Why I Quit My Banking Job and Moved to Dubai

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  • Опубликовано: 12 дек 2024

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  • @ShondaD_
    @ShondaD_ Год назад +235

    My reason for wanting to leave the US is just a deceitful and wicked place. Ppl are getting killed by the police, bullying is becoming ok, working until you’re burned out with very little pay, etc. I’m definitely not rushing because I know moving is a huge deal especially relocating to a different country is stressful and a lot of work. But somewhere has to be better than here. Congrats on your move🎉🎉

    • @Lamideelizabeth
      @Lamideelizabeth  Год назад +30

      I feel you girl those are very valid reasons, I hope you find somewhere that genuinely better and more suitable for you soon 🤍

  • @lifewithtoricai
    @lifewithtoricai Год назад +15

    I moved from Jamaica 🇯🇲 to Canada for work 9 years ago. Cherish the journey over the years it molds me into the person I am today

  • @Lucylu723
    @Lucylu723 Год назад +76

    Honestly WORD I completely agree with you. *If you are the problem,* whether you move/ change your environment, basically do nothing to solve the fact that you are the problem, *you better believe that the new environment you choose to run away to will also have the same set of problems that you had in the previous environment.*
    *When solving problems, dig at the roots instead of just hacking at the leaves.*
    *- Anthony J. D'Angelo*

  • @london_m3136
    @london_m3136 Год назад +81

    You can literally see how at peace and content you are!. On that note of complacency you touched on. Another thing, that I’ve learnt the hard way 🤡….Is that fear destroys everything. A big difference lies in seeing a real problem that could appear with a certain goal in mind versus adopting a fear based mindset that ultimately just takes you no where. I would haven’t met my career goals if I didn’t sort the *lens* that I view certain opportunities and goals through. Amazing video, love this for you 🤍

  • @Devamsha
    @Devamsha Год назад +34

    'you can be content but not complacent' hit the nail on the head for how i think about this too. this is super inspiring and you can defo see your contentment through the lens!!!

  • @id5711
    @id5711 Год назад +49

    Love the point you made about one not needing to be dissatisfied before making changes/moving on. All the best on your journey - love your content!

  • @aliinwonderland656
    @aliinwonderland656 Год назад +16

    Good for you. I went to Dubai for a trip last October. It was life changing. The vibe, the pace, the people~ just everything was different. I plan on returning very soon. Take care ❤

    • @Jetblack1979red
      @Jetblack1979red Год назад

      What a vibe! ruclips.net/video/LAhyeyI85S0/видео.html

  • @samuelasanya
    @samuelasanya Год назад +9

    Very inspiring Lamide. This is for everyone who is looking to make that transition to a new job, especially when one feels like they are stuck in a old boring or routine based job where they keep hitting a brick wall when trying to climb the corporate ladder. When in reality all they are seeking for is that career progression that will make them level up in all areas of their lives. Thanks for sharing Lamide.. See you at the Own Your Money Webinar.

  • @chrissiec2123
    @chrissiec2123 Год назад +1

    Lámidé is completely in her element and I love to see it. Great to witness you blossom into the woman God meant you to be. You're absolutely lovely. 💖✨

  • @gifty2595
    @gifty2595 Год назад +52

    You’re a pacemaker and I wish you the best in your new journey. Your work ethic and planners have really helped me as I transition into my new career. Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @carolineadepoju2224
    @carolineadepoju2224 Год назад +11

    Thank you so much for sharing as always. Absolutely love the contentment and complacency angle. However desperation isn’t always bad, sometimes you just know deep inside that you need to be somewhere else or doing something else or a different career and many times one isn’t even 100% sure what that next thing should be at the start, but taking that step and moving out of the uncomfortable situation sometimes goes a long way. It’s not always crystal clear and you’re absolutely right, one can’t negotiate properly from that standpoint but it’s a move in a forward direction out of that uncomfortable situation.

  • @Ebaide
    @Ebaide Год назад +59

    I loved the part where you said you were negotiating from a place of comfort so you didn't appear and weren't even desperate👏

    • @mutomboinprogress
      @mutomboinprogress Год назад

      This!!! 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

    • @issa.c3230
      @issa.c3230 Год назад +1

      Content around how to effectively negotiate salary/must haves would be great!

  • @darrellmccall6100
    @darrellmccall6100 Год назад +7

    Fact…I moved to China after an extremely successful career in the USA. I have residences in both countries. Safety was the trigger for me.

