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Psych2Go I used to love your channel but it seems like you're becoming more and more unserious. You could be talking about important psychology topics but instead you're discussing "5 dating tips for introverts"
Does somebody has this weird problem that when you are with people you just want to be alone, and when you're finally alone you actually feel lonely and want company. It's seriously getting on my nerves and I hate it
1. Go to events or places that reflects your hobbies and interests. 2. Be prepared to go through trial and error 3. Have Honest Conversations. 4. Only make time for people who your actually interested in dating. 5. Keep an open mind.
The worst thing is when you as an Introvert go beyond your comfort zone - and still are Single after several years. I - an Introvert - decided with 22 to just go for it. In all these years I have only been rejected by women. I am 31 bow. Never had a hug or a kiss. I dont know what to anymore.
@@ceooflonelinessinc.267 asking for dating tips is kinda like putting the cart before the horse. You have to be a person women would want first. Start off with working on yourself so that when you present yourself to a woman you'll have a better time with them. Whoever you come off as is the exact person you'll recieve back. Come off as rude and you'll attract rudeness. Come off as kind and you'll attract kindness. It all depends on how you come off as and what you do. Hope this helps
As for me being an introvert, I'm dating an extrovert. He's very kind and funny and I enjoy his company, but whenever he goes to his large group of friends, I don't feel right. I don't like crowds. Sometimes I feel uncomfortable so I leave with one of my friends somewhere open. Then I turn around and see him right there behind me, and it makes me so happy 💞
The worst thing is when you as an Introvert go beyond your comfort zone - and still are Single after several years. I - an Introvert - decided with 22 to just go for it. In all these years I have only been rejected by women. I am 31 bow. Never had a hug or a kiss.
Tysm for your this comment tbh I'm not an introvert but the guy I like is an introvert I'm not sure if he likes me or not but I have heard many times from others that he have or had a crush on me but I'm still not sure bcoz I just can't assume anything without knowing the truth but I like him very much and bcoz of covid it's been 1.5 yrs and I am not able to meet or talk to him and he is not available in any kind of social site and alsoooo upon all this I'm gonna leave this school in some months so I just want to know that how can I make him comfortable so that whenever we meet he can express his feelings to me ❤️
I make the same puny or bad jokes. If someone laughs at them cherish that person. I find if an introvert like me can make a girl laugh with these jokes then there may be a chance.
I can kinda help with that may not have dated but I've always known how to help others in it and have it work out and yes i know this is from 2 years ago and things may have changed but in case it hasn't or those you are looking at this comment and have the same feeling just find someone you know personally and that they know you the same way it'll help with the bond introverted or not and the courage to confess feelings try not to think to much of rejection it's better to just go for it don't think about it just let it happen either in person or text it's better to know the answer officially then never knowing also carry a chocolate bar or anything in your pocket handy on dates because when asked a question and need time to think eat it and think so that the person you're on a date with won't question it too much since it's rude to eat with a mouth full and let the person know how you feel about something rather then just agreeing or disagreeing to make the relationship be a little more stable on thoughts and think before you might say something too awkward or embarrassing for an excuse to leave or something so goodluck to anyone reading this.
The worst thing is when you as an Introvert go beyond your comfort zone - and still are Single after several years. I - an Introvert - decided with 22 to just go for it. In all these years I have only been rejected by women. I am 31 bow. Never had a hug or a kiss.
As an introvert i have found that meeting women was not the hard part , it was meeting the right one for me.. most of the women i meet ,things would start off fine but then they wanted more..they wanted me to go out more..do things in public more..so in the end the relationship would crash and burn.. but i finally found a lady who is not exactly an introvert ,but she understands me..and she is able to go out with her friends and is ok with me staying at home ..
Get out. Get rejected. Get free... Once you get rejected, and rejected HARD, you will not fear rejection anymore. And your confidence will boost like when before puberty kicked in.
I‘m totally into an extrovert but she is so out there that she‘s kinda scary. I feel like she thinks of me as just someone she knows. But she joint the literature club I‘m in so I‘m not alone that’s super cute.
ChriH!st H! Maybe😏 Actually I‘m the leader of my schools literature club and my friends and I made fun of that when Doki Doki came out. But my sadly my name is Maxi
The biggest and most important piece of advice that I can give to you, is, that you should take your time, when getting to know your potential partner. Don't rush into a relationship, without knowing whether you can trust that person and share your feeling with him or her. Take your time to get to know that person and find common ground, so you have a solid basis to build on, before going any further. :3
Yo, if I am even remotely in a relationship I know what the trigger will be. The person who I will bite a brick for is the lady who actually asks me about me and listens. Only two people have ever asked me about things that I've never told anyone. One is my pastor and the other was a good friend on a mission trip who is now a youth pastor. Needless to say if a lady non pastor asks me these sorts of things I will give them some sincere consideration. Also I don't think it will be too much longer before I'm diagnosed with bipolar disorder. It would make sense if I have it. In fact it would almost be a relief if I did. I'd finally know what's wrong with me. It runs in my family and my brother doesn't seem to have it. Then again he has a girlfriend. But I am just crazy and I don't have amy problems. At least that's what I tell myself because I know that everyone else thinks I just overreact but they don't know me at all because they never freaking ask!
I’m an introvert. I was just asked into a possible first relationship from someone I don’t know much about yet, and this advice is what I’ve been looking for. Thank you and wish me luck
@@annaxd6974 Best of luck to you! My comment may be 4 years old, but I still stand by it. Always know that you deserve the things you wish for. Take your time to make sure you know someone well enough to lead a relationship with confidence. You've got this!
Saving you a lot of animation. 1. Go to events and places that harbour your hobbies and interests. 2. Be prepared to go through trial and error. 3. Have honest conversations. 4. Only make time for people you are really interested in (not those who appeal to your parents or your friends) 5. Keep an open mind.
For an introvert, We need a serious relationship to mold us to be a much better person and to help us to go through in life, We don't need One night stand or Flirt or something that just for fun relationship, we need to find our perfect match in life to experience a serious relationship, i know its hard for me to find that because im introvert but im still believe that it takes time to work that out, Well Patience is a virtue, The more you wait the more people you can meet. Sometimes you might think that introvert sucks but you are not thinking deep that on this way you can love yourself more and know what you really like, so if the person is already there you just gonna approach her/him (Well im sucks on approaching people so expect for me to be difficult on that part) to share your interest or Getting to know each other stage.
Yes, that is the first step- realizing self and what we truly want and value. Second is finding those who appreciate our views and want to be a part of this picture of deeper discovery. So mostly introverts would fit the bill. From there on it has to be patience and genuineness. See, you may not be good at the 'extrovert way of doing things', but you've a promising self-devised method that is better suited given your orientation. Now, go on to the field... wish you success.
As a lifelong shy & sensitive introvert: small gatherings (ex: friend's house warming, a birthday party, etc...), work, hobby-oriented gatherings, and online (chat forums) are places where I've met past boyfriends. I despise small talk and like direct & honest communication. Usually at places like the aforementioned, people are already connected by something. It's easier/more comfortable to socialize. On a side note: I prefer dating other introverts. We understand each other and it's much easier to get along. I get drained by extroverts. I can be friends with an extrovert, but I can't date one.
