Guys definitely don't like women who shoot their shot. That doesn't mean they will reject you outright, they'll probably just use you. I have done it before, but I'll never do it again. Monna must lead.
I think the notion "Women have options" is very misleading. I think they have options from a place of attention or ukushelwa nje in general but as for quality in the very same options thats a different story itself. I know quality is very relative from woman to woman BUT quality men are very hard to find for most women.
Yeah but in a world where you get a lot of proposals, statistics dictates that you are more likely to meet a quality guy than if you have far less proposals. The odds are in your favour.
Thank you Ash. The father of my child is one of those guys that values himself based on money. To an extent that at a point he was brok. He didn't come see us.
Our Grandparents' primary motive was survival, Our parents' primary motive was standards of living and now my generation's (Gen Z) motive is Quality of life
I love conversations this side.😅 Well, I personally feel like if we were taught about soul ties from an early age, we would be in a better space mentally and spiritually. As you said religion, culture and western medicine is addressing issues such a teenage pregnancy. So I feel like the gap is in transparency. For example think about how there was Adam and Eve eating a fruit, then boom there's Abel and Cane😅.. another example think about that elderly nurse who'll judge a young girl going for contraception.. My point is, if things were said clearly and harshly enough... a lot of things would be clearer. And I feel like Life Orientation somehow shapes how one could think of themselves . I remember how I felt after learning about being sexual active and different sexual orientations.
What you lead with is what would be expected of you. I know guys with women who have money, some who don't have much of it, women love some dudes for their humour, resourcefulness (whether it comes with money or just handywork). Different people have different gifts and from experience and observation its what you lead with that would determine whether she sticks around when ish hits the fan. Most guys (especially ) those who lead with money are use it as a way of papering over cracks in their inadequacies. A secure and well rounded man will be able to survive and attract women throughout the ups and downs of live. Chelete e botlhokwa but like Khuli Chan said...nyuku dont make a man!
I'm curious as to why do you have it where we can't see everyone in the conversation. It would be nice to see the everyone. I just started watching the channel.
I have shot my shot with a guy. Throughout the relationship, he made me feel that I wanted the relationship, not him. I had to work to make the relationship work. He used me shem. I am not doing that ever again.
Why are they all coming yo SA, why not go to Ghana or Nigeria,the biggest economy in Africa. Instead they are all flocking to SA. We are not coping,our schools are bursting, our hospitals are 70% full of foreigners. Ghana does not allow SA to work there, even in our companies, MTN,Stanbic or ABSA. Nobody screams zenophobia in Ghana. When Ghana government locked Nigerian businesses, no one screams xenophobia in Ghana. Xenophobia is worse in Ghana and Nigeria, but only SA is targeted for xenophobia. Let's not be biased against SA, you are no better in West Africa.Even your laws in Ghana are xenophobic!
The exact same thing is going on in the West and it has turned on it's head bc now younger women are having a difficult time finding husbands. They are having to get the bag for themselves and eventually winding up lonely or tired or both. It is very, very sad. This is an important conversation.
I love this conversation shame, I shot my shot many times mna, I only got rejected once and his reasonings were valid, he had just lost a wife in a car accident and was healing. But yes it was painful. The success once we're also nice
I didn’t shoot my shot because of fear of rejection. I just know that he knows that I like him but he decides to not say anything about it. So I’m just reading in between the lines he doesn’t like me back. So it’s cool 🐹
Being the girl with a nice body i can tell you. Most of the attention is sexual and not guys who actually want to take you on dates and treat you right. 💔
Women should have high financial requirements for their partners because they carry most of the risk. If you're sexually active, you carry the pregnancy risk, women die during childbirth, it's a woman's body that's on the line and that should come with a price. Men who can't afford to bheja must not date until they're able to. In the olden days, men couldn't even touch a woman without paying lobola and her family giving a stamp of approval, nothing has changed, men still need to pay to access women.
@@nontheyet yes I will not have sex with poor men. That's my choice with my body. Lots of women who will do it for free, go find them and stop fighting those who have set standards
Guys definitely don't like women who shoot their shot. That doesn't mean they will reject you outright, they'll probably just use you. I have done it before, but I'll never do it again. Monna must lead.
I think the notion "Women have options" is very misleading. I think they have options from a place of attention or ukushelwa nje in general but as for quality in the very same options thats a different story itself. I know quality is very relative from woman to woman BUT quality men are very hard to find for most women.
Yeah but in a world where you get a lot of proposals, statistics dictates that you are more likely to meet a quality guy than if you have far less proposals.
The odds are in your favour.
Urshhh, what an all rounded queen. Beauty with brains and a dash of whit ❤. Another great show guys, keep up the good work
The guy was cooking. Life as a man is tough.
Thank you Ash. The father of my child is one of those guys that values himself based on money. To an extent that at a point he was brok. He didn't come see us.
