My narc ex had her Pluto in my 4th. And you are right: it brings you to heal yourself. Soulsearching how I could end up with a narc, but I learned she was the third one in my life, and only now did I realize that. And she really was toxic, with in her own birthchart her pluto opposite chiron in 4, that was opposite to her venus.. Took me a lot of time , but I'm doing well again
Very well explained! Thank you. I have my own Pluto conj. my IC conj. Uranus in the 4th house. My Ex-husband also had his Pluto in my 4th house, while his Pluto made a square to his natal Mars, while his Mars was in my 6th house. It was my father all over again! ... Let's just call it 'domestic violence!' .... There is nothing to 'confront' for me, but have gotten out of that relationship so to protect myself, and then as far away as possible from him, out of reach by location! When looking at our daughter's chart, his Pluto sits in her 12th house. I always noticed how he was manipulative with her for his own gain, actually tried to instrumentalize her against me! It did not matter what I said, or tried to teach her when she was still very young. When she did not want something, 'she ran to Daddy' and he worked willfully against what I said, even criticizing me in front of her, yet at the same time he did not want to take responsibility to engage otherwise. He never even cared to do homework with her, nor to teach her anything at all. He was a good artist, and you would think he would sit and draw together with his daughter, but no! He was a surface-dad when it came to communication, or to even being able to teach her values. Family-time? Forget it! I can count it on one hand where we really ever had outings together while in this 'home not so good life situation'. He was so into himself! ugh! I'm so glad he is far, far away! P.S. I just looked at his chart again. Oh geeez! His Lilith (trining his Saturn, too!) sits right atop of my natal Pluto/Uranus conj. my IC.
just found out amber heard has her pluto in johnny's 4th house. then I learn i have my pluto in the 4th house of my partner. (the tweet said something like johnny's family didnt like her and i feel that too with my partner's family. that makes me sad)
But do you guys empower each other? Even if your partner's parents does not like you?Like one of you is rich and your partner's parents does not like you because of different social class?
@@angelsub9184yes his family doesn’t like me none of his family does idc either … my family is wealthy his is poor but he’s not his family is .. his family judges mine once they came to our wedding in my grandparents mansion to me it’s a mini mansion, but most people consider it a mansion
I’ve got his Pluto in my 4th house -which starts in Scorpio... And following your calculation; my natal Pluto sextiles Neptune, Jupiter and Mercury but also Conjunts Moon and oppose MC on further orbs. I’ve got Saturn in my Natal 4th house... plus Mars and Uranus (but in different sign). I always thought that my 4th house is my toughest 🙈
My narc ex had her Pluto in my 4th. And you are right: it brings you to heal yourself. Soulsearching how I could end up with a narc, but I learned she was the third one in my life, and only now did I realize that.
And she really was toxic, with in her own birthchart her pluto opposite chiron in 4, that was opposite to her venus..
Took me a lot of time , but I'm doing well again
Very well explained! Thank you.
I have my own Pluto conj. my IC conj. Uranus in the 4th house.
My Ex-husband also had his Pluto in my 4th house, while his Pluto made a square to his natal Mars, while his Mars was in my 6th house. It was my father all over again! ...
Let's just call it 'domestic violence!' ....
There is nothing to 'confront' for me, but have gotten out of that relationship so to protect myself, and then as far away as possible from him, out of reach by location!
When looking at our daughter's chart, his Pluto sits in her 12th house.
I always noticed how he was manipulative with her for his own gain, actually tried to instrumentalize her against me! It did not matter what I said, or tried to teach her when she was still very young. When she did not want something, 'she ran to Daddy' and he worked willfully against what I said, even criticizing me in front of her, yet at the same time he did not want to take responsibility to engage otherwise. He never even cared to do homework with her, nor to teach her anything at all.
He was a good artist, and you would think he would sit and draw together with his daughter, but no! He was a surface-dad when it came to communication, or to even being able to teach her values.
Family-time? Forget it! I can count it on one hand where we really ever had outings together while in this 'home not so good life situation'. He was so into himself! ugh!
I'm so glad he is far, far away!
P.S. I just looked at his chart again. Oh geeez!
His Lilith (trining his Saturn, too!) sits right atop of my natal Pluto/Uranus conj. my IC.
I've scorpio in my 4th house and hes pluto in my 4th, we get on well.
Okay, how he is he toward you? Does he nurture you intensely? Do you trust him? I also happen to meet man whose Pluto fall in my 4th.
Omg thank you so much for making the video I requested! Looking forward to getting a reading from you soon!
His plito in my 4th house is also conjuct to my moon in Scorpio, so I don't worry much... Iyused to dig deep myself ❤❤
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Great! Thank you☀️
just found out amber heard has her pluto in johnny's 4th house. then I learn i have my pluto in the 4th house of my partner. (the tweet said something like johnny's family didnt like her and i feel that too with my partner's family. that makes me sad)
But do you guys empower each other? Even if your partner's parents does not like you?Like one of you is rich and your partner's parents does not like you because of different social class?
@@angelsub9184yes his family doesn’t like me none of his family does idc either … my family is wealthy his is poor but he’s not his family is .. his family judges mine once they came to our wedding in my grandparents mansion to me it’s a mini mansion, but most people consider it a mansion
Can you do lilith in partners 8th house synastry?
I’ve got his Pluto in my 4th house -which starts in Scorpio... And following your calculation; my natal Pluto sextiles Neptune, Jupiter and Mercury but also Conjunts Moon and oppose MC on further orbs. I’ve got Saturn in my Natal 4th house... plus Mars and Uranus (but in different sign). I always thought that my 4th house is my toughest 🙈
What if you have Pluto in 4th natally and partners Pluto in your 4th?
That's what I want to know too because that's what I have going on
Pluto in partners 5th house synastry please!!!!
yes, next week :)
Can this work both ways , as in the house person brings stuff of for the pluto person.
Please do Pluto in partner 9th and 10th house
My Pluto, Saturn, Mars in libra are in a guy I like 4th house. In my natal chart it’s in my 6th house. How do you think it’ll play out?
Same here. Im so drawn to him idk y
Can this aspect indicate sex obsession in the home?
Hi. This is not enough to indicate it.
I believe it does. I met someone today with her pluto in my 4th house, and I felt I wanted to consume her right away for hours.
Venus and saturn in 7th house in cancer sign
Uranus in 10th house in libra sign
What makes a Pluto healthy or unhealthy?
Beate, how can I contact you through email? I would like to ask you some questions beforen I consider to order a rapport. Thank you in advance !!
Pluto overlay in 3rd house?
Coming soon :)