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  • @AdorableApricot
    @AdorableApricot 2 года назад +116

    the five habits:
    1. no phone 2 hours before bed and 2 hours after waking up
    2. a calm morning ritual (make bed, make tea, read, stretch)
    3. tidy my space before bed
    4. reading before bed
    5. limit decision making (meal prep/meal plan)

  • @jannestam
    @jannestam 2 года назад +340

    i love how you’re also open about mental health and topics like anxiety, you really help a lot of people jess, thank you 🤍

    • @princessjones4953
      @princessjones4953 2 года назад

      Try and guess this song!!! ruclips.net/video/iFeMEbCg0iY/видео.html

  • @jennymarie16
    @jennymarie16 2 года назад +230

    I love hearing about the books you are currently reading! Maybe in a future vlog you can mention your top 5 books or even start a book club would be so fun 💕 have a great day Jess!

    • @JessConte
      @JessConte  2 года назад +61

      that would be so fun!!!

    • @CathyLee
      @CathyLee 2 года назад +8

      @@JessConte yes! 😊 I agree ☝️ and I also love romance books but some of them get too steamy and I actually prefer it without. Let me know if you have any favorites you recommend! I’ve read a lootttt but been on a bit of a romance book “fast” till I find a worthwhile one.

    • @princessjones4953
      @princessjones4953 2 года назад

      Try and guess this song!!! ruclips.net/video/iFeMEbCg0iY/видео.html

    • @rosemarychavez5570
      @rosemarychavez5570 2 года назад +1

      Oh my yes I would do into that

    • @bhawanachandel9565
      @bhawanachandel9565 2 года назад

      I finished reading "the Spanish Love Deception" this morning. I started reading it just because of jess💕

  • @shrezxo5530
    @shrezxo5530 2 года назад +115

    This soothing video really inspired me to have a healthier routine especially because I suffer from insomnia and have started experiencing anxiety lately. Thanks Jess for always being so amazing xx

  • @juliajoseph8146
    @juliajoseph8146 2 года назад +7

    this type of videos of you planing your days and organizing help me sooo much, whenever i’m planing my studies or my week i love watching a video of yours in the background, helps me so much and keeps me going! 💛 thank you!!

  • @noellemw.
    @noellemw. 2 года назад +82

    Thank you for always being so vulnerable and genuine. Anxiety is something extremely real and difficult. I struggle with it a lot and you always make me feel less alone and actually happy! I always feel like I can relax and have great company (who truly cares about me!) when I watch your videos! Thank you so much Jess, we love you!

  • @benitaarokiaraj2267
    @benitaarokiaraj2267 2 года назад +7

    Love your weekly vlogs! They’re honestly the most calming videos :)

  • @lyviaray8819
    @lyviaray8819 2 года назад +38

    Jess, you are glowing!! I love your hair with the baby blue sweater, so stunning and really brings out your eyes!! Thank you for taking us through your life with such authenticity!! 🥰

  • @chiara1325
    @chiara1325 2 года назад +5

    I love your videos. They’re always so calming and inspiring. They always light up my day ☀️

  • @taniavaladez4735
    @taniavaladez4735 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for posting this video Jess. ♥️ I appreciate the fact that you’re open about your mental health and are kind enough to share about the changes you have discovered to makes things a bit better. I will for sure try out a few of the changes from your video today! Thank you for being the beautiful soul that you are. ♥️

  • @kwueen8864
    @kwueen8864 2 года назад +3

    Jess has the most soothing videos. They’re my favorite to watch when I just want to wind down and relax ❤️

  • @JaM200500
    @JaM200500 2 года назад +8

    Jess vlogs are THE highlight of my weeknights! Get so excited everytime you upload!

