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2:44 - @autistic.alex (he/him)
2:59 - @izzysimages (she/her)
3:06 - @orchiddempseyy (she/her)
3:32 - @neuro.green (he/they)
3:37 - @a_different_spectrum
4:10 - @ashleighfare (she/her)
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I checked it out and its SOOOOOOOO cute! I sent the link to my friend who is also trans and autistic!
Can we just take a moment to appreciate how they put the tiktokers pronouns in the timestamps
Aww thank you
I just noticed it! It is small, but Such important detail, and I am super happy about fact that She/He/They mentioned it!
I often try to use She/He/They, when I am responding to someone in comments section, and when I am not shure what pronouns is certian person using.
Of course I used Word "often" bc, somethimes I forget to use that reffering method, especially when I am super excited and I want to respond as fast as I Can. 😅
@@kajaarmfordsso8264 you can just use they :)
It's wonderful! It makes me really happy tbh
@@kajaarmfordsso8264 @caden is right, you can use They! It's just safer when meeting new people because you obviously can't know their pronouns and/or gender identity unless they tell you outright.
THAT LAST ONE IS MEEE I'm sarcastic to my friends and family but if they do it back to me, half the time I'm like that Rocket Racoon quote "You were supposed to use a sarcastic voice! Now I look foolish!!"
When I first heard Rocket say that (we were watching in the theatre) I kinda yanked on my mom's arm and whispered excitedly at her "that's me!"
Now, I do struggle a bit with sarcasm conceptually, mostly because... why not just say what you mean instead of saying the opposite and expecting people to understand it's opposite. But being around my step-dad for more than half my life now has helped. The purpose is humor. I am quite proud of myself when I do a solid sarcasm.
But yeah, the tone has to be like... cartoonishly exaggerated for me to pick it up, or if I know the person really well and gradually pick up on their patterns.
Sometimes I have to ask people if they were intending to be sarcastic. Also sometimes I get read as sarcastic by others when I was intending to sound genuine.
My father doesn't realize when he uses sarcasm he uses his normal voice. So me and my mother (both tistic) have to look at each other and be like "is he doing the thing or is he fr"
Yea, my Mum used to always use "the voice" with sarcasm as I was growing up, so I thought for the longest time that sarcasm was when you use said voice. Took me until adulthood to learn (I think through an autism tictok?) that it's not. She just stopped using the voice one day and I never picked up on it and thought she was being weird.. 😑
Wait, so when I can't talk without forcing the words out of my mouth, that's because I socially drained myself?
Gurl, I've been wondering why there are times where I can't talk after I've had a long day. That's wild.
I thought I was just being dramatic because that's what my siblings said, this makes so much more sense.
That's a type of non-verbal state that's tied to shutdown. When all your resources are depleted, when the battery is drained and the spoons are gone... you have no energy left to talk, the connection between the brain and the mouth just kinda cuts off.
At least, that's what it's like for me.
@@Lillyluvsanime
Oh, thanks.
I'm going to do more research into this.
I now need to know everything.
yes! it’s called loss of speech or losing speech
@@amyoosh
Yeah, I found an article about it as well as some accounts from people who experience them. Thanks.
That's what I'm dealing with right now:/
7:00 Wait… THATS WHAT WE WERE SUPPOSED TO BE DOING??? OH MY GOD!!!! I LEGITIMATELY THOUGHT THAT I WAS ACTUALLY SUPPOSED TO WRITE DOWN THINGS I LEARNED AND I WOULD ALWAYS GET WEIRD LOOKS FROM MY TEACHERS WHEN I WROTE DOWN “I didn’t learn anything.” I AM A SOPHOMORE IN COLLEGE!