It’s always sorta been hard for me in social situations of many different kinds because of how introverted and shy I am, but I believe I’m so lucky to actually have a bf who sees past how quiet and shy I am. I usually try to avoid social contact with people when I’m in class or in public when not necessary, but he is the only one that is able to make me change my mind on that. He has actually made me feel way more confident in myself, and I know that I am slowly changing and opening up more to the world than before. I feel so lucky to have someone like him in my life who has mutual feeling for me. :)
I'm gonna share this to my friend since hes an introvert and he has a crush on someone ;3 And I'm an introvert :D Love your vids! X3 Tips for dating as an introvert: Idk I haven't dated anyone yet :v
Karami woah you can’t tell people that.. that’s something they figure out for themselves. If you want to have a relationship with someone, go for it. It’s something you learn from experience, not from others.
You guys are breaking me. I thought im a unicorn with 22 and no relationship, not even a kiss. But 27, please dont let this go on for another 5 years, im falling apart..
1. Go to events 2. Be prepared to go through trial and error 3. Have honest conversations 4. Only make time for people you’re really interested in 5. Keep an open mind ❤️
Except for football and gaming(League Of Legends) I don't have too many hobbies and in my city there aren't events for my hobbies. The only public place I go to recreate is an internet caffee(gaming zone) but I don't know if the girls don't like to show up there or just don't know about the place. And I don't think we(introverts) have too many places to go and meet people. Anyway, I'm sure most of us are fine with this and don't force themselves too much finding someone. I don't say we can't find parteners, I just say that if we are more of a retreated people its harder to find each other.
Thanks for being so helpful.Every single one of your videos relates to me in some way and fills me with hopes.The backround music really helps as well.Thanks for reducing my stress c:
Ive found that having an extrovert as my best friend for over 8 years now has really been such a benefit for both of us, we've definitely learned a lot about and from each other, and sort of balance each other out
What really helps me connect with people is meeting them doing things i like practicing like sports, music or other itenterest i have. Sharing a common goal with someone, even if it is as simple as reaching some random place by foot because it's pretty or playing music outdoors, develops your relationship with that person as well as both persons themselves. Besides all that, simply taking your comfort zone outside of your house calls for good luck. Congrats on this channel! Really wise and concious people you are
I’m an introvert but have social anxieties issues and a bit of other stuff going on. What really helps me is actually understanding that you don’t have to be someone else to date this “crush” of yours. Just gotta be authentic, genuine and also courageous. Learning to step out of your comfort zone, even just a little can come a long way. Compatibility and compromises are key points for relationship imo.
Both me and my partner are introverts and i have really bad social anxiety and it's almost been a year since we first started dating! Your videos always make me happy and i learn a lot more from them, thank you!
I’m 37 and I’ve given up hope. From age 27-36 I was dead set on staying that way until I gave on girl a chance. It was a major mistake which made me decide to officially “retire” from relationships
Don't give up. I'm 35. We're still relatively young. I recently approached someone for the first time after several years of being totally single. He ignored me lol but I'm glad I did it cause for the first time in my life I put myself out there without any qualms whatsoever. I was completely sincere with him. So I think I'm strong enough for the adventure now even if it means I won't get what I want.
1. Socializing with people who have the same interests is a great way to go. Music, certain shows, games, cooking tips. There are places nearby. 2. Even though I internalize how I feel most of the time, I think I'm getting better and will be ready for the dating world. Trial and error is just part of the game. 3. I feel like having the hard talks first will make things somewhat easier. I'm willing to be honest from the get go. 4. This seems to be the most important part of the video. 5. Yes. Being open minded really helps. Even if two people don't always see eye to eye can still make things work.
Wow it's really hard to se boomers on this channel. It's nice to know there are people like you around! Every time I scan through the comment section I feel no longer alone.
ı guess its related with the generation :/ your generation was more closed, there was limited interaction between the partners. our generation however constantly meets with new people, we cant get enought time to know eachother as a friend let alone as a potential partner
I hate it in an interview when you can totally see through the "boss's" purpose for having you there to begin with!🤣🤣 As if it's for my benefit when I already know they hired someone else but still interviewed me...😳
Im a huge introvert, i sometimes cry,Maybe because I have social anxiety disorder, I know, Embarrassing, But i find that being with extroverts is good 😊 if you find someone who speaks up you want to be like them, Though not all the time, Being An introvert, having social anxiety and trust issues i find myself staying in groups of friends i trust and dont feel nervous around, Finding people who share things in common with you is always good but also finding changes and finding things new, Extroverts help you be able to express yourself even if its honestly baby steps or even In years to go by, They are really great to be around too. Idk how should i know. Im a single pringle
But, @Muune, it's for some people hard even being in groups. Like me, i'm often alone, sometimes with my friend. Most people call me boring, relatable, but it's just....often just sad being alone most of the time, but also k owing you're not really able being in groups (Yes, english isn't my native language)
As not an actual joke comment to any other introverts out there my tips are 1) Never be afraid to say no, this is crucial to a relationship, don't do anything you're uncomfortable with. 2) Relationships don't work in pay-backs. It may be hard to express yourself, especially being an introvert, but this is going back to it's okay to say no. Just because your special someone gave you a gift or did something doesn't mean you have to pay them back in something you don't want to do, don't force yourself, ever, it only ends up worse. 3) Communicate. Tell them how you feel, it can be hard but this is a huge test. If they understand and respect you for your statement and show understanding then that's perfect. If they don't, then they don't have that much of an interest in you. 4) Just because they did so much for you doesn't mean you have to stay with them. People change, for better or for worse, you don't need to be afraid to break up with someone, but you can give them emotional support, especially if it's a former-friend. Well, this is really long now, but in all seriousness I wish I had done these things when I was in a relationship, when I didn't say things it just got bottled up and... I ended up exploding in emotion, we were both at fault in that relationship, but, we made it out okay, even if I'm not with them anymore, so... don't be afraid! Dating is hard, but it can be beautiful too.
glad to have come across this video. i never thought about the first point before, but it actually makes so much sense. going to a club just isn't me and maybe by going to places i'm genuinely interested in will be helpful. so simple yet something i've never thought of, thanks!
livia absolutely! It's great to get out of your comfort zone once in a while, but when it comes to finding love, it's ideal to be in a place that makes you feel confident and comfortable. Thanks for watching! 😊
I’m an introvert and I have a crush on another introvert. (We both talk a lot, he a bit more than me but it’s a different thing to be talkative/shy than an introvert just to be clear.) We are friends now. I like that we can both admit being introverts so we understand if another one’s ”social meter” has gone down for some reason. Silence doesn’t have to be awkward if we don’t make it one, either. I honestly think he likes me back yet our relationship is building up slowly, steadily, not in a rush, just the way I like it! My extroverted friend is talking with everybody 24/7, and I think I can’t handle anybody, even a boyfriend or a best friend like that.