  • @anweko93
    @anweko93 2 года назад +4

    If anyone is wondering what song is Jess playing throughout the video,
    it is 'Late study' by Matt Large
    You're welcome ;)

  • @Lakeyheart
    @Lakeyheart 2 года назад +1

    i love these type of videos Jess - I have just been playing all kinds of these types of your videos and its so soothing. Please post more

  • @jannestam
    @jannestam 2 года назад +5

    i’m so happy these habits helped with your anxiety!! thanks for sharing this, i’m definitely gonna try the habit of putting my phone away :)

  • @Julia-sq4qp
    @Julia-sq4qp 2 года назад +1

    Thanks sooo much! I work from home and I can relate soooo much!! My head has been racing because it’s a lot of screen time and gogogo mindset. Just today I was off my phone most day snd in the AM and saw such a difference. Happy I’m not alone 💕

  • @caitlynelizabeth9642
    @caitlynelizabeth9642 2 года назад +1

    love love love this ❤️ so helpful to think about ways to switch off & wind down especially working from home! Love you Jess (also I need your wardrobe haha - your outfits are just gorgeous!) x

  • @assiabouhafs4609
    @assiabouhafs4609 2 года назад +1

    I really appreciate your vids , it makes me feel like "need a change" step too so I'm thankful jess! ♥️

  • @karyn216
    @karyn216 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for being a constant source of comfort, Jess! 🧡Was wearing my white conteam hoodie as I watched and when you popped up wearing the matching gray version I squeeled a little 😆

  • @sophiamoody8948
    @sophiamoody8948 2 года назад

    I really enjoy your videos they are so comforting, calming, and sweet! Also I love the jumper you wore on Friday! SO cute!!

  • @nadiajacobs8154
    @nadiajacobs8154 2 года назад +6

    Perfect timing. I've recently been realizing how toxic my friends are and that I need to change my life around. Thanks Jess ❤️

  • @mustardsweater4112
    @mustardsweater4112 2 года назад +1

    hi jess! love love this kind of videos it really encourages my self growth as well you're such an inspiration ♡

  • @keerthanahari6091
    @keerthanahari6091 2 года назад +7

    Heyy Jess! Please give us longer videos! Your content is so calming!!

  • @anushkaaah016
    @anushkaaah016 2 года назад +39

    You're podcast series r so fun to watch so soothing and calm. Love love

  • @kimc2005
    @kimc2005 2 года назад +11

    I think Im always reiterating this in every video, but this hair colour looks so good on Jess 😍

  • @claireramsey9273
    @claireramsey9273 2 года назад

    Recently my anxiety has gotten a lot worse but watching your vids really help me and make me feel less alone. I will definitely try being on my phone less. Love you Jess!

  • @valerietan1691
    @valerietan1691 2 года назад

    Always excited to receive a new Jess video notif! Please do more videos like this, it’s so motivating 💛

  • @livlovesh0433
    @livlovesh0433 2 года назад

    I totally agree with you Jess about the no phone before bed and after waking up. I started doing it recently and it's helped so much with my anxiety.

  • @kaylinworthington
    @kaylinworthington 2 года назад +21

    Love the tips! I do what I call the “night sweep” every night to make sure everything is tidy so I can sleep peacefully. I also read and watch Jonna Jinton (another calming youtubers) before bed. I just do social media in the morning, and then not touch it the rest of the day, which is lovely! These habits/productivity videos are so great!

    • @Nicitresa
      @Nicitresa 2 года назад +1

      Love Jonna Jinton too❤️

  • @Thelilmissbz
    @Thelilmissbz 2 года назад

    Mental health is so important! Holidays are really hard for people and I know I myself get social anxiety. I wish more people would talk about mental health like you do Jess ❤️ thank you for being open and honest!

  • @blakejennerisanabuser822
    @blakejennerisanabuser822 2 года назад +1

    i really needed this today, this week hasn’t been the best, thank you 💕

  • @princessbadua237
    @princessbadua237 2 года назад +1

    New habit to put in my bullet journal!!! Thank you Jess 🤍🤍 you’re such an inspiration

  • @livlovesh0433
    @livlovesh0433 2 года назад +2

    Your videos are like a warm hug, so inspiring and calming.

