I’m sorry this has happened to you. People can say what’s they want,but just learn from your experiences that’s all. I’m glad you’re okay and in good health.
The ignorance smh this can happen to someone who is with someone who wasn’t in jail for that long but to put everyone who been in jail for over a certain amount of time I’m the same category
EXACTLY THATS WHAT I SAY AN I ALWAYS WATCHED LOVE AFTER LOCK UP AN I KNEW QUAYLEN WASSNT RIGHT I DIDNT EVEN LIKE HIS NAME AN REMEMBER HER CUZZIN DIDNT LIKE HIM AN TRIED TO TELL HER HE WAS NOT RIGHT TRULY PRAYING SHES OK 🫢🫢🫢🫢💯💯💯💯💯💯
I’m sorry, but this is why you don’t entertain men who’ve been in prison for 8 years! Shavell had a daughter and even her daughter wasn’t feeling Quaylon! This wasn’t a karma situation, it was the desperation for a man, that she wasn’t willing to see the red flags and rushed into things like she said!
That don't mean nothing . I went through a similar experience years ago with someone that never been to jail or prison . A lot of these men are just curious asf and can't be honest about it . He prolly was curious way before jail and acted on it when he was there
Exactly plenty of men that done been to prison longer than that aint NEVER had a homosexual experience that shit just in you if youre willing to go that way period! @hazelmonroe7725
I understand what you're saying! Anything can happen to someone anywhere. Everything is possible , but the probability. There is absolutely truth to what you are saying!! For sure.
I was very very upset when I first started watching her because he was in prison and you hadn’t met him and you had your daughter calling him dad I don’t can’t date no man doing years in prison your mom tried to tell you about him. I’m glad you found out sooner than later before you was going to marry him. You’re a beautiful woman you can do better. God knew what was going on that’s why he got exposed.
MY SENTIMENTS!! 💯 TOO DESPERATE&JUST DYING TO BELONG. MY MOMMA WOULD NEVERRRR. I LOOOVED& RESPECTED MY FATHER TOO MUCH TO EVERRR& I DAMN SHO KNO MY KIDS DID'NT EVERRRR. SOME PPL JUST DON'T HAVE A CLUE. & MIXED THAT SWEET, PRECIATE, INNOCENT, BEAUTIFUL BABY GIRL UP N THAT MESS. HOW AWFULLY EGREGIOUS THAT IS? HIS BUBBLE EYE BLIND AS A BAT, BU++ PIRATE ,BOO BOO DIGGIN ASS KNEW BETTER.
If he's black he definitely will and most likely is. This isn't as common with other groups of men and when they are BI they have the maturity and confidence to let women know. BM are selfish and hide it for selfish reasons.
The fact that she never met him and had him around her daughter made me sick. How didn’t you know ? That’s why her Mother and cousin were coming at him like that.
I’m going through something similar but we’re married with children, I’m currently in counseling because it is a lot especially if kids and marriage and assets are involved but even though we’re not on television it still doesn’t make it better it’s embarrassing and have me questioning any and everything, prayers to you and thank you for being transparent because this is something no one wants to talk about but it happens all over the world young, old, black or white ladies continue to pray for discernment🙏 because it can happen to anyone don’t judge ❤PS my husband has never been to prison or didn’t show any flamboyant signs he’s a manly man, I’m glad God told me when to look and that was enough for me and yes this is a deal breaker for me we’re getting a divorce, for safety reasons he still don’t know that I know, at this point I just want to safely exit to the left and continue to pray over our children (they are teenagers and young adults)
Shavel was one of my favorites, Monique too. I hate she had to endure this,BUT this is why I tell women do NOT date men who’ve been to prison. Majority of them have messed with other men (whether they want to admit that or not).
It’s been so many years since I watched that show. But I am almost certain on the show he admitted that he went to jail so young that he had never had a woman.
She didn't know him at all. He used her and she put her daughter in a horrible situation. Even purchased a truck for this man. I am hoping she gets the peace she needs. Women stop putting your children's safety before a man's. Doesn't have to be a prisoner. Be vigilant about who you let into your life. Lady Karma will handle him.