I'm a really strong introvert, the only people I can handle with without getting stressed or uncomfortable are my nearest family.. Even when I'm with a good friend I think about going home and be alone (after 30min). I love it to be alone but I also love it so be with my family, so there's always a struggle. I had a girlfriend for over 1 year and hmm.. There were many moments I felt uncomfortable because I wanted to be alone more often and year.. I ended it. So now I don't know if I'm the relationship dude, but I've downloaded tinder and don't know why and yeah. That's my story. You can use this knowledge now for nothing, your welcome
I wasn't an introvert back then, I greet everyone I meet, talk to them even if they're not close. And people seemed to like me. My friendship with people is just like a dream come true. **wakes up*
Introverts are not always closed for others. I opened up through the years, less afraid of the unknown, more talking towards others. Still I don't like talking within groups, I don't make friends, I like my alone time, can't do small talk. I must say I had some help to open up more, after that it was me to be better and improve more. Dating is still a hurdle, but I just need to open my mind more.
I guess I'm both. Sometimes very extroverted, but very introverted at times. It makes it hard to date because people seem to only understand or be able to want to be around you when you're being one or the other. I've found that finding someone who is both, along with having similar interests, is best. Someone who is comfortable being around while you are being yourself no matter how you are.
Oh my God. I love the tip about dating extoverts. My husband is the polar opposite of my introvertness. He is so extroverted where I am extremely introverted and it is so funny how well we get along. We have our ups and downs just like any normal relationship but we are 5 years strong with two kids. I hope they are more extroverted like their dad because it is so hard being introverted.
I’m an introvert. For me, so far in life, no matter who you are to me, I can only spend so much time with you before I am drained of all my energy and ability to care. My family is an exception but even growing up I’d spend most of my life in my room away from everyone. Someday I just want to find somebody who I can be around for long periods of time and not want to kick them out.
I found it is substantially more easy for me to summon self confidence when I carry with me the option of using the back door in case things go a little... too far south rather than go in without a back up plan. Though it might not be the "safest" solution. I have found it to be the most effective for me as it levels out what I have to lose with reasonable incentive.
I'm an introvert who's been rejected many times, I kinda feel like I'm a stupid person who tries to find love. But because of this video, I now have confidence to live and wait for my true love Edit: sorry if my English is kinda bad
I recently just got out of a relationship with someone who, for the first time, I grew to have feelings for. I tried to do things with her as much as I could because I loved to spend time with her, even though she was usually very busy. The third thing you covered, is what really got me. I was always anxious to text her. She just wanted to stay friends with me, which is cool too, but it really does make me wonder if I'll ever find someone I can call my SO.
Being a introvert has become a part of me as a identity. Its who I am. I am grateful for the tips the channel is giving. But in all honesty people are not kind or understanding of introverts. They label you as a freak. Its hurtful and uncomfortable. Even makes things strange with your family.
I loved that video! Sometimes I only need my space and my boyfriend didn’t understand why I didn’t want to see him. It’s not because I stop to love him but it’s just because I need my time alone or do my own things
good luck and hope for the best! LDR's can be tough especially without the contact, was in one for a year with a dude in the Netherlands lol. Just communicate and open up with eachother and be honest and trusting and I'll hope for the best for ya'll!
I'm so happy that the internet exists. My boyfriend unfortunately lives almost 2,000km away, and due to our age we can't actually meet each other irl. He's such an amazing person, and it's the internet that brought us together. Online relationships do count, people!
ᕖᓚ ᑕᕇᓪ makes me fucking sad because i was in the exact same Situation...but it where 400km...well everything was so perfect and it was like we where the exact same person...she broke up with me and it killed me...she was the one
I'm an introvert, & I never had this much attraction towards any boy, no matter how handsome he is, but i never liked someone.... But now, this is the first time in my life, I've liked this guy so much!!, I never thought that i would ever fall in love with someone, but he just stole my heart, & now I don't know what should I do now?.... He just stuck in my mind 24/7, I just can't forget him..... & I'm too afraid to ask him out, and now I have no idea what to do?
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As an introvert, I hate social interactions. I'm a chill guy. I don't do much and I could be considered "boring" by others because of the lack of excitement in my life lol. I found it most enjoyable when I spend time with my crush and what is said in the video is true. To other introverts: It's healthy and normal to be in a relationship.
You're right, just that you're different than the world (because extroverts define the world in their own image at the exclusion of other possibilities), you are taken for an 'unsocial and boring' individual and they don't get comfortable around you (for you to be getting comfortable in return). Not as if you'd miss something you'd find worthwhile by associating with them- for all the hype they create it's actually the extroverts who are actually 'boring' (read as "too little of interest to me", as defined by an introvert).
I can't find someone who I'm attracted to physically and personally. It's always one or the other. And don't try me with the "looks don't matter" because they most definitely do. I can't have a healthy sex life if I'm not attracted and you can't have a healthy relationship without a healthy sex life
I understand how challenging that can be, finding someone that you connect with in both ways. But the main lesson from ''looks don't matter'' is to remember that they are not the priority because being with someone you find attractive but uninteresting won't last, whereas if you find someone you can connect with on a deeper level personality wise you'll realize that attraction can grow and develop. The physical traits that didn't catch your attention at first, might become extremely endearing after you let the inside swine through. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, thus your vision, perspective and opinion can change.
how about later on in life you lose interest as that person 'ages'? looks should come second, only to personal connection. unless the other person is very appalling to be with- about average should be good enough going by physical looks, aint it so?
It’s funny you should type this because I remember replying to someone saying beauty’s only the bonus in a relationship and I said not everyone would agree with that and then he just replied back to me with things I don’t think had much to do with beauty and then ended by saying not everyone can handle the flavor of truth. But I wasn’t lying about people not having the same mindset as him about what people will find important in a relationship.
I feel it’s hard for introverts to find the right person since we tend to be a bit picky when it comes to love. Don’t do this! You don’t want to limit yourself from your potential true love!!
Friendships involve love. A different kind than the romantic one, but they still have it. To say love is overrated must mean you're in denial of your feelings. Love is a wonderful thing and to be in love is also a great thing. Friendship is good too, but it isn't the same nor a substitute.
Just left a man after 6mo of dating that I thought was going to want to take the next step with me...I wish I would’ve watched this beforehand. Thank y’all for sharing ❤️.
Stephanie Pianowski Pianowski Sometimes it is. When I was growing up as a kid the public library I went to was kind of annoying with people talking and children and even most recently when I went there a week ago there was someone who was snoring loudly and had a loud ringtone.
"Go to events and places that reflect your favorite hobbies and interests." I've yet to find anyone just in my bed. My hobbies and interests include sleep.