SAME I'M IN MY 3RD YEAR OF COLLEGE AND LAST TERM IN ONE COURSE I HAD TO FILL OUT A FORM AFTER EACH CLASS WITH 3 THINGS I HAD LEARNED AND 3 THINGS I WOULD LIKE TO LEARN MORE ABOUT AND SOMETIMES I WOULD ANSWER THINGS LIKE "I DIDN'T LEARN ANYTHING NEW BC I WORKED WITH THESE TOPICS ON OTHER CLASSES" AND I'M JUST NOW LEARNING THAT I'M NOT SUPPOSED TO DO IT LIKE THAT OMG
YEAH!! I HATE IT WHEN THOSE PAPERS SAY THAT SO MUCH CAUSE EITHER THE VIDEO MADE LITERALLY NO SENSE AT ALL OR I ALREADY KNEW EVERYTHING IN IT
Okay i’m im autistic and developing a special interest on morse code and i’m SO EXCITED because i can text people random stuff in morse code and a lot of friends don’t know what i say and so i will have the joy of getting to explain what i learned tonight and how to use morse code and how i can use it when im nonverbal or overstimulated and can’t speak and i can make translation cards when my language-based special interests are all i can think of(currently: russian and morse code- i get russia is currently a huge issue but i really have no control over my special interests and the language is beautiful im sorry if anyone’s upset about this :() and by giving them knowledge it makes it easier for me- im so excited rn
~Tobias/Moxxie
hiii just wanted to say there's nothing wrong with learning Russian, sure the current political situation is bad but the language and russian culture should still be appreciated and celebrated!! and I think it's amazing that's you're learning it! (also morse code is such a cool special interest)
Morse code Is cool! I wish I could learn it
@@clementine442 You are officially cool, end of discussion
@I exist 🇺🇦 your freaking cool too-
I think I might I know of you irl lol. Based on your names
8:06 i keep hearing them say ass burgers insted of aspergers
Good, let's continue doing that xD
There’s a south park episode based on calling aspergers ass burgers (which is the title of the episode) and i think it aged well
I'm not diagnosed, but this kind of TikTok makes me suspect really hard about being one.
Same...
Thats how my ✨realization✨ kicked on, one year of hyperfixating and learning about autism later im pretty sure i am XD
watching these helps a lot in taking care of yourself better by learning about yourself, especially if you arent diagnosed and suspecting of being autistic, you got this :)
My brother has autism and I didn’t know that a lot of other people have similar things! I don’t know a lot of autistic people so its so cool knowing hes not alone! I’m gonna show him these
yeah my cousin and sister has it and ive found out many new things and realised some things that i didnt understand
the video at 6:27 is mindblowing. i didn't understand that teachers meant that until now, and I'm a young adult!/gen/lh
not really the same thing but, I most always read above my grade level and in elementary we had a book report worksheet thing to fill out that asked for two words you learned and their meanings. So I went to the teacher and asked what to put if I didn't learn any new words, and from what I remember she said to just pick a couple good words.
me too!
Oh my god. This caught me off guard. Why couldn't teachers ever just TELL you what they really meant?
The moment we saw that video we literally had to take out our earbuds and just. sit there for a moment. Processing that. We had no clue that was what they meant, we’d just put something like “I didn’t learn anything new because I already knew all of this information”. Why did nobody actually realize we were autistic
Ryuno di Angelo-Solace I’ve responded with that exact sentence so many times in situations like that lol.
My doctor thinks I'm autistic. Finally found an autistic specialist that takes my insurance after 2 years of searching. I'm 31. We were only supposed to have that one session and he said there's definitely signs of autistic traits. He said that they're so definite that we had to have another session and it's in December. At least I'm getting answers. Always felt out of place when I was with people. There are very few people in my family that I feel comfortable around because they are genuinely nice. The other people in my family are overly judgmental Pentecostal people. I don't like the things they say about other people.
@@gibberish192 I got the results. He said I'm autistic. He gave me an extensive report to give to my lawyers so I can get on SSI. He was very nice. Hopefully you find your answers. It's okay to be nervous just be yourself because being yourself is how they diagnose you. 🤗
i hate how i can’t just know if i have it or not, i have to be diagnosed but thing is, I don’t want to ask if i can get diagnosed so i’m just sitting here struggling all the time and people think i’m being too sensitive or whatever and i’m just trying to figure it out by myself because reaching out to people is hard
Relatable -
Omg I can relate to a extreme rate. I don’t feel comfortable asking because I feel like my mom would get mad at me and start complaining about money.
It's so relatable that it's almost phisically painful...
I hope you'll be able to reach out to someone! I hope everyone here will
also here to say this is so relatable, i can’t get diagnosed or anything, but i feel so sure that i’m autistic
i understand how you feel. my mother refuses to get me diagnosed(i waited a year to ask her), even though i deal with physical symptoms like skin picking. i’m very certain that i am autistic. i really hope one day that those of us unable to reach out for a diagnosis/receive one will be able to do it on our own ❤
The fact that I literally resonated with almost all of these videos 🤯
Bro agreeeeeeeeedddd!