The humble and humility in your tone presents so much strength and maturity. Even seeing the person interviewing her pause in his tracks...her pain is felt.
Over Shavel, She acted like a desperate woman for a kid that was locked up. You allowed your daughter to call him daddy, you allowed your day 1 to get into a fight with that loser, you allowed his family to hook him up with other women and he took the bait. YOur mother tried to tell you, and you said you were going to do what you wanted to do.The thing is blind people could see that boy was off and his family was off, and you insisted on being with that low life criminal. Now, you on here playing the victim, trying to sound intelligent, repeating things you probably heard other people say and still mixing up the words. This interview just doesn't come across genuine. Embarrassed, I believe that, but you did what you wanted and no one could tell you differently. You chased a jailbird, and fame all at the cost of your downfall and embarrassment to your child and your family. I hope you truly have learned a lesson from all of this, and never place your child in this type of situation again.
YESSSS THE MASS MAJORITY OF EM DO THAT BECAUSE THEY'RE ALL IN IT 2GETHA& NOT GUNNA TELL ON EACHOTHER. BUT LET 1 GET OUT THAT GIVES ZERO FKS ABOUT IT, HE'S GONE TELL IT ALL. BEST BUHH'LEEE DAT !!
I did too but he always seemed like her brother or cousin. I wasn’t getting romantic vibes between them. He did seem to enjoy being in her daughter life
I pray healing towards you Shavel, God has a mighty plan for you. They judged the woman in the Bible too, and Jesus said, whoever is without sin step over. So keep pushing love, God is with you ❤
Ask yourself why do you keep going with men in jail for long periods of time. Why can't you find a man that's not in jail and what are you teaching your daughter? Do you want her to grow up and do like you and go with prisoners. Please try a relationship with a man not in jail.❤❤ Get the book that Steve Harvey wrote about think like a man but act like a women. This book can help you learn about men.❤❤
Yeah but Why get with a dude that did 12 yrs? And been locked up since 17 you honestly think he wasnt doing anything in Prison????? I don't feel bad for these Woman at all!!!!!!!
I don’t feel sorry for her after how he treated her she still held him down! I was shocked when she said they were back together and he’s shaming her publicly. I don’t know how she thought this monster loved her.
ouuuuuuu that 🤕 hurts.... Everyone stay strapped up married, single, or mingling Strap Up Please for life and get regular monthly check up IDGAF how you feel!!! #Loveisblind😢 It could've been you! 😔
It’s not from your past or anything BEAUTIFUL.. that’s deception on his part.. you are blessed things wasn’t worse And you have a beautiful daughters to protect ❤❤
Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
The fact that you’re sitting up here, in full transparency- shows me how strong you are. I’m sorry you had to go through that humiliation, but we all do baby. You’re not alone. Your story is a lesson and a warning for many women. I also want to add that there are many women who are with DL men. I suspect few of the men I’ve been with are…I just don’t have proof, but my intuition tells me so.
This happened to me! I understand and can feel her pain. And yes, it took a psych hospitalization and continued therapy. I’m so sorry this is even a thing.
Not every man in jail is gay or on the downlow Regardless this man should have been honest and told her about his lifestyle he put her life at risk this is one of the main reasons why the hiv rates are high because people are not being honest and not using protection because they don't hand out condoms in jail.
I been to prison and i could never understand women who met a dude in prison and made a life outside of prison with them. All the women I had knew me before I went to prison.there is a difference.
@niashawna7645 get out your feelings she knew now wants to cry about it.... Move on, pick better and stop trying to take care of a man like a child I said what I said
Poor girl i just wanna hug you. If you need a break away you're welcome to come to our house. We live in PA. It's cold but I promise I'm a good listener.
When these guys go to prison at a very young age and stay there for years, what do u expect.... women have to stop being so excited to find a man and try to make him her husband or her project to attempt to make into what she wants......MOST times it will not end well......😢😮
True she may have made mistakes (new to this situation so idk full story) but ANYBODY can fall victim to a DL man. The problem isn’t the victim the problem is people not being honest about who they are and their intentions. Victim shaming only brings bad fortune your way.
