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Tyler Childers - In Your Love (Official Video)
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- Published on Nov 12, 2025
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Lyrics:
I will wait for you
Til the sun turns into ashes
And bows down to the moon
I will wait for you
It’s a long hard war
Ah but I can grin and bare it
Cause I know what the hell I’m fighting for
And I will wait for you
We were never made to run forever
We were just meant to go long enough
To find what we were chasing after
I believe I found it here in your love
I will stand my ground
I’m a bad man looking for takers
You’re the finest thing around
So I will stand my ground
Cause it’s cold out there
And you know some men search for ages
For the love that I have found
So I will stand my ground
We were never made to run forever
We were just meant to go long enough
To find what we were chasing after
I believe I found it here in your love
Honey I will wait for you
Honey I will stand my ground
I will work for you
Til my hands are tired and bleedin’
I know what it is from us I’m needin’
I will work for you
Like a team of mules
Pulling Hell off from its hinges
It’s the love that I’ll keep tendin’
I will work for you
We were never made to run forever
We were just meant to go long enough
To find what we were chasing after
I believe I found it here in your love
Honey I will wait for you
Honey I will stand my ground
I will work for you
I will stand my ground
PRODUCTION
DIRECTOR - Bryan Schlam
WRITTEN BY - Silas House
PRODUCED BY- Kacie Barton
PRODUCED BY- Whitney Wolanin
PRODUCED BY - Nicholas Robespierre
PRODUCED BY- Ian Thornton
PRODUCED BY - Silas House
STORY BY - Silas House and Jason Kyle Howard
PARTNER - Mark De Pace
PARTNER - Zachary Mortensen
EXEC PRODUCER - Kacie Barton
MANAGING DIRECTOR - Alexis Kaplan
HEAD OF BUSINESS DEV - Justin Medley
STAFF COORDINATOR - Andrea Tangelo
LINE PRODUCER - Whitney Wolanin
PRODUCTION SUPERVISOR - Loren Greene
DIRECTOR OF PHOTOGRAPHY - Doug Porter
PRODUCTION DESIGNER - Amanda Alberto
WARDROBE STYLIST- Samantha Roe
HMU - Nichole Lim
CASTING - Harriet Greenspan
1st AD - Eric Williams
2nd AD - Quinn Cooke
POST PRODUCTION - Ghost Robot
POST PRODUCTION - Kacie Barton
EDITOR - Bryan Schlam
VFX - John Stanch
COLOR - Company 3 - Matt Osbourne
COLOR PRODUCER - Dan Butler / Matt Moran
TALENT
JASPER - Colton Haynes
MATTHEW - James Scully
NED - Matthew James Ballinger
ELDER JASPER - James Carey
MINERS
-Thomas De Braun
-Brent Greene
-Russell Terry
-Benjamin Wilson
FARMER - Silas House
FRIENDS
-Adam Tanaka
-Andi Tillman
-Dara Tiller
-Casey Campbell
DOCTOR - Robert Ridhage
BARTENDER - Ashley Barber
BAR PATRONS
-Cameron Bortz
-Hunter Jones
-William Arthur
-Steven Handeland
-Courtne Moran
-Kayla Powell
-Jason Howard
-Reece Hassell
LABEL - RCA RECORDS
VP, Video & Visual Content Production - Nicholas Robespierre
Director, Video & Visual Content Production - Win Smith
Marketing - Aaron Stern
MANAGEMENT
Manager - Ian Thornton
Manager - Michael Corcoran
#TylerChilders #InYourLove #RustinInTheRain
Friday 2 weeks ago as I drove my husband of 38 years to the hospital this song came on my Pandora channel.
We sang this song together at the top of our lungs. I think he knew it was going to be bad and just couldn't tell me.
He died of heart failure this past Friday.
My heart is broken but I have sung this song every day since. We were just kids when we married and it was hard but we always had each other and our babies and that was enough. This is the song of my heart. I will wait for you Troy
I'm in tears over the beauty of your love and empathy for your loss.
I'm so sorry for your loss may your husband rest in peace ❤
Prayers
Such a beautiful moment to share with your love
I’m so very sorry for your loss. After my mom passed suddenly of a traumatic brain injury, I couldn’t cope and cried every day. Three years later, I flatlined during surgery and went to Heaven and got to see her. I highly recommend the book, ‘Proof of Heaven’ by Dr Eben Alexander. It’s very similar to my experience. 🫶🫶🫶
I grew up in West Virginia. Everyone in my family that worked in the coal mines, died of Black Lung. All of them. Thank you for this video. The controversy about this video should not be about two guys in love, but the untold misery and tragedy that coal mining has had on those of us that grew up and live in the Appalachians. People are dying today of Black Lung, people should be up in arms over that.
Exactly. My Popaw served in the Navy during on of the biggest assault in Normandy. Yet when returning home to WV the only jobs where in the mines. Black lung got him and never once did he complain. He was the best man I have ever known. My mom couldn't bare to stay in WV after losing my father then losing her's so when she remarried, she uprooted us kids and my mommaw to NC where my stepdad was from.
Eastern Ky. Mine are still working the mines. My Papaw did die with black lung. I attend a lot of protests against Mitch McConnell for how he sides with the Mines over miners health
This made me puke 🤮seeing these nasty men sin
Both things can be true at the same time. Gay men existed during these times and died of black lung as well as straight men. Doesn’t diminish anyones plight any less.
100%
I was a young man who worked in the WV coal mines. I was always terrified more of being outed than the danger of working inside the mines.
Thank you Tyler for this beautiful song and video. Thanks for not worrying about the backlash. You made this old man tear up and to know that I was not the only one. George Brewer
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You are loved!!!!!
💯❣️🥰 Blessings & Best Wishes to you. 💓🙏🏼
God Bless you George and of course to Tyler for this song, and video. All my uncles worked in them also. My granny tried to get them to join the military thinking it would be easier, but 3 of the 16 who joined, died way too early. I had two queer uncles that both found and lost their loves in those mines. I sure hope you found yours and still have them. Much love!! I’ll pray for you every time I listen to this song, which is daily.😊
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As a straight Christian man from the south I’ve always said love is love it comes in all shapes and sizes I feel god created love all love 💕
After losing my wife of 28 years to cancer last August, this song and video is bringing tears to my eyes. Such a beautiful and haunting song. Love is love. May everyone find someone in their life that takes their breath away. Vaya con Dios Linda and thank you Tyler.