  • @mab4089
    @mab4089 2 года назад +2

    I was thinking about my anxiety and decision making and this video comes out ,love you jess ❤️

  • @joseerose
    @joseerose 2 года назад +2

    I think this was one of my favorite videos from you so far. So relaxing and inspiring. ❤

  • @BCBooks
    @BCBooks 2 года назад +2

    you are such an inspiration jess thank you for making me happy and calm every time I watch your videos :)

  • @rejennmartinez2079
    @rejennmartinez2079 2 года назад +2

    Always looking forward to your new vlogs, Jess. It makes me happy and inspired. 💖

  • @jademalik4117
    @jademalik4117 2 года назад

    literally get so happy when u post ur vlogs are so calming

  • @constalate
    @constalate 2 года назад

    idk what it is but your glow is so different these days. i love to see it! 💞
    also, i’ll def try the 5 habits thing bc i’m working on lessening my screen time and increasing my book count. i’ll do it w uuu :’’) ty for this calming vid, jess!

  • @julianahung
    @julianahung 2 года назад +3

    this was really refreshing & comforting ❤️ thanks for the advice!!!

  • @drayeshasalim
    @drayeshasalim 2 года назад +13

    “oh yay, JESS!” exactlyyyy what i said out loud seeing the notif

  • @tedishtereva636
    @tedishtereva636 2 года назад +2

    Jess you are the prettiest girl ever omg 😍 i love watching your vlogs you make me fell so calm and productive ❣️

  • @kaitlynleff2813
    @kaitlynleff2813 2 года назад +4

    Thanks Jess for this video!! You are so inspirational😍😍

  • @beyoncegonsalves
    @beyoncegonsalves 2 года назад

    You inspire me so much❣️ please continue to post videos like this its really calming and relaxing 💖❤️

  • @xokelseyxo9238
    @xokelseyxo9238 2 года назад

    Loved this video! I read before bed every night as well. It definitely helps your eyes get tired and sleep better.

  • @Lauren-sf9te
    @Lauren-sf9te 2 года назад +2

    You're so inspiring Jess, I love y'all so much ❤️❤️

  • @annacampbell6301
    @annacampbell6301 2 года назад +3

    I tried the phone habit a few months ago just bc I found myself comparing myself too much to people online. It was bad for my mental health. I look at it as a little phone intermittent fasting :) I absolutely love it. Good for you :)

  • @kulsoomaslam4216
    @kulsoomaslam4216 2 года назад +5

    Hey Jess. You already made my day by posting this new video. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sofiaiwaszewicz4251
    @sofiaiwaszewicz4251 2 года назад +26

    feel the same about my romantic books, i recommend reading Jane Eyre!! Its my FAVORITE BOOK, so filled with passion and i think not even a kiss is mentioned. Just pure feelings, thoughts, and love. I really think you would love it Jess!

  • @Oneblessedhome
    @Oneblessedhome 2 года назад +106

    Gabe:
    "How does December correlate with tesla?"
    Jess:
    "Shhhhhhhhh" Lol 😆

    • @princessjones4953
      @princessjones4953 2 года назад

      Try and guess this song!!! ruclips.net/video/iFeMEbCg0iY/видео.html

  • @elababuroglu1469
    @elababuroglu1469 2 года назад +1

    This was such a lovely calming video, thank you Jess x

  • @gennifermurillo685
    @gennifermurillo685 2 года назад +2

    I would love to see Gabe helping you clean in one of these, lol. I love that you give us tips for a healthier, happier life! You're inspiring to so many and your relationship with Gabe is beautiful. I'm walking down the aisle to one of your covers and I am so thrilled to enrich my family and friend's lives with your soothing voices!

  • @chloemann1877
    @chloemann1877 2 года назад +1

    You inspire me so much. Always keeping me motivated❤️

  • @wvdrummerchick
    @wvdrummerchick 2 года назад

    I've loved your videos lately, Jess! Keep them coming!