  • @michaelcarter6301
    @michaelcarter6301 Год назад +3

    Very excited for you! You're got a good head on your shoulders and wise beyond your years. Congratulations. 😀

  • @gbemmyrahmah
    @gbemmyrahmah Год назад +2

    This is a very inspiring and beautiful video. Lamide never disappoint. I literally was glued to my screen, enjoying your cute smile and happiness. Have a great time in Dubai.

  • @AahanaChhabra
    @AahanaChhabra 11 месяцев назад

    Best vid on the topic I've seen so far.

  • @misschattabox112
    @misschattabox112 Год назад +9

    Please could you do a video on the actual moving process into Dubai, if you could talk about how you found accomomdation, what cost of living is like out there like food shopping for eg, making friends etc that would be great ! X

  • @SherG2774
    @SherG2774 Год назад +4

    Brilliantly said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Congratulations on your move and for progressing even in a place of contentment.🎉🎉🎉 This is called living the dream and honouring our parents desire for successful life for their offspring.

  • @abdisemed9640
    @abdisemed9640 Год назад +1

    Theres a book on this called the happiness paradox. The idea is by chasing happiness/contentment you are constantly addressing your lack of happiness which in turn makes you more unhappy. So moving to chase happiness is counter productive. The trick is to focus on growing as a person over time.

  • @ebunblessing1339
    @ebunblessing1339 Год назад +2

    Welcome to Dubai. I wish you all the best on your new journey 🙂

  • @backstagewithcaitlin
    @backstagewithcaitlin Год назад +24

    Would love to see you vlog your journey with finding a place to rent.. how it works compared to UK, prices to expect etc. I was working in Saudi Arabia at the back end of last year and would be keen to work in Dubai too so would be useful 🙏🏼

    • @Lamideelizabeth
      @Lamideelizabeth  Год назад +9

      Coming up soon, already in the editing process!

  • @chiamakaenansofor
    @chiamakaenansofor Год назад

    I love how you explained this, contentment vs complacency. Thank you for sharing

  • @omowhanre
    @omowhanre Год назад +1

    We’ll talk about the difference between complement v contentment when you’re 28-35 and wants and desires change. But for real, it’s good that you’re doing this now rather than later.

  • @withCy
    @withCy Год назад +2

    "If the problem is inside of you, going to another place is not going to necessarily solve that problem"

  • @RachelCumberbatch
    @RachelCumberbatch Год назад +10

    Really inspiring well done ..🙌

  • @Babyk4315
    @Babyk4315 Год назад +1

    I would love to see you making a video of a day in the life in Dubai!!

  • @guvstad
    @guvstad Год назад

    enjoyable candid video Lamide
    thanks

  • @JVTVable
    @JVTVable Год назад +1

    Big move! i know the money is long. Congrats 🥳

  • @scarlettkhan9667
    @scarlettkhan9667 Год назад +2

    Dubai is the new New York. Back in the days people used to dream working in New York. Now it's Dubai ⭐🌙

  • @FinanceDee
    @FinanceDee Год назад +3

    Inspirational and very wise! Contentment is a blessing, but complacency can be such a dangerous thing so well done for fighting against it.
    I’ve lived in a few different countries and always remembered if I don’t like it, I can always go back to the U.K. It’s not a failure staying out of the U.K. or returning to the U.K., it means you’ve grown and experienced and know what you do or don’t want.

  • @kellyannmealia
    @kellyannmealia Год назад

    Great advice! Mindset is everything ❤

  • @prosperwilliams
    @prosperwilliams Год назад +1

    I’m pleased you’ve been inspired. ~ Prosper Williams ❤

  • @YourRichLifeMedia
    @YourRichLifeMedia Год назад +2

    I recently bought in Italy and people always say "I hate the US too" and Im like no, I dont hate the US. I just have always vibed with Europe and wanted to and was fiscally able to do so.

  • @temo.m
    @temo.m Год назад

    Thank you very much for this.✨️ I really appreciate that you shared your thought process and the whole chat about content vs complacent. Great video which is really helpful to me!

  • @deedots2878
    @deedots2878 Год назад +1

    Dubai is wonderful, clean and safe, plenty of opportunity and so friendly to westerners. I have two children, family and pets and I would still uproot.

  • @jamal6423
    @jamal6423 Год назад

    yh if the problem is you moving somewhere else isn't gonna help. you spoke very well

  • @SaskiaFrimpong
    @SaskiaFrimpong Год назад +6

    Could you please do a video on how to salary negotiate?

  • @opalallen9476
    @opalallen9476 Год назад +12

    Personally for me majority of my problems were external so when I moved things noticeably improved😉

  • @alikazi3792
    @alikazi3792 Год назад +7

    great work - why am I hearing a slight american accent coming tru LOOL, dubai is getting to ya. inspiring vid!