General advice: 🚨As a person who knows they’re going through something, the responsibility is on you🫵🏽 to reach out. Ppl can’t read your mind and have their own things going on too. They may want to be there, but don’t know to be there if you don’t tell them. ❤️🩹Usually ppl are suffering in silence then running to family once it hits social media. This is why keeping solid ppl around you in the know is important. I’m glad that you’re healing ❤🙏🏽 prayers up
I brought her book after their season had aired. Now she’ll have to make a movie. I will be praying for her. We all take chances on love, Quaylon was locked up for along time. Sorry for all parties involved.
The man wasn’t really trying to sleep with her when he got out at this big age you knew you just wanted to say I have a man just take the l in keep it pushing it’s partly your fault in bad decision making it happens to people everyday
This woman should be on her knees praying to God that she and her daughter are safe and unharmed. This woman willingly CHOSE to be in a relationship with a man in PRISON that she didn’t know prior to him being in PRISON! Bought this man a truck, moved him into her home with her young DAUGHTER, bought this man clothes, and ignored the wise counsel from her family when they told her this was a bad decision. I feel so sorry for her daughter…to have such a selfish, desperate, gullible mother. And then she has the audacity to sit on this podcast and act like a VICTIM! I am disgusted.
Im.not even gonna watch this 😅cause Shavel knew Quaylon was gay she just wanted to stay on TV and then they let their daughter attached to the girl/dudes...😅
I feel bad for her but maybe this is what was needed. He was a big red flag and more he should have been honest with her and more she was his back bone. But tell you this SHE LOOKS GOOD
I’m sorry this has happened to you. People can say what’s they want,but just learn from your experiences that’s all. I’m glad you’re okay and in good health.
The ignorance smh this can happen to someone who is with someone who wasn’t in jail for that long but to put everyone who been in jail for over a certain amount of time I’m the same category
EXACTLY THATS WHAT I SAY AN I ALWAYS WATCHED LOVE AFTER LOCK UP AN I KNEW QUAYLEN WASSNT RIGHT I DIDNT EVEN LIKE HIS NAME AN REMEMBER HER CUZZIN DIDNT LIKE HIM AN TRIED TO TELL HER HE WAS NOT RIGHT TRULY PRAYING SHES OK 🫢🫢🫢🫢💯💯💯💯💯💯
@@thegemzone4138 Exactly
@@MichelleWilliams-rd4is Right and lol
@MichelleWilliams-rd4is OKAYYYY!! HIM,HIS MAMMY NOR HIS SISTERS MESSY ASS NAMES. QUA THIS & QUAY THAT. QUAMESSY,
QUAMESSIER& QUAYMESSIEST.
Her mother kept trying to tell her something wasn’t right
Her mama and her cousin
I hate that lady was right.. 😂 smh
And her daughter!
People was saying he was gay when the show was airing
Yesss cuz I most definitely seen it.. no judgement tho 😊
I’m sorry, but this is why you don’t entertain men who’ve been in prison for 8 years! Shavell had a daughter and even her daughter wasn’t feeling Quaylon! This wasn’t a karma situation, it was the desperation for a man, that she wasn’t willing to see the red flags and rushed into things like she said!
That don't mean nothing . I went through a similar experience years ago with someone that never been to jail or prison . A lot of these men are just curious asf and can't be honest about it . He prolly was curious way before jail and acted on it when he was there
Exactly plenty of men that done been to prison longer than that aint NEVER had a homosexual experience that shit just in you if youre willing to go that way period! @hazelmonroe7725
Jail didn’t make him 🌈 😂 u either are or u aren’t
I agree plus people who never been in jail or prison can be gay to @noname4621
I understand what you're saying! Anything can happen to someone anywhere. Everything is possible , but the probability. There is absolutely truth to what you are saying!! For sure.
I was very very upset when I first started watching her because he was in prison and you hadn’t met him and you had your daughter calling him dad I don’t can’t date no man doing years in prison your mom tried to tell you about him. I’m glad you found out sooner than later before you was going to marry him. You’re a beautiful woman you can do better. God knew what was going on that’s why he got exposed.