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did it make you switch to dudes?
My sympathies, Mr. Rodriguez. So difficult to go through for both you and your precious wife.
How beautiful.
Congrats dude, you are the mouth breathing neanderthal of the month.@charlesgarage-ur9bp
Everyone deserves to have someone to love and be loved by. This is the perfect song for anyone who is in love, and it doesn't matter who they are in love with. May they all love in peace.
I fight to death for that loves that’s true love you have each other back u don’t no love hit face you still cant. See it. For the resons that. Me sick you have give. Up.
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This is a beautiful story. No other word can describe it better. The fact that the blond man defended his other half, unafraid of the what may come in that circumstances, build a household together, and chose to stay in the same house he built with his deceased loved one, that is true love, one sweet rare true love.
Rainbow warriors
I cried. This video is so sad but so beautiful for a true love is shown that is never forgotten. Love has no boundaries! Tyler is wonderful for using his platform to show “and the greatest of these is love” 💕
Beautiful, breathtaking ballad. Video is heart wrenching. Lump in my throat and tear in my eyes. Only a handful of songs really pull your heart apart and this is one of them. Amazing.
I have watched this video at least a hundred times and I cry every single time. This is one of the most beautiful songs I’ve ever heard and the love story it portrays is absolutely beautiful. I wish everyone would just see things for what they are and not have to throw shade on anything they don’t agree with. This is a masterpiece but everything Tyler does is so I wouldn’t expect anything less. ❤❤❤
The double wedding ring quilt shown in the last scene is a traditional wedding gift in Appalachia, usually given by the mother to her child on the wedding day. This was a couple deeply cherished and celebrated by their local community.
@rangefinderz5135 you must not be from around here if you think that's unrealistic.
I think on that Bus route he wasn't dropping off th prettiest little Girl...
@jezzarigged I live in the Appalachian mountains and I know scores of gay folk and couples, maybe your community just don't trust you enough to be authentic around you. 🙃
Yep. That’s what we REALLY mean when we say we take care of our own. Queer people live all over the hills and hollers of Appalachia and we ain’t goin anywhere 💚
Beautiful traditions, we cherish those in the South. My grandmother made me a double wedding ring quilt when I got married. She said she started working on it when I was little. Looking at it, I saw scraps from dresses I wore as a little girl. Dresses made for me by Grandma and Mama.
Beautiful. This makes me cry every time. I miss my love of 16 years. He made his way home before me. Love and miss you Leibert Lynch. ❤
Tyler is changing people.I myself was formerly less than complimentary of male homosexuality but this video has softened my heart and I literally called up a friend that I stopped communicating with just because I seen him holding hands with a guy.Tyler Childers gave me the open mindedness and the bravery to apologize and once I heard my friends voice and heard the contentness and happyness as he accepted my sincere apology. Love is stronger than hate.
After reading your comment, I am literally bawling. That is so beautiful! Your comment is so touching…Especially because I know the backstory on this video. Tyler actually has a family member that is gay and was discriminated against in Kentucky. He left and never came back. You are a beautiful example of what Tyler is trying to gain from this video . If you’re interested in knowing more, NPR (google it) did a great write up and interview with Tyler and Silas house explaining this video. Tyler also put out a video on the making of this song a couple days after the original video aired (RUclips).It doesn’t go into as much detail as the NPR but both are amazing. Much love to you for your compassion and change. Tyler is amazing. He just makes me want to be a better person.
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Life is so short I am Happy for you to have your friend back in your life.
This is amazing!
It’s wrong and it’s not hate to kindly tell someone you don’t agree with homosexuality.
Tyler has touched my heart and I am so appreciative more than you'll ever know. Heartbreak is universal but soothing the survivor is our responsibility as human kind. Perhaps we might seek to be both one day.Thank you Mr. Childers you have a new devoted fan.
Beautiful song 🎶 everyone has the right to pursue happiness ❤
I just heard this on the way home from work and immediately searched for it because of the way it touched me. Sitting outside in my car sobbing watching the video. This hits so close to home. My youngest son is openly gay and my greatest fear as a mother is that someone full of hate will harm him. Love is love. Please never forget that. ❤
You’ve got this beautiful momma! Love is love, and this song is so very important than some will ever realize.
My son is gay too, and that's my biggest fear. :'(
Hey Monica, just be there for him. I hope all is well. Love from the U.K
@ravincraven all will be good. Chin up. Just be there for him. That's all that matters. Love from the UK
I know it's scary now but there is such a big, warm, worldwide queer community here for yall, we love you 🖤🖤🖤
The ending where the old man sits alone is an incredibly accurate visual representation. My mamaw sat alone on her porch many days after my papaw died. It’s something I’ve witnessed many times back here in East Kentucky. Tyler’s from my hometown by the way and we’ll always be glad to claim him as one of ours.
The difference being, of course, that your mamaw and papaw were able to create you. The best this abomination could do would be to purchase a child using a surrogate of some sort.
The same here...well in WV. It took us years to talk my mommaw to leave the hills. She was already broken hearted, then to leave home I think was more than she could bear.
@rangefinderz5135 your gramps may well have met some folks like that in Kentucky but to generalize us all that way he was a damn fool and you are too if you believe him. There’s carpetbaggers and cowards in every state of the union.
@rangefinderz5135 nothing more cowardly than running that mouth from behind a computer screen
@rangefinderz5135 wow you’re a real pos aren’t ya?
And now I’m crying. 😭
Tyler is a great musician, but also maybe the bravest man in the country genre. 💙
Or the stupidest, depending on your moral values.
@JohnnyNowherehe has to be true to his morals not yours
@JohnnyNowhere he not stupid he one of the best
@JohnnyNowhereit’s going to suck when you realize a lot of musicians are a lot gayer than you think.
@JohnnyNowhere Get your 'moral values' out of here, no one wants them or cares about them. He is a fantastic musician, this is a beautiful video to accompany it, and I hope he keeps it up to make people like you uncomfortable
Such a beautiful song that only TYLER could do!❤ how could you hate such beauty? I lost both of my brothers, two brother-in-laws and my niece. I listen to this beautiful song and cry for them. Thank you, TYLER❤C❤ 2:52
99% of people spend their entire lives looking for that one person that is deserving of this kind of adoration and love. My God what a song!! I cry every time
My human found ME. A girl asking a dude out is uncommon, but we're still stuck together like glue after 7 months.