Can you please do more of these videos!!! (All of the channels I watched that did complications of autism tiktoks stopped doing them :((( )
Sure! I am getting a lot of views so I will make more. My autism content is more popular than my LGBTQ+ content so I guess I will shift more towards that.
I've been having the same issue. My comfort content is Autism content and queer content and my supply of the former has run dry.
i noticed this awhile ago, when i first realised i might be autistic i loved watching these kinda comps. after a while i ran out of them and i was very upset
@@Screwdriver-lj4im I'm going to be posting more autism tiktok comps in the future. I already have the tiktoks prepared for a new video. I'd recommend subscribing and turning on notifications so you can see when a new video comes out (no pressure though).
@@randomxstuff already subscribed for more than a year :)
comfort channel
7:30 THAT"S A THING?? (and the justice sense too??? okay i why are these tiktoks relateable, i need to talk to someone, have i just been nd my whole life)
I'd recommend doing more research. Relating to a few autistic traits doesn't mean you are autistic but it is a starting point for more in-depth research.
@@randomxstuff I've been doing research for two years, i just never felt like i fit into the picture
edit: i was on the go and forgot to add, the thing is, a lot of things that are common in ndd folks (not necessarily just autistic) are something i realized i also have, but some i've never even heard of being a part of an nd person's life. these make me feel good bc i don't feel like i'm "romantically faking", like these people experience that too! anyway ty for your compilations, they really brighten my day
@@bunnycat5552 yeah impostor's syndrome can be strong too
I love that everyone looks so different like different aesthetics and styles and gender presentations 🖤🖤 our community is so diverse! Its my biggest pet peeve to hear "you don't look autistic" but obviously we don't have a Look
I hate having to question everyone when they say something just in case they're making a joke. Then it's worse when they don't start being serious afterwards like, JUST TELL ME AN ANSWER D'ARVIT!
My brother is also autistic but it's not as bad as others but he does ALOT OF THESE STUFF like the empathy one and how he doesn't know how to show it,he wanted to buy me a soda drink from a gas station after he made me upset and it was hella sweet of him
A thing my sister noticed is that I also have all the symptoms for autism and we all think we got it from dad (who might have it) but I love these tiktoks so much it's really nice to watch
1:58 OH ABSOLUTE GOD, I'M NOT DIAGNOSED WITH ANYTHING BUT THIS IS SOMETHING I INSTINCTIVELY DO A LOT AND I GET EMBARRASSED OFTEN WHEN I REALIZE 😭😭
I'm autistic and I always do it. It's comfy
I'm a hands in pockets person, I get frustrated when I am not wearing anything with pockets because where do I put my hands?
@@randomxstuff exactly where tf do i put them
If that’s what they meant, then that’s what they should have asked for
OMG YOU PUT EVERYONE'S PRONOUNS ON THE TIMESTAMP THINGS I LOVE YOU
These tiktoks are getting a little too relatable
That video at 3:07 was so validating. I thought I was just crazy because nobody talks about this stuff, so I thought I was just super weird. It's nice to know that someone understands my struggles
About the Asperger's syndrome tiktok! I was actually first diagnosed with ADHD and Asperger's syndrome when I was 7 (so in 2007) and for the longest time I would summarize Asperger's syndrome to anyone who asked me about it as "the milder form of autism". Turns out that was my internalized ableism and complete lack of knowledge about myself and I didn't stop doing that until 2014 when someone finally told me about the diagnosis change in 2013. And then I had a awkward period of my life in 2014-2017 where I was a Struggling Teenager because my parents kept going back and forth over whether or not I was "actually autistic" or just "higher functioning therefore not autistic". Thank god my family mainly moved past that, more so my stepdad then my mom, but I'm grateful for my time on Tumblr and the like for helping me better understand myself and my autistic ass lmao. I now know for a fact that I am very much simply autistic
I was also diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome. One thing, though, is many countries still haven’t removed it as a diagnosis, so it’s not completely true it’s not a diagnosis anymore. I agree it shouldn’t be, but health professionals will still say I have Asperger’s when I go to the doctor or have been trying to find a therapist. 🙃
I recently got diagnosed with autism (about a month ago), and I loved watching this video.
