Wow, proud of you, you did the right thing. Everything you did is for love. This couple is very very lucky to have you in their lives and taking care them like the way you did.
Txhob tu siab os mog tej hauj lwm txog cov me nyuam lawv yeej muaj lub siab coj li ntawd kawg. Tiam sis zoo siab uas muaj tus hlub koj tub thaiv koj txog tej Kev nyuaj siab lawm os tus noob.
Pab hlub koj kawg os me niam hluas ! Vim yog lub neej Thawm u ntxom2 nyem es thiaj tuaj . Cov menyuam no los yeej phem kawg thiab yeej Yuav tsi tau lub neej ua ! Yus hluas2 los yus yog lub npe niam quash poob kuamuag ces yeej Yuav khawm rau cov neeg ua phem ! Thov vajtswv hlub thiab ntiv thaiv koj nrog rau tsev neeg
She has a great heart and she is patience. A woman like this is hard to find, its not about the look but the heart that's matters, good luck to her in the future.
To those damn children: You all should be ashamed of yourself. So what if you guys are the children? Did you care for your parents until the end of time? No. Your step mom did. She deserves the gifts that your parents left her. You guys are rotten to cord. It's embarrassing.
These are the reasons why we all need to start writing out Trusts and Wills. This way it’s all black and white and clearly stated who gets what. If there is no iron clad, problems like this occur. Consider this Hmong’s!
Tsi txhob tu siab os tus me niam tsev aws nco ntsoov tias cov me nyuam ntawm tsi yog yus yug os muaj ib txhias twb yog yus yug kiag twb muaj teeb meem no los maj yom
Lub neej zoo li no twg tsis raug ces tsis paub os peb ua neeg nyob yus tsis txhob muab luag thuam tagtag tsam ho los raug yus ces yuav quaj kua muag tsis los os nim no lub ntuj nyob qisqis lawm os mog .txaus hlub heev li os tus me niam hluas aw.
Me nyuam dab tsi ua cas yuav mus ntsaw luag tug ua luaj li. Phem thiab zoo los luag yog yus niam ib zaug na es nws twb los ua ob niam txiv laus no qhev los sav.
Nyob rau peb hmoob lub neej ces ib cov ces yeej cov phem li no vim lawv xav tias lawv have the right tabsi peb sawv daws nyias yeej muaj nyias ib txoj hmoov mog...li cas lo thov kom do the right thing nyob ntawd peb lub neej xwb mog.......
I usually don't care much for nkauj Mos Ab, but these children sounds greedy as hell. Leave her alone! Even if you don't have respect for her, respect your parents!
What a sticky situation. Regardless if you like or don’t like this lady, she is the one your dad married. She is the one who took care of your parents. Dislike is fine but respect is important. She came from rags with no education, you kids were born here and probably has more than she ever would, so stop fighting her and allow her to have what little is left for her.
Ho yau, twb npaj tias muag cev rau aib thaub laus laus...es kom thiaj tuag tsuag tsuag es thiaj tau thaub thiab pog laus lub neej thiab saw kub no los hos yom😄 Txog thaum kawg twb yuav luag tsis muaj tsev nyob. Tsim nyog lawm thiab mas, cov mi ab hmoob nplog ntawd na. Lawv siv lo tias lawv ruam ruam no kom mloog tau ntxim ntxim hlub, tiam sis ceeb tiag lawv lub hom phiaj mas tob tshaj. Hmoob miskas lawv tsis ras txog tej hom phiaj ntawd li os. Yog pog yuav tus twb yeej tsis muaj pojniam lawm ces kuj thwm tias ok, thaub cov tub ntxhais ua tsis yog. Tiam sis pog ua niam yau es, tseem ua loo thaum lawv niam mob twb tshuav tuag tib si na. Lawv nqa txhua yam uas yog lawv niam li tsis txhaum leej twg os.
Ua Niam yaus rau ib leej txiv muaj ib pab me nyuam loj2 thiab coob2 ces yeej raug lawv ua phem rau li koj no. Tos ntau tus niam mos ab tuaj es muab thaub laus yuj thoob kib nyiab es khiav mus los lub neej nyuab2 li no tiag. Yog koj siab zoo tiag2 los hos muag tsev es faib phav puav ua dej siab rau cov me nyuam loj ntawv khaws ua koob hmoov ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv.
When it comes down to money, materials is always an issue. But those grown a** children should just respect what's been said. Good it teaches those greedy children a lesson.
Kuv xav hais tias tim tus txiv xav tau niam mos ab es niam loj twb tsis tau tuag los thiaj maj yuav. I don't blame the children for not wanting to leave the house and gold jewelry for the second wife. First, it was their mom's hard earned money that buy those assets. Their dad should had divided the assets before marrying a second wife. The second wife said she took care of the old couple....but they does mean she deserves their assets. They already brought her to America so this is a lot for her fortune already. So she is the greedy one for cursing the children.
I see so many cases where the kids are fighting for the money or property after the parents die, but never really take care of the parents when they were still alive. Children these days are going after money only.
I don't see that the kids are selfish and greedy. I can see that they want to protect their parents' assets from falling into the wrong hands. How many cases do we have of niam mos ab taking their parents fortunes and marry someone else? How many cases of divorced/widow hmong women letting another man into their lives and depleting their assets?