It's early, but we have plans. We figure stuff out when we talk, it's never an argument but a discussion. And she betters me, I see my flaws more because of her, and fix them. Not just things she doesn't like, but thinks that hurt me. I bend over backwards for this girl, and I'll do it for the rest of my life with the biggest stupidest smile on my red face. Never have I ever felt this before, and it's a feeling that's not gone away since the moment we met. I don't see myself without her, and I'm so thankful God gave her to me.
me too
This song is a beautiful love story. It broke my heart to see love so beautifully portrayed. 👏 👏 👏 👏
I’m watching this with tears streaming down my face. I’m laying next to my partner of almost 6 years and this hits deep bcuz I had a lot of internal homophobia but he stood by me, and I can’t thank the universe more then enough for him.
Good for you!!👍🏼💪🏼
Your lucky to have found that kind of love, value it everyday.❤️
Every day is a blessing. Wish you both the best
@joeturner9219can you just let people talk for 1 second without judging them? If you're sure he knows this, don't make the comment
@joeturner9219 who?
@joeturner9219god isn’t real
These comments are amazing and heart wrenching. In this short time we are given, we should all accept each other, be empathetic, and realize love and the power that be is real.
I don't usually spend a lot of time reading people's comments on videos because - well, they're usually just attention seekers or hate spreaders, but these comments are simply heartbreaking and awe-inspiring. They're real and full of emotion and truly something special. Whether in hurt or in joy they are love-filled and appear to be from people that have felt unheard and unseen. What a testament to the power of the song and the video to also say and show things that needed to be expressed for them.
Of course they are cherry picked and the rest outright deleted.
@vinnie302thank you for letting them know, the lgbtq just can’t seem to accept that what they do isn’t for everyone and try to force feed us at every turn… I’m so tired of their agenda
@vinnie302quit being a snowflake ❄️
@vinnie302the others should be deleted. Hate & ignorance should be dealt with like the garbage it is.
You’re comment is certainly attention seeking and I’m sorry I read it. I don’t usually spend a lot of time reading comments ….
This video beautifully encapsulates "We just want to exist peacefully" so well. From your neighbors in the Ozarks, thank you for this masterpiece. So blessed to be alive at the save time you're writing music.
There also seems to be some confusion on who wrote the song. Tyler wrote it, said so at Bonaroo. Silas House wrote this beautiful story for the video though.
That was the perfect way to put it, I'm not going to lie I just sat here for 5 minutes and bawled my eyes out lol
Stop trying to push y’all’s agenda and you could exist peacefully
That's not the problem 99% of us have anbl issue with. The issue is "Bake rather fuckin cake weather you like it or not or we will sue you till we own everything you have." The issue is Pride Parades with naked people strapped to truck beds in front of children while being spanked on your bare ass cheeks. The issue is homosexuality shifting from a "Please just accept that we love differently than you." to it being a battering ram against anyone who dares not agree and a Trojan horse for raging pedophilia acceptance (and yes I know not all gay people are). But it absolutely is being used that way.
Way I see it, if the juice itself is ok but it contains poison...we gotta stop handing the juice out till the poison is removed. I think that's fairn
We as a society need more content like this.
Exactly! I don’t see what the big deal is either. This is so contrived and inauthentic. It’s the most mainstream thing you could promote. The social engineers and corporations LOVE this shit. So I don’t see what the fuss is about. It’s just more of the same thing. Just promoting gay and queer stuff, like everyone else. I’d be more shocked if he’d didn’t use a gay couple. Otherwise the video would be mocked for simply showing the plight of coal miners and coal mining towns. And the corporations and entertainment industry doesn’t give a shit about those people. They love the gay stuff though, so Tyler did well to play that angle. His bosses will be pumped and this video will do well bc it’ll brew up controversy. It’s sort of the “current thing” and most everyone are sheep so the’ll eat it up. Smart move Tyler. This will make you some real dough!
Growing up in Appalachia and absolutely loving my roots but then having that same community shun me devastated my soul as a child. Tylers music takes me back to my childhood and my love for county music and Appalachia. This song, just means the world to me. We are apart Appalachian and is such a blessing to finally see some representation. Thank you Tyler.
Yep we don't like that kind and Tyler just pushed himself out with this as well. Disgraceful
I couldn’t have said it better. This is so healing and soothing to see and hear as a broken Appalachian.
@growinggenerationshomestea516That is crap and you know it. The Appalachia I was raised in was bleak and hard and still nowhere near as hateful as the poison you're spewing. People like you do exist, but you aren't what makes it home.
@growinggenerationshomestea516literally what is ur issue
@growinggenerationshomestea516 You are the very hate that Jesus spoke against.
Really cool to see Tyler Childers get so much attention.....he deserves it.
Anyone else catch the mourning dove call at 0:21 when he remembers his deceased lover? What a subtle and beautiful touch.
Beautiful 🪽
Omgoodness thank you! Yes! Yes I did, and the crickets at the end….
This part touched me deeply in my Appalachian heart! 💕
That was the old man that raped him sadly.
This is such a beautiful piece of art.
I wasn’t expecting to come here and bawl my eyes out but here we are. So beautiful and so sad all at the same time.
Hello 👋 how are you doing?
Same..
Me TOO!
Me too!!!!!
disgusting
I did not expect to be weeping over a music video. This is so heartbreakingly beautiful.
Don’t lie you were not weeping
@coulterevans8671 Your hate is showing get back to that small town.
Same!!! That ending has me bawling
@coulterevans8671I know it's hard for a spineless pushy like yourself to imagine such a foreign concept as empathy, but just try. You might not be as salty.
@coulterevans8671 I did actually
Isn't it odd that people will watch a movie where men brutally murder one another without any reservations whatsoever but watching a music video which shows two men genuinely in love with one another they find disturbing or makes them uncomfortable. Imagine how the world would be different if it was the other way around.
So true!