This is due to low self esteem.. you have to think about you daughter. How is she feeling.. it’s about her too
Crazy you applaud her for irresponsible decisions
MY SENTIMENTS!! 💯 TOO DESPERATE&JUST DYING TO BELONG.
MY MOMMA WOULD NEVERRRR. I LOOOVED& RESPECTED MY FATHER TOO MUCH TO EVERRR& I DAMN SHO KNO MY KIDS DID'NT
EVERRRR. SOME PPL JUST DON'T HAVE A CLUE. & MIXED THAT SWEET, PRECIATE, INNOCENT, BEAUTIFUL BABY GIRL UP N THAT MESS. HOW AWFULLY EGREGIOUS THAT IS? HIS BUBBLE EYE BLIND AS A BAT, BU++ PIRATE ,BOO BOO DIGGIN ASS KNEW BETTER.
Talk about it..... 🤦🏾♀️ You can be delulu as an adult, but to drag your child into that is top tier crazy.
A lot of men are bisexual today. It's always the "my man would never"....yes yo man will sis
If he's black he definitely will and most likely is. This isn't as common with other groups of men and when they are BI they have the maturity and confidence to let women know. BM are selfish and hide it for selfish reasons.
DAAAAAMN SHO WILL . JAIL OR NO JAIL, #@PE OR NO #APE. THEY WANNA BE WITH A MAN OR A TRANS, THEY'RE GONE DO IT. BUHHHHHH'LEEEE'DATTT
Girl you should’ve listened to your MAMA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And be cautious of dating a person straight out of PRISON?
He was getting❤ in the club!😐
You mean.... "gay outta prison".🙁
As a former jail officer they all have sex with each other in jail/prison. Don't let them fool u
The best I ever seen her look period😂❤
Yes Shavell got rid
Of that stress 😈
Right! I had to look twice to make sure that was her.
Her head is still big af
Who is she?
😂😂😂
Not karma!
He had other red flags that everyone saw and warned her about... she wouldn’t listen!
Her whole family told her that quay was not right !!! Even her cousin fought him in the hotel .
I thought that was sus as well…..cause her cousin looked sweet too 🤔🤔🤔 just me??
@ me to I wouldn’t be suprised if they did hook up i got that vibe
I love how she's taking responsibility for her portion. May God cover, protect, heal and restore her ❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾
❤❤❤❤❤I SECOND THAT EMOTION.
She is just talking in circles 😂😂😂 just say it
Thank you cause even when this first came out they have gotten back together
I swear. It's driving me crazy 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The fact that she never met him and had him around her daughter made me sick. How didn’t you know ? That’s why her Mother and cousin were coming at him like that.
IT'S CALL DESPERATION!! LK INVITING HIM TO HER DAUGHTER TO DO WHAT EVER HE WANTED TO DO. THN GOD THE SITUATION HAPPEN THE WAY IT SHLD HAPPEN.
I’m going through something similar but we’re married with children, I’m currently in counseling because it is a lot especially if kids and marriage and assets are involved but even though we’re not on television it still doesn’t make it better it’s embarrassing and have me questioning any and everything, prayers to you and thank you for being transparent because this is something no one wants to talk about but it happens all over the world young, old, black or white ladies continue to pray for discernment🙏 because it can happen to anyone don’t judge ❤PS my husband has never been to prison or didn’t show any flamboyant signs he’s a manly man, I’m glad God told me when to look and that was enough for me and yes this is a deal breaker for me we’re getting a divorce, for safety reasons he still don’t know that I know, at this point I just want to safely exit to the left and continue to pray over our children (they are teenagers and young adults)
Remain safe and I’ll be praying for you. ❤
Praying for your healing and strength this sounds awful ❤
🙏🏾🙏🏾
Wow! This is tough. I pray for your healing and that you and your children will be ok.
Divorce period the end of
Shavel you are a beautiful spirit. Be strong, it will pass.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Never a good idea to date a convict who has been in jail for years. What do you think they do for sex in there?
Not all do gay shit chill out
You're right about that!!!
It’s not karma. You just ignored so many red flags.
Shavel was one of my favorites, Monique too. I hate she had to endure this,BUT this is why I tell women do NOT date men who’ve been to prison. Majority of them have messed with other men (whether they want to admit that or not).