This is why everyone should do a living will, write things down. Those gold items should have been locked away. Don't worry those things were not willingly given to anyone, their dead parents will come after whoever took them. The hands that took them will slowly decay. The sunshine money should always be divided according to who donated and how much. Be kind and good hearted, it's how one can have a better future. God sees all things, including what's inside your heart and intentions!
Mloog tej neej neeg no.. Tsis hais cov tuaj tim nplog tuaj yuav peb cov thaub laus..cov yeej tuaj ua lub neej nyob teb chaws no los..thaum ib tug tuag tag mas yeej muaj teeb meem every family fight for money..money problem life insurance almost. Every case..nyiaj yog dab xyob txhiaj hmoob tsis muaj teb chaws nyob los vim.. 1/ tshaws lub meej mom ua nom ua tus loj tus coj.thiaj tuag tsa taws hlos. 2/ nyiaj yog dab xyob txhiaj..luag muab nyiaj ntiav ce rov taws tuam ntuj tua yus tus thawj.. 3/ luag muab poj niam zoo2 nkauj los ntxia ce tuag kiag.. Rau poj niam 2 ceg.
Tub ki tsi muaj cai mus huas niam txiv ntiag tug tshwj xeeb yog thaum niam thiab txiv muab xwb thiaj tau. Ua cas cov me nyuam no yuav tsi hwm niam hwm txiv kiag li.
Ntuj es, lub neej taub laug yuav Niam mos ab lub neej lwj siab. Niam mos ab kev ntshaw Nyiaj... taub laug kev vam lub cev mos mos... muab Hais los Nej ruam tagnrho 😆 ib leeg tiam ib leeg qe Xwb os 😆
The fact that this guy wanted to married a second wife because his wife was sick and cannot take care of herself is so wrong! I’m sorry, but if the tables were turned and he was the one sick and his wife left him or cheats on him, that will make her the worse hmoob women ever and unacceptable! This lady says that his 1st wife was ok with him marrying her, I think it’s more of him keep nagging/ guilt talk his 1st wife and she’s feed up and just wanted to let him. I don’t think anyone in their right mind will willing let their spouse married another person. And now the niam yuav she’s talking about money and all, of course when it comes to money everyone plays the victim and acts like they are entitled to it. Would be nice to hear from the other side of the story...
Cov me nyuam ntse kawg! Ntshaw txhua yam! Txhob ntshai-lawv ua li cas rau yus ces yus ua li lawv ua rau yus xwb. Koj ntshai lawv ces lawv haj yam zoo rau lawv ua rau koj.
Nyob teb caws npog mas me nyuav ntsuag siab zoo ho nyob teb caws no me nyuam hmoob me lis kas siab nphem heev li ho viv ncaus haws kav tsij mus nriav koj lub neej duas xwb tsi tas nyob lawm ho
Cov menyuam cas nej ntshaw2 nyiaj es ho tsis lees tu nej niam es kom nej txiv txhob yuav niam yau los tu nas? Nej twb tsis kam tu ob tug laus ces tsam no nej txhob txeeb dab tsis li mas, nej tseem hluas nej mam khwv thiaj yog nej tug os
Those children are so greedy even though they have so much more than you, sister. You should just put your own children under yours. For those children, karma will get them. That is what happened to the middle son who did not want to sign the house back.
To these greedy and disrespectful children, give everything that belongs to your step mother back to her if you don't want to be cursed and punished by karma. I've seen those who took things that don't belong to them and in return those items became a curse for them. Shame on all these siblings.
I think they want their parents properties which is ok. However, the young wife promised to take care of them which she did according to this story. I don’t know if the children helped taking care of the parents when they were sick. Well end up, they got all the jewelries. Good things the wife got the house. Hope she smart and doesn’t end up selling and spending all with her new husband.
There's alway 2 side of the story but the husband and 1 first should have a trust to avoid all of this. Just bc your their children that doesn't give you entitled to everything they owe. After You parent could pass away, they could leave you nothing and give everything to a stranger or charity.
You did so much for your husband and his first wife. That is why you, sister, you should stay where you are if you could with someone who loves you even if you have to work hard at least you have a husband who loves you to work hard together. Marry for love, sister!!!
The children were born here and have all the opportunities to them to succeed on their own. I’m not sure why they want it all even when their father married you. You also have two of his children, their half siblings. They brought you as a slave for them to take care of their mom and dad. Basically didn’t give you any chance to move ahead. He left it for you.
Tos rawm txiavv txim nej hnov ib tog lus xwb yog hnov ob tog lus mam txiav txim mog. Tej zaum cov niam tshiab no kuj tsis hlub lawv thiab, nej pom tej movie mas thaum tus txiv nyob ntawd mas niam yau ua zoo zoo hais lus zoo hos niag txiv tsis nyob ntawd mas niam yau twb ntsia tej niag me nyiam tsis ncaj kiag, yog li tej zaum nyias hu nyias kwj tse xwb, hnov cov me nyuam lus thiab mas mam txiav txim thiaj ncaj ncees.
Kuv pab txaj muag kawg li kuv tsua pom thiab hnov tia peb hmoob cov me nyuam no tsi muaj peev xwm khwv noj li los cas es yuav tos sib txeeb noj txeeb hau niam txiv tej niag saw kub nyiaj tshav ntuj. Sib txeeb tsev ntuj aws cas tsi mus khwv. Tej no yog niam txiv dlia tug xwb lawv txaug siab muab rau leej twg ces leej twg tau. Thov tsum thiab lauj cov me nyuam hmoob ruam.