Especially the last one made me go "oh my gosh, that's so me!"
Also, I'm somewhat very thankful I finally got the diagnose, it's very...calming somehow, if that makes any sense.
So many things that didn't make sense before do so now, I'm also relatively less stressed now, so that's great progress ^^
You just made my day better by posting this because I’m actually autistic
My mum grew up thinking I was was just an “awkward child” and would grow out of it, if only she knew 😂
I feel so awful for @1:00. How can someone dare to say those things ESPECIALLY in that her parents should have never had her? What sick monsters that dare to call themselves human exist in this world...as an Autistic person myself, I am grateful TikTok can help spread awareness and I hope and pray one day Autism Speaks and any organization like them will come to an end. Keep hope my friends and keep determined! I know it's a battle every single day, but you CAN do this! I believe in you.
I really appreciate seeing this video. It’s nice to see all the communication and the different things people on the spectrum do in their every day lives. I have a brother with autism and he’s one of the best brothers I could ever ask for. He’s nonverbal and he’s amazing, I always like to see all these things. Makes me feel happy!😊
A lot of the time in school I become non-verbal and can't speak because if I even try to it becomes scrambled, slurred, and I stutter a lot, but the hard thing is that I can't tell anyone that I'm non-verbal because I'm non-verbal, so your pins really help! thank you
thank you for the comment :)
I’m starting to think I might be autistic? The symptoms really resonate with me (though many do overlap with ADHD so I’ll probably have to check for both).
And the sarcasm video is incredibly relatable. I can dish out sarcasm with ease but the second one of my friends tries to do the same then I can’t tell unless they do the “sarcasm voice” if you know what I mean
5:19 if you have an iphone, there’s a function that lets you play background sounds. there are rain sounds, ocean sounds, plain white noise etc. the sounds will still play even if you watch a video/listen to music, and you can adjust the volume of the background sounds separately from the video/music playing alongside.
an added plus is if you have noise-cancellation earphones. you really won’t hear any outside irritating sounds at all.
Hello hello, someone who is not autistic but suspects that they are here, wanted to share my own experience even if I do or don’t have autism
So I’ve always liked doing things more by myself and I’ve always had a hard time socializing and working in groups, eye contact is a HUGE no no for me, hate it sm but still try, I have a hard time identifying emotion and a test I took with a professional doctor in 2020 or 2021 (they were face-to-face sessions) said that I have two extremes and no I’m between when it comes to emotion, I either feel too little or too much, that I have a hard time controlling my emotions and that I am more of an apath than an empath, I also struggle with understanding metaphors and meta language in some cases, unless they are very similar to it’s literal meaning as well as stimming when happy, angry, nervous or in agony. I was never diagnosed with it and I am NOT self-diagnosing, I’m just saying I suspect myself of having it due to these and a few other signs that, according to the research I’ve done on autism, match/are similar to signs of autism
Hope this doesn’t offend anyone, if it does please tell me (I’d like to also know how/why it’s offensive if it is)
Have a good day!
I feel very similar honestly. As a teenager I thought I could be autistic but at the time it was seen as a "bad thing" and mostly a thing for boys, so I never bothered to mention it while I was in therapy (which I hugely regret because now I can't afford general therapy much less a diagnosis). I also didn't realize there was so much variation to it because I only ever saw/ heard about autism in regards to people on the low-functioning and non-verbal end of the spectrum.
Anyway, now as an adult with access to even better resources than I did back then, and seeing (from yt/tiktok/etc) other people's experiences with the autism spectrum.. I just get more and more convinced that younger-me was probably right.
But as you said, it's not so much a self-diagnosis as a self-theory.
I think about it like this: If I go to the doctor and think I've got an ear infection, they probably won't start by looking at my toes, because the issue is likely in my ear. Having an idea of what you might be dealing with can't hurt, so long as you don't start trying to self-treat or argue with actual doctors and whatnot.
I haven't been diagnosed with Autism but I have ADHD and this is so relatable
the one about the "write down something you learned from the video" is almost exactly what i experienced and im happy to know i wasnt alone.
it also took me until that video to realize that they are just asking for notes from the video.
1:13 im bouta invite her to my dance party so we can just ✨vibe✨
My autism in a nutshell: WOW! I love freaking people out with bee, hornet and tarantula facts!