Bonga: it's 11K...🤣
Our Grandparents' primary motive was survival, Our parents' primary motive was standards of living and now my generation's (Gen Z) motive is Quality of life
Yoh I shoot my shot with a friend and he rejected me. Guy didnt even speak to me for months. Worst mistake ever. Never again🙄
Geeezz Given spiting gems 💎
The yin to the yang comment on expectations is so true. 🔥
First time watching this channell... enjoyed listening the conversation like the male view on relationships is spot on..will definitely subscribe!
I love conversations this side.😅 Well, I personally feel like if we were taught about soul ties from an early age, we would be in a better space mentally and spiritually. As you said religion, culture and western medicine is addressing issues such a teenage pregnancy. So I feel like the gap is in transparency. For example think about how there was Adam and Eve eating a fruit, then boom there's Abel and Cane😅.. another example think about that elderly nurse who'll judge a young girl going for contraception.. My point is, if things were said clearly and harshly enough... a lot of things would be clearer. And I feel like Life Orientation somehow shapes how one could think of themselves . I remember how I felt after learning about being sexual active and different sexual orientations.
I shot my shot once and we dated for a good 2 years 😊
What you lead with is what would be expected of you. I know guys with women who have money, some who don't have much of it, women love some dudes for their humour, resourcefulness (whether it comes with money or just handywork). Different people have different gifts and from experience and observation its what you lead with that would determine whether she sticks around when ish hits the fan. Most guys (especially ) those who lead with money are use it as a way of papering over cracks in their inadequacies. A secure and well rounded man will be able to survive and attract women throughout the ups and downs of live. Chelete e botlhokwa but like Khuli Chan said...nyuku dont make a man!
I'm curious as to why do you have it where we can't see everyone in the conversation. It would be nice to see the everyone. I just started watching the channel.
Wow bro, you are right man. It is not easy to approach a good-looking lady.
Shoot my shot and he Ghosted me 😢
He's a good man
We'll definitely see Bonga in the next epi☺️
The recruitment budget is always more than the running funds . Remember that
I have shot my shot with a guy. Throughout the relationship, he made me feel that I wanted the relationship, not him. I had to work to make the relationship work. He used me shem.
I am not doing that ever again.
Why are they all coming yo SA, why not go to Ghana or Nigeria,the biggest economy in Africa.
Instead they are all flocking to SA.
We are not coping,our schools are bursting, our hospitals are 70% full of foreigners.
Ghana does not allow SA to work there, even in our companies, MTN,Stanbic or ABSA. Nobody screams zenophobia in Ghana.
When Ghana government locked Nigerian businesses, no one screams xenophobia in Ghana.
Xenophobia is worse in Ghana and Nigeria, but only SA is targeted for xenophobia.
Let's not be biased against SA, you are no better in West Africa.Even your laws in Ghana are xenophobic!
The exact same thing is going on in the West and it has turned on it's head bc now younger women are having a difficult time finding husbands. They are having to get the bag for themselves and eventually winding up lonely or tired or both. It is very, very sad. This is an important conversation.
i was flirting with a guy and i started liking him , i got impatient and shoot my shot and he rejected me😅,only to learn he was very much married.
I love this conversation shame, I shot my shot many times mna, I only got rejected once and his reasonings were valid, he had just lost a wife in a car accident and was healing. But yes it was painful. The success once we're also nice
Also guys it starts at young age to set standard for themselves....❤
I didn’t shoot my shot because of fear of rejection. I just know that he knows that I like him but he decides to not say anything about it. So I’m just reading in between the lines he doesn’t like me back. So it’s cool 🐹
I shot my shoot back in varsity and it landed for 3 years😂😂😂Bonga tell them all they need is rizz🤣
Nooooo that comment, "o batla go nona go feta moo" is soo wrong. People should stop thinking they have a right of comment on other people's weight.
Don't do it,bona never again will I shoot my shot because guys get big heads and then your reminded "you wanted me not the other way around. "
That security comment on Bonga was off. People who make such comments are wrong.
Being the girl with a nice body i can tell you. Most of the attention is sexual and not guys who actually want to take you on dates and treat you right. 💔
Lol I think huns who get rejected by guys just don't have rizz.
Lol Bonga would absolutely agree with you 🤣
Unfortunately 99% of Women don’t have rizz and I don't blame them they always get attention
This is so true, well established people don't like to accept any form of not normal.....any form or shame they just don't want 😢
What is rizz please
@@Michaelist8616co ask
😂😂😂Lavos😂😂😂How do you even spell it🙈🙈🙈
Women should have high financial requirements for their partners because they carry most of the risk. If you're sexually active, you carry the pregnancy risk, women die during childbirth, it's a woman's body that's on the line and that should come with a price. Men who can't afford to bheja must not date until they're able to. In the olden days, men couldn't even touch a woman without paying lobola and her family giving a stamp of approval, nothing has changed, men still need to pay to access women.
@@nontheyet yes I will not have sex with poor men. That's my choice with my body. Lots of women who will do it for free, go find them and stop fighting those who have set standards
To judge and convict a subjective opinion over one rejected experimentation is unfair.