This is why old retired men shouldn’t marry young wives from overseas. When they pass away, the young wife and young children will suffer. Today, even people who grew up in the USA are struggling. Imagine coming here and not knowing the language or how to drive or work. It would be very hard for them to raise kids alone. Stop going backwards, people. Stop bringing over young women to suffer once you die.
Tu me sister aw, Kuv twb tuaj tim ub tuaj ib yam os...kuv yuav kuv tu txiv txiv twb tau 20xyoo lawm niaj hnub no kuv tu txiv tseem nrog kuv nyob lo lawv tej me nyuam ce twb pib ua li koj cov rau kuv lawm thiab. Tab si kuv ce zoo qhov hai tia kuv tuaj ntev lawm e txhua2 yam ua kuv npe tag lawm.
Ua cas hmoob miskas es mloog tsawg zaj los ntshaw nyiaj ua luaj sib tseeb nyiaj xwb twb muaj2 xa mus pub hmoob nplog hmoob nyab laj nev ua cas yuav ntshaw nyiaj ua luaj li hmoob miskas mas liam tiag2
Hmoob meskas txawm ntshaw nyiaj los twb txog pua phav mam muaj teeb meem. Nej hmoob nplog es tus nyuag qaib xwb twb muab khi ntaus kom tuag. Yog tseem txog pua phav dollars thiab ntshe ne cia li muab hlais caj pas lawm.
I don't believe any woman would leave all her treasures to a niam yau. No woman would do that. They rather leave for their kids. Need to hear from the kids side. Also when the house was already in the son's name, how is it that the judge would give it back to the dad? Need to know if the house was transfer to the son when the divorce paper was filed between the their mom and dad or was it gifted. I believe the son didn't want to split with his ex wife and decided to give back. That would make more sense in my opinion. Again this is a one sided story. Can't believe everything here. Hate men who married a niam yau and leave everything to her and not his own kids. The jewelry should go the kids.
Yog vim li cas cov neeg nyob hauv ntuj lub qab plab no pheej xav tau khoom dawb thiab pheej yuav ntshaw luag tus ua luaj li no? Txawm yog li cas los tus niam tsev no twb tuaj tu lawv niam thiab tu lawv txiv txog kiag ob tug laus no nce hauv tij tas es lub nyuag tsev xwb pheej yuav txeeb ciaj txeeb tuag npaum li no es yog menyuam no ho pluag npaum li cas? You all already took all the golds and please be nice to the lady and the two little boys! Tau los nej yeej tsis tsav luaj twg os nawb!
Cov me nyuam no yeej ua tau phuj dhau lawm. Yog tias zoo li tej tug niam mos ab es tuaj nyob tsab zag siv nyiaj ua zoo zoo nkauj nyob npaj txeeb ub txeeb no xwb no mas ua li cov me nyuam ua no los kuj phim thiab xwb. Tab sis yog yeej muaj li no tiag no mas tsim nyog cov me nyuam yuav tau txhob tceeb tej uas lawv niam lawv txiv tseg rau niam yau. Lub tsev los tsis tsim nyog cov me nyuam txeeb lawm. Txawm niam you yuav mus yuav txiv los yeej yuav tau faib niam yau tug rau niam you. Cov me nyuam niam no mas niam txiv twb tsis tau tuag twb muab niam txiv tej nyiaj kub sib txeeb tag, twb muab niam txiv tej khaub ncaws ris tsho sau pov tseg tag phem tshaj plaws. Nej niam nej txiv yeej paub tias nej yuav tsis tu nkawd zoo no nkawd thiaj mus yuav niam you tuaj tu nkawd es nkawd tseg nkawd li qub txeeg qub teg rau niam yau xwb los nej tseem muab txeeb tag nrho. Niam txiv pom xeeb yug tau nej niam txiv yeej faib nej li rau nej tag lawm cas nej yuav ntshaw luag tug ua luaj tseem txeeb cov nej niam nej txiv tseg rau niam you tib si lawm thiab?
DON'T CO-SPONSOR FOR YOUR FATHER OR MOTHER. I always say that sons and daughters who co-sponsor for their father or mother so their father or mother can bring their Hmong Lao wife/husband over is stupid. Don't you know that once the wife is in the US, everything that belongs to your father and/or mother legally belongs to the wife? And you, the son or daughter, gets nothing when your father/mother passes away? She's only been in the US for 5-10 years and she gets your parent's house, cars, life insurance, 401k, savings, widow benefits and a new husband while you, the son or daughter who's been with your father or mother all your life and also buried your parents gets little if anything. You will end up calling someone who's 10 years your junior "Mom". You will lose everything your father and mother worked all their life to her. In the end, you will have to support and pay the bride price for the children your pedophile father made with his teenage trophy wife... like the sons in this story. And if your father or mother can't support his child bride/husband, you, the co-sponsor, will be on the hook to support her/him financially.
Finally someone with common sense! Agreed 100% with you. The son is so dumb to co sign for this father to bring a second wife. They deserve what happen. Now she gets the parents life, he 401k, pension and etc. Dumb kids did it for themselves. I would never in a million year support my parents for marrying another especially when the other spouse is still alive.
These types of stories, it's hard to take sides bc of course, the one who tells her/his side of the story is always the good one. Need to hear both sides. If I were one of the kids, I wouldn't be willing to give up my parents' lifetime fortunes to a mistress whom didn't contribute to it either.