I’m so sorry Shavel- prayers
It’s been so many years since I watched that show. But I am almost certain on the show he admitted that he went to jail so young that he had never had a woman.
Bingo
Same! I automatically assume any man with a long stint in prison has been with other men. I'm not sure why these women are surprised tbh
@@brianal7143 same here!
‼️💯
It's 2024 we gotta start holding these down low men accountable for using these women.
I know a fair amount of women who blindly chase men that like men and have children with them. It's usually a codependent type of relationship.
She didn't know him at all. He used her and she put her daughter in a horrible situation. Even purchased a truck for this man. I am hoping she gets the peace she needs. Women stop putting your children's safety before a man's. Doesn't have to be a prisoner. Be vigilant about who you let into your life. Lady Karma will handle him.
The humble and humility in your tone presents so much strength and maturity. Even seeing the person interviewing her pause in his tracks...her pain is felt.
Over Shavel, She acted like a desperate woman for a kid that was locked up. You allowed your daughter to call him daddy, you allowed your day 1 to get into a fight with that loser, you allowed his family to hook him up with other women and he took the bait. YOur mother tried to tell you, and you said you were going to do what you wanted to do.The thing is blind people could see that boy was off and his family was off, and you insisted on being with that low life criminal. Now, you on here playing the victim, trying to sound intelligent, repeating things you probably heard other people say and still mixing up the words. This interview just doesn't come across genuine. Embarrassed, I believe that, but you did what you wanted and no one could tell you differently. You chased a jailbird, and fame all at the cost of your downfall and embarrassment to your child and your family. I hope you truly have learned a lesson from all of this, and never place your child in this type of situation again.
I would be be cautious of a man thats been to prison and for multiple years. Also its a thing for them to consider it "not gay" while in prison.
YESSSS THE MASS MAJORITY OF EM DO THAT BECAUSE THEY'RE ALL IN IT 2GETHA& NOT GUNNA TELL ON EACHOTHER. BUT LET 1 GET OUT THAT GIVES ZERO FKS ABOUT IT, HE'S GONE TELL IT ALL. BEST BUHH'LEEE DAT !!
damn i remember really liking Quaylon😂
I did too but he always seemed like her brother or cousin. I wasn’t getting romantic vibes between them. He did seem to enjoy being in her daughter life
Same! They actually seemed like one of the few couples that would make it!
I never liked him for her I always knew he was using her from jump 🤦🏽♀️
I know she not talking about that ninja from jail. You weren’t around him for 7 years he was in jail…..
I remember she wanted Q to adopt her daughter 🤦🏾♀️
😂 like girl at least make the man get a job first
Alls ima say is she knew
She damn sure act like she knew, don’t it?
@ girl she got her body done and got a lil self esteem because in the first season it was given slow and pissy
I wouldn't be surprised. Sometimes we women think we can love a man out of anything.
She didn't know and at the end of the day he's responsible for telling his truth to the women he pursued. NO excuses Ray Ray
Thank goodness her hair is finally cute im here for it
😂
😳But the bang is coming from out of the top of the pony tale? 👀
Facts 😮😂😂
😒🥴😂😂
Head still huge asf!!
Patience is a virtue
I pray healing towards you Shavel, God has a mighty plan for you. They judged the woman in the Bible too, and Jesus said, whoever is without sin step over. So keep pushing love, God is with you ❤
Ask yourself why do you keep going with men in jail for long periods of time. Why can't you find a man that's not in jail and what are you teaching your daughter? Do you want her to grow up and do like you and go with prisoners. Please try a relationship with a man not in jail.❤❤ Get the book that Steve Harvey wrote about think like a man but act like a women. This book can help you learn about men.❤❤
Something about how she is telling this story does not sound sincere- like maybe she already knew he was gay??
She probably knew. So many women know but keep quiet.
She probably knew and trying to “fix” him.
@@starrjohnson1327yes out of desperation to have a man and if he's really good looking women will completely overlook that he has red flags.