Immeasurable gratitude for this and so many other works of art TC has given us. My papaw mined coal for 45 years near the Tug river and I grew up in a coal camp house on the Kentucky side. He lived 89 years, but black lung was what took him from this world, so I am eternally grateful for the awareness this video has brought forward. Nearly everyone who needed to make a living back home dug that coal, so a small number of miners likely were gay and undoubtedly faced obstacles. I fly only one flag because it’s for all of us, but simply will not walk this earth with a heart filled with hatred. If you can’t support Tyler due to the contents of this video then you have that right. For those who recognize the beautiful layers of life represented in both the song and video I join you in recognition of something truly special. I don’t feel like it’s pandering to a social movement, based on the career path TC has taken, but that’s just my assessment. What I see clearly is a wonderful video paired with brilliant songwriting and music. I’m proud to be a hillbilly, even if some see that as a derogatory term, and one of the greatest artists walking this earth being one of our own brings me joy. Blessings be with all who read this, especially if you disagree wholeheartedly.
This was a beautiful comment. Sending love and prayers to you and your family and town!
I just read an article saying coal miners are more likely now than ever before to die of black lung. So scary.
Did you miss the two dude fukin
As a gay man I shed a tear reading your post, thank you. To the dude who wrote that rude crude comment below I feel sorry for you. You're that lonely hate fill guy at the bar. Destined to be alone. Honestly I was once like you till I figured out that the reason I hated them was I was one of them and I hated myself. Today I'm happily married to a wonderful man and I love myself.
@TheLongjohntim no your not like me, the homosexuality in this song couldn't me more irrelevant to this song. The only reason it's in this video is because Tyler sold out to a record label.
I read in an interview with Tyler and his songwriter for this. It is about the relationship, which is based on Tyler's cousin. But also he wanted to point out that Appalachia isn't just mining, it's farming too along with black lung and all that has been said in the comments by a lot of people who have lived through it or are living through it.
You are being too reasonable. Bigots are beyond reason.
I see they got a phagggot problem now too!
I think you mean the idea for the video.
So the version I heard from Tyler was the video was for his uncle who was openly gay in Appalachia, he left, because he could not make a life there. But he was so influential in Tyler’s career, he was very honest. I just find it heartbreaking that so many heard the song and continued support, till they saw the video. The video is a beautiful depiction of love that some men and women never experience. I just love Tyler for his love of Appalachia and his honesty about who we are as humans. The video breaks my heart every time. But I jam the song in my car, in my house, anywhere they’ll let me here in SW Ohio. Appalachian for life tho.
Bigots will be bigots. And they will give massive excuses about “that’s what I was taught.” Well, guess again mf! Just because you were taught that way, doesn’t mean you have to believe that way. Racism, bigotry, exclusion, hatred in general is a taught trait. Nobody is born and then wakes up one day and says “ya know what, I’m gonna hate. Hate is a learned trait. But it’s also a very powerful word that many don’t understand the weight. If you hate one thing, situation or person, it will seep into everything else you love and you’ll hate everything. Religion did a lot of that to us. Not gonna go on a rant. But bigots can be changed. It’s hard to do, but it can happen. Love can and will conquer hate. Always.
A brilliant and very touching video of something that I have experienced. But the most gratifying and beautiful thing about this video for me, as a gay man, was that it was created by a straight man; a straight man who sees love as what it is for all of us - a powerful human emotion!
I’m just an old Wv country boy . Love is love regardless who you are . I used to have hate in my heart until I realized I was a fool . Everyone deserves to be happy and find a love that deep and strong .
this is written way better than Small Town. This is a great song.
I'm shook this was devastating yet beautifully done. Anyone who doesn't empathize with this does not know love. Real love is unconditional 😢
Whatever. I understand that this is a sin. God didn’t intend to see two hot dogs in a bun. Looks like all the comments have been washed in this video.
@grandroofingcolorado There is something deeply wrong with you. You have to be an emotional child to not think for yourself and get your morality from whatever a preacher tells you and an old and highly edited book.
@grandroofingcolorado 2 hot dogs in a bun… that’s a pretty unique fantasy.
this man has never been afraid to stand up for the greater good. songs about addiction, appalachia, the struggles of life in general. and so beautifully betrays a world so cruel yet so beautiful. he is and always will be one of my favorite musicians.
As a straight man this is just the sweetest video I've seen in a very very long time. Also I'll never understand why straight men feel the need to hurt, harm, beat up, any other man who's not straight like in this video. What a shame that two people can't truly love each other without ridicule and evil like that.
Regardless of who you love, this is without a doubt in the top five of the most beautiful love songs ever written or performed.
I was on here going through profiles and so luckily i came across your marvelous and charming picture of you,which really drew my attention to get in touch with you and also i really love your profile. i believe by God Grace you and your lovely family are protect and safe from what the enemy as plan towards you, Our Father in heaven sees everything He will make sure the devil plan fail upon you and your family Amen
Regardless of who we love? “True Love” would never endanger others with the spread of HIV. According to the CDC, in 2019, around 69% of new HIV diagnoses in the United States were among adult and adolescent men who identify as gay or bisexual.
A true Christian would never encourage this behavior.
I’m so proud of Tyler, he used to sit outside of The Break Room bar on a chair playing guitar in Lexington.. nicest man ever 🥰 He deserves everything
Which bar was it? I’m from Lexington 🥰
disgusting
@Boo_kitty_katLexington tn?
@Boo_kitty_kat same wasnt it the stagger in? or am i mistaken
Was it the Tin Roof? Im from NJ but I lived outside of Lexington for a small while
I live in West Virgina and was raised in a coal mining town in Boone County. My maternal grandfather had black lung and died from it so this song hits differently for those of us in Appalachia. Tyler, Silas and all who had a part in bringing this beautiful song and video to the world, THANK YOU!! We needed to be reminded of pure love in this chaotic world. ❤
I’m right here with you in Beckley. We know that coal miners struggle. 😢
my great granddad was a minor in Logan for 55 years! he died in 1976 when my dad was 5 years old. my grandpa moved up to michigan to work for ford instead of working in the mines. i didn't realize black lung was still that serious! you'd think they'd figure it out by now
Was ur granddad also gay or just a coal miner
@InsidiousGorilla An old friend of mine lived in Beckley for many years.
@rykersmith7808 He was a gay coal miner. He was actually a minor at the time. I guess he was a coal minor.
I could not imagine watching this video and feeling anything besides love and heartbreak. What a story that was told in 5 minutes.
Because you have basic empathy. That's what evolved humans have. That's what we used to build societies. The people who can't see love in this video are the real wreckers.