The majority are like that. As to why they go from depending on thier parents to relying on date or significant other instead of learning to become independent first. Figuring out who they're growing up to be
we are only human and in every mistake we make in dating is a stepping stone on our path. It's definitely an experience and worth it in the end that our next relationship would even be a better one. ☺
I'm seeing a lot of people in these comments joking about how they're never going to date because their introverted. I get that these are just jokes, but this person put this video together to offer tips on how we could potentially find someone who makes you happy, and the fact that you're willing to let your nature prevent you from going outside the box can't help you to get very far in life. As an introvert myself, the concept of putting myself out there is terrifying as heck, but I think it's worth it if it actually means knowing what it's like to be in love. Thank you for this video @psych2go, I, and others I'm sure, appreciate it.
About a week ago I met this amazing girl in the Belgian Ardennes. She was an entertainer there so naturally she didnt have much time to spend freely. I was far too shy to ask herout in a public place and I messed up my attempts to draw her to a romantic place and do it in a comfortable environment. Now Im home and I dont even have her number... This was the first time someone met my expectations, sense of humour and personality and I fucked it up... Melanie, if you're reading this: It's Kevin from tent 10. I'd love to take you out sometime
To choose the right partner you must know if you feel relax with, you have to be yourself with him without triying to be perfect personne cause he must love you with your faults he has to see the beautiful things in you, to see your heart not something not important like the appearances. So you have to know you deserve to be happy !!
I’m an introvert and people(mostly extroverts) would consider me quiet and unsociable or shy. I think if I like someone, I would like him because he is also an introvert, so he understands me better than how extroverts understand me
You're right, just that you're different than the world (because extroverts define the world in their own image at the exclusion of other possibilities), you are taken for an 'unsocial and boring' individual and they don't get comfortable around you (for you to be getting comfortable in return). Not as if you'd miss something you'd find worthwhile by associating with them- for all the hype they create it's actually the extroverts who are 'boring' (read as "what you do and talk, is too little of interest/relevance to me", as defined by an introvert). And understanding is a crucial element on which relationship is built. He knows why you are the way you are at the moment, it'd be is as if you split into two and the other half is interacting with you; you're also him and he's also you there is a single entity- 'both of you', loneliness no longer makes any sense; well, it ceases altogether.
It's cool coming to watch these videos, when I look at the comment section I see their are other people like me, keep your heads up everyone or whatever way you like to keep it.
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Psych2Go I used to love your channel but it seems like you're becoming more and more unserious. You could be talking about important psychology topics but instead you're discussing "5 dating tips for introverts"
Psych2Go Happy Sunday too
Happy Sunday Pacifistic. :)
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Does somebody has this weird problem that when you are with people you just want to be alone, and when you're finally alone you actually feel lonely and want company. It's seriously getting on my nerves and I hate it
The Sentry ya thats exactly me (love the koala lol)
Relateable
Thats me lol I'm glad I'm not alone in this
company?*
yeah I do have that problem...
Why am i watching this , im not going to date anyone.
same lul
high5
Wow totally feel you lol😂
same
I know right, just coming here yo relate with the other introverts without having to embarrass myself... Hi...
1. Go to events or places that reflects your hobbies and interests.
2. Be prepared to go through trial and error
3. Have Honest Conversations.
4. Only make time for people who your actually interested in dating.
5. Keep an open mind.
Thanks.
The worst thing is when you as an Introvert go beyond your comfort zone - and still are Single after several years.
I - an Introvert - decided with 22 to just go for it. In all these years I have only been rejected by women. I am 31 bow. Never had a hug or a kiss. I dont know what to anymore.
You think people nowadays can have an actual conversation that's not in a internet chat room? Bwahaha
Man, you are not that old!😅
@@ceooflonelinessinc.267 asking for dating tips is kinda like putting the cart before the horse. You have to be a person women would want first. Start off with working on yourself so that when you present yourself to a woman you'll have a better time with them. Whoever you come off as is the exact person you'll recieve back. Come off as rude and you'll attract rudeness. Come off as kind and you'll attract kindness. It all depends on how you come off as and what you do. Hope this helps
As for me being an introvert, I'm dating an extrovert. He's very kind and funny and I enjoy his company, but whenever he goes to his large group of friends, I don't feel right. I don't like crowds. Sometimes I feel uncomfortable so I leave with one of my friends somewhere open. Then I turn around and see him right there behind me, and it makes me so happy 💞
Seems like u found ur someone
The worst thing is when you as an Introvert go beyond your comfort zone - and still are Single after several years.
I - an Introvert - decided with 22 to just go for it. In all these years I have only been rejected by women. I am 31 bow. Never had a hug or a kiss.
Tysm for your this comment tbh I'm not an introvert but the guy I like is an introvert I'm not sure if he likes me or not but I have heard many times from others that he have or had a crush on me but I'm still not sure bcoz I just can't assume anything without knowing the truth but I like him very much and bcoz of covid it's been 1.5 yrs and I am not able to meet or talk to him and he is not available in any kind of social site and alsoooo upon all this I'm gonna leave this school in some months so I just want to know that how can I make him comfortable so that whenever we meet he can express his feelings to me ❤️
@@ceooflonelinessinc.267 sorry, i’m only 15 but i would totally go out with you if you were my age ☹️ hope you find/found someone
I'm sorry but "I have only been rejected by women" sounds like you have a man@@ceooflonelinessinc.267
Psych2Go must know we are introverts, guys!
Michaela Piggin maybe the “psych” in their name stands for psychic
(I think terrible jokes like these are why I’m an introvert)
I make the same puny or bad jokes. If someone laughs at them cherish that person. I find if an introvert like me can make a girl laugh with these jokes then there may be a chance.
yes
Its kinda feckin obvious
It has to be a bit obvious if we run to them for advice XD
It’s hard to meet someone that you’ll have an instant connection. Found one but unfortunately the feeling wasn’t mutual.
Sorry to hear Alvin! Always work on yourself foremost. :)
Same, I know that feel
so should we keep going or... give up?
You shouldn't but I have already given up
Aya Surya i would say give up. No point holding on to something which isn’t mutual 👍🏻
What if you want to date but you hate everybody
I love this comment
This is me in a nutshell
Big mood
Fuck, same
Lol yup the introvert code is that most of us hate 99.9 percent of human population.
The little drawings are always so cute :3
Glad you love this one!
Psych2Go No problem! I love a lot of your content :)
I'm here more for the cute drawings and the sweet voice lol, still love your work :D
That's part of their appeal and they do it well
Sae Nijima?
“Are you an introvert? What helps you in the realm of dating?”
... Th-that’s kinda the reason why I watched this video... **sNiff**
wrong question ..... ask did we ever see the realm of dating
I can kinda help with that may not have dated but I've always known how to help others in it and have it work out and yes i know this is from 2 years ago and things may have changed but in case it hasn't or those you are looking at this comment and have the same feeling just find someone you know personally and that they know you the same way it'll help with the bond introverted or not and the courage to confess feelings try not to think to much of rejection it's better to just go for it don't think about it just let it happen either in person or text it's better to know the answer officially then never knowing also carry a chocolate bar or anything in your pocket handy on dates because when asked a question and need time to think eat it and think so that the person you're on a date with won't question it too much since it's rude to eat with a mouth full and let the person know how you feel about something rather then just agreeing or disagreeing to make the relationship be a little more stable on thoughts and think before you might say something too awkward or embarrassing for an excuse to leave or something so goodluck to anyone reading this.
