I am autistic my man, I am very intelligent and clever and I know what's up in the world. I have been through such trying times brother. My self awareness is through the roof with these troubled people. I stay well clear from traumatized individuals. England is riddled with such folk you speak of. I hope you are well brother and may God be with you in these dark times. My life has been so rough and from the start evil people have been after me mate. So I ignore most people these days because of how these people have treated me. I am looking forward to a bright and positive future.
Yeah i'm autistic too and I honestly have no idea how to deal with the majority of society, I live in the same rough area as the guy making this video actually. But man it's so fucking cooked I don't know what to do with anyone. My own family hates me because CNN told them too and that's the only justification they need. They've been after me from the start too, the first interactions that I ever had with my peers were bullying, it's continued all of my life into adulthood and workplace bullying and social exclusion made me quit my 5.5 years in the military as a combat engineer because I no longer trusted the people that I was supposed to be fighting alongside enough to throw them, also I didn't like the Canadian government working with terrorists to terrorize political dissonants. But They were supposed to be essentially second family members, They were supposed to be some of the people I trusted the most in the world. Potentially even trusting them more than my own friends even if they're not my friends. Instead they wanted to be weirdos and have some kind of anti-social high school like popularity contest. Like fuck off man and let me do my job I don't give a shit about how cool or liked you think you are.
I’m suffering from what I can only describe as either fatherhood and childhood traumatic experiences and have a dangerously low tolerance to other people’s bullshit on a whole it doesn’t help being around people that contribute to it instead of helping me heal from it this is why I’m truly not a people a person and love to be by myself a lot of the time call me boring, old, eccentric, even weird like many do I don’t honestly care I’ve heard it all before and I honestly enjoy living my life this way!
The best thing you can do in life is be yourself. and many people have loss the capacity to do that, you should continue trying to slowly establish your own boundaries and private thinking space so that you can continue to grow and think and heal on your own. It gets better very very very slowly in my experience like years and decades before you'll notice i'm feeling like a few percent better consistently compared to a few years ago.
Anytime my girl starts shit, I ignore her. Fuck trying to reason with the unreasonable. I am just so done with unnecessary drama and fights. Makes you just wanna die fr
Yeah it’s this feeling of like.. life is hard enough, we don’t need extra pain Then it’s a matter of becoming aware that they are just sitting in their own puddle of crap and I can separate my perception from that.
I've been living with PTSD with flashbacks and panic attacks for the last 3 years since I had total recall. I can't cope with things at times, don't trust anyone and go on like a A hole sometimes. Living with extreme trauma is exhausting mentally and emotionally.
I've struggled with ptsd almost my entire life the first time I tried to kill myself I was six years old. It's going to get better overtime by itself passively over the course of years and decades probably, the way that you heal from the ptsd symptoms is actually by conciously remembering and recalling everything that happened to you. Which is horrible and feels like absolute shit. But I can now recall the memory of my rape as a child for example and feel absolutely minimal neuroticism from it. via researching psychology and also taking a shit load of magic mushrooms one time, i've improved my ptsd symptoms since the age of 6 by about 70-80% roughly. It's required tens upon tens of thousands of hours of study and research and introspection. You can do it too gratingly slowly, but you can heal, don't give up hope, it's going to take a very long time.
Entitled ppl that use their trauma to get ahead and walk on others are the worst and they discredit others who are actually interested in helping themselves and others.
My ex mom cheated on her dad and her moms boyfriend use to touch my ex as a kid. The ex told me she hates her dad 1000 times. She was a narcissist with borderline personality disorder. She would rage and throw hissy fits over literally nothing. Never made any sense. I used to walk on egg shells. I stuck through it all. She would start fights out of nowhere. Everything was up and down. Hot and cold. Triggered over nothing. Mad over nothing. She discarded me a couple of months ago. She told a mutual friend she used to cheat on all her boyfriends, besides me (yea right lol). And apparently slept with another guy a week later. The relationship was so toxic. We could spend the entire day together, and then when I would go home, she would call half way and start a fight. She could never respect boundaries. She had no female friends. Once she locked me out of our hotel room over nothing. I would ask her what are you mad about. She never made sense. Nothing made sense. She would drive me crazy and had me questioning my own sanity. This video is almost like it was made about my past relationship. It’s so accurate. I wish I came across your videos earlier and not after she dumped me. Nothing made sense when I was going through it but now the fog has cleared.
