Funny thing I did most of the stuff from my side and got dumped by her because she thought one day I’ll figure out that I am to good for her so she dropped me before that so she doesn’t has to be the one being dumped… You can do everything right and still do it wrong.
Buddy, you’ll be right for the wrong person. Learn your lessons from this and choose better next time. The next time someone says you’re too good for them, leave!
I was the dumpee... lack of healthy conflict, vunerability, and growth, and a change in effort from him....I hope one day I will see being dumped after nearly 3 years as a blessing because the relationship wasn’t going to last if these issues weren't addressed.
@TheLoveFix-Nick Launched into my own growth immediately....my first question was what do I learn from this? The pain has to be processed, and my role in it...there's always 2 players!
My ex guy reached out 2day after 3months of no contact saying heyy buddy 😂, asking me wat have I been doing, I kept it casual not being mean, he made it his due 2 tell me he's doing great ( I didn't even ask him how he was doing)....But everytime I'd say thank u 4 him congratulating me on things I'm wrkn on...he'll keep texting n I'm ohhhkkkk...byyyyeeeeeeee.....lol ( I'd never take that back! The Streets Can have emmmm) lol🙌🙌🙌
Hello nick!! Amazing podcast as always!! I have a question tho. We decided to end it because she’s leaving to a new country and she says that.. “I dont believe in LDR and its not for me”. We decided to end it and it was just heartbreaking.. I have been dumped, I understand now the reason why she’s been cold the past few months because she hasn’t dropped the message yet and she had a head start moving on. I wanted to do no contact, but my question is.. I have a friends group chat on the hobby I really liked and she was active there. I know a lot of people there were my friends but should I just leave? Or should I just mute the group chat and work on myself and never ever interact there anymore?
I’m sorry to hear that buddy. That’s rough. This is more breaking up with the situation than anything else by the sounds of it. The situation is someone moved away. As for the chat group. It’s your hobby man. You shouldn’t have to stop. If she’s active in the group and seeing her triggers you, then I would advise coming away from it. But if you’re okaying being in there for yourself, and to maintain some kind clandestine contact with her, then it should be okay.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick Thank you so much nick!! I decided to just leave. I'm kinda sick of that hobby anyways. It just makes me sad knowing that we did knew each other because of that specific hobby, and it just makes me think of her more. I'll just focus on life for now
@416mostwanted. Paying for things is a metric in which you should be assessing the health of a relationship. If you’re leading with your wallet, that always doomed to fail.
Funny thing I did most of the stuff from my side and got dumped by her because she thought one day I’ll figure out that I am to good for her so she dropped me before that so she doesn’t has to be the one being dumped… You can do everything right and still do it wrong.
Buddy, you’ll be right for the wrong person.
Learn your lessons from this and choose better next time.
The next time someone says you’re too good for them, leave!
Oh shit... now i think it really was my fault all along even though he said it wasnt 😅. Actuallly, deff both of us, this video hit home !!
You can only take charge of your 50%. Everything else is not your monkey.
I was the dumpee... lack of healthy conflict, vunerability, and growth, and a change in effort from him....I hope one day I will see being dumped after nearly 3 years as a blessing because the relationship wasn’t going to last if these issues weren't addressed.
If you want to truly grow, focus less on his shortcomings and focus on your own. 😊🫂
@TheLoveFix-Nick Launched into my own growth immediately....my first question was what do I learn from this? The pain has to be processed, and my role in it...there's always 2 players!
My ex guy reached out 2day after 3months of no contact saying heyy buddy 😂, asking me wat have I been doing, I kept it casual not being mean, he made it his due 2 tell me he's doing great ( I didn't even ask him how he was doing)....But everytime I'd say thank u 4 him congratulating me on things I'm wrkn on...he'll keep texting n I'm ohhhkkkk...byyyyeeeeeeee.....lol ( I'd never take that back! The Streets Can have emmmm) lol🙌🙌🙌
You’re handling it well. Stay strong 😊😊💪💪
The cell phone and television are GLUED to her body
Also her two children
Never wanted this divorce
If she glued to them she is not giving your relationship the attention it needs. What if it was a gift?
Hello nick!! Amazing podcast as always!! I have a question tho. We decided to end it because she’s leaving to a new country and she says that.. “I dont believe in LDR and its not for me”. We decided to end it and it was just heartbreaking.. I have been dumped, I understand now the reason why she’s been cold the past few months because she hasn’t dropped the message yet and she had a head start moving on. I wanted to do no contact, but my question is.. I have a friends group chat on the hobby I really liked and she was active there. I know a lot of people there were my friends but should I just leave? Or should I just mute the group chat and work on myself and never ever interact there anymore?
I’m sorry to hear that buddy. That’s rough.
This is more breaking up with the situation than anything else by the sounds of it. The situation is someone moved away.
As for the chat group. It’s your hobby man. You shouldn’t have to stop.
If she’s active in the group and seeing her triggers you, then I would advise coming away from it. But if you’re okaying being in there for yourself, and to maintain some kind clandestine contact with her, then it should be okay.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick Thank you so much nick!! I decided to just leave. I'm kinda sick of that hobby anyways. It just makes me sad knowing that we did knew each other because of that specific hobby, and it just makes me think of her more. I'll just focus on life for now
Well done for loving yourself buddy. That’s the first step! It’s going to be okay. 💪🫂
Wow i feel like i did all these in a course of 3 years. Am i screwed? lmao
That’s rough man. All we can do is take responsibility and work on ourselves to do better next time.
Get you back. 😊😊💪💪
I bought her everything paid for her nails was a good boyfriend but she still left wtf
He paid everything buy me gifts,I was a good girlfriend but he still left.
@416mostwanted.
Paying for things is a metric in which you should be assessing the health of a relationship.
If you’re leading with your wallet, that always doomed to fail.