Lol
The worst thing is when you as an Introvert go beyond your comfort zone - and still are Single after several years.
I - an Introvert - decided with 22 to just go for it. In all these years I have only been rejected by women. I am 31 bow. Never had a hug or a kiss.
This is one of the worst videos u couldve watched
As an introvert i have found that meeting women was not the hard part , it was meeting the right one for me.. most of the women i meet ,things would start off fine but then they wanted more..they wanted me to go out more..do things in public more..so in the end the relationship would crash and burn.. but i finally found a lady who is not exactly an introvert ,but she understands me..and she is able to go out with her friends and is ok with me staying at home ..
I'm introvert and I think I never have boyfriend.
#ForeverAlone
Same, except I never had a girlfriend
Austin Esquillin
Sad reality.
PointL2L
Anime guys are cool, but not for bf.
SAME
Hope this thread gets to 100 + likes by this week. It's deserving of that.
Me and dating? haha... HAHAHAHAHA... *starts crying* #ForeverAlone
Czitus The Zep same *starts crying*
True story...
dating isn't all bad it's kinda nerve racking most times.
cry with me brotha.
Get out. Get rejected. Get free... Once you get rejected, and rejected HARD, you will not fear rejection anymore. And your confidence will boost like when before puberty kicked in.
I‘m totally into an extrovert but she is so out there that she‘s kinda scary.
I feel like she thinks of me as just someone she knows.
But she joint the literature club I‘m in so I‘m not alone that’s super cute.
Omg is that Monica ?
ChriH!st H! Maybe😏
Actually I‘m the leader of my schools literature club and my friends and I made fun of that when Doki Doki came out.
But my sadly my name is Maxi
It’s ok, she can be your saori (but, like, not suicidal)
noooooo i wanted to ask if your crush is named sayori :,(
ChriH!st H! I waited for that answer 😂
Or just remain forever alone
Lovely.
Noooo!! Psych2Go!! you are the only ones that believe in us!
Wish it was :(
I mean your not wrong *crys in anime hole*
Why fall in love when you can fall into the inescapable hole of any fandom, I can't escape any and I've excepted that I will probably be forever alone
The biggest and most important piece of advice that I can give to you, is, that you should take your time, when getting to know your potential partner. Don't rush into a relationship, without knowing whether you can trust that person and share your feeling with him or her. Take your time to get to know that person and find common ground, so you have a solid basis to build on, before going any further. :3
Yo, if I am even remotely in a relationship I know what the trigger will be. The person who I will bite a brick for is the lady who actually asks me about me and listens. Only two people have ever asked me about things that I've never told anyone. One is my pastor and the other was a good friend on a mission trip who is now a youth pastor. Needless to say if a lady non pastor asks me these sorts of things I will give them some sincere consideration. Also I don't think it will be too much longer before I'm diagnosed with bipolar disorder. It would make sense if I have it. In fact it would almost be a relief if I did. I'd finally know what's wrong with me. It runs in my family and my brother doesn't seem to have it. Then again he has a girlfriend. But I am just crazy and I don't have amy problems. At least that's what I tell myself because I know that everyone else thinks I just overreact but they don't know me at all because they never freaking ask!
I’m an introvert. I was just asked into a possible first relationship from someone I don’t know much about yet, and this advice is what I’ve been looking for. Thank you and wish me luck
@@annaxd6974 Best of luck to you! My comment may be 4 years old, but I still stand by it. Always know that you deserve the things you wish for. Take your time to make sure you know someone well enough to lead a relationship with confidence. You've got this!
Ty im always feeling pressured into having things and people not letting me to take my time and not rush.
Saving you a lot of animation.
1. Go to events and places that harbour your hobbies and interests.
2. Be prepared to go through trial and error.
3. Have honest conversations.
4. Only make time for people you are really interested in (not those who appeal to your parents or your friends)
5. Keep an open mind.
What helps me wth dating?
Not dating
Good call. :)lol
“As an introvert, you most likely dont like creating conflict.”
That is a fact.
Who doesn’t like creating me?
That is a fact😂, I don't know how to deal with it
For an introvert, We need a serious relationship to mold us to be a much better person and to help us to go through in life, We don't need One night stand or Flirt or something that just for fun relationship, we need to find our perfect match in life to experience a serious relationship, i know its hard for me to find that because im introvert but im still believe that it takes time to work that out, Well Patience is a virtue, The more you wait the more people you can meet. Sometimes you might think that introvert sucks but you are not thinking deep that on this way you can love yourself more and know what you really like, so if the person is already there you just gonna approach her/him (Well im sucks on approaching people so expect for me to be difficult on that part) to share your interest or Getting to know each other stage.
Yes, that is the first step- realizing self and what we truly want and value.
Second is finding those who appreciate our views and want to be a part of this picture of deeper discovery. So mostly introverts would fit the bill.
From there on it has to be patience and genuineness.
See, you may not be good at the 'extrovert way of doing things', but you've a promising self-devised method that is better suited given your orientation. Now, go on to the field... wish you success.
As a lifelong shy & sensitive introvert: small gatherings (ex: friend's house warming, a birthday party, etc...), work, hobby-oriented gatherings, and online (chat forums) are places where I've met past boyfriends. I despise small talk and like direct & honest communication. Usually at places like the aforementioned, people are already connected by something. It's easier/more comfortable to socialize.
On a side note: I prefer dating other introverts. We understand each other and it's much easier to get along. I get drained by extroverts. I can be friends with an extrovert, but I can't date one.
It’s always sorta been hard for me in social situations of many different kinds because of how introverted and shy I am, but I believe I’m so lucky to actually have a bf who sees past how quiet and shy I am. I usually try to avoid social contact with people when I’m in class or in public when not necessary, but he is the only one that is able to make me change my mind on that. He has actually made me feel way more confident in myself, and I know that I am slowly changing and opening up more to the world than before. I feel so lucky to have someone like him in my life who has mutual feeling for me. :)
I'm gonna share this to my friend since hes an introvert and he has a crush on someone ;3
And I'm an introvert :D
Love your vids! X3
Tips for dating as an introvert:
Idk I haven't dated anyone yet :v
Xx_*Mirak*_xX Mosalli kk :3
Xx_*Mirak*_xD Mosalli that's stupid.
Awesome_Potato-Chan I've tried but I found out that my crush hate introvert. T.T
That's the worst advice you could give.
Karami woah you can’t tell people that.. that’s something they figure out for themselves. If you want to have a relationship with someone, go for it. It’s something you learn from experience, not from others.
Introvert and never had a girlfriend. Not because I’m an introvert, but just because I suck as a person lol
Aaron Coyle same here lol
And me. Never had a real relationship and I'm 27. Shiiit
You guys are breaking me. I thought im a unicorn with 22 and no relationship, not even a kiss. But 27, please dont let this go on for another 5 years, im falling apart..