You forget that it’s not your fortune to give … it’s the parents fortune and theirs alone. They are free to give to whomever they see fit. Although it’s true that we’re only hearing one side of the story, I hear enough hear to know that the kids are just being selfish. Period.
You forget that it’s not your fortune to give … it’s the parents fortune and theirs alone. They are free to give to whomever they see fit. Although it’s true that we’re only hearing one side of the story, I hear enough hear to know that the kids are just being selfish. Period.
Pj laib. Yeej paub tias lawv khawg cia lawm. Kj tias kj siab zoo heev no cas tseem foom thiab. Lub tsev kj tau lawm hai txaus kj Los. tshaw lawv tus kawg. Dag xwb Kj twb tsi zoo hlo li is.
Nej cov ua qhua qhua tus poj laib no nas. Es nej puas tau yaim nws lub qhov quav nab kav tsij mus yaim nws lub qhov quav ua ntej es mam li qhuas os nawb
Cov tub hmoob nyob meka teb chaw vam meej no ua cas lawv twb hluas hluas Es yuav ntshaw tej laus tej nyiaj ua luaj li lau. Yog li no mas cov tub cov ntxhais no yuav npam nawb
tus viv ncaus aw cas koj tseem thim koj cov lus thiab os yog kuv ma sim neej no yog lawv tsi thov kuv ma kuv tsi thim li nawb vim lawv siab phem dhau lawm yuav npam lawv xwb ma
Wow, proud of you, you did the right thing. Everything you did is for love. This couple is very very lucky to have you in their lives and taking care them like the way you did.
It is good that you have found someone who loves you and hope your life is better than the first. Karma will get those children.
Txhob tu siab os mog tej hauj lwm txog cov me nyuam lawv yeej muaj lub siab coj li ntawd kawg.
Tiam sis zoo siab uas muaj tus hlub koj tub thaiv koj txog tej Kev nyuaj siab lawm os tus noob.
Pab hlub koj kawg os me niam hluas ! Vim yog lub neej Thawm u ntxom2 nyem es thiaj tuaj . Cov menyuam no los yeej phem kawg thiab yeej Yuav tsi tau lub neej ua ! Yus hluas2 los yus yog lub npe niam quash poob kuamuag ces yeej Yuav khawm rau cov neeg ua phem ! Thov vajtswv hlub thiab ntiv thaiv koj nrog rau tsev neeg
She has a great heart and she is patience. A woman like this is hard to find, its not about the look but the heart that's matters, good luck to her in the future.
To those damn children: You all should be ashamed of yourself. So what if you guys are the children? Did you care for your parents until the end of time? No. Your step mom did. She deserves the gifts that your parents left her. You guys are rotten to cord. It's embarrassing.
Tus me viv ncaus aw koj ua zoo kawg lawm os.
Tus me niam tsev nkauj hmoob nplog koj yeej ua tau qauv Zoo heev lawm os mog Es txhob tu siab
Niam ntsuab teev aw kuv yog 1 tug uas caum koj kawg thiab os es ho tig hu nkauj rau peb mloog thiab os
Tu siab kawg lios los
May Vaj niam Ntsuab Teev koj hnav Hmoob mas koj zoo nkauj kawg li os.kuv mloog koj thaum 2017 lawm thiab
These are the reasons why we all need to start writing out Trusts and Wills. This way it’s all black and white and clearly stated who gets what. If there is no iron clad, problems like this occur. Consider this Hmong’s!
Amen!! This happen to Hmong all the time because they do not want to write a will and trust
@@angielee1173
Hopefully, this will save families, u know?!
@@Song-bv8ir Yeap. This is the only way that will save drama from family
Tsi txhob tu siab os tus me niam tsev aws nco ntsoov tias cov me nyuam ntawm tsi yog yus yug os muaj ib txhias twb yog yus yug kiag twb muaj teeb meem no los maj yom
Tej zaj no mloog ntshav siab dhau
Lub neej zoo li no twg tsis raug ces tsis paub os peb ua neeg nyob yus tsis txhob muab luag thuam tagtag tsam ho los raug yus ces yuav quaj kua muag tsis los os nim no lub ntuj nyob qisqis lawm os mog .txaus hlub heev li os tus me niam hluas aw.
Me nyuam dab tsi ua cas yuav mus ntsaw luag tug ua luaj li. Phem thiab zoo los luag yog yus niam ib zaug na es nws twb los ua ob niam txiv laus no qhev los sav.
Vim koj tshuav nkawv nqi
Nyob rau peb hmoob lub neej ces ib cov ces yeej cov phem li no vim lawv xav tias lawv have the right tabsi peb sawv daws nyias yeej muaj nyias ib txoj hmoov mog...li cas lo thov kom do the right thing nyob ntawd peb lub neej xwb mog.......
Lawv twb tuaj ntxias koj mus yuav khaub ncaws es cov me nyuam thiaj zoo tuaj tshawb saw kub los mas ..
Tus niam yau no siab zoo hv vim nws tu nej niam yus nej ❤ kuv tseem tiag nws siab zoo hv 😊
Peb Hmoob need to learn from this story and start writing a will and trust to prevent problems because when it comes to money, some people are greedy
I'm so sorry that she have to go through that. If the parents would of told the kids then the kids should of listen that way their blessing to her.
I usually don't care much for nkauj Mos Ab, but these children sounds greedy as hell. Leave her alone! Even if you don't have respect for her, respect your parents!