I recommend looking up Doctor Sam Valkin, he's a anti-social personality researcher or some kind and contributed a lot too the modern theories surrounding narcissism. From memory of his teachings, it's likely she was a narcissistic who turned borderline when experiencing narcissistic mortification. Narrcissts when they can't get narrcisitic supply start going crazy, they can flip too symptoms of a different anti-social personality disorder before switching back to narrcism, and they can even convert themselves from a convert narrcistic to a schizoid narrcistic or become malignant. it's really interesting honestly intellectually. Sorry for any spelling errors too i'm dyslexic, although i'm incredibly good at reading and researching stem fields is one of my favourite hobbies.
Hard work, keeping to yourself, minding your own business and doing the right thing is not appreciated in the world today. Nowadays its all about partying, drinking, doing drugs, and having people feeling sorrow for the drinkers, that are doing it to theirselves. Doing the wrong things just wastes your time and energy.
dated two women with BPD. a few years ago, was engaged to one of them. the push/pull...back and forth...damaged me. I didn't know that they had BPD at the time or what BPD even was. the thing is insane.
Yeah I recommend looking up Doctor Sam Valkin or Professor Sam Valkin, i'm not sure exactly what he is, but he's a contributor to a lot of the modern theories around narrcisistic personality disorder and he's researched anti-social personality disorders extensively and has a lot of videos on narcissism schizoids, machoistism, sadism, Doctor Sam Valkin is actually a narrcisist himself and he's made a completely honest and open video talking about his direct psychological experience of having narrcistic personality disorder which was really gut wrenching honestly, they're not having a good time they're living in hell, which is why it feels like hell being around them.
It’s the same as post traumatic childhood experiences when they try to drag me into that dynamic in order to be like them only to break free every time its to much and still not an excuse on their behalf to be saying and doing what they say and do jog their excuses on what about post traumatic fatherhood/or motherhood dedicated to us men and women out their dealing with these particular people repeatedly living within a fantasy/delusion did they honestly stop to reflect or even consider thinking about that 9.5 times out of 10 they haven’t because they’re always doing their own thing!
Recently, I was running on the trail, and as I passed a middle-aged couple, the man raised his fist at me, unprovoked. As I looked into his eyes, i saw jealously and resentment. Dude literally wanted to beat me because I'm bettering myself. I mean... I do look good in shorts.
It’s ok to have trauma but it’s not ok to be unconscious of it. It’s those that lack self awareness and use their trauma as an excuse to abuse you are who you have to stay away from.
Right and it’s like they know how to stuff each thing they say with some sort of malicious intent whether it’s the nicest word they could ever say or not
@@katrielanderson3808 they are also takers, they never give you anything no compliments, suprises, no closure, no communication.. it's like they are there but they are also dead.. you are in a 'situationship' but most of the time you are no contact, probably because they are cheating. Living monsters.
Society ismore in trauma from the new hardships.divorces layoff insecurities and fears also adfing war news and bad coping habits all aggrevate the liw vibes
Tell females ... everyone has got Trauma get in line ... if they are sad for reasons they wont tell you tell them to leave your place too ... we arent dealing with sad dramatic women in 2024 and beyond
Irrelevant for people who aren't religious. If you aren't into nude eskimo mud wrestling, would you advise other people to participate in nude eskimo mud wrestling competitions? Church is fine for some religious people, others prefer to do it on their own terms, and many people aren't religious.
@@devilsoffspring5519 I understand. I'm not religious I got born again and sealed with Holy Spirit. I mentioned church not because of religion because I couldn't heal in a building but I'm talking about relations of healthy ground. I can't wait to eat figs with brothers and sisters in Christ tomorrow. I won't be tempted to go to Instagram, feel sorry for myself or be tempted, I'm free with free people.