@@madpanger7257 Heh, that's funny. I turned 32 last month. No girlfriends, no dates. Oops!
@@pieterboelen2862 Im sorry for you.
1. Go to events
2. Be prepared to go through trial and error
3. Have honest conversations
4. Only make time for people you’re really interested in
5. Keep an open mind
❤️
Forever alone..!
Who‘s with me?
Yeah, but secretly having tiny hope ? Right ?
I am lol
Me Romance is overrated
mee
Nobody, that's the point
We're all alone
Except for football and gaming(League Of Legends) I don't have too many hobbies and in my city there aren't events for my hobbies. The only public place I go to recreate is an internet caffee(gaming zone) but I don't know if the girls don't like to show up there or just don't know about the place. And I don't think we(introverts) have too many places to go and meet people. Anyway, I'm sure most of us are fine with this and don't force themselves too much finding someone. I don't say we can't find parteners, I just say that if we are more of a retreated people its harder to find each other.
Branch out and find new hobbies dude, get involved and your network will expand.
Miaunet same. Gaming and the gym
Thanks for being so helpful.Every single one of your videos relates to me in some way and fills me with hopes.The backround music really helps as well.Thanks for reducing my stress c:
Spooky Lunatic this is a wonderful thing to hear 😊 we are happy knowing there are people who feel better by watching our content!
Ive found that having an extrovert as my best friend for over 8 years now has really been such a benefit for both of us, we've definitely learned a lot about and from each other, and sort of balance each other out
As if my introverted a** would even ever get a date.
same here
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What helped me was not dating until I was ready to date, which meant working on myself, then trial and error. Then, I found an awesome guy.
What really helps me connect with people is meeting them doing things i like practicing like sports, music or other itenterest i have.
Sharing a common goal with someone, even if it is as simple as reaching some random place by foot because it's pretty or playing music outdoors, develops your relationship with that person as well as both persons themselves.
Besides all that, simply taking your comfort zone outside of your house calls for good luck.
Congrats on this channel! Really wise and concious people you are
I’m an introvert but have social anxieties issues and a bit of other stuff going on. What really helps me is actually understanding that you don’t have to be someone else to date this “crush” of yours. Just gotta be authentic, genuine and also courageous. Learning to step out of your comfort zone, even just a little can come a long way. Compatibility and compromises are key points for relationship imo.
Both me and my partner are introverts and i have really bad social anxiety and it's almost been a year since we first started dating! Your videos always make me happy and i learn a lot more from them, thank you!
I’m 37 and I’ve given up hope. From age 27-36 I was dead set on staying that way until I gave on girl a chance. It was a major mistake which made me decide to officially “retire” from relationships
Sorry man but hey not all live happily ever after right? Hope things turn out ok in the future.
Damn, sorry man... How are you doing now?
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Ah yes...the ex...I too had one of those. Yup...
Don't give up. I'm 35. We're still relatively young. I recently approached someone for the first time after several years of being totally single. He ignored me lol but I'm glad I did it cause for the first time in my life I put myself out there without any qualms whatsoever. I was completely sincere with him. So I think I'm strong enough for the adventure now even if it means I won't get what I want.
1. Socializing with people who have the same interests is a great way to go. Music, certain shows, games, cooking tips. There are places nearby.
2. Even though I internalize how I feel most of the time, I think I'm getting better and will be ready for the dating world. Trial and error is just part of the game.
3. I feel like having the hard talks first will make things somewhat easier. I'm willing to be honest from the get go.
4. This seems to be the most important part of the video.
5. Yes. Being open minded really helps. Even if two people don't always see eye to eye can still make things work.
I'm 63 and still hate the idea of dating. (Been married twice.) I have trouble with interviews, too. They feel the same.
Wow it's really hard to se boomers on this channel. It's nice to know there are people like you around! Every time I scan through the comment section I feel no longer alone.
ı guess its related with the generation :/
your generation was more closed, there was limited interaction between the partners.
our generation however constantly meets with new people, we cant get enought time to know eachother as a friend let alone as a potential partner
I hate it in an interview when you can totally see through the "boss's" purpose for having you there to begin with!🤣🤣 As if it's for my benefit when I already know they hired someone else but still interviewed me...😳
Im a huge introvert, i sometimes cry,Maybe because I have social anxiety disorder, I know, Embarrassing, But i find that being with extroverts is good 😊 if you find someone who speaks up you want to be like them, Though not all the time, Being An introvert, having social anxiety and trust issues i find myself staying in groups of friends i trust and dont feel nervous around, Finding people who share things in common with you is always good but also finding changes and finding things new, Extroverts help you be able to express yourself even if its honestly baby steps or even In years to go by, They are really great to be around too.
Idk how should i know. Im a single pringle
@anti non gamers association Yes, so true.
But, @Muune, it's for some people hard even being in groups. Like me, i'm often alone, sometimes with my friend. Most people call me boring, relatable, but it's just....often just sad being alone most of the time, but also k owing you're not really able being in groups
(Yes, english isn't my native language)
As not an actual joke comment to any other introverts out there my tips are 1) Never be afraid to say no, this is crucial to a relationship, don't do anything you're uncomfortable with. 2) Relationships don't work in pay-backs. It may be hard to express yourself, especially being an introvert, but this is going back to it's okay to say no. Just because your special someone gave you a gift or did something doesn't mean you have to pay them back in something you don't want to do, don't force yourself, ever, it only ends up worse. 3) Communicate. Tell them how you feel, it can be hard but this is a huge test. If they understand and respect you for your statement and show understanding then that's perfect. If they don't, then they don't have that much of an interest in you. 4) Just because they did so much for you doesn't mean you have to stay with them. People change, for better or for worse, you don't need to be afraid to break up with someone, but you can give them emotional support, especially if it's a former-friend. Well, this is really long now, but in all seriousness I wish I had done these things when I was in a relationship, when I didn't say things it just got bottled up and... I ended up exploding in emotion, we were both at fault in that relationship, but, we made it out okay, even if I'm not with them anymore, so... don't be afraid! Dating is hard, but it can be beautiful too.
Thank you very much for sharing your experience!
@@greysky1786 I forgot this comment even existed. Uhhhh yea not much I'd change in my comment here. Cool to see how different I was as a teen there
glad to have come across this video. i never thought about the first point before, but it actually makes so much sense. going to a club just isn't me and maybe by going to places i'm genuinely interested in will be helpful. so simple yet something i've never thought of, thanks!
livia absolutely! It's great to get out of your comfort zone once in a while, but when it comes to finding love, it's ideal to be in a place that makes you feel confident and comfortable. Thanks for watching! 😊
I’m an introvert and I have a crush on another introvert. (We both talk a lot, he a bit more than me but it’s a different thing to be talkative/shy than an introvert just to be clear.) We are friends now. I like that we can both admit being introverts so we understand if another one’s ”social meter” has gone down for some reason. Silence doesn’t have to be awkward if we don’t make it one, either. I honestly think he likes me back yet our relationship is building up slowly, steadily, not in a rush, just the way I like it! My extroverted friend is talking with everybody 24/7, and I think I can’t handle anybody, even a boyfriend or a best friend like that.