Well I just watched this video and I definitely feel something besides love and heartbreak.
Exactly! I don’t see what the big deal is either. This is so contrived and inauthentic. It’s the most mainstream thing you could promote. The social engineers and corporations LOVE this shit. So I don’t see what the fuss is about. It’s just more of the same thing. Just promoting gay and queer stuff, like everyone else. I’d be more shocked if he’d didn’t use a gay couple. Otherwise the video would be mocked for simply showing the plight of coal miners and coal mining towns. And the corporations and entertainment industry doesn’t give a shit about those people. They love the gay stuff though, so Tyler did well to play that angle. His bosses will be pumped and this video will do well bc it’ll brew up controversy. It’s sort of the “current thing” and most everyone everyone are sheep so he’ll eat it up.
@yaboikiwis4538 You’re just mad you couldn’t write your hand a song this good. Because after this comment, I know you’re not getting any ass - make or female.
@LDJ-r8e Ctrl-C, Ctrl-V.
I had no intentions of crying… but I bawled my eyes out. Such a beautiful song and video. ❤
Me, too.
Ditto
Me toooooo
As an Appalachian American hailing from the hills of southeastern Kentucky, I have been closely connected to the coal mining community. Both my father and stepfather, along with many friends and relatives, have been part of this demanding profession.I was lucky enough to have went a different path,I’ve witnessed firsthand the harsh realities of being a coal miner.It’s a hard thing seeing someone you love no longer be able to even walk a single step without getting out of breath.I wasn’t sure how I’d feel about this song and video,I can appreciate its portrayal of reality. The tale of finding love in a workplace is a common one, reminiscent of how I met my wife a quarter-century ago. Reading the overwhelmingly positive comments on this video is heartening; it reflects the progress we've made as a civil society. It is essential to acknowledge and celebrate these advancements
Another case of Americans having to put up with the portrayal of gay romance. Most. Americans are sick of having to see it in every movie, TV show and video. It's morally and Biblically wrong and it has no place in country music. Take it to the streets of Atlanta and Nashville where it is more welcome.
We got more work to do. More fights to have yet.
this is a beautiful comment. thank you for being open minded
My family is all from Magoffin county, and I mean no disrespect to anyone, but Eastern Kentucky is like a totally different world compared to the western side of the state. In good ways and in bad. But it’s hands down the most beautiful place in the world
I live in west Kentucky but grew up in the Appalachian mountains of north Georgia and East Tennessee have Coon hunted all over up into eastern Kentucky those mountains and hollers are the home to some of the finest people in the country but I could no longer physically walk them and be able to hunt
This song is timeless and beautiful. My husband sent it to me. We have enjoyed his music for some time now. He told me “this is your song” and it made me remember why we are working so hard for our 6 children in the most amazing country in the world.
Back in 1990, I met a man while standing in the checkout line at the grocery. A year later we were living together and though both of us had professions where we traveled a bit, we spent every moment we could together. He passed away late last year and this song helps me think of how it is to meet someone who you love more than anything else. I play this song often and remember what was. It always makes me tear up. But they are not sad tears, they are tears of gratitude. Thanks, Marco for 33 years of sharing a life with me. Thank you, Mr. Childers, for writing this song.
I really felt this. I lost my fiance 3 years ago to cancer. I know we didn't have to go through all the hate of being gay but she was my everything. Thank you for sharing your story! Love is Love no matter the sex. Rip to Marco!!
Thanks so much for your wise words about tears and gratitude. Love your story. Great song and video from Tyler Childers.
@yeahyeah4244 then you should repent your bigotry.
@yeahyeah4244 it’s not too late for you to not judge people
Thank you John for sharing your love life which makes people know that love is still exist no matter what. Say Hi to Marco and RIP 🙏🙏🙏
Imagine you're Tyler Childers and you made this. What an exceptional example to us of being fearless and forthright and a true artist. Thank you.
Ive been watching my wife of 3 years be in labor with our first child for the past 30 hours. I just finished watching the video and hearing this song for the first time sitting on the edge of her bed. This really hits home, I hope our baby girl is here soon.
Have a good day brother
Sending love, light & prayers for a safe delivery
Congratulations!!❤
It's the most joyous journey you'll ever be on my man, cherish them both, and show that sweet baby how a man treats a woman. Best of luck to you on the start of your family.
Congratulations brother hope the best for you and your family
This song is so beautiful and this video has me in tears. I've loved Tyler's music for so long and he is timeless. This song reminds me of my grandparents. 70 years of marriage. Anything worth having is worth working hard for.
I wish someone would love me like I love this song, I wish someone would know my love is strong as my strength, I wish someone would see my blood sweat and tears, I wish someone would just hold me
God loves me
I have not cried like this since Bill and Frank in the last of us. This is BEAUTIFUL! Bravo
Ughhhhhh 😭
I will never get over that, I was ugly crying
Felt that parallel so deep and same, just sobbing
Dumb
Don’t remind me 😢
I can't quit crying. Beautiful, simply beautiful. I am an Appalachian mother and you did an amazingly beautiful job.
Me too
You need mental help
I just turned 50. I have fought hard to make my heart a beautiful garden and my mind an entire universe, yet every guy who asked to enter just littered. I am kinda loosing hope I will ever meet a man to love and love me back. How many years of health and life do I have left? Anyway, I am very happy for anyone who has been blessed to feel the love of another human being. Cherish those moments, because they are not a given.
Never give up. Your garden will grow and you’ll find that love you’re looking for ❤
You just made me cry man. Im a 35 year old grown man too. I feel you. I feel your pain and understand it.
@glockdookie5231thanks bro, means a lot. Bless your heart.
@Pinkfongfan25Amén ❤
@alarmingproximity❤❤❤
My husband just passed and this song is my song to him I put my phone to his ear so he could hear it in my darkest time this young man's music is getting me through it
I’m so sorry, thank you for sharing this beautiful story. May he rest beautifully and may you gain peace until you see him again. ❤
☮️💜☮️💜☮️💜☮️
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Blessings for comfort. Love never leaves us. May you feel your husband's presence in all aspects of your life. He is simply in another room, and you are moving towards him every day. God's comfort.
Your husband was dying so you forced him to listen to this queer song.