  • @abigailwee9631
    @abigailwee9631 2 года назад +1

    Needed that verse Jess!! Thanks so much for the reminder! God bless you, Gab and Mi Mi always & more

  • @larkspurmoon
    @larkspurmoon 2 года назад +5

    Your Videos always cheer up my mood, I have been on the verge of burnout and yesterday I decided to act on it and improve myself. This video already gave me 5 habits to work on.😊 Gonna try for sure. Also I'm gonna buy those 2 romcom books you mentioned 😉

  • @AmandaDutraSouza12
    @AmandaDutraSouza12 2 года назад +2

    Jess, thank you for your dedication on your content. I love it and I’m not the only one. Either one of them, beauty or mental health, we love it 💖 Kisses from Brazil 🇧🇷

  • @timeakull4072
    @timeakull4072 2 года назад

    tank you soo much💛 i‘m trying to make more routines and this is definitely helping me! 🥰

  • @janealjj
    @janealjj 2 года назад +1

    my happy hormones just rise to their levels whenever a video notification from you comes up! thank you for being and doing you, jess. love youuu!

  • @iTerabithia
    @iTerabithia 2 года назад +2

    I love your content, super smooth and cute and simple and a great message.

  • @lauraferreira199
    @lauraferreira199 2 года назад +3

    this is so anxiety relieving and calming and makes me realise how jess’s vlogs are the reasons I get through my struggles. love you! 💛

  • @kathausmann
    @kathausmann 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for being so open about anxiety and such! I have been struggling with it for a few months, and seeing other people going through the same is comforting and relatable. Also, your tips are great!❤️🥰

  • @cashew8933
    @cashew8933 2 года назад

    immediately started fangirling when you said that you have read the spanish love deception and LOVED it!!! do a book recommendation video!!!

  • @hardikshukla1017
    @hardikshukla1017 2 года назад +1

    Just listened to the yesterday's prompt us podcast about anxiety was really very helpful and now this🙃🤍

  • @pragyakar1508
    @pragyakar1508 2 года назад

    You make me want to change my whole lifestyle and be productive and I love you for that ❤️

  • @kidanwilliams12
    @kidanwilliams12 2 года назад +4

    i LOVE the spanish love deception its so good!! if u liked that u will rlly like the love hypothesis its SO SO good :)

    • @JessConte
      @JessConte  2 года назад +3

      oooo thank you for the rec!! I was looking at that one to read next!

  • @jannestam
    @jannestam 2 года назад +10

    wow i love you’re wearing one of the “old” conteam sweaters, it almost feels vintage now lol :))

    • @JessConte
      @JessConte  2 года назад +5

      I love it 🥲🥲🥲

  • @misbahismail6241
    @misbahismail6241 2 года назад

    Calm and peaceful = Jess conte
    I love your videosss🥺💛💛

  • @valeriiademianenko5155
    @valeriiademianenko5155 2 года назад

    I love your aesthetic, Jess. It just brings me peace🤍

  • @Pooja-yv6gw
    @Pooja-yv6gw 2 года назад +1

    love ya jess from singapore

  • @L00VELYY
    @L00VELYY 2 года назад +1

    I truly love how I feel after watching your videos

  • @linam9783
    @linam9783 2 года назад

    I loved the idea of the video, a much-needed one for me! i'm going to try 4 of the habits

  • @angieacevedo1356
    @angieacevedo1356 2 года назад

    love your vlogs jess. makes me really happy

  • @brontothecat1992
    @brontothecat1992 2 года назад +1

    im watching your video 2 hours before bed and i count it as something peaceful to wind down to 🙂

  • @juliajoseph8146
    @juliajoseph8146 2 года назад

    your hair looks soooo pretty i love it! 🥰

  • @kaitlynhawken7343
    @kaitlynhawken7343 2 года назад

    Jesssss! im loving this style of videos🥳

  • @maryb3917
    @maryb3917 2 года назад

    you OWNED that green and blue sweater omg, I loved!

  • @sofiafernandez9072
    @sofiafernandez9072 2 года назад

    Loved this video! Just what i needed this week

  • @MrTrampka
    @MrTrampka 2 года назад

    Your videos get better and better. And that sponsorship was so fitting and organic. Congrats ;)

  • @jemima2905
    @jemima2905 2 года назад

    Your Videos lately are just woooow! So motivating inspiering and uplifting😍 you cant Even Imagine how excited i get when i get the notification That you uploaded a Video🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @focus_rio
    @focus_rio 2 года назад

    Your video made my day! Thank you Jess)) Love from Japan 🇯🇵

  • @kysneddon
    @kysneddon 2 года назад

    Just came back to watch the 1st video you posted since finding out you were pregnant! Congrats! Happy for you and Gabe!