I'm a really strong introvert, the only people I can handle with without getting stressed or uncomfortable are my nearest family.. Even when I'm with a good friend I think about going home and be alone (after 30min). I love it to be alone but I also love it so be with my family, so there's always a struggle. I had a girlfriend for over 1 year and hmm.. There were many moments I felt uncomfortable because I wanted to be alone more often and year.. I ended it. So now I don't know if I'm the relationship dude, but I've downloaded tinder and don't know why and yeah. That's my story.
You can use this knowledge now for nothing, your welcome
I wasn't an introvert back then, I greet everyone I meet, talk to them even if they're not close. And people seemed to like me. My friendship with people is just like a dream come true.
**wakes up*
Introverts are not always closed for others.
I opened up through the years, less afraid of the unknown, more talking towards others. Still I don't like talking within groups, I don't make friends, I like my alone time, can't do small talk.
I must say I had some help to open up more, after that it was me to be better and improve more.
Dating is still a hurdle, but I just need to open my mind more.
@@Larstig81 small groups sure but big groups fck no and yea alone time is more than a world to me
Thanks you! I really *REALLY* needed this qwq
Hope you find it helpful! :)
Psych2Go
I really do! ^_^
And tell me when you succeed! :P (If it's okay of course! ^^)
David Diesenreither
Of course xd But I wont never succeed sooo :/
I believe in you! I like to say that nothing is impossible! Just think positive and then the outcome will probably be positive too!
I guess I'm both. Sometimes very extroverted, but very introverted at times. It makes it hard to date because people seem to only understand or be able to want to be around you when you're being one or the other.
I've found that finding someone who is both, along with having similar interests, is best. Someone who is comfortable being around while you are being yourself no matter how you are.
Oh my God. I love the tip about dating extoverts. My husband is the polar opposite of my introvertness. He is so extroverted where I am extremely introverted and it is so funny how well we get along. We have our ups and downs just like any normal relationship but we are 5 years strong with two kids. I hope they are more extroverted like their dad because it is so hard being introverted.
I'm 20 and never dated
21 here...
22! now
21 next week, no female lips have kissed mine😔
Oumimin I’m 22 and never dated.
@@cathyshepard253 24
Video: Make sure you have chemistry
Me: OMG YES HE’S IN MY THIRD PERIOD CLASS!!!!!!
Lol
I’m an introvert. For me, so far in life, no matter who you are to me, I can only spend so much time with you before I am drained of all my energy and ability to care. My family is an exception but even growing up I’d spend most of my life in my room away from everyone. Someday I just want to find somebody who I can be around for long periods of time and not want to kick them out.
I found it is substantially more easy for me to summon self confidence when I carry with me the option of using the back door in case things go a little... too far south rather than go in without a back up plan. Though it might not be the "safest" solution. I have found it to be the most effective for me as it levels out what I have to lose with reasonable incentive.
I'm an introvert who's been rejected many times, I kinda feel like I'm a stupid person who tries to find love. But because of this video, I now have confidence to live and wait for my true love
Edit: sorry if my English is kinda bad
I recently just got out of a relationship with someone who, for the first time, I grew to have feelings for. I tried to do things with her as much as I could because I loved to spend time with her, even though she was usually very busy. The third thing you covered, is what really got me. I was always anxious to text her. She just wanted to stay friends with me, which is cool too, but it really does make me wonder if I'll ever find someone I can call my SO.
Im finding myself in that situation rn
Being a introvert has become a part of me as a identity. Its who I am. I am grateful for the tips the channel is giving. But in all honesty people are not kind or understanding of introverts. They label you as a freak. Its hurtful and uncomfortable. Even makes things strange with your family.
I’m an introvert :D
ALLLIZ WELL me too
Same
ALLLIZ WELL im kinda introvert
Hey me too
Isn't everyone here an introvert?
this was in my recommended, so i guess that I'm going to spend the next hour on this side of youtube
I loved that video! Sometimes I only need my space and my boyfriend didn’t understand why I didn’t want to see him. It’s not because I stop to love him but it’s just because I need my time alone or do my own things
I'm An Introvert And I Now Have An Online Boyfriend From The Netherlands!! :D Yay Me!!
Heather Rapley im from the netherlands but Nice:D
Wessel van den Broek Yay :D
Good for you! :D
Heather Rapley
Hope you two are happy together!
good luck and hope for the best!
LDR's can be tough especially without the contact, was in one for a year with a dude in the Netherlands lol.
Just communicate and open up with eachother and be honest and trusting and I'll hope for the best for ya'll!
I’m an introvert and have a date tomorrow, I’m so nervous and excited! I asked him out which was definitely out of my comfort zone
I'm so happy that the internet exists. My boyfriend unfortunately lives almost 2,000km away, and due to our age we can't actually meet each other irl. He's such an amazing person, and it's the internet that brought us together. Online relationships do count, people!
ᕖᓚ ᑕᕇᓪ makes me fucking sad because i was in the exact same Situation...but it where 400km...well everything was so perfect and it was like we where the exact same person...she broke up with me and it killed me...she was the one
Ow... I'm sorry, that must be awful to have gone through
ᕖᓚ ᑕᕇᓪ word cant descripe it
I guess I can say the same thing. There's this girl a few states away and really connected. I feel like we've already met.
I don't think I could do an online relationship, I mean what's the point
Tell em you like them!
Just do it!
They know how much you like them when even the introvert says that!
Love all this introvert content 😊
I'm an introvert and I'm married to an extrovert. It's one of the weirder things I've done. But I love her more than anything
I like cats
i love cats
David Diesenreither there SOOOOOOOO cute
Yes!
I'm an introvert, & I never had this much attraction towards any boy, no matter how handsome he is, but i never liked someone.... But now, this is the first time in my life, I've liked this guy so much!!, I never thought that i would ever fall in love with someone, but he just stole my heart, & now I don't know what should I do now?.... He just stuck in my mind 24/7, I just can't forget him..... & I'm too afraid to ask him out, and now I have no idea what to do?
“Meeting new people”
Alright you lost me there
Hello my fellow introverts!!
*happy to see u guys*
Me dating is one of the funniest things I’ve ever heard. I’m too weird for anyone. #ForeverAlone
That is the funniest thing i have ever heard as well..
T-Shirt Ideas
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Hoodies Idea:
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I was going to make a joke about not dating anyone, but everyone else already beat me to it... But hey, maybe we'll all get lucky today?
If i can date (im introvert and ugly as hell) i think a lot of peaple can too
What helps me dating is basically not talking to people to avoid mistakes.
I gave up finding love more than 10 years ago.
The awkwardness when I try to chat with people is way too big a hurdle.
As an introvert, I hate social interactions. I'm a chill guy. I don't do much and I could be considered "boring" by others because of the lack of excitement in my life lol. I found it most enjoyable when I spend time with my crush and what is said in the video is true. To other introverts: It's healthy and normal to be in a relationship.