@@zoolikuv hey she’s a gold digger... no one hear both side of the story...
Love this story
This is a one sided story....we don’t know the dynamics in their family so we can’t judge.
Always
Negative. It’s common sense to know how to respect, love, and care for those who did good deeds in your life.
What a sticky situation. Regardless if you like or don’t like this lady, she is the one your dad married. She is the one who took care of your parents. Dislike is fine but respect is important. She came from rags with no education, you kids were born here and probably has more than she ever would, so stop fighting her and allow her to have what little is left for her.
Tshuav thaub laus nqe
Pab hlub koj kawg
Typical of hmong people after someone's death. Greed knows no bound.
Ho yau, twb npaj tias muag cev rau aib thaub laus laus...es kom thiaj tuag tsuag tsuag es thiaj tau thaub thiab pog laus lub neej thiab saw kub no los hos yom😄 Txog thaum kawg twb yuav luag tsis muaj tsev nyob.
Tsim nyog lawm thiab mas, cov mi ab hmoob nplog ntawd na. Lawv siv lo tias lawv ruam ruam no kom mloog tau ntxim ntxim hlub, tiam sis ceeb tiag lawv lub hom phiaj mas tob tshaj. Hmoob miskas lawv tsis ras txog tej hom phiaj ntawd li os.
Yog pog yuav tus twb yeej tsis muaj pojniam lawm ces kuj thwm tias ok, thaub cov tub ntxhais ua tsis yog. Tiam sis pog ua niam yau es, tseem ua loo thaum lawv niam mob twb tshuav tuag tib si na. Lawv nqa txhua yam uas yog lawv niam li tsis txhaum leej twg os.
Meskas muaj kev muaj kev ncaj ncees rau txhua leej txhua tus. Hmoob txojcai ces khov li hmoob xwb. Hmoob tsismuaj kev ncaj ncees. Nrog koj Zoosiab nawb tus muam
Zoo li twb hnov dua lawm
Aub yau ua li cas es tsuas hnov hmoob mekas sib txeeb nyiaj tsav ntuj noj xwb os hmoob aw noj tas puas npluas nuj nawj
Ua Niam yaus rau ib leej txiv muaj ib pab me nyuam loj2 thiab coob2 ces yeej raug lawv ua phem rau li koj no. Tos ntau tus niam mos ab tuaj es muab thaub laus yuj thoob kib nyiab es khiav mus los lub neej nyuab2 li no tiag. Yog koj siab zoo tiag2 los hos muag tsev es faib phav puav ua dej siab rau cov me nyuam loj ntawv khaws ua koob hmoov ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv.
Moob mis kas mas lim hiam tiag2 li
When it comes down to money, materials is always an issue. But those grown a** children should just respect what's been said. Good it teaches those greedy children a lesson.
Niam tshiab mos ab tsis tsim nyog txeeb ib yam khoom haus lub neej yog tsis yog nws tuaj nrog khwv. txuas yam yog niam loj li xwb.
Kuv xav hais tias tim tus txiv xav tau niam mos ab es niam loj twb tsis tau tuag los thiaj maj yuav. I don't blame the children for not wanting to leave the house and gold jewelry for the second wife. First, it was their mom's hard earned money that buy those assets. Their dad should had divided the assets before marrying a second wife. The second wife said she took care of the old couple....but they does mean she deserves their assets. They already brought her to America so this is a lot for her fortune already. So she is the greedy one for cursing the children.
I see so many cases where the kids are fighting for the money or property after the parents die, but never really take care of the parents when they were still alive. Children these days are going after money only.
I don't see that the kids are selfish and greedy. I can see that they want to protect their parents' assets from falling into the wrong hands. How many cases do we have of niam mos ab taking their parents fortunes and marry someone else? How many cases of divorced/widow hmong women letting another man into their lives and depleting their assets?
In this day and age, especially in this country, if u don't have anything written in a will, then it's all she says, he says.
So true !
This is why everyone should do a living will, write things down. Those gold items should have been locked away. Don't worry those things were not willingly given to anyone, their dead parents will come after whoever took them. The hands that took them will slowly decay. The sunshine money should always be divided according to who donated and how much. Be kind and good hearted, it's how one can have a better future. God sees all things, including what's inside your heart and intentions!
Hmoob Yeej ibtxwm yog cov neeg pluag ntshaw niam txiv tug...tsihai pabtwg, xeemtwg loyeej ntxhaws yeej xwnkaus ibyam...Hmoob pluag ces yeej ntshaw tshuayam tomqab niam txiv tuag tag..
Cog menyuam hmoob meskas ua yuav siab yuav pheem ua li os
Mloog tej neej neeg no.. Tsis hais cov tuaj tim nplog tuaj yuav peb cov thaub laus..cov yeej tuaj ua lub neej nyob teb chaws no los..thaum ib tug tuag tag mas yeej muaj teeb meem every family fight for money..money problem life insurance almost. Every case..nyiaj yog dab xyob txhiaj hmoob tsis muaj teb chaws nyob los vim..
1/ tshaws lub meej mom ua nom ua tus loj tus coj.thiaj tuag tsa taws hlos.
2/ nyiaj yog dab xyob txhiaj..luag muab nyiaj ntiav ce rov taws tuam ntuj tua yus tus thawj..
3/ luag muab poj niam zoo2 nkauj los ntxia ce tuag kiag.. Rau poj niam 2 ceg.