ILY FOR THIS
3:42 YES. I am a person with level one autism and I cannot stress enough how I don't want to eat something (like shepherds pie) that has a weird texture or taste. You can enjoy it, but I am going to be upset if yall force me to eat something like shepherds pie. But spaghetti, raviolis, and big ziti, I will eat that every day if I could.
6:56 THATS WHAT THEY WERE ASKING??? IM IN COLLEGE AND I STILL GET STRESSED ON THOSE QUESTIONS
What is the dong at 3:06 I must know
Edit: It's St. Tropez (Party Girl)
it was bugging me sorry
**me having a meltdown and almost unable to breathe due to how hard I'm crying** Teacher: "Just breathe."
My parents: *saying how I shouldn't get fidget toys because those are meant for people with ADHD, ADD, and Autism, saying I don't have any of those because I can sit still and then asking why I want them*
Me: *thinking about all my autistic symptoms that I have had since I was basically able to walk* "...I just like them, I guess..!"
Also me the next day: "Where the heck are my spiral rubber bands?! And I lost my noise cancelling ear plugs too?!" *Aggravated internal noises*
THE "WRITE DOWN THREE THINGS YOU LEARNED" JUST CLICKED AND THAT ONE HURT-
5:40 i like to use "brown noise" i think it's called
it's just so calming
I just had the best Christmas ever my hyper fixation is ocean creatures I got a dolphin tracker which means I’m owning that dolphin
Did y'all just now realize what teachers were asking for when they told you to write down what you learned? If teachers just explained that, instead of being cryptic about it, it would've saved me *so much* frustration and so many failed grades! God, I've always written introspective things when I don't learn new stuff from the video, and I've gotten yelled at so many times because "how do you fail to watch a video???"
The miscommunication is their own fault. If they wanted to know that, that’s what they should have asked for.
5:18 - this TikTok talks about using rain sounds as a means to block out external noise, but I have a sensory thing against rain sound and all the noises like white noise, brown noise etc. I have found classical music to work as well. Hope this helps others as well as it has helped me.
Why yes, I do the little dinosaur hands.
I just recently found White noise like rain sound on Apple Music the other day. It’s great. I also use sounds of ocean, crickets, cicadas, katydids, and peeper frogs to fall asleep. “Smooth Brown Noise” with earbuds cancel all other noise for me.
yes scripting lmao! I remember a day when I was scripting asking a girl to dance at a club and i spent like over an hour practicing it-
I have anger issues and autism and I have to mask both all day every day so whenever I don’t everyone’s like “your not acting like yourself” and I’m like *this is myself*
6:27 I didn't realize the "list what you learned" had to be actual things you learned until this video 😭 little me was just writing the tiniest details when I knew most of the information already
Ok here's a thing I wanted to say for some reason
I wear headphones everywhere I go bc one, I need them for sensory stuffs and two, bc my comfort character wears them so it makes me feel like I'm secretly cosplaying without really cosplaying
So the game my comfort character is more like Pokémon where every character is a sort of 'species' and they don't really have specific personalities and traits and stuff so I made my own au where all of them are specific beings with personalities and traits (and most of them are kinda self inserts and projections but shhhh) and for my comfort character I decided to just make what I feel when I play as them in the real game into a character if that makes sence? So I made them have autism so I could relate more to them and one thing that just instantly clicked was the idea that they love the way the headphones vibrate when loud music is playing
And I didn't know why it clicked so fast in my mind until I realized that that is literally one of my stims so like are there any stims that people don't realize they have until they actually think abt it? Or am I just the only one?
Me realising my "panic attacks" got better when I got my childhood blanket I cant go to sleep without, my new fox stuffie and my headphones, and about what sensory seeking is:
👁👄👁
I used to watch asd tts because I really related to a lot of things they would say (before I was diagnosed) now I watch these, thinking, man no wonder I understood these videos
I think the pins are amazing!I see some autism pins and they are full of the puzzle piece logo which i hate.I think the "currently nonverbal one will be very helpful for me,thank you
I accidentally read the title as Autumn tiktoks I'm SO SORRY
re: 5:21 if u have iphone you can turn on background sounds in accessibility>audio & visual. there are a few options like white noise and rain sounds and you can have it stay on when you’re listening to other things. you can set a shortcut to turn it off and on by triple clicking the lock button. rly cool feature!