Been a fan of Tyler for several years... Songs about reincarnation and archaeology hit my banjo-playin, northwoods-raised, Buddhist, Archaeologist, farmer soul just right. (Wonder why? 🤷♂️) And now hes gone and done it again. Thank you Mr Childers ❤ but now im a teary mess!
This is truly a beautiful song. It hits really close for me because I found the love of my life in school. We grew up together and then because of the times back then we tried to live the normal life but we soon came back to each other. We were together several years until I lost him suddenly to a brain tumor. Thank you for making this song!!!
Im sorry for your loss friend, i hope you’re doing okay💚
Tyler inspires me.. My parents said if i get 40K followers They'd buy me a professional camera for recording..begging u guys , literally
Begging..
Thank you for sharing your heartfelt experience, much love man
Sorry for your loss.
What a wonderful gift thank u
This video is perfect, they portrayed everything so well.
THIS is the POWER OF MUSIC when it's used for GOOD. The song, in an of itself, is beautiful. The video merely conveys one of the many messages that can be sent. LOVE IT!
100%
I don’t see what the big deal is either. This is so contrived and inauthentic. It’s the most mainstream thing you could promote. The social engineers and corporations LOVE this shit. So I don’t see what the fuss is about. It’s just more of the same thing. Just promoting gay and queer stuff, like everyone else. I’d be more shocked if he’d didn’t use a gay couple. Otherwise the video would be mocked for simply showing the plight of coal miners and coal mining towns. And the corporations and entertainment industry doesn’t give a shit about those people. They love the gay stuff though, so Tyler did well to play that angle. His bosses will be pumped and this video will do well bc it’ll brew up controversy. It’s sort of the “current thing” and most everyone everyone are sheep so he’ll eat it up.
@joleaneshmoleane8358 the plight of the coal industry can be laid at the feet of the owners of those companies and the Republican Party. Coal is fast becoming an obsolete energy source and people are suffering for no other reason than corporate greed.
As far as the song goes, you're right. Smart move by the label to create that particular video. Gay people listen to Country too. The way I see it. America has been shoving white Supremacist propaganda for over 400 years (see Jason Aldean and a host of country songs over the history of the genre itself) As a straight Black Man, I'm not the target audience for that video and I don't have an issue with it.
I've been in radio for 45 years now and was one of a handful of Black personalities doing Country music. I've seen the long - standing problems the industry has had for decades, racism being its biggest. Sexism, homophobia, etc. The industry does a poor job in addressing those issues. So much so that THIS VIDEO is seen as a cynical attempt to create controversy and YOU WOULD BE RIGHT! While individual artists may have an opinion one way or another, too few of them stand on the courage of their convictions. Jason Aldean, for all of his racist dog whistle "small town" bluster, RAN LIKE A COWARD in Las Vegas instead of at least telling people to take cover. No one has any idea about his stance on gun control, so he lets everyone ASSUME that he's pro - gun.
There are so many stories I could tell about the rampant hypocrisy in Country Music and other genres as well.
@LDJ-r8e "it's inauthentic" says the person spamming the same comment...
This hits home. I lost my soulmate of 42 years to leukemia in November of 2019. Thank you so much for going out on a limb to recognize the beauty of love.
Big big hugs🫶🏼
Hugs all day. 💙
I am so sorry for your loss, sir. My their memory be a blessing.
Good, now go try a woman
@NATIVE_PRIDEEpretty screwed up there I ain’t with all of that but at the same time I could never say it’s good somebody died
I hope you know the positive change you made by posting this video. Anyone that has a problem with this video needs to truly turn their heart to god and soften their hatred.
Beautiful. Tears this early morning. I heard this song at Cafesserie Msa on my 30th birthday a day ago (12th May). It was in the background of a video I took of myself and watching the video later, I had to find this song and the video is even more beautiful. So sentimental, I don't think I'll forget this song now it's etched in my memory.
Wow, This is So Moving. I have been with my life partner for over 30 years now. I am so Grateful for Each and Every Day we have together.
Thank you Tyler for this Video.
Tyler Childers is an artist and he is not going to let you tell him what pictures to paint. He might lose some followers for shedding light on simple and difficult truths...but he definitely just gained one follower. Bravo Mr. Childers!
I'm not a big country music fan but he's definitely gained a new follower in me that was a beautiful song, a beautiful reason, and a captivating and beautiful video. 💙
@madambluewave : same here. Thanks for posting!
Man. Just wow. Tyler I sure am grateful for you.
Why
To much bud light
Well I know you don't care about Appalachia so you're grateful for the gay inclusion in a country song?
why he sell out and make it about gay guys those miners are real men with wives. Not to be portrayed as homos. Tyler is Sickening. But whatever helps him stay relevant. In Oliver Anthony We Trust
@notsorry3631I am and my opinion counts for something whether you care to purposely find something offensive in the video or not. If you don’t like gay people, don’t be gay…
You are an obvious gem of a human. This video made me love you and your angelic voice even more. Thank you so much for being you; brave and soulful, and never shying from important messaging. ❤️
I had never heard of you until one of my homophobic ex booty calls posted a status talking sh!t. it piqued my interest… I think you are conveying a beautiful story. And I am proud of how far we have come but obviously we still have work to do. This is great!
I love that you found this song from a shitty ex booty call haha 😂
Translation; “I am a promiscuous women who sleeps with strange men that don’t share my values. One of the random men which I allowed to blow their load inside of me posted this song and it piqued my interest. I just want to tell everyone that I am a sexual degenerate so I approve of the forms of sexual degeneracy portrayed in this music video, and this makes me a good person.” - @ForgottenHowToCare
I love that bigots are out there crying and simultaneously finding Tyler new fans 😅😂
@SlugLife1918 I found out about this because of that. Hahaha men are crying on tiktok. It's hilarious.
This is the Love I Found with my Michael: 43 years of bliss. I can only say that "the Love that Dare Not Speak Its Name" is beautifully spoken in this time and place for all of us to hear and see. Thank you for painting a glorious picture of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. David Fayrfax. 🐦
This song is the most beautiful song I’ve ever heard. I can visualize my late husband when I hear this song, he died in his job working to make a living for me and his 6 children. He was a logger and he used to come home and tell me that I was always on his mind when he worked. We were married for 21 years and I know this pain of setting alone wishing my love was still here with me. I think this video shows that perfectly.
Beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for sharing.
Wow... this video is so powerful. It brought tears to my eyes.