  • @nameisamine
    @nameisamine Год назад +18

    Hi Lamidé! It would be cool after you settle in to make a video about the pros & cons of living in Dubai. The lifestyle. Work/Life balance. Social scene. Transport links. The laws & political climate: which can be a dealbreaker for some😅 I’ve met people who take a moral stance against Dubai as a city continuing to be built on human trafficking, modern slavery, and the exploitative Kafala system, importing labour from the developing world,confiscating passports, and forcing them to work, sometimes without pay, which has been condemned by human rights groups worldwide… I know there was similar discourse on Qatar using the same system during the World Cup. How do you reconcile those darker sides of Dubai that blue collar migrants face and contrast it with the benefits of people like yourself living as more privileged white collar expats in Dubai? Would be interesting to hear your perspective.

    • @codedealers7501
      @codedealers7501 Год назад +9

      how do we justify it living in Londo?> this city was built on the same exploitation too

    • @hadeyoambaro1704
      @hadeyoambaro1704 Год назад

      The BRITISH empire has been the catalyst for most of the worlds suffering. Through colonialism (Common wealth) and slavery in the Caribbean.
      Most of the lords in the House of Lords and other barons/dukes are direct beneficiaries from these past systems.
      Point being don’t throw rocks in glass houses, the west is in no position to lecture.

    • @Jay-Kay-Buwembo
      @Jay-Kay-Buwembo Год назад

      @@codedealers7501 🤔 maybe if you look back to the slave trade, but London was not hand built by an exploited human trafficked underclass who work in horrific conditions and die in the thousands on construction sites.

  • @olukemiadeola4990
    @olukemiadeola4990 Год назад

    Am subscribing immediately love 💖

  • @AM-qg3xq
    @AM-qg3xq Год назад +6

    Congratulations!!! what website did you use to apply to jobs in dubai

  • @missletwin9140
    @missletwin9140 Год назад

    Congratulations so pleased for you 🎉❤

  • @Lucylu723
    @Lucylu723 Год назад +13

    Both you and Aliyah Maria Bee moved to Dubahi at a similar time. First I seen her go and then next thing you know a video from you pops up to day you've gone too😂😅 That's why I was thinking oh wow seems like Dubahi is the next UK or something lol

    • @Lucylu723
      @Lucylu723 Год назад +1

      In addition to this, I met a girl in real life and she started university during Covid-19. An offer was given to her to have real estate in Dubai and now she lives there and works there.
      I remember there was actually a period where everyone from the UK seemed to pretty much be holidaying in Dubahi (I believe this was like a year ago) and nowadays people are migrating there.
      I guess that's why everyone is like 'everyone is moving to Dubahi' LOL😂😭
      I am here to say that I have never been and I do plan to visit in the future, but for now I do not see myself moving there. I like the UK😊

  • @josetshim
    @josetshim Год назад +1

    I am considering moving to dubai mainly for financial reasons, I live in Belgium and taxes are overwhelming almost 60% of all my earnings...

  • @aaakk00
    @aaakk00 Год назад +17

    Can you do a video on building wealth while paying rent in an expensive city? I just graduated last summer and am working in London, but it's practically impossible to save/invest more than £600 a month with these rent prices. Half of this goes towards my emergency fund and the other half is invested in an index fund, but I want to accelerate my wealth building.

    • @musiclover0445
      @musiclover0445 Год назад +1

      You need other streams other than your job babe xx that’ll help a lot. Or move outside of London to where you can commute but the lifestyle is cheaper. Birmingham/ Manchester, or closer, Milton Keynes, borehamwood, Watford… but definitely look at ways to add other streams of Income

    • @rubzziiee
      @rubzziiee Год назад +2

      I think she stayed at home to save so you might need to increase income or move out of London 😢

    • @potato1084
      @potato1084 Год назад

      @@rubzziiee I did the same 😂 The only way I was able to build up my savings and invest was because I lived at home. Anyone else I know who moved out and rents struggles. Rent is a trap.

    • @potato1084
      @potato1084 Год назад +2

      @@musiclover0445 Watford and Borehamwood as well as other commuter towns can sometimes be even more expensive than just living in a bad part of London esp Watford (tbh watford’s pretty grim too). House shares or living at home are the only ways any Londoner is able to build wealth here.