I had bad trauma its not as death sentence i still have some but ive solved most of it by working on it but i feel like people don't know there still asleep i don't judge them but i know they don't know themselves
My baby daddy ruined himself cause of unresolved trauma. I got trauma myself too but I work on myself DAILY! Nobody wants to do the hard work, ppl want faster solutions! That's why I cringe when "experts" say you need to heal faster. No, the eff you do not! Healing is NOT linear and that's ok as long as you're doing the work! Even if it means being alone! I recognize my behavior was turning toxic so I quietly stayed to myself and started doing therapy and self help. As for baby daddy, welps despite giving all my best efforts to help him, I was drowning myself and I needed to get away as much as it killed me. He refused to get help. Now, he's in prison for quite some time 😢 But I can sleep at night because I fought so hard for us! But you really can't help someone, who refuses to face reality....
I can speak as a traumatized person and explain a bit how it works. Long story short, something happened that was enough for your limbic system to take charge of your survival mechanism and start having reflexes that are faster than thinking. It's stimuli response and unconscious. It's the part of the brain that controls everything, even breathing. Now people will confuse their kneejerk reaction with their personality, they'll feel like they're so much a victim that it's only fair because everybody is allegedly so much worse. In many cases, people who need to be so much more aware of how they are and what they might do are also the ones least likely to do that. They feel so victimised that they don't feel they have to work harder than everybody else on top of what they have
At the minute TJJ I’m still trying to capitalise on whatever I get monthly in money so that I’ve got more expenditure to train at the gym 6/7 days a week as well as do things I enjoy once the bills are paid that is I’d join you at the gym if you lived within the UK as I’ve been wanting to get back into it for quite some time champ!
It is a lot of work dealing with someone like that. Idk why some choose not to admit but it, it is draining. We all got problems. It's just that some of us are actually willing to find ways to solve em instead of constant compliaining. The whole time someone spends complaining about whatever the problem is to somone, that energy could go towards solving it. What's also annoying is when you give them advice when they clearly asked for it, but then want to turn around and get mad at you when they chose not to listen and take your advice. Like don't put you're baggage on to me. That's not what i signed up for. Save it for you're Theapist or Psych. I'm not being paid to listen to your trama. But when you actually want to help them, they refuse it. Like tf 😒 🙄 😑
You can't generalize. A lot of " the public" shows these low life traits. But if you have a great unique person , who is very accomplished in life. Well thats not a random person. Its an accomplished person.
Don’t be generalizing about people that have trauma in their life how fucking dare you even talk something like that? worst people that are in trauma. They can’t help a lot of things that happened to them, but you’re just talking about women with trauma, not men with trauma what it sounds like to me, traumas childhood trauma, sympathy, judgment, accusations, Terry Joe Junior.
Dude! Empaths are made by trauma. The "Chosen ones" are trauma victims. Watch out for unhealed trauma or people who use their trauma as a tool for empathy and as a weapon.
I am autistic my man, I am very intelligent and clever and I know what's up in the world. I have been through such trying times brother. My self awareness is through the roof with these troubled people. I stay well clear from traumatized individuals. England is riddled with such folk you speak of. I hope you are well brother and may God be with you in these dark times. My life has been so rough and from the start evil people have been after me mate. So I ignore most people these days because of how these people have treated me. I am looking forward to a bright and positive future.
England is BAD man
Yeah i'm autistic too and I honestly have no idea how to deal with the majority of society, I live in the same rough area as the guy making this video actually. But man it's so fucking cooked I don't know what to do with anyone. My own family hates me because CNN told them too and that's the only justification they need. They've been after me from the start too, the first interactions that I ever had with my peers were bullying, it's continued all of my life into adulthood and workplace bullying and social exclusion made me quit my 5.5 years in the military as a combat engineer because I no longer trusted the people that I was supposed to be fighting alongside enough to throw them, also I didn't like the Canadian government working with terrorists to terrorize political dissonants. But They were supposed to be essentially second family members, They were supposed to be some of the people I trusted the most in the world. Potentially even trusting them more than my own friends even if they're not my friends. Instead they wanted to be weirdos and have some kind of anti-social high school like popularity contest. Like fuck off man and let me do my job I don't give a shit about how cool or liked you think you are.