I'm Canadian, and have never heard your music before. While the day to day specifics may be a bit different, a working class story rings true to the right people across borders. Makes me think of my family. And a love story is universal. Really beautiful music and video ❤
same here, my family’s from nova scotia and they worked in the coal mines for generations, this made me tear up for sure
The way you worded your response made me think of Tyler’s song Universal Sound off of Purgatory. You seriously need to listen to Tyler, one of a kind artist!
This is possibly the most beautiful song I have ever heard. 😭💓
TylerChilders-yf5xk this talk makes my day
Not only is it beautiful, love is the most powerful thing a person can feel. Everyone deserves love, EVERYONE!
The story told in under 5 minutes was incredible. I am sobbing 😫
I know! I want the full length feature film now!
Tyler. I’m so excited to see you live in London this year! We drove from Ontario to Lexington last year to see you live. I can’t possibly express my excitement! What an incredible and intense artist! ❤️
Thank you for this I worked in a coal mine in the early 80's with my lover in small town we were accepted and it was a great life this song kicked my ass this morning ❤
Real coal miners
I have waited so many decades, I am so at peace with the pain in my heart. Tyler, thank you I had no idea I needed this so badly. It gives me hope, for humans, our future, and my life. Forever thank you
Tyler inspires me.. My parents said if i get 40K followers They'd buy me a professional camera for recording..begging u guys , literally
Begging...
Bless you Blake🙏❤️
I felt the exact same thing. Love to connect.
somberly said brother
Nasty
@Keepitreal-z5c
Homophobes are nasty👍🏼💯
This man can't stop speaking his mind and not giving a single god damn about what some in his genre's community will say about it, and I can't possibly stand behind him enough. Tyler and the waves that he's making throughout his sobriety is a mammoth force to be reckoned with. Holy hell this was excellent.
I couldn't possibly say this any better.💜 I will stand behind him throughout every moment also.
Absolutely! With the weird shift in country music the last couple decades, it's nice to see somebody turning back to the roots of the genre. Tyler is absolutely one of the best faces in music rn❤
@William.H.Bonney1i wouldnt say edgy i would say hes making music that kris kristoferson , willie nelseon, merle haggard and johnny cash wpuld be proud of
@William.H.Bonney1imagine not knowing that real country music used to be for the underdogs, the working class, the poor, the underrepresented. Bet you dropped bud light too didn't you
Doesn’t really matter what we say. GOD will handle it.
This! 😢 The song! The video! The story! So beautiful and so heartbreaking!
Damn, this is what music is meant for. The power of this track coupled with stunning cinematography. Much respect to all who made this happen. Tyler Childers keep up the good work!
PARA cariño Amor elefante estás alegre ❤️🔥😍
It’s black lung, not cancer. About 100 miners die every year from it. I love that Tyler Childers always makes a point to highlight Appalachian issues in his messages.
I appreciated this aspect, my dad was a coal miner for 20 years and he has COPD. and he's LUCKY
He also included an Appalachian Author. In the end credits he included Silas House. ❤
@rangefinderz5135. What is wrong with you??
I think it’s cock tongue not black lung it is all about perspective 😂😂😂
Son. Queer coal miners isn’t an Appalachian issue. We have no such trash as this and we despise. Tyler
Sad to say I hadn’t heard of Childers until the controversy over this video. What a shame- amazing singer and to be an open ally with a country fan base was definitely a line in the sand that I respect with my whole being. You’ve faced backlash from this but you’ve gained a lot of new fans. The song is absolutely gorgeous and the story told in four and a half minutes of video with no dialogue was stunning. Thank you for the art and for the message. 🖤
I’ve heard of him but didn’t know he had a new song out. The controversy over this is stupid.
Listen to “long violent history” Tyler doesn’t back down and isn’t afraid of controversy.
He wrote the song for his nephew who explains to him how terrifying it was to come out of the closet. And that makes it even more amazing. 💙
I don't see a reason in the controversy, but glad you like Tyler! Check out Nose On The Grindstone, he sings with so much inflection!
Follow you to Virgie was the first song of his I heard and it absolutely wrecked me 💔
Wow..never heard of tyler till now..what a song..❤
Goodness. This has so much weight. Been a while since a music video brought tears. What a piece of art.
Having just lost my husband of 30 years to cancer two months ago, this was a gut punch. And, I’m that fellow sitting alone with our memories on the front porch right now. Beautiful song and video.
I'm sorry for your loss Dean. I also know your pain. I was with my husband for 28 years and lost him to cancer in March. "Keep moving forward." is my motto. I hope it helps you as well. I'll be thinking of you.
I'm so sorry for your loss
I'm so sorry for your loss, you and your husband paved the way for me and mine. Thank you for fighting the continuous battle of love for our community ❤️
I’m so sorry Dean ❤️🩹 sending so much love and condolences your way. It hurts because there was SO much love there. Always remember that
I am sorry for your loss ❤
The fact that this video was surely intentionally made/edited to be 4:44 long to serve as angel numbers regarding deep love and wholeness is very well done and a perfect minor detail to a beautiful story
Your comment had 111 views when I saw it ❤
I think you may be looking too much into things
man, i love this song. my husband and i danced at our wedding to this song. it's just so beautiful. thank you for this timeless song.
This is a great video, it shows what some of us have had to live daily... the hate and non acceptance. I am now a retired police officer and my Partner was a EMS Paramedic for the Texas County we lived in. My Jim Died 05AUG00, and it still a hard thing to deal with.The Love we shared was wonderful, and i probably never have that feeling again. Thank You Tyler for showing this side of life that most still hide and deal with.
I’m so sorry for your loss🌟
Please tell me what guy people have to deal with in 2023?
@Lolpipe--- *We still face being discriminated against in housing and employment. We're still being called "abominations" in the churches we grew up in. We're still being gay bashed on the street for holding the hand of someone we love or being shouted at from passing cars. And yet we're STILL standing up to the bigots by refusing to continue to lie and are living our lives openly and honestly. THAT takes more courage than most will ever know.*
@gordon3186 ...everyone gets made fun of for something
@Lolpipe You, for starters
I think of my young, gay son and hope he finds love and acceptance wherever he chooses to live his life when he leaves my house. Beautiful song and gut-wrenching video.
It's beautiful, isn't it? Keep loving and supporting him. You're teaching him what treatment he should expect from others. God bless you and your son.
