Money Psychology: How Much Is Enough & When Should You Stop? - Inner Work Library [182/500]

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  • Опубликовано: 18 дек 2024

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  • @jordanthornton
    @jordanthornton  Месяц назад +4

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  • @Dehunski42
    @Dehunski42 3 дня назад +1

    Appreciate this one Jordan. Quite a bit of synchronicity with this one. Recently acquired some heavy machinery for our homestead here. They will assist me in things, I previously gauged to be impossible & more importantly, save time. They may not be cheap, but limiting the scope of pickaxes, shovels & wheelbarrows already proven beneficial for my somatic experience. The time saved, how many years or even lifetimes, I may only imagine. We'll be setting this place up for future generations & the present.

    • @jordanthornton
      @jordanthornton  2 часа назад +1

      Congratulations on your purchase, and the many many hours you have regained to share with your family. It's a good time for the investment, and it only gets better.

  • @RoberSatya
    @RoberSatya 3 дня назад +7

    If we focus on adding value to people's lives, it is impossible to lack abundance . If our only aim in life is to make more money, we will suffer.

    • @jordanthornton
      @jordanthornton  3 дня назад +2

      Sure thing, I believe that. Wise words.

    • @Tenpanprovee-hm4hw
      @Tenpanprovee-hm4hw День назад

      Bashar says - abundance is the ability to do what you need to do when you need to do it, regardless of them form it takes.

  • @auracristea9863
    @auracristea9863 3 дня назад +2

    Thank you, Jordan. Great insight for parents and a new perspective on “legacy”. Looking forward to reading the books. As always, I’m grateful for your work 🍀⭐️

    • @jordanthornton
      @jordanthornton  3 дня назад

      Yes, there is much to learn with family money - worth challenging things. Good luck.

  • @AyanMishra-s1p
    @AyanMishra-s1p 2 дня назад

    Thank you so much, Jordan, for changing my life. Your book recommendations and insights have truly made me a better person, and I’m deeply grateful for that. I’m now looking to improve my leadership skills-could you kindly recommend some books on leadership? I would really value your suggestions.

    • @jordanthornton
      @jordanthornton  2 часа назад

      Sure, I recommend reading Key Person Of Influence by Daniel Priestley, The Language Of Trust by Maslansky and The Dichotomy Of Leadership by Jocko Willink. All great, and thank you for your warm words.

  • @Tenpanprovee-hm4hw
    @Tenpanprovee-hm4hw День назад

    Thanks Jordan. You helped me realise how I can better interact with my children 🙏🏽 namaste

  • @chillaxer8273
    @chillaxer8273 2 дня назад

    Great video! As long as you invest in yourself it's hard to spend too much. The best things in life are free!

    • @jordanthornton
      @jordanthornton  2 часа назад

      Agreed, it doesn't need to cost millions.

  • @zigaslapsak805
    @zigaslapsak805 2 дня назад

    Thank you🌟

  • @gailaltschwager7377
    @gailaltschwager7377 3 дня назад +1

    Thank you, Jordan! Sorry I'm so late watching your video - the holidays are fast upon us and so are the celebrations!

    • @jordanthornton
      @jordanthornton  3 дня назад +1

      I was starting to wonder if you had completed inner work and moved on as your first New Year’s resolution of 2025 🤣 Wishing you well with your celebrations!

  • @1JayyAmiri
    @1JayyAmiri 3 дня назад +1

    Amazing video thanks as always

    • @jordanthornton
      @jordanthornton  3 дня назад +1

      Always my pleasure, brother - wishing you good money fortune for 2025 🌲

  • @gailaltschwager7377
    @gailaltschwager7377 3 дня назад

    Happy Holidays!

  • @jjk9o9
    @jjk9o9 3 дня назад

    Thank you

    • @jordanthornton
      @jordanthornton  2 часа назад

      Truly my pleasure, did you pick up any of the books?

  • @eSpanishfly
    @eSpanishfly 3 дня назад

    I chuckled at the double scrolling sketch loved it, scrolling yourself into oblivion 😂😂😂

    • @jordanthornton
      @jordanthornton  2 часа назад

      It's getting bad... I'm triple scrolling with my toes sometimes too.

  • @DeeDee-44
    @DeeDee-44 3 дня назад

    I'm trying to listen but I keep wondering why I've only just noticed the eye brow piercing. 😆 "From age-ing to sage-ing. Brilliant. 🤣 I need to smudge myself right now.

  • @mariusbora4470
    @mariusbora4470 3 дня назад

    i can make money, but I have to work, I feel the work I do for money kills me and I don't feel the energy to monetize my hobbies. As far as i'm concerned, i made my effort around the world and I came out very wounded, and whatever happiness I get from creative work is threatened by the 9 to 5 zombieland.
    I'm seriously considering of going rogue on the street, as I see this more constructive than the destructive pendulums around the world, at least a hobo can safely ignore most of the destructive to the soul aspects of society

    • @jordanthornton
      @jordanthornton  2 часа назад +1

      Go volunteer travelling. Use websites like Workaway or WWOOF and you can live very very cheaply while getting new experiences. I spent two years doing this. It helped buy time and clarity.

  • @rshicks256
    @rshicks256 3 дня назад

    💸

  • @TheWomanAthlete
    @TheWomanAthlete 3 дня назад

    Perfect timing… I had a therapy session this morning and my homework is to map out my finances 🤯

    • @jordanthornton
      @jordanthornton  3 дня назад +1

      You’re going to love some of these books then - it’s worth taking a few months to really figure this psychology out.

  • @roadopener
    @roadopener 3 дня назад

    BEER AND CIGARETTES

  • @MrBlackCoffee96
    @MrBlackCoffee96 3 дня назад

    All the millions - not ambitious! 😅😅

    • @jordanthornton
      @jordanthornton  3 дня назад +1

      Most people who start reasonable savings in index funds during their 30’s will be dollar millionaires by their 70’s, inflation ain’t what it used to be lol