I agree
😮 i did not see this in the blogs about Quaylon. Poor Shavel
Dang she got on my nerves because I felt she was forcing it but I wouldn’t wish this on anyone!! I just happened to scroll on this, wow
Yeah but Why get with a dude that did 12 yrs? And been locked up since 17 you honestly think he wasnt doing anything in Prison????? I don't feel bad for these Woman at all!!!!!!!
I don’t feel sorry for her after how he treated her she still held him down! I was shocked when she said they were back together and he’s shaming her publicly. I don’t know how she thought this monster loved her.
Yes Shavelle rushed it. She was SO trying to prove her mom wrong that she couldn't see who Quaylon really was.
ouuuuuuu that 🤕 hurts.... Everyone stay strapped up married, single, or mingling Strap Up Please for life and get regular monthly check up IDGAF how you feel!!! #Loveisblind😢 It could've been you! 😔
It’s not from your past or anything BEAUTIFUL.. that’s deception on his part.. you are blessed things wasn’t worse
And you have a beautiful daughters to protect ❤❤
She was desperate for a man and ignored all the signs🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
Listen to God Shavel, you’re doing the right thing, I know you’re exhausted, I admire you for not giving up. ❤
Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
It's interesting! How can I contact a spiritual counselor most efficiently, and how did you find one?
Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.
The fact that you’re sitting up here, in full transparency- shows me how strong you are. I’m sorry you had to go through that humiliation, but we all do baby. You’re not alone. Your story is a lesson and a warning for many women.
I also want to add that there are many women who are with DL men. I suspect few of the men I’ve been with are…I just don’t have proof, but my intuition tells me so.
MY SENTIMENTS EXACTLY ‼️ 💯 👌🏿
She shoulda did this on According to Amber ! This old news now
This happened to me! I understand and can feel her pain. And yes, it took a psych hospitalization and continued therapy. I’m so sorry this is even a thing.
2:50- the betrayal really sank in with the interviewer
The way she tried to force him to marry her so fast...
You have to start expressing when your going through something. Silence is the killer.
No one should judge her all women with good heart can get caught up in glad she’s speaking on how she should have waited and not rush 🌸🌸🌸🌸🖤
Not every man in jail is gay or on the downlow Regardless this man should have been honest and told her about his lifestyle he put her life at risk this is one of the main reasons why the hiv rates are high because people are not being honest and not using protection because they don't hand out condoms in jail.
He wasn’t in jail. He was in prison.
You have to pray and wait for an answer God has to reveal who these people are we can't see in the natural
Quaylon never wanted you but you were desperate for love. Your cousin tried to warn you 😔
7 years what where did that come from
Right?!
@@Queen_EL11 I don’t think she knows that we’ve all been watching
Umm he was sending him cards and everything
😂
@ yup crazy work
She saw what she wanted to see
She want to be a TV star so bad. Ma'am we seen your relationship and your time on the show is over.
She wanted him the handle what situation? Sounds like she wanted him to find a way to keep it from coming out.
I been to prison and i could never understand women who met a dude in prison and made a life outside of prison with them. All the women I had knew me before I went to prison.there is a difference.
Wait, is she speaking about Quaylon???!!!
Yes
Yes
Let it go girl..... He was in prison you were desperate what did you expect
Very mean heartless
@niashawna7645 get out your feelings she knew now wants to cry about it.... Move on, pick better and stop trying to take care of a man like a child I said what I said
3+7 does not equal 9🙄😐
STOP🛑,
. THAT'S NOT NICE 😏
How come women always say “somebody” is trying to ruin their family? 🤔 Ladies the “somebody “ is the “man “ YOU are with!
Dayummm!!!!!!! She looks Totally Different from the Show!!!!!! She Upgraded!!!!!! ❤️🔥
Poor girl i just wanna hug you. If you need a break away you're welcome to come to our house. We live in PA. It's cold but I promise I'm a good listener.
Its not karma you just didn't listen to your woman intuition listen 👂👁️ the signs be there just pay attention and move accordingly
When these guys go to prison at a very young age and stay there for years, what do u expect.... women have to stop being so excited to find a man and try to make him her husband or her project to attempt to make into what she wants......MOST times it will not end well......😢😮
Now she was dead wrong when she said he got raped in prison. Tell your story don't tell his girl that's not ok.