I hear ya sir. The area around Dc is absolutely saturated with destructive damage individuals.
I’m suffering from what I can only describe as either fatherhood and childhood traumatic experiences and have a dangerously low tolerance to other people’s bullshit on a whole it doesn’t help being around people that contribute to it instead of helping me heal from it this is why I’m truly not a people a person and love to be by myself a lot of the time call me boring, old, eccentric, even weird like many do I don’t honestly care I’ve heard it all before and I honestly enjoy living my life this way!
The best thing you can do in life is be yourself. and many people have loss the capacity to do that, you should continue trying to slowly establish your own boundaries and private thinking space so that you can continue to grow and think and heal on your own. It gets better very very very slowly in my experience like years and decades before you'll notice i'm feeling like a few percent better consistently compared to a few years ago.
Anytime my girl starts shit, I ignore her. Fuck trying to reason with the unreasonable. I am just so done with unnecessary drama and fights. Makes you just wanna die fr
Yeah it’s this feeling of like.. life is hard enough, we don’t need extra pain
Then it’s a matter of becoming aware that they are just sitting in their own puddle of crap and I can separate my perception from that.
Leave her
I've been living with PTSD with flashbacks and panic attacks for the last 3 years since I had total recall. I can't cope with things at times, don't trust anyone and go on like a A hole sometimes. Living with extreme trauma is exhausting mentally and emotionally.
I've struggled with ptsd almost my entire life the first time I tried to kill myself I was six years old. It's going to get better overtime by itself passively over the course of years and decades probably, the way that you heal from the ptsd symptoms is actually by conciously remembering and recalling everything that happened to you. Which is horrible and feels like absolute shit. But I can now recall the memory of my rape as a child for example and feel absolutely minimal neuroticism from it. via researching psychology and also taking a shit load of magic mushrooms one time, i've improved my ptsd symptoms since the age of 6 by about 70-80% roughly. It's required tens upon tens of thousands of hours of study and research and introspection. You can do it too gratingly slowly, but you can heal, don't give up hope, it's going to take a very long time.
Entitled ppl that use their trauma to get ahead and walk on others are the worst and they discredit others who are actually interested in helping themselves and others.
Yeah what’s so dumb is even your own parents will do this to you in some cases
Shit most people are traumatized. I stay away from toxic anything. ❤
My ex mom cheated on her dad and her moms boyfriend use to touch my ex as a kid. The ex told me she hates her dad 1000 times. She was a narcissist with borderline personality disorder. She would rage and throw hissy fits over literally nothing. Never made any sense. I used to walk on egg shells. I stuck through it all. She would start fights out of nowhere. Everything was up and down. Hot and cold. Triggered over nothing. Mad over nothing. She discarded me a couple of months ago. She told a mutual friend she used to cheat on all her boyfriends, besides me (yea right lol). And apparently slept with another guy a week later. The relationship was so toxic. We could spend the entire day together, and then when I would go home, she would call half way and start a fight. She could never respect boundaries. She had no female friends. Once she locked me out of our hotel room over nothing. I would ask her what are you mad about. She never made sense. Nothing made sense. She would drive me crazy and had me questioning my own sanity. This video is almost like it was made about my past relationship. It’s so accurate. I wish I came across your videos earlier and not after she dumped me. Nothing made sense when I was going through it but now the fog has cleared.
I recommend looking up Doctor Sam Valkin, he's a anti-social personality researcher or some kind and contributed a lot too the modern theories surrounding narcissism. From memory of his teachings, it's likely she was a narcissistic who turned borderline when experiencing narcissistic mortification. Narrcissts when they can't get narrcisitic supply start going crazy, they can flip too symptoms of a different anti-social personality disorder before switching back to narrcism, and they can even convert themselves from a convert narrcistic to a schizoid narrcistic or become malignant. it's really interesting honestly intellectually. Sorry for any spelling errors too i'm dyslexic, although i'm incredibly good at reading and researching stem fields is one of my favourite hobbies.
Hard work, keeping to yourself, minding your own business and doing the right thing is not appreciated in the world today. Nowadays its all about partying, drinking, doing drugs, and having people feeling sorrow for the drinkers, that are doing it to theirselves. Doing the wrong things just wastes your time and energy.
dated two women with BPD. a few years ago, was engaged to one of them.
the push/pull...back and forth...damaged me.