1:58 omg i do that too! I thought it was just me and i was being weird! I swear when i stand its either hands up in t-rex position while im on my tiptoes or flamingo style holding onto the counter to not fall
I script so many conversations but ADHD keeps saying, “what conversations lol?” once I finish
I remember being told "I'm sorry" by someone I told that I have ASD
6:27 that happed today and I wrote
•air helps flight
•air has pressure
•air exists
🤣🤣🤣🤣
3:38 My mother really likes to make new foods a LOT and it really tics me off. She doesn't know I have Autism, but she definitely knows I have sensory issues ( A lot more than you ordinary Neurotypical) Like- come ON man
Edit: She always called me a picky eater and always says "You don't like anything" When I groan seeing the dinner she's made. It's not that she isn't a good cook, its just the texture, taste ect. that always gets me!
6:27
Meee 😭😭
I always put down "i didnt learn anything" 😭😭
5:35 i get so overwhelmed by rain sounds 😃
5:18 is so true i figured out that if i get sensory overload and im at home i can just go take a shower it helps me a lot!
9:07 I feel this on a personal level 😂
Nice to see im not the only one,
These tiktoks got me to ask my parents for autism test :)
FRICK YEAH
HELL YEAH
(the internet seems to like autism tiktoks... I have 1k views after 3 hours, that is so much more than I normally get)
YELL HEAH
@@randomxstuff yeah cuz we need representation and more ppl to learn
I disagree with the person at 2:21
I’m on the autism spectrum and prefer people use person first language.
Because being autistic isn’t my identity, it’s just one part of who I am as a person.
Also it’s kinda strange to label someone by their medical diagnosis.
I also have IBS, but I’d never refer to myself as an IBS adult.
i guess its a person to person thing?
I just wanted to add my perspective (I am autistic) everytime I personally have had some use person first language in reference to me, it has been by their own explanation because it reminds people that autistic people/people with autism are deserving of respect. Personally my opinion is if someone has to use people first language to remember not to be disrespectful then they never had any actual respect.
There's also the opinion that children need person first so they don't feel bad about themselves for the autism... which wouldn't be a problem if they (neurotypicals) didn't demonize autism in the first place.
This is, of course just my experience and why I personally prefer identity first language. Preferred language is obviously up to the individual, I just struggle with person first language due to the amount of times it has been used for me patronizingly and against my wishes or have had non autistic people just straight up tell me im wrong for my preference
Thank you for adding your perspective!
For me, I prefer identity first language because my autism is how my brain works and changes how I think and behave. It isn't just a part of me, it is how I see the world and interact with it. This is just my experience, feel free to disagree.
That's fair, I feel like it's a case by case thing and people shouldn't worry too much about which is the right one. I don't have a real preference - I usually say "autistic people" because it's shorter than "people with autism" but I use them interchangeably (unless I'm talking about someone specific and they have a preference) - but from my understanding people who prefer identity-first language do so because they don't want their autism to be seen as something that can be outgrown/cured/ignored, or as something that they should be distanced from.
Yeah. If you are autistic, your brain is literally wired different. Everything that you do and think comes from an autistic brain. You cannot separate autism from the person. Therefore, I prefer “autistic person” rather than “person with autism.” The latter makes it seem it’s a separate ailment of some kind, when it is not an ailment, just a different brain type that will never go away/can never be removed or rewired.
just learned about selective mutism, and it only happens for a few minutes for me, but it makes me feel better. so þat's why i've been not speaking at nervous times...
sometimes i still feel invalid because it only started at þirteen.