Tus ua zoo ces yuav tau qhov zoo xwb os
Tub ki tsi muaj cai mus huas niam txiv ntiag tug tshwj xeeb yog thaum niam thiab txiv muab xwb thiaj tau. Ua cas cov me nyuam no yuav tsi hwm niam hwm txiv kiag li.
Our sons and daughters need to avoid this family line.
Ntuj es, lub neej taub laug yuav Niam mos ab lub neej lwj siab. Niam mos ab kev ntshaw Nyiaj... taub laug kev vam lub cev mos mos... muab Hais los Nej ruam tagnrho 😆 ib leeg tiam ib leeg qe Xwb os 😆
Cov tub cov ntxhais no yeej yuav npam rau txoj kev siab phem tsim koj. Siab phem thiab ntshaw nyiaj npaum no lub ntuj yeej tsis foom hmoov zoo rau vim koj yeej tau hlub thiab tu koj tus niam loj thiab tus txiv nkawd lawm.
Thov lub ntuj tsom kwm koj thiab foom hmoov zoo rau koj kom koj tus txiv hlub hlub koj mog.
Nej hmoob me kas es twb muaj 2 nyiaj cas tseem ntshaw cov nyiaj tshav ntuj noj thiab nas
The fact that this guy wanted to married a second wife because his wife was sick and cannot take care of herself is so wrong! I’m sorry, but if the tables were turned and he was the one sick and his wife left him or cheats on him, that will make her the worse hmoob women ever and unacceptable! This lady says that his 1st wife was ok with him marrying her, I think it’s more of him keep nagging/ guilt talk his 1st wife and she’s feed up and just wanted to let him. I don’t think anyone in their right mind will willing let their spouse married another person. And now the niam yuav she’s talking about money and all, of course when it comes to money everyone plays the victim and acts like they are entitled to it. Would be nice to hear from the other side of the story...
I agree with you! I don't believe the mom would give her gold to the 2nd wife. I wouldn't no matter what.
I agree with you!
Muaj coob tsev neeg mas thaum ua neej nyob niam/txiv txomnyem tsis muaj neeg tu noj haus, tsis muab ris tsho kho hnav, tsis saib xyuas. Tabsis thaum tuag mas tuaj txeeb nyiaj kub yam tseem ceeb, sib tw nqa ris tsho kho rau hnav. Lam ua plhu thaum tuag xwb yeej tsis muaj nqis lawm.
Cov me nyuam ntse kawg! Ntshaw txhua yam! Txhob ntshai-lawv ua li cas rau yus ces yus ua li lawv ua rau yus xwb. Koj ntshai lawv ces lawv haj yam zoo rau lawv ua rau koj.
Nyob teb caws npog mas me nyuav ntsuag siab zoo ho nyob teb caws no me nyuam hmoob me lis kas siab nphem heev li ho viv ncaus haws kav tsij mus nriav koj lub neej duas xwb tsi tas nyob lawm ho
Koj puas ua zoo npaum ko tiag 2 maj? Yog muaj tseeb tiag koj tus txiv cov me nyuam yuav tsi ua li ntawd rau koj.
Cas.sib txeeb nyiaj siv xwb.na cov menyuam ko.na noj.tag.e pau rov.hluas lawm os
Pab koj tu siab tab sis koj twb mus ua lub neej tshiab lawm ces nto phiv Tsi kk txog cov me nyuam phem ntawm lawm xwb mas
Tsis Txhob tu siab, yog lawv ua li cas ces lawv yeej Yuav rau li ntawv xwb
Pab koj tu siab.nenyuam hmoob mes kas tsis paub hlubblerj twg.nam loj ntxias koj tuaj ua nws qhev xwb txhob kom koj tus txiv hlub koj
Cog ntxhais hno siab pheem siab li hiam ntxim ntxub ua lo li os
Cov hluas tiam 21 no tsis paub cai li os
Cov menyuam cas nej ntshaw2 nyiaj es ho tsis lees tu nej niam es kom nej txiv txhob yuav niam yau los tu nas? Nej twb tsis kam tu ob tug laus ces tsam no nej txhob txeeb dab tsis li mas, nej tseem hluas nej mam khwv thiaj yog nej tug os
Lub neej niam yau ces yeej yog 1 tug number xwb os mog 😥😥😥
Those children are so greedy even though they have so much more than you, sister. You should just put your own children under yours. For those children, karma will get them. That is what happened to the middle son who did not want to sign the house back.
To these greedy and disrespectful children, give everything that belongs to your step mother back to her if you don't want to be cursed and punished by karma. I've seen those who took things that don't belong to them and in return those items became a curse for them. Shame on all these siblings.
So greedy when it comes to money.
Hey I'm greedy too when it comes too money
Ua cas cov tub thiab cov ntxhais ko yua ntshaw nyiaj ua luaj tsis yog lawv khwv tsis tau nyiaj los
I think they want their parents properties which is ok. However, the young wife promised to take care of them which she did according to this story. I don’t know if the children helped taking care of the parents when they were sick. Well end up, they got all the jewelries. Good things the wife got the house. Hope she smart and doesn’t end up selling and spending all with her new husband.
There's alway 2 side of the story but the husband and 1 first should have a trust to avoid all of this. Just bc your their children that doesn't give you entitled to everything they owe. After You parent could pass away, they could leave you nothing and give everything to a stranger or charity.