I didn't know that they had BPD at the time or what BPD even was.
the thing is insane.
Yeah I recommend looking up Doctor Sam Valkin or Professor Sam Valkin, i'm not sure exactly what he is, but he's a contributor to a lot of the modern theories around narrcisistic personality disorder and he's researched anti-social personality disorders extensively and has a lot of videos on narcissism schizoids, machoistism, sadism, Doctor Sam Valkin is actually a narrcisist himself and he's made a completely honest and open video talking about his direct psychological experience of having narrcistic personality disorder which was really gut wrenching honestly, they're not having a good time they're living in hell, which is why it feels like hell being around them.
They are fuckd and crazy, the silent treatment, and the block unblock game almost got me suicidal.
Thank you for speaking about this 🤞❤️
Bro your videos are unreal , I relate to the topics ur speaking about so much its like ur reading my mind
It’s the same as post traumatic childhood experiences when they try to drag me into that dynamic in order to be like them only to break free every time its to much and still not an excuse on their behalf to be saying and doing what they say and do jog their excuses on what about post traumatic fatherhood/or motherhood dedicated to us men and women out their dealing with these particular people repeatedly living within a fantasy/delusion did they honestly stop to reflect or even consider thinking about that 9.5 times out of 10 they haven’t because they’re always doing their own thing!
Recently, I was running on the trail, and as I passed a middle-aged couple, the man raised his fist at me, unprovoked. As I looked into his eyes, i saw jealously and resentment. Dude literally wanted to beat me because I'm bettering myself. I mean... I do look good in shorts.
I had similar experience
2020 traumatize everybody
Not really, it just bored everyone to death. I wouldn't call it traumatic. Boring and somewhat isolating but hardly traumatic.
Lol ,traumatic negative emotional toxicity is ruining lives!
Drama is my kryptonite. Now matter how attractive the situation is. I like a peaceful life.
It’s ok to have trauma but it’s not ok to be unconscious of it. It’s those that lack self awareness and use their trauma as an excuse to abuse you are who you have to stay away from.
Your uploads always make my day. 💪
Yeah it's nice to have someone talking about these specific things.
Ur that! M- bodiments,of Xcellence.
You're so right! In fact all your videos are on point.
Oh they know who we are…
Rampant narcissistic tendencies
Thanks TJJ
Narcs with their tactics of the silent treatment, ghosting and discards are good at giving you PTSD. And in the worst case they get you suicidal.
Right and it’s like they know how to stuff each thing they say with some sort of malicious intent whether it’s the nicest word they could ever say or not
@@katrielanderson3808 they are also takers, they never give you anything no compliments, suprises, no closure, no communication.. it's like they are there but they are also dead.. you are in a 'situationship' but most of the time you are no contact, probably because they are cheating. Living monsters.
That’s just awful.
@@unvaccinatedmensclub Yes it is.. screw them.
Society ismore in trauma from the new hardships.divorces layoff insecurities and fears also adfing war news and bad coping habits all aggrevate the liw vibes
❤thanks, brother!
Have a good day, Wolfie. 👋🏼
Tell females ... everyone has got Trauma get in line ... if they are sad for reasons they wont tell you tell them to leave your place too ... we arent dealing with sad dramatic women in 2024 and beyond
Inspiring!
Maybe have a test in the government and get people fined for walking around with it.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 exactly!
Go to church where we heal together 💜🤍💙❤️
Irrelevant for people who aren't religious. If you aren't into nude eskimo mud wrestling, would you advise other people to participate in nude eskimo mud wrestling competitions?
Church is fine for some religious people, others prefer to do it on their own terms, and many people aren't religious.
@@devilsoffspring5519 I understand. I'm not religious I got born again and sealed with Holy Spirit. I mentioned church not because of religion because I couldn't heal in a building but I'm talking about relations of healthy ground.
I can't wait to eat figs with brothers and sisters in Christ tomorrow. I won't be tempted to go to Instagram, feel sorry for myself or be tempted, I'm free with free people.