Girl you didn’t know..her cousin tries to tell her❕🤏🏾
I thought her and her cousin relationship was little weird ,like he was in love with her maybe it was just me
I hate when ppl act like victims like they didn’t literally bring all this on themselves foh
True she may have made mistakes (new to this situation so idk full story) but ANYBODY can fall victim to a DL man. The problem isn’t the victim the problem is people not being honest about who they are and their intentions. Victim shaming only brings bad fortune your way.
@@RqediSahleer I get that but as grown ppl gotta make better decisions n stop rushing things
Hey man keep doing this content say man heartfelt 84
I really feel for shavel 😢
This is what happens when ignoring red flags and DECEIT in the long game. 🥺
General advice:
🚨As a person who knows they’re going through something, the responsibility is on you🫵🏽 to reach out. Ppl can’t read your mind and have their own things going on too. They may want to be there, but don’t know to be there if you don’t tell them.
❤️🩹Usually ppl are suffering in silence then running to family once it hits social media.
This is why keeping solid ppl around you in the know is important. I’m glad that you’re healing ❤🙏🏽 prayers up
Did people say he was gay or she got proof he’s gay?
We ALL GOT THE PROOF From the guy he posted videos messages told shavel how her bedroom look I mean everything
@ videos of what?
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The man he was messing with while locked up came out to the blogs exposing dude is gay.
@@lesliesmart4595 did he kiss him ? Just cuz someone says something doesn’t mean it’s true lol……we need proof
He looked it he act it an sorry MAJORITY of black men who have dated a white women have been with men .
How tf did you come up with that logic
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The interviewer seems sweet feet himself, plus the question about if it was presented differently would she accept it🤢🤮heck naw
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I brought her book after their season had aired. Now she’ll have to make a movie. I will be praying for her. We all take chances on love, Quaylon was locked up for along time. Sorry for all parties involved.
I hope she learned to love herself and gain self respect.
The man wasn’t really trying to sleep with her when he got out at this big age you knew you just wanted to say I have a man just take the l in keep it pushing it’s partly your fault in bad decision making it happens to people everyday
Sometimes we make rash decisions and settle out of loneliness.
Thats what happens when you thirst behind a man. Like she said this her karma. Alot of women need to self reflect like this and stop blaming men
This woman should be on her knees praying to God that she and her daughter are safe and unharmed. This woman willingly CHOSE to be in a relationship with a man in PRISON that she didn’t know prior to him being in PRISON! Bought this man a truck, moved him into her home with her young DAUGHTER, bought this man clothes, and ignored the wise counsel from her family when they told her this was a bad decision. I feel so sorry for her daughter…to have such a selfish, desperate, gullible mother. And then she has the audacity to sit on this podcast and act like a VICTIM! I am disgusted.
I love that I have discernment….. when you have a discerning spirit and are clever people know not to come to you with this b.s!!
Girl, you need to take full accountability for the choices you made.
What did she think he was in jail as a teen for a long sentence I was very sure he had jail sexual experience!
Im.not even gonna watch this 😅cause Shavel knew Quaylon was gay she just wanted to stay on TV and then they let their daughter attached to the girl/dudes...😅
She has EXTREMELY selective memory & I’m wondering how many platforms she’s gonna drag this story on.
Lose the toothpick
Honestly,I really don't think she cares. She was just thirsty to be on TV.
Girl he was in jail… to say it was a shock is a joke smh
Wait wth? Quaylon gay? And its been confirmed? Lord damn.....
Yes his gay lover whom he was locked up with was on the blogs exposing her dude that he is gay.
It's all over RUclips.
Im shocked! My sister told me he was gay but i didn't believe it
I swear I had to Google who she was. She looks Nothing like how she did on the show. I was lost for a minute 😆
That was a mask he was wearing I feel for her daughter frfr💙
I feel bad for her but maybe this is what was needed. He was a big red flag and more he should have been honest with her and more she was his back bone. But tell you this SHE LOOKS GOOD
Most black men from my experience wore gay
She’s dragging it. Anyone who watched that show and all the aftermath knows the real
Quaylon?
Yes