You did so much for your husband and his first wife. That is why you, sister, you should stay where you are if you could with someone who loves you even if you have to work hard at least you have a husband who loves you to work hard together. Marry for love, sister!!!
The children were born here and have all the opportunities to them to succeed on their own. I’m not sure why they want it all even when their father married you. You also have two of his children, their half siblings. They brought you as a slave for them to take care of their mom and dad. Basically didn’t give you any chance to move ahead. He left it for you.
Greedy kids. This is why everyone needs a will.
Hmoob lub neej no ces cov teeb meem no muaj tsis paub tag
When it comes to funeral and money, your own family becomes greedy..They take what doesn’t belongs to them..seen it and been through it..
Tos rawm txiavv txim nej hnov ib tog lus xwb yog hnov ob tog lus mam txiav txim mog. Tej zaum cov niam tshiab no kuj tsis hlub lawv thiab, nej pom tej movie mas thaum tus txiv nyob ntawd mas niam yau ua zoo zoo hais lus zoo hos niag txiv tsis nyob ntawd mas niam yau twb ntsia tej niag me nyiam tsis ncaj kiag, yog li tej zaum nyias hu nyias kwj tse xwb, hnov cov me nyuam lus thiab mas mam txiav txim thiaj ncaj ncees.
Niam ntsuab teev kv xav tau kj tu fev vim kv xv muab kv txoj neej neeg rau kj hai vim kv tsi tau kj tu fev os
Hmong meca yuav nej mus ua qhev xwb o ruam tiag2 ib cov hmoob nplog na
ดีแค่ไหนที่เมียน้อยมาดูแลวันที่เมียหลวงแย่ ลูกๆไม่ดูแลพ่อแม่ตัวเองแท้ๆแล้วยังมาแย่งของอีก กรรมตามสนองนะคะ
Thov qhuas tias koj yog ib tus niam yau siab zoo heev tab si koj niam loj cov menyuam siab phem heev rau koj tab si lub ntuj pom koj txoj kev zoo yuav pab kom koj tau lub neej zoo xwb os mog
Kuv pab txaj muag kawg li kuv tsua pom thiab hnov tia peb hmoob cov me nyuam no tsi muaj peev xwm khwv noj li los cas es yuav tos sib txeeb noj txeeb hau niam txiv tej niag saw kub nyiaj tshav ntuj. Sib txeeb tsev ntuj aws cas tsi mus khwv. Tej no yog niam txiv dlia tug xwb lawv txaug siab muab rau leej twg ces leej twg tau. Thov tsum thiab lauj cov me nyuam hmoob ruam.
Cov phook ywg aw.... Kuv mas ntxub cov neeg ua ntshaw uag tug xws li co tub no. Ntag nawb kuv twb pom kiag ntawm kuv tus kheej ntag.
This is why old retired men shouldn’t marry young wives from overseas. When they pass away, the young wife and young children will suffer. Today, even people who grew up in the USA are struggling. Imagine coming here and not knowing the language or how to drive or work. It would be very hard for them to raise kids alone. Stop going backwards, people. Stop bringing over young women to suffer once you die.
Tus ntxhais aw.. koj hais tias koj tsis zoo nkauj no tab sis kuv hnov koj lub Neej mas koj zoo nkauj puag haus nruab siab pom tuaj nawj kuv ntseeg tias zoo2 nkauj kawg li os koj yeej yuav muaj hmoo rau lub Neej pem suab os mog
Ua cas tsis mus hais rauNom Tswv tias lawv ua nqe tus tab sis lawv noj nyiaj xwb lawv tsis tus no cais lawv rau kaw kiag.
Oh npam lo
Oh yoh ntshe tshuav lawv nqi os koj na.
Cov niag me nyuam siab phem li ntawv txhob thim ntag. Cav txawj ntshai tuag lawm thiab 🤦♀️
Tu me sister aw, Kuv twb tuaj tim ub tuaj ib yam os...kuv yuav kuv tu txiv txiv twb tau 20xyoo lawm niaj hnub no kuv tu txiv tseem nrog kuv nyob lo lawv tej me nyuam ce twb pib ua li koj cov rau kuv lawm thiab. Tab si kuv ce zoo qhov hai tia kuv tuaj ntev lawm e txhua2 yam ua kuv npe tag lawm.
nyob zoo nam tij teev os kj pua syog kwj tooj yob huv vieng tug muam niv
Ua cas hmoob miskas es mloog tsawg zaj los ntshaw nyiaj ua luaj sib tseeb nyiaj xwb twb muaj2 xa mus pub hmoob nplog hmoob nyab laj nev ua cas yuav ntshaw nyiaj ua luaj li hmoob miskas mas liam tiag2
Hmoob meskas txawm ntshaw nyiaj los twb txog pua phav mam muaj teeb meem. Nej hmoob nplog es tus nyuag qaib xwb twb muab khi ntaus kom tuag. Yog tseem txog pua phav dollars thiab ntshe ne cia li muab hlais caj pas lawm.
I don't believe any woman would leave all her treasures to a niam yau. No woman would do that. They rather leave for their kids. Need to hear from the kids side. Also when the house was already in the son's name, how is it that the judge would give it back to the dad? Need to know if the house was transfer to the son when the divorce paper was filed between the their mom and dad or was it gifted. I believe the son didn't want to split with his ex wife and decided to give back. That would make more sense in my opinion. Again this is a one sided story. Can't believe everything here. Hate men who married a niam yau and leave everything to her and not his own kids. The jewelry should go the kids.