I had bad trauma its not as death sentence i still have some but ive solved most of it by working on it but i feel like people don't know there still asleep i don't judge them but i know they don't know themselves
My baby daddy ruined himself cause of unresolved trauma. I got trauma myself too but I work on myself DAILY! Nobody wants to do the hard work, ppl want faster solutions! That's why I cringe when "experts" say you need to heal faster. No, the eff you do not! Healing is NOT linear and that's ok as long as you're doing the work! Even if it means being alone! I recognize my behavior was turning toxic so I quietly stayed to myself and started doing therapy and self help. As for baby daddy, welps despite giving all my best efforts to help him, I was drowning myself and I needed to get away as much as it killed me. He refused to get help. Now, he's in prison for quite some time 😢 But I can sleep at night because I fought so hard for us! But you really can't help someone, who refuses to face reality....
Trauma= Drama
Not necessarily, it just makes many people the walking dead. Not dramatic at all, just empty and deathly boring.
Waz'nt, Medicinol -Marijuana; Nvented,4-Traumatized-Peeps?!..
17.50
Wow. Sht. Terry analyzed all this.
I can speak as a traumatized person and explain a bit how it works. Long story short, something happened that was enough for your limbic system to take charge of your survival mechanism and start having reflexes that are faster than thinking. It's stimuli response and unconscious. It's the part of the brain that controls everything, even breathing. Now people will confuse their kneejerk reaction with their personality, they'll feel like they're so much a victim that it's only fair because everybody is allegedly so much worse. In many cases, people who need to be so much more aware of how they are and what they might do are also the ones least likely to do that. They feel so victimised that they don't feel they have to work harder than everybody else on top of what they have
Light, Quaillez- Darknessez,& satanoes; FEARZJHEZuS2!
At the minute TJJ I’m still trying to capitalise on whatever I get monthly in money so that I’ve got more expenditure to train at the gym 6/7 days a week as well as do things I enjoy once the bills are paid that is I’d join you at the gym if you lived within the UK as I’ve been wanting to get back into it for quite some time champ!
No. I don’t have trauma, I just don’t tolerate folks trying to “play in my face”.
Those are two different things.
👸🏻
Finally let’s just say the truth
Peeps, R- Mimicking; wuthey been Ndoctrinated by.
The cross is only a milepost between HongKong and Berlin
Terry you can have fun and still be at peace with yourself. Too much dualistic thinking. Just be conscious when you experience these novel things.
It is a lot of work dealing with someone like that. Idk why some choose not to admit but it, it is draining. We all got problems. It's just that some of us are actually willing to find ways to solve em instead of constant compliaining. The whole time someone spends complaining about whatever the problem is to somone, that energy could go towards solving it. What's also annoying is when you give them advice when they clearly asked for it, but then want to turn around and get mad at you when they chose not to listen and take your advice. Like don't put you're baggage on to me. That's not what i signed up for. Save it for you're Theapist or Psych. I'm not being paid to listen to your trama. But when you actually want to help them, they refuse it. Like tf 😒 🙄 😑
I noticed, it doesn't seem you can block or hide users on here.
You can only " report " them.
W.out, JhezUs/Christizin=No, Age- Limits; on satanoes'- Mizery'z,of Darknessez.
💯
Parents are covert narcs. Called them out on it.
You can't generalize. A lot of
" the public" shows these low life traits. But if you have a great unique person , who is very accomplished in life. Well thats not a random person. Its an accomplished person.
Damaged goods
Don’t be generalizing about people that have trauma in their life how fucking dare you even talk something like that? worst people that are in trauma. They can’t help a lot of things that happened to them, but you’re just talking about women with trauma, not men with trauma what it sounds like to me, traumas childhood trauma, sympathy, judgment, accusations, Terry Joe Junior.
+100000000000
Dude! Empaths are made by trauma. The "Chosen ones" are trauma victims.
Watch out for unhealed trauma or people who use their trauma as a tool for empathy and as a weapon.
We don't bother people or abuse them, narcs do.
At less chosen ones & empaths are self aware of what's going on.
Forged through pain.💪😭
Ive already dealt with others baggage 🛄🛅.