  • @trit4761
    @trit4761 Год назад

    Youve been such an inspiration for me personally and its been so amazing seeing your journey! We have so many things in common (24F this year) and its such a pity that we live an ocean apart 😩 can you give us some recs of who to listen to or read about wealth building lamide? 💗luv from Australia

  • @lisolveltd7938
    @lisolveltd7938 Год назад

    Thanks lamide! This is so inspiring!

  • @scarlettkhan9667
    @scarlettkhan9667 Год назад

    Can you make a vlog about being new to Dubai- where to live, what to watch out for, the weather, which people it wouldn't suit, is it difficult, how much does it cost, is it safe etc.
    The shopping malls, restaurants.

  • @Ebaide
    @Ebaide Год назад +5

    Can you do like your upskill process video (if that makes sense), you knew your stuff and they were willing to pay for it. Is it just from your work experience, or do you have extra things you do that made you better? That's what I mean

  • @Lucylu723
    @Lucylu723 Год назад +14

    One last thing I want to say is that what you have is not happiness but joy. With joy nobody can take that from you, but happiness is a feeling that comes and goes. Joy is something innate that stands no matter the circumstance you are in.
    looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; *who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross,* despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God.
    Hebrews 12:2 KJV
    Because Jesus had Joy, he was able to endure being crucified on the cross. Happiness is a feeling and Joy is innate because it comes from the Holy Spirit. Therefore no matter the external circumstance, you will be able to see it through with joy.

    • @Lamideelizabeth
      @Lamideelizabeth  Год назад +3

      yess 100%, I actually wanted to touch on that but completely forgot. Happiness is definitely a temporary emotion. Thanks for sharing 💕

  • @garlfieldo6798
    @garlfieldo6798 Год назад +2

    What career will you pursue instead of banking: any plans

  • @JT-tx2ns
    @JT-tx2ns Год назад +1

    I'm excited about your journey in a new country! that has been my dream too!

    • @Lamideelizabeth
      @Lamideelizabeth  Год назад

      thank you babe, get out there and for it 🫶🏽

  • @Bekemer
    @Bekemer Год назад +1

    How are you managing your property in the UK, lets say if your tenants have an issue with the house how do you fix it form where you are, just an example

  • @stembabe740
    @stembabe740 Год назад +2

    How is the cost of living their vs London ,
    how much further does your money go there even though you earn more xxx

  • @MissMollymolles
    @MissMollymolles Год назад

    Love content like this! Thinking of moving as well and feel just the same. Can't wait to see your journey in Dubai 🤗

  • @isaac80745
    @isaac80745 8 месяцев назад

    I see a lot of women in my class or around getting these banking and tech jobs making six figures. It affects the dating market a bit but not really if you’re looking for something suitable. I’m working slowly making six figures but it will take me a little longer to build up.

  • @deborahgold
    @deborahgold Год назад

    Love this 🥺🥺

  • @abigailhuarisandoval1870
    @abigailhuarisandoval1870 Год назад

    Hi, love your videos. Could you share what podcast/ books?

  • @876LND
    @876LND Год назад

    Subscribed❤

  • @tsemayekekema2918
    @tsemayekekema2918 Год назад +4

    Can you do banking in Dubai without knowledge of Arabic?
    And is it true that accommodation & taxation are cheaper in Dubai?

    • @Lamideelizabeth
      @Lamideelizabeth  Год назад +10

      Yes almost everyone speaks English here, and if you work for a global company you’ll be fine not sure about a local one though in terms of whether you need to speak Arabic

  • @JoanittaMarkin
    @JoanittaMarkin Год назад

    Love this! Did you do any qualifications during your Grad Scheme, if so what were they?

  • @aishatalli8305
    @aishatalli8305 Год назад

    Inspirational!

  • @naturesoundsandscenery
    @naturesoundsandscenery Год назад

    I wanted to like this video many times

  • @aaakk00
    @aaakk00 Год назад +1

    Also can we get another webinar on getting started in property? If not, could you do a webinar on starting, growing and maintaining an online side hustle?

    • @Lamideelizabeth
      @Lamideelizabeth  Год назад +3

      Property webinar will definitely be reloaded this year!

  • @MacAddictForever
    @MacAddictForever Год назад +1

    What role are you working in now?😊

  • @kardiiobi321
    @kardiiobi321 Год назад

    Hi lamidee please how did you search for jobs in Dubai basically I mean how did you search for jobs please recommend for me site please thank you for your transparency sis 🔥🔥🔥 await your reply

  • @cypher4689
    @cypher4689 Год назад

    Smart kid 💪🤓

  • @africanaissues4294
    @africanaissues4294 Год назад +1

    Are you still in credit risk?