You're right, just that you're different than the world (because extroverts define the world in their own image at the exclusion of other possibilities), you are taken for an 'unsocial and boring' individual and they don't get comfortable around you (for you to be getting comfortable in return). Not as if you'd miss something you'd find worthwhile by associating with them- for all the hype they create it's actually the extroverts who are actually 'boring' (read as "too little of interest to me", as defined by an introvert).
I'll never meet my dream girl because she hates leaving the house as much as I do🤣😭
🤣🤣OMG that's so true and hilarious!
At least you HAVE one.
I'm an introvert. I've never been on one single date. Even in places I feel comfortable my confidence is so low you have to dig for it.
I can't find someone who I'm attracted to physically and personally.
It's always one or the other. And don't try me with the "looks don't matter" because they most definitely do. I can't have a healthy sex life if I'm not attracted and you can't have a healthy relationship without a healthy sex life
I understand how challenging that can be, finding someone that you connect with in both ways. But the main lesson from ''looks don't matter'' is to remember that they are not the priority because being with someone you find attractive but uninteresting won't last, whereas if you find someone you can connect with on a deeper level personality wise you'll realize that attraction can grow and develop. The physical traits that didn't catch your attention at first, might become extremely endearing after you let the inside swine through. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, thus your vision, perspective and opinion can change.
Psych2Go yes I guess that is right.
how about later on in life you lose interest as that person 'ages'? looks should come second, only to personal connection. unless the other person is very appalling to be with- about average should be good enough going by physical looks, aint it so?
It’s funny you should type this because I remember replying to someone saying beauty’s only the bonus in a relationship and I said not everyone would agree with that and then he just replied back to me with things I don’t think had much to do with beauty and then ended by saying not everyone can handle the flavor of truth. But I wasn’t lying about people not having the same mindset as him about what people will find important in a relationship.
What about Asexuel people, some of them can have a healthy relationship.
I feel it’s hard for introverts to find the right person since we tend to be a bit picky when it comes to love. Don’t do this! You don’t want to limit yourself from your potential true love!!
No, thanks. I reject this advice
If you're an introvert and you want love, go out and talk to people... Ok sure
When I'm sad I just come here to watch some of your videos and they help me to feel better.
For me love is overrated. Friendship is way better
Meh, you could have both in one person. So why would you just pick one?
Friendships involve love. A different kind than the romantic one, but they still have it. To say love is overrated must mean you're in denial of your feelings. Love is a wonderful thing and to be in love is also a great thing. Friendship is good too, but it isn't the same nor a substitute.
SxKushxS Person who follows both rabbits, catches neither
That Random Guyーさん I've been into both
And friendship was more worthy. Love had broken my heart, that's what it came up with..
Are you aromantic?
Just left a man after 6mo of dating that I thought was going to want to take the next step with me...I wish I would’ve watched this beforehand. Thank y’all for sharing ❤️.
Jasmine we're sorry to hear that! But we do wish you the best with your future relationships :)
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The title looks promising and couldn't come at a better time. Thanks for uploading 😁
so I should stay at home? XD or the library?
Library ;)
Library is always awesome
Stephanie Pianowski Pianowski Sometimes it is. When I was growing up as a kid the public library I went to was kind of annoying with people talking and children and even most recently when I went there a week ago there was someone who was snoring loudly and had a loud ringtone.
One thing that worked for me as an introvert was asking the people around me to tell them or get a note to them not actually having to talk to them.
"Go to events and places that reflect your favorite hobbies and interests."
I've yet to find anyone just in my bed. My hobbies and interests include sleep.
“Don’t settle just because you’re afraid to be alone!”
I knlw someone like that!
The majority are like that. As to why they go from depending on thier parents to relying on date or significant other instead of learning to become independent first. Figuring out who they're growing up to be
We all are introverts watching this video. Bcz most of the time I am on RUclips. 😫
we are only human and in every mistake we make in dating is a stepping stone on our path. It's definitely an experience and worth it in the end that our next relationship would even be a better one. ☺
I'm seeing a lot of people in these comments joking about how they're never going to date because their introverted. I get that these are just jokes, but this person put this video together to offer tips on how we could potentially find someone who makes you happy, and the fact that you're willing to let your nature prevent you from going outside the box can't help you to get very far in life. As an introvert myself, the concept of putting myself out there is terrifying as heck, but I think it's worth it if it actually means knowing what it's like to be in love. Thank you for this video @psych2go, I, and others I'm sure, appreciate it.
About a week ago I met this amazing girl in the Belgian Ardennes. She was an entertainer there so naturally she didnt have much time to spend freely. I was far too shy to ask herout in a public place and I messed up my attempts to draw her to a romantic place and do it in a comfortable environment. Now Im home and I dont even have her number... This was the first time someone met my expectations, sense of humour and personality and I fucked it up...
Melanie, if you're reading this: It's Kevin from tent 10. I'd love to take you out sometime
At the time of commenting, the number of comments is 666. Then I posted this and ruined it.
Neutronic Embers good job bro!👍🏻
You need to go to prison for your heinous atrocities.
To choose the right partner you must know if you feel relax with, you have to be yourself with him without triying to be perfect personne cause he must love you with your faults he has to see the beautiful things in you, to see your heart not something not important like the appearances. So you have to know you deserve to be happy !!
I'm an introvert and also have Asperger's syndrome, dating seems so out of my league that I think I'll just have to get by on my own lol
Erika Vuorinen I'm exactly the same. I have aspurgers too plus being an introvert. Lol 😔😔
same here, i can't even begin a conversation with other friends at school. MUCH LESS WITH MY CRUSH!!!!
I’m an introvert and people(mostly extroverts) would consider me quiet and unsociable or shy. I think if I like someone, I would like him because he is also an introvert, so he understands me better than how extroverts understand me
You're right, just that you're different than the world (because extroverts define the world in their own image at the exclusion of other possibilities), you are taken for an 'unsocial and boring' individual and they don't get comfortable around you (for you to be getting comfortable in return). Not as if you'd miss something you'd find worthwhile by associating with them- for all the hype they create it's actually the extroverts who are 'boring' (read as "what you do and talk, is too little of interest/relevance to me", as defined by an introvert).
And understanding is a crucial element on which relationship is built. He knows why you are the way you are at the moment, it'd be is as if you split into two and the other half is interacting with you; you're also him and he's also you there is a single entity- 'both of you', loneliness no longer makes any sense; well, it ceases altogether.
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Love the choice of music in the background
What if your shy and an introvert.
Then you're fucked ;)
I'm a shy introvert with mild aspurgers lol. I'm doomed aha. 😔
Dont loose hope, its your biggest weapon!
@@gameroid783 100% same
I watch this despite having a relation for nearly two years, I've met one in a million and I'm very grateful to have her. ^^
Video: love isn’t a fairy tell
Kids: unfortunately for you, that’s not how history will see it
It's cool coming to watch these videos, when I look at the comment section I see their are other people like me, keep your heads up everyone or whatever way you like to keep it.