You know, this video is really making me feel like I should go to a doctor……
for any undiagnosed people reading the comments, you'll get through it! I'm on a 4 year + waiting list and being female I was missed by the healthcare system and listed as dramatic by everyone in my life, when i discovered what autism was a year ago I cried but it wasn't fully out of sadness, I felt a wave of happiness because for once in my life I felt like I'd clocked it and everything that I'd ever struggled with or experience suddenly just all made sense in that one moment so it was an overwhelming amount of information to take in at once. At the time I was 14 so I rely and still rely on my mom (that changes in 10 days) to refer me to healthcare (healthcare in the UK is accessible to minors under the age of 16 with parental permission, some cases being exceptions depending on the circumstance, once you turn 16 you can book an appointment yourself I assume, I'm not too looked up on how it works so if I got it wrong please let me know) she didn't believe me at first dismissing me telling me I would've been diagnosed a long time ago before coming back a week later and saying she'd actually looked into it and was concerned, with the permission from my school i was then referred to my doctor who then made me do a questionnaire in which I scored 9/10 so I was then referred on to CAMHS. 6 months later i was put on a waiting list after my first assessment in which I was told formal diagnosis could potentially take anything from 4 to more years, by the time i am diagnosed i will be at least 18 at the minimum, i am to receive speech and language therapy soon under CAMHS requirements and the official paperwork for that was signed around 2 months ago and so far nothings happened, its gonna be a long wait but coming to terms with my kind of awkward position is getting easier slowly, you can do this! Try to form connections with people on the spectrum, they can often explain some things to you you may be experiencing that you don't fully understand or just be there as a form of support as i know autism is an extremely mentally isolating disability, being able to relate to people when you've felt different all your life is an amazing feeling and i really recommend it! Keep going it'll be worth it in the end :)
WAIT THATS WHAT TEACHERS MEAN ⁉️⁉️ This is shocking information and I will inform all of my friends. Thank you for this message xx
Better to inform the teachers to communicate better
a relate lot to all of this but my mother says I have nothing wrong with me because I'm "the perfect child"
So much relatable stuff in these tiktoks...(and a selftest was kinda hinting that I might be autistic) So I plan to get tested. :3
6:28 I love her hair!❤
my food is spaghetti, but i eat it so much i can feel it in my stomach
Gender is a social concept so it makes perfect sense that autistic people don’t identify with or get the norms. I saw what was happening, knew what they wanted me to do, and did my own thing anyway because it’s more reasonable and fits me better.
7:05 wait. that’s what they’ve meant this entire time? i’ve always hated those questions because it was very rare those videos actually contained something i didn’t already know but that’s not what they’re actually asking??? why are neurotypicals’ questions so complicated
So when my teacher goes.. “write down three things you learned this lesson.”
They just want to make sure you were paying attention? Whoop
2:02
I do this whenever I'm brushing my teeth, then my other hand does this.
And when I play badminton, then the hand without holding a racket does it too 😜
9:06 i related so hard to this 😂
0:18 lmfaooo tell that to my mom who constantly ignores the fact i have autism unless when its convenient to her
Dude these are all literally me why did it take so long to figure out
oh lmao the sarcasm thing. Before I realized I was autistic I used to get mad at my friends when they were sarcastic because they were "doing it wrong"
because according to my sarcasm rules that was not how you did it, so I had to correct them about it. LMFAO
6:27 had me feeling really attacked lol
6:27 WAIT WHY DID I NEVER REALIZE THIS BEFORE
Ok the one about the “urge to never speak again” happens to me a LOT. Especially during high stress moments like disagreements or if I’m having a meltdown around someone who doesn’t care.. I get into this fantasy about not speaking anymore.. Can someone tell me if this is because I’ve masked for so long that I didn’t go “non-verbal” when my body was telling me to?? ( I’m not officially diagnosed but it is in my family and I’m pretty dang sure I’m autistic)
But this “mute fantasy” has plagued me as long as I can remember..
advice or opinions??
The leg shaking is true people thing something is wrong 😂
At 6:52 i really relate to this i never understood it either until i saw this video, i just kidna also wrote down either whatever the person beside me wrote or somethjng inliked or just a random thing from it, very stressful i agree
I don't have an official diagnosis but I think I'm autistic and relating to everything in this video just confirms it
I’m late diagnosed and I have no idea how my parents didn’t know I was on the spectrum. I literally had a blankey (small blanket for babies) until I was 14…. And also if I didn’t do all my homework for the week by Tuesday I would cry. It was all just labeled as bad habits and being sensitive.
8:00 STOP NO I'M LITERALLY EATING CHEESE CRACKERS RIGHT NOW AND I'M LITERALLY DOING THE DANCE THING OH MY GOD
Omg I related to every thing
I hate when people assume your special interest is something like trains or comic books. Like, one of mine is fucking espionage. I actually hate trains! They're too loud!
my mother keeps saying i don’t have autism when i show clear signs of it and have don’t so much reaseartsh on it and everything
6:44 omg yes so relatable
I loveee
Thank you!