I'm another proud mother of a gay son. I just want him to be safe and happy. He is so very kind and empathetic, intelligent and creative, and yet there are so many people who will automatically hate him simply for being who he is. What's sad is that he would go out of his way to help those very people if they needed it, because that's what's in his heart. He would give you his last dollar, a meal, a ride, let you sleep on his couch, or spend hours talking you out of killing yourself. He has a pure and gentle spirit, but those haters think HE'S the one going to hell. Ha!
The end times are truly near don’t let your son fall into the stuff that the world is pushing the Bible says in 1st Corinthians 6:9 people who practice homosexuality will not inherit the kingdom of heaven
@laurielyden7327the Bible says people who practice homosexuality will not inherit the kingdom of heaven so those who say your son will go to hell are right unless God puts his mercy upon your son and allows him to change his lifestyle and live for Jesus
@HENRIKSONBASEBALL the Bible also says to treat your slaves right and you're ok to beat your slave as long as he recovers after a couple of days and doesn't die from it.... so.....
Beautiful, poignant video that has me just about crying my eyes out. I'm imagining him going to sleep one night and waking up in the light where they are together again. Working their fields and having their table full of friends and family always. So bittersweet ❤🥲
Ok I was crying before but your comment has me bawling happy tears.
Growing up gay in East Tennessee this really hit home… my boyfriend of 9 years gives me 4 leaf clovers all the time. Thank you for representing us and the coal miners who have went thru so much….
This song is so powerful it gives me chills.
I always admire how Tyler Childers continues to speak out for what he believes in, even when he knows a portion of his fan base won’t support him for it. He’s always been unapologetically himself and doesn’t care if you don’t agree.
Same ❤
That's what country music well real country music is all about
I know he’s not necessarily rock and roll, but to me, this is exactly what rock and roll is about.
Standing up for something you believe in despite the reaction. In the long run, he will come out better because of this
I’m a straight white dude and I’m bawling like it happened to me. Beautiful song. Love is always worth it
In the words of the almighty Tiger King…. “Well you ain’t that straight are ya?”
@justinpoole8314Actually you've got that wrong. Homophobes aren't that straight, or they wouldn't be threatened... He's just a good decent person secure in who he is and in the rights of others...
Sure you not gay dude?
You might not be as straight as you thought 😂
@BalanceStrengthFlexibility Yep. People who are secure in their sexuality don't care about what other people do in their own bedrooms. I find it weird as hell. Definitely seems they are projecting their own unhappiness / insecurities onto others.
Damn good. What a beautiful song. My husband and I have been together for 35 years, We raised our children and are now empty nesters. I am still waiting for him to realize I'm here, waiting . . .
I can’t properly quantify what a difference it would’ve made if people like you stood up for people like me when I was a kid. I’m so grateful younger people now have you. Thank you and the actors, team for a beautiful video.
I'm 58 married to a wonderful man I cry every time I listen to this song. I understand how you feel. Can't tell you how much this song and video means to me.
@timothyphipps8337 I’m wishing you all the love and happiness in the entire universe!
Go play on traffic homos
disgusting
What do you mean people like you?
Like a team of mules
Pulling Hell off from its hinges
It's the love that I'll keep tending
I will work for you
Perfection
Hey Tyler, i just wanted to reach out and say thank you. This song going viral now seems almost like a sign to me. I have been on a journey lately to connect with my Appalachian roots on my fathers side. He was born and raised in WV, and he often talked about the love he had for the old hills and hollers he grew up in. My father and I don't have a relationship anymore after years of Domestic violence and his deep disdain of me being Queer. I found that between his violent outbursts there were bits of wisdom and philosophy that came out of his growing up in the primeval mountain range of Appalachia.I think it was my fathers rare moments of gentleness that gave me my love and desire to garden, homestead, make herbal remedies etc. Growing up I often felt as if country music wasn't for me, as if I was unwelcome to a part of my heritage. But now finding your music it feels like a ‘welcome home’. Also if i may say you are one hell of a wordsmith, your music is so well written and full of meaning.
Wow! This is a beautiful response to a beautiful song. I am sorry you had to deal with DV and not being made to feel welcome in country music. Lots of love to you from another Appalachian.
Thanks so much for sharing this.
Exactly! I don’t see what the big deal is either. This is so contrived and inauthentic. It’s the most mainstream thing you could promote. The social engineers and corporations LOVE this shit. So I don’t see what the fuss is about. It’s just more of the same thing. Just promoting gay and queer stuff, like everyone else. I’d be more shocked if he’d didn’t use a gay couple. Otherwise the video would be mocked for simply showing the plight of coal miners and coal mining towns. And the corporations and entertainment industry doesn’t give a shit about those people. They love the gay stuff though, so Tyler did well to play that angle. His bosses will be pumped and this video will do well bc it’ll brew up controversy. It’s sort of the “current thing” and most everyone are sheep so the’ll eat it up. Smart move Tyler. This will make you some real dough!
My husband means the world to me, this is our song. ❤❤❤ thank you Tyler
Dude I don't care about the two men in love! This song is a beautiful testament of finding true love and the inevitability of having to watch it leave you! This life whether gay or straight we all face this! Beautiful song and video! Tyler thank you so much for this song! We all need this kind of love in our lives to prove it wasn't all for nothing!
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I just wish we lived in a world where gay people could enjoy it without the weakest men on Earth attacking them for it.
Man you got that right I lost my beautiful aunt this spring to cancer and it makes you appreciate life, this song is the first gay country song video iv saw I'm gay and I cried when I saw how the two guys bonded and as the older guy looked at the dr when he said he is not gonna make it he has black lung disease and how he held his love as he left what I don't understand is why the young man would not keep the co2 on and decide to let go and leave his partner that was a hard part for me. This video was 100 tines better than brokeback mountain, love is love and its beautiful thank you Tyler Childers for this video for thoes of us that have a open mind God bless
I live in Charleston WV and come from a long line of coal miners. My great grandpas dad died when he was young and he quit school to work in the same mine at 13. Never went to school again. People don’t understand how hard Appalachian life was and is still. But we are resilient and love deep with our roots. And love is love y’all
You come from a long line of gay coal miners? Doesn't make sense, men can't make babies
Hey look we found the Charleston girl! Was it the wine or the coke I'm dying to know? Lol
sorry I couldn't resist.