 Месяц назад

    Thank you!

  • @zenaashworth4950
    @zenaashworth4950 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for your words yes I feel happy now 😂😂😂

  • @alexandrapetrescu594
    @alexandrapetrescu594 19 дней назад

    Be blessed. No one ever agnoledge how Smart surviver i am.

  • @arnoldshannon7222
    @arnoldshannon7222 23 дня назад +1

    They Are The Reason Took Enough

  • @Reek-c8l
    @Reek-c8l Месяц назад

    Thank you for knowledge it has made me notice my life

  • @linleycooper470
    @linleycooper470 17 дней назад

    I was told many many times, they did not like the new me!

  • @williambonnie-do7yz
    @williambonnie-do7yz Месяц назад

    I love you dark force.
    Please don't ever leave us.
    🃏🇺🇸⭐👊🏻

  • @AqulerrJiean
    @AqulerrJiean Месяц назад

    I'm who I'm.. Nothing changed My Friends. Just 😅 by heart hehe..

  • @ShadowResilience
    @ShadowResilience Месяц назад

    Liked and shared.

  • @LynL-v7o
    @LynL-v7o Месяц назад +1

    BE THE CHANGE

  • @jonobel498
    @jonobel498 Месяц назад

    I showed them love but there was no love back. Now I know longer addicted to the love that was never there.

  • @tamlamoore7962
    @tamlamoore7962 Месяц назад

    LAND BACK..ASE HEKA AMEN RA AHO MOORE NATION GRAND RISING KARMA REST IN PEACE ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊

  • @tinajones5548
    @tinajones5548 24 дня назад

    He's swallowing that bitter pill with copious amounts of alcohol.

  • @Count-w6n
    @Count-w6n Месяц назад

    My days are sweet. Sweetness is my weakness.

  • @GlenNeilson-o4c
    @GlenNeilson-o4c Месяц назад +1

    AND THAY WONDER WHY THE CREATOR LOVES YOU SO MUCH

  • @lindakunz9297
    @lindakunz9297 Месяц назад

    Thank you

  • @MsM-y3d
    @MsM-y3d Месяц назад

    A naive glow yes Sir #nowSharp🙂‍↕️🚀✌️

  • @tatum6219
    @tatum6219 Месяц назад

    Time after time their are those not worth a single second of thought.

  • @desereekjersem7614
    @desereekjersem7614 Месяц назад

    I am the light ❤💥

  • @pennyyork6493
    @pennyyork6493 Месяц назад +1

    And they were all of them thieves

  • @firemage6099
    @firemage6099 Месяц назад

    As many fold and gone forevermore in the shell of despair. Dark warriors of the light. Eventually find light in the dark, the final battle is to find dark warriors not consumed by the dark that get you but 1st even let you.

  • @williambonnie-do7yz
    @williambonnie-do7yz Месяц назад

    Carly Sampson....are you listening?!🃏

  • @lindakunz9297
    @lindakunz9297 Месяц назад

    They now are afraid and don't know what to do with me

  • @WillowRayneForest
    @WillowRayneForest Месяц назад

    This is so true,

  • @firemage6099
    @firemage6099 Месяц назад +1

    As I know whom I am just there not and try to sap that gift from our kin of pain survivalist

  • @colenorris8463
    @colenorris8463 Месяц назад

    Scary accurate..

  • @littlecup55
    @littlecup55 Месяц назад

    💯💯💞❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🩹💝 THANK YOU DARK FORCE!!!!!

  • @arnoldshannon7222
    @arnoldshannon7222 23 дня назад +1

    SO TRUE

  • @Lyon-z4x
    @Lyon-z4x Месяц назад

    We love joker but Batman please it all makes sense

  • @jorygifford8843
    @jorygifford8843 Месяц назад

    I am still soft. They didn't change me. I wouldn't let them. I just put on armor.

  • @davek3921
    @davek3921 Месяц назад

    One line from the song "Throne" by Bring me the Horizon
    "You can throw me to the wolves. Tomorrow I will come back leader of the whole pack!"

  • @leisastokes5358
    @leisastokes5358 Месяц назад

    Dark Force you know everything that has happened! How?

  • @HuguesDesputeaucyr
    @HuguesDesputeaucyr Месяц назад

    God bless soon
    God bless america
    God save the king
    Die. V
    Dragon david king god
    Compagny bruce royal
    Dragon destitution
    Old castel
    Flower of lys
    Flower of service

  • @fatimaherf1783
    @fatimaherf1783 Месяц назад +1

    There was never any sympathy..fore let alone love......so I Quitte

  • @ChesterDidzena-go7he
    @ChesterDidzena-go7he Месяц назад

    It's my problem with it all now

  • @YoselinRodriquez-r9b
    @YoselinRodriquez-r9b Месяц назад

    So true EVERY6

  • @ChesterDidzena-go7he
    @ChesterDidzena-go7he Месяц назад

    Now i feel stupid and I ended up fighting with

  • @DANIELWest-bn6ed
    @DANIELWest-bn6ed 22 дня назад

    I durnk that budweiser I durnk 16th of it

  • @JustLor7777
    @JustLor7777 Месяц назад +3

    👑🌹

  • @firemage6099
    @firemage6099 Месяц назад +1

    It's a slow burning wick on hope maybes maybe it's me and the absolute answer it's them

  • @KathBona
    @KathBona Месяц назад +2

    Heath said back at you brother chat reply

  • @GlenNeilson-o4c
    @GlenNeilson-o4c Месяц назад

    There you are. My friend. Nice to see you are.do you remember me.

  • @Jeff-c6k
    @Jeff-c6k Месяц назад

    Dark force you're a light force this.

  • @michaelbell390
    @michaelbell390 28 дней назад

    Im the silent monster one will regret messing with.😎👻

  • @rachiefitz2919
    @rachiefitz2919 26 дней назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sallyannwheeler6327
    @sallyannwheeler6327 20 дней назад

    Nid oes angen iddyn nhw gofyn,mae nhw’n wybod.Bob tro mae nhw’n chwifio i chi yn y stryd yn ddigalon. Mae eich ddyfodol yn disglair,mae eu ddyfodol nhw mewn tywyllwch tragwyddol./ They don’t need to ask,they know.Every time they wave at you in the street with desperation. Your future is bright,theirs is in eternal darkness. 🙂🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿🌎🇺🇸

  • @LukeyBukey-g8p
    @LukeyBukey-g8p 16 дней назад

    My ex said the same thing why and the word I said its what you asked me to do

  • @keithf7976
    @keithf7976 Месяц назад

    This!!

  • @justinhughes4722
    @justinhughes4722 4 дня назад

    My encore is in creation

  • @The_Stoic_Codee
    @The_Stoic_Codee Месяц назад +2

    ap ya video kasa banata ho

    • @KathBona
      @KathBona Месяц назад

      @@The_Stoic_Codee translation ? I beg your pardon I'm a hoE?

  • @ChesterDidzena-go7he
    @ChesterDidzena-go7he Месяц назад

    U all molded me n i laughs at you 5

    • @63Smooth_Mc
      @63Smooth_Mc Месяц назад

      Keep laughing, mocking, ridiculing, and trying to ruin lives. The same Sandrine make yourself look bad and very low vibing.