  • @Markeshathalender
    @Markeshathalender Год назад

    I’m getting ready to leave United States and move to Dubai myself

  • @garlfieldo6798
    @garlfieldo6798 Год назад

    Please answer because I’m studying banking too

  • @fideliascenes7679
    @fideliascenes7679 Год назад

    Congrats 🎉

  • @vuyombuduma6782
    @vuyombuduma6782 11 месяцев назад

    Does your employer keep your passport?

  • @addingtonmosesnsobila1302
    @addingtonmosesnsobila1302 Год назад +4

    Lamideee🎉🎉

  • @Isabelm0rriss
    @Isabelm0rriss Год назад

    Aliyah marie bee youtuber has also moved to dubai

  • @fevenghebru4642
    @fevenghebru4642 Год назад

    Can you tell us how you found the job?

  • @KorisnickoIme84
    @KorisnickoIme84 Год назад

    I'm curios to know what is an income threshold for her ideal man :D

  • @Ebaide
    @Ebaide Год назад +3

    Firsttttt

  • @mostrawberry9696
    @mostrawberry9696 Год назад

    Its very difficult to find a job in Dubai

  • @randomguy56789
    @randomguy56789 Год назад

    Congratulations and I’ll pass on going to do by I’d rather live in Antarctica where there’s no people just Penguins to hang out with and they don’t talk so yeah

  • @Ngami_mp
    @Ngami_mp Год назад

    content idea: tasting dubai food.....grocery shopping haul in Dubai

  • @maggief1851
    @maggief1851 Год назад

    My cousin is in Dubai

  • @christinemcliesh7628
    @christinemcliesh7628 Год назад

    More videos on your life in Dubai

  • @sunnygrace17
    @sunnygrace17 Год назад

    Jeremiah 7 :12-21(KJV) But go ye now unto my place which was in Shiloh, where I set my name at the first, and see what I did to it for the wickedness of my people Israel.
    And now, because ye have done all these works, saith the LORD, and I spake unto you, rising up early and speaking, but ye heard not; and I called you, but ye answered not;
    Therefore will I do unto this house, which is called by my name, wherein ye trust, and unto the place which I gave to you and to your fathers, as I have done to Shiloh.
    And I will cast you out of my sight, as I have cast out all your brethren, even the whole seed of Ephraim.
    Therefore pray not thou for this people, neither lift up cry nor prayer for them, neither make intercession to me: for I will not hear thee.
    Seest thou not what they do in the cities of Judah and in the streets of Jerusalem?
    The children gather wood, and the fathers kindle the fire, and the women knead their dough, to make cakes to the queen of heaven, and to pour out drink offerings unto other gods, that they may provoke me to anger.
    Do they provoke me to anger? saith the LORD: do they not provoke themselves to the confusion of their own faces?
    Therefore thus saith the Lord GOD; Behold, mine anger and my fury shall be poured out upon this place, upon man, and upon beast, and upon the trees of the field, and upon the fruit of the ground; and it shall burn, and shall not be quenched.
    Thus saith the LORD of hosts, the God of Israel; Put your burnt offerings unto your sacrifices, and eat flesh.

  • @thatssorima
    @thatssorima Год назад +1

    I literally opened RUclips to google moving to dubai and before I could search it up this video was recommended! I literally don’t even follow you 😂

  • @aziznuhu3151
    @aziznuhu3151 Год назад

    Am in Dubai please can we mt

  • @kaillee6279
    @kaillee6279 Год назад

    Recommend some rich people I can listen to.. Thank you

  • @daeshavvn
    @daeshavvn Год назад

    f1 would be cool

  • @fhtheking3661
    @fhtheking3661 Год назад

    ❤🌹🙏🏾💪🏾

  • @heyitsbecca11
    @heyitsbecca11 Год назад

    1:41 Aliyah Maria Bee has moved to Dubai 😂😂😂

  • @victoriaazubuike7981
    @victoriaazubuike7981 Год назад +2

    Love the point on complacency & contentment! 🤎

  • @noname-we1rf
    @noname-we1rf Год назад +1

    There is a RUclipsr from Camaroon who reports on Nigeria name Ajim,and another young Nigerian female business woman who moved from NYC to Dubai.if you want their contact let me know

  • @mylifeupdates.2625
    @mylifeupdates.2625 Год назад

    Hey there am in Dubai too can we be friends I need some guidance creating content.

  • @persialibby4317
    @persialibby4317 Год назад

    I’m looking to move, I have family in Dubai. Would love to chat to you more personally if this is possible?
    Could I DM you on Instagram?