  • @audrey-tt5si
    @audrey-tt5si 2 года назад

    this is so interesting thank you jess!! reaslly struggling this month 😩😢

  • @karissa8837
    @karissa8837 2 года назад

    Love a good cozy Jess vlog ☺️

  • @rimsha5552
    @rimsha5552 2 года назад +1

    i also sometimes suffer from anxiety especially at night, especially when i have exam tomorrow or 1st day of semester. what happens when the anxiety hits it's that my heart starts racing when i lay down on the bed at night. it sucks.

  • @JessicaGrimley96
    @JessicaGrimley96 2 года назад

    I use headspace for a range of things, but they had these, basically bed time stories, but they put me to sleep every time when I'm having trouble. Or they had SOS things for if you wake up in the middle of the night and want to go back to sleep.

  • @seyiekhrienuopfukha4652
    @seyiekhrienuopfukha4652 2 года назад

    Everytime I watch your vlogs you're getting more beautiful Jess 🥺🤧
    Also my role model ❤

  • @haleywilliams6119
    @haleywilliams6119 2 года назад

    I love all your videos!!! Please don’t ever stop making them! Lol

  • @bubblytea7308
    @bubblytea7308 2 года назад

    omg you have to read the love hypothesis! it's also a rom com book and it's so good!!

  • @viktoriakeer
    @viktoriakeer 2 года назад

    I’m all about this content 🤩 I have such a hard time picking, so I’d love to know what kind of alarm clock do you like to use?

  • @BeccaFilipski
    @BeccaFilipski 2 года назад +2

    I clicked so fast lol I’ve been wanting to try BetterHelp. I’ve been trying to find a therapist that I can help me through my struggles with anxiety and loneliness but without pressuring me to take anxiety medication. I like to do things naturally. I’ll definitely have to give it a try, because I’ve been wanting to go back to therapy. I have definitely gotten into the habit of not using my phone when I get home from work at 12:30am. I’ve been trying to read a book, or just lay in bed and get comfortable with my thoughts. But, my problem is definitely waking up and picking up my phone. That is something I should definitely try. 2 hours after I wake up. Because, I pick up my phone and keep looking at the time and telling myself I have plenty of time, but then 3 hours pass by and I haven’t eaten or started to get ready for my day. Definitely something that I need to try. Thank you Jess! Love you so much💛

    • @JessConte
      @JessConte  2 года назад +1

      I totally get you!! I don’t put my phone next to my bed so I’m not tempted to pick it up in the morning! 😅 and definitely try out betterhelp - you also have the option to change therapists if you feel like you want to try someone else💛

  • @summer-gr6fh
    @summer-gr6fh 2 года назад +2

    i love ending nights with jess, it's like my at-home weekly therapy session 🥰

  • @kaitlynleff2813
    @kaitlynleff2813 2 года назад +1

    My favourite notification: Jess Conte just posted😍😍

  • @rhonda2310
    @rhonda2310 2 года назад

    something about watching her just puts me at so much ease 😅

  • @helloianamarie
    @helloianamarie 2 года назад +26

    this day has been so hard for me... i was fighting with myself trying to be productive. as a perspective, it's now 11pm here in ph and i just made myself coffee because i finally am at my desk. so this was uploaded at the right time

  • @jaelascifo7358
    @jaelascifo7358 2 года назад

    Thank you for your vulnerability

  • @kerennganga
    @kerennganga 2 года назад +15

    Jess, thanks for suggesting Only Murders in the Building! I thoroughly enjoyed the show and I would have genuinely never found it had it not been for your recommendation.

  • @drcarolineiscovitz
    @drcarolineiscovitz 2 года назад

    Love that you're talking about this!!

  • @camillevasquez6762
    @camillevasquez6762 2 года назад +3

    i'm gonna need a book recommendation from jess i feel like her list is gonna be so good.

  • @brisawa9030
    @brisawa9030 2 года назад

    I will definitely start doing the phone habit, I’ve always wanted to not be on my phone as much and this will probably help