Yog vim li cas cov neeg nyob hauv ntuj lub qab plab no pheej xav tau khoom dawb thiab pheej yuav ntshaw luag tus ua luaj li no? Txawm yog li cas los tus niam tsev no twb tuaj tu lawv niam thiab tu lawv txiv txog kiag ob tug laus no nce hauv tij tas es lub nyuag tsev xwb pheej yuav txeeb ciaj txeeb tuag npaum li no es yog menyuam no ho pluag npaum li cas? You all already took all the golds and please be nice to the lady and the two little boys! Tau los nej yeej tsis tsav luaj twg os nawb!
Cov me nyuam no yeej ua tau phuj dhau lawm. Yog tias zoo li tej tug niam mos ab es tuaj nyob tsab zag siv nyiaj ua zoo zoo nkauj nyob npaj txeeb ub txeeb no xwb no mas ua li cov me nyuam ua no los kuj phim thiab xwb. Tab sis yog yeej muaj li no tiag no mas tsim nyog cov me nyuam yuav tau txhob tceeb tej uas lawv niam lawv txiv tseg rau niam yau. Lub tsev los tsis tsim nyog cov me nyuam txeeb lawm. Txawm niam you yuav mus yuav txiv los yeej yuav tau faib niam yau tug rau niam you. Cov me nyuam niam no mas niam txiv twb tsis tau tuag twb muab niam txiv tej nyiaj kub sib txeeb tag, twb muab niam txiv tej khaub ncaws ris tsho sau pov tseg tag phem tshaj plaws. Nej niam nej txiv yeej paub tias nej yuav tsis tu nkawd zoo no nkawd thiaj mus yuav niam you tuaj tu nkawd es nkawd tseg nkawd li qub txeeg qub teg rau niam yau xwb los nej tseem muab txeeb tag nrho. Niam txiv pom xeeb yug tau nej niam txiv yeej faib nej li rau nej tag lawm cas nej yuav ntshaw luag tug ua luaj tseem txeeb cov nej niam nej txiv tseg rau niam you tib si lawm thiab?
what a such greedy kids.
DON'T CO-SPONSOR FOR YOUR FATHER OR MOTHER. I always say that sons and daughters who co-sponsor for their father or mother so their father or mother can bring their Hmong Lao wife/husband over is stupid. Don't you know that once the wife is in the US, everything that belongs to your father and/or mother legally belongs to the wife? And you, the son or daughter, gets nothing when your father/mother passes away? She's only been in the US for 5-10 years and she gets your parent's house, cars, life insurance, 401k, savings, widow benefits and a new husband while you, the son or daughter who's been with your father or mother all your life and also buried your parents gets little if anything. You will end up calling someone who's 10 years your junior "Mom". You will lose everything your father and mother worked all their life to her. In the end, you will have to support and pay the bride price for the children your pedophile father made with his teenage trophy wife... like the sons in this story.
And if your father or mother can't support his child bride/husband, you, the co-sponsor, will be on the hook to support her/him financially.
Finally someone with common sense! Agreed 100% with you. The son is so dumb to co sign for this father to bring a second wife. They deserve what happen. Now she gets the parents life, he 401k, pension and etc. Dumb kids did it for themselves. I would never in a million year support my parents for marrying another especially when the other spouse is still alive.
I don't even care about these kind of money. It's so small; why fight? As long as I'm still alive, I will make it enough to support my wife and me.
These types of stories, it's hard to take sides bc of course, the one who tells her/his side of the story is always the good one. Need to hear both sides. If I were one of the kids, I wouldn't be willing to give up my parents' lifetime fortunes to a mistress whom didn't contribute to it either.
You forget that it’s not your fortune to give … it’s the parents fortune and theirs alone. They are free to give to whomever they see fit. Although it’s true that we’re only hearing one side of the story, I hear enough hear to know that the kids are just being selfish. Period.
You forget that it’s not your fortune to give … it’s the parents fortune and theirs alone. They are free to give to whomever they see fit. Although it’s true that we’re only hearing one side of the story, I hear enough hear to know that the kids are just being selfish. Period.
Cas cov niag minyuam no yuav phem ualuaj thiab os...tsis ntshai tsam npam los cas ne... kavtsij rau rau siab hlawb xyab hlawv ntawv xwb yog lawv pheej ua phem na...
Pj laib. Yeej paub tias lawv khawg cia lawm. Kj tias kj siab zoo heev no cas tseem foom thiab. Lub tsev kj tau lawm hai txaus kj Los. tshaw lawv tus kawg. Dag xwb Kj twb tsi zoo hlo li is.
Nej cov ua qhua qhua tus poj laib no nas.
Es nej puas tau yaim nws lub qhov quav nab kav tsij mus yaim nws lub qhov quav ua ntej es mam li qhuas os nawb
Cov tub hmoob nyob meka teb chaw vam meej no ua cas lawv twb hluas hluas Es yuav ntshaw tej laus tej nyiaj ua luaj li lau. Yog li no mas cov tub cov ntxhais no yuav npam nawb
tus viv ncaus aw cas koj tseem thim koj cov lus thiab os yog kuv ma sim neej no yog lawv tsi thov kuv ma kuv tsi thim li nawb vim lawv siab phem dhau lawm yuav npam lawv xwb ma